Sorry for your loss

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure he is grieving in his own way. Seek solace with him. X

So sorry for your loss!

I'm very sorry for your loss . You're absolutely right about Declan grieving as well. You both can be a comfort to each other ❤️. People might think it strange but a cat feels his loss and yours too. I'm happy you're not alone.

Sometimes all a fella needs is a friend. Glad it worked out.

OMG that must be bad

@@KarenDobson-ue8tg it wasn't fun for him or us, he absolutely adores his new sister, he's realized he can teach her cat stuff, they snuggle and play together, it's very cute and I'm glad because he is sores have healed and his fur is coming back, so a good outcome.

Plus you got a kitten!

I tried that with my cat, and she just refuses to allow it. I even tried a teeny tiny kitten and she was mean to it. I felt really bad. In the past the other cats I had took to babies right away.

Rest in Peace, dear Roo 💙 🌈

@@nataliep501 ♥️♥️♥️

awwwh dear Roo how sweet

and also how cool it is you called a cat Catnip :D !!

@@vvelvettearss Thank you for your words. My husband and I had made a decision because of our cats. If we don't have a GOOD, CAT LOVING PERSON, looking after our moggies when going on holiday, then my husband would have gone a week , coming home again it would have been my turn. Our cats never would have been left with people we don't know or don't like. They always came first. And our best boy CATNIP, since SEPTEMBER 22, is looked after as we always did. Looking into his eyes PATRICK and I are melting !!!!! Love you best boy ! ♥️♥️🐈♥️♥️

Even perfectly happy cats sleep a lot. I'm really happy you got a kitten, hoping a rescue, but when I had a young girl my 14 year old man couldn't match her energy. A young male from the shelter solved the problem. They are 10 years old now and have a 7 year old brother (feral mom).

I'm missing something in this story. So your not with her anymore or what?

Me too!

I like 😺🐈 cats 🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈😺

my cats don't attack my furniture. . . . they eat my plants and puke and eat plastic and puke. . . . . . uuuuuuuuuugh

In 1996, I found a long haired white odd eyed kitten in a grocery store parking lot on a cold rainy winter night. The cutest, sweetest, most personable little girl ever. Even people who didn’t like cats liked her. When I left my ex, he told me to take whatever I wanted, but pleaded with me to leave her behind. Of course I didn’t. She lived almost 18 years, died in 2014. I still think about her every day. I love all cats, but I do believe some are more special than others.

@@geslinam9703 Thanks for sharing your story. It all happens for a reason.

Tuxedo cats are the best.. One adopted me and also comes on leash less walks

Or,,,is your cat waking u because you stop breathing? Possible sleep apnea??

@@margieherzer6783 That's a worrying notion. My late father had sleep apnea, brother has it too. But they also both had diabetes, and I do a lot more exercise than either of them. Perhaps I should get tested.

I play bird songs on KZfaq for my cat at night and it soothes him. Since he sleeps all afternoon, naturally he has energy when it’s time for my sleep. Someday we’ll get another cat to for a friend

That’s why I chose to adopt two kittens instead of just one

@@ColonelCarnage I had 3 and they were never bored or lonely.

That’s what I did…my cat used to watch me leave for work through every window until she watched me drive away. I got her a friend and she doesn’t do it anymore. They play together, snuggle and groom each other and still snuggle with me. She’s a happy girl 💕💕💕

It says that in the video

🤣 yes, cats are the best part of all creation!😻❤️

@@orangepurple8546 And they know it!

And the cat saith to the lord: "Get me a treat" the Pharaohs worshipped the cat not this "god" character you refer to.Tsk

@@orangepurple8546Ah,yes and what would creation be without cat.............re ion...

@@Vaudevillain121 Indeed! We must revise our "cosmology" - the Universe did not begin with a "bang", but with a "MEOW!". From that all follows.

oh my gosh what a sad dilemma for everyone ... having these wondrous fur babies has such vulnerability for all concerned ... won't the other male be heartbroken if they are not adopted together? Sounds like you need a little tic yourself? Pray for help and guidance to get you through this. Sending love and understanding your way.

@timefortheapocalypse I believe kittys are always better in pairs. Is it possible for you to try fostering a cat to see if it can work out?

Just one more , it will make your cat extremelly happy, just know that it takes 3 days total for cats to band ( the new cat get absorb the smell on their body so the other stop making a big deal someone else it’s around and they become inseparable. If after 3 days he still not adapting then you return the other to shelter but 99%, your cat will adapt, it’s not he don’t like cat , he was mislabel to know his owner had the heart to abandoned him. This is the truth… So he was depressed and that was a way to show he was not happy. It was blessing you took him home with your, he was suffering so much! It’s lots blessing for your kidness , God bless you and please no more cats after this. Just one more and done. We hve this idea to being more home but it’s serious issues in future ans specially when some get sick needs us frequently, one my cat diabetic and I was able to reverse taking way dry food and mixing water in his moisture food ( pate kind) but big job keep him active and treating natural ways it’s lots work and he was old, he just died feom bing attacked by animal that got him and he new this few months before happened , they know the future somehow ans much more…… they know the way to home if travels for hours by car , they know what will happen to us in next day x etc.. We really don’t enough about cats, my entire life had cats ans I just discover knew thing that shocked me !!! How he new he was going to die? How he was sensitive to prepared the other cats that was attached to him? Ans us? He would hide all day , which was not his reg thing, all I new was his eyes was not open all the way ans all alive but he was the same in being active around us even know he was age 10. Diabetes was big issue but he died because animal attacked him at night , the other cat was shivering that night in bed w me, how he know what was going on outside? After he almost died from loneliness ans the other used to Oreapre him, he was no longer licking him or playing w him by he always taking to him and the other obey him and he stay w me every night in bed, before foe almost 10 years they used to play all night long and scratch the post and run and after all the play they sleep toghwrther etc..the really need orrness like then besides us. They communicate amount themselves thst they can’t wirh us, they groom each other, we can’t do this for them not to mention any tension or sickness in us they absorb it, they really suffer alone , if lots stress or sadness it can really hurt the ans if is two , it’s not us much in just one. Easy for everybody, besides it’s almost samw work feed one cat and feed two, samw work one or two cats, when I travel they not alone, helps hve two in many ways…… I wish you and your cat the best! God bless you both in wvwryway.

a very kind and insightful message by you indeed ... my cat got mauled and devoured by local wildlife and I knew something was going to happen for months ... I would wake up at night with a flash lite trying to find where he was because I sneezed something was going to happen to him ... this sense of dread ... then he went missing for 3 days and I came upon his body in my garden with his guts ravaged .... I could feel it coming and it was so hideous to find him and be left with that image. He was too young to be that adventurous outside at night. 6 months later deep sorrow, so I understand what you mean, they know a lot more than we comprehend, they are such magnificent creatures, I have only scratched the surface of appreciating cats even though I have had them for 30 years and my admiration and appreciation continues to grow. @@roquia3702

My cat does NOT like other cats! She’d prefer to be the only pet in our home, but she has to tolerate the 2 dogs. So after the dogs have gone to bed, we have our special time together. During the day, she spends time with my daughter, away from the dogs. She’s older and we try to make sure that her days are happy ones.

Local shelters often have cats to foster. You can foster them for thirty days or longer. The shelter I volunteer at provides their food and medicine if necessary and will pay any vet bills. If Moonshine's shelter won't do this, try another shelter. If the foster doesn't work with Moonshine, you can always return it. Good luck!

You arent even trying to spend time with them

You are making them more needy by hiding and making them feel insecure. So time to show up for them and hang out with them and if you are having a real problem with oompf perhaps antidepressants for yourself is needed.

@@gaelle4328 oh thank you doctor.

@@mannyrobles3065 yes, I regret getting them. It's tough, bc I don't want to give them away to someone unless they have enough space for them, and will care for them more. But no, they bring nothing to my life. I'm not going to dump them to the shelter, or anything, only if there is a good person willing to take the bonded pair and care for them. But I grew up with a cat who died when I was in my 30s, and that cat was NOT needy whatsoever. I never knew cats could be this needy.

@@raphaellavictoria01 Most welcome.

Spay your cat.

Whenever in heat as you g cats My first 2 girls would -quietly!- follow my husband around !

Meowing doesn't necessary mean they are unhappy. My maine coon meows alot too.

if she has some Siamese in her, they meow all the time, its just their nature ... I don't think it necessarily means a problem for us to solve, they are just expressing themselves in a language we don't understand. Just love and comfort her when you can and don't worry so much. No matter what you are lucky to have each other.

Hey! I also have a Siberian - had him for a bit over a year and he's two years old. First of all, it might be time for a visit to the vet to rule out any medical issues. The behavioral issues like peeing in your bed and poor grooming could indicate an issue, though I'm no doctor, but better safe than sorry. Also heavy matting can *really* hurt the skin of a cat, so that needs to be dealt with. If you're not able to pull them apart, you gotta go with a razor. Don't use scissors, skin is very delicate. Easy solution is sedation at the vet and just fix him up. My sib also gets disinterested in toys quite easily and I have to rotate them and come up with new interesting ways to stimulate his need for hunting and cat existence stuff. Try to mimic prey as much as possible, tease your cat, don't just flail the wand around. Be the prey. When I'm tired I tend to go with the latter which isn't very exciting to interact with for an intelligent creature. Jackson Galaxy, though maybe a bit overly praised in the cat community, has some cool videos on play, bonding and interaction. Have you tried stimulating his intelligence with tricks, learning to sit, giving high-fives etc? I also started leash training, which has been quite stimulating for the guy for some odd reason. He doesn't move well in it, but it's exciting because it's a new thing to try out. Maybe a fort out of boxes? Collect some plants and stuff from nature for your cat to sniff out. I'd say as a general rule try to plan for three 15 minutes play sessions a day. Cats tire easily but the energy bounce back up quite quickly. Hope this helps, best of luck to you

@@SOMA-go3zy thanks for the advice. I think he is peeing out of the litter box from stress I looked into things more not long after posting this comment and things add up. Since we moved he started peeing out the litter box and the things I read said cats often pee out the litter box from stress our house now is also a lot smaller than our house before which could also Maybe possibly be why and It also said things that releve stress for cats is spending more time with them and playing with them for a bit everyday which is what I did today he seemed happier today I also gave him more love and attention than usual. I was trying to teach him some tricks earlier actually.😅 so far he has only learned “up”. I also once made him a giant tunnel out of boxes but he never used it. He was actually grooming himself for a while earlier today which he doesn’t do very often. Maybe he was happier today? Hopefully 🤞 He is also a single owned cat which could also be making him lonely. I really want to get him a friend and been wanting to for quite a while but I have to get Siberian cats (Siberian cats are also well recommended for people with cat allergies) cause I’m badly allergic to normal cats but Siberian cats where I am are very expensive and we really struggle for money and can’t afford one at the moment. I think is another reason why he might be bored. We are also out alot so a lot of the time he is left alone

Bread?

breed @@jillmeader5882

My cats love my grooming glove with the little nubs.

Coyotes live in my neighborhood. Cats make a tasty treat. My cat stays inside...

Cats can be happy inside too. They are also way saver. I don't wanna be scared everyday to find my cat hit by a car or injured.

Ah the inquisitive Trash Gremlin

Agree when mine got old they stayed in more. I have a cat door on both my exterior doors and it flaps in and out all day long. My cats have mostly lived to 19, 15, ish. but of course I lost some that never came back but I give them freedom because I would not like to be tied to a room in my house unable to leave. That's just me, but at what price to they have to adjust to never going outside?

but I take this you tube and all other people who speak for cats with a grain of salt ...we just surmise things about them but we don't really know what they mean we just make up stories that seem to make sense but we do not really know if they are ALL loners or if they all would like a companion or lots of other stories we say about them. Don't forget they sleep most of the day. There's a joke about a cat saying Gee Whiz I had too much caffeine yesterday and I was up for 20 minutes, could not sleep!!! A lot of what we say about animal behavior and motivation is just conjecture. We have no way of really knowing, we do the best we can and love them and treasure them and their love for us.