Why Are Some Good Women So Bad at Picking a Good Man?

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2 ай бұрын

Join Rico Hundo, Amanda, and Erin The Renegade in a thought-provoking discussion about the complexities of dating and relationships. In this episode, the hosts explore the intriguing question of why some good women struggle to choose suitable partners. They delve into the nuances of attraction, red flags, and the challenges of finding a compatible match.
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@mr.dccomics9018 2 ай бұрын

Let keep 💯. Keisha only wants Pookie, and at the end of the day that's what it's always gonna boil down to.

@brandonholloman6835 2 ай бұрын

Exactly very very true 👌

@kirawong4629 2 ай бұрын

A lot of men are pookie and they don’t know it 😂

@deondricksteen4606 2 ай бұрын

The answer is that the good woman don't want the good man.

@MojoeHart 2 ай бұрын

THEN SHE IS A CHAMELEON

@deondricksteen4606 2 ай бұрын

@@MojoeHart na there are genuinely good women out here who literally can't be with good men long.

@briandexter5762 2 ай бұрын

@@deondricksteen4606 true but the reason is because good men aren't as emotionally stimulating as the scumbags.

@MojoeHart 2 ай бұрын

@@deondricksteen4606 That DOG WON'T HUNT Here and that 'GOOD WOMAN ' Is UNCOVERED So Get SOME PETS DRIZZLE DRIZZLE

@joejett5084 2 ай бұрын

@@deondricksteen4606they’re not good women.

@lets_play_a_game268 2 ай бұрын

Some of the same women on the panel NEVER say this when the panel is 3 men 3 women.😂😂😂they only saying this in the midst of one man.

@vinobeans9542 2 ай бұрын

Men are judge based on what they have and women are judge based on what they do.

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 ай бұрын

how much a woman makes DOES NOT MATTER on the quality of the man she can get. UNDERSTAND THIS!

@phenomenal-xv4ey 2 ай бұрын

I would say her age and personality matters more than her income.

@pastordavequales4165 2 ай бұрын

if men chose women the way they do and treat their need to upgrade the same way we as men would never find a wife.

@Understandme44 2 ай бұрын

good women are bad at picking men because they aren't good women first of all. good women are bad women that havent gotten caught yet. secondly, majority of women that are in their prime years chase the same bad boy chad, tyrone, pookie, and rayray type of guy aka the guy they want passing over good men aka the guys they need. When their short time of prime years is up thats when they want the good guy to come in and clean up their bad decisions which is a terrible deal for good men.

@H2Otodafullest 2 ай бұрын

Already started off wrong when she said a woman who makes 32k a yr can’t demand a man making 180k+. Men that successful doesn’t care how much money his woman is making generally speaking.

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 ай бұрын

exactly!

@bimrebeats 2 ай бұрын

How she speaks and behaves is a more important factor than income

@ramalellison9205 2 ай бұрын

But the fact of the matter is most men aren't that successful

@DWEthiopia 2 ай бұрын

You're talking like a rich guy or extremely well off guy. I think guys that are not rich will care what his woman is making because one income is not enough to live a good quality of life.

@planetdee3587 2 ай бұрын

You are missing the point. The purpose of that statement is to say the standard for the woman should not be so outrageous. It is not a statement reflecting on what men want.

@8AtTheTable 2 ай бұрын

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@teemoe8479 2 ай бұрын

Hold up hold up, who said them was some good women 😂lol

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 ай бұрын

they did. lol

@vinobeans9542 2 ай бұрын

😂😂 Bish can look in the mirror and tell herself she is self made astronaut and you better not tell her otherwise

@teemoe8479 2 ай бұрын

@@vinobeans9542 😂😂 i don’t understand why majority of females think there perfect . This girl I met actually told me she thinks the world revolves around her 😂.

@dicerevo 2 ай бұрын

You attract what you are… they’re not good women. They’ve just bought into the programming that woman = good

@teemoe8479 2 ай бұрын

@@dicerevo that is extremely true. You said it best.

@rohandavis2324 2 ай бұрын

😂 my friend at ups is about to retire in 2 months he is 62 an his wife just asked him for a divorce (over feelings) she say he work too much Marriage of 32 years

@riddickj16 2 ай бұрын

That’s sounds planned

@MojoeHart 2 ай бұрын

SHE WANTS THE PENSION

@boonecity8747 2 ай бұрын

😂😂Cant be your friend if u laughin an bringin this mans issues to da internet smh

@elproco24 25 күн бұрын

Naw she don't like him around and now he's retiring she don't know how to be around 24/7

@youngmula226 2 ай бұрын

Good Women by whose standards? What are you doing that makes you a good woman?

@phenomenal-xv4ey 2 ай бұрын

You need to find a person who is under a discipline... physical discipline, they work out, they eat healthy. Religious discipline or financial discipline. People with no discipline in their life have no standards.

@kaserekacelestin8801 2 ай бұрын

The world partnership is the thing you should deeply about when choosing someone to spend your life with, cause partnership includes having similar goals in life, matching some values in life

@JustChill2x 2 ай бұрын

Rico was cookin 😤

@qthequick 2 ай бұрын

@ 13:52 “we ain’t thinking bout yall (men) for real…” yea we know 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

@Drerich34 2 ай бұрын

“Good woman” says who if yu a quality woman they aren’t usually on the market long

@lavaughnwills410 Ай бұрын

Good thing I’m 38 and married to good woman who is a good human being. Women do not think long term. They think about what people will and can do for them in the future. Ask a woman….”what do you envision in there future for marriage?” I can put balls on the line that she will talk about everything but WHAT SHE PLANS TO DO FOR THE FAMILY. She will talk about everything she wants but none of what she will do.

@Illalcap 2 ай бұрын

The real question is, what exactly makes these women 'good women'?

@pastordavequales4165 2 ай бұрын

My number one need for my next wife as a man is she a Christian believer then are we attracted to each other. The rest is easy to me.

@Specialcot77 2 ай бұрын

True Statement: Just drive for him 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@kirkleslie7694 2 ай бұрын

They gotta first define what they mean as good... because that shit sounds mad materialistic and that is usually their downfall just hunting a man's material gain...

@truthbetold9257 2 ай бұрын

It has nothing to do with a woman being good or bad! They all want the same bad boy with swag especially if they are black and fine!

@manospherehalloffame1682 2 ай бұрын

Philosopher stone brilliantly covered this topic in chapter 2 of her book. Let me just say it was absolutely correct.

@wl6279 7 күн бұрын

There’s that gap Rico was talking about lol 😆

@trusoule365 2 ай бұрын

Question in the comments for the women looking, please give a detailed description of what a good woman is that crosses all ethnicities with the details? Women seem to have the blueprint on what they think is a good man. I’m just curious to see if the details are as spot on when speaking about yourselves. ☕️

@seanmichaels718 2 ай бұрын

I’m still stuck on why a man that touches 189k wouldn’t want a 33k women , why not ?

@phenomenal-xv4ey 2 ай бұрын

She's too old... she's stubborn... she's in the streets... lots of reasons why you wouldn't want a woman besides her income

@MrSITH-qj6zp 2 ай бұрын

Depends on the man AND what the woman brings into his world. Does she makev33k AND have expensive tastes? That dont work, because she'll be fucking up the money.

@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001 Ай бұрын

What makes them good?

@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001 Ай бұрын

Opposites don’t actually usually attract

@orondeeast604 2 ай бұрын

They can’t have it all. Most y’all done!!

@pastordavequales4165 2 ай бұрын

Women nowadays don't know how to build with a man especially when he keeps his word with her...He's not PERFECT but treats you with respect, brings you into his circle of influence and learns you...Modern women are seeing music videos and fantasy island dreams and they don't possess the talent to live THAT lifestyle. Know your true net worth spiritually, emotionally, physically and lastly financially then seek the man that matches that. Just Saying (I counsel couples for marriage)

@basheebrah3551 2 ай бұрын

12:21 Ngl Rico was spitting a gem and it looked like he was damn near saying Jada’s(the one in the middle) life story😂😂. Stay away from women like that fellas no matter what excuse they use 😂😂

@twanthetruth 2 ай бұрын

We alway take about money and women. That is the problem

@user-gb9uk6du9m Ай бұрын

I have always said the only men who care alot about how much a woman makes or has are opportunists, not genuine and are looking for scaffolding until they move on to the next.

@brandonwilliams315 20 сағат бұрын

Your show is social media

@justsaybk8370 Ай бұрын

Who said these are good women?

@Momoney1G 2 ай бұрын

Prostitution is illegal Ma money is nothing!!!

@frederickfitzwilliam5909 2 ай бұрын

What's her name in the middle?

@ongod4667 2 ай бұрын

Jada Blackwell

@raheembrown7673 2 ай бұрын

Attraction is not symmetrical 😂

@doublemj95 Ай бұрын

Short answer: Because they actually aren't good women (they just want to be seen as a good women when they really aren't).

@chasehlee7197 2 ай бұрын

An ambitious family man doesn’t want an ambitious wife. Ambition is never being satisfied with your current situation. That sounds terrible for a man expected to provide fulfillment.

@Specialcot77 2 ай бұрын

Perfect Example Women's have BD from Pookie and wanna 6 figure Persons

@antarticp7477 10 күн бұрын

@ the end of the day if britney bagged ya bae she proved a point ... whats sacred about it if she can easily slide ... married couples gotta be stronger and show strength if brittney couldnt do it she probably would move different herself ...........................................................................................................

@antarticp7477 10 күн бұрын

thing is man and woman gotta becarefull anytime someone is paying for everything .. they want control if not now at some point ... i advise to always stay away from that ... its hard to see these ladies smile so hard at hearing a guy has a billion dollars ... that guy 10 times out of 10 isnt keeping your best interest in most cases ... thats a time to immediatelly raise an eyebrow ... stay woke ladies stay grounded dont give no man any leverage i dont care how much he got especially if you dont know dude ...

@rodmandrake2101 2 ай бұрын

good women, what a makes a good woman good? if you are good person which everybody claim they are they wouldn't have a hard time picking a good person. but most people are pretending to be good.

@Love-pd1ci 2 ай бұрын

It's annoying that they compare the average man/women to these celebrities. Like get realistic. The average person isn't a celebrity nor do they make 7 or 8 figures.

@razn3476 2 ай бұрын

MK-ULTRA

@antonioclark3833 2 ай бұрын

Why we comparing ourselves to Beyoncé and Jay Z. This is definitely something females do

@rawfusionmcqueen7748 2 ай бұрын

Why he painted his lips tho😮

@MojoeHart 2 ай бұрын

MONEY FK WHATEVER THEY EFFNG SAY

@mindful-accountability 2 ай бұрын

Men don’t always want more . … most men would be happy with very little things. Most men get money to please or get women . We are simple.

@mrblackbond 2 ай бұрын

pretty sure Jay-Z is not a billionaire.

@weswhite8133 2 ай бұрын

Yes he is 2 billion

@mrblackbond 2 ай бұрын

@@weswhite8133 oh okay. I had no clue

@kenneth2689 2 ай бұрын

jay.-z b4 rap selled millions in drugs would problem dead or in jail but he all ways had money no bey

@sugashayne100 2 ай бұрын

The woman’s money discussion is disjointed. It’s way less about the amount it’s about how she MANAGES her life …her DECISION making ability!! That’s what we care about!

@frankmatthews6966 2 ай бұрын

Ladies, guys don't care how much u make

@jaygray0 2 ай бұрын

Oxymoron hot cold

@ajounthomas8036 2 ай бұрын

As soon as you see a black woman with a haircut, WALK AWAY

@ShawnShons-ky8rn 2 ай бұрын

When you use celebrities as examples it ruins the debate... Beyonce at 60 can pull 25 y.o dude its because of her fame and the way she advertises her sexiness.Most women in America they be average trying to move like beyonce talmbout no I don't cook and clean, you love your man by making him food

@antarticp7477 10 күн бұрын

lol shes like as long as hes a bum azz rich dude he cool lmao jk jk

@problemchild2k13 2 ай бұрын

🧢….. this dude just lets them talk this garbage. They’re lying. They don’t qualify for the men they want now they’re being fake humble.

@user-qx6kn4zp6f 2 ай бұрын

is the dude on the this show wearing lipstick naaaaaaaaahhhh

@rwgino3757 Ай бұрын

The good woman, don't want a good man... it's that simple.

@makaveli__23 2 ай бұрын

A man dont care how much a woman makes

@Masterr-K Ай бұрын

Why is Beyonce always the standard? I don't even hear men talking about Beyonce. Women bring up Beyonce way more than men do. I think these women low-key envy her for some reason or are low-key attracted to her.