1 year living as my true self and 9 months on HRT. Nothing but smiles :)
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@kendraaspiredolezal35384 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to start HRT! I hate my body hair too and look forward to being the woman I've always have dreamed of being. Thank you, you are very beautiful ❤️
@changinggender52933 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. As of Sept 2020, I've done 10 treatments of laser and 2 of electrolysis on the face. My face is the final frontier LOL and it's going well. I can probably go 3 days without shaving now. Wishing you well in your journey :)
@jamesjianghaiwang95363 жыл бұрын
Thank God you have an understanding and caring wife. I'm still struggling how to come out to her as she was upset and find it hard to accept my transition. Wishing You n your family well in your new venture,
@changinggender52933 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Every couple has something. Health is our stumbling block, communication and good relationship has never been an issue. The fact that I was willing to not transition for her and the kids sake was I think just as important as her saying that I needed to. We don't have all the answers, but the fact that we've always seen problems with depression on my side and have always talked openly without having the words to say it was transgender I think was really important. In a way, I guess we spent close to 10 years talking about transition without ever knowing what it was or that it could be done. I wish you well with your wife and well in your transition. It was life-changing and life-saving for me.
@marypower25764 жыл бұрын
Hey guys, just found your channel today, and watched every video. I am a 63 year young trans woman and found myself saying “Right?”. I have felt that way too. I am single, but I found the type of support from my oldest daughter. Thank you for sharing your story.
@changinggender52934 жыл бұрын
Hey Mary, thank you for the kudos. I started posting because I didn't have anyone else transgender around our area to talk with or ask questions from and anyone I could find on KZfaq was so much younger than me. I thought, maybe if I shared a little about myself, others transitioning past their 30s might relate. It's nice to know we're not alone out there. :) Wishing you much Love! - K
@travis88782 жыл бұрын
You look awesome. I am having my first appointment today with a doctor to get hrt treatment. I'm 52 year's old. And you have helped me realize that any doubt I had about should I continue has just evaporated. Thanks Kelly for your journey.
@missalisa-i2i2 жыл бұрын
Love your video and if I may I post this if it helps anyone. I'm 62 and only just started my journey 4 months ago. I had to go private via GenderGP due to NHS waiting lists (that's another story) but finally, my GP has picked up on it and I get my prescriptions from her along with blood tests. I used to self med which I strongly suggest you don't do unless you know what you are doing-I'm fortunate in having done 5 yrs at medical school-left to join the military instead of graduating as a GP. In my time one could not come out as gay or lesbian transgendering was never heard of and one would just be dismissed from the service -A lot better these days. As a result, I have the most delightful B cup boobs now, pert upright, and nubile -not a lot of women my age could say that!. As I tip to anyone I use nipple developers (not heavy-duty ones just the little silicon cups you can get from wish or amazon daily as in I leave them on under my bra all day) I have also vacuum-pumped them daily too -hope it helps anyone. I am fascinated that it's said your feet get smaller as I have heard that from other lovely transgender women. For me this has happened 1. my hair gets a lot softer. 2 Not often mentioned but your spacial awareness changes (cis women apparently have ever so slightly larger eye pupils)you have heard the comment women drivers but it's something I have noticed -A good trans friend of mine used to be a bus driver as a transgender woman she has certainly noticed the spacial awareness change. 3. one's boobs do get bigger. 4. One of the nicest changes is the fat and weight redistribution hips larger and a butt to die for -love nothing better than wearing those lovely leggings that have a scrunchy bit at the back and being able to do a sweet girly wiggle as I walk now. 5. I was on spiro which makes you pee a lot but now on Fenestoride 5mg. and Evoril 100 patches = no more erections and very little dribbles out of that thing between my legs but I am starting to experience full-body orgasms now just by playing with my nipples sometimes -what a feeling -cant wait for S.R.S. now. 6. not noticed much change in foot size but that might come. If it helps anyone I have had good results by putting castor oil on my lashes and I also derma roll and rub in minoxi 5 in the little bald patches on my head. One of the lovely things is exploring the world of women's fashion. Don't go crazy like I did, probably bought half of Wish and Amazon lol -just enjoy all the styles and ideas out there -you will soon find your own style. Bless you xxx
@donnanadlesneu48083 жыл бұрын
You are gorgeous!
@changinggender52933 жыл бұрын
Thank you Donna ❤️
@donnanadlesneu48083 жыл бұрын
@@changinggender5293 You are most welcome. You are well blessed too!
@Cervantesbracetty5 жыл бұрын
You’re so beautiful
@changinggender52935 жыл бұрын
Thank You :)
@jamesjianghaiwang95363 жыл бұрын
Hi after watching your past three videos, I felt enlightened by your words and looking toward the progress you have made. Please let me know when your SRS/GRS and your experience. T q.
@changinggender52933 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I posted a new vid about a week ago on my channel about GRS. I had GRS 3 months ago and am still recovering and will be for the remainder of the year. At 3 months, it's basically maintenance, swelling, and scar softening left. My understanding is it takes about 9 months for the swelling to really subside. Nerve regrowth has been good and anatomically speaking - everything works amazingly. Recovery really kicked me hard. Lots of exhaustion and dilating 4x a day for the first month felt like you just never stopped. I'm so happy and at peace to be at this point in my life now ♥️
@MrBhofff5 жыл бұрын
Holy cow, that is amazing. I am so happy for you. Hate to hear that I am going to have to schedule laser :(
@changinggender52935 жыл бұрын
Hey Brittany, had my 1st laser about 3 weeks ago - WOW! PAINFUL and totally worth it! Unbelievable how much came off over the last 3 weeks. It might have been a bit more tender than normal as I used the Silkn' (in my own overdrive way) up to about a week before my pro laser appt. I think that left my skin a bit more raw than normal. I'll find out as my next appt. is next week. Totally worth it though!
@MrBhofff5 жыл бұрын
@@changinggender5293 that is great news. Yeah the ipl works wonders on legs and armpits, but I am not happy with face. Down here I can get three session on groupon for like 190.00
@MrBhofff5 жыл бұрын
@@changinggender5293 hey are you on facebook...you can email me at brittanyashleyhoff@gmail.com. I am new to it and joined a support group it is really nice and quite a few Canadians. ....keep me posted on progress I am right behind you I just upped spironolactone to 200mg a day
@changinggender52935 жыл бұрын
@@MrBhofff That's fantastic Brittany, On FB we're kelly-audrey taylor-faye, IG we're @riverstonestudios. Our company page on FB is riverstonestudios. We go to councilling every month for the last year - our councilor says she loves seeing us because we're a breath of fresh air and we actually bring her up. I haven't had much luck on forums or support groups. Next month my blood work is due and my next Dr. visit - will be interesting to see where things are at with the numbers. I just feel so much like myself, I can't believe I've spent so many years not understanding why I felt the way I did.
@MrBhofff5 жыл бұрын
@@changinggender5293 so how goes the laser, also could you give me an update on what you are taking now. I am using your plan as treatment plan with m gp
@teddybear03133 жыл бұрын
I had commented on a different video and kind of gave you access to the name of my alternate social profile on Facebook... I feel comfortable talking about it more so than physically doing it, even though I would like to know more information about the conversation between you and your wife, so I could have that same conversation with my wife that seems to be supportive now but once things start to "develop", I doubt it she won't be so supportive then. With that being said I wanted to inform you that you and I are born on the same year, my major problem is is that I am so largely portioned which is the main reason why I have been trying to keep myself busy so I am not focusing on me changing. I stand 6'4" and I weigh 285 lbs. It sounds like your English, I believe the kilograms of that is 185, I'm just not used to the metric system so much as the USA standard system. But rest assured girl we are so very similar in past till now. I personally am a truck driver in the USA, I have been to Canada and I have been to Mexico driving tractor trailers. I have a small vocabulary in Spanish enough to survive getting certain information from people speaking a different language. Operating tractor trailer it is pretty secluded and lonely position because I am by myself 90% of my job. Which you're not talking to a beginner here I have been dealing with tractor trailers for the last 20 years, I could own my truck very easily if I had to finance. Which is another topic altogether. I would appreciate a pen pal relationship if possible with you to get more specific questions because on the type of person that gets as much information as possible before I make an action. Not overthinking it, but research the hell out of anything before I move forward and put it in the motion. I am a parent of four kids, which includes one daughter married into another daughter, a set of identical twin boys, and one stepson that I am the only father he's ever known. I am very understanding I am very compassionate I am very loving which is information I get for my wife. According to her I am one of the best fathers she's ever met. My daughter knows, as well as my wife. I only wear femme undergarments as well as thigh highs, which includes tension socks which were ordered by a doctor for circulation since I mainly sit all day long. Please get back to me on FB, I will be more than happy to explain in detail my story, because I feel I am more compatible with your story versus anyone else's. I wanted to add, I have been on the swim team during high school and a competitive bicycle racer, well more of a mountain bike racer 30 years ago. With that being said my legs are 100% muscle and very cut, overly large for most guys my size. Which being told by many trans friends that my legs look awesome and heals, LOL... I have shaven my legs and rear in front and thighs for so long I don't grow hair anymore. Now all I have to worry about is the waist up... Please have a good day and be safe
@jessandlydiatrask20463 жыл бұрын
How sensitive is your skin? That's one thing has stopped my fiancee from getting professional Electrolysis done because her skin is,super sensitive she works in a public school here in the area where we live as,a custodian. Would you consider coming down to the states toto get SRS surgery? How is your metabolism now? You can put links for you social media in the description box of your videos.
@changinggender52933 жыл бұрын
Wow. Lot's of questions. If she can get laser done - DO IT! Laser is less painful and works well on dark hairs. I have a lot of light coloured hairs so no that I spent a year getting laser, I'm onto electrolysis. I use a lidocaine cream but it still hurts - a lot - and yes, I have sensitive skin. We have a very good clinic here in Canada called GRS Montreal. Currently, I'm in que for surgery and am waiting for paperwork to be completed being filed between provinces so no, I'm not considering the US for surgery. Metabolism is good. I've always been active, but I do find I have to watch my diet much closer now. Because I've lost so much muscle mass, I don't require the same calories or even the same type of calories...but my stomach doesn't know that so I'm often searching for a snack when I don't need it LOL. For social, you can find me on twitter at @ecobodycare. We run a natural skin care company called Riverstone Naturals, so all of our other social accounts are focused on that. If you are interested in seeing what we produce, you can find us at riverstonenaturals.com/shop/ Cheers!
@thefoxysoldier90734 жыл бұрын
Did you noticed hair regrowth??
@changinggender52934 жыл бұрын
Yes. Hair just kind of moved from my body to my head LOL. It's been a little over a year on HRT and I get very little hair growth on my legs and chest. Even my arms - the hair has thinned. Any body hair I have is mostly thin and light. There are still a percentage that just won't leave, but I believe it takes time. My widow's peak is filling in slowly. I'm definitely not losing more on my head. The regrowth is there, but very slow. I didn't think much was happening until I compared photos of today and pre-hrt. Huge difference. I don't think I realized how much of a receding hairline I had.