9 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20s (Now That I'm in My 40s)

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My 20s were very transformative years. I lived on my own for the first time, went on exchange to Canada for a semester, got a law degree, and then my first real job as a lawyer. There was a lot of partying, but I also experienced loneliness and insecurity.
I’m in my forties now, and in this video, I want to share 9 things I wish I knew when I was in my 20s. If you’re in your 20s now, I hope you’ll get some value out of this. Enjoy!
00:00 Intro
00:32 1. Embrace failure
02:19 2. Your life does not end at 30
03:20 3. The power of compound interest
05:40 4. Learn how to learn
07:35 5. Build a second brain
10:59 6. If you don’t shape your environment, it will shape you
13:22 7. No one cares
14:46 8. You'll regret the things you DIDN’T do, not the things you DID do
17:51 9. Done is better than perfect
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@simini1837 Жыл бұрын

Another tip for 20 somethings: your health is your wealth, take good care of yourself!

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Great tip!

@emilyihde3921 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love the book review database! I’m going to start one too because I read usually 4 books a month and by the time the year is over, I remember maybe 10 of them. I like that it encourages reflection of what you just read so each book is more meaningful/memorable!

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Great plan, Emily! ✨ That's also the reason why I started it. Just seems like such a waste, right? Reading all those books and then remembering so little from it later on.

@penny3767 Жыл бұрын

There’s so much good in this video - and your book project is amazing. As for the rest of the advice, it’s brilliant. I hope many 20 year olds watch this and truly listen. Very wise. 🦉

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Penny, I'm glad you got value out of the video. Have a great weekend! 😀

@pondurosa3792 11 ай бұрын

Every person over 50 needs to make a video on this topic. Our generation needs the wisdom, despite us pretending we know everything due to all the world’s knowledge being available in the palm of our hands. We’ll never admit it, but it’s a huge cope and many of us are lost but doing our best to fake it 😅

@justadudeintheworldman.120 Жыл бұрын

Great video & useful tips Peter

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thanks, glad to hear you enjoyed the video! ✨

@EdithaSeva Жыл бұрын

Nice job! Thank you for this

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it! ✨

@jeremytorgersen Жыл бұрын

Great video and advice! As someone who turned 40 this year, these are all quite applicable, particularly the done is better than perfect as I also lean towards perfectionism.

@AustinGirl09 Жыл бұрын

Excellent vid and advice! Your vid's get better and better! Lots of work involved and it shows! Keep them coming!

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the kind words 😊

@swiftismymum4544 Жыл бұрын

Thanks peter you're the best... This is so informative I write them down and I'll start incorporate each one into my life one by one... I wish you never stop posting such a valuable content

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

You're welcome, thanks for watching 🙏🏻

@crsnsggs Жыл бұрын

I turn 30 later this year and this video, along with Peter's other videos, is a much needed reminder of the things that matter versus the things that don't. It looks like you're about to hit 20k subscribers but you deserve more sir. Thank you for sharing your message!

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the kind words, Carson, I'm glad you find the videos helpful. I hope you will have an amazing time in your 30s! 🥳

@beatrizs2236 Жыл бұрын

As always, a great video Peter, I have identified with much of what you have explained to us, I am 13 years older than you and I have learned a lot since I followed you a year ago, the subject of minimalism and the practices that surround it, for example. I had never been so interested. I personally think that good training is one that not only makes you actively participate and learn, but also gives you something else. As a teacher I had used to say, wanting to learn and improve fills your backpack. And among the things that this training can fill your backpack with, there are three that stand out: (knowing), (knowing how to do) (and wanting to do). As always, a pleasure, and greetings from Barcelona.🙂🤗

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your thoughtful comment, Beatriz! The backpack analogy is spot on 😀

@atino6022 Жыл бұрын

@IAmPeterCook you are awesome! In every next video, you impress me more. I always wait for your videos that are loads of wisdom/knowledge. I am 43 now and I see that my intellectual progression has similarities with what you stated, except the fact that during my 20s, I used to be fitness fanatic (still I am) and at that age, I instilled regular jogging/stretching in my lifestyle, which keeps me protected from health complications...

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the kind words 😊 Exercising regularly is so good, even more so as we age. Great that you're keeping it up! 🙌🏻

@justnoticing Жыл бұрын

Some excellent advice here. Even though I'm in my 60's I got a lot out of this video. At this stage of my life I am able to reflect and let go of things that are not important or helpful. Minimalism and removing the clutter (physical, mental & emotional) gives me greater clarity and confidence. I continue to learn and strive to build and expand on positive habits that help me to live my best life. Many times perfectionism has held me back but I am striving to have greater courage and to let go of a fear of failure.

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing such a thoughtful comment! 🙏🏻

@edithaseva4825 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts . Good Job po

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

You're welcome, Editha! ✨

@vijijeyakumar Жыл бұрын

Wish I could have hit the subscribe button in 2017! 🙂Great share as usual. I would like to see your kitchen tour on minimalism front! Had a chance to sneak peak behind the scene today! But love to see it in detail! Have a great weekend.

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed the video, have a great weekend yourself as well! ✨

@irondeath212 Жыл бұрын

Fantastic video! Thank you reminding us that life doesn't end when you hit number that ends with "0". (though it's a little depressing when you think about it and how fast the time runs =/) Lovely that you mentioned he compound interest, it's a great thing to have, though I still have to research more about it and find investments with good %.

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you got value out of watching the video! ✨

@user-rr6kd6du9x Жыл бұрын

Like the way you use different angels/cameras in your videos, it makes big difference. I agree, i m 51 and the life is about the same than 30 or 40 but whit more experience. Your slow living examples are interesting and something i try to fit in my life. And yes, time is the most valuable thing we have.

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your thoughtful comment 😀

@simini1837 Жыл бұрын

I can relate so much, wish for example I discovered minimalism earlier (I am 45), but better late than never!

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

So true! And I don't know about you, but I'm not sure I would have appreciated the minimalist movement as much in my 20s. Perhaps some things come on our path when we are open to them or in need of them?

@simini1837 Жыл бұрын

@@IAmPeterCook yes I agree and that's what a friend said as well: maybe it's normal to have a time in your life when you think all these material things are important:)

@renedrost5523 Жыл бұрын

Een goed kanaal tip: Finding Value Finance.

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the tip!

@waldzwerg7814 Жыл бұрын

How is the site of your book database called?

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

There's no site, I'm building it in Notion. 📚

@waldzwerg7814 Жыл бұрын

@@IAmPeterCook Ah, thank you. Yours looks so organized and nice. I guess, I start a collection too.

@samd1a Жыл бұрын

Loved this vid Peter! I'm 17 so I still have a lot to learn in life and you are bringing to light many things that I haven't even considered yet. 🙂

@IAmPeterCook Жыл бұрын

Wow, that's supercool to hear! This type of content wasn't available to me when I was your age, and to hear that this video was helpful to you made making it worthwhile. Take care! 🙌🏻