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Dont be cool, be real. By not trying to be cool, you'll be cooler. However that "real" you is burried under layers and layers of conditioning that you'll have to really introspect and break down. It's not easy being real. Much easier for your ego to put on a front.

i felt like i was that guy in the black tee, the way you could tell he was trying so hard but couldn't stop forcing himself to stay closed off, i have been through that exact situation a million times.. but the way his personality started peering through was so awesome and inspiring to see

The point is stop seeing yourself from the others point of view and making you feel shy. Be firm on whatever you are and the energy will start to flow

Wow, I'm genuinely glad I found this channel, before I thought it was unusual to be socially anxious, but it seems like it's more common than I thought.

“Be grounded in your own reality and draw state from within.” Thank you for breaking this down! Crazy seeing the difference it makes in the people you worked with!! 🔥

I love how your putting these guys in live social situations and i think we are souls are dying for this in the tech day an age to express ourselves inside completely. Keep these social situations going Julien. Awesome content Julien!

Manifested his confidence right before my eyes. Thank you for your work

Fxck yeah! It was dope how you put him on pause seeing that he wasn't going to grasp it fully until you gave him a feel/visual, then brought him back up, got him to handle each charisma aspect individually, and finally got him to slay it all at once. Masterful stuff bro, truly top notch teaching.

So to sum it up: trauma release, collect wins, practice vibe in the mirror and then out in your day to day and it'll start becoming your norm?

The black dude was not a 10/10 but he definitely was A LOT better than the first few tries. Also.. Its insane how i can sense the potential in him but he maybe doesn't see it in himself. It makes me wonder about how i don't see the potential in myself. If that makes sense.

I love when you encouraged him to yell. Breaking a threshold can be the key to really absolving anxiety and expressing yourself.

It's normal to have the 'vibe' around friends or after warming up to the crowd like the black dude at the end but then you loose it when you're in front of new people or people you somehow respect and want to impress. Acting confident, uplift your tone and confidence is like the flower, but the roots and base for this to work and stay with you is learning to not worry. Anxiety is the problem, not you. Is ok to be uncool, is ok to be nervous, is ok to say dumb stuff, most will be forgotten next day and most people will love you or enjoy your presence as long as you're friendly, smile and talk to them. Stop fearing and try hard and that relaxed, confident attitude should pop up on it's own and grow slowly without being forced.

Looking in the mirror and talking to yourself helps a lot lol I got to the root of my problems by basically interviewing myself and asking myself the important questions no one cares to ask

This is literally some of the coolest videos out there. It should be so much more openess in the world about these kinds of things. I hope we some day, as humanity, can work together and make sure that we all shine through with our beautiful selves and true inner confidence that we all possess. Never stop posting content like this! The world needs it.

Usually I call bullshit on these things but this guy knows some shit man 😂 I'm invested

Sometimes you just need to give confidence to people and awake the speaker within them

The thing I like about this video, is that there’s people my age recognizing the difficulty in socializing, and they’re working on that skill. I love it. I know for a fact if you learn to communicate and get along with others and can socialize, you can go far in life. Having great relationships and learning so much about other people

The shift in vibe just from being less inhibited is huge.

I'm sold! because the charisma that came out of the girl that went last took her from "The cute shy girl" to "damn, she is hot!"...I'm for real too. Julien and Owen are creating a monster! Im tired of the only people that know how cool and fun I am to be around being people that "had to get to know me." What a waste of a bad ass. The most interesting man in the world will feel like a fraud when i come around.

I really like the music instrument analogy, and about the vibe. The most entertaining music performers are usually the ones who truly enjoy themselves.

I was smiling seeing the first guy come out of his shell some 😊 it's always wonderful when people start believing in themselves, every person has the potential to be amazing!

Thanks for bringing me up there, Julien!! - Kristyn

Dang this seminar getting people to feel comfortable to be proactive in their dialogue without overt self restraint. Just like when we go up to share something we're passionate about with the rest of the class like in elementary school.

Julien is literally fixing souls one by one he is a king!

Wow this was amazing. I'm getting anxiety just by watching them talk. I'm gonna work on myself too. Most of the time I'm inaudible, lifeless, timid 😢 it's time to evolve

Great shots here -Owen

Thanks Julian, you’re amazing bro! What i loved the most was seeing you help the first guy break through is limit. I could see how scared he was from his facial expression and body language. I was literally routing for him and was proud to see him progress in this short 12 mins video. Congrats to him !! As far as your teaching method, it is amazing and you’re definitely helping a lot of people. Even me so thank you 🙏🏽

You really helped that guy come out of his shell. He seems like a cool guy and he seemed way more confident at the end! Respect to both him and you for coaching him

This is great work Julien! Helping the kid crack his shell, i love seeing this

Julien your content is complete gold for people. Everyone acts in these instances nowadays and julien you can convey and construct a profound approach to speaking

This guy is on a whole other level of confidence. This was a super interesting social experiment. Had me smiling all the way through. You f’sure got my sub ❤

I really appreciate these videos Julien, really informative and you seem like a great coach

Been studying you all day, I really appreciate what you are doing for people. I will be in front of my mirror tonight working on my umph!

Add some purpose, 0:46min People focus on what i need to to say. If you cant bring the humph, not good 1:32 Look at the person, play around the purposeful ness 6:43, deliver some speech but add some humph. What does it feel like? It took a lot of pratice to summon this 7:38min 1 loud as you can 8:07min Put your body into it. Focus on the vibe, totality downwards

Oh what a great way of explanation !! Just amazing

Its a shame to see how much shame we absorbed and burry our own light - and its great to see how you stubbornly crushed it without crushing him! What a great experience for hin and cool that you didn‘t let him down until he began to really embody ir - one could really see the light begin to glance in his eyes! Cool job from the both of you 💪🏻👍🏻

I totally agree on HOW you present your thoughts is very important. Charisma, confidence and such things play a big role in communication, connecting and how people perceive you. BUT: don’t make the mistake to always try to be the entertainer. There are situations where it is better to have anything to say and some, where it is more important to say something only if the content is real and interesting. At the end of the day, you are interesting to other (not superficial) people, if you say interesting and good things and not if your priority is to concentrate on your appearance. If you can concentrate more on your words and emotions while looking to the ground there is nothing wrong about it. There is a very big risk to not connect well with people, if you are an all time “charismatic” person. Realness, interest and empathy CAN get lost with this strategy too. And it totally depends on wich people you want to have something to do with. When it’s not the loud people, than it may not be the right strategy.

My top takeaway is keeping the channel of communication open. This is my top takeaway because I struggle with eye contact. And it realised me thar I need to work on this more.

Go back to the beginning and see how that man transformed. Im so proud of him

Been a subscriber for a week and I am in love with your messages. I read Letting Go a while ago and it didn't hit home for me like other books have. Just started to rerread it now and I totally get it. I have a speech disorder which I think is caused by holding something back and im now using your techniques to ease this. Thank you, you 're such a real, authentic person and you're helping so many people. X from the UK

I was practicing along with this video. This is great content. I find myself speaking more confidently and in an interactive way while in person, but in my videos, on zoom meetings, in general in front of a camera… I lose it. I needed to see this, thank you!

This was beautiful man, love what you're doing with these people man! Changing lives fr!

You are doing a great work.

Damn this is so powerfull. You really help people forward man, you can tell. Simply awesome.

Last girl reminded me of my sims 4 character explaining benefits of vegetarian diet, super fun bullet time explaining, nice one

Need more brother . Do social experiments . Like u try to act in different personalities to people and see how they react to it . Will learn a lot from it . Thank u

All other people just talk about charisma. You put it work and actively coach it. This is amazing, thank you!

Very cool video! Thanks Julien. That guy was happy in the end of video

These videos are so amazing. Iys so crazy to see the barriers in people slowly dissolve in real-time. They try to hold onto them but each exercise allows them to let go a little more. Truly inspiring 💯 Thank you Julien 🤝🏽

Thank you so much for posting this video, Julien! It helped me remember why I stopped using my body fully when interacting with someone, and why I couldn't stand anything that had to do with a lot of movement 👀

this is one of the most helpful ive seen so far on this confidence.

Incredible video. He started off “small” and timid. By the end he fully embraced his inner self !

Thank you so much for these videos, brother Julian you are helping lots of people like me, now you are one of my real world hero 👍👍👍👍👍

Bro you’re amazing, appreciate it💯

Thank you Julian, for showing us what was inside us the whole time!! 🙂

This was so powerful like i was here saying heyy and pumping myself.a bit in room ofc self conscious if there was ppl nearby but man this video was important in all our growth . I was glued in and props to everyone that talked there!❤️‍🔥

ABSOLUTELY FANTASTIC!!! Love that this class exists 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

I went from "f this guy" in the first 5 seconds, or at least like stereotyping him, but this demonstration is really useful and the first of its kind I've ever seen! I'm very awkward at times, and nowhere near this expressive! I've learned a lot just from this 10m. Thanks Julien!

You can really take a lot from this 🤞🏽 and it’s really cool to see the transitions of how they started and how it finished ,

Yess liked 👍🏽. I been following you and RSD trying to better myself for years and I still feel like that guy in the black tee because I didn’t no how to break out of my shell. I always notice my body feeling like a hard rock shell and always tried to break out of it and get out of my own head. My mind/thoughts would be everywhere but this is a great walk through. Starting tomorrow I’m going to try this exercise. Thanks Julien I hope to come to your seminars one day and participate in one of your live events.

Your just a Golden Human Being Julien, Respect for the Work You do.

this is so awesome!

Holy shit I fucking love your way of thinking! Since I've been playing the violin for over 10 years, the instrument analogy resonated so much. Even if I find myself to be a confident person, I always learn a shitload from these videos. Keep existing - the world needs you

Love this Julien! I always think of that scene from Archer “would you f*** me? i’d f*** me” if you want to be attractive you have to be someone who would see that type of value in yourself.

That's what is showing up confidence live on stage, felt the guy was living in it. It's great to bring something unpredictable from him .

This dude has massive insight on expressing urself

the best to do it julian !!

Incredible change for the shy man in the course of few minutes. You're indeed a good ego boost 👏💯

Excellent!!!The vibes of your videos are CONTAGIOUS!

This content is so good, I’m listening, doing the exercises in the shower 😂 Such a cool exercise to have fun with. Video is also super entertaining because I get to see people experience a sort of rebirth. Thank you man 🙏

When you compare it: First: 0:42 Second: 12:01 - it's amazing!

I used to be the first guy, the way he walk with his hands before his belly or whatever that pose is just like trying to shield himself. It just shows you that he is covering himself because of shame, not confident. I can't believe I've come a long way. Hope these people get through and live life they want.

I love your videos and i can relate to it word by word.... Appreciate your workk!..

HEY! 🗣 love what you’re doing Julien 🙏🏾 deep stuff

The audience really helped. Wow. I’m just binging your videos atm. Great content

Very talented! Teaching him the spark was outstanding!

Damn he turned the kid into a complete chad

Parallels to himself in his example too. “Regular man, working a regular job” parrelling a regular man, living his routine life “he hated his job” he hates / feels trapped in his routine.

Thankful I found this page man keep it up

Great video we want more of this I need it

Black tee dude omgg so proud of you!! And all of you

Omg that "use the body" part is so connected with me.... OMG big thanks Julien!)

This was really beautiful🥺I’m just like him, I would love to attend one of these.

bro you're reeeeaalllyy doing a great job!

Confidence can be health related. I've been so confident that I've had people gravitate towards me at bars while I was the center of attention. Other times I don't even look people in the eyes. I figure it's when I'm not 100% feeling well.

Julien just dropping gold on a daily basis now. Your frame of reference nails so much detail and yet connects to a simplicity that every individual can tap into by simply giving themselves permission to express themselves from a deeper place in the ownership of being. (Forgive my wordiness here but I find it helpful to try to articulate this stuff in words that can help my own ownership of inward knowledge) Unlearning the restraining energies of our lives requires tapping into the unconditional nature we came into the world with & reidentifying ourselves with our childlike enthusiasm for life that we can now hold (as an adult) in a mature capacity for the deeper value judgements that become instinctive in mastering social dynamics. Value judgements are not intellectual but narrative-based. When we begin to break the limits placed on us, we build confidence in freedom as an extension of ourselves that is needed in every area of our life. Whether it is talking to a stranger or making love, our energy becomes wholly owned as we learn our responsibility for it from within in everything we are/do & nurture it's purity in our growing association with it. I believe we must make the demand on ourselves to expand in wholly associating ourselves with our unconditional life which is our original wholeness we unconsciously held as a kid that we now must consciously choose as as an adult in "letting go" of our egoic illusions of control. Essentially, our freedom begins to be found as we unlearn "egoic strain" & associate ourselves more with the pre-egoic energies of wholeness. Paradoxically, this free flow of inward energy animates the individual in unconscious ways that might seem mere egoic in the shine of persona. But the ego isn't the center of identity despite what it may look like. The ego becomes a wardrobe that our identity can freely wear what it deems necessary & congruent with it's deeper association of being that often requires shades of different genuine colors of the same personality. Again pardon my wordiness here in attempt to articulate something very natural & simple. It seems that injury often leads us to the necessity of learning how complex things are but in our healing we must return to the simplicity of the natural connection of things & convert our understanding into a simple trust in our more foundational self.

notification gang checking in, my biggest takeaway is to work on tonality and stop hiding from yourself. face yourself baby, you can tell if someone is present vs reacting based on the way they present themselves.

“IS THIS JULIAN?” NO THIS IS PATRICK!

Daaaamn I needed this 20 years ago!

I think charisma is something like your body moving smoothly with what you’re conveying. When you’re telling a story, there are parts that are shocking or amazing or baffling or surprising, and at those very moments, is where you change your tone and add pauses, and move your body according to how you feel that moment makes you want to move your body: that genuine movement is the real you. Like, if I wanted to convey how something so small did so much damage, I’d bring my index and thumb a centimeter apart, and move that position forward twice as if knocking on the air in sync with “so.. small..”; the ellipses exemplify pauses to convey my surprise; and the knocking movement exemplifying my amazement. For each person, the movement conveys something else. Hm, I’m really trying convey what charisma feels like and an idea came to mind. It’s like hearing a song you like, and when you start singing along, your body starts moving to its rhythm and melody. Except now it’s your story that’s driving you, not the song: your tone and pitch shift as if a melody at key moments of your story; your facial expressions change accordingly as well as your use of your hands and body.

I can explain it very well in words yet i am not someone who does this yet (i am learning as well). This vid explains it well, but take my words into consideration too. Think of charisma and vibes as a song you hear, a song you vibe with, but it's your soul, you have to resonate with your soul, turn it into charisma, you sing it! Ultimately you will dance to your own rhythm, if u know how to dance that's the technical part then just be yourself, and combine all these ideas i just mentioned. And you will have the perfect balance of charisma as a person that people can vibe with on a social level. You don't even need to talk if u do it right, if u resonate right, you could just be chilling and you will radiate charismatic personality and vibes. Trust my words but more importantly trust yourself, and you will shine how you want!

I can’t put into words for much this video has helped me

I love this channel

AWESOME VIDEO THANK YOU

I really like your Approach, how you package things. Impressive Julien.

Yesss. Love this

I'm grateful that I found this channel

Julien, you really are at some point now, that you not anymore do teach, but instead you are the teacher 😊✨

Good job! I loved this. New subscriber for sure