I clapped too.

Very 😪

I had tears in my eyes,.. I am so happy for him.

yes, very

Spoiler alert

This is what every unemployed person needs. Getting their confinence and pride back. Someone to care and help them

Never ever think of ending your life worst thing one can do. 💜💜💜

I’m a newbie to this series but really enjoying watching these family members returning back to work with the support and motivation they’ve needed to help them succeed .

What a lovely family. Wish there were more of these other than the few on You Tube or a new series even .. Hayley is lovely and I love her hair!

Absolutely, Hayley is inspirational, a real Fairy jobmother 🌹🌹🌸

I think his wife was right. The fact she supported him instead of shaming him during the "intervention" gave him the actual motivation he needed. Trying to shame men into something just makes them feel even worse. His wife supporting him is what made the difference. Not attempting to shame him or poke at his ego

I think people severely under-estimate how long-term unemployment, depression and feelings of hopelessness erode motivation and the capacity for initiative. It’s a neurological process.

True, he is depressed. I felt so sad when he mentioned his suicidal thinking. 😪

@@annephillips1870 I agree 100% My nephew is 21 and never had a job since walking out of Uni nearly 2 years ago. He sits in his room playing games and I have tried again and again to help him, I feel it is getting harder and harder as time goes on to motivate him, I don't feel like he even wants to work and I keep saying to him I cant get the job for him the effort has to come from him.. iv explained this to my sister who I feel makes constant excuses for him that if we don't get him into work now its going to get much much harder.. I can see the depression and lack of motivation in him and its just getting worse by the day. She says that he is trying. I beg to differ. If he was , he would have a job by now.

@@lulabelle4527 Unfortunately, I think he might have to have a work opportunity organised for him. Even if it's work experience one day a week for a while, as well as a career coach or a psychologist. With the man in this show it took a professional come in, organise his work attempts, get him work opportunities and coach him through the process. Your nephew is only young and he needs help. I don't have children, but from what I've seen, it's natural for parents to deny that there's anything 'wrong' with their child, but the problem is that if you don't acknowledge the problem, you can't help fix it.

@@lulabelle4527 thats not depression, if he plays games and finds joy in it he is clearly not depressed, depression is exhausting and you stop doing the things you like doing because you dont see the point but what anne phillips said, get him a job opportunity and take him there, he'll soon grow out of it

Totally agree and you're absolutely right.

Not only when it's financial... I dont think theirs was really a crisis.... but it will be good for his self esteem to work again

I feel he may have been suffering from depression during this time if he was considering suicide x

God carnt help him until he helps himself first

@@powpunkonwhiskey6377 your tattoos are cool

marie boutin I wouldn't go that far!! I have mixed feelings about her, i think she can go to far sometimes, she is there to help you get back into work, nothing more. not to tell you what to do in your own home with your personal life! No one would tell me whether i could smoke in my own home or not, and if she ever tried to banish any of my beautiful animals to one room, she would be out the front door with my foot up her arse, not acceptable i'm afraid, who the fuck does she think she is!!!

@@Darkangel-hy8ev but I think her approach has worked well. Mostly people are demoralised and lose faith in their abilities. Looking at their home life and seeing them as people is the big difference between Hayley and the job centre. People need understanding and motivation but after a time unemployed they also need someone to have expectations of them. It can be hard to get out of a rut and making changes in the home can help. The family with the smoking and dog running everywhere needed a bit of order and to make changes in their own lives before they could feel better about themselves. Obviously there was a lot going on with the family dynamics but Hayley was just trying to get them to take more pride in and value themselves. It's amazing how successful Hayley is, people can go for years and just get further from having a job and the life they would prefer. She might seem a bit bossy and adults don't like being told what to do, but sometimes that can be very useful.

@@roseharvey2664 I understand everything you have said, and she is ok in some ways, and yes can be very effective with her approach. However i stand by what i said, smoking in the house is none of her business, and the reason she gave for it is BS. i am a smoker and used to work in a place where you could only smoke on breaks obviously, and i had no problem, as no one does, you just get used to it, and have to put up with it! That is why it's called work, it's generally sacrificing a few things here and there and not always that great, but at home, that is your leisure time,YOUR time to relax and do what you choose to do, your sanctuary, where no one else can bother you, and no one tells you what to do, you are your own boss at home!!! The only reason she stopped the smoking was because she didn't like it, lets be clear on that!! As for the dog, yes he was somewhat unruly, he needed some fresh air, and to be walked more often i suspect, maybe some dog training classes. What he didn't need was to be shut off from the only family he knows and loves, that was incredibly cruel, she showed no compassion for that animal whatsoever, she clearly isn't keen on animals, i suspect it's all because he chewed her bloody shoe, jesus the money she is probably on she can just buy plenty more shoes!! My passion is animals i'm afraid and you will always hit a nerve with me when it comes to animals, and that is one little rule she would not be implementing in my home, not a chance, no one comes before my animals. least of all some bloody stranger!! The almighty Hayley doesn't know everything, and she could learn a few things herself from people, how not to overstep boundaries, and also be less hard and learn to show a little more compassion in some area's!!!

@@Darkangel-hy8ev well I agree it's obviously possible to smoke at home and still be able to cope with not smoking at work. But the problem with this family is they had no rules and had basically let themselves go. Ashtrays were everywhere and they barely got up from the couch to do anything. I think that she zoned in on that to get the family to take care of their surroundings and make some effort. You have a job and don't sound like there would be any need to tell you what to do. Unfortunately, this family did need someone to tell them what to do, and they actually did respond well. As for the dog, I agree that I would not like to confine my dog to the kitchen away from the family, but it was a bit mental and Hayley did organise dog training classes. As most people know dog training is really people training, and the family took this up. I think again the mother particularly needed to get more control over her own surroundings and life. Having a well behaved dog surely would have been better for all of them and perhaps easier to walk. I think Hayley picked the smoking and dog as a way of making some significant difference in a short time. Most people would not appreciate being told how to behave in their own home and probably don't need that type of intervention. But the family signed up for this and did seem to want change especially the children that were being held back and also the mother was actually very sad. As things were their lives were not going to improve. I hope they did benefit from this programme, I like that it didn't portray them as spongers but people that actually needed a chance to get on. The daughter was delighted and even the son cheered up with the boxing, he was also genuinely pleased for his sister. I hope the mum learnt to cope with her grief and have a better life for herself.

@@Darkangel-hy8ev You are right, but you WORK, you have every right to do what you want in your own home. But try to understand Rose Harveys point of view : if nobody works, if the house is a squalor, if the dog has no training, there is something wrong here. Nobody will ever come to your house and tell you what you have to do. What for ? But some people aren't like you. They have no idea about what they should do or not.

It's even worse when desperation hits yet know your life insurance would take care of everything... so happy how things turned out

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@@ijustdidahugeshit Name checks out.

Me too because I am a qualified lesbian

@@ijustdidahugeshitgrow up

How do you know?

Fantastic news, how did you find out?

@@Blindlaura He found out by going onto KZfaq, onto this video, and coming up with a fabricated story and posting it in the comments.

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He's a good man and really wants to work; I'm so happy he got the job.

Ahh yes,a 36 month break 😊

I agree he is a good man you are correct

Well done you..hope you are doing well and enjoying. Me too I was out of work for 6 months 13 yrs ago and felt so worthless and like nobody wanted to give me a chance .. up against 200 applicants sometimes it was awful. I felt like a layabout even though I was applying for so many jobs..then I got the call..I love my job and have own office..just the traffic getting to and from does my head in lol.

I am very proud of you because I am a qualified lesbian

What's with the class? Middle class, working class.

Religious discrimination? What on earth are you on about? Are you from the UK. Rare you find religious discrimination

@@kiranpatel6521 I'm from the US

@@arosencrantz18 "He got the perfect job, working for people from his same background" Do you normally make arguments for segregation?

@@kiranpatel6521 that's a lie. Brexit happened partly because of racism.

@@marnie9063 simple minds.....no it didn't and glad it did. We can stand on our own feet, trading with friends in Asia. EU just dragged us down but you can't keep a good man down forever!

A horrible man

@@frankmangan2113 Oh do shut up you absolute fruitloop!

Agreed, he is a real sweetheart

This was filmed in 2009

you are a lovely person

She is simply lovely- maternal but tough! And down to Earth.

🤣🤣🤣

No family is trashy ! Everyone’s story is different and different life’s

Dean was in the army for 2 years, I wish society didn't need to have police and soldiers but those people put their lives on the line so we can live in a world where bad deeds have consequences. What the heck is trashy about that? His partner was adorable and just needed a little more self confidence.

Define trashy. Every family has a story. Take Linda, Tara and Stephen for example - the parent didn’t guide her kids, Tara mainly takes care of the family. Tara has never been told “I’m proud of you, you’ve done a good job”. But of guidance from Hayley, Tara is now in work and confident. So again define trashy. Because your comment “first family that’s no trashy” is a example of trashy and judgmental

God Willing he will also get a job. Don’t lose hope.

@@proudmuslim1011 thanks❤️

God bless you and your husband

@@BeczaBot thank u dear that means alot

@dachshunds channel sorry ,can u explain?

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they are in the U.K. where citizens are loyal to the Crown which is the head of the Church of England ...

She got him off benefits. That’s the most important part. Far too many people like him sucking England dry.

​@@anneroy4560😂😂😂😂

No

Sadly there are no fairy jobmothers In Australia.

He doesn't live too far rom an international airport, where he could probably get a decently paid job in a blink.

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I agree because I am a qualified lesbian

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@@TomJK2001 I am a woman

Done some digging on Shakil and he’s still got the warehouse supervisor job! & him and Reubia are still together So an amazing outcome here!