A Cautionary Tale: Expat Had Filipina Called into Police Station for Questioning

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Fly Me To The Philippines

Fly Me To The Philippines

11 күн бұрын

#filipinas #philippines #thailand
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Expat Diaries Episode 3. A Cautionary Tale as an American Doctor from Atlanta Georgia has his Filipina called into the Police Station in Mindanao for Questioning.
Dating in Asia, Thailand or the Philippines can require an expat in Manila or Bangkok to use caution and not loose his wits. We share the story of the American Doctor Allan who flew into Manila NAIA terminal 3 and then proceeded to meet his 29 year old Filipina Age Gap relationship Filipina Girlfriend on the island of Mindanao.
Surprises await, new cell phone purchases, refrigerators, House Rentals, Meeting the Family and Airport Reservations. You don't want to miss this Expat Diary and see if your Philippines Expat Life experience can improve with a little caution and lessons learned.
Rob and Chrissy from Fly Me To The Philippines bring you another episode of the Expat Diaries - all about life in the Philippines and dating in Asia with age gap relationships in mind.
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@elitepctech
@elitepctech 9 күн бұрын
I think the spider in the cup shows deadly intent
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Another guilty vote
@amazonseller-yf8vv
@amazonseller-yf8vv 8 күн бұрын
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines i really want to know what type of spider it was and how dangerous it is. I can't beliieve the Dr. didn't take it to the police or somewhere to have it identifiied and to find out how likely it is to be deadly or if it's just usually causing a bit of sickness. Either keeping it in the bag is a major sign or guilt, there's no reason why someone would do that unless it they have negative intent. In this case the police should've made them take a polygraph test because even though it wouldn't hold up in courty they could at least find out if the girls believed they were guilty and see what the plan was.
@whatever7639
@whatever7639 Күн бұрын
You’re right it shows Prima Facie deadly intent (Mens Rea & Actus Reus)!
@cpt.ahab_it7044
@cpt.ahab_it7044 9 күн бұрын
The fact that they had the spider trapped shows experience in handling it, probably used them before.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Good point
@mixnmichael1
@mixnmichael1 9 күн бұрын
What doesn't make sense is the bike isn't there and there phones and backpacks are. This doesn't pass the smell test but, interesting story. I'm in Boracay looking for the Jollybees!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
I like how you can define the size of a town in the Philippines by how many Jolly bees it has
@TobyBloom
@TobyBloom 9 күн бұрын
The spider was clearly no coincidence. This is horrible.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Toby voting for conviction
@ronaldramsumair938
@ronaldramsumair938 9 күн бұрын
Chrissy is so well spoken
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
🙏❤️
@gt1601
@gt1601 9 күн бұрын
I cured a blind old lady in Marikina who was asking for money in the street.😂😅😂
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
🤔
@gt1601
@gt1601 9 күн бұрын
Handed her a 1,000 peso bill and she yelled out... 1,000 pesos LMAOOOOO
@cetilly
@cetilly 9 күн бұрын
Rob, don’t complain about Chrissy’s kid if he breaks something or gets a little too rambunctious because he’s just a kid, and a young bride is what you signed up for.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Good advice
@dragonrln
@dragonrln 9 күн бұрын
Rob, while your story is plausible within a framework of our Western culture, I trust Chrissy's explanation based on her understanding of Filipino culture and her feminine intuition. Good story. Excellent couple interaction. Thank you both!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks, dragon for the feedback and sharing your thoughts
@bigbuck8138
@bigbuck8138 18 сағат бұрын
I was in Cebu for two weeks to meet a Filipina. After months of video chatting and talking about how her life would be in the US with me . After getting there she wants me to date her friend. Turns out she was married and had been playing this game for years . Making money from foreigners and having them their shopping day trips . This seems to be an industry in the Philippines.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 сағат бұрын
Sad to hear
@virgowatersnake
@virgowatersnake 8 күн бұрын
Congratulations to have your Son with you a big change but wonderful for Chrissy
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
🙏👍❤️
@troymoses8405
@troymoses8405 9 күн бұрын
Excellent story Rob and Chrissy, not completely sure I would believe all of what was told. Realizing that it’s not common to find a girl online that is NBSB. I did meet my girlfriend on Christian Filipina, she was 45 and NBSB. We have now been together for 5 yrs and waiting on her visa to be processed. Thanks for sharing and blessings to you both.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Well, 45 nbsb
@stan1027
@stan1027 9 күн бұрын
The spider part of the story seem a bit too convoluted to be true. Way too many gaps in that part of the story to be believable. I must assume he actually got bitten by something, but the rest of it is too shady to believe. Too many unanswered questions there, from my point of view.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
@dustinperry828
@dustinperry828 8 күн бұрын
I told my filipina wife this story she said oh yup. They put the spider. She had zero doubt We are not hearing the story from the man it happened to. Its second hand i fo , hence the gaps
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
@@dustinperry828 👍
@Themanfromohio
@Themanfromohio 8 күн бұрын
I had a scary situation in Clark philippines back in June 2023. I met a family at the mall in clark. They started talking to me and invited me over to their house for a traditional philipino dinner. They ended up wanting me to play a cards game with some people that should up with briefcases full of money. They wanted me to use U.S. Dollars to play. I am not a gambler, ran out of there and jumped into the 1st jeepny I saw. That night my stomach was terribly sick! I was up all night sitting on the toilet and vomiting.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
Wow
@RichGPilot
@RichGPilot 9 күн бұрын
The spider was kept for the next foreigner arriving the next day.
@etfremd
@etfremd 9 күн бұрын
Right before the lease ran out…is when the next foreigner is to arrive…
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Or when the lease ran out
@Russ453hgf
@Russ453hgf 5 күн бұрын
Hey, you are like two really cool News and "Current Affairs " television broadcast anchors. Its actually like watching rwo cool sportscast anchors telecast back home USA !❤
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 5 күн бұрын
Thanks Russ
@buckdunn
@buckdunn 8 күн бұрын
Sounds like that could belong in the fiction section at Amazon bookstore. Not a best seller however, just a book in that section.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
🤔
@douglasmichel1000
@douglasmichel1000 9 күн бұрын
NBSB ? I have a bridge to sell. If you ever hear this run for the hills and don't look back.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
🤣😂
@Mark-rw3kw
@Mark-rw3kw 9 күн бұрын
No way he could get into their cell phones and see videos.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Perhaps a few subscribers have written in with a couple of scenarios were the last video taken could be seen if the phone hasn’t been locked since
@paulruano1903
@paulruano1903 9 күн бұрын
Always ask for the CENOMAR early.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
👍
@danielreid6041
@danielreid6041 8 күн бұрын
Awesome story Time
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@Ty-dt8xv
@Ty-dt8xv 9 күн бұрын
That girl was definitely up to no good ! lol y’all should do these stories more often I literally was on the edge of my seat thank you two very much 👍👍👍 GOD BLESS 🙏🙏🙏
@etfremd
@etfremd 9 күн бұрын
☝️☝️ excellent story telling! Makes a great video!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks, Eric
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
We hope to when people write us with more stories
@keithbrown2328
@keithbrown2328 9 күн бұрын
5% of this is actually true.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Keith, thanks for sharing your opinion
@MelPatton-yi8se
@MelPatton-yi8se 7 күн бұрын
Sounds like total BS.
@perry8498
@perry8498 9 күн бұрын
Good story
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
🙏
@kenskaer4311
@kenskaer4311 9 күн бұрын
Excellent attire!!!!!!! 🎉
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thank you!! 😁
@whatever7639
@whatever7639 Күн бұрын
Res Ipsa Loquitur - “The thing speaks for itself”!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines Күн бұрын
Yes
@nenitaconnelly6358
@nenitaconnelly6358 9 күн бұрын
unbelievable story!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Perhaps there’s certainly certain aspects that are hard to take
@SM-em3ii
@SM-em3ii 9 күн бұрын
I love the interesting stories.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for the positive feedback
@andrehenriques2
@andrehenriques2 9 күн бұрын
Interesting story, thanks for sharing this experience of the doctor. It just shows that we all have to be careful in our interactions with people we dont know. Trust but always verify
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Yes, true
@herbertgautier1550
@herbertgautier1550 8 күн бұрын
I have 2 adopted daughters in the Philippines. I have been traveling to the Philippines to visit the kids for about 7 years. I returned to Hawaii in October after being in Cebu for 5 months. I already had a ticket to return to Cebu for January but my girlfriend was in an accident. I sent my daughters’ mother to visit and see if she was okay. I didn’t return because I in January because of that. On February, a meeting of condo owners was called and I realized that I needed to sell my home and leave the US ! I am on disability retirement from the Government. I can no longer afford to live in the US. I have to leave within 6 months and go back to the Philippines. I am a veteran and preparing for the SRRV. ( still overwhelmed about selling my home because I was not prepared)
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
I hope you work through those issues
@rcupit1976
@rcupit1976 4 күн бұрын
This is a terrifying story. There should be a webpage with pictures and stories of these scammers. This is a story about attempted murder.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 3 күн бұрын
Yes, it was definitely unusual
@johngoheen6670
@johngoheen6670 8 күн бұрын
You are on to something very different from all the other Filipino Vlogs with these stories. Keep telling them…these are what can set you apart from all the others.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
Thank you, I will
@ddehaan53
@ddehaan53 9 күн бұрын
Who cares about the spider? I only want to see Chrissy. WOW-what a classy beauty. If I thought that there was another Chrissy there I would be on a plane tonight, but I have been there twice in years gone by and saw nothing like Chrissy-a RARE find-treat her well Rob, there are millions that are envious!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
🙏👍❤️
@themacker894
@themacker894 4 күн бұрын
I'm a doctor and what your guest described is consistent with poison and sepsis. Both deadly. Also healing duration is consistent with reported severity of the bite. A spider's "poison" is a cocktail of enzymes meant to dissolve prey so they can ingest the liquefied organs. Necrosis or cell death in the generalized area of the bite would be expected, thus the extended healing due to excessive scar tissue. Things could have been much worse if the bite was in a critical area such as the neck or if the venom was injected into a vein and not muscle tissue as it obviously was.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 3 күн бұрын
Well, thanks for filling us in and sharing that
@George-ux6zz
@George-ux6zz 9 күн бұрын
Hi guys. Let me guess. The 25 year old brother is really her bf.
@cooliipie
@cooliipie 9 күн бұрын
😂🎉
@timlesiuk
@timlesiuk 9 күн бұрын
No, not her boyfriend but her girlfriend!
@George-ux6zz
@George-ux6zz 9 күн бұрын
@@timlesiuk Yeah, I mentioned that in a later comment
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Wait for it…..
@ronaldramsumair938
@ronaldramsumair938 7 күн бұрын
You are a lucky man
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
🙏
@desgoulding7154
@desgoulding7154 5 күн бұрын
Hi Guys, hope you are both well. Thanks for sharing another great video. There good and bad all over the World. However these people are no good. …
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 5 күн бұрын
❤️🙏👍
@mickdee6590
@mickdee6590 9 күн бұрын
This whole story is a crock of malarkey.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
🤔
@coffeegetsme9465
@coffeegetsme9465 9 күн бұрын
That's just a scary ass story! Dann, they are physco trying to take him out. What a story there's a movie in that!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for the feedback and thanks for watching
@kevinmurphy9315
@kevinmurphy9315 9 күн бұрын
Something about the spider doesn't add up. Don't see how a spider can be trained to attack a day after the family left for the funeral and somehow gets recaught and put into a plastic jar.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Certainly puzzling
@lmcc0072
@lmcc0072 9 күн бұрын
Hopefully you and Chrissy have discussed and agreed upon details of your new living situation. As a 1/2 Filipino I’ve seen many times here in the states that when the wife’s family moves in there are problems. It doesn’t seem to matter if the husband is Filipino or not. No problem with her son. He’s a part of her so if you want her, he’s part of the package. It’s when the wife’s parents, siblings, aunts/uncles, cousins, etc…move in. For many Filipinas her original family comes first and then you. Some Filipinas can’t say no to demands by her family and they take over. If it’s just her mom that moves in that seems to be ok. Most Lola’s are pleasant. It’s with some of the fathers where the conflict arises. Why? He’s used to being in charge and since you’re with his daughter, maybe he feels that you should be under him….even if you’re the provider. If you’ve noticed, many Filipinas are the family bread winner, but the father or husband still solely decides how the money is spent. If you don’t buckle under he might pressure your wife into making you comply, which causes conflict within your relationship. Like I said, hopefully you’ve already discussed this and have agreed to set boundaries.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your concerns. We actually tested and did two separate trials and in this particular instance, Chrissy‘s father is extremely flexible and yielding to his daughter.
@timlee5260
@timlee5260 8 күн бұрын
Most locks have four pins with nine possible settings so having a key from home fitting the lock is like winning the lottery. Spiders don't attack, they only bite if they are threatened. Sometimes a spider will be in the bed and will bite if they are about to be smashed, but just releasing a spider into a house would not cause it to bite. In addition a medical doctor from the US wouldn't go to a provience doctor for a persciption since he would just get it from the pharmacy himself. It's really not that hard to spot a girl dressed like a boy and he spent too much time with the "brother" to not see that. I call BS on this story in total.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
Interesting
@keithbrown2328
@keithbrown2328 8 күн бұрын
Also why would he even have the keys when he does not need them . They should have been tucked away in the suitcase not in his pocket. You are going to have to make better videos and like the other person said should have been boiled down and 8 mins. at the most. You need a check ride .
@user-wz4db1zn3r
@user-wz4db1zn3r Күн бұрын
You're right about everything except the pharmacy part. The Philippines unlike the rest of South East Asia has strict controls on most medicine and will not sell even common antibiotics without a prescription. The doctor was a moron with no common sense, a book smart nerd with no experience in the real world which left him unprepared for this family of criminals and liars.
@RonaldH
@RonaldH 9 күн бұрын
The story sounds exaggerated or completely fabricated. The one biggest hole that I'm surprised you didn't catch is he has the deadly spider in the ice cream container. That's like the murder weapon. When going to the police he would have taken the ice cream container with him as evidence. They would then be able to identify the spider and know if it could cause his bite. And then that would have been enough to arrest the gf and her lover for attempted murder.
@RonaldH
@RonaldH 9 күн бұрын
The second biggest hole in the story is that it's impossible to see videos on a locked phone. Many other holes in this story too. So, whoever told you this story made it all up.
@aschroer
@aschroer 9 күн бұрын
​@@RonaldH when I check this on my phone, it says "no pictures or videos taken since phone was last locked". So theoretically if they took a video without unlocking their phone and then threw it in the backpack, and did not open it again, then some videos would be available. Nonetheless we'll never know a fact from fiction. Good story!
@etfremd
@etfremd 9 күн бұрын
☝️☝️ exactly! You would have at least taken a picture of the spider first thing!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
This is where a lot of people can’t figure out if it’s accurate whether you can get into the phone so thank you for explaining that
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
@BC19572
@BC19572 9 күн бұрын
The older brother was probably her boyfriend, lol. I would not ride three on a motorcycle. Allan seems a bit naive. As I'm typing this I'm only half way through the video. Let's see how it ends. Edit, i was right about the brother being her boyfriend. Just another Filipina scam. I bet there was no funeral.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching
@rod1147
@rod1147 7 күн бұрын
There's lots of NBSB women in America but they been tons of men 😊
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
🤔
@douggoll2382
@douggoll2382 9 күн бұрын
Really enjoyed the story. Definitely under handed pair does not help their standing
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for the positive feedback
@joe.man.
@joe.man. 9 күн бұрын
The Dr. Is a over the top fabulist.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Perhaps a lot of feedback points in that direction
@user-vq8ub7nq4y
@user-vq8ub7nq4y 9 күн бұрын
So glad that we don't have venemous spiders here in Germany. We do have snakes though and I have a very naughty one myself!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Oh wow!
@AnthonyCataldo-ez5ej
@AnthonyCataldo-ez5ej 9 күн бұрын
My cousin was bitten by a brown recluse. Effectively, a flesh eating bite. They were trying to kill him for a few dollars. Very disgusting.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
👋AJ
@factsmatter1262
@factsmatter1262 9 күн бұрын
29 yo NBSB is lying 99% of the time.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
BS is in the middle of nbsb
@Billy_B_Goat
@Billy_B_Goat 9 күн бұрын
What kind of phone that is locked can you see videos on?? He opened the door with a random key??? This guys story is very questionable. My take is --- Rob, you should have looked in HIS backpack. I don't believe any of it. Peace and Love, B Goat
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
B Goat good feedback
@Peregrine8977
@Peregrine8977 9 күн бұрын
So Sad Rob, i hate to hear those filipina woman scamming to the expat. They destroyed the dignity of some good Filipina.that’s why my advice for all foreigners as much as possible it’s better to meet Filipina refer by a friend.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Good advice
@trevcessna1723
@trevcessna1723 8 күн бұрын
This was an 8 minute video at best!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
🤔
@keithbrown2328
@keithbrown2328 8 күн бұрын
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines maybe 7
@themalejodietaylor2599
@themalejodietaylor2599 9 күн бұрын
Okay! 1. No lesbian. 2. No spider pets. Red Tsunami.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
👍
@FlemmingDP
@FlemmingDP 7 күн бұрын
What a story , a bit too fantastic.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
Perhaps
@MikeWood-yc1er
@MikeWood-yc1er 9 күн бұрын
The 'Bro' is the bf. No hanky panky with bf around. The spider was the assasin. He escaped with his life.
@snbi7959
@snbi7959 9 күн бұрын
The ‘Bro’ was a lesbian… so girlfriend.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Wait for it….
@somethingyouhave
@somethingyouhave 7 күн бұрын
He has a key from home ten thousand miles away that conveniently unlocks a lock that he needs open in the Philippines? Nah, this didn’t happen.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
🤔🥹
@bravehelios5400
@bravehelios5400 9 күн бұрын
C'mon! If you're able to reason, you can come to no other conclusion! They colluded to get as much from this man as possible and then knock him off.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your conclusion
@charlesetienne6037
@charlesetienne6037 9 күн бұрын
The puzzle does not adjust properly on this story.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Lots of feedback seems to imply your thought is shared
@marcrichard7251
@marcrichard7251 9 күн бұрын
Wow the Doctor dodged a bullet 😮
@etfremd
@etfremd 9 күн бұрын
☝️☝️ the doctor not smart enough to take a picture of the spider? First thing I would have done! It’s likely it’s NOT a local spider?
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
👍
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Yes
@user-cw3nu3vs2m
@user-cw3nu3vs2m 3 күн бұрын
What an absolutely, mind blowing, bizarre tale. I'm not surprised that this happened, even if it's 75% on point. When a country and its people are taken advantage of for decades by the Spanish, Japanese and American military occupiers and tourists in general from all over the world, is it really any wonder that some have the mindset to take advantage of those who have historically taken advantage of them? The doctor is lucky he did not end up as part of an adobo recipe.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 3 күн бұрын
Very funny
@amazonseller-yf8vv
@amazonseller-yf8vv 8 күн бұрын
Men, this is why it's absolutely vital to develop an abundance mindset, once you realze there are plenty of other options out there for you then you'll be very likely to walk away at the frist signs that something suspicious is going on. in my 20s i had a scarcity mindset and if a reasonably attractive woman claimed to love me then i'd put up with way to much to keep her but in my 30s i developed an abundance mindset and i'm not willing to put up with disrespectfull or suspicious behavior because i know i've always got options, and that makes it much easier for women to actually respect me now that they see i've got options and boudaries!!!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
Good advice
@amazonseller-yf8vv
@amazonseller-yf8vv 8 күн бұрын
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Thanks, I spent my 20s trying to please women who didn't deserve it only to realize I have enough options that I don't have to stick around when a woman starts to behave badly. This was a very intersting story but I feel really bad for the Dr. for no realizing sooner that he'd better walk away cause clearly there were a lot of red flags along the way.
@Bob-hd9jn
@Bob-hd9jn 9 күн бұрын
Rob and Chrissy dont forget Little Miss Muffet that sat on her tuffet along came a spider that say down beside her and frightened Miss Muffet away…..
@Bob-hd9jn
@Bob-hd9jn 9 күн бұрын
The so call spider could have belonged to the two younger boys, i sure you have seen boys hunt spiders for a sport to fight the release and recapture of the spider is what questionable but my guess its the gf
@douggilmore6355
@douggilmore6355 9 күн бұрын
@@Bob-hd9jn That's defiantly a more plausible explanation than Rob gave in the video. But I'm still unconvinced and think there guilty of minimum trying to get rid of him for alone time and possibly plotting to killing him. .
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing that
@Bob-hd9jn
@Bob-hd9jn 9 күн бұрын
@@douggilmore6355 it all conjectures but been Philippines a while know the hobbies of young boys capturing spiders for fighting and a controlled woman by a dominant lesbian here…by having been mentally and physically controlling the girl friend along with monetary support, Keeping her in place..Rob’s story is accurate not drawing conclusions.. myself i was bitten by one of those spiders and the damage is quite accurate . Also cant put your faith in the police foreign vs filipino
@jones4334
@jones4334 9 күн бұрын
How did the spider bite him and then get into the container inside the backpack? Unless she held the spider and let the spider bite him and then she put the spider in the cup. A spider the size that he described when biting, would have woke him out of a dead sleep. Whole thing makes no sense. Wonder if he made up the story. A jury might call BS on the events. And to think I've had problems with cockroaches. Lol
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Lots of questions
@gronk1956
@gronk1956 9 күн бұрын
I would have played same trick
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
🤔
@Jammer411
@Jammer411 7 күн бұрын
SOUNDS LIKE THIS STORY SHOULD BE ON RAFFY TULFO SHOW!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
Yes
@makeyourlifeeasier5794
@makeyourlifeeasier5794 5 күн бұрын
You think a poisonous deadly spider is dangerous...you never met my American ex-wife..
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 4 күн бұрын
😱
@frankburnsjr
@frankburnsjr 9 күн бұрын
Better to find out that he was a she rather than the other way around
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
😂
@donaldlilly495
@donaldlilly495 9 күн бұрын
Believe half of what you see, none of what you hear.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Good advice
@dustinperry828
@dustinperry828 8 күн бұрын
The redback spider explains his bite. Introduced into the philippines through austrailia Explains his syptoms including necrosis The interesting thing is IFit was the redback spider its extremely rare for humans to be bit because they rarely leave the web Unless ofc someone placed the spider
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
Thanks a lot of people have been wondering about that
@gregmertz1202
@gregmertz1202 7 күн бұрын
❤❤Guilty!!!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
👍
@user-pb2ce4tk1w
@user-pb2ce4tk1w 9 күн бұрын
Happy for you Chrissy and your son .Rob will be a good man figure in his life. Rob I pictured you climbing out a window and started laughing . What's up doc? Were you too drunk to notice NBSB's Yosemite Sam, fake brother/pimp lesbian, attack spider breeder😂😂😂😂😂
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
I hope I would’ve noticed after a week
@GunneyRat
@GunneyRat 9 күн бұрын
It would be pretty hard for me to say "not guilty" if I was on that jury.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Yes, difficult
@zickey100
@zickey100 6 күн бұрын
"No boyfriend since birth." I was convinced that was a lie, but it turned out to be true. I think the big mistake he made when they left was eating his curds and whey.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 5 күн бұрын
🤣
@pugster73
@pugster73 9 күн бұрын
The only thing I am curious is if the Grandma knows something about it because told him to call their Aunt.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Good question
@davidgarceau9502
@davidgarceau9502 3 күн бұрын
🤔🤔🤔 I’ve never heard one like that ! I just retired from being a city police officer for 42 years. I’ve seen or done it all. Never heard of such an elaborate scheme for so little reward !!! Even desperate calculate risk vs reward !!! I don’t know about that one !!!
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 3 күн бұрын
I totally understand
@douglasweedman7718
@douglasweedman7718 9 күн бұрын
As soon as the family left for the funeral- he should have moved out- lock,stock and barrel.😎👍
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
That was good advice
@stephenmayeske7792
@stephenmayeske7792 7 күн бұрын
Crissy is so smart and patient.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
❤️🙏👍
@cdmorrissy3692
@cdmorrissy3692 9 күн бұрын
Shouldn't it be "NBFSB" ?
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
😂
@wickermanauthor4828
@wickermanauthor4828 15 сағат бұрын
I have no problem believing this story. I spent about five days in the Philippines and I never felt safe for one moment. I got scammed as soon as I walked out of the Airport and it didn't stop until I got on the plane to return to the US. It isn't just the Philippines. It's true in any country where there are millions of desperately poor people. They always prey on foreign tourists because we are all rich compared to them. They are amazingly clever for poor people. You must be constantly on guard or you are going to get screwed.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 сағат бұрын
They are clever
@paulcanfield4157
@paulcanfield4157 7 күн бұрын
Chrissy made the best and only statement of importance, the gal lied from the start. Therefore all things afterwards are presumed lies and to hold malicious intent to deceive and harm. Guilty.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
👍
@GMTheEpic
@GMTheEpic 8 күн бұрын
Awesome story, which AI has created it 😂
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 6 күн бұрын
🤔
@franky3231
@franky3231 9 күн бұрын
This is actually the second story of have heard of similar nature. There was an expat who went to province to meet his girlfriend so he was told that her brother died and she is taking care of her kids and she was living in the house with her cousin who was helping her with the kids. he stayed with them for a while and he was actually having sex with her while everyone else was in the other room. He made friends with the lady neighbor when he was doing his walks and one day she calls him over and says you seem to be a nice guy, I got to tell you something. That guy is not her cousin it is her husband and those are their kids. In this story I don't buy the spider story. Spiders generally don't kill you, even though the bite could be very painful. He was definitely scammed but luckily he found out early and they didn't take him for a ride.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Great story
@TomahawkMark843
@TomahawkMark843 9 күн бұрын
This story doesn't pass the smell test.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Perhaps a lot of feedback seems to indicate the same thought
@timlesiuk
@timlesiuk 9 күн бұрын
If that happened to me in England: 1) I'd probably die as although I can see my Dr's surgery from outside my home, my mobility is such that I'd normally drive. Yes in England a 999 call should get an ambulance there quickly, but would they know how to treat a tropical bite? 2) If I could locate them via the aunt or grandmother, if it was in England, I'd push for a murder charge.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching and sharing your feedback
@George-ux6zz
@George-ux6zz 9 күн бұрын
There's always the chance that the spider doesn't normally create that type of wound. However, there's also a chance that he could be allergic to its venom. Like some people are allergic to bee stings, but most just get a small welt.
@Bob-hd9jn
@Bob-hd9jn 9 күн бұрын
Hi George got a spider bite in Philippines caused much damage pain and tissue death took months to heal
@George-ux6zz
@George-ux6zz 9 күн бұрын
@@Bob-hd9jn Do they have brown recluse in the Philippines 🇵🇭
@George-ux6zz
@George-ux6zz 9 күн бұрын
@@Bob-hd9jn Hey Bob. I googled it. There are 5 spaces of spiders in the Philippines that can cause such a bite. 2 are related to the black widow. What did the spider look like that bit you.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing that
@glenn9057
@glenn9057 7 күн бұрын
Rob, will my Medicare insurance work in the Philippines?
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 7 күн бұрын
No, Guam closest
@goku5524
@goku5524 9 күн бұрын
Can you tell us the title of the movie or book so we can avoid watching or reading this BS story.😅😅😅
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
😂
@randyfocht737
@randyfocht737 9 күн бұрын
Of course it was intentional. They were trying to KILL him, and then they could have all his stuff he bought, and the motorcycle. The gay guy was NOT a gay. He was always her boyfriend. He was telling the family that he was gay so that they could say she was a virgin. This guy was like a gang member. They probably assumed that he was going to die at the Doctors. He should have kept her phone for proof.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching and for sharing your thoughts
@joeford4587
@joeford4587 9 күн бұрын
I feel sorry for the spiders feelings
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
😂
@josephurso9098
@josephurso9098 9 күн бұрын
If your interested in Asia.. Go to Japan. At least they have honor and respect there.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
🤔
@albertmorrissette3640
@albertmorrissette3640 8 күн бұрын
The whole scenario has more fiction than a Twilight zone episode. It may be that the doctor suffers from mythomania and pseudologia fantastica
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 8 күн бұрын
🤔
@budphillips8235
@budphillips8235 9 күн бұрын
❤ actually its more common than you think I follow Fuentes Family Channel and Laurie interviews filipina around Bicol, it is actually a real scary thought when you get right down to it, I have a friend who tells me shes an old maid because she's nearly 40 (36) has no baby, no I didn't meet her in a dating site, she sent me a friend request on social media 7 yrs ago, I don't think her Mother allows her daughters to date foreigners
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
🤔
@user-wc6yn9sp6j
@user-wc6yn9sp6j 9 күн бұрын
Retired mid 60's and would Never start to raise Great Grand Child Age Kids in my Golden Years ... that's absolutely absurd to me, never mind marriage intent swiping on social media. A Daddy at my age ... that was 4 decades ago! Can't imagine what my kids would think ... Dad's starting to lose it! ... never mind my soon to be adult grand kids.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
I appreciate the feedback I can report so far so good
@sandman6988
@sandman6988 9 күн бұрын
They are guilty as sin....forget about the spider....the fact that they were lesbians and never disclosed it , the fact they took it upon themselves to take his motorcycle and keys and lied about their wherabouts....cmon.....guilty...the spider could be consideered attempted murder or intent to do great bodily harm.....
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Yet another vote for guilty
@JohnLaCroixRenaissanceMan
@JohnLaCroixRenaissanceMan 7 күн бұрын
Yeah they should have disclosed the girl friend...she wouldn't have had to sleep on the floor and he could have slept in the middle ;)
@ronaldramsumair938
@ronaldramsumair938 9 күн бұрын
How old is Chris..?
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
31
@ronaldramsumair938
@ronaldramsumair938 9 күн бұрын
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines She is so sweet
@bentnielsen3731
@bentnielsen3731 9 күн бұрын
Dear Chrissy and Rob - great to see you together. But what a terrible story. If you are to take what was stated at face value, it seems to have been a proven act on the part of the girl. Best regards from Denmark
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
👋Hi Bent
@altonarm
@altonarm 9 күн бұрын
Sometimes they capture spiders to fight them and make bets on the fight. Like cock fighting but with spiders. A Filipino in Dumaguete told me this.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Yes, Chrissy mentioned that also
@altonarm
@altonarm 8 күн бұрын
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines ok I must have missed that.
@altonarm
@altonarm 8 күн бұрын
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines It IS illegal though. Gambling has to be "sanctioned" by the barangue captain.
@jw5425
@jw5425 9 күн бұрын
Rob and Crissy I wish I knew all of this 15 years ago when I met my Filipina she also never had a boyfriend before I met her but I also was never able to to visit her because of all the crap excuses and money she got from me
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Sorry to hear that but thanks for sharing here
@SnakePlissken98
@SnakePlissken98 6 күн бұрын
He did get scammed and that spider could've killed him. Where are the arrests? It's funny that stuff like that only happens to foreigners.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 5 күн бұрын
Guilty
@DavidLee-xn3gy
@DavidLee-xn3gy 9 күн бұрын
I always have my phone locked but I know you can access the camera without the password on the lock screen. It allows you to take a video or photo but I didn't know you could access a recent image. Tried it and it does allow you to play display recent files. I never noticed this because I always move my files to subdirectories. It won't let you change from the default directory. As for the doctor, i'm afraid for his future. He sounds like my brother-in-law who has no common sense. Some people just see the world through rose colored glasses. I've always followed the rule that trust is earned and not automatically given. I'm surprised the doctor didn't photograph his wound and the spider. As well as the container in the backpack. That way you have some tangible proof and the very least you could send the photo of the spider to a specialist to confirm if it is a dangerous spider. Maybe I'm behind the times but having just met these people, I don't think I would even want to have just the girl staying with me . I'd rather take it slow and just meet her in public until I really know what she really is like. Psychos can seem normal at first but their true character generally leak out gradually. Your a lone stranger in a foreign country in a rural area. People disappear very easily out there. Better safe than sorry. Maybe the girl was not in on the spider part of the plan but she did apparently dupe her grandmother to participate in the scheme. It could of been just the girlfriend's jelousy showing. Aren't filipinas supposed to be famous for their jelous streak. If his plan was to stay for a month why would you buy all those appliances and utensils? I'd just plan to eat out while I was there.
@FlyMeToThePhilippines
@FlyMeToThePhilippines 9 күн бұрын
Thanks for the thoughtful sharing
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