A Clueless American's Guide to Getting a Girlfriend

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The Fat Asian

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@tkdmike9345
@tkdmike9345 Жыл бұрын
Im 27 and I struggle to get a girlfriend, everytime I even get a date my wife starts yelling at me
@kennethdzengedza8978
@kennethdzengedza8978 Жыл бұрын
Get her a girlfriend first so that she doesn't get jealousy when you get one
@Trippypapi
@Trippypapi Жыл бұрын
They had us in the first half not gonna lie
@yeet_baboonytp
@yeet_baboonytp Жыл бұрын
LMAO
@stephenkadungure3151
@stephenkadungure3151 Жыл бұрын
😂xavier vybz
@simstander5471
@simstander5471 Жыл бұрын
😂
@viswateja7755
@viswateja7755 Жыл бұрын
Bro. Who says you are clueless. You nailed this subject.
@pekl0
@pekl0 3 ай бұрын
i always thought it is FOR clueless americans
@jacobsweet7327
@jacobsweet7327 Жыл бұрын
What I think a lot of people mean by "Be your self" is don't fake interest in something, or pretend to be something you're not. For instance I (Like most people who are on this video) am a bit of a nerd, but I never on a first date went into a longwinded recap of one piece, or ranted about lord of the rings. Instead I talked about how the lord of the rings trilogy is my favorite movie series of all time because of all the behind the scenes stuff made me realize how much went into film making and made me fall in love with really any creative media. I talked about the stuff that interested me. To me this is much better than pretending to be interested in something you are not, because you can find your self in a relationship without any sort of common interest.
@kobakareli
@kobakareli Жыл бұрын
Good tip. Honesty is so much easier than trying to pretend you’re someone else. And when you’re honest about yourself, you know the other person more or less knows who you are and you can freely be yourself (because you’re not pretending), you enjoy the relationship so much more.
@austinashworth6413
@austinashworth6413 Жыл бұрын
This! The fun part about all this shit is you just need to learn presentation that’s what makes language and communication so amazing. The biggest thing is to actually care about the person you are talking to and trying to tie it into something they are interested in.
@nntflow7058
@nntflow7058 Жыл бұрын
The problem is, there are many nerds who are narcissists.
@InkStep
@InkStep Жыл бұрын
When meeting new girls and consequently going on a first date with them I don't think "God I hope she likes me". Instead I think "God I hope I end up liking her". And I'm not talking about looks here. That's from an advice I read somewhere a while back and following it has completely changed the entire experience of dating into something so much more positive for me. Changing your focus from trying to be liked into trying to understand who the person in front of you is and to find a mutually interesting connection for you both does miracles for dispelling all those pesky insecurities and fears. This can honestly be applied to anything social related, not just dating women. Nowadays I can actually make people laugh from time to time, even though I struggled making eye contact until a couple of years ago.
@jacobsweet7327
@jacobsweet7327 Жыл бұрын
@@InkStep It's been a while since a first date for me, but you're right, you put that much better than I did. I think people just get caught up, in how they look/act, when at least from my experience worst case scenario (At least for guys, There are much worse case scenarios for girls) you just won't ever see that person again.
@roadsgold5291
@roadsgold5291 Жыл бұрын
What I was expecting: - March premiere league recap - uefa Euro qualifiers - PSG losing streak - Messi Barcelona move - ronaldinho son joining Barcelona - Chelsea firing potter - Bayern destroying dortmund - upcoming transfer window
@davidcung5364
@davidcung5364 Жыл бұрын
"being yourself right now, your no one's type" hit me hard😂
@d4rkaurorapt394
@d4rkaurorapt394 Жыл бұрын
A more truthfull and honest video than i was expecting, Good job!
@eavyeavy2864
@eavyeavy2864 8 ай бұрын
You probably got ADHD
@menboys1272
@menboys1272 Жыл бұрын
me during 3:06: "hell no this video is gonna be ass" me during 3:09""never mind looks like this will be banger"
@brightsanimesongs225
@brightsanimesongs225 Жыл бұрын
I didn't come here for your advice, I just find you entertaining
@ARJaymusic
@ARJaymusic Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! We need more honest actors who aren't toxic in this dating/young men improving space. I know this is a sports channel but we need more of this
@jorgearria5973
@jorgearria5973 Жыл бұрын
I was laughing my ass off when I saw the title. Now I felt like I needed to hear that shit
@tomiz17
@tomiz17 4 ай бұрын
I needed this. Thanks my guy 👍
@DeadPizza
@DeadPizza Жыл бұрын
This isnt the march premier league recap
@kktt725
@kktt725 Жыл бұрын
I’m here after Newcastle beat Man United
@ahmad7889
@ahmad7889 Жыл бұрын
Lets go fat asian god
@samr.4195
@samr.4195 Жыл бұрын
What sucks is when a girl breaks up with you and you fall back into the pit of despair you thought you had escaped
@daryanguy
@daryanguy Жыл бұрын
That's why you need to work on yourself and find value in your life outside of validation from women.
@ARJaymusic
@ARJaymusic Жыл бұрын
Everyone's relationships fail, but the best part about dating is you only need to be successful once. You might date 10 women and it doesn't work out and it's fine as long as you marry the 11th one
@Andrew-zh5ed
@Andrew-zh5ed Жыл бұрын
As a 31 year old married male I came here for this vid because even though it may not apply to me, BMOnus doesn’t miss. Every video is a straight banger.
@Unchartedforever1
@Unchartedforever1 Жыл бұрын
"I've got a push-up bra to sell to you" - genius haha. I sense passive aggressive experience here
@buffaloslamhd8380
@buffaloslamhd8380 Жыл бұрын
If there’s anyone that can give us single guys advise on how to get a girlfriend…it’s our boi the Fat Asian
@yeet_baboonytp
@yeet_baboonytp Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I need thx bmo
@banyakakal4299
@banyakakal4299 Жыл бұрын
This is the most balanced take on the manosphere and the likes of Andrew tate I have seen in a KZfaq video. Respects for you man!
@dmtrujillo17
@dmtrujillo17 Жыл бұрын
This video is actually on point and incredibly funny as well. Love to see the actionable items
@LincolnD_rsa
@LincolnD_rsa Жыл бұрын
First step in getting a partner is to stop referring to women as b*tches😁😂
@seanandrews5329
@seanandrews5329 10 ай бұрын
As a 17 year old this literally doesn’t matter the idea is to just fucking keep trying dog I’m not particularly attractive but I’ve had 5 gfs in my life so trust me it pays off
@twisted_tea
@twisted_tea Жыл бұрын
4:30 I love the Far Cry 3 reference.
@unit1pirate380
@unit1pirate380 4 ай бұрын
that pandemic regressed development hits hard rn, deadass dont wanna blame externals cause some of the stuff we carry are our fault, but that pandemic did kinda fucked up the momentum
@geyarewhy9770
@geyarewhy9770 Жыл бұрын
Keep up your Vids Bro. They are very entertaining.
@progamerman27
@progamerman27 Жыл бұрын
The green top the way you wore it first was WAAAAY better 🤣
@rahulkuriakose136
@rahulkuriakose136 Жыл бұрын
More videos about navigating life please
@mad576wastaken
@mad576wastaken Жыл бұрын
Bmonus giving relationship advice, what a world we live in. You've come far Bmo
@therealesj
@therealesj Жыл бұрын
Dr.Bmo is back
@whojoe7824
@whojoe7824 Жыл бұрын
Actually needed this🙏
@brococolypsxd9769
@brococolypsxd9769 Жыл бұрын
Thank you😂😂
@honeybeechanger
@honeybeechanger 10 ай бұрын
Okay you are performing a public service this is awesome I'm a woman and I have to tell you I've been on a lot of dates with a lot of guys that did they're already defeated before they even get to know me. I don't want to get married and I don't want to date anybody I'm not married and I am 50 and I'm okay with that but when I was dating it was depressing. I really hated dating for many reasons. The overconfident guys just want to get in your pants and the under-confident guys were just pissed off
@axelm1936
@axelm1936 Жыл бұрын
This video feels like taking a chetshet before the exam of life.
@rahulkuriakose136
@rahulkuriakose136 Жыл бұрын
Love the use of worlds end haram on this video😂
@sullen2420
@sullen2420 Жыл бұрын
So I take it this is no longer a FIFA career mode channel?
@yeet_baboonytp
@yeet_baboonytp Жыл бұрын
Sadly no
@Outplays_
@Outplays_ Жыл бұрын
Career mode is dead tbh.
@sullen2420
@sullen2420 Жыл бұрын
@@Outplays_ Not with mods on pc.
@theshoemanstream2347
@theshoemanstream2347 Жыл бұрын
This was nice. Gives me warm fuzzies to hear romantic advice from non-manosphere and level-headed advice. Best KZfaqr out here, Fr.
@samidib10
@samidib10 Жыл бұрын
Felt the same way felt like a normal person talking to me. No character nothing just you and telling others improve get better!
@SchmavidSchmobb
@SchmavidSchmobb 9 ай бұрын
Dude the fish picture on the tinder profile killed me. I’ve never done the apps but I’ve heard that the fish pics are rampant and also a meme with every girl
@gtilly999
@gtilly999 Жыл бұрын
You had me at Top G in the thumbnail
@simong6564
@simong6564 Жыл бұрын
Going on my 8 year training arc to become the Hoekage, believe it.
@astrophysicist9222
@astrophysicist9222 Жыл бұрын
clueless american guide to nations league pls
@HenryIsSingle
@HenryIsSingle Жыл бұрын
this isn’t soccer
@kdnlol
@kdnlol Жыл бұрын
this guy was my childhood 🥲
@muthanii
@muthanii Жыл бұрын
this video came in perfect timing
@KoreanUrDogs
@KoreanUrDogs Жыл бұрын
Was hesitating but I forced myself to click
@Brybry3000_
@Brybry3000_ Жыл бұрын
This guy literally covers everything
@Unchartedforever1
@Unchartedforever1 Жыл бұрын
This is no longer an April Fool's joke - its a day late...lads we now know what we have to do
@tkthegk_1394
@tkthegk_1394 Жыл бұрын
The whole internet :😮😮😮😮
@RespecTheLevYT
@RespecTheLevYT Жыл бұрын
Well I’ll just die alone thank you x
@pigeonshelby7429
@pigeonshelby7429 Жыл бұрын
YES SIR , IM GONNA TRAIN MYSELF
@rodvafe
@rodvafe Жыл бұрын
6 feet is a myth. Im 6.2 and still single Oh well, might as well wait for my 30th birthday
@RiseUpToYourAbility
@RiseUpToYourAbility Жыл бұрын
I don't trust women that I are only willing to get with me after I am well established. They are willing to be with you during the good times, but are nowhere to be seen when you are struggling. What if you get a injury or you lose your job, ETC. Who is to say these women will stick with you instead of jumping ship? I met my fiancé when we were both in college without a penny to our names, and we struggled together for 8 years. Now I'm finishing up medical school and she just started working as a PA. I trust her with my life because she stuck with me through all the uncertainty. She never gave up at me through my struggles, and I did the same for her. That is the type of woman you want to marry. Someone who is willing to run the marathon with you instead of just poaching the winners at the finish line. Forget the superficial, what you need is someone who is willing to stand by you when all the chips are down.
@NkemUtomi
@NkemUtomi Жыл бұрын
I will be the best soccer player in the world
@filharmonix
@filharmonix Жыл бұрын
This is amazing advice. Though I'm worried now, seeing as I'm in my mid 30s and still in my porn and video games rut
@goldknightoffical5031
@goldknightoffical5031 Жыл бұрын
so you mean i should stop being my self and stop scoring goals and making my u-20 team lose
@LeeRenthlei
@LeeRenthlei Жыл бұрын
Just got my first ever gf 6 days ago 🔥
@thatboyUPS
@thatboyUPS Жыл бұрын
The Rational Male: BMOnus edition
@earnestjonahdaniel3802
@earnestjonahdaniel3802 Жыл бұрын
Find your NICHEE!!! Nothing more important than that. Once you know your niche, you’d know the babes you can move to, you already know what they want, and you’ve got the confidence to give them that. Keyyy
@xunliu9653
@xunliu9653 3 ай бұрын
Speaks like you have ever had a girlfriend😂
@runitupc3658
@runitupc3658 Жыл бұрын
Bro watched Andrew Tate once and is Top Asian G 😂
@Thesirturbo792
@Thesirturbo792 Жыл бұрын
Premier league update vid next?
@kylerodd2342
@kylerodd2342 10 ай бұрын
I thought this was a joke or something but then you dropped knowledge. It be true. Always found my girlfriends in my 20s when I was out doing my thing and grinding. I wasn’t established but they were putting in that early investment. Lol. Didn’t get that payout for them but now I’m 30 so I’m in that Goldilocks zone.
@firefistbey5797
@firefistbey5797 Жыл бұрын
James Milner slander will not be tolerated
@inasnetino5882
@inasnetino5882 Жыл бұрын
The best advice here is find a niche. For example, the 8 to 6/10 ones, that's your money play baby! Also, move around a lot, try different things, for example salsa clases, maybe some going to the club or a chess group, whatever, and surround yourself with friends, even the nerdy unfuckable ones. Basically, if you are constantly knowing new people in your life odds are you are meeting girls. And if you don't want to meet people, that's a you problem, you can still make a lot of money as an anti-social jaded professional and anything short than that and you are a loser...
@robingaming8941
@robingaming8941 Жыл бұрын
Do clueless european guide for 2023 playoffs
@mad576wastaken
@mad576wastaken Жыл бұрын
8:25 DO NOT GET TATTOOS TO SCORE GIRLS, THIS IS A BAD IDEA AND YOU WILL REGRET IT AT SOME POINT
@danpacheco1
@danpacheco1 Жыл бұрын
So is this an April fools joke or not?
@Lilianjaaj
@Lilianjaaj Жыл бұрын
Watching this when you're not single is even better
@ianlulu
@ianlulu Жыл бұрын
TRAINING AAAAAAARRRCCCC
@winstong7438
@winstong7438 11 ай бұрын
@HolyClownFuckarus
@HolyClownFuckarus Жыл бұрын
Yaaaas
@GAME-zo8qg
@GAME-zo8qg Жыл бұрын
Bruh if you are under 6 foot just dont get relationships with taller girls😂
@Qammar_GGMU
@Qammar_GGMU Жыл бұрын
I don't know why on earth I'm watching this video even though I have a Wife besides Me.
@jelmervanriet790
@jelmervanriet790 Жыл бұрын
wait i was expecting an april fools joke. not actual good advice.
@simonvisage738
@simonvisage738 Жыл бұрын
Hehe I do get bitches im just watching this video cause why not
@charmainec.4882
@charmainec.4882 Жыл бұрын
Long-time female viewer of the channel here, I watched this whole video because I was curious to see if you would capture the key reason women aren't dating younger men. There are some valid points here, but the key reason behind this was missed by a million miles. Yes, grooming and good hygiene matter to women. Yes, emotional maturity matters. Yes, being passionate about a hobby and striving for growth matters. Yes, even height matters to most women even though it shouldn't and there's nothing men can do to control their height. But the biggest reason I see women refusing to date younger men is because of rampant misogyny. So many young men treat women as machines that they can put gifts and kind gestures into and then receive sex as a result. So many young men try to control their girlfriends, behave in a jealous and disrespectful manner, expect their girlfriends to participate in painful sex acts, the list goes on and on and on. Older men often do these things too, but at least they've learned how to comb their hair and clean underneath their fingernails. And the saddest thing is that tons of guys out there believe that they're not misogynists because they are attracted to women and want to be in a loving relationship when in reality their behaviour is wildly disrespectful.
@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986
@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 Жыл бұрын
I thought the point of this video was for guys who aren’t even succeeding at attracting girls I the first place. I don’t see how you could be controlling your gf if you don’t have one in the first place. I also find it hard to believe that more young men today than any other generation in human history are misogynistic when I’d like to think you would find very few that don’t agree with equal rights for women and men (maybe I’m wrong but I’ve never met anyone that wasn’t a religious nutcase that thought women genuinely deserve worse treatment or fewer rights than men, and ironically those misogynistic religious dudes all still had wives so their sexism wasn’t preventing them from getting relationships). Obviously we both have our anecdotal experiences but I can’t say that I’ve ever seen any correlation whatsoever between sexism and relationships/ lack there of. In fact often the guys who don’t get any success with girls are that precisely because they’ve put women on such a pedestal in their mind that they’re too shy or nervous to even try talking to them.
@RiseUpToYourAbility
@RiseUpToYourAbility Жыл бұрын
The whole treating women as machines where they put in gifts and kind gestures into in exchange for sex has a female equivalence. I'm sure you at least heard of a girl where she is in a casual relationships with some guy and she is just hoping that if she put in enough sex that he will be willing to make her his long term girlfriend. Also the nice guys don't just want sex, they want love and a long term relationship don't get it twisted. Men offer up resources while women offer up sex, but in the end they are all looking for long term relationship.
@RiseUpToYourAbility
@RiseUpToYourAbility Жыл бұрын
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 that is because she has only dated chads and tyrones. She isn't thinking about the men in the friendzone.
@literallypatrickbatemen
@literallypatrickbatemen Жыл бұрын
Ain't no way you just said that 💀💀
@mojoproductions6799
@mojoproductions6799 Жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@footballlover5193
@footballlover5193 Жыл бұрын
Arrange marriage 🪦
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