A DAY IN THE LIFE OF A YOUNG MOM | 2 under 2 + toddler tantrums + the real of motherhood + raw&real

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A DAY IN THE LIFE OF A YOUNG MOM | 2 under 2 + toddler tantrums + the real of motherhood + raw&real

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@n1kaylaap 8 ай бұрын

Whew! I don’t have any kids but the way you calmly handled the crying and putting them down for a nap exuded so much love and gentleness! They’re so blessed to have you as their MAMA 💕💕🙏

@dora9368 8 ай бұрын

I agree...it seemed to help too...very nice 👍

@misha2652 8 ай бұрын

I commend you for your patience with Genesis, while you were feeding Ezra. Props to you mom!!

@K.P.J 8 ай бұрын

I remember when my kids were this little. I was so overwhelmed and tired all the time. I sadly remember thinking how I can't wait until they get older. But now I look back at old baby pictures and just know I didn't love on them enough. I didn't take the time to slow down. Always on a schedule, always doing something other than just sitting with them, playing with them. I wish I could go back and do more of it with them because 10&8 is the new 15. 😢 For all the mommies with young kids, cherish it. It truly does go by so fast. ❤

@Lacygomez 8 ай бұрын

2 under 2 is not easy! Days will be good, some days you’ll feel like the world is crumbling down girl. You got this, I promise you GOT THIS! My kids are 13 months apart, it was not easy! But they are now 6&7 and doing amazing.

@lordweneedu8217 8 ай бұрын

Oh yes that what I just told Maya ! It okay to yelled it out for a good walk or cried . I forgot what that call it but it doesn’t mean your sad, we just get exhausted as moms . We are the keys to our family we pay attention to every intricate detail. ❤ relax breath and let it out and repeat with a smile

@vanessandlovu3970 8 ай бұрын

I don't usually comment but best believe that when your videos come up, I am ready to learn from you. Maya, the way you spoke to Genesis while feeding Ezra...it warmed my heart. You have really shown a healthy and loving motherhood, sourced from having our Lord in the center and admitting the need for counsel and help. You are so loving! And I know that it can be hard on some days and harder on other days but you're doing a great job. ❤

@TylaRose777 8 ай бұрын

I give birth in April and My First born will be 1 on christmas eve. I been depressed all day and sick. Trying to keep up with everything and chores around the house while pregnant is a struggle for me. Your video is giving me hope that I can do this. 🙏🙏🙏. You are Amazing ❤️❤️

@NaeNay. 8 ай бұрын

Maya you are doing great!! 2 under two and being a wife is not easy. Take all the time the mental breaks you need and accept help. My pride wouldn’t let me accept help and I suffered tremendously. Start setting up those date nights for you and JaVaughn and keep that marriage lively. Yall are beautiful…Blessings upon Blessings💚💚💚

@lordweneedu8217 8 ай бұрын

Amen ! We as mommy are so hard times because we think we have to have all together and we really don’t 😊. We are just doing our best ❤that why we need to encourage one another ! Yes called for help , Javughen is a great friend father and husband. They won’t do it up to our standards but they are willing and that what matters ❤. It hard especially when they are little but make sure that we have to squeeze in time in the marriage because it a three leg deal (God marriage and family) ❤

@neshamariaNOLABBY 8 ай бұрын

Girl I use to cry in the shower after I got my baby down to sleep I felt so overwhelmed like I was starving all day long just didn't eat ,mostly I ate chips 💀 but now he's one years old I feel like I've gotten better w learning him it's easy

@London.marieee 8 ай бұрын

Your such an amazing mom, I’m not a mom yet but I take care of my nephew and you definitely help me when it comes to stewarding that and having so much more compassion for all the moms.

@jasminegreen750 8 ай бұрын

Hi beautiful 🥰 I’ve been following you for about 2 months now. I love your content!!!! My daughter just turned 2 last month, and my son is 4 months. Some days are HARD!!!!!! You encouraged me to do 3 things!!! 1) THERAPY!!!!!! 2) Give myself grace when things don’t go as planned (I’m a planner too) 3) SELF-CARE! Thank you for this video!!!!! I love you my sister in Christ!! You’re doing a great job. I’m so thankful that I found your channel!

@mommasweetstv 8 ай бұрын

My good sis Maya girl! These toddlers are giving us a run for our money!! We are NOT ok! I commend you for doing the damn thing with 2 under 2 with a smile on your face. You are a super mom forreal! I know there are some days that hard but I’m so happy to see you flourishing in this role of motherhood! You are doing amazing and you should be very proud of yourself because we are sis 🖤🫶🏾

@queenjasmine5635 8 ай бұрын

Sis, you are slaying motherhood, period! Yes, Jesus is greater than all we face in life & He’s our strength, facts. God bless you & your beautiful family Maya! 😌✨

@dora9368 8 ай бұрын

Maya your an amazing mom, women, and wife! 💪It's good to hear that you're not neglecting your mental health... it's so easy to do, and a lot of us do it. Genna is growing up quickly, and she's so smart. I love that you dedicate your Friday's to her😊

@molebatsi96 8 ай бұрын

The way you handled Genna's crying whew ma'am hats off to you. I know it can't be easy and you're powering through motherhood like a champ. May God continue to replenish your strength each and every day

@delisataylor9887 8 ай бұрын

Congratulations you are rocking mommy hood....Stop waiting for joy to come and experience it in the moment is an entire word!!!! I love the closing shift concept! Than you for sharing your journey with us and sparking joy in this community.

@yeseniahernandez1162 8 ай бұрын

As a mom that went through that, you’re doing an awesome job 🩷🩷

@Angeeortiz 8 ай бұрын

I WAS WAITING FOR YOU TO POST BEEN WATCHING ALL YOUR OLD VIDS TO CATCH UP TO THIS POINT!!❤❤❤ Love u maya stay strong in your motherhood era and wifey era your doing a beautiful job! So positive and inspirational ❤

@mayablerner 8 ай бұрын

I love how much of a team you and JaVaughn are! The patience and grace you have while having so much on your plate is INCREDIBLE. They will look back at these videos one day and see how wonderful and blessed they were to have you as their mom. So happy for the whole Graves family ♡

@ebonyrford 8 ай бұрын

Wow moms do not get enough credit! You’re doing a great job! Thanks for sharing with us

@Etherealswxn 8 ай бұрын

Genna touching your ears makes me laugh so hard. I was the exact same way as a baby/child and I’m 28 now and still do that to my mom 😂 it’s just so comforting to me

@shafeekunisaragee4577 8 ай бұрын

This is giving me so much light as a soon to be mom! Love u Girl keep doing what you doing ❤

@JBeautyNFashion 8 ай бұрын

I know and can relate so well on how those toddler tantrums can work your nerves but cherish those moments because one day you will look up and both kids will be then grew up and out the house with their friends, and you will miss these moments with your children.

@mom2suns857 8 ай бұрын

Whew girl 2 under 2 is quite the journey but from experience, when you look back , it feels like the years went by too fast! My guys are now 13 and 14 and it feels like just yesterday I was balancing one child per hip 😅 you got this Maya!

@gabbym2000 8 ай бұрын

You are an amazing mother! From what I can see (I haven’t experienced motherhood for myself yet) I know it can’t be easy at all, but I’m glad you’re choosing to dwell in the positive and keep a smile on your face when you can! ❤ Those babies are so blessed to have you as their mommy! God bless you, Maya! 😊

@Kelentshole07 8 ай бұрын

Maya you have a pure heart ❤️ you are such a loving parent to all of them You definitely killing it ...Gene is looking beautiful😊 keep up the good mama im so inspired by your motherhood journey😊

@LaTonyaHarris 7 ай бұрын

As a mother of now, three “young adult men “ #boymom that are 2 years apart, I remember when I had 2 under 2 with one on the way and Lord knows it was hard. Unfortunately, I didn’t have the words to identify what I was going through at that time which was postpartum depression and was not courageous as you to share the mental challenges I was experiencing at that time. However with the strength, wisdom and grace of God, I overcame🙌🏾. Keep kneeling at the feet of the Father, for HE shall continue to equip and pour into His daughter. 🙏🏾💜

@godsmijita333 8 ай бұрын

Love your light ma! Tone was everything when speaking life over Genna! Love love love! Blessings and prayers up for all y'all from SD, Cali!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💕

@anesukumbula9634 8 ай бұрын

You're doing amazing with the transition mama and the little ones are so cute may the Lord bless them💕💕

@luztraver3295 8 ай бұрын

Girl,motherhood is definitely one of your callings ❤❤❤

@KaiaXoxo 8 ай бұрын

love your background music lately! def feelin the vibesss

@HaileyMarieGrande 8 ай бұрын

Right!!

@nadiaahmedi 8 ай бұрын

Awww Maya! From an outside lens! I feel Genesis was upset when your baby boy was nursing and was signing “eat” bc she knows he eats at your breast 🥺 so she was wanting that connection with you since there’s a new baby getting your attention and not only her anymore. Awww she’ll adjust over time. She’s having a hard time adjusting to not being the only baby anymore right now. And being tired definitelyyyyy elevates that vulnerability lol. You’re doing amazing Maya. You’ve matured even more since Ezra has arrived 🥰 I also feel like Ezra will start looking more like you soon!

@TyairaSmith-te9zr 8 ай бұрын

I just wrote a comment about this, she gets a bit jealous seeing her breastfeed him and getting her attention 😢 awhhhh

@kellyadams5199 8 ай бұрын

I get like that when I’m sleepy too mama, bless you!!! Love the gentle parenting

@KeShiaWilliams. 5 ай бұрын

Whew the way this vlog helped me so much mentally! I always say I’m having a hard time adjusting to motherhood and my baby will be one this month, I have to stop speaking negative over myself! This vlog helped me so much I can’t explain it it just did, can we have more DITL with a toddler and newborn, family DILT and also seeing your husband’s POV (a DILT with a newborn and toddler or just toddler). I love all of your videos!!

@nicolew.7050 8 ай бұрын

The way she handed you the book and hopped on your lap too cuteeeee 🥰

@christinebennett2191 8 ай бұрын

It will get better, Maya! Keep reflecting and giving yourself grace as a new mom of 2 (under2!!) ❤ I remember these days, and now with two school aged and a toddler, the challenge has changed yet again! 😂😂 you got this 🫶🏼💪🏽

@jesussavesall8454 7 ай бұрын

Heyy Mayaaa, thank you for sharing a reall vlog. I love how you connect with Genna and work to calm her down without saying '"calm down", "stop crying" etc. Keep it up, y'all are doing amazing 🙏🏾💕

@Jazzy0316 4 ай бұрын

Just brought my NB home with a 12 month old at home. He has been so fussy and clingy, I was honestly at a loss. Seeing this has helped a lot. It can feel like a lot sometimes

@amiyawatson9357 6 ай бұрын

I’m not a mother or a wife yet but I love your videos ❤️✨🫶🏿I’m glad I came across your page! One thing about Maya she gonna share the WORD ❤️🙏🏾

@JameelaTaahira 8 ай бұрын

When you said no matter what you have to get through it, and you’d rather do it with a smile rather than do it upset something clicked in my head and I almost cried 😭 I notice with my toddler I get overwhelmed/upset rather quickly and feel guilty afterwards. But seeing you do it with 2 under 2 girl you are AMAZING! I respect you so much ❤️

@user-rh1qc3ql4y 8 ай бұрын

Loveee your content and parenting tips!! Very helpful definitely want more 2 under 2 videos!!!🥰🩷💙

@keepingupwithlex3841 8 ай бұрын

As I’m watching this video, I’m realizing how being a mother is so empowering. I have a 16 month old and we are having our baby girl in March of 2024 and I’m trying to muster up the courage of being able to trust myself and my husband to get through this 2 under 2. I’m so scared, but I know that I’ll make it through. Thank you for posting this! It truly helps give me faith to be able to move through this season.

@nicholejackson7210 7 ай бұрын

I feel you I have a two year old daughter and now a two month old son and it's not easy especially when they both have good at the same time. I started watching you when you first had your daughter. Keep up the good work momma

@bernicecotto7134 8 ай бұрын

You killing the game sis! You inspire me and motivate me in so many ways! Thank you

@thatcitydoc3703 8 ай бұрын

My day always gets better when I see the blue dot seeing you have new content up. I appreciate you taking the time to share despite being so busy with everything. You are such an inspiration. Thanks!

@Nel73192 3 ай бұрын

Girl you are SO calm during the crying when baby girl was tired and you were breast feeding! I’m about to have my second baby girl here next week and my first baby is turning 12 months old literally 7 days after her sissy is born. I pray God gives me this patience you are showing as a mom of 2 🙏🏼✝️❤️

@winterprice1050 8 ай бұрын

Take it easy so you dont get burned out especially as a new mom of 2 under 2. Some days will be easy and some days challenging. I have 2 under 2 and loved it. God bless with your beautiful babies

@abibryson173 8 ай бұрын

You know i really strive to have some of the morals you have, especially your patience! Even though you may be stressed out and overwhelmed you are always so calm and know that no matter what everything will be okay, I love that! ❤️

@courtneyhermelijn03 8 ай бұрын

Maya my girlie 🥰 You never need to apologize for not filming everything. We all are here to watch you because the woman you are no matter WHAT you put out. We got you the way you got us. I remember when my daughter was born and my nephew was 1.5 years I never wanted him to feel left out and I made time the same way you do girl. We did learning and the most random fun things. It's a journey but God has blessed you with 2 kids for a purpose mamas ❤️ Ways you can always try to get out is to a fam or close friends house for an hour just got change of scenery. I did that at my grandma's and it was a nice change. You are doing amazing in every aspect and be proud girl. Through him anything is possible and you already have that

@realmamamo 8 ай бұрын

I love your videos! My life with 2 has its days too. I love how you’re so patient and still show up with kindness to your babies.

@liyahcole70 8 ай бұрын

Maya you’re such a great Mom 💗 God bless you and your family. 🙏🏾

@MarellyCamey 6 ай бұрын

Maya you are an amazing mom aweee wow! Whenever my babygirl has a tantrum I need to do deep breaths with her too you did an amazing job God bless y’all always 💐

@Brownskinhoney 8 ай бұрын

You got this Maya!! We got this🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏾, it’s the 2 under 2 crying for me. Mine have the nerve to have the same cry and be crying at the same time. The baby carrier is golden!! I would like to see your must haves for 2 under 2😍

@chelseaweisensel9921 8 ай бұрын

Keep up the good work. Your grace and patience is amazing. It does get easier. But when you’re In the thick of it .It’s trying. You’re doing a great job mama💕✨

@makalasmith 8 ай бұрын

I be clicking so quick when I get that notification 🫶❤️

@dora9368 8 ай бұрын

I know right, but sometimes I won't get the notification for hours after the video posts 🤷😊

@makalasmith 8 ай бұрын

@@dora9368 mine also does that at times.

@121sh1213 7 ай бұрын

Your energy is sooo precious and feminine. I love and admire your parenting approach and how you speak to your daughter. New subscriber!!

@MarellyCamey 6 ай бұрын

The Holy Spirit always comes with a word through Maya 👏🏽🫶🏽 & awe I love that for y’all so beautiful amen

@destinyfaiith 8 ай бұрын

You are the only KZfaqr I watch! I’m due next month and I named my baby “Ezrah” too! When I found out that’s what u named him , it warmed my heart. I love watching u and ur journey ❤

@positivelyme5605 8 ай бұрын

You are doing amazing, the way you stayed calm when Gena was having her moment and you did the deep breathing until she calmed down. She will start to associate the two and will start using that to self soothe herself.

@torimichele 7 ай бұрын

i really enjoyed this video. you’re doing amazing maya

@kirstenmariah_ 8 ай бұрын

i’m LOVING these raw and candid moments!! you got this Maya 🤎🤎

@briannadurrah8363 8 ай бұрын

I’m a daily new subscriber as of summertime or early/late fall and I’m loving everything about this channel. Congrats on another healthy labor and delivery! And thank you so much for being open and honest about having 2 under 2. God bless you and your family!

@miksterstrudel 8 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness, my daughter used to grab everyone’s ears. And she would have to hold an ear to fall asleep, like a comfort thing 🥹 that brought back memories for me. But you are killing it mama 😍💯❤️❤️❤️

@user-qr4xe3pn3r 8 ай бұрын

You’re a super mom❤

@diamondsapphireangel1721 8 ай бұрын

I've been following you for a while. Just wanted to say I'm proud of you and far you have come. ❤ Congratulations on baby boy.

@tiffanylashayla3 8 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of you maya your doing such a amazing job being a mother is hard especially a young mother, and just having one child is a lot so I can only imagine how it is having two under 2 but give yourself grace you got this, I had to learn how to give myself grace because I was becoming overwhelmed and was getting ready to give up on me and child but thank god I kept my faith and learned that god got me and motherhood is not going to always be easy. Us mothers are amazing ❤❤❤

@dianaberry8708 8 ай бұрын

I was watching your morning routine with Genesis when she was a newborn. Girl, I know its not easy, we live in a real world and life be doing its thing, but you got it going on...Thank you for sharing...Keep up the good work...❤

@AllAboutAndrew444 8 ай бұрын

Praise God for therapist and for you being open to therapy 🙏🏼

@MommyinBlk 8 ай бұрын

15:28 oh gir, he looks just like his dad!! beautiful family!

@FancyFaceDiva1 8 ай бұрын

God got you always.

@sheniquathompson6113 8 ай бұрын

You got this mama. God has graced you for this season. I definitely understand, two understand two, 20 months apart age 2 and 4. It does get better. Give yourself grace and lean not unto own understanding ❤

@c.nuvisualz9094 7 ай бұрын

Love your videos, I need that song that was playing around 16/17 min 👌🏾🎶🔥

@mesij6798 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for keeping it SO REAL!I can’t get enough! Also can you share your worship playlist?

@amberonyekwere6391 8 ай бұрын

I have been following you for a minute now and you just make me SO BEYOND excited for motherhood. And your faith is TRULY inspiring!!! May God continue to bless you and your family, in Jesus name, AMEN 💞💘✝

@Blasian21 8 ай бұрын

Heyyy Sis!! I'm so very happy and proud of you being such a good mother cleaning and getting through your day! Yesss we can overcome everything with God helping us! Praying for you and the family always God bless yall love yall!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@jarxcistkris8499 8 ай бұрын

Girl thank you for this video😘. I'm right behind you........officially 36 weeks preggars and a 15 month old😂. More 2 under 2 please!🙏 I'm a working mom though so my husband is at home for now......he was working from home before the 1st baby. But I can't work from home I'd lose my mind.....my husband enjoys working from home.

@90GoingNorse 8 ай бұрын

Yaassss Maya, I want more of these videos! I love to watch them and relate to them. Appreciate your honesty and realness ❤ Much love from the big A! 🥰

@butterscotch1972 8 ай бұрын

You’re doing such a good job and I enjoyed this vlog so much…. AS USUAL ‼️💞🫶🏽💙💞

@Gingerdesiree_ 8 ай бұрын

Girl you are doing life very well! Keep up the amazing work, life, balance ✨😍🥰♥️ we love you

@janeisajames9182 8 ай бұрын

Genesis is growing so pure and beautiful I love her so much 🥰

@kellyneww4576 8 ай бұрын

Godbless and protect ur family praise to god for ur beautiful family u guys help me so much with my spiritual path and day to day life praise to god ❤

@loved_dawn 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for reminding me that I am an overcomer!

@cheramidealwis1063 8 ай бұрын

You are such a gorgeous mum❤

@AliyaWray 7 ай бұрын

I tilt my Hat to you because I am 34 with 2 under 2! (My son is 2 now) but GIRLLLLL it is work!!! And somehow, someway we get the job done!

@angelbabyyy9324 24 күн бұрын

Aww my son name is Ezra too 🫶🏽 love these type of vlogs

@catch-upwithkachi 8 ай бұрын

God bless youuuu Maya❤❤

@LaTanyaTenice 8 ай бұрын

I loved this vlog❤It was real life and we have all been there. Great job mama❤

@yayacartii 8 ай бұрын

I’m watching this vlog and I’m like I don’t know how Maya is doing it but that reminder towards the end is how! Lol ❤ I have no kids but I would love to someday

@sandranash8539 8 ай бұрын

Okkkkkk big girl Gene done upgrade from the hi-chair to a table and chair alrighttrttt. 🎉🎉🎉 Maya, I commend you mama you make motherhood look easy breezy 💕 I have a 9 year old and a 11 month old. Pressing restart is definitely something else. But love every bit of it. ❤

@chopperr_ 8 ай бұрын

You make it look easy 🥰👏🏼love your videos! This was a great video! Blessings to you and your beautiful family 💗🙏🏼✨

@emilycamm8687 6 ай бұрын

your a lovely mommy, your doing a great job, i have a 2 and a half year old,, so similar age to little lady... difficult age, with a new born as well, your doing great !! xx

@Its_tiy 8 ай бұрын

So glad you're back Maya KZfaq is not the same without you! I love teh realness and rawness you show us of your life!! 🤍 Also does anybody know the song from 15:14??? It sounds sooo good and I cannot find it from music recognition lol! 🥲