Good son...your mom is so so lucky to have you in her life. Not every son/daughter will take care like how you do. May god bless you and your mom🙏

I love his honesty about his thoughts n feelings and then still deciding to do the right thing by her . May God bless u both 🙏❤️

I can relate when he said if there is a next life he'd want to still be his mum's child because he loves her a lot. I want to be my mum's child in my next life too. ❤️ I hope they are doing well these days.

What a beautiful son. Mother is so lucky to have him. God Bless them both.

Thank you for doing the right thing. I too, am a dementia caregiver. I used to think I was robbed of my youth but I believe God has a plan for us all.

That part when you see the people you've looked up to suddenly become weak... The people you relied on to now rely on you :(

Watching and crying at the same time- ur a good son.. wish i was like u when my parents were alive.. i miss them everyday.

I salute you Danny. You are a wonderful son. God bless you.

Brings tears to my eyes... Danny is a great man. Wish u both all the best in life.

Danny is a lovely, special human. He will have a grand heavenly reward for his care. I'm currently doing this myself. So very frustrating at times. I understand what he's saying I can never do anything right. Kiss the Empress ❣✨✝✨🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

I’m going through the same situation with my father. As you said “love, hate relationship”

You are a blessed son! May God continue to give you more love for your mum. She is lucky to have you!🙏🙏🙏👍👍❤❤❤

IN TROUBLED TIMES YOU DID YOUR BEST....YOU WILL BE BLESSED.

You are a good son, yes we need to understand dementia and learn how to deal so we can treat or respond to our parents properly and have patience and understanding . Yes there is guilt but then not all family members are equip with patience but, we do love them. Letting somebody outside the family help take care helps.

It's inspiring to watch video like this. Danny your love and caring attitude towards your Mom during her twilight years speaks volumes. God will take care of you when your time comes. Continue your good work!!!

I am now sharing my home with my mom. She does not have dementia as yet but I understand Danny’s frustration. It has been a year now and it has its ups and downs. She had her first fall a month ago and it hits close to home how quickly things can change. I appreciated your honesty especially around the “love-hate” part :) it’s not easy at times but at this point I can’t see putting my mom in a home. It’s one day at a time to enjoy and continue to make memories.

Wow, this hit home. He basically detailed my life while I took care of my parent. All the emotions he depicted was like looking in the mirror that it got me emotional.

Aww what lovely moments for Mum and son ❤ She’s stubborn but a loving mother, and her son absolutely loves her.

1:51 f-f-freaking anchovies Thought he was about to swear lmao

Thank you for sharing now I feel as tho I was reacting normal to some of the situations I was facing when I was trying to take care of my Mommy .. People who have never been through it will never understand the emotions that you go through... When Mommy passed I lost my Mom but feel as tho I also lost my child because I was parent to her also ...

She raised a good son. . .

I find the stories on this channel incredibly moving and inspiring. I find the peoples journey's relatable. The display of courage and strength is amazing.

What a story. I makes me self reflect. Thank you.

Danny, what a brave person you are. As a distant member of a person with Parkinsons, I can see the toll it takes on a family who has to deal with this 24/7. I cannot speak what is right or wrong. I can only try to be supportive of anything they want to do. I applaud your bravery and frankness. Feeling guilty, or helplessness is absolutely common. But you have given a voice where no one dares to utter.

Yr mother is very fortunate that u are taking good care of her. 👍

Amazing man! Brought me to tears ❤️

Such a beautiful story.I shed tears watching this mother /son bond.My mum is in her end stage with Alzeimers. I miss my mum talking about her childhood days in Malacca,reading dectective novels, cooking very well & even her strictness.She's quieter now,almost non verbal in St Andrew's home..90 this July,I wish her peace of heart & mind.

In our trials,our relationships and service to others we begin to see ourselves with a loving heart and compassion and begin a purposeful discovery. We need them more than they need us.

Filipinos are good taking care their oldies until their last day in the world.

Tears to my eyes watching the love of Christ in you for your mother. A shower of heavenly blessings for your good and meritorious work.

He is so courageous and strong to keep as he is. He is a true son.

watching this brought tears to my eyes, i am so touched by Danny's sincerity and love for his mum, and respect him for his sacrifice his life / career to look after mum full time, not many would do that, Danny is a real one in million with a big, beautiful heart, his mum is fortunate to have him and he is blessed to have her, i would also choose to become my own mother's son again in next life, in the end love is everything, caring for loved one is everything, nothing else matters as much, as i learn now with my own mum suffering dementia, this story resonates deeply 💞

Looking for a 1000X like button!!! I'm facing the same issue... i Mus be strong like u brother...stay BLESSED

Aw God Bless Him. He is such a loving son doing what he needs to do for his mother. I'd do the same for my mother in a heartbeat.

You should be very proud of yourself. My dad had it and it’s not easy. It’s as hard on the ga ily; sometimes it can be harder. We all think back and somehow we blame ourselves. I loved when you said that you are like friends now, xxxx

A fillial son who loves and cares for his mother unconditionally..👏👏💐

God will bless you! Your story gives me strength to care for my father who has dementia. Thank you for sharing your journey. Be strong.

Thank God blessings you and your mom always !

Yes you are amazing son of your mum ❤ God bless and give you strength

Your honesty is very inspirational. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️

You are sooo Amazing..it touches my heart.Thank you for sharing..May you be blessed in abundance ❤️

A beautiful story, a beautiful love. A gem on you tube, love from Philippines God bless

Danny, you're a lovely person and I've full empathy for both you and your mom. Your loving support must be the reason that your mom is happy and have improved appetite. God bless, Danny

Danny, I feel your pain, I'm taking care of my 84yr old mother with dementia and shes exactly like your mom, idk sometimes what to do with her but love her and do my best, I work then home to her!God said we have to care for our parents so I just pray for strength everyday, I wish you all the luck and love in the world!

Love and hate relationship. Such a good son. Thank you

Danny, I respect you. Like you, I love my Mother too. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

Danny you are doing your duties as a child. It is hard to care for mother with dementia . I have worked with dementia patients for over 20 years and they are very special patients. If you want to keep mom busy have her swept the floor, fold wash cloths r dish towels, match socks & etc. The dementia patients needs their motor skills and feel they are part of the family by helping. Their are times the will quit and come back later to finish.They have short attention spans but they are so special!!!

You are never Alone! 🙏 for sharing .

How heartbreaking, but heartwarming. This man didn’t dump her. She dedicated her life to him, and now it’s his turn. He will never need to what if himself. He has done it.Stepped up to plate.

Good Son, it just make me remember to my parents so touching, which other people there just left their old parents on the street without any responsibility .

THere so much love there ,Danny , You are good man .

good son good man. that strength and love.

Thanks for sharing your very touching story - huge RESPECT.

I love this. Brought a tear to my eye. Thank you for sharing your story.

This is what I have been through until my mum passed away on Dec 2019. Is the most painful experience in my whole life, I miss my mum every seconds.!!! I wish my mum live for whatever illness she has, at least there is still a body for me to hand her hand,hug and kiss her. But now there is nothing ! She is gone forever, I really hope to see my mum one day again, I guess only when I die, but no one can ensure that.

I like your art too Danny 👍❤️

Good son. God bless you🙏🏻

It is very important that the family aware of the elder whom have dementia and attending course, now we all could learn online. I my self a care giver to My Mother in Law from February 2020. For the Early stages of Dementia they are 3 important thing's to caregiver "NOT TO DO" 1 Do not correcting. 2 Do not Argue. 3 Do not test.

God bless ..x

Aww so beautifully said... xxx

Blessed souls to have each other🙏🏼🌺🙏🏼🌺🙏🏼🌺

Thank u, shes very lucky to have u.. wish my kids do it for me also...

You have my deepest prayers and sympathy! Love you Danny from the U.S.

Thank u v much. Half yr ago we all got paranoid with mum's dementia. After viewing your video we had hope. We followed u & changed our method of caring with patience, love, humour & understanding. Elderly mum has since recovered well. As a nonya, likes colourful art too. Where to view your work? Previous links dont work anymore. Warmest regards to u & elderly mum 😀

He’s very nice, the story from this channel always inspiring

His love is still there, he’s a good son, and I would be proud to have a son like that.

Getting help is the key. My mother' symptoms start changing rapidly after neurologist appt 3 years ago showing mild cognitive appt. Getting angry, throwing things, etc does not help. I have attended to my mother's needs as a teenager. She has limited English and doesnt drive. We live in Australia. She is now referred to geriatric section for over 65's. Let them assess and sort her out. I'm no dr. I just seek help

Wonderful son

i had a love hate relationship with my mom but she passed from cancer only 5 months after her diagnosis in 2018. I miss her everyday and i wish that if there is reincarnation, i would choose to be my mom's child again.

In buddhism taking care of your parents is very great good karma, especially mother who grew up children without expect in return so we as their children must give our best to them. One more thing, as buddha said : we and our parent have live together in many life before and there is nothing happen incidentally in this world.

My tears somehow rolled watching this. A filial son indeed!

We are in the shoes... thanks for sharing .

i am going through this at the moment and I SO GET YOU!!! X

You did the right thing, I knoe

You, do your best bro💪👍❤

I don’t know what to say, but I wanted to acknowledge what you are going through. 🤗❤️

Viewing the video, its unlikely that she started dementia in 2015 or 2014. The video showed that she was already in stage 2. The final stage is stage 3 (3A, 3B, 3C). By end of stage 2, she would not recognize her family members. By stage 3A, she would not be able to hold a spoon or fork to put things into her mouth. Stage 3B is when she would not be able to swallow any solid food such as rice. In stage 3C, she would even lose her instinctive skill of swallowing, and liquid food has to be pumped in or intravenous in. Let her enjoy while she can. Continue to be very strong, caregiver.

There is a lot of pain and frustrations feeling so helpless watching your loved one like disappearing from you day by day, and just sleep away day and night and their mind in a fog confusion when awake , it really is very tough being a caregiver as it breaks your heart over and over again and the guilt feeling when you lose your temper out of frustrations the worst thing is knowing it will only get worse there can be no happy ending ultimately , the caregiver needs a llot of care and support to do this job - which is why many wont and have no capacity or courage to do it will leave it to a home nursing

The hate is to the disease. We went through this as well. It can be hard to separate the two at times

Good son.

My grandma staring into nothingness is what makes me guilty too.

Your a very good son 💙

my mom is like that and I also like the same with the man very sad and discretion but I am very positive to face my mom cause she is my best love in the world and I will take care of her until the end of the day. ❤

I really feel for him

Take care of your family god bless you

DEAR DANNY.. TQVVM 4 SHARIN DIS WONDRFUL JOURNEY OF YOURS.. U R A SAINT SENT FRO ABOVE.. A NOBLE DUTY OF A SON..🙈🙉🙊❌🔴❌🔴❌🔴👩‍👧

Can't stop crying

Honest to his feelings..😊 its hard to ne honest,but u open yourself...

Breaks are good for everyone.

my mom had a left leg fractured almost a year.. taking care of her sinced it happened..but i just noticed 4 days ago that something wrong about her ...when i told her Mom i have to go to market buy foods for you.. then she told me WHO ARE YOU? she did not know me at all. NOw all my life i am giving to her because i love my mom so much,, i hope she will be ok with the help of our ALMIGHTY GOD.

I can relate to him really much.. 😢

God bless

What a great son ❤❤😍🙏🥰

i feel u brother

What a beautiful son.

Great son

God bless 🙏

Hi.I understands everything you say, cause im looking after my husband...also dont want to eat and drinks a little ....its very hard to live and look after a diamentia person.❤

Caretakers have the hardest job in the world. He is a good son.

This is what my helper and I going thru...But at least his mom's mobility is still good!! My mom has parkinson and has difficulty in walking etc. Only people or caregivers that face these dementia patients understand that it is HARD!!! Especially like this guy said she thinks she is MATRIACH😞