In this conversation, we discuss moving stories about unemployment, suicide and homelessness. The definition of family and the importance of truly caring about others are also mentioned. The importance of connections between people for survival motivation is discussed, as well as the balance between surviving alone and staying connected to others. At the same time, it was also mentioned that society needs relevant policy input to establish this connection.
Deaths in the family and the emotions of facing death are discussed. It was decided to rent a single mourning hall where the mother could communicate with relatives and friends every day and vent her emotions. The discussion also touches on the complex emotions of running away from problems and coming to terms with life and death.
Facing the complex emotions of a loved one dying and the difficulty of death. They shared their experiences and feelings, emphasizing that facing death is a difficult and important subject. The issue of cooperating with parents' wishes was discussed, and the mother's belief in some strange folk remedies and herbs was mentioned. The complex relationship between love and hate is discussed, as well as the impact of actions on fate. Cases of domestic violence are also mentioned, emphasizing the importance of emotional memory.
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Most people think that he has seen too many lives and deaths and has already seen everything through. However, in the process of reading his words and talking to him, I feel that he has seen all the ups and downs at the bottom of life and is extremely affectionate for this world. .
I saw articles and articles on his social media about the real situation in society. He led a group of people, rolled up their sleeves, and went deep into places that were dirty and full of stench that no one dared to enter. The body was taken out and the environment was cleaned.
Lu Lala, who graduated from the Department of Life Sciences, was a funeral director and a ritualist, and is now one of the founders of a special cleaning company.
This profession is very rare in Taiwan and is shrouded in mystery. Before meeting Lu Lala, I had accumulated many questions in my mind. When we met earlier that day, I had a burger in my hand and had dinner. Chatting with him, he said that he had just finished a body-receiving job in the afternoon and that the deceased had been dead for many days. Then he opened the photo album on his mobile phone and showed us the photos. I was so frightened that I didn’t know whether to continue swallowing the burger in my hand.
Received the new book "Life Organizer" from the publisher dreamstore.info/30SU_
Author: Lu Lala
Lu Lala mentioned in the book: "Living in the human world is called the human world only when we live among people."
Yes, in this era of increasing alienation between people, we are all in the world, but we do not live among people.
My heart broke at the end of this episode. I kept myself steady during the recording process, but in the end I still broke down unprofessionally. Please be careful when listening to this episode.
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00:00:00 - There are CC subtitles, remember to click on them
00:01:08 - Welcome life organizer - Lu Lala
00:03:04 - I am a relic organizer!
00:04:35 - Why choose the funeral industry?
00:05:29 - What is the nature of etiquette?
00:08:23 - What is the nature of a funeral?
00:12:55 - I met Mrs. Li Cang during my internship! ?
00:18:47 - Cleaning up the devastation in the world and cleaning up the hearts of Huntun
00:22:47 - Youxi Social Innovation - not only cleans the floor, but also cleans the soul
00:24:31 - What happened when you went from being a slave to money to being a life organizer?
00:28:22 - So this is our value! ?
00:30:38 - How do you regulate your emotions when you see life and death?
00:33:48 - Perhaps death is the greatest relief?
00:41:10 - What happened behind the tragedy?
00:50:10 - What is the meaning of life?
01:02:57 - Why spend effort on vulnerable cases?
01:07:45 - I also have feelings on the road to death!
01:14:54 - What is the definition of family?
01:21:54 - This society is sick! ? Let me be a shot in the arm!
01:29:32 - I’m a human being and I have my downs too!
01:30:45 - Bag after bag is not garbage, but traces of the past
01:35:08 - Why do people forgive others?
01:41:06 - Social connections and living alone don’t have to conflict! ?
01:44:23 - Facing death, my last wish: Actually, I want to go home...
01:49:00 - Faced with death, no matter how strong a person is, he will run away!
01:53:02 - The death of a family member showed me the existence of emotions!