Love that guy, but Mikhaila you absolutely nailed it, women are not a monolith and even my MGTOW philosophy needs to recognize that. Thank You

​@@sweetbobbybliss you women sacrifice the happiness of your own children for yourself. It's so insanely selfish and horrible. It's like your kids don't even come into the equation at all.

@@HoodrichShinobi So all men and all women are the same? All men deserve to be in their childrens life? All women do too? That's news to me. Last time I checked anyone can be doing shit to their children when nobody's around. It's ignorant to say such a thing. Some men don't deserve to see their children. Along with some mother's. Sometimes it is in the child's best interest to be away from one parent. My parents were happily married, I'm happily married, with a daughter and we'll always work it out together and yes for her. But that's something we both agreed to. You can't force someone else's hand in things. And I know growing up my friend who's parents would fight were always so depressing to even be around. And last time I checked, it's up to God to judge. Not us internet warriors. ☝🏻 Do you even have kids? Do you actually respect your wife? Do you watch porn while in a relationship? Glance at women's cleavage? Cause a child seeing all of that is just as bad as the child seeing the mom hoe around. Both are saying the other parent isn't good enough. All I'm saying is your grass better be the absolute Greenest if you're coming at anyone like that. ☝🏻🙄

@@HoodrichShinobi “imma do what’s right for me”

@@HoodrichShinobi Wait do you know her? Does she even have children? That's just strange your making all kinds of presumptions about a commenter that have nothing to do with the comment. Women are not the same. Almost every single mother I know is now married.

Plenty of hotter single moms out there, and their lives are dumpster fires🔥. U marry a single mom you're connected to her previous decisions in life forever

Did you hear her speak? You want that harping on you for the next 40 years? She’d be making your list of chores constantly. No thanks. I’d rather die… LOL!

@Steve D omg what's up with all the trolls on this channel...

@@holistic.health attractiveness is very subjective my boy

@@HisFanciness I'm a girl actually... and are you saying she's not??? Mikhaila is beautiful inside and out...

Must just happen to woman, cause im 24 and in my last 14 years i didnt hear it once, you understand that?

Yeah shit’s cringe.

@@vynd287 you’re sad

@@eclipse98100 must be hard to not understand, you get that?

Consider the source.

Yes, some barely want to look after their own!

People are in love with the notion of a perfect family but in reality unless you’re mature enough and financially stable a child often breaks couples up. I have previously been pursued by a single mum but I’ll be honest I didn’t really want to be anyone’s stepdad when I didn’t have kids myself and you go straight into the relationship having to be a father as the kids biological dad did the bare minimum and was always with its mother. But I did the right thing and didn’t mess with her knowing I had no intention of taking it further than fun. There’s loads of guys that do take advantage by dangling the relationship carrot.

Fact. It's like cleaning fluids after a party you weren't invited to and being expected to pay anyway.. Gross.

And your choice for not wanting a woman with a child is valid. That doesn’t mean another man even without children thinks the same. Ive known various women with multiple children marry men without children and they even take care of them like their own and are very happy. Life is full of surprises and you can’t box anyone in.

@@delcarmen1377 You re confusing possibility and probability. It's possible to win the lottery twice... The probability is too low to stop working because it "can happen". Just like dating sm... It ends up in disaster way too often to consider it as a viable option.

I mean women also don’t want men with children. Single fathers are low value as well to women. Indeed it’s harsh reality.

Wrong

I'll take a mature mom with kids and her own career and life skills over a single gym thot any day

@@lorenaroma😂 how would u know? You’re not a man. Men don’t dream one day to marry a woman who has kids from another man, it’s not the first preference

If I'm a young guy, in college and never been in a relationship, why would I not want a woman with a clean past as well? It's so disgusting that men are forced to marry women they find unattractive. Women are not attracted to single dads and it's perfectly fine. It's just the way it is. If you are a single mom/dad, find someone who's a single mom/dad as well.

Undervalued comment

Why? It's the truth.. Its biology. We humans are geared to think this way biologically to procreate.. Why procreate with someone who already has kids? That's competition and a potential hit on the longevity of a connection by the woman flip flopping and a waste on energy. A woman at 30 often has around 100,000-150,000 eggs in reserve. By 35, that number is likely around 80,000. Late into the thirties, that number could be 25,000, 10,000, or fewer. Women at the time of birth have about 1 million eggs and at the time of puberty have 300,000. Only 300 to 400 will be ovulated during their lifetime. Eggs once damaged or ovulated do not grow back. In terms of survival the best option would be to procreate with 19-25 year olds which has been done since the beginning of man because it was the best chance for survival and passing genes. You dont have to like it, but it is what it is.

It’s value in the dating market. Something you clearly don’t understand

So in a zombie apocalypse if you had to choose between an able bodied man or a teenage girl to be in your survival group, who would you choose. Obviously, the man because he has more overall value to your success. Stop being triggered by words and listen to the message.

Thank you kind person 👍

😂 Love it ! !

💯

Single women with kids are less attractive to men. Not hard to figure out.

@@relaxingsounds1386 and that's a problem. Nobody is less than anyone. It's bullshit. Single mothers already have enough on their plate, they don't need people like YOU making them feel less than. If anything, I look up to single mothers. They work hard BY THEMSELVES to provide a good life for their kid(s) So, stop being a prick, open your eyes, and being fucking respectful.

Hahaha, not on the same line, not same sympathy

Very true

So what. There is no way you believe every man instantly knows what your problems are. So therefore, all things EQUAL childless women are more valuable than single moms.

​@@morpheus2072Indeed, but thats kinda the point: unless you're widowed or something like that, you're not really a "single mom." It USED to be that the phrase "single mom" DID mean something bad happened to the mother: husband died or left/abused her. Now we know that's not the case, and there really should be a distinction between a 304 and a woman who was dealt a bad hand

If course, you'd be a fool to take her word on that " abusive, cheating" thing. Always find out the whole story. Remember, to her the man is always in the wrong.

No

No it proves him right even more. She contradicted everything she said by getting married. She found someone she was Familiar with

Didn't she get divorced?

@@cephas5053 yep

For real! They both look like Disney characters 💗💗

@@Serpents_and_Doves she got divorced before this interview, and then she recently remarried someone else.

Cause he couldn't do better

poor guy

Stay blessed

​@@mikitesfaye8079 are jelous no woman wants you..

And who the fuck wants a divorced man? 😂

"Dudes don't wanna play another dude's saved game."

Every single women thinks she's different and says the same thing. Men do not care about IQ. No woman is happy by herself past 35.

But to cling so strongly to the fact that people are unique that it’s impossible for you to understand generalizations is counterproductive.

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It's not about all women being the same, it's about standard base line of attributes that people look for in choosing a mate. There is always exceptions but exceptions are always in the minority. Anyone who travels alot, has children, is financially unstable, has severe health problems, large amount of debt, history of being unfaithful, been divorced, has many short lived relationships and so on will have more difficulty in securing a high value mate. I'm not suggesting she qualifiies for all of those, just offering some examples. Without context, these are considered red flags and typically correlate with higher probability of resulting in a failed relationship. Again, it has absolutely nothing to do with marginalizing or generalizing women, and everything to do with individuals (men and women) analyzing risk with pair bonding.

The idea that, that’s what he mean is silly.

Nah not really. Most people always end up with somebody

It's not limited we have to be cautious because we can't be in relationships with just anyone or with bird brain dumb men! We have to have strong men with a back bone that treat us with respect.

@princesskf5157 of course you have to be cautious especially with under age children in the mix, goes without saying. But never the less the options are limited especially when it comes to men with plenty of them or men of a certain caliber.

@@princesskf5157 what I find funny is you didn’t care about any of the STRONG MAN talk when you gave your womb to another man. Men are not stupid. If it was that easy then you would see more and more single mothers getting married but they aren’t. Why would a man with option settle for taking care of another man’s child. Yes SOME will do it just like SOME WIN THE lottery but I’m Not going to bank on it.

Yes, they are limited.... that's a fact. But she is pretty and smart. So she does have that going for her. So it doesn't mean Mikhaila can't find someone....but it is limited.

That’s nothing to do with this man’s argument. He never suggested that single mothers can’t attract any men.

@@Gumpmachine1 he suggested that they were of “less value”. That is nonsense. The whole premise of value being based on external criteria is superficial and insulting. After I was a single parent, my value did not change. The number of men interested in me was lower than it was in my 20’s, but I don’t need or want to waste my time with most of those yahoos anyway. Why should I care about men who don’t truly “see” me? I don’t want a man who only loves me because I fit a criteria of what society deems valuable.

@@jenpoole7291 doesn’t matter what you think your value is because you don’t decide that, the market dictates that which is men because they’re the one’s that are going to have to date you. All men and women put value’s on each other, I absolutely guarantee you’ve got some expectations from the men you date, men that can’t met those expectations are less valuable to you for maté selection. Only attractive women get the luxury of living in a Disney fairytale, try being fat, bald, broke and a man, your opinion will change real quick. Women will often use “cope” to deal with this reality by pretending they didn’t want these types of men anyway because they can’t accept their decline in sexual value.

@@Gumpmachine1 Response to your now deleted comment “This is what women tell themselves to feel better….” I disagree. How one sees their own value is everything. This nonsense about what society sees as valuable is ego based and shallow. I don’t find having the attention of a lot of men to be a massive benefit. As a young attractive women I was hit on a lot. Men would shape shift to pretend to have shared interests or lie to try to impress me. That was horrible and heartbreaking. I didn’t know my value and put up with a lot of nonsense. After my, let’s call it “societal value”, went down, because I was divorced and had 2 kids at 38, I went inward. I discovered my real value. Now I have an awesome partner who sees me for the depth of my character, my insight, empathy and intelligence. Yeah. He is attracted to me too, but he doesn’t make me feel like a prize breeding mare. The men on here defending this line of thinking are buying into extremely ego based thinking. I feel sorry for the “high value” women who they might manage to persuade to be with them. People find love based on shared values and heart centered connection. Anything else is ego driven and doomed to misery.

@@jenpoole7291 I’ll just be straight, your beauty gets the men to notice you. Even you admitted your partner finds you attractive. Do you honestly think he’d be hanging around for your intelligence if you weren’t attractive? Cmon now

amen

I would expect a 35 year old to have kids with maybe 2 guys by time they're that age. It looks worse when they're 20 or 21 with kids by 2 or 3 guys already.

As if that is common but at the same time you are also implying the one that has 20 kids is automatically going with a bunch of different guys and couldn’t possibly be with one guy or you just assume she’s that attractive to have that many dudes lining up for her 😆

Ofcourse. Who the hell wants to pay for another man's ejaculate?

@@rafewheadon1963 not simping. It could mean she's a modest woman. You would have to look for other indicators or red flags to make a full assessment. But all I'm saying is that a woman without kids is preferable to one with kids.

He is absolutely correct. She's responding to a general truth with a standard female defensive tactic, "i'm not like other women".

As a man the number of women I've discounted because they are single mothers is vast. You're looking for the best out of a hundred. Sorry to tell you but if 50 of them have kids already it's the easiest decision ever to discard them. The only men considering those women are the desperate ones that few women pay any attention to.

He's right is exactly what the government wants. Congrats

​@@elidyson256 The government wants stable families and not women married to the state? What?

Some men actually want children and cannot have them, and are happy to have a built-in family. Hey enjoy being a manly man and a dad. (No, I’m not a mom, but I’ve seen it happen fairly often enough). That’s because not all men are as shallow as our little friend here.

@@misskim2058 Sure that's true, but I think most logical people in that situation would rather just adopt, instead of having to deal with another man in the situation who also has the right to see his kids.

@@misskim2058 exactly. I've met a couple men that can't have kids. I'm literally young right now, fertile and don't want kids. Men need to stop this spreading this rhetoric. There are a lot of women like me. Half my friends do not want kids at all or want to in their 30s. They better start thinking of single mom's because they won't have any kids at all.

@@misskim2058 You're literally talking about a super minority of men that are infertile. That's not a great basis for an argument. @NoName Having no kids is the same as raising someone else's. It's not my blood.

My friend met his wife when she had a five year old and a new baby - he instantly fell in love with the children and saw them as a bonus - they were happy married for over 40 years

Single dads are looked upon ever worse most times because it puts out the idea that hes a bad mate. Men dont care as much about mste status as women do.

I’d say his value drops aswell although not as much as the woman because of multiple reasons. But women in general are more likely to take single fathers then men would take single mothers. Most men don’t want a single mother and for a good reason too. Cope more

@@homiixide the data shows men are far more likely to date single mothers then the inverse.

@@ajjohn8729 if by date you mean smash or have a temporary relationship to smash then yeah but to wife them up or marry no

Why so emotional? He just said LESS valuable.

No use. The delusional comments already got pushed to the top.

Beta men will raise other woman’s children. Lol

It's not that men hate kids, it's that most men would prefer to raise their own children instead of someone elses

He got to play make believe. If he didn’t father those children he’s not their “dad”.

You said all that and then ended it with such a narrow take.

​@cookncrook6902 so adoption doesn't make you a parent?

There are social problems, some of us aren’t bothered with, but western society as a whole is going down the drain.

Bingo

This trend of “high value” status will fade away along with other trends. But sure I get it.

Thank you!

Abso bloody lutey - finally - Thank you

There’s always some simp who will clean up the mess but that isn’t truely who you are attracted to.

@@Gumpmachine1it’s not as black and white as you make it out. there’s a long list of rich, successful men that have been cheated on and divorced by their wives. and tons of young, attractive women that have been treated terribly by so called “high value men”…. the grass is greener where you water it, and not all women want or need the same things to be happy.

Poor guy. If he marries you and it ends I'm sure you won't take your cash and prizes

As a foreign virgin girl, what this tells me is that women always lose. Even if we do what men say to do we lose. Even if we wait til marriage and have kids with a guy (AS YALL SAY WE SHUD) if he decides one day to walk out, we are left devalued? Cuz we have a body and kids. Yeah no. This type of shii always assures that men get all the advantages and women get disadvantage possible. And then American men wonder why women there dont wanna marry and have kids.

You didn't listen! No one is saying , no man wants a single mother! What there saying is that men prefer a woman without children . Women who have children USUALLY have to settle for simps. Simps cant get tens , so they take what they can get! I figure you and your misses are on the scale from 1 to ten,,,,, a 4. But as long as your happy , that's all that matters!

You haven't met many women then.

@@Billy-bc8pk thank you hope you put your super powers of knowing fuck all to good use

It's an automatic no if the girls been married before and has kids by that said marriage iam happy this dude found someone but some guys are not willing to accept just anything

@@bateseanderson2667 thanks for holding my wife with such distain but totally agree guys are not willing to except just anything thats why I married this women thought that was obvious

Yeah, that was what confused me as well... This clip feels kinda out of place if that were true.

Guys that is an interview from before she married. It is an example for Single moms to let them know they shouldnt be looking for anything but instead value themselves and be hapoy by themselves and the eventually the man who will value both her and her child will cross your path. Just live your life and do your thing and the right person will appear

Did you see the husband. Looked like her younger brother.

@@LanaK7777 what, already 😳, so was the kid from a previous relationship

@@cristybello that’s my life right now as a single father with full custody

The bible commands us men to marry non-virgins. Thank you for saying it.

Christ was the Son of God, not the Son of Bob 😂

You spelled virtuous wrong. I think you meant to say gullible.

So god created 100 billion blessings for humans? Then it can´t be a blessing if everyone can have 10 of them.

That’s a great narrative for women to spin, reality is that’s a really terrible deal for men

Lining up for her for her dad, you sound rlly weird lmao. Make sense pls

She's the biggest reason to question everything he says.

@@213jugg8 It’s because a lot of men want women with more traditional values

@@jc4388 Cain and Abel have the same parents.... I have three children they've all turned out differently. What exactly is your point?

@@denisedecker7330 You understand that Cain and Abel is just a story/myth, right? 🤣

Every rule has an exception 😢

Imagine the guy she would haven gotten if she was t a single mother divorced

cos noone in real life cares about this stuff, people don't go around with their calculators adding up points

No, this is after she married a handsome, intelligent successful man, had a kid (kids?) with him ... and then divorced him and went and hung out with a bunch of balloon-animal guys from the gym. (Apologies if I got that wrong - google says she had a kid with her (now) ex-husband in 2017) Sources: just google "Mikhaila Peterson gym" and "Mikhaila Peterson children" and you'll see. That's not to say she's wrong and the guy in the video is right, just that this isn't a hypothetical discussion - at least not for her. The guy in the video is making an 'all else being equal' comparison between two theoretical women in the dating pool, who are both valuable human beings - but one has kids and the other doesn't. And the guy is saying that the one without kids is going to have an easier time of it finding a high value guy (whatever TF that might mean) because those kind of guys will prefer the woman without kids. I think the argument can be made without reference to 'value' - simply by saying that (again - all else being equal) dating a woman without kids is fundamentally less complicated than dating a woman with kids. It's not that the woman or the kids are bad, it just (self-evidently) makes the scenario a lot more complicated. The problem is that in these discussions a lot of these internet pundits talk at cross purposes. The guys talk about women's 'dating-value', and the women they're talking to don't hear that, they hear 'value-as-a-person'. And _of course_ everyone has equal value as a person, so to them the stuff the guys is saying is clearly non-sensical. Here Mikhaila is taking that typical confusion and compounding it by being unable to understand the form of an 'all else being equal' argument -> which given who her father is is an astonishing comprehension failure on her part. I think though if you understand that the topic is a lot more personal for her than for the guy she's talking to, then it makes sense that she would indeed filter the message through a morass of emotional stuff and it gets twisted like that. As for her split with ex-hubby, as far as I'm aware she hasn't really talked about it (except in this clip), and that (AFAICT) the ex didn't want to divorce, she was the one that was driving it. The problem is when she says she was unhappy and decided to end it ... that could cover everything from she was subject to horrific abuse to she was bored and/or thought she could do better. So she could be upset because she (as the vulgar saying goes) 'fucked around and found out' (perhaps even literally), and thus she's upset that her decision has consequences. Or at the other extreme she could be upset that something horrible happened to her, she got out of it, and now that she's out she doesn't like that (through no fault of her own) she's now locked out of a certain portion of the dating spectrum and thus unfairly denied.

She got banged out by Andrew Tate.

Truth is UGGLEE

Find a man who's a single dad. Don't expect a good looking guy who's fresh out of college to find you attractive.

​@@Auror2k05 Not even single dad's want a single mom. The woman isn't going to contribute anything financially towards the single dads child, but he will be expected to contribute to her child. No thanks.

@@Auror2k05 She never said she exspected but there are single good looking men who have no problem stepping up and being a father to someone’s else kids especially if they love the mother. Also it’s probably for the best for the man to not be young in average younger men have less experience money and maturity then older men of usual dad age

@@ENDtheFED-it4bo Do you have a statistic on such? Because single women with kids make more money so do single men with kids. If they get together they both can bring higher income. The average Single women with kids make more money wives. A single male parent also needs to know that the average young women would not be the best position to help take care of his kids.

No you are uneducated most remarry

i notice the skinny single moms have no problem remarrying. the overweight ones do

I did. To a man who's madly in love with me. :D

@@alejandrafournier8384 statistically speaking, you are an anomaly. the amount of 40+ year old single women with kids i have noticed is skyrocketing. for every one that was able to remarry there are 10 that have pretty much already accepted the fact that they are going to be alone indefinitely. they will have this vague notion of "if the right man comes along" then describe a guy that frankly doesn't exist, and the caliber of men they are able to attract they are disgusted by.

​@@user-in2qx7cv3s Women in these echo chambers, living in the delusion of EXCEPTION rather than the general reality... If she LOOKED like Jordan Peterson's daughter- and had her status and money to boot- YES, her chances are _JUST A BIT_ higher than some emotionally-strained single mom with baby weight, day job at Starbucks, tattoo on her calf, and haughty ex-baby daddy lurking around.

But u can hear bigger ego than her dads

​@@madzerincognito9732 no, I disagree. she was just stating facts.

An it kinda sounds like dr evil

Although the irony is her dad would probably agree this other guy isn't completely wrong.

@@richardpatterson4312 Not at all. She says she’s not a moron implying people with around 100 IQ or less (the overwhelming majority of the world) are morons compared to her. She then says she’s fairly attractive even though everything about her that is attractive (physically) seems fake (make up, died hair, lip fillers, eyelashes, fake tan, fake boobs ect ect). Would you still say that’s just a statement of fact with no ego involved?

Unless they're widows, single mothers are automatically degraded. Same for single dads, but not as severe.

What's wrong with preferring women without children? If you ask men 99% would prefer the woman that doesn't already have all the baggage. Nothing wrong with preferences

He simply explaining why a large majority of men DONT want women with kids and wild expectations on top of that and if they aren't meant the woman is happy to die alone lol

You're taking on kids that arent yours for her to leave you in a few years

@@user-nj1zu2nf1x did you read the comment? They quite literally explained preference and said it was okay.

she is married now

@@yhiontopshe’s fortunate, not every girl gets that opportunity again. Now other girls are going to think she pulled it off so can I.

As if a womans money or being "like super smart" is what actual men seek.

@@russeanfolts4820she’s saying that to make the point that she doesn’t need a guy with tons of money as she has her own. not every woman needs a gucci bag and massive house from a guy to wake up happy every day. the grass is greener where you water it.

Giving facts is not insulting someone

It wasn’t for no reason, she was conducting a interview and asked for his input on this subject because he’s well known for talking about this stuff

She had to insult (childless) normal women with an average iq's. The aggression had to go somewhere and she knew directing it towards Rollo would have made her look weak.

Well he was telling her the truth

@@user-fi2mu5yx6zit is an opinion. Not a fact 😂

Your dad's a bitch

Oh god that must’ve been hell on your father I pray he grows up and realizes his wife isn’t the one if she got divorced she’ll get divorced again well thank god I don’t got a kid like you I would’ve blown my brains out if I got married to a woman with no value

She was very lucky. Specially this day and age. Where life is just so expensive. Its hard for you to marry someone who already has a child and you will have to support. Even in the animal kingdom they kill of the offsprings when a new alpha is in charge.

@@hmmmjamz9348 incel

@@hmmmjamz9348 thank God we ain't animals. Phew.

she ended up being a single mom really doesn't put much on her statement

@@LOBOTOMINIZER😂😂😂

Men don’t care so doesn’t help her case

Lol

My most sincerest condolences for your loss and may God bless you another best friend🙂❤️❤️❤️🙂

Women are far worse nowadays, marriage is a bad deal for men

​@@jamespratt7627 wtf bro 😂😂😂😂

I am So sorry Jill. My fiancé just passed away on Valentines Day too. And my daughters and I are devastated. He was/is our Rock. I’m crying for You. 💔💜💜💜

Regardless of attractiveness too. Lol this isn’t rocket science

Same goes for guys with kids from a previous relationship. Good thing society is set up that we all don’t need to settle and can choose to either be single or choose someone’s whose unique qualities make us want to be with them whatever the package. Yay for autonomy and society where women can be independent, earn what they need for their families and not have to choose men who think like it’s a meat market.

That’s true, but it is always used as a means of talking down on women. That’s the issue.

Harder not impossible. And it all depends. I’m an average looking woman in her mid-40’s. Single Mom. Financially stable. I have oodles of men, mostly single Dads, pursuing me. It’s all about phases of life. A 50 year old single Dad isn’t chasing 25 year old woman who wants kids some day. He’s built his family. He wants sex and companionship. And like Mikhaila, I’m comfortable alone in the event I don’t find the right person.

​@@kaylee7518cap af 🧢

Right on

Rolo Tomosi is a married man. Has been in the game as well. Has entire male blog and books made for men by men.

Men and women’s quest for superiority has just gone next level. I don’t know what the fuck you all are talking about, no one is inferior for any reason, I personally would look to a the way a single mother is with her child as a form of compatibility for me. A kind loving smother is something I look for,just as much a a kind loving single women. Your predetermined out come for me, based of your experience, as much as it is, is determined by your own trauma, that ended your relationships, and is now seeking to dictate the outcome of mine. So warped.

I mean yea but he’s right tho lol

I think these type of men "get off" on rejecting single mothers. It makes him feel like a 5 instead of a 2. To say that to her, of all people, shows his emotional intelligence is not something to be proud of. 😂😂😂

Find one with no kids and go younger.

What is causing you to date single mothers? Are you not wanting your own children?

I hope you'd find the one, kids or no kids.

these answers are very weird. Not every young woman also wants a very old guy. There is a maturity issue. Smart person usually looks for someone similar in intelligence/wise level.

Keep on trying for younger and no kids, buddy. Hopefully you got the muscles, money and masculinity to see it through. Its much better than 'settling' as it shows a lack of respect on both sides. Also, consider getting some bloodwork done, I had this "wishy washy" attitude for a long time til it got fixed.

I dont have any of those in my friend group. Theres a bunch of women with baby daddys that i knew from high school who are still single at 30.

Guys like this old, boring, unattractive man in the video act like this cant possibly happen

Those men are called fools

I'm one of them. I was divorced with 4 kids. My husband now was divorced, no kids, my age. He married us. Like all humans, we all have had things to learn about getting along with each other, which takes time and patience, but he loves us and we love him, and we have a child together whom the older ones adore. It's true, even if it took work. Look for people with quality regardless of their situation. Then work together.

Imagine raising another man’s kids… Biggest cuck move possible

But she's not famous. She's riding on her father's coat tails.

Men don’t care about famous Woman care about famous

Who is she?🤣🤣🤣🤣

What? are you even female? speak for yourself.

​​@@christopheredwards452 who said she has a father?

😂😂😂 MOST men aren’t worth dating bro! Good way to weed em out I say!

Mom divorced w 2 small kids waay back had no prob remarrying a good guy st 40. Still rockin after 45 yrs. Sister, divorced w 2 kids, remarried great guy at 39. Together 10 yrs. Cousin, widowed w 3 older kids. Remarried in her 40s. Together at least 20 yrs.

And I'm a single mom who doesn't deal with men. Lol. So no hard feelings there.

@@sxwrtr918 exceptions, do not make the rules

@@kingkufu3122 Of course they don't. But these convenient pop assumptions are not hard and fast 'rules.' They are prevailing beliefs by certain types of people that sometimes prove untrue.

She sounds just like Jordan. Mannerisms and all.

Shell NEVER be Jordan

@@Brian-vk6tz nobody said she was trying to be??

@@vkkoyna7776 a lot of people think this average chick sounds like the great Jordan Peterson

@@Brian-vk6tz 💯

If we were JP's daughter (and looked that good) we wouldn't have to either.

The white Kevin Samuels

Just because they were willing to date your mom or sleep with her doesn’t mean they were willing to marry her and support her kids.

That's because they are simps

but be honest, were the men who were throwing themselves at your mom attractive and worth dating?

Yes we know. There are lot of Neanderthal men that want another man's used up roast beef sandwich. It's gross tbh.

She is like a 4

@@rickrossi7426 🤣🤣

These things work or not depending on you are a facer of realities or a whiner about it... Guess which one Mikhaila is .. and which one you are.

@@thesarasohrabi the whiner one?

What's your point?

Very condescending indeed. Seems like he may not know who she is and who her father is and how grounded this young lady is.

That guy sounds like such a POS - poor woman whoever dated or married him

@@MsAponte69 So her father adds a bigger value. Problem she is not like most women who are watching her and perhaps listening to her advice. Most normal women who are single moms are not rich, good looking and do not have a famous father. She is exception not a rule.

Missed the point. A man who wants to start his own family and not take on yours is looking for a younger woman without kids. Not a woman whose older with kids. Simple simple. It's a general point and simple to get

Rollo is an interesting guy with interesting ideas, but he can be fantastically condescending at times.

He takes away the complexity of life which is kind of dehumanizing

Thank God for simps like this. There's no man sitting around thinking can't wait to meet a woman who has kids already. None

@@pekoml3999 no it's very simple Missed the point. A man who wants to start his own family and not take on yours is looking for a younger woman without kids. Not a woman whose older with kids. Simple simple. It's a general point and simple to get

@@christopheryouhanna9005 I completely understand this point but let's not reduce ourselves to statistics, being a 30 yo single mother didnt prevent Mikhaila from marrying again recently, with a rich good looking man. It's more complicated than being young and childless. Looks, connection, life story etc matter too in the modern world. That's why it's so difficult to date these days, and may be why many people marry several times. When you feel good with someone you dont want to look else where. But yeah the safest option is always to date someone with no kids, I am 24, I wouldnt want to be with a much older man that already has kids and a past etc.

@@manniefresh3425 the only time you would do that is if your desperate, OR if the single mom is rich and famous and attractive like Mikaela

Trying to snap them out of their collective delusion is next to impossible. Reality is not where they choose to reside.

#1 That's why men adopt children when they want to maintain a relationship with them #2 When a women leaves a man because she is unhappy she rarely goes back, being alone is easier than being unhappy

Always going to be that "You can't say/do that to MY child!" on tap, as a last resort... And as the kid grows up, of course, "You're not my real dad, so...x, y, z".

I COMPLETELY AGREE.

Point proven...... 😂

Thanks for the heads up I will stay single 😊

A lot of male pedophiles will marry single moms just to get closer to the kids too.

As someone who as a child was in a parent/step-parent situation….why not allow the child’s parent to actually parent?? I get it, anger and hatred are strong emotions, but the child shouldn’t have to pay the price of two parents that can’t set their personal feelings aside for the benefit of the children they created together.

He's not talking about intrinsic value, He's talking about value as a potential mate. From a man's point of view, considering long term involvement with a woman and pouring all your future resources into raising another man's child is not to be taken lightly.

Value needs to be proven, respect needs to be earned, and no one really cares about your feelings, that's life

That wreaks of feminine energy. Fact is, men have preferences, just like you do, when looking for a partner. And single mommies are not high on their preference list. They're telling you this and then you "womansplain" their preferences away by using emotional non sequiturs. No one is saying you can't value yourself. Men are saying single mommies are not high on their preference scale.

No, a PERSON really is not. Deluded Western people operate under the fantasy that all life is valuable simply for existing but this is only a perspective cultivated through a dissociation from nature which is brutal and amoral. Everything our culture cultivates is sweet little lies from santa to every woman believing she's a princess. You think you're intrinsically special and have to bring nothing to the table until any and all biological worth is used up and you're faced with the brick wall of reality that you're not special at all.

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He’s a douche bag. Just like Rich Cooper with the whole Unplugged Alpha stuff. If you have to call yourself an Alpha, you are not an Alpha.

She found herself a Beta Simp? Good for her, the odds of that marriage lasting is extremely low statistically speaking

He's actually completely correct. Stop talking.

His observation is largely based on general trends based on social science. You know, the same methodology that her father employs in arriving at his insights. As with every general trend in life, there will always be exceptions. That’s why it’s never wise to mistake general trends/rules for inescapable/universal truths. To her credit, she’s smart enough to realize this truth about life.

@@chrish2112 “stop talking” weakest shit I’ve ever heard

Sorry, He is right. Why would any man want to raise someone elses kids? MOST men want to raise their own kids.

@@johncrow5552 I mean pretty privilege is a whole other can of worms But she definitely has it

@@johncrow5552 men have absolutely no problem raising other men's kids if the mom is a baddie. Your feelings does not equate to reality. Good try tho lol and this is coming from someone who doesn't have kids. Single moms don't have a problem getting men. Lol 🌈💃✨

@@johncrow5552 because men are still simps after all and a sucker for good looks or good sex. you say that like no single mother has ever gotten remarried. it happens everyday.

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@Joe Sar PATHETIC

​@Joe Sar LOL he's a younger simp, probably had little no experience before wifing her up. I give it 5 years tops.

​@Joe Sar I feel sorry for the man who married ur mom. She's gotta deal with two idiots 😂

Married for the second time 🤟 yep congrats

@@jambonjawrattle6126 a lot of people can be in really bad situations, divorce and get married a second time to a different person with a much healthier atmosphere, that’s not uncommon at all.

Yes.

@@imperialdebauchery5988 welp same goes for single fathers then

Exactly!!! 👏👏👏

Doesn't matters. You'll still have to deal with a kid that is not YOURS, both biogically and legally. You'll pay for him, you'll give your time for him, your wife will giver her time to him but it still won't be your place to discipline him or to tell him what to do or not do. And if you end up having a good relationship with kid, bonding with him, and then the relationship with the mom isn't working out anymore, well say good bye to the kid cause you ain't his dad and you'll never get the rights to see him. It's beyond me why you would take that much risk, i'd rather be alone than to deal with this BS.

@@trunky37 I agree with you, there is a lot of risk and I would be extremely hesitant to take on that responsibility for a single father as well. I just think it’s unfair to categorize someone as “low value” because of their situation.

Exactly 💯 some men tend to prey on women with children. The creeps are out there and most look like everyone else.

No, I have not met a single mother who didn't put the children at Risk for sex.

@@robertromero8094 Maybe the reason you have never met one is because they are not out there looking for male attention and keeping to themselves? Maybe you need to keep better company?

@@twillightrose13 maybe you should take accountability. Let be real she's down for unprotected sex with some dude who don't want her. But now that she has a kid she changed her ways? I'd have to stop seeing girls all together for better company.

@@robertromero8094 I'm more concerned that you're seeing girls. How old are you? Shouldn't you be seeing women? I'm just going to assume that you're one of the creeps that the good mothers stay away from.

Well she probably got cheated on a couple times.

@@cheesytoenails9744 what makes people like you hate the idea that people can still find love with or without kids? It's so pathetic and just miserable.

​@@cheesytoenails9744 Envious much? I know many single mothers that married UP. Men will cheat if they WANT to whether you're a fresh virgin or a single mom. My mom married my father as a virgin and still got set aside.

@@cheesytoenails9744 Just because someone's a Millionaire doesn't mean he's definitely gonna be a cheater. Also even if he cheats on her in future. She'll still be the woman who married him compared to us single young women who are still students

She’s the exception but not the rule but many women will use the exception to justify them not being on point. Most women would rather have fun & take a chance on the small percentage that they’ll be one of the lucky ones

It’s okay, we feel the same about single fathers.

@greene362 As a man with no kids, having experienced relationships with few single mothers with an open mind, I can honestly say I've seen more disadvantages than advantages and baggage as little as they may be and they are always come into play. Starting fresh is always better

In the end, it's really simple: Nobody's putting a gun to anyone's head to make them go out with them. And I have no issue with a guy not wanting to date a woman with a kid, nor a woman not wanting to date a guy with a kid. It's a preference. Like some people aren't attracted to people who are too heavy, too thin, too short, too tall. It's just preferences. It doesn't mean that person you don't wish to be with is necessarily a terrible person or "not worthy". Just "isn't for me".

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Yeah then you have to see the kids father all the time too and the potential drama lol

that is kind of implied in the context of the conversation. Women have an issue with men having standards or value markers.

That is what he is talking about but she is using clips to pander to her audience rather than get at the deeper meaning behind what he is saying.

smv is not the same as “human” value.

Usually when I see people say "value" in this context, they also use the words "sexual marketplace" in the same thought or sentence, so that it's obvious what they are referring to. Not your value as a human, or a person, or as a member of society or whatever, but your reproductive value to the opposite sex.

@@Slohrable Yeah, it's a little irritating what she is doing in this video clip. I mean, haven't we seen the same thing done to her father more than enough times by journalists and TV stations?

@T800 explain why are you asking that question?

Then your man is an exception to the rule. Sure there are men out there that would take in a single mother however is it probable? No it's is not. Most men would prefer to raise there own kin.

Low value men clean up another man's messes. This story is not a flex.

Realistically, a man with options would never do this. But there’s plethora of men with no other options that would. So single mothers can definitely find men to date with no problem. It’s just the likely hood of the men being their “dream man” is very slim

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Most females with normal dads and moms have daddy issues in america/Canada.

💯 Agreed

I thought he was just asking for the perspective, wish I could watch the whole piece. Like not her specifically,but "what's a girl who is in your position to do" and her message being "don't settle for less, ladies, but BE PREPARED TO WORK HARD AND BE HAPPY ABOUT IT". There are plenty of (at least at my part of the world) divorced single mothers, who are highly attractive and smart, two thirds of which are looking for a chance to get remarried(= actively participating in the market), but it's them who are condescending towards men, married women and the society in general - like "I'm carrying the heavy cross here, bow down everyone"))) wonder what their answer to that guy will be)))

And to hell with what's best for the kid. As long as she didn't have to compromise with a man she thought was good enough to sleep with at the time, that's the only thing that truly matters. It's not virtuous, is shameful. You made your bed and got pregnant - lay in it. And maybe give a damn about your child's well-being over your selfish self-fulfillment.

You missed his point, just like most single moms. His point is if a man has a choice between a single mom with kids and just a single woman guess what the average man’s gonna pick the single woman without kids.

yet u dated her.. sick

@@kanizfatima3447 He gave it a try and learned a big lesson.

Rollo is correct, she is experiencing an episode of cognitive dissonance. He wasn't comparing her to other women. He was talking in the sense of psycho-social dynamics

I love your name! Means African Queen right?

@QUAN TRAN and if she's was ugly or obese he'd wouldn't be with/ leave her too. What's your point?

@QUAN TRAN you spitting facts

Once he loses money you’ll leave him so damn fast your head will spin

JP usually doesn’t sprinkle in “not to mention I’m a very attractive person and have an IQ of 130”

Who sprinkled in that sentence? 😂

I was just thinking that when I heard her respond!!! I could hear her father come through as she spoke. They are very deliberate and concise when they speak.

@@gutsfiend6678 In fact it's a very JP thing to say.

Yes the intonation was exactly the same!

She will manifest one shortly

Nah she found a dude like immediately after

Nah she has been married for two years.

Problem is all the women want the SAME GUY.

We all face consequences for our actions. That’s just life. Women need to smarten up and stop making unforced errors. FYI the world is a lot less kind to men. Take a quick look at the suicide rates.

​@@johannesswillery7855 Im not gonna lie. Some girls out there do, but some don't. Some really don't give a fuck how u look. Or if u act more masculine or feminine. Some girls out there are open to anything. U will find someone who accepts u for who u are. (Im sorry if this doesn't make sense or comes off rude. English is my second language and I really don't mean it in a rude way. I just want to say that not all women want the same guy)

@@wiktoriaw321 I fully comprehend your message, and no you aren't rude. I suppose I am rude but I am disgusted by what is happening in this dating culture. I am quite fortunate that girls like me but I am blown away by how many married or otherwise attached women will try to hook up with me. No doubt there are women who are loyal, kind and passionate and well worth investing time in. But in this world they are exceedingly rare.

well ik that you find your little fairytale that you made in your head very ideal but there isnt someone for everyone in real life and your value as a woman is lessened when you are a single mom and thats a fact like it or not. and btw most suicides are committed by men just to let you know and there are more men with mental issues itw than women difference is that we get on with it and dont sit down and just cry and complain like most women do or if men cant handle it they just, off. amd we do have sympathy, just not so much that we raise someone elses kids at our own expense cause thats just dumb

His argument was that more man want women that have no kids. Ask people around you what they prefer. What is the answer? Do you think 50% or more prefer an older women with kids? Why are you so emotional. It’s just logic and reality

@@yilmazsertbolat4324 yes… and this person said that that will change from person to person. You know just repeating something doesn’t make it a valid point lol

@@yilmazsertbolat4324 okay well what the fuck is up with how he worded it, "your value is less because you're a single mother" no the fuck it's not.

ah yes, the famous "let's relativise everything so that no internet weirdos get offended" argument

At one point, salt was traded for gold. Value is relative.