A QUEENS LIST FOR DATING A MAN by RC Blakes
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A QUEENS LIST FOR DATING A MAN by RC Blakes
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@bernicebaafi5056 8 ай бұрын
QUEEN’S LIST SUMMARY - A man that is thoughtful and intentional - A man that is conversational - A man that has a job he’s happy with - A man that has a vision the woman is excited about - A man that has a mild and stern demeanor all in the same package - A man that is generous with his means - A man that is emotionally available
@kendralove7639 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for writing this!!!
@cedtarawalker1946 8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@AlkalizedEmpress72 8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Isha-19 8 ай бұрын
Loved it.. thanks
@ilitacollins4860 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Blessings and love ❤
@RCBlakesJr. 8 ай бұрын
HELLO FAMILY!!! Please LIKE this one.
@lakendraadams1077 8 ай бұрын
We will share this information you don’t have to ask Sir . Your message are important 😊
@tanjapersona9123 8 ай бұрын
Done sir. Liked the comment and the vid. By the way this has absolutely nothing to do with it. But I love love the outfit, for some reason it is giving me 70s Shaft vibes 🧡. This lady, the funny thing is I thought she was dressed trashy. Me in my mind was like honey that is not what you wear on a first date or to a chique restaurant. She needed to be taken home. On the other hand I give her props for giving a lot of people content. She did that. Hopefully she benefits from it too and didn't only receive criticism (like mine earlier int his text.) Bishop you do it everytime. After 3 years of listening I still grab my notebook to take notes 😇
@barbaramosley8123 8 ай бұрын
📬Thank You For The Information “Pastor RC Blakes Jr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!👀 ☝️Respectfully Yessss As It Is Written In The BOOK 📖 BIBLE TESTIMONIES “THAT IT IS MY GPS SYSTEM 💯‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️👀 AMEN AND AMEN
@Bmitchell10 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much I appreciate you 🙏🏾
@denisedixon5721 8 ай бұрын
I just want to say…Thank you!!!🙏🏽☺️
@princettastovall3204 8 ай бұрын
😂-Your face when mentioning that you learned on Dear Future Wifey that you weren't Lisa's type is too funny!😂
@TheAmazinBlazian 8 ай бұрын
The Queen's List The man should: 1. Be thoughtful/intentional 2. Be conversational 3. Be happy with the job he has 4. Have a vision that she can get excited about 5. Have a mild/stern demeanor all in the same package 6. Be generous with his means 7. Be emotionally available
@VictoriasDAbomb 8 ай бұрын
Thank you sis for posting this!
@Sara-kt6qf 8 ай бұрын
Thank you also❤
@vaclinciapounds8859 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for the list! ❤ 🙏🏽
@andrewjackson3633 8 ай бұрын
❤. Absolutely 💯.
@brittanyb5942 8 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@minniepeete4659 8 ай бұрын
If he’s not happy with himself he can’t celebrate you. So true Bishop
@ravincline5683 8 ай бұрын
😂 "All that dessert...better get you some vegetables." I love it!
@ladyzinada5341 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@bmcc5807 8 ай бұрын
Straight up 😂
@ywood34 8 ай бұрын
I like that he use scripture as his reference.
@ladyzinada5341 8 ай бұрын
Always has 😊
@SpiritualAva78 8 ай бұрын
I was with a guy for 9 months.. i met him when he was working a factory job. He was so negative about it though that eventually everything in his life began to be all negative. When i asked him why he didn't get some kind of job that was more to his liking, he said life wasn't about fun. It was about money. 🙈 Wow.. so sad. We are now broke up. It started to corrupt my energy big time. Energy is powerful.. learned this lesson the hard way. 🥵🙈 I'm grateful to have found RC Blakes. I'm here always taking notes and applying it to my life daily 😇🙌💚
@annaa6259 8 ай бұрын
2 years since I found Rc Blakes on KZfaq and I am not the same woman I was. Thank you spiritual Father❤
@deniseburg1460 7 ай бұрын
He is so amazing. I too am grateful that I found him 🙏🏼
@genxx2724 8 ай бұрын
Women’s whole point in wanting a man to provide luxury is to enjoy it without toiling to earn it. These women are proud of succeeding at that. I actually feel like a failure as a woman because I’ve always had my nose to the grindstone at school and then at work. I’ve been too stressed to attract a mate, and no man except my father and my stepfathers have provided anything for me. My mother, who stays home and takes care of herself, attracts providers. I work, and don’t attract anyone.
@morganhill5798 8 ай бұрын
Me too girl, I don’t get it either.
@genxx2724 8 ай бұрын
@@morganhill5798 Thanks.
@MarshaT.ZoeLiving 8 ай бұрын
Lady you have to go to God because in His presence is the fullness of Joy and at His right Hand are pleasures ever more! Find some margin in your day to day so you are not stressed out. Also find a hobby that you can get lost in and who knows you may meet your special one while executing that hobby i.e. Pickle ball, swimming, ballroom dancing. Lastly keep in mind that we are complete in HIM, not a spouse, child, Dream home, latest car…Foster your relationship with Christ even the more and everything else will be icing on the cake.
@cup_o_TMarie 8 ай бұрын
I feel you darlin & the struggle can be real! I ask myself where does the kind of man I’m looking for spend his time & can I be genuinely interested in those things to put myself in that arena? I learned a lot about myself thinking through that & found some new interests❤️🔥
@irmabryant6979 8 ай бұрын
Me too. 😢
@antoinetteboston6708 8 ай бұрын
Queen's List: Conversationally Job contentment, vision/goal minded,mild & stern mannered,generous, emotionally available.
@T_Nice 8 ай бұрын
That guy did have dinner reservations for the woman and himself at a High-end restaurant, but because she made him wait outside for additional hours without even answering her *phone, he would call but she would only texting him once he arrived to pick her up. They missed the dinner reservation so his next only other option i guess for him was the secondary restaurant which didn't need reservations at all. According to that woman, she said the reason why she was late was because she was still working HOWEVER, Yet and still, she knew all about the reservations to the high end restaurant, which was the first choice. People in this world are so ungrateful and entitled even though they are the cause of the chaos and confusion!! SMH
@chanelscales6285 8 ай бұрын
We want a healthy long term relationship! 🙏🏾
@mstessa1160 8 ай бұрын
I have struggled to forgive myself for wasting so many years on the wrong men due to my toxic standards/list in the past. I even went to therapy to heal this and other things. I didn’t know what I didn’t know at the time. I am so thankful for having the scales removed from my eyes. God bless you, Pastor Blakes, your family, and this wonderful ministry!
@sherryguidry8131 8 ай бұрын
I agree with the list. I have a similar list I wrote in 2019 . On the other side of my list, for my husband ,is the list of goals for myself. I check in every daily and overview monthly.
@bettyboothe2523 8 ай бұрын
So simple but such a great idea.
@robertacollins3205 8 ай бұрын
I like that! The man that can afford you is different than the man that values you.
@rosannareyes472 8 ай бұрын
My dad wasn’t there for me physically and mentally only financially and I'm blessed to have the Lord as my father and a dad on earth thank you for becoming a dad for us women your words and knowledge cost gold God bless you and your family
@Unapologeticallyme_ 8 ай бұрын
This message touched me. May God continue to bless you ❤
@ladyzinada5341 8 ай бұрын
I'm grateful 🥲
@josannebritto6898 8 ай бұрын
Amen🙏
@allysoncarter5139 8 ай бұрын
Yes, I dated a man for a month that was not satisfied with his job and he was absolutely miserable. I was unable to changed his attitude and mindset...tough!
@realtalk64 8 ай бұрын
Sounds like he needed a therapist.
@lionesslamb7049 8 ай бұрын
It took me only a week to drop such a kind. I saw red flags coming through. Worse he ignored that we had an appointment for 2nd date. Inconsistent much 😾. Vulnerable narcissist, that's what some r called.
@shielaatebo2156 8 ай бұрын
Its 5am in Uganda..and am watching .I love u papa.
@MzBrOdUs18 8 ай бұрын
I narrowed my list down to 3 Cs. When all three are checked off I know I’ve found my husband. 1.) Chemistry: We are romantically attracted to each other. 2.) Connection: We have an emotional, spiritual and intellectual connection. 3.) Compatibility: we share similar morals, values, and outlook on life. Our approach to life is on the same page. We align in terms of character and we genuinely agree, like and admire the internal and external workings of each other. When I used this list to measure past relationships I always find that one of the Cs was not checked off and that’s why those relationships didn’t work.
@RCBlakesJr. 8 ай бұрын
HELP US GET OUR 1000 👍
@ladyzinada5341 8 ай бұрын
Done 😂
@vaclinciapounds8859 8 ай бұрын
I know this video will be great! I am 43 and i have started back dating so this will help me immensely! Thank you Bishop Blakes! You are always right on time! 🙌🏾 👏🏽 ❤️
@Pacifica74 8 ай бұрын
Willing to share is a thing to watch for. I had a relationship where he let me know that his possessions were off-limits to me. I couldn't turn the knob on his stereo!
@QueenConsious 8 ай бұрын
Amen Bishop Queen Conscious Woman List is different Thanks for your books & teaching all these years
@Somebody_Need_To_Hear_This 8 ай бұрын
It’s about how a man thinks and his heart condition. That’s number 1 on my list
@Jasmine_Rane 8 ай бұрын
Look at GOD! I was just talking with my aunt about this. Can’t wait for the video!
@ilissawalker7051 8 ай бұрын
I know me too, I was just told and a good friend about his KZfaq videos.
@antoinetteboston6708 8 ай бұрын
Conversational is very important in building lasting relationships spiritual & mentally
@ladyzinada5341 8 ай бұрын
Especially for a Queen
@josannebritto6898 8 ай бұрын
You're teaching pastor. Well said we can't demand stuff we don't even have or try to match up for ourselves. We got to treat ourselves first🥰
@jonnyrosado9444 8 ай бұрын
Not just women... Men should as well. Everyone should know what they can bring forth to the table and that list helps to see if those qualities/qualifications are met for someone to contribute to that table. Gotta know your worth so you don't destroy your worth🤷🏽♂️
@lovebug6388 8 ай бұрын
Also by knowing what you bring as well as the other person you can eliminate time wasting just because the other person looks good. Maybe they're better suited as a friend or business partner.
@ladyzinada5341 8 ай бұрын
Agreed 👍
@lashawnshipp8271 8 ай бұрын
💯🎯
@susanakaan810 8 ай бұрын
It's always refreshing listening to Bishop, thank you for being a father to us all.
@Annjenkins806 8 ай бұрын
Amen.
@kymjackson8970 8 ай бұрын
This was right on time. I just stopped dating a man TODAY and I was so upset b/c he became selfish and self centered and sometimes disrespectful. And I realize that I need all the characteristics on this list and he only possessed maybe two of the 2 of the 7 on this list. I feel so much better about letting go of the relationship. And I realize more why things turned out the way they did. I knew the issue with his job was having a major impact on the relationship. But he didn’t want to acknowledge it and I didn’t realize the other things he lacked. I really needed this. Thanks Pastor Blakes
@cletusthemysterious 8 ай бұрын
Are you saying that you were bringing more than he was to the table?
@reginabrodie6017 8 ай бұрын
At the risk of sounding redundant, pastor you were exactly on point! You nailed it! My prayer is that our younger queens ( and maybe some older queens) catch this talk and take heed. 🎯🙏🏾🎯
@cassandrasmall5189 8 ай бұрын
Absolutely, and that list is necessary.
@lynellb 8 ай бұрын
"Lisa said, he wasn't my type, your boy still need therapy for that one". Uncle R.C feeling some kind of way about that🤣🤣 34:00
@brendalee1188 8 ай бұрын
awesome teachings🙏🏽
@ilissawalker7051 8 ай бұрын
Definitely on time again with your message💯. Thank you, Pastor RC Blake's and first lady Lisa❤💛
@florindalashay1652 8 ай бұрын
Yes sister... perfect timing for sure ❤
@joniewilliams4341 8 ай бұрын
Good teaching Bishop!
@DivaMatchmaker 8 ай бұрын
Awesome message!!!
@mayam6678 8 ай бұрын
I dont think thst I csn ask for something in another, that I cant give myself. I like your expression of "leveling up, and "become what you dedire".
@katrinasowells2522 8 ай бұрын
Wow I needed to hear this! Thank you ❤
@savedandbeautifulone 8 ай бұрын
So on point!!!
@truebelieverinthelord7823 8 ай бұрын
God bless you! Thank you for this message!🙏🏽❤️
@denisejackson7520 8 ай бұрын
Great message!
@lauaartworld 8 ай бұрын
« Boy still needs therapy for that » 😂😂😂
@donnaassing2482 8 ай бұрын
Thank you sooo much for the priveledge to join in live
@CharlotteRoussell-es3jo 8 ай бұрын
Great 👍🏾 message Pastor. 😊❤️
@jilliansimpson9698 8 ай бұрын
Excellent video!!!
@MartyMar-yk1ik 8 ай бұрын
Excellent teaching.
@pauladunwoody4821 8 ай бұрын
It was an excellent teaching.
@ajeedapoetreincarnatedquee1431 8 ай бұрын
This teaching was phenomenal!
@shreeb6645 8 ай бұрын
Wonderful message thank you
@debbiefoucha2679 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing the message was very informative.
@racquelkeishamarycharles1999 7 ай бұрын
Love every point made
@808758 8 ай бұрын
I'm so glad for this channel.
@roselinkeil7217 4 ай бұрын
Wonderful message Bishop ❤❤❤❤ thank you
@rosemjames6721 8 ай бұрын
I love this video. It let know I am on the right track thank you
@maryjames1852 8 ай бұрын
Excellent. Exactly on Point! Wow! Thank you!
@marionisabelzipperlephd6041 8 ай бұрын
It is a good message. As always ❤
@phenomenalwoman2775 8 ай бұрын
Excellent message. Thank you. May God bless you for sharing your wisdom.
@carlawilliams5091 8 ай бұрын
Thank you Bishop. Timely topic
@kitaevans8686 8 ай бұрын
Love it! Always on point Pastor 🙌
@Goddess52 8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
@MissCarey1420-yf5ev 8 ай бұрын
I’m almost there pastor, thank you!!!!
@darawatkis7084 8 ай бұрын
This was an excellent message. Well needed . Thank you Bishop.
@amondinyandat-zw1no 8 ай бұрын
Eye opener, enlightening, great video. Thank you
@cup_o_TMarie 8 ай бұрын
On & on til the break of dawn❣️ Preach Bishop👏🤩🥰
@dedrawright5732 8 ай бұрын
Yes, I definitely agree with your observations💯
@bongimoyo 8 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 thank you Bishop. Blessings overflow always
@gugudlamini9066 8 ай бұрын
Thank you once again .we really appreciate your teachings. 🇸🇿
@mel.thomas 8 ай бұрын
“You need to become what you desire” great advice! …amazing video I had a lot of these qualities on my list ! Thank you 🙏🏾 😊
@jennifersesley1998 8 ай бұрын
This was a Really Great Message ❤
@marietawhite2171 8 ай бұрын
Im always enlightened and educated fro whatever message I listen ❤
@myrtlestar37 8 ай бұрын
A blessed reminder. Powerful teaching Bishop Blakes.
@queenlique1 8 ай бұрын
Great video! Thank you. 🙂
@sheilahjohnnie4559 8 ай бұрын
Appreciate you sharing this blessings messages too us woman needs a word thanks Robert C Blakes
@user-qw4fe1eg5p 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for teaching the sisters to be better. God bless Bishop!
@Kenyetta_ 8 ай бұрын
Peace and Love!! Ready for another great one Pastor RC! 🙏🏽❤️✨️
@theshoelady4 8 ай бұрын
Amen! Love this!!
@Birdyiam_ 8 ай бұрын
Powerful video pastor I’m watching it again❤❤❤❤
@latinamitchell5663 8 ай бұрын
Good Evening Thank you for all you do LaTina Kansas city Missouri ❤
@rosamondsomah7340 8 ай бұрын
Amen and thank you VERY INSPIRATIONAL AND INSIGHTFUL ❤❤❤
@perfumelover777 7 ай бұрын
This video came at the right time in my life. Thank you 🙏🏼
@onevenus6040 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for that wonderful prayer 🙏 ❤️
@thelmasawyer-grant7392 8 ай бұрын
This was very relevant and needed. Thanks
@doveolivia8513 8 ай бұрын
True talk. Blessings
@rachels.7477 8 ай бұрын
CONSISTENCY, GROWTH, VISION, LOVE, AND UNDERSTANDING...AMEN
@je2208 8 ай бұрын
Thank you RC Blake's for GOD uses you to help us women! Because GOD knows we need help! But my list is for a man to have a love and respect for GOD. Honesty! Loyalty! Communications! Understanding! Intimacy! Romance! Fun! Like to enjoy! Go places! And to be loved! Family! Stand in his truth! We're able to talk about financial stability for us both! No argumental! No disruptness! Husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church and gave his very life for it. Looks has nothing to do with it. Height has nothing to do with it! Its what's in the heart for me! And I'm 62😊🫶🏾🙏🏾✝️ Oh yeah take me to the Cheese Factory! Applebee's! take me to Red lobster. Olive Garden!
@dorinemason5123 8 ай бұрын
Well said 😊🎉❤
@lashawnshipp8271 8 ай бұрын
Girl, you go on with your bad 62 self. I love everything you said in this comment. This is so on point. 🎯💯
@aliciakennedy1404 8 ай бұрын
Thank god for u all Pastor and Lady Blakes
@RianaM123 8 ай бұрын
AMEN!! And we will see you on the TOP. Excellent - thank you Pastor. 🙂
@PerfectlyBare 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for pouring everything into your teaching. You are definitely heaven sent pastor.
@quinalayoung9191 8 ай бұрын
Thank You. I hope to see you and Mrs. Lisa in August for Queenology...kiwanus young
@daphenernorwood 8 ай бұрын
Awesome message as always Pastor RC and Lady Lisa. God’s blessings to your family and ministry.
@user-myworth79 8 ай бұрын
Hello to everyone! God Bless ♥️ My ears are open! Sending lots of love from Chicago 🫶🏽👏🏾😀
@deemac8231 8 ай бұрын
That was so good Pastor. Me and my daughter listened together.
@giovannycerudolph6274 8 ай бұрын
This the most honest podcast and message I seen the whole year
@donnajeffreys8252 8 ай бұрын
I really loved this message ❤ Thank you Pastor RC BLakes, God Bless you and your family
@sdreed212 8 ай бұрын
Thank you!!🙌🏾
@DivaMatchmaker 8 ай бұрын
I am sharing this with my dating coaching clients! Every point in this is true. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
@kindspirit 8 ай бұрын
Pastor Blakes, thank you for this lesson. God bless you and Lisa. May His peace be with you!
@CharlotteRoussell-es3jo 8 ай бұрын
Good Evening Pastor, Lady Lisa and everyone! 😊❤️
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