What happens if you can't find a new place and the new baby and your mom arrive? You have a lot of patience. I would have lost it at my husband if he suggested something so crazy. It shows a serious lack of planning and consideration.
You are blessed. Count your blessings, sweetheart. Unlike you, Sarah has just started her new life in Amercia with Jason. I am sure you enjoy watching her vlog despite some of your callous remarks. You are simply a straight forward person. God bless you.