the fact that my hair is exactly like yours and I had no idea because I though my hair was super damaged or just weird since I never see your hair (or any curly girl hair on social media) throughout the days, so I've always been looking for a product/technique to help my curly hair look "normal". Tbh this video made me feel so much better about my hair

This video was so honest and I related so much. My hair looks like your day 3 hair here day 2 for me! I am still trying to train my hair to wash it less but sometimes it’s just unsalvageable and I get headaches from it!

Thanks that was actually really helpful to know what’s “normal” and not just a wash day 👩🏽‍🦱

Echoing what everyone else is saying about the unapologetic honesty in this video! It 's validating to know our curly hair isn't abnormal if it isn't internet perfect 24/7. Love this community of curlies and love you Jayme Joe

I cannot stress enough how much I appreciate these realistic videos bc I’ve started to hate my hair so much and seeing you show how you handle it just love 💜

Omg please please do more of these ‘through the week’ videos. Even if it’s just a shorter “this is how it looks after waking up”… “this is what I’m gonna do with my hair today” kinda video would be so helpful. My hair is a lot like yours but thinner.. so after I put it into a loose bun/ponytail and sleep on it, the curls rarely last more than 2 days (even using a satin pillowcase). I always end up refreshing and leaving it down but it’s becoming such a pain, so trying to figure out other hairstyles and the struggles behind it. Thank you!!

seeing you're 3rd-5th day hair is so relieving. I always feel so ashamed and frustrated when my hair gets to that stage so its nice to see that its just a normal stage for curly hair. we need more curlies embracing this stage

This was the most relatable curly hair video I have ever seen. Thanks for keeping it real. You are gorgeous every day!

Thank you for keeping this real and honest. You showed the true struggles of curly hair. Trying new products loving them & then realizing they don’t work for your hair. Ahhhhhh all so relatable 💕💓🙌🏼

I don’t know if you’ve done this yet but I would love to see a video of what your hair looks like washed and dried with no product or styling! I really liked that this video helped to break down the expectation of having perfect hair all the time and I think that a video showing your hair in its natural state with no product or styling would help add to this as well as being super interesting!

Thank you so much for filming this video!! I've been so annoyed at my curls for such a long time for being frizzy and my hair not lasting looking good for too long, I thought I was the only one!! Your hair always looks so good in your videos but I loved seeing the reality of your curls after a few days, they always end up looking so good after you fix your hair tho!! thanks for the content

I love this honest video! It makes me feel so much better about my own curls. I go through a lot of the days you do. I pick mine up in a messy bun just like yours for work 2-3 days a week, and some of those days I can let it down and doctor it up a bit if I need to. Too bad we can't have day 1 or 2 hair always. People love curls, wish they had curls, compliment curly girls A LOT, but don't realize how much work it takes to have curly hair. But I wouldn't trade much curls or the work for straight hair.

Thank you Jayme! Always so important to see such lovely reality of hair. Definitely good for all of our mental healths :))

I loved this video! I thought I was the only one that would start getting matted knots by day 2 and struggling to figure out what to do with my hair the next couple days. My hair is getting longer too and as much as I love it it so much more work. Thank you for showing us curly hair isn’t always glamorous, most the time it can turn into a mess depending on what you have going on throughout the day and especially the weather.

As a curly hair girl this video was honestly amazing to watch. It’s 100000% spot on what’s it’s like to have curly hair, the days after wash day aren’t as easy as people think. I loved how honest this video was

Not only do ur curls look good but ur bod literally my dream body thank you for all of the content u make for us!

Love this video so much! I finally felt like I could actually relate to how someone's curly hair can look after a few days! Just a tip, wearing a bonnet or silk headscarf to bed makes such a huge difference in day 2,3,4 etc. it was a game changer for me! Especially since you already have incredible curls, I highly highly recommend!

Thank you for this honest video. I've been watching your vidoes for over a year now and this one is my favorite. I also have very long curly hair and I used to brush it dry, use unfitted cream etc. Then I found you in youtube (I'm from Israel) and I started using your techniques and my hair grew and become curly, healthy and much more pretty. Also I have VERY bad hair days and weeks sometimes but when the hair is looking good you forget all about it. Thank you and please dont leave youtube for tiktok😉

I looove how realistic this is 💗

Love love love this video. I have wavy hair and it always loosens through the day and it bothers me so much. Nothing beats wash day. I always thought if I had curly hair the loosening wouldn’t happen as much but now I see that it does. Thank you so much for making this video. 🥰

I liked the whole video❤❤Ive been watching your videos for a very long time now and I love your honesty, your vibe, your voice, cuteness with your family too💖💖and how you try to make us feel good and showing us its okay that your hair gets so messy in this video😂and yeah😊thank you, and love you❤😘

Loved this video! So nice to see a realistic week with curly hair

Super relatable! Would actually love more videos with the same concept. Especially advice around working out/ sweating with curly hair (styles while exercising and products to salvage the sweaty hair haha). A bit frustrating wanting to work out 4 times a week with out washing it every time haha

This vedio is so satisfying like I used to think I'm abnormal to have thoes frizzy hairs on 3rd day!💕 All love to you, you made my day

Soooooo grateful for the honesty!!!!!

Hi dear Jayme, I don't know if you will be reading this youtube comment, but I wanted to place it here anyway in hopes you and others may benefit. When you said "I will be doing the unthinkable as a curly girl brushing out my hair" I felt compelled to let you know that it's okay. I know some might disagree, but truly it's down to knowing your hair and what is best. I personally dry brush before washing my hair because I lose less hair, and ironically enough it is truly less of a hassle. Fun fact, if you use oil (you don't have to use a lot) before detangling, it will provide enough slip to allow those tangles to come out. Also detangling your hair in sections can help too versus trying to get all the tangles out in one go. Again, this is all based on trial and error. Personally, I try detangling when my hair is matted and wet and it's a disaster. It's so much better for me to dry detangle and I don't cause any breakage due to the oil providing slip for my hair. On top of that if you do pre-poo oil treatments it's so beneficial for your scalp, and it protects your ends and gives them some nourishment before further stripping of a shampoo. I highly recommend giving this a go especially since you have longer hair now. If you do give it a go I hope it adds to your routine and makes it easier. God bless you! My fellow sister in Christ. :)

You look stunning and your hair is stunning! ✨

Thank you soooo much for this video ❤❤. This video showed that curly hair isnt perfect 5 days. All the social media made me feel bad about my curly hair. I take really good care of my curls but it doesnt look like other curly girls, i thought. This is so realistic, so thank you

I love this vedio.. it’s so honest and real .. every curly girl go through this frizzy days and Feel stress but we learn that it’s normal and we should love our hair all days 😊

I am beyond in love with this video! THANK YOU

Your hair is stunning babe. Loved the emotional highs and lows, could really relate although my hair doesn’t get quite as curly as yours. I gasped out loud when you revealed your day 3 nightmare knots from that product 😂 😱 but you rallied and made it work. I also quite like the brushed out curls as an alternative look. Thanks for the honest view into your curly hair week. Super entertaining ❤

I needed this. Glad I’m not alone. 💜

Great, helpful, real wprld curl help here! Thanks for this fabulous video!

hey jayme a video on scalp care would be great! i feel like a lot of my curly products have done some strange things to my scalp??? or like hair in general, like im not sure how healthy it is to pack on so much product anymore

Thank you for not letting me go crazy with my hair thinking it was so bad because of something I was or was not doing... It is totally normal and it does get out of control LoL...ty

Thank you for this honesty!!! This is exactly what my 5 days looks like! Side note I’m so jealous of curly girls with small/round foreheads, the slicked back look isn’t a vibe for us five heads

Love the video and the honesty!

Nick might not know how much of a display of love it is for you to let him play with your hair lol

Thanks I needed this today! I normally blow dry my fringe a bit straighter but today it just did not want to go straight and I just had my boss ask if I had just been to the gym as my hair looked like a mess!

Hello Jayme Jo, hope you are well. Can you please do a video about Curly Hair Product Recommendations? My hair type is 3b, but it does look like your hair in a way. You made me really proud and happy of my curls... 😊

Thank you 🥺💕 this was such a helpful video

I totally relate, when my hair was shorter it was easy to manage and fix whatever was wrong with it, now that it’s longer it becomes messier on day 3 or even day 4 and I’ve set myself a goal of washing it every 7 days but now I’m thinking I should reduce it to twice a week.

ok but you and your sister hit them notes😭❤️

my hair looks just like this! do u think protecting it at night would help? also i always re wet it and style it again maybe on the third day. you slick back a lot which i’ve learned pulls on your scalp. now anytime i have it up it hurts me knowing it’s pulling my hair. i use hair clips right now. i also try doing a braided look at the end so if my scalp needs any oils it’s easy to apply for my wash and for detangling.

Loved this, thanks!! Indeed made me feel so much more normal bout my own hair. Does you scalp not get itchy after day 3/4 hair? Thats often why i need to do a new wash day.

That actually did make me feel better about my hair thank you :)

I liked the look of your curls brushed out. You have beautiful hair :)

Yay! This is just like me! I'm naturally blonde and curly so my hair is very fine! 3/4/5 day hair is hard! 5th day is just fluff at that point definitely a bun is needed

ahh do you think you could make a video telling us where u got ur jewelry from? I always love them sm

You are so gorgeous, that even the worse hair was still amazing!

I feel you with the layers girl me toooo!!!!

Love this video! Great job!! 🙃

This is so relatable. I always wondered if others struggled like this too with their curly hair, my hair is forever in a bun 😅

SHE GORGEOUS

How often do you wash your silk pillowcase and how do you care for it when you do wash it? maybe make a tiktok about it!!

I really liked this video!!

Thank You soooo much for this!!! 💙💙💙

Thank you so much for this ❤

Well I went from let's try that CPR stuff to "oh yeah, no" real quick! So thank you for that product review!!

i love this!!! i love your videos much and they are so inspiring and i am learning so much. your curls are BEAUTIFUL!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ i have 2c 3a curls. the under layer of my hair is 3a but for some reason the top layer of my hair is straighter. i am curious why it is like this. can i do anything to make the top curlier?!! is it damaged?!

Thank you for this video♥️♥️♥️

So relatable 💜

This video helped me a lot. Do you have any advice for going days without washing? After 2 days I have so much oil, flakes and itchiness.

Love it!

Love day 5 😌

Loved this. Thx! X

Thank you! Yes, I feel more NORMAL! I would like to see how you slick your hair.

I feel like I always need to brush my hair out on around day 3 or 4, then I either embrace the friz, or put it in a messy bun. The next day the frizz has usually settled a bit and I can refresh it properly

Thanks for making this

My hair usually looks good all the way up to day 4. Day 5 depends on how I slept the night before and then I sometimes push it to day 6 before washing.

Curly and wavy hair looks so much better than straight

Jayme! I was looking at this video but from 1 year ago, and your hair has grown SO MUCH in just a year! what is your secret sissss I am STRUGGLING to get my hair pass shoulder length:(((

what products do you use to slick your hair!? love your videos!

I’ve been following you for so long! You are just stunning, and I love your hair! Is your hair colored? If so, what color? We kinda look like we can be cousins, and I want your color! ❤️❤️❤️

omg she looks like bella hadid in the second pic in the thumbnail ! she looks absolutely gorgeous !!

Oh really pretty. Nice sharing. Keep it up.❤❤❤💯👌👍

Where do you shop at?! Your tops in all your videos are super cute!

This is why I began straightening my curly hair! The struggles of in between wash days!🥴 Jayme, what is your favorite refresh/restyle product for non wash days? Pleeeese answer!!!🙏😘 I'd appreciate it soooooo much❣❣

can you do video on how u brushed curls out and still ended up with something presentable for the next 3 days? 😅😅

Mind blown 🤯

this is whyyyy i’m SO scared to use new products or any products at all that aren’t leave in conditioner. cause soon as i put it in it’ll look real nice, but soon as i wake up the next morning my hair looks crunchy & stiff with like the most messed up curl pattern. 😩

Jayme Jo 💕thank you sooooo much for sharing - Would you be able to let us know what shower cap you use and any other recommendations - it is so hard to find an effective shower cap for long curly hair .. which is why I rarely use.. they tend to create like a sauna effect for me and don’t fit hair even in a pineapple 🍍 🥴🤣😂

When you get a haircut, what do you request? Just layers and framing your face?

one of my biggest problems is that my hair is always tangling. Like, nightmare tangling. Everyday no matter when I washed it. How do I keep it cute without havig to untangle it dry?

can you do a tut on slicking you hair (day 4 hair) please !!!

please please please do an ayurvedic mask (Amla powder or Brahmi, or Ashwagandha, or Bhringaraj) I'm telling you, you're gonna see BIG difference in curls staying curly for a long time. I was praying God would show me what to do and first time I tried out Amla mixed with Moringa powder, my hair BECAME PHENOMENAL, I had the most juicy curls for 7 days without refreshing. Get a deep conditioner you love, put some amla powder in there, even some moringa (little amount bc it has protein) mix it all up, put it in dirty hair (doesn't have to be clean curls). Leave it in for 25 mins and rinse, doing your actual routine. In God's name, You'll see extreme change for the better.

Hi Jayme, What product do you use on your hair when you slick it back?

I NEED MORE VIDEOS OF YOU DANCING OMGG

even if i refresh my curls my hair is always like the day 5, sometimes my hair just looks so bad and it makes me insecure and i feel bad w my weird curly/ damaged curly/not curly but frizzy? hair in public, i feel better and more confident when i straighten my hair but i also would like to learn how to have great curls and how to take care of curly hair because i dont want to damage my hair, i want my natural hair look like yours. im trying everything i can, but my hair responds to me as a big NO

Are you wearing clinique black honey? Looks similar. Also great video

I keep forgetting not everyone wears bonnets and scarves to bed lol im like “wtf isnt your hair going to be tangled rolling around on the pillow cases??” 😂

the good thing about this is we have similar hair texture and we do similar things other people is not helpful😂👍

Do you recommend using dry shampoo? xx 💞

Do you have tips on how to sleek curly hair? I always get frizz!

What type of haircut do you have?? I love watching your videos. Thanks

I wish I could curl my hair I've tried to get it to curl but it just poofs out but I'm going to the hair salon tomorrow so I'm hoping they can help me

Why do you think I put up my hair after a few days with hair down curly. ITS LOOKS SO BAD I HAVE TO PUT IT UPPPP! Also I just found out I have curly hair and I LOVEEE your helpful content thank youu!!

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Same struggles even with much shorter hair lol

From Greece my hair is exactly like yours