“I’m Too old and too busy to keep going through breakups” AMEN ❤

Dear Person That's Reading This You May Be Goin Through Something But God Got U He Didn’t Bring You This Far To Quit.We Don’t Know Each Other But I Wish U All The Best In Life 2022 And Beyond.🇧🇸❤️~Marcia~

There needs to be an entire 8 to 12 week message on this service only. This honesty is NOT discussed enough in our homes. PD, as always, you PREACHING preaching!!! 🙌🏽🙏🏼

Framework 1.) Equally Yoked ✨ 2.) Authentically Attractive 💕(First of All, I’m 6’2 😩😂) 3.)Emotionally Connected 4.) Economically Aligned

This is SO true. A moment with the wrong person can lead to years of heartache!! Take the time, keep yourself reserved and make sure God is showing you who this person is and if he/she is for YOU. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

“Church attender does not mean Christ like character” oooooh weeee pastor called a lot of folks out

I've listened to this on repeat since yesterday. I definitely need to make some changes in my life by eliminating people who dont respect/ honor my standards/ boundaries. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

God sends help not company I want a man tht knows how to stay a nd fight. I want a praying man a man tht dnt play games I know hurt like no other this time around I want God's best for me . 😢I know it's coming I trust God while he works on me 💕🙏 ❤

"A love that is willing to abandon preferences because you've got a greater purpose! " "Purpose requires your heart to be in it"

This had me in tears. I was tormented but my ex husband for years and still going through nonsense. But I thank you, God, for giving me the apology that I know I’ll never get from him. Thank you Lord for setting me free. I was forced to be strong and move on for so long that I didn’t really have the permission to grieve the way I needed to. Thank you. This was for me.

Just being transparent. Normally I would have passed on a Word on relationships because Im not presently in one. But this Word was indeed a game changer for me. I have so many notes and take aways to reference. Be the devil also uses loneliness which is a trap I have fallen into before.

Salvation free, sanctification costs- take up your cross and follow me.

Pastor Dharius was snatching my edges from the first 10 minutes. I needed to hear this message for the season that I am in.

I needed this message years ago. I could have saved myself a life time of pain

I’m still like 🤯😩. This message was soooo timely🙌🏽👏🏽. I’m definitely saving this to my favorites.

Don't play with other person heart for the purpose of entertainment .🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Dr. Daniel's, another heaven sent message!! I wish you were my local pastor and your wife was my first Lady.

Doesnt matter how fine you are because if the lights off u cant see them LOL

Not kissing me and CRINGING !!!! 🤣🙌🏾🤣🙌🏾

"Some of you were wounded so greatly that your pride didn't let you grieve properly." "Doesn't the person that you're with now - who is an answer to your prayer - deserve your whole heart?" "Move on without the apology."

You marry what you like, are emotionally attracted to, who's your friend and economically aligned with🔥🔥🔥 that's good Doc

It’s tight already….Chile it’s been tight 🙌🏾😩😩😩help Lord😩😩😩😩

This was SO great. Your gift with words blesses me every time I listen. It's like you're talking directly to me and it's always on time. You break it down where it makes me understand, I feel secure, and it gives me strength to grow.

This was TRULY THOUGHT PROVOKING. I've NEVER EVER HEARD ANYTHING RELATIONAL BROKEN DOWN LIKE THIS!! SPIRITUAL BREAKTHROUGH & HEALING THIS TRULY WAS ANNOINTING EXCAVATION 🙏🏽🙌🏾

This sermon has been a blessing and is truly amazing!!

Thank YOU LORD for HEALING ❤️‍🩹 MY BROKEN HEART!!! 🙌🏾

The highest form of value is Time. Amen!!!!

Oh My GOD, I lost it when you said "cringe when they kiss me"😂

Come On REAL MAN OF GOD. I LOVE THE PREACHING SERMONS THAT THE HOLY SPIRIT PUT IN YOU.

No more Dating for Me .... There is a Biblical Process that I Am on and , that's It !

This is so powerful! I’m so glad I listened to this message! No way will I get into another relationship and be unequally yoked… I’m not getting stuck with the bill for their lack of growth!

Kinfolk thank you for not playing games with the devil. Straight 🔥. This message is so classic!!! Go forward and higher 📈 my brother!!!

RECEIVED & STILL RECOVERING from betrayal & many years of mental abuse. BUT GOD is GOOD....!!!!!❤😘 I WILL SURVIVE.....in my GLORIA GAYNER voice🙏🔥🙏🎶🙏🎼🙏🎵 Thank you Pastor Dharius🙏🙏

33:33 - 34:09 and it was at this moment God used PD to set me free!! 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️

Loved this! Been single for 12 years now and I think I’m ready to give dating a serious shot again despite the bad experiences I’ve had along the way. I’m in no rush but I do think there is a person out there wanting who I am and me wanting who they are….. We shall see! If not, I am fully prepared to stay single. Things have totally changed in the dating/relationship world. I don’t feel as if I’d be missing much lol

{How Do We Treat Them} 👩🏽‍⚖️Service:: If we serve one another in a relationship; everyone needs get met.” 🧎🏽‍♀️Submission:: Somebody gotta land the Plane. And that’s you Brotha”mutual submission:: is where the person recognized who gifted in a certain area of the relationship is where you submit in that area they gifted in) ❤️‍🔥Sacrificial Love:: A love that is willing to abandon preferences because you got a greater purpose.

I was in the building and taking notes when he preached this…and here I am watching AGAIN! 🔥

This is a generation of opportunist most people are in it for something other than the right things!

That one that got a hold on me set the bar. I messed it up; BUT GOD!!! He came back and it’s like I’m looking at my twin and most of all he’s my BEST FRIEND!!! We are friends before anything. Shalmar said, Second Time Around it’s better than the first.

I don’t believe that I have ever heard such a comprehensively solid, balanced and wise sermon on relationships. Loving God, I thrive as a single person, and I have very little incentive to marry, for all the reasons that you state. I fully realise that a healthy Godly relationship can be fulfilling. But you certainly need the right ingredients, which you so beautifully worded. Being a business leader here in Amsterdam, Europe, I recognise and experience the effects of everything that you teach about leadership, so true. I love to submit to the wisdom of those in the team that I lead. And I love to give them every honour for that. This has brought great blessing, joy and trust amongst my team. Thank you Pastor, you are my mentor from a distance.

Purpose requires my heart to be in it. The devil doesn't want us to bring our hearts into nothing. Heeeeeeaaaallllllliiiiinnnnnggg in Jesus name Amen

Not running from but to Jesus 🙌🏾 become like Jesus is Christianity

I’ve heard sermons about relationships before but none of them being explained like this 😮. Dr Dharius broke it down in such a way that it was relatable ❤️. After 7:35-7:55, I caught a flashback & was invested after that. Definitely have to watch this again 💯

34:54 - 35:15 Maaaaan, Dr. Daniels was preaching to me on that part because I've been through that personally, and it SUCKS. Thank God for GROWTH 😂!!

Purpose requires your heart to be in it.. Lord help me to bring my whole heart into all that I do. Heal my heart and my wounds from the inside out so that I can reap in joy

This spoke to me on so many levels. While I still need prayer and God to heal my heart, I am thankful that he has covered and protected me from continued heartache and pain. Thank you Lord for Forgiveness and Grace 🙏🏾. Thank you Pastor Daniels for being obedient and allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you 🙏🏾❤️

That’s my Pastor! A man of God. I’m so blessed to be under his guidance of the Word of God. He’s very transparent and keep it real. Thank you PD🥰

REALNESS! Felt the authentically attracted part in particular!!! 🙏🏾👌🏾

This sermons made me cry 😢😭...the holy sprit was truly speaking to me....moving on my God have better

The reality is some people are just innately good people and others are not, whether in, from the church, faith or not, that is the reality. Having God in your life does make you better though!

I definitely needed to hear 👂🏽 this one because I have been saving myself for a few years now trying to make sure I don’t make the same mistakes I made previously with giving my heart out! Because I love so hard and genuinely, I always end up with ppl that don’t even deserve the time of the day (not cocky or proud, just being real) ‼️ Thank you PD, I know I’m not the only one that needs and appreciate this 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽💯🔥😌💍🤔

A responsibility to manage GOD children. When you are an example of leadership, there is no reason to convince.❤❤

I just came across this message today, and I recently went through a traumatic breakup , and this was absolutely everything that I needed to hear and apply❤️

My God you preaching to me!!!

13 min and you are speaking straight facts! I am in SC but I love you so much lol.. You are so real, raw. God bless you Dr. Dharius Daniels and continue to be about kingdom’s business. And, thank you God for just being God. ❤️ Amen!

Devil is a liar! I know my value and worth! Amen

I am behind in my development when it comes to romantic relationships. I found this information to be clear ,concise and data is both observational and measurable.🙏

Thank you for apologizing for the mishandling others have done. That really touched me💞

TODAY I knew from a “woman’s point of view” how PAINFUL a relational heartbreak feels… Because so many women I know are going through Ministering from behind my styling chair, encouraging them, lifting my sisters up, “If God be for Us, who can be Against Us” & “What God has Joined Together, let No Man put Asunder” But Pastor When I tried to explain to my husband how this felt and how painful it was to feel safe and truly loved and have trust in what he said to me, I’m just hustling I’m going out of town for this music I’m working All the lies 😢 To hear YOU say to me: “I’M SORRY!” Hit home so deep I thought I had cried 2-years ago and here doing what I knoGod has asked me to do! Because my flesh wants me to quit😔 I know I have to do this My second marriage I happened there too, Cheating This time though… My friend My ride or die Wow!! But God A hard road, but necessary God needed me back on track I lost myself in this one Thank You for praying for me A Man of God understands Means the World to me Keep Loving that Beautiful Wife the way you do ❤️ By the way, I introduced my husband to your teaching He watches you all the time Keep doing what you do God Bless🦾

yes God giving me my own closer is the only way I was 85% restored I am continuing to do self work.

Single an want to make sure the lord ordained my union ... My relationship with you lord I can't do without ...

I listened to this video 6 times this week already. I want this to be something that I keep going back to

I've cried out to the Lord

This message was very enlightening and it hit most of us were we are at this point in our life. Thank you as I much needed to hear this word from the Lord. 🙌🏽

Did I not just cry like I'm grieving again for the first time. I'm sorry Dr Dharius is my Pastor and that's it. I'm learning so much from him all the way from South Africa🇿🇦❤️❤️

And YES, I will KEEP listening to this message! EVERY SINGLE TIME I NEED A WORD REGARDING MY SINGLENESS FROM ONE OF GODS ANOINTED!!! Cause it’s some jokers out here..Lord Jesus!!! Greater is HE who is in ME!!!!!!

I felt this sermon in my bones!!!! Whew, Lord!

Help us Lord Jesus to make wise decisions in every area of our lives. Lord we, I need you in all my decision making.

This is great information!!! Praise GOD! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

Mannnn, this is what I’m talking about! This is definitely confirmation that I’m growing because THIS is what I’m on… #truth

Glory!!! This message brought me to tears 😭😭 But I thank God for it all, the good, the bad & the ugly!

Serve each other. Everyone needs gets met. Mutual submission!

I was talking to God today while cutting my grass about relationships and being patient and how my family said good things come to those who wait and I've been scarred for my past relationships and then all of a sudden this message pops up on my KZfaq and I click on it so thank you for this word

Wow!! Just 3 mins in and Pastor is already tearing it up.

Life changing for sure. I feel like DR. D just gave out gold plates! This message tells us so much, it was loaded, valuable information that we can use forever!!! He made us richer today! Thanks so much♥️

God, thank you for being our safe haven. You know every thing that ever hurt, ever deceived, or ever crossed our paths. Heal our hearts to be in alignment with Your will only. Help us to desire the relationship dynamic that Christ has with the church. Not just romantically but with You, our friends, our family and even within ourselves. Remove the carnal and worldly teachings and replace with Christ, Your Word and Your promises. You are the redeemer of all things. Amen 🙏🏾

Sacrificial Love!! Recipe for the kind of relationship we can have. Heart Healing ❤️ ❤ Heal the scars!

Consequential - it effects everything that's important. Decisions are this consequential should not be made casually. Spirit of this age when it comes to Relational decision

The nuggets in this sermon are enlightening and profound, worthy of multiple views and reviews. #selahMoments 🤓🧐

This is one of the best messages I’ve ever heard! Love you Pastor and my Change Church family! Your messages are touching people and changing lives!!!

Wow Spirit of the Age - carnal culture versus Jesus culture

The devil reminds us why we want to stay. Not why we left. 😤

Good message. We can't be driven by culture. We walk by FAITH, not by sight and we are to be led by God's Spirit, not our flesh.

HALLELUJAH!! HOWEVER, I GOT FREEEEEEE!! PRAISE GOD🎉🎉🎉

Jesus... there was a season that I didn't know my value. But i know it now. "I grow and you get the benefit of my growth", the devil is a liar

It’s always that One that if they don’t get you Emotionally, The Gona get you Physically😩🙌🏽 IM GRATEFUL I WALKED AWAY FROM A DV RELATIONSHIP🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

I wish I had found this video years ago!!!

PD continues to amaze me , the anointing in this season is amazing , God bless you in church and the market place

In Jesus name I do not want to be the one Lord. I want you and need you in my life.❤

To fix it, I have to break it. Purpose requires your whole heart ❤️ 💙

Yesss, I am Who He Says I Am!!!! Amen

Such good relationship guidance! Thank you Pastor Daniels!

That one that got through! Wheeewww I cried for 2 weeks knowing I couldn't have him like my heart told me I could.

Father, thank you for using Pastor D. Every young person needs these words. Families should discuss intimately. 👏 Serious and essential data. Amen 🙏

That Bible was for you Dr. Dharious. Thank you for this message... May God continue to keep you and your family...🙏❤

Yes, it makes perfect sense because money is God in a lot of these houses. A lot of Christians serve mammon more than God- not even just family.

Pastor had it ALL TOGETHER TODAY!!!!

This blessed me a whole year later! Thank you Pastor Daniels!! I needed all of this!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

Thank you LORD For this Awesome word!!!

PD you kept it ALL THE WAY REAL! This was a word we need to marinate in!!! I had to go back & listen to digest this word for word! Lord thank you for guidance in the word💯