A Therapist Answers All Your Toughest Money & Life Questions!

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A Therapist Answers All Your Toughest Money & Life Questions!

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Chelsea sits down again with Kati Morton to talk about money, emotions, self-esteem, self-control, and everything in between. She answers the most burning questions from the TFD audience.
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@thefinancialdiet 4 жыл бұрын

In this episode Chelsea and Kati continue their conversation on emotional well-being and financial security. Want more content about how all of this is intricately connected ? Check out this video here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jNubh6yTzM_YgoU.html

@cu8414 4 жыл бұрын

I am loving this new Chelsea who is serving us personality, humour, potty mouth, etc. Been a long time subbie but I have seen the transformation and I am HERE FOR IT. Shout out to y'all!

@chiurosanna5073 4 жыл бұрын

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@vhelma21945 4 жыл бұрын

Yes🙌🏼

@thefinancialdiet 4 жыл бұрын

We love when loyal viewers give us feedback like this ! Thank you !

@foggybottomz 4 жыл бұрын

Kati's advice that resonated with me the most was that not all friendships are meant to last a lifetime.That relieves a lot of guilt and shame!

@anekcm 4 жыл бұрын

Chelsea and TFD, You helped me save up 20k in about a year. Thank you.

@ieatgremlins 4 жыл бұрын

McKena Sharp How?! And congratulations

@thefinancialdiet 4 жыл бұрын

That's phenomenal ! You're so very welcome !

@jmsl910 4 жыл бұрын

bravo i’m so impressed that tfd is normalizing the need for TALKING about mental health issues this is such important information. thank you for taking on this challenge.

@laurenconrad1799 4 жыл бұрын

Kati Morton, Stephanie OConnel and Graham Stephan all within a few weeks? It’s like a financial diet Christmas treat!

@thefinancialdiet 4 жыл бұрын

Happy Holidays Lauren 😉

@somethingsomethingsomethin8366 4 жыл бұрын

Katie is so incredibly empathetic, and her presence is so calming and nice. Her videos has been more helpful for me then some therapy sessions. She's made mental health education so accessable for so many.

@mignonhagemeijer3726 4 жыл бұрын

Having the right therapist is soooo important. You really have to have a "click". I walked a way from a therapist that actually made my issues worse... Then I found one that "spoke my language" and he really helped me.

@PrettyKittyPaintings 4 жыл бұрын

Please bring Kati back on TFD! You should have heard all the ""Mmm" "Preach!" and "Giiiirl"'s I screamed out. This is an extremely valuable video.

@sarahahmed7543 4 жыл бұрын

I do a similar thing for my finances/budget! I write down everything I bought that month and then highlight the things I REGRET buying. For me, it's always take-out food because I didn't take the time to prepare my meal the night before type-of-thing. When you have a total number of money essentially wasted, it really is an eye opener.

@SBSF04 4 жыл бұрын

Sarah Ahmed I will start doing this! Love it

@toastlover 4 жыл бұрын

I can listen to Kati forever. My favorite guest on TFD.

@LylacDoll 4 жыл бұрын

I love the way Kati handles discussing so many different issues. You can tell she just really wants to help people.

@abbyr275 4 жыл бұрын

Best advice a therapist gave us early on (married 30+ yrs) is to have a weekly business meeting with a time limit. We go over our calendars, our spending/budget, things/processes we need to work on (this can be tricky, but we have worked to figure this out), and wrap up with what we appreciate about the other person.

@jefferyfelix1416 4 жыл бұрын

So true. My husband and I try and find the balance between alone time and together time. Plus we both have different things that we like to do and we try and do those things together and then realize it’s a “You do you boo” moment. In other words you go enjoy doing that thing and I’ll be over here doing my thing. When we were newly weds we had a fight and afterwards admitted to being relieved we had fought because it meant we were past the honeymoon phase and didn’t want to just please each other but wanted to communicate about how we felt fully and honestly.

@craig-investwaves9869 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely love the thing about keeping emotional/mental health and financials separate. Good financial health needs to be separate from the emotional triggers, but it's SO NATURAL to allow our emotions to affect our finances.

@siobhan8977 4 жыл бұрын

I love how often “do you listen to my favorite murder?” comes up in just every day conversation

@HeyItsDena 4 жыл бұрын

Dear TFD, YOU'RE my therapy! 😍I absolutely love these series with Kati! Very insightful:)

@ieatgremlins 4 жыл бұрын

Yes! I am so happy this discussion on the intersection of mental illness and finances exists! My bulimia was extremely expensive! Beyond causing damage to my physical health which I later had to fix with costly medical visits, it left me with debt, a tendency for impulsive spending and a sense of arrested development due to my financial instability. I didn’t feel like an adult until very recently because I was so ashamed of my money troubles. Now that I am in recovery, I’ve taken big steps into becoming financially stable again but it’s taken lots of hard work and pain that could have been avoided. Thank you for doing this ❤️

@jamian94 4 жыл бұрын

I love this, may subconsciously be why I ended up starting therapy this year. Ive already noticed that maintaining my mental health has reduced my consumption and spending on sweets. Funny how that works. Thanks TFD ❤️

@katekramarenko5911 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for talking about these difficult topics! Having a better feel after this

@Alexthomas735 4 жыл бұрын

I could listen to chelsea and Kati talk for forever! I would love to see her on the podcast 💙

@adorapollard7308 4 жыл бұрын

Chelsea TFD just gets better and better! Love all these videos featuring guests and love all of your questions and the insightful answers. They’re so informative and inspiring. I always feel so great after I watch your videos especially when they feature Kati Morton. You’re both definitely a cherished part of my self care routine.💅🏻🧘🏼‍♀️🥰

@igut214 4 жыл бұрын

It's really cool bc I saw it on Kati's insta story but I had no idea for what to ask and now it's mentioned in a video, feels cool

@katnaps05 4 жыл бұрын

Really needed this. Recently lost my job and it's been extremely difficult. Thank you

@LoveofChocolate18 4 жыл бұрын

That sucks. I hope the world brings you an even better job.

@KristinaMorrison 4 жыл бұрын

Kat Navarro that’s rough, sending love and light that things get better. Xx

@chiurosanna5073 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the great talk and meaningful life tips, this video worthies watching over and over even though just listening to the conversation as a podcast. 💕🙏

@blciffa 4 жыл бұрын

Wow I found this so helpful. I've never seen a therapist but I really enjoyed her insight.

@Seagullflying 4 жыл бұрын

Loved this episode. Great timing. Really needed to hear all this right about now... ♡

@ginarivera1881 4 жыл бұрын

This is so hugely helpful. Thank you for this video!!

@JenniferTijssen 4 жыл бұрын

This was really great, thank you so much!

@lubnan08 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing series. Thank you.

@destineeirons 4 жыл бұрын

Love both of them!! Such a great video!!

@dagnyarizona 4 жыл бұрын

Wow thank you for talking about sleeping alone. I am a dancer and sleep is vital to my recovery and I feel kind of bad that for recovery’s sake I prefer to sleep alone undisturbed. As much as I love the pre sleep cuddles, tossing and turning because of another human being isn’t the best. I like the once a week idea!

@KayLoveNYC 4 жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed this video. Thank you.

@ninavorobeva4927 3 жыл бұрын

Oh I love you both, my beautiful inspirations! ❤

@cllpz916 4 жыл бұрын

I haven’t watched this, both are favorite youtubers thanks!!

@lavayuki 4 жыл бұрын

I find I always get anxious around money, even if I have enough I always have a fear of running out and always need to have more than I need. I also can be stingy especially when spending on things like eating out, gifts and drinks where I try to spend as less as possinle

@kitkatwitch 4 жыл бұрын

Part of my budgeting is setting aside money to be "wasted" on myself. I have to give myself permission to spend within reasonable limits without guilt.

@Barnacl3_Boi Жыл бұрын

LOVE this one! Round 2 sometime?

@seoshicreese6678 4 жыл бұрын

great talk. thanks for this content.

@dragonsashimi 4 жыл бұрын

Two of my favorite things! TFD and MFM!

@kristinecates4692 4 жыл бұрын

Great content! I love Kati.

@janeevans9382 4 жыл бұрын

Great episode. Thanks!

@crazynlovineach2nd 4 жыл бұрын

How do you differentiate between 'good saving' and saving from anxiety about the future. I'm too scared to buy stuff I actually need in case of recession even though I'm doing ok at the minute.

@nikkicole54321 4 жыл бұрын

i think you have to consider the motivation behind the saving.

@shellym9657 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, sleeping alone!

@waffles2527 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent video

@michaelaNkristin 4 жыл бұрын

Fangirling over this duo! 🙌

@flufftronable 4 жыл бұрын

Love Kati ❤️

@mouseluva 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you financial diet for integrating money and health with each other and all parts of life. Good habits can't work in isolation

@pebbles7003 4 жыл бұрын

that was amazing

@noraann6372 4 жыл бұрын

I LOVE Kati 😍🥰!

@oliviagiles 4 жыл бұрын

I have been married 20 years and love my husband and the best thing we ever did was NOT sleeping together, we "visit" hehehe

@TooManyHobbiesJeremy 4 жыл бұрын

A great collab

@irinapavlova4682 4 жыл бұрын

You are so cool, girls) great video! Very interesting topic

@trailertrish 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks to both of u for making this content! ❤❤❤

@indieconquers 4 жыл бұрын

You should link Katie's Patreon in the descriptions of the videos she collabs on. Get her paid!

@adriarichman2156 4 жыл бұрын

Chelsea, this is a bit off-topic, but are those white desks in the office from The Container Store by any chance? I think I have the same one!

@aubreyrogers8601 4 жыл бұрын

I know I need to regularly see a therapist, but even the thought of finding, contacting and financing that causes me so much anxiety i feel like its impossible. How can I navigate this problem?

@jefferyfelix1416 4 жыл бұрын

Research therapists in your area to find ones that you feel comfortable with. Contact them and ask if they offer a sliding scale because a lot of therapists will offer that. There may also be free group therapy sessions in your area where you could get some help with what you need to work through.

@cpunykurde 4 жыл бұрын

I went through similar feelings anxiety, especially after being rejected admission to a short therapy at my university (it was my first time being vulnerable like that. It hurt). What helped me, was to do some autotherapy first (lots of youtube videos, meditation, blogs and books). When I got a little better, I got strength to find a new therapist. I still waited some weeks, and I contacted her when I had a good productive day. And I did it fast after having the idea, before my anxious thoughts could take over. So I suggest that to you, but also if you can, maybe you can find a friend or a sibling who could search someone for you. You can try to identify if some of your friends go to therapy, they are the ones that would understand you. Also, maybe you can try finding a therapist online, that might be less stressful for you (and you can find cheap online therapy platforms! One I've heard of is called Better Help. Also, check out online therapist from other countries that speak your language. They might be cheaper as well). Also, just do one meeting, realize there's no commitment necessary from your side. And try to find out what exactly in this situation makes you so anxious. Is it being vulnerable? Is it worrying what others will think of you? Are you worried that the therapist will not help, but when you're not reaching out, you can still have hope for help? Are you maybe not ready to face all your problems and you think that the therapist will insist on digging deep into pain? Are you afraid of being judged by the therapist? Identifying the cause of anxiety is the most important I believe! And remember, it's ok to give yourself some months of not searching for therapy. You can wait to be more ready. Wish you the best! And be gentle to yourself:)

@jacquelinele9170 4 жыл бұрын

I feel this 😩 it took me so long to find a therapist within my health insurance network, and then it was a terrible therapy experience. I haven't found the energy to go through the whole process again to find a new one

@flexknits 4 жыл бұрын

Chelsea, literally married: IVE NEVER HAD SEX 😂

@kellyknight551 4 жыл бұрын

Got notified there was a new video and it's private what's up with that?

@cltinturkey 4 жыл бұрын

Great chat! How is it that you're both wearing exactly the same things you wore last month and the background hasn't changed at all? Curious . . .

@LindseyObrooke 4 жыл бұрын

MARC IN THE BACKGROUND

@MsJbetancur 4 жыл бұрын

Can we just talk about how Chelsea is so beautiful, inside and out? Just a natural beauty.

@polyesterbebe 4 жыл бұрын

Engagement

@brentonjoseph 4 жыл бұрын

21:31

@phaedrakali3949 4 жыл бұрын

So for your spouse you go to therapy to work on your relationship but with a friend it’s okay to just let them fade-away? Why is everyone talking about trying to stay in a relationship when it’s less or no fun?

@ramenchuu 4 жыл бұрын

My only complaint is that theres not more

@samsong3788 4 жыл бұрын

Wait how come no one answers the question at 0:37??? TFD, help!

@katrinaa980 4 жыл бұрын

I love these videos but I always want to tidy up the items in the background, the disorganization is so distracting to me.

@dflehrman1 4 жыл бұрын

Ahh I love that you are both murderinos 😍

@twilightzone52 4 жыл бұрын

SSDGM!!!!!!!!!!!

@irishdancing222 4 жыл бұрын

Muderinos ... roll call

@cassandrasiegel-chau6645 4 жыл бұрын

SSDGM!

@tomgwerzman3644 4 жыл бұрын

Murderino's unite ✌🏻

@madeline5175 4 жыл бұрын

SSDGM

@haileystorm768 4 жыл бұрын

Omg. Chelsea is a murderino!!!! Yay!

@chikitanumber1 4 жыл бұрын

I think chelsea zoned out at some point

@teambennett-wells962 4 жыл бұрын

She looks like Daria from mtv. But I like the new hair

@iviefirestarter 4 жыл бұрын

team Bennett-wells I don’t quite see it....

@lorettauppercue6400 4 жыл бұрын

Okay,just an observation, your two videos with this guest were posted a month apart, and you introduce her...Thanks for having me back....but you're both wearing same clothes in both videos. Obviously made the same day....Good content though, but distracted by this on the second go around

@emmadenton1826 4 жыл бұрын

Isn't Kati the woman who appeared on Shane Dawsons documentary about Jake Paul? Because that was filled with a lot of problematic mischaracterisations of mental illnesses. To the point of it feeling like plain misinformation.