It is really refreshing to see someone who is struggling and overcoming! We all know what a clean house looks like, but getting it there when you're not a perfect person is the issue. Thank you for walking us through what works for you. I know it helps me!

You are so fun. I am lying here, trying to find the energy to get up and clean, and getting pissed off on your behalf that people think they have the right to criticize you. You are clearly trying to raise decent children and have a happy, clean home. Thank you!

I'm one of those people. I came for the cleaning and stayed for the voice-over. I prefer someone talking about what they're doing and why. It helps with my body doubling; it feels like you're having a chat with me

I’m very impressed by your emotional intelligence and how well you articulate your experiences.

Hello iam from sweden. And I love your accecent. 😊

I'm not sure why you showed up in my feed. I'm so glad you did. I'm in the southern part of the USA. I'm a lot older than you. When I was your age, I had two small girls and worked full time. I was always overwhelmed but, for a different reason. My house was always clean because people pop in without warning and I couldn't handle anyone having a low opinion of me. While everyone thought I was handling everything I was really screaming inside and falling apart. When my marriage fell apart no one was more surprised than me. Apparently, I was so busy taking care that everything was so perfect I quit paying any attention to him. He found someone who would. That was 32 years ago. I still feel sad about it. We co-parented our girls, both remarried eventually, and share our grandchildren. We are friends now but, it was a long road. I love how you give yourself forgiveness. That was unheard of in my day. You do you. You are lovely. Your children look well cared for. Don't let someones opinion hurt you.

When I was a young married working mother with 3 kids...I used to run myself ragged trying to keep the house clean..my mom would say.. "You've got too much stuff you need to get rid of some of it... I hated when she said that..I was attached to my stuff & didn't want to part with it..Finally I saw what she saw & came up with the idea of putting stuff away in storage totes in my basement...my house looked bare to me & I didn't like it at first..I love to display pretty things around my house..but cleaning & moving things that don't necessarily need to be on display..or toys that wound up all over in every room was so overwhelming & consumed so much time..So I put most of it away.. Especially the toys..I left out a few.. after awhile I'd put those away & bring out different toys..not having toys all over in every room was much easier & the kids appreciated seeing a few items they haven't seen in awhile..oh I didn't tell them because there'd be resistance..I observed the toys they played with the least and began to put them away gradually..They didnt notice..This system of putting our stuff away changed my life..It was then that I realized my mom's comment wasn't a dig she was full of wisdom & was helping me..

Opinions are like bums. Everyone has them and they all stink. That being said…sweetie, you are doing a fantastic job. We do the best we can with what we got and under the circumstances. We had 7 children and the house was never completely clean cuz it always seemed the kids were always right behind me undoing what I’d just done. But I love my children and I always let them know that even to this day. So don’t beat yourself up. You are amazing.

Some people seem to think they are experts on other people's lives.

I love that you put your children first, then cleaning.❤

Thank you for your videos! They are encouraging and educating. Skip over all negative comments and read the ones that really matter. The ones that reinforce that you are a great person who is helping a lot of other people. Thank you! Your videos are motivating, encouraging and satisfying.

If you don’t CARE what these mean people say you take away all their power! Just do not let their comments rankle - fluff them off your strong shoulders with a flick & a wave! “Children are playing and imagining and being kids” - you are so right - let them be kids! They learn by example - but each child is different - let them be who they are! 😊❤

❤ love your videos, and I can tell you are a great mom. A perfectly clean house and being a good parent are not mutually exclusive. Have a wonderful holiday! 😊

Finally someone who is normal

Ike is learning to tidy by helping you. You are so intelligent and well spoken. Love listening to you. I'm 75 and still can't get over how fast it all piles up. Your parenting attitude is outstanding. You've learned a lot from your own childhood and are using that knowledge to raise a couple of beautiful human beings. You are the BOMB !!!💕💕💕

I totally do this before we go away! It’s a great feeling when you get back home and it’s completely clean and you don’t have to worry about anything ❤

I do love your voice overs! You cover real life happenings instead of ASMR type house that doesn't even look lived in! Screw the haters & just do you for little family ❤

I find it hilarious that other people get so offended by the state of strangers homes. You don’t live there. Why do you care so much? 😂 Thank you for showing a house that looks like mine!

Thanks for the videos! Please ignore when people nitpick you.

You have an amazing attitude! The 1st thing I told my daughter when she was having a baby was to ignore other's unsolicited advice. I remember as a young mother being devastated by other's opinions. And there were a lot of opinions. Lol Stay strong and positive. You're doing great!

I am so happy that I found your channel. you are such a lovely woman. best wishes :)

I too have been messy all my life and I'm much older than you. You have given me such a boost. Thank you sweetheart! Stefanie from USA

They’re children and should be allowed to be so! As long as you’re teaching them life skills all along, you can still allow them their childhoods. When I was a teacher, I hated assigning too much homework. The kids had been at their “jobs” all day and needed to be children when they got home. And don’t forget most of all to teach them that Jesus loves them! And you! ❤

When I had all my young ones running around I gave them a clean paintbrush and a very small bowl of water. I told them they could help mom by painting the wall. They dipped the brushes on the water and painted our walls. I finished my room ,looked at the wall and told them it was wonderful. They loved it and it kept them right beside me but out of the chemicals. I don't know if any of my ideas help but you seem like a lovely person and I have little tips and tricks to distract while they still feel like they are helping. Also I was a preschool teacher and a life coach. I have learned alot over the years. I believe this channel will be a help to many people!

You keep doing you! You're doing a great job Mama.

You have a beautiful voice... Love your videos

I love your attitude about hate-filled comments.

Wow! I came here for the cleaning & feel like I found a friend! I adore you!

You, are one tough cookie! You just keep going, like the lil energizer bunny . Dont forget to set a side some time for yourself to relax too.

You sound a wonderful mum, a real mum and I wish I'd had one like you ...❤️💐💐💐💐☘️

Your boys will never remember whether every room was perfect, but they WILL remember the piano lessons, the hugs, the laughs

Remi, you are wonderful mum.Its joy to see how your calm, kind and lovely with your boys.Its so nice to hear your confidence and assertiveness.Well done! You are motivating me a lot through your videos and voice overs.Thank you❤

I have gotten rather addicted to watching your videos since I discovered them a few days ago. My late husband was British and so hearing you speak is nostalgic, though his accent was not particularly like yours! I’m American, but have lived in Canada over 40 years. But he and I did a trip to Cornwall before we were married , and I loved it so much! He’s been gone a few years now. Interesting to remember how it is living with small children! I love how caring you are towards your children and other family members! 😊 be happy!

You opening that kitchen window with a rolling pin I'm the same😂😂😂😂

You are so awesome!!! Yes!!! Sometimes you are just messy! Super neat people don't understand. I'm love watching you clean. Especially your aunt's house video, it reminded me of mine. You show it can be done to fix it. Thank you 😊 btw your voice and accent is super amazing and soothing to listen to ❤

Thank you sooo much! I am so glad I am not alone and feel the list idea is going to work for me. I am a certified life coach and think you would be awesome in the field. Hope you had a wonderful vacation ❤️

When it comes to instilling good cleaning habits for children that will last throughout their life, being a role model and showing them how to accomplish things is much more important than having strict standards. Your kids getting involved in the cleaning voluntarily is a perfect way to illustrate how your behaviors are positively influencing them. As they get older, that's when implementing chores and clean-up expectations are more important for the long term success for you all. I'm glad for all your commentary and it helps me reflect on my childhood as well as how my parenting can/should be with regards to household maintenance.

You are amazing, Remi! It's so cool that you responded to the nasty comments so clearly & with conviction! Another commenter today said you're wise beyond your years. I agree!!! Love your videos, love your voice, love what you say, and love how you're helping so many of us who struggle with keeping our places neat. Thank you!!! ❤❤❤

I love how you have such grace and understanding with your kids and their healthy development. THAT is what matters.

I don’t think your home is bad at all, considering the kids and life in a small space. You always scrub everything down so well. I think you’re doing great. Give yourself some grace and try to ignore the negativity. 💜

I have watch other people do cleanups but yours are the best. You live a real life; life is messy.

I just discovered you today. Very encouraging and I'm binging as I clean right now. I love your voice! It's soothing to listen to you and I actually responded to you a couple times as if we were having a conversation! You're lovely! Blessings to you and the family!

My God. People have no life if they are nitpicking at you. You are a young Mum and you are doing a fab job ❤

Yours is one of the few cleaning channels that I subscribe to because it is realistic, fun and because you teach me a lot about practical housework. I really don’t want to watch someone “clean” and “tidy” an already immaculate house that looks staged, and probably is.

The baby playing with the sponge like his momma is so wholesome ❤

❤You're SANE, BALANCED, THOUGHTFUL, NORMAL and GENUINELY KIND. Keep up.the good posts.

Parenting doesn’t come with a manual…People need to get a grip! You rock, Remi!❤

i have mental chronic illness your videos really help me good luck on your journey thru life

Hello Remi . Frenchie here , old grandma . You made me laugh when I saw you jump on the bed when you changed the bedclothes . Perfectly understandable when the bed is where it is , but funny all the same .And I also had parents who were so very strict about never having anything out and about and well I was miserable as a child and have become the most messy woman ever .So no , example doesn’t necessary works . I was lucky enough to have a very tidy husband and we made it work . People who have nothing pleasant to say should shut up . Have a wonderful holiday , no terrible bin when you get back ! Lol

Just found your channel, honestly I thought you were in my house😂😂 It is soooo refreshing actually seeing a normal person in a normal family home. Thank you. Xx

I just wanted to thank you for your very real videos and putting yourself out there to help others - you're amazing! I love your voiceovers - very natural - it's like listening to a wise friend with nothing but positivity and insight to share. You make so many people feel less alone (and less guilty) in their cleaning struggles. I find it so challenging to keep on top of daily cleaning/tidying, it very quickly builds up and becomes overwhleming... not knowing where to start and so avoiding it - you motivate me to do better! Executive dysfunction is something I'm going to need to do more research on. You are doing a wonderful job, and what an amazing mum you are to your boys (loving your approach to parenting too).

Girl, it’s so ace to see a normal mum doing these… some of the channels are great, but don’t show actual real life… and really appreciate your honesty. Have a great time in Cornwall… It’s where I live, and agree that there is definitely something about the place that is just special… Would love to see you do more vids, so keep em coming k? Xx

This was an especially captivating and strategic video. It’s was so heartwarming and adorable to see your little one handing you the laundry 🧺 and your older son helping to clean up. Your words are sound and your attitude impressively assertive. You’re going to go far with this channel. Enjoy your vacation😊

My mom always said (after having 3 girls): “if you to think you’re going to keep everything picked up and picture perfect, then you’ll be doing it 24/7 and that’s not possible, so don’t”. She was right; I tried anyway after having 2 and just about wore myself out. Don’t sweat it - let them be children. I lo e the way you do things! ❤️

OMG!!! I don't very often comment on videos but I'm just sick of watching good people, who take the time to try & motivate others, being berated by these anonymous perfect parents!! I'm in my 70's, I have 4 grown up children who believe it or not never had set chores. They all now have their own homes & are well rounded intelligent adults. One daughter is a nurse who manages the renal unit at a local hospital; my son is an electrical contracts manager; another daughter is in charge of admin at a local company & my youngest daughter is the director of a pharmaceutical company. Between them, they have brought up families & taken care of homes all without having set chores & schedules for cleaning during their childhoods...I allowed them to be children. They had rules about being kind & respectful & they have carried that through to the next generation. Keep doing what you are doing!!!

You are a wonderful Mother and wise young lady. So glad you let your children be children. They play and enjoy their toys even though that means little pieces are everywhere. I know all about it. I'm so glad you are sticking up for yourself. The last time I checked there were no perfect Mother's. 😊

I just can't get over how pleasant it is to listen to you~ I could listen to you for hours. I'm such a fan now and I've only known about you for two days! 😻Thank you for letting us into your lovely home and visiting with you and your boys!! Hugs to you all from Colorado 💜

Oh my, sounds to me like you have some busy bodies. Well I'm glad you are standing up to them, because if they are saying all that they are bullies. And bullies don't stop until you show them you are not scared of them. I have 2 grown children, and i will tell you what i tell them. When children are born they do not come with an instruction manual😂 so don't worry about hateful people. Just do the best you can and it will all turn out fine in the end. 😊

You do you, sister. Don’t listen to negativity. You’re obviously a wonderful mother in the most important way: unconditional love

Love your videos and your sweet nature! Have a wonderful time with your family on vacation.

I have a tip. You do you! People judge to much and are quick to speak. I think your awesome!

I found you about two days. The amount of joy and peace I get from your videos. I love how real you are.

There was no internet when I was bringing up my children. How I wish there had been! I would have found vlogs like this a godsend. Re tidying up, I suppose we all have to tidy up to some extent, but it should never come before children’s happiness. I read once “your kids won’t remember the days the house was super-tidy, but they will remember the days you took time out to play with them, take them to the park, etc”.

I just started watching your videos and they're so nice to listen to! A bit of positivism and uplifting yet relatable content! My favorite quote that i heard from you is "those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind"!

I love your videos Remi, love that you just do you. Your deliciously imperfect, relatable, real and just so lovely. Thanks for being exactly as you are x

The comments of some people on here amaze me you seem a lovely caring person you shouldn't have to explain yourself to anyone keep up the good work you have a good outlook on life have a lovely holiday 😊

I have been really enjoying binge watching your videos! Me and all my kids are naturally messy, and I am daily trying to combat the clutter and keep things tidy, and I often feel alone in my efforts. I love that your channel is a guilt free zone and I love the voice over and I’m truly not a fan of music while I’m watching cleaning motivation …those types of videos I often turn off because while I’m cleaning I want to hear something worthwhile. I enjoy hearing your thoughts and explanations and grace that we all need to give ourselves. Through you I’m learning to tidy while not having unreal expectations and know that my house is just fine because we actually live here and use stuff and yes make messes!❤

Finally someone I can relate to

When I first clicked on your videos and you were talking about being a lofelong messy person, I felt understood for the first time in my life. So thank you for that and for being here. ❤

I'm a mum of three grown boys and at this point in my life and theirs, I think I've seen it all. Watching you and listening to your voice over has led to this conclusion: you're wise beyond your years. You're spot on about everything. Here's to enjoying your young ones while you still can because they grow up so fast. The housework will never end but their childhood will and when you look back, you'll remember fondly the memories made while loving them and playing with them.

I love your voice! Both in what you say, as well as how you say it! As an American with a plain vanilla no-accent voice, I find you thoroughly charming, and I am looking forward to watching you for years!!

You’re absolutely amazing, Mum!!!! Well done. Remember you are not alone. From another Mum with love. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I really love how open and raw you are, it's refreshing and what you talk about is relatable. Enjoy your holiday, especially the growth to enjoy it with your lovely family! Thank you for being you 🎉

I relate so much to your childhood. Not because my mom was super tidy, because she wasnt, but I was expected to be better at being tidy and organized and felt ashamed that I got distracted when being made to clean my room. I'm in my 40s with 2 teenagers and they're both learning to clean up their spaces, but I still feel ashamed by my extremely tidy British in laws (I'm American and live in England)....not because they say anything to me about the clutter, but because I know they're thinking it....because I'm also thinking it. I'm a lot better than I used to be, but it's overwhelming. Things get so messy so quickly after I've cleaned, even though my kids are no longer small. It's frustrating.

I have find this works: Blue for the loo Pink for the sink 'cleaning cloths' i mean. 😊

I think you are doing wonderful. Some people have not got a clue about parenting, house comes first but you are doing fantastic. I struggle greatly with house but thank God my children have grown up happy and mature. Well done you.💕💕💕

I absolutely love you. Keep being you. I'm 55 years old and get so much inspiration from you and can relate to you so much. Just wish I understood this at your age. Hope you have a well deserved rest on your holiday xx❤

Hello there! Thank you for your video! I have a child like yours, people will never understand how it is if your kid can't be contained. They can't imagine! We have a saying: cleaning your home with the kids at home is like brushing your teeth while eating bread with chocolate spread 😂 you do your best and you KNOW. That's what matters. On no gravestone is written: she kept a pristine house ❤ have a lovely holiday, and greetings from Luxembourg

Your videоs motivated me to clean my home faster than my Vakunbotic robot does ❤

I love your channel! Please pay no heed to criticisms from those with no or one child. There are many of us out here who get it! In 30 minutes time, one child can trash multiple rooms.

I struggle and I used to not struggle at all with housework. But that was before my momma died. It hasn't been a year yet but will before I am wanting it to be. If I had it my way it would never happen. I'm finding my way back & I just found you recently and I find listening to you helps me. Thank you! ❤

Thank you for your honesty and encouragement and for keeping it real! Keep up the good 'work'!

Watching your littles ones try to help you clean is so cute.

I’m from the USA 🇺🇸 and I luv watching u and hearing ur voice!!! Ty for taking the time and sharing your life 💜

Love these videos! We're expecting our 3rd child, due in just over a week now. I've been struggling so much lately with trying to stay on top of things because it's so uncomfortable at this point. But your videos are really encouraging to not get overwhelmed, and take things one step at a time. And after baby comes, I'm definitely going to start implementing the methods you use, because cleaning has always been my biggest struggle, and I've always felt like a failure because of it. Hope y'all enjoy your vacation!

There's so many mean people in this world. Love to hear your positive outlook. Also, I have ADHD and my executive dysfunction has been horrendous for a good while. This gave me the motivation to deep clean my bathroom. Thank you!

Just watched your video and wanted to encourage you and tell you that you are doing an amazing job as a mother and keeper of your home. God bless you. 💗🌻

I have just found your channel, and what a breath of fresh air its so nice to see someone showing the messy side of their personality ( I have always been the same) . My kids are grown up and left and its just me and I feel so overwhelmed sometimes that I am paralysed, No idea where to start so nothing gets done. Today I have started on my tidying journey and will be watching your videos to help keep me motivated. Thank you

Remi you are the lovliest person on this planet 💖🤗💖XXXX

I could listen to you talk for hours, because your understanding of being a messy person, and clutter, and how things WILL get messy again but that is not a moral failing - I love how non-judgemental you are! I was just watching the video of you cleaning your aunties house and loved the part where you say you don’t expect her to keep it up! I almost teared up! Thank you for being so kind to yourself and others, and teaching your kids how to clean and tidy in a gentle and supportive way! Wish I’d had that growing up!

Hope you have a lovely holiday

I absolutely love love, love, love your videos. I never knew there was a word for struggling to do any task. Executive dysfunction. I could think about wanting to take a walk around my neighbourhood, and that just doesn't happen. Cleaning, it's this huge chore that weighs on my mind. (I grew up with a single mom who didn't encourage to clean by example, or ask I clean the home on a consistent basis. (My brain never thought to clean up by taking initiative..?) We lived very messily my entire life. Sadly, I continue to live just as messy as ever..) I'm doing a lot better when I set out with a determined intention to clean the kitchen or tidying up the living room. In fact, I'm slowly cleaning the house now while trying to find your longer videos. (While TikTok's short video's has gotten so popular with people of all ages to the point other social media platforms try introducing this media format for their webpages, I don't like videos like that). I love your longer videos, and listening to you share pieces of your life. I feel like we would make good friends. While I have my dogs I treat as children, you have your actual children. I'm always supporting you!! - Mary from Smithville, Texas

The “criticism” you talked about in this video is exactly why I never want anyone to come over for a visit! My sisters haven’t been to my house in many years and one of them will still make comments about how it’s not clean. This is very hurtful to me and so it was very comforting to hear you just “blow off” the horrible things that people say about you. I feel sad for the perfect people who have to criticize and judge others to keep themselves feeling good. God is the only judge! I am in such a better mental health place now than I was a couple weeks ago when I found your videos. I think you are amazing and I’m so grateful that you are courageous and kind enough to share your stories! My goal is to someday be as diligent as you are about getting my house cleaned up. I am so looking forward to you decluttering video! I am a true hoarder and I am still having a lot of trouble getting rid of things. Especially things that remind me of my son and mother who have passed. I have SO MUCH STUFF that I need to go through. That is the biggest hurdle for me worsening my anxiety and depression because of the overwhelming amount of STUFF! I just don’t know how or where to begin! Thank you again for your help and I wish many blessings for you and your beautiful family ❤

I love your videos! I’m a single mom of three kids in a two bedroom apt. Tiny spaces get messy fast! ❤

Remi is such a lady. I am from America and the children here are so spoiled. You are loving and calm. I love your story.

You are such a lovely person 💖🥰

I love your videos they are the best❤

Remi, you are so beautiful, wise and insightful. I absolutely adore you. You are a brilliant, kind mother and partner. And, you have a lovely home xx

I just love your voice. It’s so soothing. I also love your honesty about every day things.

I should be cleaning but I enjoyed watching and listening to you instead. I agree nothing worse than coming home to a dirty house. I too prefer not using a mop in the bathrooms. You're doing great as s mom and caretaker of your family but you know this already. New subscriber from Tennessee USA.