I wasted 12 years of my married life living in a joint family in hope that children we grow up in a social environment, but today I regret and find myself guilty of not providing my wife with her rights and allow her to live life her upto her liking and moreover not having apni duniya. काश आप पहले मिले होते सर।

I always felt this that if a girl's parents can manage living alone after her marriage, so can a boy's parents. There's nothing wrong in the newly married couple living in a new place after marriage.

I lived 20 years in joint family I don't have 20 memories to smile Last 2 years I am living in my home🏠with my sukun i am fully agree with what you say sir 🙏🙏

You are a blunt speaker but thats what our society needs

I live in sperate house but near by my parents. We visit there place twice in a week just for fun. Living seprately was my decision and it was most accurate step i took. We all are happy and everyone there own space and comfort.

OMG. No one till date I could find, who understands the real issue. Hats of to you sir. thank you for sharing.

I should have followed you 2 years back... toh situation far better hoti... thanks for your very practical advice Sangwan ji as usual 👍

Sir aapko yeh channel bohoth pehle shuru karna chahiye tha..amazingly factful honest and ekdham straight talks👏👏👏most importantly very entertaining and educative too to the coming generations to understand just by listening to how their older generations would have been living. Thanks sir for opening so many peoples eyes.🙏godbless

This thing I realised within a month of marriage...for the sake of family you start doing things which they like..it's some other kind of suffocation you can't express... except on comment section

I have always lived my Life on my terms n I’m 55 today No Regrets in Life at all

Well said Sir...I m unmarried girl and living with my widow mom...n I m suffering a lot as you said ..

What a point Guruji thats why I love my Hostel 4*5 room more than my own 4 floor home in the same city as My hostel room is like my little world jahan almost hamari chalti hai hamara control hai

Sir u are very straightforward,outspoken and brutally honest.

I wonder itni jaroori baton wale video ko itne kam (890)like mil te hai or vahiyat halke bematlab video ko million likes milte hai. Ye hai batata hai ki 90 % insaan kyo dukhi hai. Thank you sir keep doing the good work.

Apka life analysis gazab ka hai sir.aapke ek ek word k saath mujhe meri life ka flashback nazar aa raha tha.shadi k baad se hi pure ghar k saare kam ki jimmedari meri thi lekin kaam kaise hoga ye mere in laws decide karte the (generally males ka in baaton mein interest nahi hota, lekin mere fil k case me ye ulta tha).saara kaam karne k baad bhi hamesha negative baatein hi sunaate the. Kai saal se main backache se suffer kar rahi thi aur subah uthkar mujhe niche k floor par jana padta tha, kyonki kitchen niche thi,.subah uthte hi niche jana mere liye ek painful task hota tha,magar mujhe pehle sari pehanni hoti, phir niche ja sakti thi☹️. kai saal hum husband wife koshish karte rahe ki dusari jegah ghar le len(in laws to saath hi rehte)lekin ghar lene ki baat par hi mere fil dadagiri type tewar dikhaane lagte the, demotivate karne ki koi kasar nahi chhodte the.ab mujhe samajh aata hai (,jab hamara khud ka ghar hai,)ki unke dimaag me hamesha apne hisaab se ghar ko aur humein control karne ki ichcha thi.yahi ki jab tak jiyenge hum par apna dabaav banakar rehenge.aur ye sab pressure aur misbehave mere bachchon ke saamne bhi karte the.aaj result ye hai ki mere dil me to bitterness hai hi,mere bachche bhi unse limited baat karna hi pasand karte hain☹️.I wish aap pehle milte aur ye video main apne husband ko pehle dikha pati, humein us life se bahar aane me 22 saal lag gaye.aur mere husband ko ye samajhne me ki unki duniya mata pita nahi, wife aur bachche hain.

All the clashes in the family can be resolved if people really follow and understand these tips and morals. Thank you so much for your support and Guidance sir 🙏 😊 ❤️

Simple and logical.. human relationships are complex.👍

I have just started listening to your talks, Sir and I am enthralled to say the least... How do you come up with these amazing topics?? You seem to be the only man to have understood the mind of a woman inside out... It's uncanny how perfectly you have touched upon every little thought that crosses our minds. .. You have hit the nail on the proverbial head.... Your wife is one lucky woman !

Nice n right thoughts ☑️☑️♥️♥️👍👍 space to all is imp ... ♥️♥️☑️☑️

Logic and ration wrapped in good sense and spiced with humor! What’s not to like?

The manner you are suggesting to solve problems of life is very practical. I appreciate🙏🙏🙏..

Sir ,Gratitude to you .Saw lots of videos together today.. Subscribed as well..In each and every video...I felt like you are touching my life aspects .

बहुत ही बेहतरीन वीडीयो। सामाजिक ताने बाने की बेहतरीन समझ.

I was listening this with my hubby...great sir!

It's very amazing that you have such a exact capture of scenarios and their reasons. Seems you can read minds of all around you . Awesome video

Me rhti hu sukoon se.... Thora h thore ki zrurt h.... Apna ghr.. Ek choti si naukri.. Ek chota sa garden....self respect aur freedom.. Aur kya chaiye

Bohot hi badhiya tarah se aapne samjhaya hai. Choti choti baatein hi bade blast karvati hai... Nice observation and thank you very much for making this video !

M 29yrs old women just married .mujhe apki koi v video aisa nai hua hai ki achhi na lagi ho .apki baatein bht deep hai bt bht logo ko smj nai aati.maine ek video bheja tha apne brother in law ko to unhone ek video return me bheja jiska topic tha -take care of your parents😃.mujhe bht hasi v aai n khud p gussa v ki maine video nai bhejna chaiye tha .broad mind hoke sochna is really bless.we can’t xpect ki sab batein smj paye.khair keep making videos .your content is not new bt you have just given words to the thoughts.big thumbs up to u sir❤

Thank you so much for this beautiful advice.

Sir ur too good ek ap he ho jo sach boltey ho sabki feelings samajtey ho u r really practical I really respect u kash sab husband's ki thinking ap jesey ho jaye jeney ka haq aur apni duniya bsaney ka haq toh sab ko hai joint families are the worst thing in this world bcoz I m suffering all same problems what u r sharing in this video I m just fed up

Very well explained, amazing and magical thoughts on how to live peacefully!

I just started to watch ur videos, very motivational, we all need our space to keep Peace and Harmony!!

You are telling the truth of life .

I totally agree with you. I stay close to my in laws in a separate house.Aise hum pass ke pass hai aur door ke door.Dukh sukh me sath rahete hai.Aur dono ki sukoon ki duniya hai

I am actually in this situation currently. Due to corona and my wife was pregnant i decided to move with parents. work from home hojayega and the new member ke saath sabhi enjoy karenge. But wife and mother ke beech me bohot ashanti badh gaya hei. So ultimately i am in big loss. Big loss as in cracks in relationship between wife and mom. your video is very helpful. All will be sad to stay separate but will bring happiness later and when time comes when togetherness is required all will be ready to mingle. Thank you Sango ji.

Your video is so amazing, everything you are saying is so practical and true Sir ji! But irony is nobody talks so sensible 🙄. Thank God atleast you are talking!!

Wagle ki duniya is a good example of shukun ki duniya!

Sir really you are doing wonderful job.. keep it up

Thanks for such a wonderful advice 🙏

Sir so true 😊🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thankyou for guidance

This concept is absolute gold! My 2 cents - to add to what Sangwanji mentioned, one must also cultivate hobbies (be it indoor or outdoor - say playing a musical instrument, engaging in sports). this gives you more control and 'sukoon' I am not sure if "travelling" is a useful hobby i.e. roaming places ; because you're not adding value to yourself (as compared to the hobbies mentioned above)

Beautifully explained...sab kuchh samajhte hue bhi is tarah kabhi socha nahi na kisi aur ne hamare liye socha...agli generation ke saath theek se deal karne me aapki ye videos bahut help karengi so thanku so much...

One of the best videos. I pray the elderly generation becomes more accepting of it.

Har couple ko ek duniya chahiye

Thank you for helping me in getting clarity as this is exactly my current situation.

We truly appreciate your video ..truth has been stated

Sir, you are ahead of times. 🙏

That clarity should be keeps on giving.

If everybody makes his or her own duniya, then the concept of joint family will go away

Although easy to understand and know that all this is required to be done for children but requires to be strong by heart and head to tk such decisions for parents. Never heard but seems quite true ki "ek ghar mein ek couple ki hi duniya bas. sakti hai "

You are right sir. Aajkal so much aspirations ke chalte ikathe rehna easy nahi hai. Qnki ladkiyon ki apni soch hai , parents ke age ke according alag hai

Sir kitna sahi bolte hain aap…u know everything actuallyyyy 😀😀😀😀

Sir you are really telling what I think . To understand you , people need common sense and guts to accept this bitter truth .

My husband is a single child. So his parents would never allow us to move out. Few days after the wedding his mother told me that she would die without him. She doesn't like us going out anywhere without her, not even on our honeymoon. If we go out without her then there's a huge drama in which she makes my husband feel guilty. She also does not like my husband being inconvenienced for my sake. She says if anyone harrasses you, deal with them yourself, don't drag my son into it. She breaks my heart every single day. She says don't love your husband too much otherwise he will die soon. Maybe that's why she always fights with my FIL and disrespects him! All this has caused me to change completely after marriage, I'm not the same happy cheerful person that my husband married.

U strike the nail on the head ….. awesome vlogs.

Too good' perfectly explained n soooo to the point . Keep it up!

Sir now young generation knows their rights but don't know their responsibilities and duties The day they will understand most of the problems will be resolved

So true... Fact n reality of life

Excellent video! You r voicing my thoughts! We realised the value of freedom and separated from the joint family within 4 yrs of our married life and have lived a sukoon ki duniya eversince 😂

Take Life as a Learning Lesson everyday Forgive before you sleep n never Forget to Thank God 🙏🏻

सर्वज्ञानी शख्सियत है आपकी !!!!

Prabhu aap sach mein mahagyata ho. Shat shat naman hai aapko itni sehjata se aapne itni badi samasya ka samadhan kar diya🙏🙏🙏

You shouldn't feel bad.. I love you.. Relatable sir.😊. Great content 👍

1000% nailed it!

Very well described. Bitter but true.

Honestly I am blessed I came across your channel

Awesome topic! Everyone needs not only their space, but a safe space, where they can be fully themselves, i.e. without any pretences.

Ur a phenomenon....keep pouring wisdom....god bless u

Sir,u really tell the fact....i can do nothing but just wait when my husband understand this reality....

App sahi bol rahe hai sir ji hame appni duniya banalena chhaiye Alag thank you very woh Chae relative he kyun na ho app barabar bol rahe hai sir ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌

Excellent, EYE Opening Video. Rather I shd say you are always excellent

Fantastic video kaash apki jasi soch hamary parents ki bi hoti ...

Sir really your all words are like perl very hard someone to digest.... But quite true

You are awesome Sir ! You should be featured in TV ! Much needed for our society !

Do agree with what you said in this video... But so called good beta's don't let this happen and the bahu and her kids have to be deprived of their sukoon throughout the life... Hats off to you sir as you at this age took this much pain to raise such topics...

100% Real and Practical content. Experience reflected!!

Jai Ho guruji maza aa gaya....

Relationship kharab hone ke baad logo ko ye akal aati hai . Pahle aa Jaye to life kitni better ho.

6 months after marriage we have separate from family and taken rented house..... From covid i was planning to go back to my parents and stay.... Reason to save 25 k monthly and i have two kids and Mom and dad can spend happy time with them...

BEHATAREEN VIDEO ,, THANKS

Very good very practical video Sir. 🙏

सर जी, निर्भर करती है, यदि माता पिता ज्ञानी व प्यारे लोग हो और बेटा समझदार हो, पत्नी भी अच्छी हो तो उस घर में भी सुकून मिल सकता है।

Bohot accha kaha aapnay Mai aak saas hun aap ke baat say sahmat hoon.bohot accha boltay ho aap.

Sir. Absolutely right...I'm also wishing for the same...

Salute to u SIR for this topic discussion🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 UR videos are Very informative 👍 Very minute in details👍🤣🤣 Very humorous narrative Very eye opening 👌👌 Keep posting such videos All d best👍👍

U said absolutely right i will agree with you

Sir Apne mere dil ki sab bate bol di

True sir I'm living with my in laws husband and 8 month baby... Yes mother in law says it's her house and don't let me move my own bed from this side to that side... I never feel it as my house... Kahi bahar se Ghar aaye to saas or pati bolte hai chalo ghar aake acha lga and I d feel ki mujhe to nahi lga kyuki mai "Ghar" kabhi aai hi nahi.... Mera ghar aaj bi meri maa ke Ghar me hi hai😢 miss you maa Kash mai bi husband ke sath alag ghar me khush rhti ... Apni duniya me...

Good to see you show real picture

Very practical and sensible advice

Fully agreed... excellent.

Well said so true god bless sir

True facts. Thanks

This is the real truth of life

you are telling the absolute truth.

Simple and logical conversation

Words of wisdom!! 🙏

Very practical solution to practical problem

ur guidance is great.

God bless you good health