Abraham Hicks: How to Stop Obsessively Thinking About Someone

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@maissakaizen1714 4 жыл бұрын

It's actually attachment trauma

@indraprashad7737 4 жыл бұрын

I do this alllllllllll the time. I overly obsessed with the happy times. Everyday l day. Then he becomes distant and I'm hurt and rejected. NOW every time I start over obsessing, I say to myself "I love me" I'm happy and worthy etc. All day and night. And it helps with not thinking of him and other obsessing things.

@shannonrose4678 3 жыл бұрын

I have this problem too. Thank you for your advice!

@Learningman777 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, this is helpful, it works ALL the time and you’ll improve too with your own self image. 🙌

@Almanama12 Жыл бұрын

I can relate to this. This happens when you have abandonment issues .

@Carol-sx6rg Жыл бұрын

Same for me. It's not this or that right? I want to stay with my partner because he has lots that i love. And we have wonderful kids together. For me it's more: i want to share the love of life together more.. 😔 more of what we used to do and be on a high flying disk together more. ❣️

@karolinakuraj Ай бұрын

I used to be like that too, but I was lucky to learn various modalities of working with emotions & mindset to become the Power Couple Therapist & relationship coach, I’ve got myself out of anxious attachment style and became way more in love with myself 🙂 I help others do the same! 💚

@MANIFESTFASTWITHJASMINE 4 жыл бұрын

YOU CAN BE AND DO AND HAVE ANYTHING!!! YOU DONT HAVE TO WAIT! YOU ARE IN CONTROL!

@Maggieokeefevideo Жыл бұрын

love this!

@no-gc6xd 2 жыл бұрын

I don't think she understood what Abraham said at 6:35 when the person asked "Do you see him?" and wanted clarification on if it was the new guy or the old guy. Abraham said 'new' but it almost sounded like that's not definitive. Because no matter where that person goes, if that 'old' guy DOES come back....he, in turn, would be 'new.'

@Bassywassy20 4 жыл бұрын

It makes total sense that the reason we may be obsessed with something/someone that you see is because they are already real, even though quite possibly our greatest happiness is just not visible yet. Great segment, it is good to keep in mind that what you see right now may not be the best version of your manifestation. Even when it seems so much easier to aim for that which is at arms distance.

@OzmaOfOzz 2 жыл бұрын

Great comment !

@thuaners 3 ай бұрын

i really like how you put that, helps me understand it more clearly 😊👍

@mswong6874 11 ай бұрын

My Twinflame helped me to realize I am happier and stronger being SINGLE!

@PhoenixFeathers 2 ай бұрын

It’s all between you and You! 😊

@olliviermae 3 жыл бұрын

My redirection of rejection is just bringing me here. What a cycle.

@NyxBorn7080 3 жыл бұрын

I want to start fresh with my fiance. Because of being able to see I'm responsible to feeling good without needing to be the constant object of her attention. And that was our biggest hurdle.

@bereverynice 2 жыл бұрын

This made so much sense. The memory of the past experience is so much more tangible than the thought of what’s on its way but hasn’t manifested, that’s why we hold on and it’s hard to let go. It’s amazing how just understanding the why, can help so much in learning to change a behavior. Thanks so much!!! ❤️

@EastWind785 2 жыл бұрын

Hallelujah 🌞I got this! 😊

@divinelyblessedandperfectl4913 2 жыл бұрын

Things are finally making some sense after listening to this. It’s been 4 months and the thoughts of him are still very present.

@AmandaMG6 4 жыл бұрын

The “hook” was abuse and codependency

@sanjeevbains690 2 жыл бұрын

I feel the experience of bliss - a feeling of coming home. Of happiness, optimism, strength

@mimib1583 4 жыл бұрын

After hearing this I said enough of that old guy, I want fresh and new. Within 1 day a new guy popped up out of the blue (seemingly) and came towards me in a very strong and confident manner. Think I''ll actually call him. LOL. It worked ;) Thanks for sharing!

@nullnull1165 4 жыл бұрын

how is it going? (:

@mimib1583 4 жыл бұрын

Well I went on a date with this guy. He wanted me to go to his house after we had a bite to est and a couple drinks. That wasn't going to happen. Never heard from him again. Which is fine because I only truly wanted to stop thinking about the other guy. Haha. Feeling more free and that's everything!

@MyOwnquantumBubble 3 жыл бұрын

@@mimib1583 hahahahaha cool I resonated

@carolebennett1210 4 жыл бұрын

My what is - or was - is keeping me from the what can be.

@n-dowd7372 4 жыл бұрын

That part!!!

@kayebethelion 2 жыл бұрын

I'm going to listen to this daily for the time being

@awarness3938 Жыл бұрын

me too!!!!!

@deej5884 Жыл бұрын

Same 🥺

@tamimoberg5079 2 жыл бұрын

My first time to write a note, I listen to them all the time…this in an excellent clip….will listen to this more and more!! Thank you sooooo much!! EXCELLENT!

@pavlina.f 3 жыл бұрын

This was beautiful. Exactly what I needed to hear to believe that I can create something new. The right fit. Discovery. Fun. Freedom. Homecoming. 🙏🏼💗

@AnanyaChattopadhyay09 4 жыл бұрын

After hearing this out I want to scream out of joy.... totally received this teaching.love u

@acirelizabeth 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your amazing channel🌱🌟🙏🏻😊

@Babymushroom23 3 жыл бұрын

Feeling of connection. Connection. All I want

@Carrie... 3 жыл бұрын

Wow just what I needed to hear!

@Empwer-sc8le 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Abraham 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

@marianamercedescava1441 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this

@awarness3938 Жыл бұрын

bless you!!! i needed this

@rosyalegro7971 3 жыл бұрын

I am learning lots of things of you...thank you Why photos on your videos are from only of good looking people and only one generation....other generation are not people.........we are ageless and timeless

@EncrediblySexy 3 жыл бұрын

Just keep letting Time do the job. Soon you won’t even remember their name.

@mucimaci87 4 жыл бұрын

Even it hurts I would go through hell to be with her, I would survive anything if she were next to me,fight with me for us.. if only she would love/want me again 😔💔

@lwinston5950 Жыл бұрын

Well how are you now

@PhoenixFeathers 2 ай бұрын

Um… self sacrifice is very much out of the Vortex. What’s in your Vortex should flow easily and effortlessly to you. Likely the relationship you are speaking of produced the one that is now in your Vortex. Have fun calibrating to that!

@lwinston5950 Жыл бұрын

Wow this is so good and I needed it !!! How KZfaq be knowing !!!

@er3259 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I needed this 😭

@iamannyrosario 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. Heardddddd this. Thank you.

@heididorf3695 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️☺️🙏

@rosyalegro7971 3 жыл бұрын

It is good to see mixed people...mixed generations and mixed looking and colors and different height...

@Carol-sx6rg Жыл бұрын

This subject also resonates when already in a relation. 😊💖

@viktorvictor2076 2 жыл бұрын

I really try almost everything and I can't stop thinking about my ex girlfriend. I really really try to think to something else to meditation but ist very hard and my ex girlfriend popped into my mind. I am in a very big duduu.

@rachelrachel9857 3 жыл бұрын

10.13keep finding that feeling when lonely comes find that feeling and before long you'll be so solidly there enough of the time not all the time

@loveeepepsimax 4 жыл бұрын

How do I stop missing someone? 🌸

@JustBeingAwesome Жыл бұрын

3:35 I had to relisten to this 4 times before I could 'hear' it.

@er3259 2 жыл бұрын

But I still love him 😭😭😭😭 I see him everyday and live with him. This is so hard. Although I know there is someone new, I still can't stop appreciating the amazing sex and good times I had with him. I just couldn't take his push and pull. The holding back on his part. The not wanting to kiss me during sex cuz I told him I was falling for him. The rejection I felt. Such a mixture of feelings.

@rahmasamir909 2 жыл бұрын

Pull back love your self and sée what will happen

@su2sa1li4 Жыл бұрын

Move from this place

@sameena713 Жыл бұрын

Ouch. Time to pull back. Get busy elsewhere.

@lwinston5950 Жыл бұрын

Move out

@mariamkinen8036 4 жыл бұрын

To be honest , I think I just got very lucky. Men do not know that women can lead without actually doing so. So , no obsessive happiness.... You don't get the point.....? Being lovable is more than enough. With a chosen time n place .......

@nicholeowen6112 3 жыл бұрын

So what if you do still want to be with that person?

@2840825 2 жыл бұрын

She has found her twin flame.

@spazzytaffy6839 2 жыл бұрын

i thought the same thing lol :(

@lwinston5950 Жыл бұрын

Been there 😢

@miramira9883 3 жыл бұрын

Juicy😂😂💓💓

@lolelyn1 2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@rosyalegro7971 3 жыл бұрын

I have always younger guys

@nancybowman6394 2 жыл бұрын

Could "and you'll both know" possibly mean that his eyes were supposed to light up like that of a cat in the middle of Walmart? With constant eye connections after? They were brown and fluorescent green. Is that what that meant?

@divinenonbinary Жыл бұрын

Oh which workshop is this?

@bondziotek5627 9 ай бұрын

9:10

@hamburgs1982 3 жыл бұрын

What if you just have a feeling that they are the one? But, they are after someone else..yet, you just know that they complete you?

@Nokss87 3 жыл бұрын

Look at your childhood trauma

@melha1391 3 жыл бұрын

I feel this. I’m in the same situation.

@OreadNYC 3 жыл бұрын

It's not a good idea to ask or expect someone else to complete you because that implies you aren't enough by yourself...and if you aren't enough by yourself, then what will convince someone to want to be with you? YOU need to complete you -- nobody else can do that. You're already complete by yourself even if you don't feel it right now...you're just not perfect, because nobody is. When you are enough for you, you actually won't need other people so much -- and paradoxically, once the feeling of desperation isn't there as much anymore, what you want actually might be more likely to show up even if only because contented and peaceful people tend to be more pleasant to have around. The ideal way to be in relationship is not to focus on what your partner will give you (in order to somehow complete you) but what you are able and willing to give to a partner simply because you want to please that person -- not in an effort to bribe or control that person but just because you have reason to think this person will enjoy it.

@sameena713 Жыл бұрын

The question is, what do they have, that you want?