My wife adopted a pair of siblings with her previous mate. Long story long, the oldest sib is a psychopath. The ex ran away because of his behaviors. I moved in a year later. Had no idea what I was in for. Our school kept suspending him for violence. We couldn’t keep him at home, no one was safe anywhere around him. Law mandates he gets a FAPE. Parents here are visited by CPS and cops showing up over truancy. We couldn’t homeschool, school couldn’t handle him. It was a nightmare. At 9 years old I thought he was going to rape some smaller kid at his school. Finally he qualified for residential care. Everyone blamed us and treated us like criminals for causing his behaviors and for sending him away. It’s been unreal. People, especially school personnel, ignore these kids and deny the problems or blame the caregivers and turn a blind eye. There’s no help, it’s horrible. My stepson is superficially very charming, smiles warmly at all strangers. It’s all phony. He’s assessing what he can get out of them, and if he can dominate them. He overplayed his hand at the school eventually. He got very ugly and abusive with an aide that was a very submissive type person who had no boundaries. I was glad he finally showed what we live with even if they blame us for it. I was even more glad they finally figured out they needed to care about the other kids safety around him. They would not listen to me even though I had been documenting everything from within a month of moving in.

Agreed, it was a disaster,

She was extremely passive and reluctant to enforce any limits with him. As school year progressed and he got more aggressive she tried to stop him from cutting a girls hair in class. He called her an effing b and continued to try to cut other kids hair. After that incident he started pooping his pants in class to create chaos. We found out the aid was doing ALL of his work for him and any push to get him to do any work was met with this kind of retaliation from him. He’d also smear it all over the bathrooms. Finally when he was caught with a metal piece of a folding chair he’d taken apart to make a weapon, he got his ticket to residential. At home he was trying to start fires and being sexually aggressive to his sister who was also very submissive to him.

Electric shock therapy

No way is this reprobate worth going to jail for again. I’ve already been to jail over false abuse allegations once and it’s not happening again. In order to drive us out of district the school admins orchestrated a stunt to get me arrested. Lied to CPS and local Sherrifs. Too bad for them I kept perfect records of everything on this kid beginning from first month I moved in. I made everyone involved including my stepson regret that bull💩. I spent a year cleaning it up. I got a determination of factual innocence and sued the school. They settled for 145K. He got 2 1/2 years of therapeutic boarding school. He’s been home a year and what works for us is intense strict structure. He falls out of line he gets to be grounded until he fills out my accountability form with zero blame shifting. He hates those forms. Would probably rather be tazed. 🤣🤣🤣 When he’s gotten it done correctly to my satisfaction, he signs it taking ownership of the incident and the corrective action needed and then I file it in a binder in chronological order in my locked cabinet inside my locked bedroom. I’ve told him if he gets arrested for anything that hurts anyone, I will be taking all my binders to the prosecutor to help them get the max sentence possible because I’ve made sure he knows better now. He’s hasn’t tried anything violent since he’s been home. Zoom schooling is working out great for him. No opportunities to be invasive and irritating to peers. 👍 We’re pretty confident we’re going to get him graduated from high-school without a criminal record. Currently he’s requested to wean off the vyvance and then the Risperdal in order to join the Marines. 2 years 328 more days to go. I would advise people to never adopt from our system. Foster only. Getting stuck with a psychopath and blamed for all the kids they hurt is horrible. There are almost no mental health services that are useful. We’ve had to figure it out on our own, piecing together a system for our home that works and nail down the safety with locks and WiFi cameras. No unsuspecting parents should be tricked into adopting a kid like this and be forced to house a violent mental patient who has no ability to self regulate who cannot feel empathy who spreads ptsd to everyone else in the home until they’re 18.

He seems cool 😂

He never existed.

Dr. Grande? He does have an awkward way of speaking, but, I can't quite put my finger on it .

@@sirbader1 I'm looking at a Google list of Dr. Grande's vids in the Google right sidebar. He hardly changes at all. That same affect-free blank stare. Only the shirt changes significantly, and it's virtually the same shirt-style. Maybe he bleaches the same shirt out now and then and painstakingly dyes it in different colors and patterns. I wonder if the man went into psychiatry to wrest its control over himself, from the inside.

@@sirbader1 oh please ,do you have you psychology degree? You just stated your opinion without any examples or contradicts of the mother behavior then just ad hominem the channel

I was wondering how he got the guns, she got them for him?! Wtf?!

@@redjuice02 yeah she did. She was big into guns.

@@redjuice02 shit no way that kid could even walk into a Bass Pro let alone actually buy a gun if he’s never been around them before. He’d get to nervous to talk to the sales person.

So you knew Adam and his mother? Or are you just making assumptions based on your limited knowledge? Nancy was a good mother and tried her best but unfortunately some people can’t be saved.

@@phunkyphresh3799 Adam wasn’t as socially awkward as he appeared. And even if he was the most socially awkward person on Earth, he still had the right to purchase a firearm regardless of his appearance and demeanour... Do you think gun dealers should refuse to sell a firearm just because the customer is nerdy and socially awkward? He didn’t even have a criminal record so you’re essentially saying any socially awkward people shouldn’t have any rights.

It's what mothers do.

@@andymullarx6365 damn yo mama did it??…don’t remember mines doing it🧐

@@andymullarx6365 Mothers are supposed to do what’s best for their children. Not indulge their delusions and unreasonable requests, even if they have mental disorders She appeased Adam and allowed Adam to run her life like a dictator, and it didn’t fix anything in the end. It cost her her own life, her son’s life, and the lives of a bunch of innocent children as well

the kids need to do laundry....

She seemed worn down & exhausted.

Lots of kids don’t like having their picture taken and will scowl or stare blankly when forced. His face looks to me more like someone who was surprised by the camera, uncomfortable, or too embarrassed to put on a performative smile. Also, this notion that “empathy” and “emotion” are what keeps people from killing each other has really got to go. If you’ve been centering your morality around how you *feel* about affected parties, I can promise that you are a monster. Empathy is always selective. If you actually felt empathy for every person to whom you owed consideration, you would be unable to function. Too many highly social people try to just use their empathy like a crutch, and they can be stunningly disgusting and selfish if they can’t get their emotional fix. At the end of the day, it was always only about how they felt.

@Michael Cueva Might be, though it comes off as slightly vague. My sense for Lanza and Rodgers (I don’t have a bead on Panzram or Bundy) is that they were largely suicidal. However, suicide can feel like validating the negative judgments of others (“good thing that waste of air took himself off our hands”). With the level of disrespect some people get or feel like they get, he might’ve found it desirable to reframe it as aggression just to ensure he wasn’t doing anyone a “favor”. (The “disrespect” is not necessarily “bullying,” but a hostility and contempt that is more ubiquitous and impossible to appease or even get acknowledgment concerning.)

@Michael Cueva “Hatred of humanity” reads like a literary flourish that doesn’t mean much of anything. Excuse me if I think too concretely for this stuff, but that sounds like a non-explanation. Rodger’s manifesto had a more notable theme of him obsessing over anything and everything that he perceived as affecting social status. Race, wealth, where he lived, the car he drove, and, of course, sexual partners. It is normal for some young people with social problems to think acquiring status symbols might cure their problems. When his tools were exhausted, however, just killing himself would validate those people he felt looked down on him. By manufacturing a grievance, however, he could feel momentarily significant. Can’t swear it was that way with him, but “hatred of humanity” barely feels like it means anything at all.

@Michael Cueva He actually did work for those things. Some he already had, given his father’s career. Socially, however, he’d lose by default. Ostensibly, he was diagnosed with PDD-NOS, which is sort of an autism spectrum condition without the repetitive behaviors and inflexibility. If real, this sort of thing can be crippling if you think about status at all and don’t have any special skill you can compensate with. There was probably no effective concrete “work” he could plan, let alone do. He could only blindly guess. Your last comment makes more sense to me than the one that came before. “Hatred of humanity” just gets used a whole lot and has a plethora of potential meanings. It sounds only like a literary device, and flourishes like this sound like mysticism to me. Presenting the associated concrete needs and wants makes it a lot easier, and what you say there is not far from my own guess.

@@somexp12 Wow 😯

He was a meal ticket- not even on the level of a beloved pet. She would lie to him about his future. Disgusting.

I wasn’t a meal ticket worth THAT much, but we pick up on it early. I can’t imagine what a kid with his problems went through.

When the one person in the world you know should be there for you, can’t be-? No one is worth the time. This poor guy saw no point in living.

It was Alimony, not child support. And she was in denial. Had she gotten 200Million a year, she wouldn’t have done a thing..

@Clark Hull I thought there was a way for family to request mandatory mental health services though, like through a court?

oh she was held accountable. four times, i believe

A very excellent idea!!

pretty strange of you to consider being shot to death “held accountable”

@@realnuisancei think they were being sarcastic, not literal.

At least he took her down with him. She had no intelligence.

He didn’t think that

bullshit

@@takethelanzapill2643 He probably did, based on his KZfaq channel where he talked about exactly his antinatalist views and how society treats children (specifically, the "You want to rape them, but I want to save them" part). Also, he expressed something quite similar based on the call to the radio, how society corrupts children. Also, in the interview with his DDR friend, he then again expressed something along those lines.

@@quetevalgavergaaa That makes no sense

@@takethelanzapill2643 I don't care, just read and hear for yourself to the evidence and think whatever you want 🤷🏻‍♀️ those are all things that he said and was seemingly obsessed with, not me.

Very important point. Nowadays only the wealthiest, those who can afford to live in a major city, can afford to send their kids to schools specifically designed for special needs kids.

Full inclusion works for students with physical disabilities and obvious mental disabilities, so think Down’s syndrome and physical disablement , also people with motor neurone disease , people with disabilities on the autistic spectrum should not be in full inclusion , it’s very difficult for neurodivergent people to adapt to an inclusive environment, hear me out people , I’m autistic and I have ADHD. People like myself can misunderstand social interactions and we have trouble understanding the social interaction of joking around and making fun of people as a friendly thing. We think different, we are not dangerous but we do need to be treated differently, I am not in any way giving this nasty murderer a pass , what he did was disgusting and was a terrible tragedy for all the families involved and he deserves to rot in hell ,my point is that he should have never have been to be in an inclusive school at such an early age, it was only going to lead to him becoming what he became, his hyper focus made him a killer, he could have been pushed into something else , nobody was watching his focus

Feds are to blame for this uninformed legislation...LRE. Secondly, why wd a mother have guns in the house with an unpredictable & troubled child? What was up with mom? Mom had 1/4 of a million in resources to meet his mental health needs & instead bought an arsenal. How did he learn how to operate these weapons? Let's get real...We know that these brain & emotional behavioral disorders are linked to heroin meth crack & coc use by one or more parent....

I too am a special education student and to see that the Schools or department of education isn’t helping makes me very sad it’s like they don’t care they only want money.

I totally agree. I feel that school districts should do more to help kids with disabilities and provide with support to their families because the money they receive come from government wich is paid with our taxes. But the reality is that they don't care about the kids struggling and let them sink in their own. Very sad but true.

I know...scary but also heartbreaking. He obviously needed to be hospitalized and given some serious help.

reminds me of Ian Brown

Honestly the photo of Lanza seems stretched to make his face look bizarre like some sort of photoshopped job.

@@amandac2574 Its Ian Brown

@@ketchupcommander definitely along the same looks but I'm thinking David Hogg is his twin or Lanza himself. Check out a side by side. 🤯

But women keep popping them out as tho its like getting a new pair of shoes. Smh

​@@heatherberry640Just give him an iPad, that'll shut him up.

That's why most shouldn't even start.

@heatherberry640 Well, they can’t pop them out without help from the sickos who want to put them in!

Knives?

@@truffles2721 hope everything is okay over there 😐

Not just that they had guns in the house... SHE freaking bought them for him!!!! DUH!!!!

Totally agree. There is nothing scarier than a person who is mentally unstable and entirely socially apathetic having an automatic firearm. Awful consequences.

Rest in peace edit: misspelt peace

@@minecraftweedemoji le edgy comment

@Nataly Higareda calm down

@Nataly Higareda lol

@Nataly Higareda wtf are you talking about 🤨

Too many parents want to be their child's friend instead their parent. They want their children to like them. I'm sure even if Adam didn't have any mental problems, he still would have been given too much freedom at a young age. He didn't pay rent yet no one was allowed in his room? He had mental problems yet allowed to have access to guns? Maybe mom and dad had mental problems too they were just irresponsible.

Agreed Linda

The parents are not ignoring the warning signs. They don't see any warning signs.These people think this kind behavior is normal. it's the way they grew up.

Or just at least some “vision” at all 😂😂. It blows my mind that she allowed her son to live in her house and eat her food, without actually seeing him.

@@channelthree9424 even if you don't pay rent, should have privacy. This isn't uncommon and just because someone is private, doesn't mean they are bad.

Everyone has "20/20 hindsight"; "shoulda, coulda, woulda" done things differently.

@Pat Shaw and that's why the America is great. Tragedies happen, but eliminating guns is far worse. It looks like Chicago is doing just well and Australia's crime rates too 🙄😉

@@milicadjordjevic4498 there hasn't been a mass shooting in Australia or the U.K in 25 years after banning guns. We also have the advantage of not having tons of innocent or minor criminals shot to death by cops either. But you will never get rid of your guns so you can look forward to Hundreds of more Adam Lanzas in the coming decades because you refuse to address your problem.

America

@Mercury hmmm let's just check the numbers shall we...bk in a min

@Mercury murders in 2018 UK/US London 132 Chicago 539 New York 289 Detroit 304 L.A 259 Baltimore 318 ST Louis 188 I looked up Gary Indiana but it was surprisingly low at 46 I think but I guess that's due to only 3 people left alive there 🤣🤣

Excellent point, thank you.

i agree completely. societal pressures of a mother role are are so high standard while fathers are praised for the bare minimum. women are required to meet every criteria as men aren’t.

@@zowchii I didn't realize paying 200 k a year in fucking alimony is considered meeting the bare minimum.

@@jaffacalling53 Money isn't the only factor in child raising. Before their divorce Adam's father never tried to help Adam with his disorder or tried to treat it. All the diagnosis and the only treatments Adam received in middle school are initiated by his mother. Adam very stubbornly believed that his disorder was something forced upon him by the society, so Nancy wasn't able to make him go to any doctors after 8th grade. It's extremely hard to raise a kid with both ASD and OCD. There was once Adam had a fever and couldn't come out of his room, Nancy had to stay outside his room (because he wouldn't let her in) for the whole night and respond whenever Adam called her or else he'd panick. Adam's father was completely absent in all these difficulties.

As a father I can't imagine abandoning a son to this internal prison. How long did this situation go on? When did the beautiful little boy turn inward toward darkness and fear and why didn't the father try to help him? There are many questions that Dr. Grande addresses here but he accepts too much of the official narrative of what happened. I would like to hear Dr. Grande's opinion about Adam's psychiatrist who later fled the United States to avoid prosecution for malpractice (not for Adam's case but for other irregularities). There is still something fishy about what happened at Sandy Hook. Maybe one day we'll hear the whole truth.

And both were Taurus

Salvdor Ramos was a psychotic transsexual, that suffered from a vast assortment of sexual dysphorias, sexual identity conflicts, and anger because she was what he was the furthest thing from an young Autistic boy, that probably did not think of sex at all i find it amusing how so many people can find the threads if the scenario is played near the same. it is amazing what people will buy as truth these days, hey if it worked once!

Kip Kinkel killed his parents beforehand and is a Virgo. Zodiac signs are not significant to mental illness. I’m a Taurus, I own several firearms. Not once have I ever considered using them for malicious intent.

​@@a.t.hustle1583 fBi is warming to you

@@jonesmorales-tu6kq Probably

Yeah he also needed to not shoot up a school. Be careful of absolving monsters like Adam Lanza of guilt just because they had issues. As Dr Grande points out, there is no evidence of psychosis in this case. Adam Lanza knew precisely what he was doing. He knew what he was doing was wrong. He didn't care.

@Yucan Amen.

What meds? It’s true Lanza had issues, but nothing that could be easily medicated. There’s no reason to think he had any form of psychosis or mood disorder that meds could address. Edit: I did another watch and noticed what I'd either forgotten or missed. He did have depression and that is associated with increased homicide risk. So, there's something. Still hope you don't mean giving Celexa to a 6 yo when you say "from early on", though.

@@PutonyourSundayBests What on earth does it mean to “absolve” a dead person. None of us can hurt him or punish him. Perhaps you’re looking for justification to sadistically defame other (living) people with similarly flat affects. If they don’t smile for the camera, that’s your cue to give them whatever sh!t is entertaining to you. Then you get to congratulate yourself for “preventing” a shooting when you were, in fact, merely amusing yourself at another’s expense.

@@somexp12 If you don't understand what the word means then google it. Absolve is to free someone of blame or responsibility. Dead people are responsible for the things they did whilst alive. The rest of your comment reads like deranged ranting. I made no reference to his affect or 'smiling to the camera'.

The power of denial blinds mother's to their children. It is hard to accept that there is something abnormal with the child, it stems from ego and guilt.

The fact she collected guns makes this debateable. She sounds like she bent over backwards to accomodate his delusions and shouldnt have been filling a house with firearms when she had kids anyway. She has a lot to answer for but I would put a big question mark over her education and emotional stability.

Adam is sexy

nom nom nom was a very strange situation even the aftermath stilll waaaaaay to many unanswered questions things were done diffrently that day ill leave it at that

@Butt Head probably.

do you have children at the moment?

​@@TheFlwildmandid you have parents at any moment?

it's biology, you probably would not understand it btw, i got ya troll over HERE! right here, you want it? go back to the video games and don't tamper in things you don't understand @@Relayzy1

Dr Phil is in the Hizzouse

@@TheHeavensFellen 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@JP-cr5uq what do squares mean?

You know some things that others don't. Co-dependency is buried. I am an addict on the other side. You have every right to be here. Rights however come with responsibility.

Agreed. And I also think she just really had a huge dissonance about mental health. She might not have been educated enough to understand him, or how to help him. That's why I love the internet, and youtube channels like this. Knowledge is power, and can change the world if we know how to use it.

@S. Labouisse Get real dude. Not everything is fake. Alex Jones doesn’t even believe SH was fake. Kids died, not everything is fake, not everything is real. Use critical thinking

You saw people say that or heard

@S. Labouisse why do you think it's fake? Lol

@S. Labouisse my friend’s 6 year old nephew was murdered at SH. You should be ashamed of yourself.

@S. Labouisse you make me want to throw up. I literally know Mr and Mrs Wheeler. Are you actually that stupid that you are claiming that my close friend photoshopped dozens of photos of himself and his nephew Ben over a course of 6 years in preparation for a “fake”? 6 years before the murders, they premeditated faking the birth of their child so they could fake his murder? I guarantee my friend doesn’t even know how to do basic photo edits. Are you going to claim I am being paid to say this?

I couldn't imagine what a 556 does to a 5yr old point blank

And it sucks that conspiracy nuts out here think this whole event was fake

What was that officers name?

Exactly.

@@HAL-dm1eh Its not fake. I personally know a family who lost their daughter in this massacre. Her name was Emily Parker. My sister’s daughter is even named after her. Ana-Marquez Greene’s father was the music instructor at my university. He is no crisis actor. I’ve seen his grief. I know for fact Sandy Hook happened because I’ve seen the impact the shooting had on real life people and their community.

Eating disorders can be comorbid with autism, some autistic people aren't able to perceive internal sensations like pain and hunger, and sometimes sensory issues limit what kinds of food a an autistic person is able to eat. Whatever the reason for the weight loss, you're right that his mother should have been concerned that he was becoming so underweight and got him professional help. If she was aware of the spreadsheet of mass murderers, that would be a point to consider inpatient care. Most of the time it's good to let people have their special interests, but a special interest in violence like that should be very concerning. The motivation to engage in special interests can be very strong, so it would probably have taken inpatient care to keep him away from material related to a special interest in violence. The writing about violence when he was at school should have been a cause for concern. There are so many points where he showed problems not typical to autistic people where people should have been concerned about him hurting himself or others. It's really tragic that he was left to become so obsessed with violence and had access to weapons.

Six feet tall and 114 pounds...that totally sounds like the physical description of one bad ass commando who could easily carry an entire load of guns and ammunition into a school and then skillfully shoot 26 people dead in less than even ten minutes. Yep.

If he only weighed 114 pounds how could he carry 40lbs worth of machine guns?

@@dowogenesthedog7186 exactly ..

@@pepekekistani4472 Wikipedia says he was 6 feet tall and weighed 112 lbs...damn, how did no one notice and ask what was wrong with him??

Potentially..

@@Human1136 exactly he neded some tough love to force him out of his psyche.unfortuntly his mom wasn't up to it because she loved her son

You gotta have a sense of work ethic to do that, no matter what mental issue you have.

It only takes confidence if you are seeking people's approval. If you have autism though, he might not even be thinking about anybody else in the room.

Great question and response.

You can have high levels of anxiety and social awkwardness while being extremely confident in narrow fields. I think video games offer something something safe and structured to excel in. In the arcade people would judge him for his skill at the game rather than his social awkwardness and communication (or he'd at least that's how he'd see it). I might have been one of the only things in his life which didn't make him feel like a useless piece of shit.

@Jenny Farnsworth He was autistic not deaf, dumb and blind. He went to a mainstream school, he can't have been that unaware.

@@chunkyMunky329 I never thought of that. I would be way too self-conscious to do that too. Maybe if I had been practicing for ages at home so I already knew I had every chance of not looking the fool doing it out in public.

@@nplus1syndrome928 There is, but nothing that will land him in the slammer doing life. Inability to understand why people like deoderant and cooking eggs on the highest setting is a bad idea is shit i can live with.

I have Asperger's also. I'm an asshole, but still very high functioning

@@hairyasstruman2257 my brother and me have aspergers too, but both are high functioning

Is it only boys who have Aspergers ??

@@1985JM interesting question because now that you mention it I’ve only ever met boys with that diagnosis. Technically the answer would now be no, because Asperger’s is no longer an existing diagnosis, it’s just part of autism spectrum disorder, which any sex can have.

God bless you for working there I wish you all the best in life.

The church bells the following year. I was driving. Traffic stopped still.

I cried seeing the funerals of all those kids and the teachers.

As a Newtown resident, I appreciate the kind remarks. We will never forget.

I'm glad you took the time to write your post. It does serve a purpose, so thank you. I'm sorry for the loss of your child. May your sweet angel rest in peace.

Neither is our system, unfortunately.

$240k annually in alimony? The family obviously had the means to circumvent the system and secure the care he needed. The mother was in denial and probably had mental health issues of her own.

@@Lisa_MS64 you can’t FORCE treatment on another person, unless they meet strict criteria...

@@lindsaycallahan8075 on a minor? she absolutely should have taken his problems more seriously & sought in patient treatment for her son.

@@lindsaycallahan8075 Correct and even then it’s for a brief amount of time. The laws have to change.

Nuh uh

yeah I forget the specifics of the conversation, but it was an analysis about how the chimp who ripped that lady's face off was reacting to being isolated and he was sympathetic to the chimp. He must have felt the same way, because he spoke extemperaniously about other aspects of our society and it was really a shock. I recall he used vocabulary that I woiuld never expect from even a college graduate. He has portrayed as some kind of silent autistic gun loving retard and he was very insightful. Not sure what his issue was with that school or if it was randome against society. It's worth looking back on people who were so desperate to do things like this. Kazynski was determined NOT to have the insanity defense. He wanted to change society. Looking back at the Unabombers manifesto, after the facebook big tech data mining and J6, his trancendental life philosophy seems more cogent now, as Adam Lanza's analysis of the chimp. I find them both more intelligent than idiots blocking the highway for global warming. @@jaybobdoodles

ape not monkey

This doctor is full of shit, do better research.

thank you for protecting the innocent, black, white, brown, yellow, it doesn't matter much

Hey Man, if prevention doesn't work and you are facing a crowd with a possible dangerous suspect embedded, I have read that the Secret Service look for what they call "The Assasin Face". Just before they strike their face will often become stark white* and they are expressionless etc. Easy to say, not so easy in real life! God bless Mate. *(Obviously not darker shades of people, but we all do it.)

Why don't you get on with a big company security department. My company a power utility hires mostly retired police to manage stuff the guards are contracted these guys just sit in offices investigate incidents, and write policies, order guards much better job pay probably over 100k a year too. Armed guard is a lousy job your the first guy bad guy will shoot you won't have backup on a radio like you did before. Friend of mine he was security guard he refused to go armed said a few dollars an hour bump in pay to be a target for criminals wasn't worth it. They put armed security guards at the worst places in town like Circle K open 24 hours a day in worst part of town.

School security guards should be deployed with few guards wearing and rotation between schools.most should wear uniform,but a few uniform security guards should drive unmarked vehicles to possibly confuse any violent persons,because if any stealthy,violent person(s),from within or without the school decided to target school,then any uniform security guards will be evaded,killed,or disabled by armed persons.plain clothes security guards should be discreetly hidden in rescricted areas closed to staff and students(any staff allowed in rescricted guard area should be checked for any weapons or items not allowed-before entry,then area should checked for any items not allowed after staff leaves guard area.these procedures of security are effective for all guard levels and principal levels-which means monthly or bi-monthly--off site school guard supervisor should be deployed for discreet observations of school guard activities in discreet,plain clothes operations,then supervisor reports should be confidential shared with school superintendent,district head of security guards-first,then shared with principl--secondly.any problems,discipline should executed with discreet,confidential,official documented attempted corrections and required therapy(if found therapy required for troubled security guard?) .if security guard is fired from work(or decertified from career in state or nationwide)then former guard required a no trespassing documented warning from all schools in district,with all schools' security staff and principals' staff-warned about former security guard.note:warning applies for former school security guards with children in district schools.note:district may probably warn private schools and warn surrounding states school districts and state department of educations about former security guard.but,foolish school systems and universities-criminal negligence never deployed proper security measures for school properties.

And of course away from anything that launches bullets...

Literally every photo. Is there not one normal one photo of this person

@@terriberri87 I think a yearbook group photo of him I remember seeing actually looked normal. Otherwise he looks like someone shoved something up his ass without his consent.

@@terriberri87 there one and it's definitely elementary and very very very young. It's the only one where his smile doesn't seem super creepy. Only one

The picture was created for this purpose.

they are not His explanations, he was given the script

Yeah honestly he sounds more like a psychopath than any autistic person I've interacted with online including myself.

Nuanced Productions I am thinking there is done unrecognized comorbidity going on. I think he is autistic, but not just autistic.

yes. Absolutely-

EXACTLY, his lack of empathy, his zoned out affect, pedophilia etc and yet his mother gives access to assault weapons.., he had far more wrong than simple spectrum..this is highly unfair to those with autism who would never harm

Yes, absolutely. His autism is being focused on and seems to miss a lot of other issues.

At least 4

I wonder if putting and taking off socks were repetitive behavior of ASD or ritual of OCD.

You Never get ALL your socks back after washing & drying.

@@mr.hansholmes2367 black hole in the washing machine - mine anyway 🙂

Frederick Wertella if you’ve got too many of them, you start losing some.

Not all 'wierdos' harm themselves or others. We need to be careful of stereotyping

Same

It's a dirty job but Dr Grande is the most applicable to do it. I take 'informative approach' directly as a warning. There is RRR and XXX, but after this episode that guy looks pealed and me flaked, i.e. ZZZ 😑👍

Agreed.

PREACH 🙌🙏🙌🙏

Ditto

her being in denial and wanting a normal kid might also explain some of her choices

Some women with narcissistic traits become obsessed with their male children and view them as perfect. My dad’s mom was like that and it did not suit him well. He ended up abusing me.

I believe it

I concur. We rush to blame parents, it's not a stretch to believe she had severe mental issues as well. We have an untreated mental health pandemic disguised as a gun problem.

I will guess on my own and just my opinion that she had some mental health issues. I bet I'm right too.

Clearly, your ignorance doesn't need an introduction. I've printed out the actual property tax documents for the Newtown area that clearly prove that nearly every homeowner, INCLUDING GENE ROSEN, NICOLE HOCKLEY, MARK BEARDEN, NELBA GREENE, and SCARLETT LEWIS, was bribed in the form of a forgiven home mortgage on CHRISTMAS DAY, 2009,......one year after the school had been decommissioned and closed due to the school being contaminated with mold and other biohazards, and was only being used for storage. HOMELAND SECURITY used YOUNGER photos OF OLDER CHILDREN as 'victim' propaganda. How do I know they were older? I compared the photos to the children singing behind Jennifer Hudson at the Superbowl just over a month later. One child seen there might have been just a coincidence, but not EIGHT of them. And to this day, the Newtown schoolboard has denied sending said children to the Superbowl. None of these 'parents' lost a child. Scarlett Lewis and the rest of these players are DHS-owned for life. There is an old saying that says that it's just easier to fool the people, than to convince them they they have been fooled. The Sandy Hook Promise organization is a confirmed fraud stemming from a government fabricated event that was produced as gun control propaganda. Obiden knows these are drills, along with Obama. Obama played us all with these drills-gone-live in the media as soon as he was elected. The media are in the loop that these events are drills, that's why the media were in Newtown ON THE 13TH.

Both of his parents were wealthy enough to employ a tutor who could meet Adam's needs. Neither of them wanted to play that part. He didn't need an enforcer but he needed someone to educate him, so that he trusted the meds would help. Not all do. If they had bad side effects? Other methods can be used. Too bad for them. They mentally tossed him away. They paid the ultimate price for it too.

Why do we succumb to meds just to get on with our day? My hope would be that one day I wouldn’t have to rely on them.

She tried for years but He refused rejected the plan and the only solution was to keep him at home. He chose to have a miserable life and his perception of the world was mental...I just wish He would had continued to seek help it would prevented a tragedy....

At the age of 14, a child has the right to refuse medication and treatment. Seriously think about how you would "enforce" medication and therapy on someone adamantly refusing it. Physically drag him into the therapist's office? Force the pills down his throat? Disordered children are often oppositional and defiant, and the mental health laws are not in the parent's favor.

I think he saw that a lot of shooters took psychiatric medication and wished to avoid taking it himself. He studied the issue quite a bit, and there is a bit of a correlation with mass shootings and drugs like Prozac and Xanax. Whether they're a major contributing factor or not is tough to say, but there's a bit of evidence Adam was on Prozac and in the Anarchy radio call where he talks about Travis the chimp - he mentions Travis was taking Xanax as a main point to convey how much of "a complete mess" Travis would be if he were human. I imagine Adam was troubled and gave up on his humanity, becoming the type of monster he spent all that time studying in a "if the shoe fits" sort of mentality.

👆🏻 this

Lanza was estranged from his father by his mother legally so yeah I'm kind of surprised nobody on his mother's side gave a shit about him

No therapy for how other people treat you because of your looks. If you want the answer of why things like this happen, just read the comments. Combine people treating him like shit his whole life with his psychopathy and at some point you end up with someone gaining power over others in the most violent way.

This is the unfortunate reality of autism of both kinds. Many people don't want to believe it exists except in people that are very low functioning. The idea of someone with autism able to somewhat function in life is foreign to them and they believe that the person is just "weird" They don't treat them with the care and help that anyone with autism needs, they treat them with contempt and denial for being strange and different.

@JT Raven As a person who comes from a country with heavily restrictive laws on guns and self-defense I have to say: it's all bullshit and it solves nothing. Al it does is prevent the good people from defending themselves from criminals and a corrupt government (which all governments are to an extent, ours especially). Again - actual citizen of an actually heavily restricted county.

check out jack kruse

he was 112 pounds and 6'0' feet tall when he died, he was severely malnourished

@@halcaali and 3 months before death weighed 85 pounds, have you seen the stuff he had in a document? he was anorexic

His lowest weight was 98 pounds, Lanza also wrote his documents that he had a hatred for “fat” people, and a appreciation for “thin” people, he also deemed “thin” people as “graceful and beautiful”, and encouraged people to stop eating. That’s blatant anorexia right there, not to mention, he also played Dance Dance Revolution for up to 12 hours a day, which could probably be some form of over-exercise, a behavior that many anorexics display. Also, just look at the photos of himself!! He looks so emaciated, he was literally wasting away due to malnutrition and anorexia.

The biopsy of his brain showed it was normal. Also drugs or alcohol in the blood.

So autistic individuals do Mass schuttings?? That's the biggest load of BS

Oh boy... Welcome to May of 2022

@@Slow_Biden its like a repeat of this

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@@Slow_Biden It's been a dark month.... This month was supposed to one of celebration, but I can't help but think about the kids and the families affected They're going through so much that I'm not capable of even understanding.... I wish we could do more than just give out our prayers and condolences, it feels empty now saying that.... it lost its meaning

I’m Howie Mandell. Welcome to Bullshit!

Exactly! I would have said...sorry you're out of clean socks...I guess you can learn how to use the washing machine, wear a pair inside out, or knock it off. If the kid can use a gun, he can operate a washing machine. Case closed.

Yes, making him do his own laundry is EXACTLY what should have happened. He has a compulsion - okay, but that has the consequence of running out of socks. "Therefore, here is what you do to mitigate the issues caused by your compulsion." YOU. The one dealing with the compulsion. Making an issue of it makes the whole problem worse. Instead, the person with the compulsion should have the choice of finding a way around it, or doing the extra laundry.

If the kid can load a gun, he can work the knobs of a washer and dryer!! I also believe his own father is at least 50% to blame; ignoring his son and just sending a check to the ex wife gets a ZERO rating from me in the "dad of the year" survey.

@@Cec9e13 I would also show him the water bill and make him responsible to pay for the excess utility fees.

The guilt she feels must be immense, and that goes without saying.

same

I'm sorry for laughing 😂

Yes, I couldn't place why his face made me feel uncomfortable 😕. Absolutely a likeness.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahah

Except he's not screaming, it's before the scream.

good at what? talking?

No parents are equipped to deal with ASD, as a parent of a child with ASD myself every day is a new learning day. It's exhausting both mentally and physically and there isn't much help either especially when they leave primary school. I wouldn't change her for the world though, she is the most thoughtful and loving person and she knows the difference between right and wrong.

Tilda Swinton gave a fantastic performance in "We Need to Talk About Kevin."

@@sharonw2008 I know I have a child on ASD 15yo boy. When I said not all parents are equipped with this disorder I meant not every parent knows developmental milestones, have enough education to rapidly learn and apply methods to help their kids, have enough patience, have enough discipline to be consistent and follow through therapy suggestions, so on and so forth. I also worked as an instructional therapist for kids ages between 3 and 6. I came across various families. It is quite taxing on mothers especially. Love and hugs to you!

@@michaellovely6601 oh, she was exceptional with her chilling performance!

@@sedaisildar8120 There are a few performances by Meryl Streep that can give me chills; namely her roles in "Kramer vs. Kramer" and "Sophie's Choice." If you ever watch either of those movies you can expect a chill down your spine from Meryl either portraying a Holocaust survivor in "Sophie's Choice" or as a mother fighting for custody of her young son in "Kramer vs. Kramer."

scripted, not insightful, this man is not trained to be insightful for someone he never met and is apparently dead. he, like you, can only get it second or third hand i do not know what type of doctor you think he is, why don't you ask him?

It's a common misconception that you can't judge someone by the way they look but if you see someone who looks totally out of it they probably are. The trick is to use your best judgement when interacting with new people. If they look fucking insane then run the fuck away.

I look at someone's behavior and how they treat people. It's OK to judge people at times

The other photo doesn't look as horrific, just a typical boy. But yes that one photo is one of the most horrible faces I've ever seen.

His facial features, the protruding ears and elongated face, are common in Fragile X Syndrome. ASD and Fragile X share common features in the way they communicate and interact socially.

You call it a pine tree based on its appearance. Same as calling a car a car. He looked crazy and he was. It is not judgmental it is observational.

Mike M he was no child are you kidding me? Don’t pity a murder.

Weston - by leaving guns around?

@Ozymandias Nullifidian caused by people like you

@Ozymandias Nullifidian nice hypocritical brain you have there. Calling me out gor having a collection of breakout videos because I like watching documentaries when you playlisted a video about Skylar Neese

@Ozymandias Nullifidian also, that's not my only playlist. I'm just not a dumbass like you and I made some of my playlists private. Unlike you who has 40 different playlists all public for me to see.

Same

same here....i am learning alot and unfortunately, also seeing signs and symptoms in people that i know, which makes me sad.

Absolutely. It is informative and interesting

who cares

@@musictraining5071 I care. It’s great to know that there are parents who help their children receive adequate treatment in order to become successful because of it. Kudos to you, Ann! Excellent job, Mom!!

@@lorel9371 What does successful even mean, it just means fitting people into boxes they're not made for. modern society is total BS

@@lorel9371 treatment for what? for stuff like ADHD and autism. half of the time it's hardly a "disease" that needs treatment. society needs to shove it. either they get off their "rigid thinking" or they let it be. i for my parts i'm glad i'm not socialized in this insane society.

@@musictraining5071 Successful in this case, means that Ann raised a son who didn’t kill a bunch of kids or educators. That’s success to me. Your warped sense of what you perceive people believe success is, doesn’t apply to me. You make negative, distorted assumptions. Seriously though, who cares?!?

Try to get off of them if you can, in the long term it's probably not a good thing!

no probably to it, anytime you inhibit serotonin for long periods you will have to pay another price. Never stop cold. Always have some in reserve! @@propbraker

No you should defntilety start eating more your tooo talk to be that skinny

No your fine brotha just start eating protein

I’m 6’ 2” and I’m only about 140 lbs. years of drug abuse have ravaged my body

no lol, some people are just naturally skinny, it ins't a red flag, I don't believe a psychiatrist would say such a stupid thing, being underweight doesn't correlate with being a psychopath, and obese is just as likely to crazy in the head, and 6,2 and 135 pounds is fine bro, soceity weights standars are fucked due to so many people are obese, aniceint humans was all skinny asf many even skinnier than you, I'm 6,3 and 130 pounds myself, you're fine bro, if you don't feel like you're starving yourself, and it's natural.

i'm 6,3 and 130 pounds i don't consider myself "anorexic"

I think she was partially responsible for the murders. She bought those weapons for him ! WTF

Yeah. Blame the mom. Convenient. Until it's you trying to figure out how to deal with something nobody can tell you how to deal with. And nothing you try works.

@@Thundersnowy I get the point but was she trying at all? there was clear neglect here, she was getting 200,000 in child support. could not have searched some help?

Geez, blame the dead mother when the dad just bailed! No one talks about his responsibility!

@finalgeneration First responders and others going in 1 door and coming out another....milling around then going in again.... = bullshit Look around my friend... the video is on youtube..

True. It's just a giant shit sandwich, it's awful. Domino effect of bad decisions and poor judgement by his mom which lead to that day. Even if she didn't have any firearms, he obviously wasn't getting the help he needed.

Crazy eyes are highly correlated with high psychopathy. Stay away from people with eyeballs like that. Adam Shiff, EOC, and Charlie Manson just to name a few.

His eyes are empty. He is a machine.

@@markhardy455 my ex husband.... I called him shark eyes... They were dead inside.

He had bad luck with the timing of the shots

lmao 😂

as it was meant to

I am too but I have to say I’m confused by what you’re saying. Extra words and the double negative have me confused. So you can’t believe it isn’t over stimulating and exhausting? Care to reiterate

@@screwmuckduck8905 i dont see how i use double negatives? think i couldn't have put it more plainly and straightforward

@@endorfiene7457 sometimes I understand what people are saying, and sometimes I can’t. You can’t even believe how killing isn’t extremely over stimulating and exhausting? So you believe how killing IS extremely over stimulating and exhausting? Or was there a typo? What was your point if you could rephrase it?

@@screwmuckduck8905 yes i believe it would be extremely over stimulating and exhausting

@@screwmuckduck8905 keep in mind english is not my native language

And she gave him guns ! WTF.

That’s what I said! It would be better for him to be places in a setting where there’s kids who are alike him.

Mike M and? If my child asked for guns that’s concerning.

@@MikeJones-rk1un Even as a conservative, that should've raised some red flags imo.

i guess nothing about his appearance in photos made her realize there was a situation with her child

LMAOO FR

Your username makes me absolutely giddy with fangirly glee! 😁

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his face literally looks like this O-O

I literally just had that thought then saw your comment

A total psychopath.

Inception.

He won't diagnose him, just speculate on what could be happening in a situation like this. Lol😂

@@msgrl4254 And his Columbine one is filled with inaccuracies. An evaluation based on bad facts,, flawed from the start.

scripted, there was no analysis by this man. and he didn't do a thing to help you understand

@@TheFlwildman remarkably similar to your grammar

grammar was not my intent nor care, to convey a message of fact to you was. we can start a correspondence if you would like and you can show me how to polish it up. Thanks for getting back. glad you got the message. @@LQOTW

Omg how sad! 😭 thank god the teacher was there. 🙏🏻❤

...just what the media wanted... got em!!

@Derek K what exactly did "the media " want? Rather silly comment.

@@ClickClack_Bam definitely the Alex Jones motivation

@@diannt9583 Yeah, he wanted to get sued, you clown.

He didn't. He never existed. You are operating out of fear, bad idea.

@@hanselmansell7555 No, but nice try. Going to have to do better than that.

@@sirbader1 Qtard lol

@@sirbader1 do you think Bill gates is turning the frogs gay using chem trails as well lmao

And also that he was let loose on the public.

@@antivalue where did u here that???

Christmas.

you fr wrote merry fucking christmas under a school shooting video, give yourself a pat on the back

"These completely unbiased, non-judging, neutral and objective observations, no matter how horrific events covered, are such a relief these days. Thanks for your videos. Merry Xmas." - This has to be from one of this channel's shills

@SgtMajorSkull No. Its because its a neutral analysis without hyperbole, hysterics, or conspiracy theories. Thats so rare nowadays. Most people dont understand the diff between fact and opinion or theory. And you cant talk about an event that has been politicized im some way without a whole bunch of hysterical nutters spouting off in all directions. So yeah, its refreshing.

he is reading a script, that was prepared by others, he can not have gleaned this information from the dead, or government, unbiased for sure, but then the best doctors are right? because he has a phd attached, is he a god?

I believe his level of asd and OCD would make it so he would need to work part time or fully taken care of and he shouldn't have had any pressure beyond that. Of course I don't know whether he had actual parental pressure or just perceived parental pressure.

I just finished watching the same documentary. Best one IMO about this 💯

LMBO!

@@debrajones7344 laughing my butt off?

@@topnug7626 Yep.

You guys!...

Great observation! I believe you are 100% correct.

@Pill Smith terrible take, being autistic doesn't mean you're completely detached from reality. you can get diagnosed and you can figure it out on your own terms

@Pill Smith who told you that bullshit?

You guys keep killing people for absolutely no reason so I don't know how you can feel entitled to respect. Doc is being way to kind.

FilmBucket autistics are absolutely in their own little worlds. Have you ever tried to hold a conversation with them?

@@KFrost-fx7dt It's not like "you guys" do the same, and much more often, but that hardly makes you a serial killer or a war criminal.

Adam is not autistic