I lost my best friend last year. Friends for 30 years. He was my brother and my heart is missing a big piece that will never be filled. I rushed over to the hospital, clasped my hand in his and I just sat there as I played Barbara Streisand for him.

@@Bus_Driver117 I can relate =\ I lost my aunt a month ago, whom my parent's were friends with for just as long. It was very unexpected indeed. We rushed all the way to Chilliwack so that we could say goodbye.

Honestly, how I feel about my best friends right now.

Yeah instead he has Kevin James. Blechhhh. Can you imagine chuck n Larry with Farley?!!

The grown ups 3 line hit me as well.

GNIKCUF BULLET- PROOF 🤘😥😎🤘

This is beautiful, and so true

Rhys James Your comment just made me smile through my tears. I miss my brother, my only sibling, desperately since losing him suddenly in 2018. He was 33 like Farley, so the song got to me. But you helped me to recognize how incredibly well he lived those 33 years, since the people he left behind constantly talk about how witty, kind, loyal, fun, reliable and happy he was. Thank you.

@@MeganVictoriaKearns So sorry for your loss, seems like your brother was made of the same stuff that endeared him to the memories of those he knew. To steal a line from Sir Terry Pratchett. Do you not know that a man is not dead while his name is still spoken? -Going Postal I take comfort in keeping the memory of those we've lost alive. Hope you have a great life.

@@rhysjames8693 Thank you. I'm afraid my life isn't great, but in time maybe one day it could be? I like that quote. Ancient Egyptians had a similar phrase about keeping the deceased relevant through speaking their name. I wish I could recall it exactly, but what I wrote above is the general idea of the saying.

Right on man!

Sandler cares about family and friends.

imagine being the one to touch a person's life in that way.

I grew up watching Chris Farley and I still remember finding out he passed away. Such a sad day. He made everyone around him so truly happy. Not many people have that ability. We lost a great one way to young. 😢

Adam is the biggest Mensch in Hollywood

Right...sometimes there's just certain songs/memories that just hit home and you think about your folks

Apparently they had a fight but after Farley died his dad forgot it

My dad isn't even gone and it immediately makes me tear up. Love Sandler

I mean a little bit after (4:40) Sandler mentions farleys father having his turn to cry at his sons funeral 🤨

Chokes me up every time

Its been 21 years but yes 100% what a friend ❤

Holy crap it has been 21 years wow im getting old

@@arusso713 I feel the same. I remember hearing about his passing as a teen and tearing up. he was a huge part of my teen life with his movies and SNL.

We all heard the song bro, are you trying to act like you have inside info? Just listen and appreciate the song without trying to include yourself.

@@snavisTM how about you shut the fuck up and enjoy the song? What kind of issues do you have that you need to make pointless negative comments like that?

the coolest he is such a.good frnd 😃

You wish my friend!

Might?

His Farewell song to Letterman is up there as well

"Sandy Screw Ya" at the 12/12/12 concert was pretty good, too.

I'm holding back tears every time I hear it.

We just saw Adam’s show in Fresno and there was hardly a dry face in the arena. RIP Chris Farley, you sure are missed…. 😢

I cry every time I listen to this lol

​@@AlexSanchez-tj4phsame here. Real men can cry.

I agree for sure. Bob Saget’s words about Norm after he passed were beautiful also. Not a song, but still beautiful

I'm amazed by the lyrics for sure. And the emotion behind the song. But Slash or Clapton couldn't hit that guitar solo right.

Sandler is a real one.

@@straywhistlerkeep waking up my dude. Your people need that

@StraywhistIer if you can't run walk. If you can't walk crawl. If you can't crawl fall. Just keep the motion forward my friend because the other person who said your people NEED YOU your right whatever your carrying don't carry it alone I lost my uncle who was born 5 days before to suicide January 30 2020 and being only 5 days apart we grew up more like brothers than uncle nephew so please talk to anyone

I feel that brotha, some days I wish it would all end. But I’m married, so I remind myself she needs me, and one day my kids will need me more. Just gotta remind yourself of what’s important.

@@straywhistler Sleep is good and waking up feels great.

I keep it together until he said they flew out to Madison to bury our friend.

Amen

I honestly think Chris Farley could’ve been amazing serious actor

@@TheHalloweenKing could of??! Fawk man he already was...

B. Raw - One comedian said- " i am depressed but, i am not sad!

Absolutely!❤❤

I wish people stop that s@it there is nothing wrong with make movies with people you know and love.

Personally I love it. It's one of the things I really respect about Adam Sandler. His loyalty to his friends.

I am not a huge fan of Sandler's movies, but as a man and a friend he is top notch. We should all have as good a friend as Adam Sandler.

Frankly, I think Chris is a big reason Why he became like this. Regarding his friends in movies I mean. After losing one of his best friends, he wants to make sure they get a hangout every so often. Being in Hollywood that is Hard because of schedules. So he solved it by hiring his friends. "Kevin, David, Chris (rock) and I haven't seen each other of 6 months. This won't do!" *proceeds to make a movie so HE Is part of their Hollywood schedule* LOL! It's brilliant and sweet! 💖

😔

Just remember there were more laughs than tears 😎

That part had my eyes water up and my throat tighten uncomfortably. Life's not the same without those we lose along the way💔

😢😢😢

i hope he got his nose back

man... you fuckin know it.

This is this sad shit I was thinking when I heard of norm

Norm McDonald died? Sorry, Ive been preoccupied with Ida destroying my life. Didn't have power or cell service for weeks after. Totally out of the loop

@@antoniosgirl7419 he pulled a draw on his cancer. Now go watch norm clips.

Second to anything in Wedding Singer

Sandler putting his heart & soul into that solo you not only hear, you also feel his emotions as he honors his dear friend. It put a tear in my eye & a lump in my throat.

Reminder of the song "The Day music died" and who and why is it mere existence. Only thing different that's the day no one laughed and all had wet eyes

His thumbs up at the end is pure love ❤

Can anyone tell me what pedal he uses? Wahwah?

God bless you, my friend. My aunt, who I was very, very close to loved Adam Sandler this song reminds me of so much of her. She passed away, but whenever I listen to it, I get wonderful memories of her. I say this with great respect and kindness. I'm sure your dad was looking down and enjoying the show right with you. God bless you, my friend 🙏 ✝️ P.S. They're not gone forever. They just went home. We'll be with them again one day. Jesus is life everlasting. 🙏

Condolences. But remember the good times

You’re not wrong

Made me cry

The boys got a heart 💜 Lovely soul ✌️

Agree

Right up there with tears in heaven

Having to out live your kid is probably the worst feeling of all tbh

Chris had a big heart ❤️ he was loved by all.

Don't read the book about Chris --- it details how much his Dad grieved at his funeral --- it really wrecked me inside 😢

I had a similar experience at my cousins funeral watching his brother say his final goodbye before they lowered the coffin, ugh, 10 years later and I still ugly cry whenever I think about it.

Yes, same. That part touched me too... the tears started to flow right then. 😭

congrads buddy hope ur still sober and enjoying success

@@biddlemenlive I am indeed!

❤❤❤❤❤ me too!

Love him or hate him, you simply cannot deny that Sandler is one of the most genuine and realest people celebrities out there.

@@billsutherby he really is

​@@billsutherby He is. Sometimes. Don't get me wrong, his performance here was awesome. Sandler definitely knows his crafts and isn't without many awesome talents and admirable qualities. But he's also not on many occasions. I've seen him with my own eyes multiple times in NYC be a real fucking prick. oddly enough it was usually a grocery stores or at a bar. lol

@@ClaytonBigsby93 we're only human. perhaps he was having a bad day or someone pissed him off.

@@chill-_-839 maybe. Or maybe not. It's not my place to say. But what I can say for certain is that even on my worst days i would never go out of my way to belittle strangers in public display as I saw him do (and as I've heard others claim similar occurances with Sandler). Having a bad day isn't a justification for treating people like shit. Especially when the people taking the brunt of his antics are everyday regular people working simple jobs just trying to make ends meet. You'd think a person with such wealth and fame would realize this if he were a decent human.

Honestly, it's such a sad line. The fact that all these years later Adam still thinks about what life would be like if Chris were alive.

Can't help but wonder if Kevin James would even be relevant if Farley was alive.

@@mattakastarkill3r402 well Kevin James is a good stand up comedian from years ago, he had a tv show from the late 90's to early 00's and might have still made a few movies too. Probably not with Sandler that's for sure

If he were in that movie lol he’d make that movie watchable x3

Brought tear to my eye

Amen

Same

Cheers brother

💯

@@ReadThisInANormVoicewhat’s up Norm!

And they probably have more fun then anyone making movies. Imagine every project you do is with someone different. That's got to be sort of tiring. Seeing all your buddies even if they come on to shoot for one day has to be a blast.

So true! Well said

Dude misses his bro..

What is the point of drawing a breath if you cant help the people you love and even those you dont know ? You are correct Sir .

Agreed... Like he knew he won the life lottery and the right thing to do is to share. Also, anyone else notice whatta damn good guitar player... Dang

I am not sure but when my brother passed away who's name was also Chris. The hardest thing was watching my dad cry. This song is probably sandlers best work. It hits us all for different reasons

Same..my heart every time.

Etched a scar in my soul too

Same here

A few years ago a co-worker passed away suddenly and unexpectedly at age 58. Besides the shock of it, the hardest thing for me was seeing the grief of his parents. Made my heart hurt and my eyes leak. His father and brother-in-law came in to pick up his personal items and the father wanted to see his desk. He went by my desk on the way, turned to me, I could see he still looked shell-shocked, started talking about how one minute everything was fine, the next thing the mother was calling out to the father, trying to pick him up from the floor (he had suffered a massive stroke), they called the ambulance, took him to the hospital, they thought everything was going to be fine, and then it wasn't - it was all I could do not to burst into tears at work hearing/seeing that at the time. Still shed a tear thinking about it.

And gives it to Kevin James

Kevin James is ok, but he's no Chris Farley :(

I have absolutely no doubt he thinks about that, he would of had a badass part in Hubie Halloween. This song really hits home for me because ice lost so may friends to stupid shit and I can tell he truly cared about his best friend 💞💞

Chris farley as paul blart would of been crazy dope

@@morganmeadows9603 Oh yeah he would of either played the priest or the sheriff, that would of been epic. I know what it's like to lose a friend so this song hits home.

You took the words right out of my mouth. ❤

This comment made me cry because you're absolutely right.

You're gawd damn right.

This comment got me too. I lost my best friend 10 years ago and she was definitely the life of the party. Adam Sandler is an amazing, talented man.

Great comment

​@@miles3908 Same 😭 has me bawling.

😂😂😂 Classic!

Jajajaja yeahhh

Cool comment man

💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

He was great 😀😁😂😃😄😅😐😯😕😮😢😢

Takes the blues to play the blues

Pretty sure he was supposed to finish a verse but got too choked up so he hummed a bit... After his dad had his turn to cry part

Patrick Small yeah and from the humming to me it sounds like the words were like “and saaaaay goodbye”

Let’s be honest, besides using farley’s death as a pedestal to sway his audience and career because Sandler hasn’t done shit in years His career has completely turned to shit.

@@jesusskills Let's be honest...you're a loser

Any of his sketches he would always try to break the person especially Adam

Bro we all loved Farley. He was the absolute goat. Farley, Sandler and spade together were a power trio. But no one will ever be funnier, better and more genuine that farley

@@lilgruvyskrrrt I think cause unlike most actors and comics who work on their craft, theres people like Farley and Robin William's where their craft was just them taking the reins off and being free. Makes me fucking cry just thinking about it.

I miss all 3, especially Candy. Watching younger adults react to John Candy movies always tears me up good.

@@this.is.a.username John Candy died when I was only 12 days old. But I grew up watching all his movies and Uncle Buck still kills me. One of the greatest comedies ever

The one that gets me is. "But a few months later the party came to an end, we flew out to Madison to bury our friend."

@@AmericanMysticDegenerate The Laundry washing Scene. Wow!

Same. Same.

Eddie Mendez he looked a little overcome talking about Farley’s dad crying. It broke me.

That shows how talented and down to earth adam is ,also shows us the person behind chris farley how funny he was and how much he has influenced so many .May he always live in a van down by the river in our hearts.you will be missed .

Absolutely

Yeah this was heartbreaking. Esp when i miss the shit out of my little brother who died three months ago

Amen

Cars &Such we all died a little that day😣

Man, I'm sitting here leaking salt water. I can't deal with these feels bro.

@@richardfry19 For real. Seems like it hits a little too close to home sometimes. RIP Chris. Thanks Adam.

Cars &Such no shame in it. I heard about Farley passing right when I was pulling into the driveway. I sat in the car and cried for about 5 minutes before I went into my own damn house.

I cried. It’s really nice song.

bro.... my feels

Best lyric/saddest lyric. Shit hit me right in the feels

This is the line that made me break down and cry

It straight hit me in the feelers .. I mustve needed a good tear

I don't know. The following line "Nothing was harder than saying goodbye except watching Chris's father have his turn to cry" was a really painful line. Imagine burying your son.

These were REAL dudes. Not his by a bunch of fake ass personalities n faje bodies.. #bestduoever

Yep thanks for that didn’t no you where Spotify

That line gets me everytime

Jack Lucas what?

Spintechfilms same

What gets me is "we'd tell him slow down, you'll end up like Bellucci and Candy. He said those guys are my heros, that's all fine and dandy."

I have a 2yr old and I can't wait to show her Chris' comedy someday. The only downside will be when she's old enough to understand he's no longer with us.

For me it’s Chris’ dad having his turn to cry

For me it’s the grownups 3 line. Maybe it’s selfish of me, but imagining all of the things Chris would have done if he never died makes me so sad that I won’t ever know them

“Life aint the same without you boy” was it for me

William Ruddock :( because all three of them were so talented! 😢

Now pass me a Spoonful of that nose candy!!!

All 3 of the practiced with that nose candy

It true honesty they all hated cocaine. It was their loved of the way it smells that was too much. :(

@@user-kk2uu2rq7x I know this is a joke but cocaine addiction is no joke and very hard to overcome.

Yeah that shit shit just hit me like a Joe fraizer left hook!!!

Edwin Madrigal it’s a turn no father should have to have.

Instantly lost my battle against the tears stinging my eyes when he said that.

Haofa azot me'u'lah!

The chris's dad part really gets me, one of my best friends kill himself this year, and at the funeral i remember watching his dad trying not to cry, when i look at him i just burst into tears, i can understand that feeling

Badusername2000 I’m there with you man

And another one here.

Same

didnt know i wouldnt be the only one

I remember him very well and I am still crying.

They were probably the last truly funny SNL cast.

Mark Flanigan so true😢

Say what you want about Adam Sandler but the dude takes care of his friends. That's why the same guys are always in his movies. If I knew nothing else about Sandler, that would be enough to get my utmost respect.

Fax

You hear the story of when David spade and rob Schneider weren't talking for a while so Adam sandler wrote the bench warmers movie with roles specifically for them2 so they can make up. Adam Sandler is a good dude

For real like the perfect line for a lost but not forgotten best friend. This whole thing is just the definition of a proper tribute for a comedic friend.

Beautiful. Cried

I’m not crying you’re crying 😢

Makes me tear up

"And when they ask me who's the funniest guy I ever knew, I tell them hands down without a doubt it's you"

Sandler put that line in the song because it's something that Farley would often repeat --- his friends became concerned because he seemed to wanna die young with all his reckless boozing and drug use --- he was trying to copy his hero Belushi to the grave

Part hit me right in the core

On the one posted on snl it sounds like he was holding it back kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aJt5gtanvLa1d4U.html

The one he did snl you could tell he was holding back

@@gavo6240 heard when he was doing rehearsal for it he starting crying when they shows the pic of Chris during the performance

It’s been over 20 years, he might have no tears left to cry 😔😭

He probably wept a few times during rehearsal.

yeah man I feel it

Thats when the tears run

Same here. Such a beautifully written song.

Please Don't Go, is a powerful song.

I lost my Dad 4 days before Christmas in 2022 and this part of the song hits me every time I hear it. It's like a piece of you is missing and you can't get it back.

I didn't even really know him and only recognized the name as a comedian and from the buzz around his death, but even this song made me cry. You can really feel the love and just genuine true friendship they had. Not many people get to have that kind of friendship, especially the later into age you get, so it's even more beautiful

He gave all of us chubby people hope. I was an adult when he died but he gave me hope that I could be loved just as I was and am.

I was 11 when he died but I remember how hard it hit me

Same

I don't know why your comment moves me so. Perhaps because it feels like that he achieved exactly what he wanted. He became to you what Belushi was to him. That's really cool and some solace for his short and brilliant life.

It still kicks that rapper and that Jonas brother's asses though

@@maxsandison4574 Lil Wayne? Hahaha I agree. Sandler knows how to play.

What a back handed compliment.

Sean Norton That wasn’t quite the intention, but I see what you mean.

I feel the solo achieved what it was intended to achieve. I think it truly expressed Adams emotions in that moment as simple as it sounded.

@Captain Brandon Punk & Horror Lover Spade was the perfect straight man. Chris was great always. Even in Almpst Heroes, he was getting better.

He would have play the car salesman or buffalo bob in joe dirt.

@@nickhelm1106 Nah, he would of been the DMV guy.

I feel like he would have been kickin' wing. I can imagine him being a "native american' selling fireworks and giving grief to spade for thinking he looked like no native american he'd ever seen.

I literally think about this at least once a week, Chris had limitless potential and spade was his perfect foil

Everyone's got a glass & a half of bullshit in them ....🤥🤣

I believe you bro! Growing up my whole life in Southern California I've met quite a few actors. Most not very friendly. But I truly believe Adam Sandler is a great guy. I've only heard good things about him. 🥊💥🤦‍♂️💨 👍👍👍👍👍

@@ongie9736 grow up

לא יישארו לי מילים לומר איזה סבבה לקרוא את ההודעה שלך. אולם יישאר לי כוח לקוות שיום אחד הוא יהיה עם הנוצרים בגן עדן. תישאר לי עכשיו רק תקווה

If I ever got the chance to meet or hangout with Adam I would probably Cry. Not sad tears just happy excited Tears. I cry when I'm super Excited.

yeah i heard him say that too

He had terrible self esteem unfortunately which isn't uncommon at all for comedians

Brings tears to my eyes every time I think about it. Such pain, and like said, he was loved

He never understood that he was so much more than "the fat guy". Yeah, he would poke fun at himself and would joke about his weight on occasion, but 90% of his comedy had nothing to do with his weight and would have worked just as well if he were skinny. Kevin James on the other hand, really _is_ nothing more than "the fat guy". That's his entire shtick. He eats too much, he can't hide behind things, he gets stuck in places, and he falls down. He really doesn't have anything else, and it just gets old really quick. I can't help but feel like the only reason Kevin James ever got famous at all was because Chris Farley wasn't around anymore.

@@charlieharper886 and unlike Farley, Kevin James is a jerk with a bad attitude and a diva mentality !

Chops!

Yea better than nick Jonas solo haha

He slayed .cheers

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Yea, some people don't realize how much they touch others and how much of an impact they have on others.

I loved Robin Williams. And he was spot-on with that quote. Depressed people are the only ones who know the torment of being perpetually sad. So if we see someone suffering emotionally we pick right up on it. We identify with the pain. So of course we're more likely to try to pull you out. Depression is something you don't wish upon anybody.

The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they don't wish to see anyone else suffer the way they did. Not sure who said this but, relevant. There is happiness in sadness, take care guys.

@@trinitylivingston1286 --- that's why reading the book about Chris broke my heart --- he spent his whole life trying to be funny because he thought nobody liked him because he was fat --- but in reality, he had a lot of people who loved him and cared about him but he never seemed to realize it

@@fredwerza3478 I haven't read the book about Chris but I think I'm gonna check it out now.

"Then he laughed and said. Just thinking about my Dad." Hits home. Especially through a song. All (if not most) comedians are trying to mask some kind of pain.

"Nothing was harder than saying goodbye except seeing Chris's father have his turn to cry".

“We tell him slow down you’ll end up like Belushi and Candy he said those guys are my heroes that’s all fine and dandy”

Hell yeah 😭💔🎸

for some reason for me it was "on saturday night, my man would always deliver"

Hearing David Spade talk about why he didn’t go to the funeral hurts. I think at one point he said “I couldn’t bear to be in a room where Chris was in a box.”

@notimportant there’s even scenes of him doing the lines for Shrek too...shit breaks my heart

@@NGJ05 yep they had to change it to suit Mike Myers chris would have been better R.i.p.

It shows how fast things can change.... at a party and then dead

"Nothing was harder than saying goodbye, except watching Chris' dad have his turn to cry" that was the T.K.O for me

You can tell Sandler shed a lot of years writing this song --- thinking about all the great times with his friend Chris

That's what Farley and Sandler did, humor. It's one of the nice little touches to his tribute song.

i love your cmt, word!

Great estimate! Keep up the good work.

Yeah he must have so he would not break down doing the song on stage people say you must move on but from experience we never really do we never forget the ones we lose we think about them everyday until they day we can be with them again

Terrible estimation. Had to be atleast 50-60 times.

he performed an edited version of this tribute when he hosted SNL last. He said it was almost impossible to do, being in the same room, seeing some of the same faces that knew him too. You can find it on youtube, it's obvious he barely got through it

ive said that in previous comments before i saw this, the guy is serious

Literally watched the “Somebody Kill Me Please” scene from The Wedding Singer just before watching this and was already thinking that....even if he was just acting it out.

Listen to his old comedy albums. He's been making good music since the 90s.

Well hes got tons of albums

He was inspired by the best (dave mathews)

@@redfiveroe1138 I really wish he would get back to those comedy albums. i miss those

It makes me wonder if Kevin James would be in it though. I’m sure that he wouldn’t say it but it must make him a little bitter that he’s only landed a couple of his roles due to the death of one of Adams late friends. Just saying that James’ role would be obsolete as the token fat&funny guy if Farley was already cast.

Kevin James isn't in the movie just to play that role. He is in it because he's an incredible actor and they are friends who work together often. Their production team wanted to make a movie and I am sure built the characters around the actors they wanted to included. It isnt because there wasn't another "overweight guy" to choose from. Also it's not a certain role that once filled would exclude others. the main cast would just include more actors and each of them having a role, whether they play the similar character types or creating of new characters. There isn't a limit. It's not like okay we got one (a race or gender or body type) so now that's it and we can't add any more. There are 2 "short" characters(height mentioned in the movie, not my observations). Why can't there be two heavier set men. Another note, his character isn't even playing a stereotypical "overweight" character. They mention it like once or twice in a one liner joke, other than that his role is regular family man! I hope this didn't come off as angry/rude I was trying to make it seems as little aggressive as possible :):):) To clarify for myself: I hate that I had to write overweight and heavy set to make my point because they it feels insulting to focus on appearance over talent or the individual/personality as a human being. Just wanted to put that out there in case I offend anyone.

Now that you mention that I wonder if Sandler would've included Farley in Chuck & Larry if he were still alive

Sanam Ketabi you do realize that Grown UPS was created to reunite the cast of SNL. Every character, besides Kevin James was on that cast with Adam and Farley. Chris Rock, David Spade ect. Sure Adam three in some of his buddies. But the primary cast was designed to reunite that special group. I’m sure non of them would admit it, tell this song. Kevin James role was supposed to be Chris Farley. Hands down believe it in my soul.

Saturn Bolt Farley would be in a lot more movies. Chuck and Larry as well. It’s kinda messed up BUT it’s the cold hard truth of the matter.

That one stings.

Yep, that got me too.

Same here. Watching my dad cry over my brother, I can sort of relate.

Veronica Coty i’m sorry for your loss :(

Right in the feels

Candy wasn’t really the party type actually

@@insaneclownhoty he meant his over love for food

He ain't making that shit up that the truth about his boy Chris Farley 😭😭😭😭😭

Candy did alot of coke actually. Yes he did party in his own way

no joke.!!!!!!

What i noticed , the audience would laugh,...but they would also become, so quiet, to not miss a lyric.

Blown away by Sandler's guitar skills!!.. What a warm tribute.

@@richardangers2566 so true. I saw him live last nt in my town. This was the absolute best part of the show even tho we laughed out loud a lot. & it was just as u described.

You're saying "Gotta hand it to Sandler" as if he never did anything touching or related to music... get off your high horse.

Legit....after the guitar solo and he gave the thumbs up, you could see the pain in Adam's face. What a beautiful tribute

I Still Hurt, Breakdown, Cry, Never Get Over This Loss, Sorely Missed😥💔🍻✌❤🙏Can't Wait to See You Again My Brother 😥💔🍻✌❤🙏🤦🏼‍♂️😥😔😖😢