Why People Die by Suicide - www.amazon.com/Why-People-Suicide-Thomas-Joiner/dp/0674025490 Myths about Suicide - www.amazon.com/Myths-about-Suicide-Thomas-Joiner/dp/0674061985/ref=pd_lpo_2?pd_rd_w=8CUfs&content-id=amzn1.sym.116f529c-aa4d-4763-b2b6-4d614ec7dc00&pf_rd_p=116f529c-aa4d-4763-b2b6-4d614ec7dc00&pf_rd_r=5AE8ZZ5AMDK4A6XXQJR4&pd_rd_wg=TyYQq&pd_rd_r=b2c91a19-2026-4f7a-a596-219b3fcbf3df&pd_rd_i=0674061985&psc=1 An Unquiet Mind - www.amazon.com/Unquiet-Mind-Memoir-Moods-Madness/dp/0679763309/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3JQV5QENN28ZK&keywords=an+unquiet+mind+kay+redfield+jamison&qid=1677168586&s=books&sprefix=An+Unquiet+Mind+Kay+Redf%2Cstripbooks%2C69&sr=1-1 Night Falls Fast - www.amazon.com/Night-Falls-Fast-Understanding-Suicide/dp/0375701478/ref=sr_1_1?crid=R5H8PCROK8Y3&keywords=Night+Falls+Fast&qid=1677168631&s=books&sprefix=night+falls+fast%2Cstripbooks%2C78&sr=1-1 Grieving a Suicide: A Loved One's Search for Comfort, Answers, and Hopewww.amazon.com/Grieving-Suicide-Search-Comfort-Answers/dp/0830844937/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1HC9J499IKT1H&keywords=grieving+a+suicide+albert+hsu&qid=1677168666&s=books&sprefix=Grieving+a+suicide+Alb%2Cstripbooks%2C75&sr=1-1 Life After Suicide - www.amazon.com/Life-After-Suicide-Community-Unthinkable/dp/0062906046/ref=sr_1_1?crid=22K11YKX4N81C&keywords=Life+After+Suicide+Jennifer+Ashton&qid=1677168717&s=books&sprefix=life+after+suicide+jennifer+ashton%2Cstripbooks%2C75&sr=1-1 No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving The Suicide Of A Loved One - www.amazon.com/No-Time-Say-Goodbye-Surviving/dp/0385485514/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1WUMB0TIYUO0J&keywords=no+time+to+say+goodbye+surviving+the+suicide+of+a+loved+one&qid=1677168762&s=books&sprefix=No+Time+to+Say+Goodbye+Su%2Cstripbooks%2C73&sr=1-1
@95turbogirl1980 Жыл бұрын
@@HelpForADHD thank you so much
@folasko51203 жыл бұрын
I feel hopeless because no one I know can understand my situation. I normally get accused for being inefficient but even I feel like I'm not normal but people just judge me. "just try to focus more." "stop being so lazy" "you just don't care."
@HelpForADHD3 жыл бұрын
You're not alone. Please contact CHADD to locate a support group near you, or it there isn't one in your area you can connect with other people like you on our online communities, and get support.
@Dancestar19813 жыл бұрын
@@HelpForADHD I was only diagnosed this year at age 40 on top of being diagnosed with Aspergers at 23 and Anxiety and Depression
@passion4vintage5592 жыл бұрын
Exactly how i feel and has been going on my whole life. Not even your own families understands. And what hurts me the most is when my significant other constantly belittles me, puts me down, tells me i will never be successful with my home business reselling what he calls “trash” or “junk” ( i resell second hand items mainly brand name clothings on ebay(“), blames me for his life not being at where he likes cause “i can’t help him”…then i started to become more depressed, feels like giving up on life, don’t have any motivation to work inside my small crowded garage, feels overwhelmed and feels like i am a waste of life on earth who mAkes my kids and families life hard for just being here alive. I have attempted and thought of suicide on a daily basis…thought of getting mens ties and tying it into knots and hanging it in thr garage and hang my own neck…but the thought of suffocating scares me, and i attempted on mixing chemicals and building myself a big enough box to enclosed myself inside hoping it works but was also a failed attempt. People like me all we really want is for the ones we love to understand us and even if its hard to understand because they are “normal” and will never understand….but at least TRY to understand with compassion. I am so tire of begging to have anyone understands me cause everyone i have met throughout my life ends up hurting me. So i have isolated myself in the dark just depressed and trying to fight this devil inside me.
@passion4vintage5592 жыл бұрын
If you are still going through this…just keep your head up and do what makes YOU happy. What i find to be helpful are daily affirmations, but first is to LOVE ourself first…i am still trying that right now to love myself because if i Can’t love myself then no one can love me. Stay strong and print out motivational quotes and hang it in a frame somewhere to remind yourself when times are hard. We can’t give up!
@kolfoster69262 жыл бұрын
The trick is to stop caring. It worked for me now Go look online(KZfaq) for some nihilism.
@jmar28a Жыл бұрын
ADHD is an absolutely horrible thing to have. You have it your whole life and it’s like having someone next to you that keeps on getting in the way of your life
@kaylee1772 Жыл бұрын
I feel like saying "Suicide cuts across all socio-economic levels" misrepresents how much higher the risk for suicide is for the poor
@noahfranks9842 жыл бұрын
Working memory deficit is a bitch. Over and over again I fuck up at work because I can't pay attention to what I'm doing and it destroys my self esteem
@travismcgrath2403 Жыл бұрын
Same..
@jmar28a Жыл бұрын
I’m the same way Noah
@jmar28a Жыл бұрын
My ADHD caused my personal financial collapse. I can’t go on any further. All my life ADHD has caused many problems and this was the last straw. I’m about to make an exit from life
@JesusSaves7012 Жыл бұрын
I hope you are still here with us ❤
@liontv1935 Жыл бұрын
Life is so hard with ADHD. I would do everything for it to erase it out of me. Since I accepted it, it only made all worse.
@eirini94193 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and have experienced a great deal of what was mentioned in this presentation. I was diagnosed in my 50's and this presentation made me feel very "normal" knowing that I am not alone in my experiences throuout my life. Thank you!
@wendyhannan2454 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I love this, this is excellent so happy that your helping kids and giving them hope.
@HopeLives2012 Жыл бұрын
I'm 59 and so understand. I feel like a total failure. I was a Massage Therapist for 15 years in medical field. Then I had a car accident that left me with right hand partial paralysis. A few years later I was determined to become a Nurse. I enrolled in online studies in 2020(go at your own pace) it's now 2022 and I'm still in my first semester. My lack of focus has ruined my life. I had ADHD my whole life but only now trying to get help.
@kirsten1007 Жыл бұрын
I have decided that I will not compare myself to other people who don't have ADHD. I can do what I can do only
@martinkaczynski8526 Жыл бұрын
Very wise.
@segment9326 ай бұрын
Every thing in this video was so on the point it actually hurt listening to it. It all makes sense. I know I have Dyslexia but now I know that I probably have ADHD too. I worked at a consultant company as a programmer the last two years but lost every single contract I could get after just two or tree months and in the end, last spring I got fired and have not had a job since. I live of the money I earned during that time but I cant do that for ever. I will try again now at a new company or start my own company.
@salparadise1220 Жыл бұрын
Oh dear. Both, "don't belong", and, "better for all if I wasn't here", have been featuring in my thoughts a lot recently. Haven't got as far as the how and the where, I am restrained by my children's existence, and their children. I'm like a man with one foot attached to the floor. No matter how I run, walk or shuffle, I just go round in circles. I thought the ADHD might be the nail, but it seems to be more complicated than that.
@HelpForADHD Жыл бұрын
Please let us know if we can be of further assistance with resources and support.
@nancyrodriguez92532 ай бұрын
Hi, am here because my son had ADHD and he just committed suicide may 22, 2024 and he was 21. Am trying my best to understand why he did this, he did tell me back when he was 10 years old that he wanted to take he’s life because he said he couldn’t understand school and I did talk to him about it but I guess it wasn’t good enough. Am feeling heartbroken and wishing I could of done more
@passion4vintage5592 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD, bipolar, mood disorder, and major depression. i feel and it has been going on far too long. Not even my own families understands. And what hurts me the most is when my significant other constantly belittles me, puts me down, tells me i will never be successful with my home business reselling what he calls “trash” or “junk” ( i resell second hand items mainly brand name clothings on ebay(“), blames me for his life not being at where he likes cause “i can’t help him”…then i started to become more depressed, feels like giving up on life, don’t have any motivation to work inside my small crowded garage, feels overwhelmed and feels like i am a waste of life on earth who mAkes my kids and families life hard for just being here alive. I have attempted and thought of suicide on a daily basis…thought of getting mens ties and tying it into knots and hanging it in thr garage and hang my own neck…but the thought of suffocating scares me, and i attempted on mixing chemicals and building myself a big enough box to enclosed myself inside hoping it works but was also a failed attempt. People like me all we really want is for the ones we love to understand us and even if its hard to understand because they are “normal” and will never understand….but at least TRY to understand with compassion. I am so tire of begging to have anyone understands me cause everyone i have met throughout my life ends up hurting me. So i have isolated myself in the dark just depressed and trying to fight this devil inside me. So the only thing that i find comforting in my own opinion is when i use the sewing needles and pinching it down my risk and scraping it down over and over until blood comes out then i feel better after that. I know it sounds crazy but everytime i am in that mind state i hurt myself to feel better. Its like punishing myself for pissing someone off and afterward i feel better.
@_Lillith_2 жыл бұрын
Need a hug?
@_Lillith_2 жыл бұрын
And don't self harm! Please ):
@CyberTronXXX2 жыл бұрын
First of all, end your relationship with your douche of a husband. He isnt very understanding and vet self obsessed. Secondly, you really need to get yourself medications. Have you tried it? If so, tell me about it.
@katwilliams29503 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting this up. I hope more people see this
@aimeewithers73765 ай бұрын
This was incredibly helpful. I thought i was alone but they is so many people out there that feel how i do. Unloved not good enough ,lazy, traumatic, selfish,angry ,aggressive. People with family members who can't understand or wont for the damage caused. Course we don't want to kill are selfs but its so painful to live. My son saves me everyday. I hope I'll always feel that way.
@riverlawson6872 Жыл бұрын
I feel like my brain has a constant white noise that I can't shut off. I don't want to be trapped in this mind any longer. There's too much hurt.
@HORIE66 Жыл бұрын
That sensation is horrible. But we have to fight. Sometimes, when the noise stops, could be so good
@LawNerdAmber3 жыл бұрын
This video is such a hidden gem of statistics and research and proof as well as lived experiences. Thank you.
@LawNerdAmber3 жыл бұрын
Thwarted Belongingness... That's it. OMG. Wow.
@LawNerdAmber3 жыл бұрын
Wait! OMG I fall asleep while my eyebrows are being waxed and threaded... 💗
@LawNerdAmber3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Another truth. Please speaking as someone who also has suicidal thoughts but will not act on them for reasons, I can't even safely share that in any sort of doctor's office or medical facility without fear of being committed. Thank you for recognizing that it's something I need to get help with, Not the prevention of but a healthy way to dismiss said thoughts... the anxiety around disclosing it outweighs the benefits that I might receive
@Dancestar19813 жыл бұрын
@@LawNerdAmber I fell asleep when my eyebrows were being actually tattooed
@ratzfert3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and perfect on research.
@rusticitas17 күн бұрын
Very interesting and affirming presentation. I oscillate multiple times a day, every day, since the early 1980s, between feeling a fleeting glimmer of self worth, and sudden, intense plummets into The Hole. Years ago just a slight dip *hurt* a lot, physically and emotionally. Nowadays it’s just how I am, and I’ve had to accept it. It hurts longer and deeper and more pervasively, but the physical aspect is blunted. (Except for flare ups of chronic sciatica and digestive issues from chronic stress.)
@BIKE_LLECI3 жыл бұрын
Amazing video. Thank you for this. Lots of great info was taken from this. ✨
@HelpForADHD3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@Dame28 Жыл бұрын
In my life, it’s just me and my doctor that know or atleast believe I have ADHD, which means that in my life, realistically there’s no one that can actually help though. Tuff that everyone views it as a stigma, as much as I try to convince myself it’s all in my head and try to reprogram myself I look back every year at minimal progress and the same feeling of being lost in all areas of my life still :/
@ClementineShmementine Жыл бұрын
I have to say I have so much in common with the statements
@professionaltherakeplayer40422 жыл бұрын
I am born with it and when i was in 1rst grade everyday i could not go to recess just because i could not sit down 2nd grade same thing 3rd grade i also got nit picked just for not being able to sit down or i was a little fidgety and i whisper under my breath what i just said and i cant help it and everyone is mean to because of it
@Pinecall12495 ай бұрын
I have been struggling with ADHD and along with depression and anxiety with suicidal thoughts and most recently panic attacks i been having them more 9ften to this day as my suicidal thoughts and it just seems to get worse i been talking to a therapist for 2 months now and it really has not been to great i want this to be gone i wish i had my happy life again
@TioMiojo2 жыл бұрын
Can you please help me? I've been on a binge of these adhd vídeos and I just relate so much. I've been having some serious suicidal thoughts recently, sense of hopelessness, I really want to get evaluated and treated, but I'm in a hole I can't dig out of.
@sweetaimee112 жыл бұрын
Please call your doctor and set up an appointment to start. I understand how you feel. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Please don’t give up love 💕
@mysticalvibe42412 жыл бұрын
Zelok. Do not give up. I don’t know what country you live in but taking the meds will make a substantial difference. I am older and right now I’m not on my meds due to pharmacies switching generics. However I don’t think this goes on everywhere. I also have stomach problems which is a double whammy. Anyways I wanted to let you know that when you get diagnosed and on the proper dosage you will completely look at life differently. Of course when there is a low Serotonin level and disappointment in life will hit you three times worse. I’m saying this so you know your not alone. I forgot but found something on you tube about how we take disappoinment or hurt. There is a name for it but of course I forgot due to not being on my meds. Lol. Please try to get help. I don’t know how old you are but you probably have family that hopefully you could reach out to. I have been alone and have quite a hard time making new friends. I want you to promise me you will get help or at least give me an update. You are very important in this 🌎. You are probably an empathetic person which in this world is hard to find anyway. I know I am. I’m saying this so you know you are not alone and people do care. Not trying to cross the line but I care and don’t even know you. Anyways text me anytime and I will get back. Remember it does and can ❤️🩹 I’m very familiar with the struggle. You are 💕
@AyyoShyGurlTv Жыл бұрын
Remember, it's a condition you can't control because it is neurological. Imagine a car that runs on autopilot is not perfect and needs repairs too! With that being said, breathe don't be so hard on yourself and try again. I get it too, were here for a reason! People aren't as tolerable as they should be and how they respond really is a reflection of themselves. Not you!!! You are all capable of great things, ideas, so choose life! ❤
@D.Martyr Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Love you
@chrisfree63722 жыл бұрын
Good video. But how does this help with treatment , if the people who do the care don't know or believe this ? Meaning doctors , nurses ..
@HelpForADHD Жыл бұрын
Bring about awareness is the first step. It's important to share this information.
@doreen12894 ай бұрын
Yes, my son Tanner, 28 Pending a divorce, stopped using pot. 4-2021 rip
@rebbekaoliveira1018 Жыл бұрын
Every month, when I go through my PMS, I feel so sad I wanna die. And I have ADHD and a mood disorder.
@HelpForADHD Жыл бұрын
Please let us know if we can be of further assistance with resources and support.
@suindude814910 ай бұрын
Actually those who are not so well enough to entire knowledge of the world,like wants to mauch materials to live commits this.Hence we need to be non materialist enough to live like a gem,we really need 1 rupee for a day,that is not the definition of a BPL hindered person.We always draw lifeforce through the constant turmoil created by nature day and night.
@SabrinaAslaksen7 ай бұрын
I wonder how other countries deal with mental health issues and adhd. It seems like America has not done a great job, how do different cultures address misbehavior and social difficulties? Are people more accepting in other parts of the world?
@riverzend10334 ай бұрын
Ima just white knuckle it for a month till I can get seen face to face....I can never get my camera to work
@trumoocheese48512 жыл бұрын
i rlly hit the jackpot as a trans woman with ADHD and major depression huh
@rusticitas17 күн бұрын
We can be “over-achievers”. 🤔
@D.Martyr Жыл бұрын
💔
@travismcgrath2403 Жыл бұрын
Where is the onformation FOR ADHDers?! You are literally talking to caretakers. How do ADHDers improve their situation when pills and counselling dont work.
@HelpForADHD Жыл бұрын
This presentation was for professionals. We do have additional information and resources on our website that may be helpful. chadd.org/?s=suicide
@milehigh30932 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and I'm enjoying my final hours bye world
@HelpForADHD2 жыл бұрын
You are important and the world needs you to stay with us. Please call 800-273-8255 as soon as you can, right now would be best. There is someone there waiting to talk with you, this is the National Lifeline and they can help you. After you've talked with them, let us know and we're happy to send you information on living successfully with ADHD.
@rubabsaif23259 ай бұрын
Are u ok friend Plzz don't do anything wrong 😢
@hollybigelow53373 ай бұрын
Although there's interesting information here, I'm having a ton of trouble trusting the information presented because it is presenting statistics in extremely prejudicial ways that have been proven to be prejudicial. The gun ownership statement in particular was troubling. The US doesn't have a database of guns owned in the country, so it has no clue what percent of guns are owned per state/city/etc. So years ago the people who crunch the numbers decided to assume that gun ownership rates were roughly the same as gun suicide rates and to base all gun ownership data on that assumption. Now don't get me wrong, it might be a valid assumption, but you can't make an assumption that is the root of all of your data and then use that SAME data to prove the original assumption. It's junk math. Hopefully, it's self-evident why that is junk math. Anyway, there are tons of other reasons I have questions about the quality of research with several statistics presented here. If I know that 100% of the statistics with which I am familiar that are presented here are considered junk data for several reasons, how on earth can I trust the statistics they present here with which I am not familiar? I'm not sure if they are deliberately and knowingly using junk data to prove a point or if they are just lazy and are using commonly quoted, but disproven stats, but either way it is perfectly clear they have put in zero effort into ensuring the information they are presenting is actually accurate, and it puts everything they say into doubt for me.
@Scorned4052 ай бұрын
Suicide is for quitters
@suindude814910 ай бұрын
Dont commit suicide for Financial,as I have not observed any begger in India attepting this. Lotta love.
@chriswilkinssa10 ай бұрын
I am so tired of life I feel like everything is a uphill battle life has delt me the shitist hand I have no edition because of afhd and I am so alone life sucks
@through.a.barrel.she.breathes7 ай бұрын
ADHD is an absolutely horrible thing to have. You have it your whole life and it’s like having someone next to you that keeps on getting in the way of your life