Believe it or not , I’m halfway through this video and I have already reached out to my estranged friends. As a married woman with young kids, i realised that I won’t have a sisterhood if I’m not intentional about it.❤

Thandi is so gentle, love her aura❤

I love Yolz collaborations honestly. She is the queen of Truth, honesty and colabs ❤

Thandi is very right, friends will give men chances even after cheating but women will right off their female besties. I have learnt to take myself out of any toxic friendships that do not serve me. I have no regrets about losing those friendships and I do not want to mend them. I am in a place where I am content with myself and I value me as my own best friend first.

This video was nice to watch 😍 actually enjoyed this conversation so much ❤

I love how you listen to each other as you share. She matters, you matter. You see her, she sees you.

At this point in time , I don’t have friends and Im starting to think that maybe its okay and maybe Im selfish but Im realizing that friendships require alot and sometimes your just not able to give that and thats okay

Yolz sounds like she's hurting from a friendship breakup. I also feel that she needed to have this conversation more than Thandi did, if that makes sense. Thank you both for sharing.

It’s so funny how you go through a friendship breakup and you don’t expect it to hurt as much as a romantic relationship. Trust me friendship breakups are the pits. It hurts hard. You end up finding yourself dropping tears and it’s weird that you commit without telling yourself that you are actually doing that. So when it starts hurting it takes you by surprise. It’s actually that deep hey! ##forgive, find closure and heal🦋

Listening to Thandi speak is so soothing. I was so happy when Thandi spoke about your kindness it’s more like she is giving you your flowers whilst you are still alive, I know she was calling you out, at the same time she was shining light in who you really are. Draw those boundaries babe to protect yourself, I wish you nothing but all the best. Smooches to the both of you😘😘😘😘

Thank you Yolz and Thandie for this beautiful sit down. I went through something with a friend last year...or so I thought. We just suddenly stopped talking and I also was in my head trying to think of things I might have done to offend her but I didn't have the energy to ask her. And when she sent me the coldest happy birthday message to me that was confirmation that whatever it is, is my fault but said to myself I'm gonna keep my peace and not ask her. Literally about 2 weeks back she called me, I watched the phone ring and didn't answer. A few minutes later I sent her a message that I'd call her back. And I did , it's important to communicate because she also thought she had done me wrong and asked what happened. She was shocked when I said I thought you were mad at me for something...turns out it was nothing guys. We talked it out, I'm grateful for her because she was the big person...pride will destroy you guys because we could have sorted things out a long time ago, had I picked up my phone and called her because I thought about her all the time.

After this conversation I decided to reach out to someone I had a terrible break up with... And I know it was both of us on the wrong. This conversation gives me confidence to approach them. I hope everything goes well.. I hope we both open up to each other and say everything we needed to. Even if we don't get back together but I'm hoping we forgive each other. Thank you for this conversation Yolz and TG. So insightful! ❤️

In nowadays its Rare to find true friend..in my era I'm so afraid to trust anyone 😔 because of trauma I faced in my first Friendship break up, I'm so Happy you've found one

I had to break up with a friend early this year, we'd been friends for something like 5 years🥺, I felt so peaceful doing so,and I came to a realization that not everyone who comes in your pretty life is for a lifetime thing,some people are brought through for a reason or a season ❤️❤️🤗

Real friendships never feel like oversharing!! Tjo Thandi🙌🏾👌🏾

I said what Thandi said during a friendship break up back in varsity. We are so quick to let go of friendships more than romantic relationships. We talked about our differences last year but obviously a lot has changed.

I had to drop a quick “like” as soon as I saw my faves. I’ll be back to watch after I put a toddler to sleep. Also, when do we stop calling them toddlers? Love you Yolz. Love you Thandi.

I enjoy your authenticity Yolz and Thandi. Friendships are hard.

I love Thandi... something about her energy that's so calming 💜

Thandi!!!!!!!! How are you so eloquent?? I loved this. Thank you Yolz!

Love the content, I had to make a decision to let go of things and people who take a piece of my peace. It's all work in progress because I take things personally without addressing the elephant in the room. I ghost people instead of confronting the problem. I struggle with being a person who reaches out to people who don't see a reason to reach out to me. I found people I can talk to without the filters of being neglected as a friend. Now I have fewer friends and I protect my peace.

There are friends that don’t deserve closure because you deeply know their character.

Faves😍 What a beautiful, relaxing, insightful video❤️

Hi yolz you guys seem like such healthy friends i love to see this it's such a struggle navigating friendship in adult life but i absolutely love to see this

Yolenda's honesty and authenticity is what keeps me coming back to watch.

This conversation was so good! The Holy Spirit convicted me so much! Thank you for this Yolz & Thandi.

I am Thandi Gama and Thandi Gama is me. I'm BIG on communication but I always get friends who don't like communicating and it's so hard because someone either gets offended easily even when you're trying to articulate your feelings respectfully and calmly but they just become defensive. Others don't even want to communicate, let's just put under the carpet and keep it moving and that thing is so painful. I really wish that people can really take time and heal from their childhood traumas because that is where everything stems from honestly.

Thank you so much for this sisters, Communication is everything.Thank you

Thandi I feel like you’ve such a GREAT heart; you wear your heart on your sleeve. Yet life keeps reminding you to GUARD your pure heart!. Trust God to protect you from wolves even as heart breaking as it is. You’ll be okay sis ❤

I really enjoyed this sit down. The maturity really resonated with me. We really have to do better as Thandi said with our friendships. Extend grace to our friends the same way we do in romantic relationships. And I agree Yolz! The apology must be as extravagant!!!

This was such a beautiful collab to watch, I could listen to yall the whole day!! 🥰🥰🥰

I needed this tbh. I have had a lot of falling offs with a lot of friends that were so dear to me, some I have forgiven and they forgave me too and chiiiillleee we've been kicking it off. Others want nothing to do with me and just last week when I had put the past behind me I was triggered by something that someone who had gotten in the mix said. I was infuriated by the fact that they were told these awful things about me a while ago yet chose not to tell me and here I was sharing so much of myself with them, they were always smiling on my face while they had this perception of what they knew me as based off of the conversation they had of me with my estranged friends. But it's whatever, I'm not going to let it hold me back and take up so much of my energy ⚡ and change something that I have worked so hard to get myself out of. I loved this and I could relate to so much that Sis Thandi said to and about boundaries, that's the one thing I struggle with and also I'm always told I'm too kind and so people take that for weakness and they can always come to me for whatever help they need then drop me like a hot potato when they are done. Healing takes time and I wish that for everyone, love 😍 light ⚡and positive vibes💕, bless 💚 💛 ❤️ y'all.

The truth in this!! thank you so much for sharing and the honesty

Deep conversation about friendship 👌🏻 communication is key Those friendship Breakups be hurting just as bad as a Relationship breakup.

I love this topic ey…. I got cut off last year by a friend …we had been friends for about 16 years ey… I was wrong n I apologized so many times…. And I guess she took the decision to let me go… I asked for a meet up to apologize n explain in person n said Shz buzy… I then decided that it’s okay i cnt force a friendship

It is painful to lose a friendship but the truth is we are growing & learning soo much ❤❤

This was a beautiful refreshing chat. Thank you for the realness Yolz & Thandi. ❤

She even prays for her 🥹❤️. I love you Yolz

This was everything ❤❤ so wholesome and therapeutic 🧘🏽‍♀️

Guys you like therapist in this vlog sana.. Im crying at 2:00AM.. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and wisdom... Ive learn so much. 🙏

This was so beautiful to watch 😍please we want more 🥰❤️

This was such a beautiful and heartwarming vlog,I loved and enjoyed it

Loved this, wish for more like this. Very relatable and informative life skills if i may put it like that. I love you both

I actually thought of this colab this other day when I saw you on her vlog! Let me relax and get to enjoy!

Shuu! So much wisdom that you both pouring, thank you so much for this guys much love ❤️ ❤

Love what Thandi said about how we tend to treat friendships Vs romantic relationships...ei

I find comfort in shared mgowo Shem , knowing that I’m not alone cuz I’m always losing friends but at some point I realised I am also the bad friend . You guys are so soft and kind to each other , nifanelene maan ❤… I relate to the advice Thandi gave you at the end cuz I’m always that person who’s available for everyone but no one is there for me …. I’m trying to set boundaries on that part

I love this combo❤️it just makes sense

Thandi is a wise woman. So mature.❤️ Yolz you are a vessel. Keep shinning 💐

I love and respect Thandi so much 😍❤️😘she's a real one

Because this friendship was kept so ptivate, people actually think its new and that's understandable... I don't think anything will happen to you guys man cause you both so gentle and don't have the " I am the beyonce" syndrom. I don't really have friends, I lost my 2 friends because whenever I am going through stuff I isolate so I feel like my friends felt some type of way about that❤❤❤ hopefully I can learn how to not isolate when Im going through difficult situations in my life and I ask for assistance

Wow what an eye opener... definitely something I didn't even know I needed to hear 😩😭. Thank you so much ladies. I'm also on the journey of healing from a friendship breakup

I'm here for Thandi Gama🎀💞🤸🏾‍♂️🔥🧨. Yolz has always been our pillar.❤️

TG gang❤❤❤ Thandi and Yolz have soothing voices ❤

Okay before this video I didn’t know that you guys are friends. I’m not really active on Instagram. BUT this friendship makes perfect sense! I would’ve actually guessed so- that you guys have been friends for awhile. Not surprised at all. Your aura matches to the T. Much love ❤️

This collabo and conversation with my faves was top tier... So enjoyed every moment of it👌💕

I went through so many friendship break ups after giving birth it's a little weird but I'm also glad we're no longer friends. From a distance I'll always love them but I also realized we're better off apart. friendship break ups are really the pits. I love thandi 's aura I don't think one need to know her personally to see she's genuine, just like yolz. I didn't know you guys are friends, so glad. wishing y'all more blessings ❤️🎉

I love these ladies so graceful and genuine. I'm soo grateful I had the opportunity to their pedicures for this video ❤❤

Wow, this was so wholesome 🥹 so so good, felt like therapy in the comfort of your home 🥰🫶🏽

Set boundaries! 👏🏻👏🏻

This deserves more than just a massive thumbs up 👍 I really enjoyed watching it 👌💯

Wow this combo..the convo..I love them both

Loved this sm😊

I love how authentic and friendly you are Yolz .. on and off KZfaq

Loved this content. Thank you for such wisdom ladies ❤️❤️😍

Love you both❤. Thank you Yolz and Thandi❤

This is beautiful 😍you compliment one another

The advice Thandi gave you was exactly what I thought when you asked her the question

My two favourite beings😍😍😇😇am glad I made time to watch this collaboration. Keep it up ladies and bless your friendship😇🙏🏾🥰

As I go and subscriber to Thandi's channel...I loved this segment more than the marriage one

Yoh this video got me in my feels 😢, it’s been over 10 years since I went through a terrible group friendship breakup and it traumatised me so much I still struggle making friends ( didn’t realise how traumatised I am) 😢

My two faves 😍😍 just subscribed 💃

Man😍😍😍😍y’all just sat on my precise sentiments about relationships in general nje and particularly friendships.❤❤❤loved every bit of it and got challenged more as well. Than you so much

Guyzz I literally had tears... I enjoyed this collab.... ❤️

I respect you guys so much. The maturity in this video

You ladies are so mature. I loved this conversation

I enjoyed this video so much. Thank you ladies ❤️

We grow with such conversations, we not only gain wisdom but courage to be confident in our truths.

This video made me reach out to my best friend. It made me realize how important sisterhood is

You it's so hard to make friends as adults. Thank you for this conversation, I realized recently that I have friendship trauma. But I also want to have meaningful friendships.

I love your friendship by the way ♥️♥️♥️there's so much love here and great support, it's in the way y'all speak about each other. I pray for a friendship like this too someday 💕😉you both are a breath of fresh air I could listen to y'all all day. And I'm always going to come back here when things are going south 😂I love it here.

What a Beautiful and authentic conversation, loved it❤❤❤

Hey Babe This was truly refreshing and deep. Thank you ladies.

Lord knew how much i needed to hear this conversation.Thank you

Absolutely loved this ❤

Beautiful conversation and I am glad you were o talk it out with your friend Yolz. 🙂

Your channel is soo authentic 🥹❤️ Love from Namibia ❤️❤️

Two of my favs ❤❤.. grabbing some popcoooooooorn🍿 🍿🍿🍿

Aah Yolz ❤. You and Thandi have grown so much, I remember the first video of you two when you introduced her to us your audience. That influenced by video made me follow her❤

I enjoy listening to Yolz and I’ve recruited my mom😅to watch her videos as well..she enjoys them. Yolz you’re kind and sweet…so authentic. I remember another video I watched in Siza’s channel ( celebrating a birthday I think) that was beautiful 🙌🏾🙌🏾. With regards to friendships it’s not always about the length of friendship that matters but the positive impact or value it adds, though it won’t always be roses.

Well done ladies, these topics are so hard to have but very necessary

Loved this conversation, what calming energy. Made me think of a friendship I avoided😢...anyway you ladies were amazing ❤

Can't wait 💃🏽💃🏽❤

Thank you Yolz for this looks like a lot of us needed this u know. The trauma word eish that's deep Thandi dealing with our traumas ,I think I was too judgemental with my friends during our breakup I lost 3 close friends last year it was tough esp with the 2 I'm learning to be less judgemental to everyone in my life and myself,we need friendship lessons for real we are under educated there lol having the space away from my friends has really been good for me though

Thandi you are preaching please!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

I agree in that we need to give our girlfriends as much grace as we extend to the men in our lives. We're quick to forgive them and not our friends. Loved this conversation.

Absolutely enjoyed this colab.❤

Powerful video, thank you ladies learnt so much 😍

I share the same values as Thandi. The more she talks the more I’m like yessssss!! Something I’d also say

Enjoyed every moment of this collab, my first friendship break-up is probably over 3 years and still hurts as bad as a relationship breakup 😅🤦‍♀️but I’m sure one day I’ll heal.