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I Asked God to Marry a White Husband, Years Later I Regretted It
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@DiamondCalloway 6 ай бұрын
You don't ask God for a white husband you ask him for a good God-fearing husband who's gonna be a great father to your kids a great provider who's gonna love and respect them and stay by their side through everything.
@traceydumase 6 ай бұрын
Wanted to type this too. I don't believe in giving God a list pertaining to the man you end up marrying. God is wise. Simply asking for a husband which He wills for you is more than enough to end up with a loving man.
@phoenixsheikh2079 6 ай бұрын
Definitely,but she ask a husband not describing what kind of a man she wanted ……
@NN-bq6et 6 ай бұрын
@@phoenixsheikh2079она говорила на другом канале, что хотела мзунгу и старше по годам от себя.Она пошла в отель с ним сразу, поехала в Россию не зная его, тпебовала чтоб бросил работу и все продал в России
@bibiayisi4191 6 ай бұрын
Don't pin this on God, He didn't give you this man
@julietbwalya2344 6 ай бұрын
Exactly
@bintokiria5338 6 ай бұрын
When I got disappointed with relationships, I went back to school and added value to myself.
@Nunec 6 ай бұрын
Wow. Deep
@theresahamefianu5193 6 ай бұрын
Exactly, good
@wambuikimani9652 6 ай бұрын
Exactly she is half baked
@kedibonemonegi8037 6 ай бұрын
That's true as woman we have to upgrade ourselves before letting someone to help you so that you'll be respected
@vickymoshi6038 6 ай бұрын
Good move..me also.. Upgrading
@Kc-ym3nr 29 күн бұрын
Betty is honest. From all she said about him taking care of her when she was sick, travelling to Russia with her, moving back to Kenya because she wanted to, he loved her. Truth is that it was hard for him to live and earn in Kenya which was why he started drinking immediately. Betty, maybe you both could met yourselves half way to live both in Russia and Kenya. Because you both really wanted to be with each other. Your kids are beautiful. May you find so much joy in them. Try developing yourself and appreciating your blessings. Then take one day at a time. You are hugely blessed.
@silveronu 23 күн бұрын
exactly . him moving to Kenya was a bad sign. it will be hard for him to work in Kenya amd adjust
@valerycharles494 17 күн бұрын
He was an alcoholic well before he moved to Kenya. He may have suppressed his violent tendencies in the beginning, but it’s who he is. Reconciling with him will only prove to him that she will allow him to treat poorly and abuse her, even if he is a provider. How many more strangulation attempts will it take for him to no longer be a good man? We are too delusional at times.
@tiffinyanderson4403 3 ай бұрын
No one deserves to be abused. I hope Betty is doing well she uses humor to help deal with the abuse. She was naive but brave and brutally honest.
@ashleywest7046 3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@user-ut8xv8ne6u 3 ай бұрын
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
@user-ex1ye5pk2x 3 ай бұрын
I agree, absolutely that she was genuine lazima
@Anonyme67 3 ай бұрын
There is the husband version
@hotties3v3n 2 ай бұрын
🙄
@Jan-ds1jq 5 ай бұрын
i am a white men from the Netherland and my wife is from Afrika we together for 17 years and everyday i treath her like a queen, she is my wife for life, her family is always welcome, sometimes her family stay for 6 month in our hous and thats fine by me. if we go to afrika her whole famlily threat us so good, we can stay as long if we want. i am a bless men
@prestonthompson4848 5 ай бұрын
Which country because Africa is a large continent…
@rozy_mnk7550 5 ай бұрын
Gentlemen like you are rare
@skinnydee1886 5 ай бұрын
@Jan-dis1jq, You and also your wife are very lucky! May God bless you and your family🙏 There are many good men and women in the world and God bless them🙏
@Deematt871 5 ай бұрын
Yes as you are from the Netherlands and not Europe. So where in Africa is your queen from?
@user-sj8ip1zz2t 5 ай бұрын
Really
@ritaboat2 6 ай бұрын
Bad marriage can kill you but being single won't kill you 🙏
@lilinee3jeany865 6 ай бұрын
Asked God for white husband she’s a wicked woman what’s wrong with black husband 😂😂
@user-ml3fk2xs9l 6 ай бұрын
YAH❤❤
@wacerahchege8 6 ай бұрын
Being single can also kill unless one pray for self-control. 😊
@yvonneoshevwe2334 6 ай бұрын
Preach!!!!!
@AS-wj1du 6 ай бұрын
Not always. My innocent cousin was in her home minding her business and she was single 😢
@MissJackieBrown1 4 ай бұрын
She is so brave and transparent. Most people are judgemental but she was naive. It happens to so many others. She is so brave to speak up even though people will shame her. I am happy she is strong, a survivor, and great personality. She is very admirable in my book. Sharing her story can help so many young women.
@sebiotimonicholas8376 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, I agree. You're 💯% correct 👍🏾
@killa46464 3 ай бұрын
Agrée 😊
@user-ut8xv8ne6u 3 ай бұрын
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
@dr.arsenialucy5100 Ай бұрын
To be a Mom and raise 2 children is so difficult, much more to have a very irresponsible husband like him. He needs to be cured . He is an alcoholic. The lady is strong and brave
@sandrabarnaby6914 Ай бұрын
😢check out the Bull before you buy them could be a fighting Bull.
@India423. 2 ай бұрын
It wasn’t BECAUSE he was white it was because she prayed for a color and not character God is not a shallow God. She definitely answered her own prayer.
@ebychuks9797 Ай бұрын
She did ask for character - a good man that will take care of her. God answered a good man as she said just that he was bad tempered, other things she said he was nice to her, even loved to live in Kenya. But she's not living in God's perfect will, so she can't get God's perfect will, only his permissive will as she was living a permissive life as at when she met him.
@Najwa899 Ай бұрын
Satan hears your prayers to God ..He sent that Man for her ..Bad Stuff ftom the Devil
@servantofjesus7050 Ай бұрын
Yes. You saying right
@akurutteddy6968 6 ай бұрын
It wasn't God that answered your prayers, you answered your own prayers.
@yvonnemascoll356 6 ай бұрын
Exactly
@nightingale2987 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@wilbrodmadzura8456 6 ай бұрын
Indeed, we are our own worst enemies worshipping white devils at the same time imbued with self loathing. The grass is never greener on the other side.
@ruthlukah2905 6 ай бұрын
So insentive of you guys, at least empathize with her.
@mariamachee1438 6 ай бұрын
@@nightingale2987😂😂😂 what are lies!!😂😂😂
@belovedshername 5 ай бұрын
She has a great sense of humor and personality. The greater the storm. The brighter the rainbow!
@gfygfy9512 4 ай бұрын
But what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
@FilleDesSoucoupesVolantes 2 ай бұрын
Don't ever let a man stop you from going to school. Never depend on a man for money. Get your degrees and be independent.
@shankaron22 Ай бұрын
That’s what am planning right now 🥲🥹
@RiaG777 29 күн бұрын
Exactly 🙌💪🏼👍🙏
@gailsegal6843 4 ай бұрын
It's not the color of the skin or religion that defines a person, it is their free will to make the best choices in life.
@ChisomandPiotr 5 ай бұрын
I don't know who needs to hear this, what you've passed or passing through can't be compared with the joy that awaits you. Soon your story will change forever for good❤❤❤
@winnielisa6675 5 ай бұрын
Amen ...I tap into that blessings
@DrUmarJohnson1 5 ай бұрын
Slaves said that same EXACT statement 400+ years ago. As Africans [Blacks] we MUST practice racial purity!!!!
@annettemaxwell3816 5 ай бұрын
God gave her a white man. Exactly what she wanted :).
@debraakinyi2802 5 ай бұрын
Very true
@shadzie3078 5 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this 🙏🏾 Amen
@ileenehewitt7132 6 ай бұрын
I don't know why women think been single is a crime not every marriage is from God almighty
@soniachapman6359 6 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY NOT NOT NOT THIS WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!?!!!!!!!!! THIS WOMAN is ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY EXTREMELY HAPPY BEING SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@MyJOSE2013 6 ай бұрын
not a crime but we all love a good marriage
@FikileMilando 6 ай бұрын
Don't say every woman talks about those you know
@Jamaica674 6 ай бұрын
We are supposed to be married to 1 person, so she wasn't doing anything wrong, but he obviously was just their to purchase whores
@NN-bq6et 6 ай бұрын
she wore gold in Russia. What was she missing? She wanted to get his money, but she didn’t need a husband. An aggressive woman, her husband has scars on his body that she gave him
@ucovibe1806 3 ай бұрын
Never " need" a man..never want somebody to take care of you..never be afraid to leave. You still refer to him as your husband..that's a red flag and a sign that your open to taking him back..cut the ties
@jn8922 4 ай бұрын
That Russian man married an uneducated village girl who was very naive... She said he was a doctor? This was not a marriage from God... This was a marriage from hell. She was very ambitious looking for a white man to give her everything and she keeps saying she wants a husband to take care of her over and over again. Your husband is not your father and you can't be so naive to believe life is a fairytale and you'll be treated like a queen because life has struggles. He should have rather left her instead of drinking. Him abusing her is unforgiveable but she is not innocent either. She's not a victim because even after he beat her, she didn't leave and she got pregnant again. They were both toxic people. I wish I could hear his side of the story. I do feel sorry for him and I don't think he was a bad man. I think he went mad in Kenya and it was because of this woman. So it's a lesson for all of us to stay away from toxic people and leave toxic relationships. Never marry anyone who sees you as an opportunity and never stay with an abuser.
@carcher3279 4 ай бұрын
Yes sir. I agree! all of this could have been prevented.
@valvihk3649 Ай бұрын
I don't think you should be blaming her for his behavior. Other than that I agree with you.
@KeziahWahura Ай бұрын
I agree with you 💯
@orlandoromero22 Ай бұрын
I agree with some of what you said. He was already a troubled man in addiction.She was young & wanted a family. But I don't think she wanted him to take care of her I think she wanted to build with a husband. She was sad in his country,him in hers, the whole situation was bad. She deserves a beautiful outcome.
@blossomwhyte4787 29 күн бұрын
She married an alcoholic. Unfortunately this is the case in Russia, too many drunks regardless of profession. Two beautiful children.
@fundimbatha1748 6 ай бұрын
The devil answered NOT God, God does not add sorrow to his blessings. May God heal you and your children 🙏
@gsabo1000 6 ай бұрын
" God does not bring sorrow to blessings " Love this.
@Jaydyte 6 ай бұрын
True. “The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it” -Proverbs 10:22 Note 👍: from the story, she did not marry the one that appeared after her prayers, she married his friend.
@user-rs1rz7hh7w 6 ай бұрын
God can give you sorrow. If he wants you to realize your mistakes, and want you to be closer to him.if God test you will sorrow, that doesn't mean God doesn't love you
@fundimbatha1748 6 ай бұрын
@@user-rs1rz7hh7w Proverbs 10:22.
@roselynealima3618 6 ай бұрын
Sure we have to be keen God protect us all from evil people
@bethshebankandu1395 5 ай бұрын
Ladies!!! Let's not be in a Rush getting into Marriage instead Pray wholeheartedly, God's a good listener & he answers Prayers.
@bukolaodunayo3269 5 ай бұрын
Fact 👌
@marshawright4002 5 ай бұрын
It could happen to anyone
@GWU-VideoSoul 5 ай бұрын
@@marshawright4002 DON'T BE A VICTIM.....👌🏾💯💯✌🏾😎
@latifleah8382 5 ай бұрын
+@@bukolaodunayo3269
@user-rt2jl4tx4z 5 ай бұрын
Amen
@EpicureanGemini 4 ай бұрын
I don't get this story for one second. You lived well in Russia and he provided for you. How did you expect him to provide for the family when that's not his village or language? You could have tried your best to adjust to life in Russia or plan more vacations for your home sickness. Just as you were depressed, he was depressed
@jumnehbaby714 2 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I'm seeing here. I see a depressed man.
@yttelbruinsma9503 Ай бұрын
@@jumnehbaby714that doesn’t give him the right to hit her!
@bindujoseph8355 29 күн бұрын
I agree with you. The only thing I disagree with, is the abuse.
@halofomsultan1501 4 ай бұрын
It is all about her. When she was depressed from being alone in Russia, she felt she needed change that the man answered by going back to Kenya with her. Then the exact same thing happened to her man who was resorting to drinking as a coping mechanism. Her answer was different in a wrong way. None of them is to blame in this case. They need to see a therapist to understand their early childhood upbringings that shaped their current behavior. Otherwise blaming this and that is not going to help at all but it will take things from bad to worse.
@ericmungai708 3 ай бұрын
Wise comment
@lisetteem588 3 ай бұрын
quite right. I think this idea is made by black men because we all know in general, theyre not reliable.
@tumwebazeccynthiamwiiza8473 3 ай бұрын
I agrée however their responses were different. Whilst she planned to go back to Kenya, he resorted to abuse.
@lisetteem588 3 ай бұрын
@@tumwebazeccynthiamwiiza8473 or did he.. I tend to think it is a pack of lies.
@Minime669 3 ай бұрын
Right
@rhone793 6 ай бұрын
I thank God for answered prayers and the unanswered prayers too. If God doesn’t answer a prayer, be glad about that too. He knows what you don’t know.
@rosiebenjamin5351 5 ай бұрын
Truth
@louisar4227 5 ай бұрын
💯
@lilianakeya9868 5 ай бұрын
👍
@filledechance4063 5 ай бұрын
100% agree with you
@skinnydee1886 5 ай бұрын
@rhone793, Exactly! You're a wise individual 👍👏👏👏🙏
@chikochiringa7247 5 ай бұрын
There are some people in comments who are very Judgemental, I appreciate her for taking the time to tell her story most people wouldn't..Instead of Judging lets learn something
@Arielzis 5 ай бұрын
Those judges have no empathy. It make me sick.
@Theforce8888 5 ай бұрын
It's not judging we should be held accountable for our actions. Most of african women believe marrying a whiteman solves their problems. Family members are the worst at this. God does not breed contempt neither does he bring confusion. The devil equally hears prayers that's why it's important to seek the face of God before anything.
@Whisperwomaneq2 5 ай бұрын
@@Arielzis You do realize that you just judged them too?
@erickamiller458 5 ай бұрын
What did you learn from her story?
@chikochiringa7247 5 ай бұрын
@@erickamiller458 I learnt that I would never have the guts to tell my life story😅 She's brave trust me
@nabbutomajorine28 4 ай бұрын
She is an honest girl and a good story teller. I love her energy. Im from Uganda. You girl God will see you through oo
@inneswiaty583 3 ай бұрын
I really like the interviewer, it's the second interview I see of him and he seems so interested and full off compassion.
@cathy821 6 ай бұрын
Why do women think getting a white man is the right thing? There’s bad in every race, but when we pray, because we want it so bad we immediately think God answered our prayer when the first person comes along, the red flag was when he offered money for sex, instantly she should have left because that man was not sent by God, my heart goes out to the children that God will not only heal their hearts but the mother as well. We as women must learn to wait on God and be able to identify when and if it’s God🙏🏽
@mariaben7587 6 ай бұрын
Perfect response. Love your reasoning.
@jesusprinceofpeace1364 6 ай бұрын
And women today think getting a white is having it all internet has lied to us let’s find a good man God fearing no matter the race but today every woman is looking for a white too bad 😮
@Queen-ze1tm 6 ай бұрын
He married his friend, you didn't listen well. The one who offered the money he didn't even know the English so they went apart
@nmcn1210 6 ай бұрын
It's called self hate
@earlgreat4535 6 ай бұрын
They were 3 guys... the handsome one who offered money and two others. Her husband was one of the two. At the time, her husband had a girlfriend....so the handsome guy she met at the beach was the one who offered money
@sharrelgrootboom1116 6 ай бұрын
I had a alcoholic husband as well I moved to America and he started to drink more and I saw that he started drinking more I separated from him and a few years later I divorced him. I worked 2 jobs and raised 4 kids and bought a house which is paid in full and retired now and thank God for everything he had done for me. We African women are very strong some don't realize it. I came from Africa as well. Thank you Lord Jesus 🙏 💓
@tinkerbell1666 6 ай бұрын
@sharrelgrootboom. All women are strong.
@jacquelinebourque8041 6 ай бұрын
@@tinkerbell1666: NOT AT ALL. Most women are weak. I know so!
@charlottebryant7551 6 ай бұрын
0w by@@Intrigankatru
@judykibinge8863 6 ай бұрын
@@Intrigankatru I just translated this - it seems you know the couple well and this reporter should have asked husbands side of story.
@SetApart7Generation 6 ай бұрын
All women are strong. From every country, I'm from Peru, South America but I don't just see just kne race of women being a strong woman.
@Ragnheiour_Olafurdottier111 4 ай бұрын
When she said even the chickens were stealing that took me out lol. I love her personality in the face of adversity
@LifeWithSimvu 4 ай бұрын
No, my sister. God will never give you an abusive husband. It was not God. I pray you heal from whatever happened to you, but don't blame God, its not His fault.
@WanjuguNdii Күн бұрын
Abused husband are given by Satan???
@user-bh6rb4hs6k 5 ай бұрын
I like the way Afrimax is keenly listening with all the gestures. Sometimes you really just want to be listened to as you pour away all the pain. It's a therapy.
@bettyearle7644 5 ай бұрын
Strange situation
@triniandahalf 5 ай бұрын
Yes, the Interviewer is the BEST❤. So patient and sincerely listening.
@monet3320 5 ай бұрын
Weird editing choices to play clips of him beaming in her face while she’s talking about very dark parts in her marriage
@TheFacelessTraveller 5 ай бұрын
I wish people would show compassion and grace with their comments. She admits she made mistakes and at that point she wanted her marriage to work, but it wasn’t with the right person. Betty, you’re a strong woman and I pray you find the peace you seek. May God be with you and give you wisdom to make better choices for yourself and your daughters. We are all allowed to make mistakes in life because there’s always a lesson in it. The interviewer was so graceful to allow her to share her story without interruption. Your next chance is coming up and I pray it’ll be one of peace and joy! All is well Betty!
@NN-bq6et 5 ай бұрын
This woman is a swindler, with hysterics she forced her husband to sell everything in Russia and leave for Kenya. And in Kenya she took everything away from her husband, and now she asks people, viewers for money for her maintenance, but she herself doesn’t want to go to work.
@lindacouncil1353 5 ай бұрын
Yeah...I married a " white" man instead of I married the wrong man. Attention ho
@SuperApril70 5 ай бұрын
excellent comment
@lindacouncil1353 5 ай бұрын
Well I wish I never married my "black" husband...maybe that's what people have a problem with. you think ???
@TheFacelessTraveller 5 ай бұрын
@@lindacouncil1353 i didn’t elude to race, I focused on the person. So context please?
@missbettybooo8694 4 ай бұрын
Betty you are a very beautiful strong woman. I admire your courage to open up and be vulnerable. Many blessings ❤
@akinjoadeola1182 4 ай бұрын
The problem started when she insisted that they relocate back to Kenya, forgetting that Russia is the man's place of comfort too. He is good man affected by change of environment
@cynthiaweir5697 3 ай бұрын
He was an alcoholic long before he was with her. That was his downfall.
@bevvaor2320 3 ай бұрын
Agreed. Betty could not stand living in a country so foreign to her, and asked her husband (the breadwinner) to go to another a foreign country. Any person moving to another country has to be prepared to start from the beginning learning a new language in order to gat a job. This couple was not ready for such a tremendous change in their lives. God bless to both of them.
@sallyvalley3179 3 ай бұрын
This lady is an example of stupidity
@colemand402 3 ай бұрын
I think that's what happened too, that's why he wanted to kill himself
@user-ut8xv8ne6u 3 ай бұрын
@@colemand402 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sureiamboo 5 ай бұрын
She is very brave to tell her story. Everyone has a different story to tell about their lives. Let’s learn to respect one another’s life journey!!! My life is very brutal & dramatic, I cannot dare to tell , I have black out lots of my trauma. I real respect her vulnerability & openness of telling her traumatic story !!! Sending you strength & love sister ❤️
@elo-adassa 4 ай бұрын
😢
@Michelle-gw4db 4 ай бұрын
What ever you are going through, I'm praying for you ❤️ no one deserves to be messed treated. Prayers sent for you.
@pambeforethestorm9784 4 ай бұрын
I pray you are healing from whatever trauma you went thru. No one deserves that. Take care and sending you lots of love and virtual hugs! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
@sureiamboo 4 ай бұрын
@@pambeforethestorm9784 Thank you so much ❤️
@pambeforethestorm9784 4 ай бұрын
@@sureiamboo you are more than welcome ❤️❤️
@RUZHOFFS 6 ай бұрын
Very beautiful story telling. Exactly what I tell people on my channel. Interracial marriages are very complex and are not always a bed of roses. To Betty, thanks for sharing your story. I hope it empowers someone out there who is desperate and thinks a white man is the only way forward. God bless you and your little beautiful girls. Love from Germany 🇩🇪
@RUZHOFFS 5 ай бұрын
@@OdunZee thank you 🙏
@gailjones7044 5 ай бұрын
She's poisoned her womb with that devil's seed.
@GesunddurchWissen 5 ай бұрын
Most marriages are not a bed of roses. I have a mixed marriage and things started getting bad when we moved to Africa. It didn't affect our relationship but it puts a lot of stress from the outside world unto the relationship and makes it much more complicated as in a developed country where everything is well organised and almost everything works. Here it's the opposite and my wife suffers with me
@user-qo8pc3sy7o 5 ай бұрын
В накладе она не осталась .
@Tokewittoots 5 ай бұрын
Not all interracial relationships are bad. I have been in mine for about 13 years. He is a kind good man. A gentleman. Don't look at race for love. Let love come naturally no matter the race. God bless you 🙏
@edithjin1036 3 ай бұрын
What a tragedy. It's so sad that two people who loved each other fell apart in such away. Its not a matter of colour, it's communication. Im sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person Betty.
@user-ut8xv8ne6u 3 ай бұрын
Betty's story from Kenya is her channel
@thabsilechamane3774 Ай бұрын
I love her sense of humor, she’s beautiful and she has a testimony
@ccw12021 6 ай бұрын
The sad thing about it is that Betty depends on a man to provide but God is your provider. She will fall for the next individual quickly that comes into her life and I pray she considers those 2 little girls,,, you can’t just let any man into your space now!!!
@geethascharlu7098 6 ай бұрын
Yes. She should stand on her own provide for herself and kids. Set an example for all others not get the next man ..
@dove6731 6 ай бұрын
I hope & pray you heal life can be very hard unfortunately we help bad situations because we want so bad to be loved sometimes we pick the wrong person 😲
@karensolomon8122 5 ай бұрын
Amen!!! Now it’s about protecting her two girls!!!
@ampedhallway 5 ай бұрын
Say it again for the people in the back!! Jesus Christ is the only one Who was able to save our damned spirits from hell! So, everything else is small potatoes in comparison!
@joyfullnoize2242 5 ай бұрын
Everyone makes mistakes
@outcognito 6 ай бұрын
You weren't specific about your prayer. You just prayed for a white man. You got a white man. You didn't ask for a kind, thoughtful, loving person, someone who would treat you with respect. Your prayer was granted as you requested.
@carmennicholson2867 6 ай бұрын
21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
@carmennicholson2867 6 ай бұрын
21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
@carmennicholson2867 6 ай бұрын
21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
@tahliah6691 6 ай бұрын
Exactly 👌🏾 God knows that people are strong headed and don’t listen so He will leave you to your fate after giving you clear red flags 🚩
@joanojeigbe8389 6 ай бұрын
He was kind and thoughtful until when she frustrated him and made him leave his good job in Russia, to move back with her to Kenya; how can she say she was lonely just because her husband went to work weekdays just to earn a good living for them; if it were possible, I believe he would have tried working from home just to please her and make her stay with him, but due to the nature of his job. She herself confirmed that he never hit all through the time they lived together in Russia and she described his temper AND HER temper as minor issues back then, even saying he treated her as a queen; so why didn't she just stay and focus on the benefits in her home in Russia. Now everything is shattered, the innocent children are suffering, and the man is now a shadow of his once upon a time successful self. Her insisting on leaving him in Russia to go back to Kenya with his child, resulted to a worse situation for them all. She should reconcile with him, and HUMBLY HELP him overcome the problems her decision has caused them all. Also the family was not God-centred, nor prayerful, nor involving God in their decisions. They need to repent too
@evapisztora1241 4 ай бұрын
What a life story! Alcohol is poison and addictive! Alcohol is terrible! 😥 Your husband needs to stay 100% away from alcohol, from people who drink and places which have alcohol! Your husband has to be honest to himself and he has and needs to make the decision either to have his children happy and proud of him or to die miserably! Continue to be strong and don’t let your husband come back unless he changed and has not drunk alcohol for 3 years-100% ! You are awesome!
@trissislandadventures1358 2 ай бұрын
You are a brave and strong woman. May God guide your every step and all your decisions in life.
@patiencethomas3900 Ай бұрын
Agreed, Alcohol is Dangerous...
@tobikeeney176 4 ай бұрын
Been with a white man for 18 yrs with 3 kids. We moved back to my country but we had a big plan before doing it and he is thriving and successful here. I asked God for a God fearing , good husband and father and He sent him in a lighter skinned 😊
@peacehappyb237 4 ай бұрын
Ahhhh sweet.
@akdhamial5260 3 ай бұрын
But why marry a white man anyhow? When you don't have anything else in common? Why?
@DianaRose-yn8ux 5 ай бұрын
That lady didn't know what she wanted in a man. She has seen international relationships and created a scenario in her head. So when she asked for a white man as her husband, the devil sent exactly what she wanted. He was once the angel of light after all
@aminasesayaminata1322 4 ай бұрын
Trust,she rush everything
@peggymarak7735 3 ай бұрын
Her hair also a wig i think
@lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 ай бұрын
Whites partners make beautiful babies period
@Jesuhra 2 ай бұрын
This was not God but the devil …and evil spirits from her bloodline and she was not grounded enough in the word of God to know the difference. I pray that she overcome and put shame to the devil. You are a beautiful girl you can make it Jesus loves you. You’re a strong woman . God bless you.
@celiapaixao7842 2 ай бұрын
@@lesegogaebeeyn4005pretos tmb fazem lindos filhos
@BiofoodTechCoach 5 ай бұрын
The best prayer as a woman is to pray for a God fearing man. Not by color, tribe,etc... just a God fearing Man.
@user-mj6er2gn7i 5 ай бұрын
I married a God fearing man it was terrible being married to him, being god fearing and being a good husband are two different things be specific tell god all the qualities you need in a man.
@tumerua 5 ай бұрын
If he abuses you, then he is not actually God fearing. No one fears God and behave ungodly. It is absolutely impossible except he or she is battling demons and in that case, they'll need deliverance 🙌🏽
@funmilolaogundiya9218 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@paulinekendie8081 5 ай бұрын
Even the devil fears God😊
@daisylavender5275 5 ай бұрын
God fearing man?!?!? Good luck with that.
@TheExquisiteGem 3 ай бұрын
I believe in God and I'm celibate until marriage. I will wait until God sends my husband to me.
@user-qq4eo8cg6q 4 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for you my sister 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂you're strong you'll heal the biggest step you've taken is to admit you made a mistake from that admission you have paved your healing road❤❤❤
@zandilenkabinde9058 6 ай бұрын
My advice to you is to go to school even trade school. Never depend on a man for your survival and that should be the lesson learned.
@BettyStories2508 6 ай бұрын
Completely right
@katherinebilly6991 5 ай бұрын
When God sends you someone to share your life with, He doesn't send you a broken person for you to fix.
@pambeforethestorm9784 4 ай бұрын
Beautifully said and so true!!! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
@sandrabentley8111 4 ай бұрын
But God doesn't always send you what you want but what you NEED! Maybe, finally this experience helped her grow up and be independent.
@star450star 3 ай бұрын
AMEN. ABUSIVE N JERKY. OMG. HE WAS A devil🛑✝️ 9:45 . 🛑👺👹👺👹👹👹🛑✝️😇😇😇😇😇✝️🛑🙏🏾
@star450star 3 ай бұрын
@@sandrabentley8111THIS IS NOT GOD. ABUSIVE JERK.
@angelahoward4147 Ай бұрын
@@katherinebilly6991 Hallelujah
@emilyelo114 24 күн бұрын
God give us what we pray for. When I was 17yrs I prayed for a white young man . who will love me for the rest of my life and understanding person. And also love my family that we both live together all my life. And god answered my prayers. We are now happly married since 17 yrs together and still In love everyday of our life😂❤❤ im greatful to who answered all prayer
@jordana7775 Күн бұрын
She was too young to get married but she is a strong mother may God keep you safe I also feel sorry for the husband
@gloriasaah5118 6 ай бұрын
He really loved you, to leave everything behind and start fresh in Kenya. I think he became depressed when he came to Kenya, just the way you got depressed in Moscow. I pray God strengthens you both.
@Salome-xk9ov 5 ай бұрын
True
@joyceidornigie4631 5 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@stellachingozho8993 5 ай бұрын
Very true. She needed to listen to him when he suggested to move from her village. He is also missing his job. Drinking started as a way of coping, then ended up escalating. Yes, he now needs medical help and help to go back to his country.
@rhodahluvayo7769 5 ай бұрын
True
@carolkami.671 5 ай бұрын
Sure, they both need healing.. this is a story with so many lessons to learn..and the good thing is there is hope for Betty, Sasha and the 2 lovely kids..
@tetaduncan7625 6 ай бұрын
It was not GOD that answered your prayers my dear, The blessing of GOD add no sorrow. Every good and perfect gift comes from GOD.
@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021 6 ай бұрын
I disagree! He's her husband but she is the cause of him to fall apart.
@julietbwalya2344 6 ай бұрын
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021yes yes
@Silvija551 6 ай бұрын
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021алкоголь стал причиной развала семьи.
@roselandebazelais8236 6 ай бұрын
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021How you know??? GOD told you that???
@jerryp447 6 ай бұрын
The lesson is be careful what you ask God for. Remember the story of Jonah in the bible what he asked for then regretted it? This lady seem to have issue with her own race and maybe God allowed her to find a whiteman to teach her a lesson saying good is in every race. Nothing is wrong in marrying another race but our motives must be correct. Some folks marry the white man and is not happy with the relationship but they believe they look cool to the outside world so they live a lie. An Inferiority complex.
@wakumarobert2542 4 ай бұрын
I am from Uganda, my sister thank you so much for a story, however nothing else, but only God is your maker "Jeremiah 1:4" says he new you before you're formed in your mother's womb, therefore get saved God will do more than man can for you. Thank u
@monalisatselane5093 5 ай бұрын
Been with my white man for 25 years and we are still in love. We had some hurdles along the way, but we always worked them out. There is something deeper going on here, please be strong
@madamchoco3796 4 ай бұрын
Exactly ! People focusing on the fact that the husband was white …this can happen with anyone 🥹
@soumailaouedraogo6090 4 ай бұрын
YOU don't know yet, he wants YOU to be old and he's going to divorce you
@angelasealey6145 3 ай бұрын
🎉 by my
@alabra3350 3 ай бұрын
Advice her please. Most people in the comments are enemies of marriage. Sasha is a good man. Three years with her in Russia isn't a short time.
@orlandoromero22 3 ай бұрын
@@alabra3350I believe in marriage, I am interacial marriage, but that young lady betty SHOULD never be beaten by Anyone. Sasha probally WAS a good man but he needs therapy b4 a wife.
@LiLisLounge 5 ай бұрын
I am a "mzungu," and I have no idea why some people think that it's better to marry a mzungu. We are definitely not all rich, and wazungu have problems too! We are all human beings!
@zandibuckland1652 4 ай бұрын
Your forefathers have polluted us into hating ourselves and believing that your race is superior than others. Nowadays the media is controlled and owned by your people and paint as low so we’ve been programmed to believe that white is right and black is wrong. But we are slowly waking up to the truth.
@user-jr8ou8ui8m 4 ай бұрын
its a persons choice to date a certain race. character has nothing to do with colour
@Dontflatteryourself08 4 ай бұрын
That's exactly what she's saying @@user-jr8ou8ui8m
@graacie2 4 ай бұрын
@user-jr8ou8ui8m u didn't understand comment
@kermundupatricia5610 4 ай бұрын
Not all want white men for their wealth, maybe want cappuccino babies
@valykud 3 ай бұрын
Hello, Betty. I remember your family from your husband's channel "My African Wife".I feel very sorry for you. Not every Russian man are alcoholic, and an alcoholic person can be of any race. I hope you meet a good man. God bless you and your kids.
@Sunsplash.1217 3 ай бұрын
She's asking for help , not to be whipped over the head with negative comments condemning her for her past mistakes in life .
@user-ut8xv8ne6u 3 ай бұрын
Betty's stories from Kenya is her channel
@Keenytravels 5 ай бұрын
She is a very strong and patient woman.She deserves nothing but the best.
@firdows... 4 ай бұрын
She was desperate asf and unfortunately many black girls think the same
@Millie-q6x 5 ай бұрын
The owner of the shoes knows where it hurts. Do not judge this lady. Life happens but God is truly faithful ❤
@maureengolding2980 5 ай бұрын
People are not praying for an answer from God. Ok.
@nomathamsanqachibanda3079 4 ай бұрын
Presenter has strange facial expressions. I dont know why he was smiling the whole entire time
@tdgreer 3 ай бұрын
Maybe high; maybe he’s attracted to her; maybe it’s a combination of both! From the way his mouth is moving, I’m leaning towards high.
@purplelaketafahdhali7753 3 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. Maybe he doesn't know what to do with his face.
@deniseefile8149 3 ай бұрын
Good observation
@nthasilo6769 3 ай бұрын
He's a very good listener, a rare attribute in most interviewers
@user-jg6es9tt9f 2 ай бұрын
He's so interested in her, not concentrating on what she's saying 😂
@ngomelaura8282 4 ай бұрын
She's quite eloquent for a secondary school drop out.
@user-no2wd3ri8p 6 ай бұрын
All young men and women please ask God for a godly partner that fill with peace, joy, love and understanding. Never ask God for a color partner.
@cinnamonstar808 6 ай бұрын
but white Jesus!!!
@LR24134 6 ай бұрын
User! Exactly💯💯💯👍👍👍
@gracemunyoki 6 ай бұрын
💯 true
@khosiethabekhulu3497 6 ай бұрын
@@cinnamonstar808According to? And what is wrong with being white? Is it a sin? Is it wrong?
@rosealexander9007 6 ай бұрын
@@khosiethabekhulu3497believe in or not there is a group of people in the United States that have been brainwashed to believe that being born white is a sin. They call themselves the Hebrew Israelites.
@claudiaorgill4785 5 ай бұрын
Betty has a heart of Gold,she just need some help to push along and break the cycle of dependence, she and her girls will make it, May God provide her with what she needs
@yolandamercedwhite3837 Ай бұрын
Yes sister I agree let's listen and learn from her bravery to even share her story. I was a guest of the masai tribe when I was in Kenya. I was truly moved by them and their confidence and resilience.
@moreenkangethe 3 ай бұрын
May God bless her and her children. Thats so brave of her to share her story. I pray she may find peace and happiness in life. We've learnt alot
@elsiemuyeshi9541 6 ай бұрын
From her stories, you can tell that her Russian husband started suffering from depression in Kenya. People handle depression differently.
@nicklaus8536 6 ай бұрын
i think there was stress from a very different lifestyle than what he was used to. And then drinking to avoid it. Vicious cycle
@user-bq7st2dc6u 6 ай бұрын
@@nicklaus8536Вы оба ошибаетесь. Саша и в России был и плохим человеком и алкоголиком. От него ушла первая русская жена. И Саша обманул своего сына. Он абьюзер и расист. Приехал в Кению быть белым господином, надеялся,что рабство еще не кончилось
@tatjanavasiljeva3831 6 ай бұрын
@@user-bq7st2dc6u ,чернильница ты.
@julietbwalya2344 6 ай бұрын
True
@user-vk6zb5fb8c 6 ай бұрын
I swear to God depression can turn you to another version of yourself I don't blame him.
@perisjelagat1895 5 ай бұрын
I'm a woman my advice to other ladies who are married far away from Kenya please just bare and be patient be understanding if your man loves you if he privide for you and kids than telling you wanna go back to Kenya and you don't have job. Bora mtu akupigi. This lady did a very big mistake by allowing her husband to sell everything in Moscow knowing he cannot get job in Kenya to rise his family. Sometimes ladies just see the consequences too it was better to stay in Moscow getting everything despite the boring you can watch tv or something keeping you busy since every time you go to your country for vacation with your husband and kids
@preciouskelvin7495 5 ай бұрын
The comment I m looking for, she also contributed to wat happened
@joannjeri4381 5 ай бұрын
The man got into depression by coming to a country he knows nothing about.
@perisjelagat1895 5 ай бұрын
@@joannjeri4381 he got depressed because he has nothing juu aliuza everything in his country thinking he will be better in Kenya and that was a very big mistake.
@perisjelagat1895 5 ай бұрын
@@preciouskelvin7495 namuurumia huyo mzungu sana penye ako atajuta kupenda tena
@ifeoluwaolaogun2364 4 ай бұрын
The day you said you are going back to Kenya is d day d marriage packed up..u cause this calamity
@user-mx1uz6cf3h Ай бұрын
We have to be wise in choosing our partners....Pray , hope , wait .... Sometimes God let us walk through hardships to overcome them..
@ConstanceNdunge 27 күн бұрын
Though so young, but such an encouragement to many. May God continue to bless the work of your hands and know that you will make it and your children are blessed!
@carolkami.671 5 ай бұрын
Dear Betty, my lovely sister from Embu..there is hope for you..from today, please re-trace your steps and start afresh coz you can do it. Forgive yourself and Sasha as well... start going for therapy too..I'm praying for you and i look forward to hear the new wonderful story that is being birthed from now.. I too I'm on an intentional healing journey and i pray we succeed in this new chapter of our lives..our tomorrow will be greater than today 🙏
@goergetobias7206 5 ай бұрын
Well central Kenya women are golddiggers. You know what your doing don't blame the man he play game your playing..Now you got kids with him you will have to be rich for another man to accept you
@Heloo181 5 ай бұрын
Amen
@tashleyskalsson2472 5 ай бұрын
Níati my namesake
@Newport1930 6 ай бұрын
Just ask God to send you a good partner doesn’t matter what colour they are.
@saidatabby4797 6 ай бұрын
No... actually, you have to be specific in your prayers
@Teestar519 6 ай бұрын
@@saidatabby4797wrong!!! Humans are all human and breath same way an bleed same way!! We are ALL the same other than some have more melanin than others but other than skin colour we are ALL the same!! HUMANS!!! We ALL bleed n breath the same regardless of colour of skin ❤❤
@ogi197 5 ай бұрын
@@Teestar519Educate them sista...folks are ignorant in these comments. They do not think logically.
@faythmodiey4310 5 ай бұрын
@@saidatabby4797really😢😢basi cjui kuomba.O.MG😭😭😭
@DrUmarJohnson1 5 ай бұрын
@@Teestar519 Europeans don't think that whatsoever! They ONLY appear to be happy when Africans [Blacks] are suffering. Our skin tone tells a story, and for centuries Europeans have deemed those with darker skin ugly, ungodly, untrustworthy, and unworthy
@nontokekoziqula7205 19 күн бұрын
Marriage is from God an belongs to Him it's a person who decides to treat the other one badly, no matter how Frustrated the husband was,there was no need to treat her badly like that,Hope Betty and the kids are fine and that their life is well of now,and also hope her life stork was restored
@TTT80533 Ай бұрын
Brave, innocent and intelligent woman May God help you in any way ❤️❤️🙏🏻 I think your man is a good man who even agreed to sell all his stuff from Russia to Kenya, please, forgive him and take care of him, remember now he has no one in Kenya if you continue to neglect him. God will ask you this, all the girls around him it's because he is suffering from depression, see the beautiful children you have and take care of your husband, remember the good things he did to you. before and you girls from Kenya want to be men in the house .
@deborahshiaya6290 25 күн бұрын
Very true, I think he needs medical attention and then he'll be fine
@WanjuguNdii Күн бұрын
I agree.this man was good
@everythingbeautifulalways6118 6 ай бұрын
Alcohol always destroys family always.
@EvalynLyimo 6 ай бұрын
imagine saudu arabia is now actually allowing alcohol to be sold and drunk there,they shall all become zombies in the future.
@lillyjohnson9023 6 ай бұрын
Vodka is their food because of the weather
@Passion407 6 ай бұрын
And Russian men are extremely heavy drinkers.
@maviskaseni 6 ай бұрын
True
@jolantavvheeler5827 6 ай бұрын
She drinks too
@kediboneshushu2891 5 ай бұрын
Beautiful vlog oh Gugu your topic touched me. Turned 45 and married still no kids , but will never give up on having kids. Thanks Gugu❤❤❤❤
@corithy 2 ай бұрын
"I just fell right into his arms" . This line made my morning 😂. Thank you for sharing. I wish you well with your family
@squeakypup2098 4 ай бұрын
I am sorry for her baby boy. She's a strong woman
@ln2542 6 ай бұрын
dear sister. that man loved you ...he left everything he had in Russia because of you and had to start from scratch in kenya - this was not easy. just as it was not easy for you in Russia. May the Lord heal both of you. Love and prayers.
@Valentina639-34 6 ай бұрын
этот человек любил алкоголь больше чем жену . Он променял семью и детей на алкоголь . Он пропил квартиру , которая досталась ему от матери , а из России он уехал тоже изза проблем с алкоголем , его выгоняли с работы и новую найти было все тяжелее . Захотел стать белым господином в Кении .
@karma-pt2tt 6 ай бұрын
@@user-x34ghj89fg ч не против , иметь много денег это отлично , главное не жадничать , а помогать тем у кого их нет . Вот я и помогаю кенийской семье российского алкоголика . А ты помогаешь этому алкоголику на ежедневную выпивку . Я детям алкоголика намеду и жизнь , ты алкоголику на виски , сигареты и проституток .
@queenexellent9854 6 ай бұрын
May be he had another family in Russia 😮😮😊😊
@queenexellent9854 6 ай бұрын
@@karma-pt2ttthat makes sense
@NovemberReigne 6 ай бұрын
@@queenexellent9854he probably did
@patiencemtetwa 6 ай бұрын
From this story I have learned a lesson. Pray for a God fearing man 🙏🏽
@cinnamonstar808 6 ай бұрын
She dishonored her ancestors. Anytime you do that things go bad
@jadathompson5580 6 ай бұрын
Amen for me too
@RuthOsas-ot7hw 6 ай бұрын
Am telling u,dats wat my mum always say pray for a God fearing man
@cassandrastanton7955 6 ай бұрын
And don’t marry outside your race!!!!
@pointa2b388 6 ай бұрын
Those are worse
@Cvm87 2 ай бұрын
Ladies make a living for yourselves, work hard for your own riches and a man with money will be a just a bonus, you will be shocked with the respect and love you will get ...
@shirllyn4288 4 ай бұрын
Im kenyan but this woman lead to the downfall of that man once a doctor and now in the streets
@carcher3279 4 ай бұрын
She should have left him in Russia. He fell for the younger "exotic African" lure.
@user-qo8pc3sy7o 4 ай бұрын
Спасибо вам за понимание
@cynthiaweir5697 3 ай бұрын
His alcoholism ruined him.
@roadrunner1095 2 ай бұрын
haha, lol
@janetmwende1834 Ай бұрын
The village people bewitched the happy marriage coz in Russia they lived well
@theresa805 6 ай бұрын
Life abroad can be very lonely. Even in English speaking countries like UK, you can still feel alone as people keep to themselves
@nancysahi1749 6 ай бұрын
I agree
@Lilassi 6 ай бұрын
Very true
@chefjaji4225 6 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@Esleen 6 ай бұрын
Which country are you
@luismartins854 6 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯 correct I can testify to that into your courts room loneliness is a last name in UK
@fikileneo1804 6 ай бұрын
When the person you love wants to leave, please allow them to go and if they are meant for you they will surely come back. Than ending in blood shade.
@joycefuraha6403 6 ай бұрын
True
@LuxxuryPlush 5 ай бұрын
Yes always let them go it get so bad if you force them to stay
@killa46464 3 ай бұрын
Tough . Betty has been through a lot . She is brave & strong & still young & beautiful . I hope that she can have a good life , maybe even meet a man that is kind to her and her children and is loyal , faithful , hardworking , gracious and appreciates the amazing woman that she is . ❤
@user-qo8pc3sy7o 3 ай бұрын
Он отдал ей все что имел.
@user-ut8xv8ne6u 3 ай бұрын
@@user-qo8pc3sy7o бутылку?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lucidarose613 2 ай бұрын
The devil also heard your prayer as well, that's why the wolf came so quickly in sheep's clothing.
@brendadaniel9917 5 ай бұрын
God's answers never back fire....when you pray ask for confirmation from God❤
@micorazon5216 5 ай бұрын
Atimes God give us what he want especially when we insist the prayer should be in accordance to his will.
@motivationstartsnow 5 ай бұрын
Empathy and self-awareness is something we should all pray for 😑
@yasinbodewadt8846 4 ай бұрын
You are a strong, brave and patient woman.. Sometimes we don't get what we ask for.. You are beautiful and your kids are beautiful.. Be stronger as you are a strong woman, surely life will change for you to the better in God's name.
@kalaza241509 8 күн бұрын
Moral of the story is “Be careful what you wish for!” You were critical of one woman’s appearance, proof you’re not so nice after all!
@user-pg6mq6xe4l 5 ай бұрын
God answered your prayer to give other women this awareness...God has his own way of things.... your a strong lady
@faiezaebrahim7772 6 ай бұрын
I had a similar life as yours. Yet my husband was never a drinker. He copied the life of his parents and replayed their role for 25yrs. But being a strong woman and strong in my faith. GOD turned him into a new humble man. We now together 34yrs
@Shiro-WanderlustGPS 6 ай бұрын
Amen
@user-gr8ip9wd4v 5 ай бұрын
Out of 34 years, you burdened yourself with his abuse for 25 years. Man, that wasn't worth it
@solomonoupamakola 5 ай бұрын
Amen. What matters is that, in the end everything was good 😊.. you did well to pray for him.
@tuche3219 5 ай бұрын
Wow, Glory to God 👏👏
@mandae07 Ай бұрын
I can't imagine having this lady as my wife. Never grateful.
@valleyesogwa5058 4 ай бұрын
This is a very touching story,its sad when what we think we need is what the enemies use to deceive,a wrong marriage is something that is hard to be undone due to the intricate nature of life, God bless her heart,she's a woman who has true love and is seeking betterment of her life, God bless you dear❤
@LindaTinahTV 5 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for what she went through. Sometimes you are better off a lone than in an abusive relationship.
@78SR 5 ай бұрын
Not sometimes. ALWAYS!!!!!
@LindaTinahTV 5 ай бұрын
@@78SR yes. Better alone than in an abusive relationship.
@DrUmarJohnson1 5 ай бұрын
@@LindaTinahTV Our sister allowed her self-hate blind her to the realities of Europeans.
@upliftinggod-eh8ur 5 ай бұрын
I am 4 years single...was in an abusive relationship for years. My prayer now is God...please send me a God Fearing man who is going to love me for who I am, not what he wants me to be in Jesus' name!!!
@angelahoward4147 Ай бұрын
@upliftinggod-eh8ur Glory to God. A man that loves God, then he'll know how to love you. Hallelujah
@edithphillips5251 4 ай бұрын
God bless you sir for your ears and eyes! 🙏😁 You did a wonderful job with this interview. She has a very strong telling story
@JudetteD 4 ай бұрын
It’s not about race, religion, profession or whatever makes you human. It’s about a man who’s loving God, himself, his family and his friends. That’s how you know you have a great husband! Because by Loving himself and other he knows how to love and by loving God he knows how to respect a Woman!
@lottatroublemaker6130 6 ай бұрын
In Norway, we have a saying that translates to something like «If you move, the goblins come with you!» («goblins» are beings that represent all your problems, your problematic husband or wife etc. etc.). So when you have a lot of problems, just moving somewhere else won’t help you. You have to deal with your problems, face them right on, or nothing will be better. Wishing her the very best!!! ❤❤❤✝️⚓️💟❤❤❤
@Sofia-dl9vw 6 ай бұрын
love this saying. I will use this in future. So true. Great story by the way and a very beautiful woman too! Greetings from a Kenyan hustling in Toronto!
@LucieVital 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! You are kind and wise. ✨♥️
@Meikles888 5 ай бұрын
You have self esteem issues and you got what you deserved
@bodhisattva2348 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@chilekwak.chilekwaii4960 5 ай бұрын
I am from Northern Zambia (Bemba by ethnicity) and we have a similar saying "Leprechaun, like our shadows, can never leave us alone. They will forever follow us where ever we go" This means pretty much like your saying in Norway and can also mean a lot other things such as "You can never escape problems or death as we are all susceptible to personal problems (Finances, personal bills, relationship problems, ill-health and even death). And as relates death, it said that death is the only destination we all share, rich or poor, white or black, Asian, Yellow, brown, male, female, gay, straight, religious or not, educated or not, foreigner or local" It also assumes that merely being born in country A and migrating to country B, will not stop you from being sick or dying. You will certainly get sick or die wherever you will go. So what are you to do? Live and let live! Face your problems head-on and deal with them...never rely on others to SORT out your problems.
@user-zz2zj3mh9g 6 ай бұрын
You meet someone one day and move in for 3days with a stranger, its not good just to throw yourself on a man.
@NovemberReigne 6 ай бұрын
She was so glad to have Sasha, it didn't matter whether he was a good provider or not
@user-zz2zj3mh9g 6 ай бұрын
@@NovemberReigne At the end the results were so bad and it ruines one's future.
@kimone5321 6 ай бұрын
That’s not smart
@juagbejohnson2931 6 ай бұрын
Stop judging her
@juagbejohnson2931 6 ай бұрын
All the villagers charming against her because of jealousy
@Ozy_ambo 4 ай бұрын
I really love the brevity and frankness possessed by Betty, you deserve better mama. You are strong and I have learnt a lot from your story, as a young man I have known the things to avoid when marriage time comes.😊😊
@arimax888 2 ай бұрын
I can never judge or blame her. Growing up & being surrounded by pedophiles +sexist men I too had the assumption that a white husband/partner will be better!! Now am 34yrs old never married or had bfs, I am too traumatized and my only regret is that I may never be a mother. I pray she finds healing and may god protect my sisters out there. Ofcourse not all interracial relationships are doomed!! It's just certain men are attracted to desperate women! Sadly she too was naive in her fantasy about a relationship with western men and her inexperience didn't help either! I appreciate her transparency
@MarthaShikongo-us5nf 5 ай бұрын
Wow, Betty! the more I listen to you, the more I feel sorry for you, and yet believe God has been with you and you are such a strong woman.
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