Correction to the wife's request: let's call this separation an open marriage.

People like this woman are hypocrites.

if i was in his shoes, i wouldnt waste my time with her anymore and leave her, infidelity and ask for its permission wont be tolerated by me. When that person ask to open marriage, i respond she is free to be with everyone else, but not me, i boot up from this relationahip and serve her divorce papers as soon as possible. The prenap is madatory this age, dont let cunning hags use you and then stab your back.

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Damn look like you got the hairy chest... Gotta be a little faster next time, or slower i guess.

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Well, when you avoid accountability for 10 years, you settle with dillusion, so it is expected for her to react that way

That's a cheaters mindset it's everyone fault except them

I would be angry too if my backup plan, ATM and babysitter all quit on me on the same day, while I am not done enjoying myself with random partners after only 10 years

After 10 effing years. Dude needs therapy.

It would have if he did it the moment she pretty much said "you're not enough for me i need more sausage" he pretty much was a cuck for most of the open marriage

Idk to me he dragged his feet hard

After 10 years and dragging their kids through their bullsht? Nah. Doing the bare minimum isn’t a win

Just by the age of the kids there IS a high chance they are not his

Fr tho, and why does he have to choose between her and the children??

Why is the wife being dysfunctional, why is she acting like a child?

Because divorce laws are unfair in most states and treat women like their shit smells like cinnabunz.

@soullessenderlox239 ultimately he didn't

@@lavonnewr Well yeah, obviously. But the fact that it was even a thought

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You will be surprised that it's not a gender thing but a cheater thing. Months ago I read this kind of story but with opposite gender. Husband keep demanding open relationship unless he demand divorce. Since she had a small child she doesn't want a broken home. He keeps having multiple affairs to the point he wasn't even there for home. But then when finally OP found the guy for herself he keep trying to sabotage the relationship with him. Infact he got so pathetic he start showing love and affection with her and sleeping with OP while he never close this open relationship thing from marriage. But at the end when OP slept with the other guy he broken and cry that he thought as long as he kept sleeping with wife she won't need another man and he can continue affairs outside of marriage also. They got divorce at the end but in my opinion it's society who normalised this bullcrap.

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I have seen women getting forgiven for cheating by basically blaming the man

Honestly just as delusional as saying her snatch has god-given healing properties.

Yes, and the worse of it is that by accepting these terms, the victim comes out looking like a villain no matter what they do... no matter how degrading and humiliating. "She did that while rocking your baby to sleep? With 3 guys?... well, you accepted it, so take the L"

I believe open relationships are possible IF IT'S DECLARED BEFORE YOU EVEN START DATING. But when it's sudden or random then there's definitely something suspicious going on..

As a polyamorous person myself Yes and no Generally yes if you start years in a relationship or even a day after a marriage with that it's almost certainly they are cheating But I would say for the first 6-12 months it can really just be that the polyamorous person is just not comfortable to bring that point up because they don't wanna lose the person they love Also in any open relationship their has to be talking rules and a we stop right here for ever with that set in place before it After that its really no big deal if it's only open on one side (some ppl just wanna watch there spouse having a good time (not for me but no kink shaming Timmy! Don't do it!) But it's really important that both ppl are comfortable, talk and have no secrets, when someone wants to no every single detail and is not comfortable anymore you have to give them that and stop it You have to live with maybe breaking the relationship And because of all of that I live monogamous even though I'm poly and keep my distance from female friends when I'm in a relationship because I don't wanna catch feelings and only love that one person (and it payed of as of this week I'm happily engaged) Also yes polyamory is a real thing and no you don't love one more than the other you love them all for different things and if you truly love them everybody gets enough, ppl can love both there parents, all there grandparents, uncles , aunts, siblings and children Why not 2 partners?

@@borasora I agree but there are also poly persons that don't have a problem to live mono But most ppl don't understand that and that can end in a break up very fast, so some ppl don't I'll try to tell ppl when I date them but also that I live mono and I don't have a problem with living mono

@@borasora I just said that I myself make it clear at the start that I'm poly but I live mono and I don't have a problem living mono (I even tend to not make female friends so it stays that way) so what is your point and there is a lot of other things thaz can break up a relationship after months or years Also generally monogamy is relatively knew because it's something that the Christian church started so yeah it's pretty much a culture thing at this point because biological speaking were all poly, I mean who only had one relationship and died single after the dead of this one partner And you can love your parents and children. Why not another partner , like I said it's a culture thing If you fear just ask them if they are, if they then lie then there shit

"No fault" isn't what was stated which js what makes me think the story is fake. No Fault means a couple can get a divorce without requiring to prove a party at fault. It allows for more amicable divorces or divorces that don't require you to game the system in order to have a peaceful break up. If OP had proof of his wife's cheating, then laws in pretty progressive areas state that the offending party does not have custody of children because it's proof that said individuals capability. That is a toxic environment for the child. There are definitely courts and states with laws that favor women unconditionally, but they are not as all-encompassing as people make them out to be. Of a man is having the book thrown at him and is genuinely able to show he isn't as bad as is being considered that ks then a judicial inconsistency and the impartiality of the judge should be called into question thus appeals.

It shouldn’t. No way the kids didn’t notice men coming in out of the house to smash their mom. That’s a horrible way to grow up.

Idk man… kids see everything. She’s bringing men home and leaving with them to vacations, etc… and dad is ok with it, it must’ve been super confusing to them.

I doubt those kids had a good childhood, they definitely didn't see what a healthy relationship looks like.

As op mentioned they co parented so i assume they were there for the childrens. Like they were just not there with each other. I guess whenever the children wanted their parents, they were there. Need to make a mind map kinda thing to explain my opinion lol

​@Notyourusual that still doesn't mean it was a good childhood. They likely saw the conflict between the parents which will absolutely color their views about relationships and romance going forward. Yoy don't need romantically compatible parents to have a healthy view of relationships, but no one is that good at hiding their resentment or that they are getting a body count higher than covid. Kids see this stuff. It isn't that they don't know what they are seeing its that they don't know how to process it without proper guidance. That is hard to do because with this kind of situation the kids will absolutely ask tough questions. So... yeah. They may nkt have wanted for anything material but that doesn't mean their childhood was a healthy one.

I agree

She also want his cake and eat that as well

Exactly

That's not what No Fault means. The issue is if it can't be proven she cheated aside from He said she said. If it can be proven she is at fault, then in most states the offending party does not have lead in the say of the children.

I guarantee you all she’s done is normalise her behaviour to her kids, which doesn’t end well

exactly, what a waste of a decade. He was a doormat and now his kids are stuck in this drama that's been festering for 10 years. If I was Cathy id be *far* away from all of them 💀

He didn't have enough money, at the time, you clearly do well in exams

@@kachi2000 we clearly you do well being a cuckold. You leave. You don't let someone walk on you like a doormat. That's just further making it worse. You're not only allowing emotional abuse you're allowing Financial abuse.

Yes exactly.

Not creative writing, but thinking. I actually heard such talk from a lawyer before, later admitting to me that it would be a frivolous lawsuit... but that would be up to the wife's lawyer to point that out.

It's not like he had a choice, if he were to divorce her at that time she would have gained everything while he would have lost everything

If the guy comes out of divorce winning you know it’s fake 😂 no way feminist society will allow that in 2024