I thought she was into me, because most of the things on this list were happening, but then, she got a boyfriend and I was like "WTF"

What this is telling me is that I'm really into my crush because I do all of those when I'm with her 😂

I'm bisexual and I literally do this to my crush so I think its obvious that I like her

The fact my crush isn't bi or les I still think she likes me. Other people: Then she doesn't- Me: *I CAN DREAM OK!*

I watched this a couple months ago when I was crushing bad on a girl and I COULD NOT figure her out. I was back and forth constantly trying to determine whether or not she liked me. Turns out, she watched this exact video around the same time, trying to figure out if I like her! Now we are dating :) This video helped! Took us over 5 months to figure it out lmao

My crush: DOES ALL OF THIS Me: tells how I feel about her Her: ShOcKeD

I have a bad tendency of completely cutting myself off from people that I have a crush on 😭 I dunno what it is but yea

This is the sign that no one is into me hahaha

I want someone that looks at me like Alexis looks at Lilian 🥺

Oh my god. I dated this girl about 2 years ago. It was great. But, she broke up with me. Sadly, after that, we lost all contact. We started hanging out again maybe, 3 months ago. And, my god, she’s beautiful. She’s the funniest person, we can relate, and we just get along so well. We’re constantly told we’d make a cute couple (again lol). I always have to blush and look away with a swift no. After watching this, I do all these things to her. And, I think she does some to me. If she isn’t into me, that’s fine. But, it be great if she was, because I’m in love with her. Edit 11/7: Well, folks. I told her one week ago. We’ve been dating for one week. It’s even better than before. I hope we last longer than last time (we were together for 7 months before). I know it’s too early to say this, but, I think I love her. Edit 1/20- It’s still going good, almost 3 months!! Edit 4/4- still going good :)

Fun Fact: When standing in a group talking, people’s feet point towards the person they are closer to: eg. A mother towards her child, a sister towards a brother. This is extremely useful for finding crushes, best friends, affairs and favourite kids. Be warned, though. You won’t always want the answer....

Cute and reaching 40,000. I am 72 and when I met my partner 42 years ago and she was straight I did not recognize the cues...just kept wanting to see her and things evolved.

Afther watching the video: "I think no one likes me. "

My crush doesn't do this things on me... But we ended up together😁

“ I think she likes me” took me out everytime it was said . 😂😂😂 Love it , great video, & perfect timing 💪🏽

Well what you're describing here is exactly what's happening between me and this girl. I work with her and the first 2,5 years I ignored her cause I liked her (: makes sense right. I couldn't even speak in her presence. Always admired her from a far. For some reason we got in touch 4 months ago, and we talk every day .. At work we spend every second we can with each other. We have met outside work twice and yeah. She has a boyfriend. The end? 😭🤣 I dont know.. I respect her relationship so I wont be taking any steps but it's kinda clear we definitely like each other in a way. I don't know what my point of this comment is, I just had to get it off my chest I guess. Thanks for reading 🤣

Just found out my crush do all of these with my other friend, lol

yall i think she likes me-

The nervous/awkward one is definitely me. 😭😂😭😭

what if you’re not that close to each other and so you won’t really have physical contact that often? Its mostly just catching glances from both sides and hanging out..

I’m not sure dude cause like one day she’s all in and then the next day she doesn’t say anything to me. She mostly talks with me when we’re alone though like wtf

Them: blushing Me: I’m black lmao she black too

The way they look at each other 🤤❤️

wow my parents r glowing ✨

Okayyy.. Who's watching to avoid this things/actions so no one can notice (not even her) that you actually like her. Definitely ME.

Every time I make eye contact with my crush she instantly look away. 😫 what am I to you huh 😩😩

You are so funny and helpful! Helped me grow from a baby bi-curious to a baby 100% les lol

So I thought I was straight my whole life, never questioned it for 20 years until I met this one girl at school (she’s openly lesbian.) I started feeling all of these overwhelming feelings about her out of nowhere, and I would freeze in fear every time she would be near me. I ended up friending her on IG and liked a bunch of her pictures to get her attention, then she messages me and I freaked out and blew her off. So she probably really can’t tell that I have a huge crush on her and she probably hates me and thinks I’m a weirdo 😒

that moment when you do most of these and wanna confess to crush but she's straight probably :(

All of my crushes have their boyfriends 🥺

I absolutely love the way Lillian looks at Alexis very attentively and intentional when she listens to her speak😍

great idea to use that crush cam ;-)

I loveeeee eye contact like me and my crush look each other deep in the eyes while in a conversation and it’s honestly so genuine and calming but I don’t know if she’s gay!!! :/

Found your channel recently since I’ve outed myself as bisexual to my closest family members and best friends. Especially already being deaf, pure inclusivity is extremely difficult to find sometimes. Thank you so much for acknowledging us all. I’m so excited to learn more about this community, the history, and how to get more involved.

I came cause it looked interesting, I left feeling called out. (In a funny way) lol I checked off as doing every single one of these things this past month omg.

This is a breath of fresh air and has lightened me up today, such a great post! I feel like I havent interacted with other queer, lgbt peeps in so long where I live in hawaii, and as a single mom sometimes feel alone out here in hawaii, just to watch this I remember theres brilliant people out there to interact with and get over my shyness, mahalo!

It's so nice to listen to people who compeltely gets you and your experience 😂 ❤ I can't tell the difference between flirting and being friendly as a queer. honestly I couldn't get better advice other than you guys. This is my favorite couple on KZfaq now❤

Yall are the funniest! Such a good video! Love the Re-enactments

What you two have are goals for me to have . Sometimes it is hard to tell if someone likes you online but in real life all good tips.

We're in that weird stage where she comes over and you two sit on your couch watching Netflix trying to not touch or talk about anything sexual or romantic. Update: she threatened me so I guess the vibe was off. Oh well

Love you two so much! I usually don’t like this kind of videos but this one i loove and it actually helped me figure out how to SHOW a girl that I like her haha

today we bumped into eachother ( in PE, she's 15 im 14) and she like touched my stomach accidently, but then, like 30 minutes later she accidently walked into me from behind and grabbed the side of my waist/ hips and she stares at me all the time ahhhhhhhhh kill me

Wait why am I watching this- I have a girlfriend-

Cute video! I think the next question should be - as a lesbian or bi person, how do you tell another girl that's showing interest in you, that you aren't into her? Just bc you're attracted to girls doesn't mean you like every one of them obv, so how do you do it without making them feel bad?

My crush liked me back and we’re together now!!! 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you for helping me see the signs! 🙌🏻

Edited to update: These signs confuse me because the girl i like is one of my best friends. She knows and she told me she doesn’t like me like how i like her, but still the signs. Arg. Haha. She stands as a straight girl with bf. (So I thought she was my friend. Lol. The reason she’s doing those “signs” is because she doesn’t really care. She doesn’t care with my feelings because she is not what I thought she was, a friend. I wasn’t getting positive responses but just neutral responses from a person who’s not caring about the person she’s talking to. So, I’m not wasting my time with that. Moving on. Haha!)

This is SOOOOO accurate! I check all these signs to my crush lmao

there's this girl that i really like, but i feel like i don't have a chance with her as she's very popular in school and many girls have crushes on her (i go to a girls' school). i had already confessed to her, but she said she was questioning her sexuality and told me simply that if she were to be a boy she'd accept me. but she's always touchy with everyone, smiles with everyone and people have different theories on who she may like. recently, i heard she said she was straight and i was ready to give up on my crush on her. she'd wrap her arms around my shoulder before and caressed my face but that just makes me even more confused. we aren't in the same class, but she'd told me before that she liked a girl. i don't know what to do with her. should i give up? or keep trying? also, we're leaving the school soon to separate into other different schools as this is the year i'm graduating. please help T^T i'm dominant but i really wish to make the first move and show how much i really like her. but i'm afraid rumours might get spread around my school... i've cried over this girl, smiled with her, hated her because she makes me so confused. and i've only just met her this year, i don't know why i've never noticed her. even my very close friend told me that she kinda likes her, even though she knows i like her. the situation seems really toxic and i try not to think about it, but i like her so much, i keep thinking about her. even if she asks if i'd like to hang out with her, i'd like plainly say "no". i don't know what's wrong with me. and this is the first time i've ever liked a girl. in fact, i had always distanced myself from the girls that i *think* might like me, because i was afraid to reject them. sorry for a longass comment. i feel like i can't really express my thought in real life with friends that know about me liking her. thanks to whoever takes the time to read this! :")

5 months ago I was in denial. 4 or 3 months later I finally accepted that im bisexual (only my 2 best friends and my crush know about my sexuality). I even have a huge crush on a girl and I recently found out she is bisexual too!!

Me watching this "Am I that obvious "😂

Ohhh you’re earlier!! Love it!!!!!!Miss you and love you guys!!

I'm told I flirt like a fountain when I'm around someone I like. Not that I noticed or realise I am at the time.

I’m bi and a ‘straight’ colleague would always wink at me at work. She would always compliment my hair, I’d look up and catch her looking at me but she’d look away. I’m always crap at knowing if someone likes me or not 😂

Hi Lilian, so good to see you. I am glad you are doing well. Enjoyed the video. Take care.

Omg you guys are the most made for each other couple i have ever seen😍

Remembering things is a huge one for any orientation! 😍 And teasing 😘

I have never been this so early I missed you guys so much...love you big from Africa

This is very helpful. First timer chasing someone and keen to learn all the tips and tricks. I think she likes me based on what you’ve said but we have a professional relationship which makes it hard to read too. Waiting for that to end before I ask her out. Thank you 🙏

Thanks for the tips! Now the trick is for me to actually remember to not forget them IRL. 😂

I know I ain't straight but I am horrible at looking at the signs

When you do all of this but she doesn't.

ah yay its been a while, thank you for the video! I found myself laughing because i do lots of them right now and realised maybe i dial hold it back a bit because i don't want them to find out. Can't wait for a video on flirting ;)

Such useful information. It can be so hard to tell if someone likes you.

This is sooo accurate! Also you guys are so funny lol

Whenever I’m around my crush I never say anything but I smile in their direction like once and them pretend to do something else.....I’m so awkward it’s embarrassing

I am a ball of nerves who stumbles over her words or just doesn’t speak, a hopeless case of the smiles too. I want to lean in and touch her, hold her but fear is holding me back. I can’t stop staring at her when she walks ahead of me or when she’s getting all happy about the things she loves. And all these emotions overwhelm me.

You two are adorable. I hope to be in a relationship with a connection like yours one day.

Super helpful thanks. What if you’re not that into social media?

Exactly me and this girl...I asked her out and she said she wasn't into me...but she did practically all of these signs. rip me.

sHiT oH sHiT tHiS vIdEo Is ThE oNe To CoNvInCe Me My CrUsH lIkEs Me!

I always wait for you guys to post a new video You guys are So inspiring and loving God bless you both Love from India 😘😘😘😘😘

this is the cutest!! i need to know how to flirt !!

Haha guys you're hilarious! Love from Montreal.

7:47 literally every confo we have goes like this. Except for the ice cream part lol😂.

it’s so hard to do this during Covid times! at least with the touching and stuff. this video is helpful though!!

there was this moment when my crush, out of the blue, turned to me then said "i'm gay", i replied "you serious?"(definitely not a good response but i was experiencing gay panic so forgive me) She was clearly kidding but oh well, she's dating a guy currently so-

I did all of these things and I am amazed at how specific it is - how I added her on social media, how I stay close to her when she talks to me, how I shared a photo of us and other friends on my Facebook wall and I hoped she would like it, I hoped she would see my cute selfie stories (which she never did tho). How I want to watch the tv series she recommended to me, how I like to ask her a lot of questions to uncover her goals in life, etc., how I trust her completely and I would share a lot about me with her, how I struggle to not smile at work when I am around her... This is my first girl crush and I am confused.😂

My friend (bi) who I (bi) have a crush on nearly got into an argument with a man who pushed me out the way when I was messing around with one of those funhouse mirrors. She also calls me cute/adorable/pretty a lot and did my makeup for a costume once and complimented me on sitting still?? Does she like me?? I am confused, send help??

There aren't these signs from the other girl, but I actually did😂🙈

I'm so into this girl, we're close friends, we talk a lot, for her i'm her bestfriend, she's teasing me alot and so am i. She told me that she's bi and she has a boyfriend, i know how much she loves him. I respect it so much until one day she told me that she has a crush on this girl she met. they've talked for so long time, she even told me how much that girl means to her. BAM! I never knew friendzone can be this hard :)

My very close friend recently told me she's bisexual. Yesterday something got into my eye and started tearing up(this is important to the story). She said that ik crying because of her beauty, I said ''I can't even see your beauty''. She then proceds to send me a boomerang of her. Then she said said: "Now do you my beauty". And I said "Yes, that's what I call beauty".

- 01:06 😊 Smiling often is a sign a woman likes you - 01:53 🤝 Breaking the touch barrier is significant - 02:43 🌈 In the queer community, showing their queerness subtly - 03:44 🧐 Paying attention to you and remembering details - 05:01 😜 Teasing in a playful, flirty way - 05:53 🎵 Showing interest in your hobbies - 06:55 😳 Being awkward or nervous around you

There is this girl in my class. A few weeks ago I found out she is a lesbian. We were talking a lot about lgbtq+ since then and became friends. We have really much in common and like the same things. We both are catpeople. I wanted to ask her but then the schools were closed and we only chat a few times a week. And it is me who texts first all the time. But she smiles and laughs all the time when we see. I really want to ask her out but if she says no cause she doesn't like me... Sorry. I'm from Germany. My english isn't that good))

Someone subscribing to my interests just to generate a common ground actually is a big pet peeve of mine. 😳

I met this girl through social media, we did the right stuff (liking each other pics, dm and then talking through whatts up) We had one coffee datee and then we saw each other again. This 2nd time all was great, we laughed at our jokes, we talked a lot, I certainly enjoyed it. One thing led through another and we slept together. And since then she just disappeared... she kinda deleted he IG... but I have her on whatts up and she just replies a few sentences... stopped trying after the 2nd attempt. 😭 She did the right stuff I know she ‘was into me’ .... (she has again her IG uploaded) not sure what happened though. This is the perfect space for the quote ‘she ‘s just not that into you..’

You are the best wlw youtuber I have ever seen in the world!!! You say it very clear, it's pleasant to hear it😘😘🏳️‍🌈

You guys have good vibes! I’m subscribing now.

Alexis your most beautiful feature is your genuine laughter. Lillian your most beautiful feature is your your body language, it's so transparent. Loving your vids 👍

I lock my eyes with my art teacher🤭😂😂🤭

lol the way you were using the singing bowl 😂😂😂 i dont know if it was on purpose or not but I cracked up, because its wrong hahaha

Amazing video, my crush & i share all of them!!!😂💕💕💕

“Gonna find any opportunity to touch you” My crush: **puts her hands down my shirt** Me: WOW BISH YOU OK we were fighting over a pen😂

great Video❤ please make one about flirting 😊

Your interaction in the video was so interesting👏👏🍭🍭

So, according to those metrics, I apparently like every-dang-body lol 🤣😂 I'm a giggly, touchy awkward turtle who remembers the most random facts about everyone I meet and will shamelessly "like bomb" someone's social media lol

This is such a good video! Thank you!!! This is so helpful...

What a lovely, beautiful couple you are 😊! Be happy always. Blessing from Taiwan

You guys are super cute and I can relate to this video. Just subscribed to your channel.

I find your video really helpful, entertaining and nice

ooh yeah can't wait for how to flirt :) nice video still waiting for some one XD XD