i was thinking that too!! we love her for being so open and vulnerable 💗

i love her so much

i really loved how honest and open she was too

she’s the best! always so open. gotta love her

Sup guys

yes 😍

Facts

Yaaassss

rightttt

I feel bad for Jake tho at the end lol.. when he was talking about kids and she interrupted him you could see it In his face so he had to slowly add his answer while the other people talked lol DONT GET ME WRONG I LOVE TARA SO MUCH AND THEY ACTUALLY TALKED ABOUT THIS PROBLEM IN JC STREAM SO DONT TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY

This. They seem like confident people. Idk them but they exude that idea of knowing yourself first and also healthy effin boundaries.

you cant stop having your own life because youre in realationship yes youre together but its kinda sad if youre one person honestly

@@ShayNola Tara is the most intelligent of them all

@@shrutik9673 agreed

they were my favorite

Ya I agree …. They are young but seemed to have more of a healthy relationship then most older people … I love that … they know what they want and it feels like if they came to a bump in the road and wanted different things in life … they would part ways relationship wise with ease … and they would probably stay friends …

100 percent.

@@jiminjimin1227the fact that you’re right

@@jiminjimin1227they did exactly that

@@jiminjimin1227ahaha that’s exactly what they did!

trynna to find a comment that talked about that bc there’s literally no way you date someone and randomly when you’re comfortable be like do i want this person? leave and go fuck someone .. like huh? it’s a break like they said. if it’s a break that’s considered cheating to me personally. just break up if you want to fuck other people. your partner shouldn’t be a second choice because you’re unsure ? how are you unsure after 4 years? make it make sense.

I also agree but it's a good thing we can choose our person and we can choose to leave. If someone asked for a break I would just leave and never return lol I'm not dealing with that 😂

No fr. Like Why do u have to sleep around to know if u really want to be with skmeone

exactly

Right??

They were made for each other

* Should clarify that I don’t mean to take away from anyone else’s relationship! Everyone seems happy and secure in their own style and doing what works for them. Just feel like (especially for a young couple) they are a great example of what I’d love to see in my own life!

@@aubreyy__15 honestly tho, they're so compatible

@@abbeyz4920 you are so right and don’t worry you weren’t putting down other relationships but relationships now of days are toxic and them being so young while maintaining a healthy relationship is something I want as well🥺

😆😆

right?!! and im pretty sure they have been together the longest out of all the couples! they compliment each other so well, i love them!

this didn’t age well

@@morganhall7336 oh, did they break up?😐

@@morganhall7336wait, they broke up?

@@morganhall7336just because they broke up doesn't mean they didn't have a healthy relationship with good communication lmao jeez

Sameee it’s what I strive to have.

Yeah, and I like that Tara acknowledges that she won’t be a perfect mother. Not saying she won’t, but many adults have kids without thinking and they might not be the best parents, so I really like that about Tara

Same, that shit looks tight

this didn’t age well

@@tevarosethey still love each other tho, they just decided to follow their own ways which i find really healthy!

yay! 🎉

I came back to watch this video because of the foreshadowing 😢🎉❤

💓

right omgg

At first I thought Ayla was already pregnant but haven’t told anyone yet. 😅

same omg I love them

That was so cute. 😭

“Your truth” is such a dumb term, there is only 1 truth in any scenario. You can have your own experience and your own opinion.

@@cheddarsunchipsyes8144 it’s poetic actually. As you said, you can have your own opinions and I believe JC didn’t mean to say the real definition of truth what he meant to push her to say was what’s really on her mind and feelings so meaning that’s her truth

@@cheddarsunchipsyes8144 taking it too literal bro.

yas!

Just found and followed bc this comment

Yess

definetly did not age well for tara and jake :( i wish they didnt break up

@@glendagonzalez4217 i mean you could tell from the video they wouldn't last

exactly! time flew

lol I was kind of shocked, then remembered they are full on adults JC is already 30

FR I remember seeing kians first ever video

I seriously am struggling to comprehend they’re like 30

And now kian and ayla are having a baby😭🥹

it’s usually how it is, the people that would be great parents doubt themselves bc they understand how much effort it takes to raise a great human being and put too much pressure on themselves

she said herself she’s too selfish and self centered right now to be able to be the best mom lol which is very apparent so it’s good she’s that self aware to prevent any accidents bc she knows she’s no where near ready

@@R2S0725 yeah I agree, it's better that she's honest & aware instead of having a baby she knows she can't take care of

She said she doesn’t have motherly instincts. That’s actually the most important thing you need to be a mom, to want the kid. I’ve loved kids and babies my whole life and she says she doesn’t even like them. I applaud her self reflection and knowing herself, she’s a very nice and mature person

@@jewel8439 oh yeah, I forgot she said that too, but you're right

I literally cant get enough of Kian HAHA

🤣🤣🤣

His gf is too much man, she just likes to disagree lmao

and also when he said "I trust Ayla with my heart, she could take it out like a heart surgeon and keep it alive" lol

when was this?

I love your comment and I agree. My boyfriend and I been together for 7 years and we never want our own space and we never fight, we agree and disagree but never a fight.

Same. I always said it’s an excuse to sleep with other people and they kinda confirmed it here lol.

@@ecstasyecs yep! I think Chelsea is late 30s which explains her views!!

agreed!

​@@ecstasyecs Maybe that's healthy sometimes.

yes !!

she’s so real

Being honest about your "lack of values" doesn't really give you a lot of points! She's"honest" tho, I guess.

@@blueskies6475 how does expressing insecurities mean she lacks values???

@@lulue.5655 Sorry, I don't recall her insecurities. What were they?

NOW KIAN AND AYLA AND PREGNANT I'M CRYING

fr

Lol absolutely. I feel like my expectations and mentality really developed over time.

Then, have your own friends! Get busy!!

@@blueskies6475 if you don’t understand my struggle then ignore my comment. it was not targeted at you. it was for anyone else who might share my struggle so maybe they won’t feel so alone like i do. maybe try to be a little more kind in your replies because whether you believe it or not, reminding the wrong person of that in your tone could send them over the edge. i’m glad you’re able to make and keep friends but not everyone on this earth is as lucky. it takes more energy to type up a rude response than it does to not type one up at all.

Hey hun, I'm kind of horribly ambivalent towards wanting to be part of my BF's friends hangouts (I am always grateful to be included, but I don't expect and feel obligated to always be there as the 2nd half). But I get what you mean. I think it feels normal because there's this unsettling thing between his ability to have fun with another group and possibly have a different story or bond develop without you there... and the contrast to your lack of friend action at home. Don't feel obligated to always be a social butterfly. I can count my true friends on one hand, we connect and chat maybe 2-3 times a year since we are all spread across the world now but go to each other with all our deepest insecurities, goals, secrets and successes. Fun is overrated, remember 90% of the time boys are sitting around doing the dumbest shit, drinking and jking around. Don't feel guilty to not match the same level of social activity. Protect your energy and be happy with those closest to you.

i disagree, i think it adds to it when people are being indecisive and have to explain why

if they were blindfolded how would they see the lines to know where to go to lol

I mean they literally ask for their ideas so anytime they talk it’ll be obvious

exactly

@@Kay_lahM :))

So true!!!!!

kinda true. but! there are still some universal concepts of health ...

@@onemillionpercent For sure. I’m not saying “it’s okay you’re partner beats you or controls what you wear bc it’s healthy to you.” I didn’t think I needed to include toxic/abusive behaviors, because those things are obviously not healthy.

she’s the best

Lol no

@@ognjenmisic7128 ong

@@ognjenmisic7128 shut up

who is chelsea

Couldn’t of said it any better. I fully agree with you. This is like my biggest wish.

100% agree. Even though i am 21 and i feel like finding a group of friends like this is pretty much impossible now, i still hope that i can find ones like them.

Completely agree

couldn’t agree more, and i’m 29 so i feel like times ticking 😂 but supposedly 30’s are the new 20’s!

Bro exactly. Every relationship whether a bf/gf or even close friends are allowed to have some distance and me time whenever its needed. The only reason they use the term "a break" is because of exactly what the girl said in the video: they explicitly want a time where they can go fuck around with other men/women. Saying its "a break" is just an attempt at a guilt free pass to do so at the detriment of their partner.

Exactly

I’ve seen them bicker a lot too tho, and boderline being rude to each other. Which is fine they’re both young and couples can fight too, but they seems to treat each other more like friends.

​@@persiabell556 i mean the foundation of relationships should be friendship

Pococ

I think Jake had a really good point when he said "there's my life, Tara's life, & our life." I think if someone can't separate their life with their friends & their life with their significant other then it's a problem. I've had friends who put more importance on her boyfriend of 1 month over our friendship of 6 years, so I can kind of relate to you, I'm glad you're not friends with her anymore

@@arielm.4997 that's so true, some in a relationship may even say why can't you just tell me their "family drama", or secrets, or whatever else it could be because you're supposed to tell me everything. But no, they don't have to tell you everything if it doesn't have anything to do with your relationship. Specially if your friend is trusting you with this info, why does your partner need to know this info? It really just depends on the situation though

thisssssss

@@arielm.4997 my bsf does that to me now, we’ve been friends for 10 years now and she finally got her first bf and they are super close so she kinda brushed me to the side and the only time we rlly talked to eachother was when I reached out to her so I stopped reaching out and we go weeks without talking to eachother, and atp idk how to feel cuz I’ve been going through a hard time these past months and she never rlly check up on me sooo I feel like I don’t rlly got a bsf anymore. And it bothers me cuz he means a lot to me….🫠🫤

@@YamiiiC7 I'm sorry you're going through that, I've been there & it hurts a lot. Have you talked to her about it? She may or may not realize she's doing it but either way telling her how you feel is a good idea. Especially since you guys have been friends for 10 years, that's too important to let it end like that. I hope it gets resolved

right? 😭

@@wendy.darling like I’m gonna be single forever at this point lmaoo no one will be Kian Lawley 😂

@@amywestlund stop

Ikr? Nothing saves me from the old cat lady life anymore

I'm in my late 20s and this is one of the first videos I've seen that had really made me feel old. I truly don't understand how someone can rationally say "Sometimes in a relationship you need to take a break to go sleep with people to see if you truly want to be with someone and if they're 'your person'". It's just a selfish mindset and a lack of respect and commitment to your partner. You're either in, or you're out.

I think people mistake fighting for passion and care in the relationship When in reality if you guys have your boundaries and can handle conflict calmly, there’s nothing wrong with be calm!! Go you!

this didn’t age well

KEEP KNJ

Bring roni & Aaron!!!

Nezza and Crawford Or Jac and Scott !

Oooo you should ask if there has ever been a moment they thought “ I can’t do this anymore “ like being in a relationship with them ?

You should do one with ex’s and new partners or just ex’s !

Completely agree with you!!

agreed!

I agree the goal shouldn't be to have kids it's to raise good humans. Lots of people use kids for selfish reasons like passing on their "legacy" or using them to heal their own issues. Children don't owe you anything I wish more people considered these things a little more.

fr underrated joke

yes loved that lmao

this made me cryyy 🤣

I don't get it

what are you on about bro

what did you smoke brev

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