living alone diaries: practicing abstinence, one month alcohol-free and i've been glowing ever since

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living alone diaries: practicing abstinence, one month alcohol-free and i've been glowing ever since

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6 ай бұрын

hey boos 🫶🏾,
we're back from colorado and it's amazing how i still have such this radiant glow going on. at this point, i'm going to need a quarterly trip there! this week i've just been easing into my day to day routine and getting back into my creative bag and sharing more content. lots of solo coffee shop work sessions, late night and early morning gym sessions, meal prepping and of course matcha!
i am sooooo excited and grateful to be about to source a video editor to help take some work off my plate, because babyyyyyy, i am one woman. i cannot and i refuse to keep doing it all. nor, do i want to experience burn out and fatigue like i did last year. this is both my growth and expansion year and i'm so excited about it.
anyways, i hope your week is going amazing! sending you big, big hugs. take care all ways, always. enjoy! xo ❣️
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camera: Sony ZV-1 & iPhone 13 Pro Max
editing software: Final Cut Pro X
music: Soundcloud & Epidemic Sounds
#livingalone #vlog #dryjanuary

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@FatimaFarmer 6 ай бұрын

It’s something so comforting about watching people live a similar, calm life. your videos are so quiet. Kinda of like a silent movie and I love that.

@3Bnannylounge 6 ай бұрын

Yes I feel the same

@staynesophia7242 6 ай бұрын

Me too.. so calming, not too much talking. I love her vlogs so much..

@LexUnlimited 6 ай бұрын

Same! That’s how i feel about @rinnjeff’s videos

@salston7002 6 ай бұрын

chi, the way I laid on my bed, with some warm tea, a candle & my laptop and enjoyed this... please, keep them coming.

@muffymariah2889 6 ай бұрын

I love this, I have been practicing abstinence for the past year and figuring out my relationship with God. Even when dating I choose to be mindful of letting that person know upfront. It seems dating or even talking to someone is always hyper sexual. You not drinking is also my next step, not judging anyone, but I feel like when I go out with ppl, it’s liquor liquor liquor in order for folks to “enjoy” themselves.

@dewanajohnson6028 6 ай бұрын

I feel like it's overrated at times. Everything is sex, sex, sex.

@muffymariah2889 6 ай бұрын

@@dewanajohnson6028 yessss and alcohol it’s like ppl can’t have a fun night out or in without needing to get drunk.

@SCARSKINCARE 6 ай бұрын

I’ve been doing dry January and I’ve been out a few times and I don’t even miss the liquor. I see myself still having a good time without it. Plus I wake up the next day feeling great with much more energy

@angelawilliams9088 5 ай бұрын

Yeah! That alcohol is horrible for the body and it makes you fat!

@Booboothatfoobed 5 ай бұрын

we are many years apart but you are definitely the embodiment of what I want my life to look like when I grow up. Especially as black girl , it's honestly refreshing and amazing to see you and other creators with similar content live such soft, calm lives. Can't wait for more

@staynesophia7242 6 ай бұрын

I fell in love with woody scents around the age of 26/27, it’s giving ‘she’s in her grown woman era’ and at the moment I’m loving ‘MFK grand sur’ that’s my fave atm. ❤

@dewanajohnson6028 6 ай бұрын

Just going off the title. I been abstinence for about 6 months or more. Very pleased with myself. Putting God first and even getting closer to God. Let me add, loving on myself more and more.

@Mar-fl7cx 6 ай бұрын

Amani, L-Glutamine is good to restore the gut lining for leaky gut but won’t necessarily help with other issues. If you want to tackle the bloating it’s best to go to a functional medicine doctor or a holistic doctor to run some tests. Everyone is different and needs an individual approach.

@3Bnannylounge 6 ай бұрын

🎉 needed this comment thank you

@3Bnannylounge 6 ай бұрын

Fasting has tremendously helped my bloat

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

thank you for the tip!

@ToniDaniels1275 5 ай бұрын

Thank you❤

@survivalsilk2101 6 ай бұрын

an hour vlog?? i'm in for a treat , thank you queen!!!

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

Hope you enjoyed it my love!! 💕💕

@survivalsilk2101 6 ай бұрын

i sure did, so glad to see you in your groove and smiling

@umekahudson8116 6 ай бұрын

Ahhhhh, what a breath of fresh air, your vlogs are soooo soothing, soft jazz in the back ground sets the tune for a relaxing evening!

@3Bnannylounge 6 ай бұрын

Yes yes comfort

@Finishnone 6 ай бұрын

My dogs sings ( howls) to jazz music. I have to mute when I watch on my tv😩 He can’t resist a good saxophone. Glad it’s soothing for you😂

@yvetteduckson2076 6 ай бұрын

I've worked out consistently 5-6 times a week since the new year. ☺️

@anissa2361 6 ай бұрын

Yes girl! I'm trying to get back to working out. I keep starting and stopping though.

@yvetteduckson2076 6 ай бұрын

Keep going......give yourself grace and start fresh every day.

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

yessss!! i love that so much for you!!

@cukie73 6 ай бұрын

Assalamualakium Ms. A.. I never thought I'd sit and watch a full hour almost of anything on KZfaq. You did that.. I enjoyed it and the vibes were all soothing and worth every minute. Thank you💜😊🇬🇲

@anikapeaster2788 6 ай бұрын

I’m 20 years older than you BUT I enjoy watching your videos. You are so relatable even to an older girlfriend 😊

@tanyajohnson4203 Ай бұрын

I love your videos young lady. I've been abstinent for 14 months now, and I know for a fact, that I'm thinking so much clearer, I'm loving on myself more, and my relationship with God has grown. Keep doing your thing girl! Peace and blessings!! ❤❤❤

@margo_evita 6 ай бұрын

You are such a vibe. Your content is so relaxing and comforting. ❤❤❤

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ☺️

@user-oo2pd6yo5v Ай бұрын

Ms. Amani Rakeia - YOU are on a BEAUTIFUL LIFE PATH. YOU constantly CREATE a life soothing to where YOU are - ULTIMATELY getting the LIFE YOU DESIRE!

@jamilahhendricks7681 5 ай бұрын

Hey Amani girl 👋🏾 First off, it’s so good to see you in a better space in your life 😍 I am so happy and so proud of you and how far you’ve come 👏🏾 I remember you talking in one of your vlogs about not being happy in LA and how much you’ve missed being close to home in the East Coast and your family and friends and all & I can totally relate to you on that because I’m going through the same thing (even though I’m originally from the Midwest aka Detroit but currently living in California & ready to go lol) but watching that vlog gave me so much peace, comfort, confirmation & closure and it was like God was listening to my prayers and He sent me your channel & that vlog to me lol 🥹😍💕 & I’m so grateful for you and your transparency in your content and the fact that you’re a November Scorpio ♏️🦂💕 is a plus cause so am I 🥰 Anyways, I love it over here and I’m never leaving! Love you girl ❤️

@sequoiaday6410 2 ай бұрын

Yasss black girl magic huntyyy ❤. I love your vibe and you dress so cute. You was not playing about them robes 😍😍 omg that tangerine color OMG.

@katrinasangineto8120 6 ай бұрын

Hi Amani. Could you show your office set up and talk more about your process for your videos?? They have really gotten better and better 🔥 beautifully edited and shot!!!! 😊Peace & blessings from Cali

@courtneydial3242 6 ай бұрын

I love this question!! Yes pleas me share Amani…keep on going beautiful

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

awww thank you so much ❤ i’ve actually finally just cleaned up my office space so i’m happy to share! as for my video editing process, i’m still perfecting my craft but i can share at some point for sure 😊

@MsJisola 6 ай бұрын

+1 on the skincare and how your lifestyle affects your skin. Since my 20s I’ve always kept a skincare routine of cleanse, tone and moisturize morning and night with the occasional mask, etc. I also drink plenty of water and workout every day. I’m in my early 40s now and my skin has thanked me for taking care of it. Like you I also use inexpensive and expensive products on my skin. You like what you like and that’s what matters! Thank you for sharing your routine!!! Also, Commodity is a vibe! The white gold one has a warm vanilla gourmand fragrance that is nice and soft.

@alexaismarty1442 6 ай бұрын

I started to love woody scents fall of 2023 , right before I turned 26! I now love Rihanna’s perfume ❤

@TerenaTCloud 6 ай бұрын

Your content brings me so much comfort and joy 😊

@user-ci1sx6yi2x 6 ай бұрын

Love this video Just taking care of you, self care. You go through things and this will get you where you need to be again.

@Britta17 6 ай бұрын

Investing in skincare is truly smarter than trying to fix or repair damaged skin with a Dermatologist. Not to mention how long a journey to healthy skin can be. We like to pamper & prevent around here😌💅🏽 32:44

@alicimone1972 6 ай бұрын

I love this orange look

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

thank you ❤

@LexUnlimited 6 ай бұрын

Another good toner is cucumber water. I add a drop of couple essential oils that help balance my skin’s oil production. Can not only use on your face to help with hyperpigmentation/dark marks. It’s pretty gentle too

@phillygrl7898 5 ай бұрын

As an oily skin girl I have been hooked on OLEHENRIKSEN Cold Plunge Pore Remedy Moisturizer . It leaves my skin feeling so good and it’s fantastic under my makeup . I love the soft matte look.

@user-kr8qb2gv1u 6 ай бұрын

I love your vlogs. The jazz playing on certain parts is always a vibe. I looove perfume so I will definitely be trying out the milk commodity soon!

@miksriri5353 6 ай бұрын

I love everything I’m glad I found you your playlist is so good too wow

@LIVEMOREBLUE 5 ай бұрын

One of my new favorite creators. You don’t understand how important this representation means to me

@Mrschillpepper 6 ай бұрын

Truly inspired ❤ this comeback was 🔥 proud of you boo! We all trying 💯

@Jassywazzy1 6 ай бұрын

Love this! You look so refreshed and rejuvenated girl. Keep up the good work!😊

@jr9941 6 ай бұрын

Thanks Amani for posting. Love all your videos. Keep up the great content! ❤

@suceepois3781 6 ай бұрын

I absolutely love your vibe your content is chefs kiss ❤

@simplymonca 2 ай бұрын

53:44 omg you make me laugh so much 😂 You looked like, “Excuse me, why do I sound like that? No, ma’am.” 😂😂

@PleasantlyIntroverted 6 ай бұрын

I love your vlogs! Your energy penetrates and shines through! It's the vibes for meeee!!! Continue on your journey. As I have stated before your vlogs are always aesthetically pleasing and your music selection is top tier! I would like to get a sneak peak/or listen to your personal music playlist.

@kennedydigitals 6 ай бұрын

Heyy girl! Your videos are so comforting🤎 have a great Sunday boo!💗💌

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

awww thank you so much ❤

@MarcieColeman 6 ай бұрын

Your videos are so soothing love it 😍

@annetteyadon878 6 ай бұрын

Yes woody scents probably in my early 30s girl live this vlog and I’m definitely getting better at my skin care routine ❤ can’t wait for the next video ❤

@cozyatcocos 5 ай бұрын

I really like the long orange robe❤️ It looks nice on you. When I lived alone, I never appreciated it as much as I probably would now. You make it look so peaceful and inviting. Everyone should get time alone like this. It’s good to do you without interruptions. I’m glad you got out with Savanna. That food looks tasty! And your apartment is SHARP!❤ Good for you on no alcohol! I never have liked it. And your skin is giving girl!!!❤ Great video! Thanks for sharing ✨

@BrynnD 6 ай бұрын

I love your energy so much. Wishing you the very best for 2024. ❤️

@goldensundiaries 5 ай бұрын

I’ve only watched the first 6 mins so far & they were so soothing / comforting 😭🥰🫶🏾

@BeeAelia 6 ай бұрын

That puffer jacket is 😍😍😍 And yesssss, helping hands is a MUST!🙌🏾✨🎉 Congrats!

@jadejahrobinson 5 ай бұрын

I really like that you always have music playing in the background. So calming ❤

@heavenisqueen 6 ай бұрын

Loved the vlog ! And how you took us out and about with you ❤

@princesswilliamsmommyof5 6 ай бұрын

Love your videos keep them coming. Stay blessed lady.

@Wintersno 6 ай бұрын

I abstained for 5 years and documented with a podcast! ' While We Wait: The Podcast before the Marriage ' is available everywhere you find podcast :) come be a guest on it!

@chardonaejohnson3419 5 ай бұрын

Oily skin girlies have to wear more moisture, which seems like the opposite! I used to have oily skin until I started focusing on double moisturizing and now my skin doesn’t have to produce excess oil ❤

@Toyaannette 6 ай бұрын

Check out Salt and Stone deodorant. They are aluminum free and smell so lux. I have been using them for about 6 months now and I love it.

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

omg, i have that at home but wasn’t sure if it would actually work. been trying it for two days now and i’m loving it. THANK YOU ❤

@kimbrown5260 5 ай бұрын

Hey I’m so loving your video I happen to stumble across it and I’m glad I did. I recently just made the decision to fall back from dating for awhile just need to do me. Your video is so inspirational. I decided to really work on self maintenance

@sweetlooweeze 6 ай бұрын

The commodity scents are gorgeous! I have milk but I’ve recently fallen in love with their Gold scent! Always gets compliments

@shermaine7579 6 ай бұрын

It's always a pleasure watching your vlogs, as far as the woodsey smells, I've been wearing Egyptian musk since I was in the 8th grade, it smells different on everyone , I order mines from Exotic fragrances in NYC, can't find anyone good here in Atl. But I feel ya, everyone needs to do them, and yoy do you. Love it💜💜.

@kenelethiasmith3388 6 ай бұрын

I ❤ your videos. So peaceful! You got me hooked on drinking matcha. So 😋.

@SCARSKINCARE 6 ай бұрын

I want to try it! I’m so scared I might hate it. I need to know what to order exactly lol

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

ahhhh yessss to the matcha girrrrrlssssssss ❤❤❤❤

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

@@SCARSKINCAREgirrrrrl imma need you to get on it now!! 😅

@lhill60517 6 ай бұрын

I SO LOOK FORWARD TO YOUR CONTENT🎉❤🎉

@sequoiaday6410 2 ай бұрын

Yasss i was waiting for you to pull out good molecule 👏🏽👏🏽 that product sis !!!!!!!!!!! I’m telling you my skin has been great with the toner and they brighten serum . I just started treating my skin with love. 3 years ago because i would feel so dry, i started using good molecules and it got me right and first aid beauty moisturizer that’s like $45 but it last because alil go along way girl. Vitamins and sea beauty has good serums too

@SignedAshlyn 6 ай бұрын

I've been a fan of yours for so long and your vlogs always relaxes me !! i absolutely love your jazz moments and your open honesty about your life so relatable! Thank you Amani

@reneea44 6 ай бұрын

it was so satisfying to watch you make that matcha

@Cheers2u10 6 ай бұрын

Love your content ❤️. Very inspiring.

@allbooks7 6 ай бұрын

Nuud is my absolute favorite aluminum-free deodorant!! I've tried darn near everything on the market. So far no other deodorant has worked for me but nuud is great and lasts for 3-4 days for me (coming from a girlie who had to reapply every 8 hours with other deodorants in the past 😅)

@HairLike_Wool 6 ай бұрын

Baayybee!! At the beginning when you came thru in that orange robe….LISTENNN!! This vlog was definately a vibe. Keep goin baby girl 😉

@user-xh9xt1yl1d 6 ай бұрын

I love the burnt orange robe/housecoat you are styling. Where can I get one?

@niccivictorious5594 5 ай бұрын

I just came across your vlog. I love everything ❤

@TES-qf7du 6 ай бұрын

Yes, the pony is giving ❤

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

awww thank you so much ❤

@ChristalBrownTv 5 ай бұрын

I absolutely enjoyed your vlog.

@I.B.FLAWLESS 6 ай бұрын

i have always loved woody scents and heavier sweet scents (Dior-Hypnotic Poision, Gucci Rush, Chanel COCO MADEMOISELLE , BOSS for Men, Givenchy Pi) over florals but i liked Lancome Miracle, Armani Aqua Di Gio, CK Truth , i cannot wear citrus anything. found this out around age 22 😊 Ive recently restocked the oldies to mix with the newer scents and a basic oud. Cant wait!!!! Enjoy your journey!

@bjmiller9759 6 ай бұрын

You have inspired me to do away with coffee and try Matcha! Thank you, lil sis!

@jessmruth 6 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed the fragrance talk. I would love to see your fragrance collection. Also, Commodity Milk is great, but the Milk Bold is even better and would go great with Somebody Wood!

@mf9560 6 ай бұрын

Your videos are amazing. Congrats, girl

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! 🩷😭

@kaykekana9484 6 ай бұрын

M a new subbie🎉❤nd gurrl I love yha ..ur energy nd vibe is topnotch

@ambz214 6 ай бұрын

as soon as you said thinking of going to New York my heart dropped lol, wish you’d come to Texas girl❤ but best wishes wherever you go! because I’m gonna watch ALL the vlogs regardless 😂

@Xoly9 6 ай бұрын

Love your vlogs….from South Africa 🇿🇦❤️

@Ke_Lesego168 6 ай бұрын

I see you my fellow citizen💞

@KelcyPassportbyDesign 6 ай бұрын

Missha (Korean brand) has a great dupe for the SK-II essence

@theesadev 6 ай бұрын

Just found your instagram and I’m obsessed with your content! Followed and subscribed 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@doreenbrutus 6 ай бұрын

Felt like I was catching up with a friend 😍❤️i just love your vloggs ! Ouhh yayeee to you having an editor🎉 Question : what’s your favorite Olipop cuz I’m going to the US soon (from 🇨🇦) and I neeeddd to taste them because of you😂 xx

@Jsween876 5 ай бұрын

Girrrl, your home matcha is so superb that none of these cafe’s rarely ever come up to par! I just be laughing every time you say you’re gonna try a new matcha spot. 😂😂

@AmaniRakeia 5 ай бұрын

LOLLLL. i am screaming at this comment because you are so right! i just need to leave them dang matcha spots alone and do my own thing 🤣🤣🤣

@jordibear6 6 ай бұрын

Definitely want to recommend azaelic acid and lactic acid! It works better for darker skin hyperpigmentation!! Happy skincare!!

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

thank you ❤❤❤

@alettawilliams8054 6 ай бұрын

Looking so much forward to your videos.

@alainacommander2657 6 ай бұрын

I enjoyed the full vlog.😁

@ingridr4374 5 ай бұрын

I totally love the background music.

@Naomiworldd 6 ай бұрын

58 mins giiiirl yesss please 🤗🤭

@MsNorthCarolina 6 ай бұрын

Thanks girly for this relaxing Sunday vibe❤

@daphneylockettephd1083 6 ай бұрын

I love your tea kettle and blender. Where did you get them from?

@carolynpatterson694 6 ай бұрын

Enjoyed the hour👍🏽

@persandrablackwell851 6 ай бұрын

Hello, peace and blessings. You're looking good. Keep up your hard work ❤

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

i’m trying!! thank you ❤

@janetgriffin7779 6 ай бұрын

Ok but why do we have the same glasses from C&B??? Taste!! I refuse to wear any other running shoes except Hoka!! My feet LOVE them.

@foreseen_influence 5 ай бұрын

That conversation happening in the background at the cafe soundsss juicyyy 😂😂😂😂😂

@janeenreneeNYC 6 ай бұрын

Loved the video! The Nas “Memory Lane” snippet was dope 🔥

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

You already know!🩷🩷

@dwalker6868 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing

@tinamccreary6284 6 ай бұрын

My daughter who is a make up really likes the OSO setting spray , I ended up getting the can of that for her for Christmas to have on photo shoots.

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

that spray is so good i tell you!!

@rochellemcghee573 6 ай бұрын

Ok i love love your orange robe ?!! Where can i find this??

@shelbygreen3404 4 күн бұрын

Awesome 😮😊Music

@arileilonii 6 ай бұрын

Those colorful flower earrings were so cute!!! Where'd you get them from?!

@AmaniRakeia 6 ай бұрын

zara ❤

@DrRuthMwangi 6 ай бұрын

The sweet Amani ❤❤❤❤❤

@cbloom6220 6 ай бұрын

Super cute vlog!

@Hestia134 6 ай бұрын

There’s my esthetics Queen 👑

@3Bnannylounge 6 ай бұрын

Yes I’ve Been to ole lad gang food was not what I expected. It was salty and tasted like canned food. They are also pricey😅

@nekymodel6886 4 ай бұрын

What camera do you use, your video quality is soo clean

@thewrightjeans 6 ай бұрын

Hey Amani, would you mind sharing what editing program you use on your laptop? Trying to start vlogging but I'm in my more mature years and the phone editing does not work for your girl.