Txoj kev tu siab ntawm ib tug poj niam ua tus txiv tseem nco qub hluas nkauj nim tsis paub tias txim txom npaum cas os😢😢

This story proves man falls easily into temptation…

Should never cheat on your wife with someone that dumped you and went to marry someone else. A person that didn’t choose you in your darkest days doesn’t deserve you in your good days.

As a therapist it’s a breach to accept clients you have bias or prejudice towards ei. Family members, friends and ESPECIALLY exes!!! You should know this, this is one of the first things they teach you.

I have no sympathy or empathy towards people in stories like this where there's cheating involved. The only person I feel sorry for is his wife.

You shouldn’t have taken her as a patient because that’s a conflict of interest. Not only that, but telling us what she said and what happened during the therapy session is unethical and against HIPPA violation.

You must think you're such a hero for "saving" your marriage. Don't think that loving your wife as an after thought is redemption for your evil, unfaithful ways. People like you and your ex don't deserve love because you have no idea what it is. Your ex will NEVER have a good and happy life, women like that, nws lub siab ces xav rawv qhov rhuav lwm tus lub neej xwb

I hope his wife listens to May stories so she hear this cuz I’m sure she definitely will know it’s her husband that was cheating…

Neb txojkev hlub tshua tsis sib tau mob siab heev li o...tabsis tseem mob tus niam tsev ruam2 tom tsev tshaj.

Ladies, beware when your husband is showering you with gifts, you know what that means!!

Your ex played and got you right where she wanted. Groveling at her hands and feeling miserable with her. She straight up selfish from the get go. You knew it yourself that if she really loved you she would have waited until you can marry her. I feel bad for your wife and kids, there is a reason the past stays in the past. Someone who really love you will NEVER drag you down with them.

As a professional, you should not have accepted her as a client. As a man, as a human, you should have stopped the sessions as soon as you started having feelings. I HOPE your wife hears this and leaves you and tells your work. There's no excuse for what you did. It's clear as day...selfishness. Cheating behind her back means you are okay deceiving her, which is not love.

Koj lub siab lim hiam heev li os

As I’m listening to this story, the guy just threw away his diamond and picked up a rock that once was used to hit him. The only person I feel sympathy for is the wife, loving and living with him cluelessly during his affair. Omg, I’m pained with the wife, UNACCEPTABLE! To the owner of this story, no kind words or thoughts for you, especially you’re someone with a high education and helps people through these kind of situations too, you’re messed up!!!

I feel so sorry for the wife. Marrying someone who is unfaithful is the worst and knowing the husband loves his ex more is so hurtful. Commuting adultery for any reason is not okay. You don’t respect or love your spouse enough for you to be able to cheat.

Remember that she is the one who choose to leave you in your moment of darkness. If she loved you as much as she can tell sweet lies, she would have waited for you. Sometimes Heaven remove people from our lives because they are not good for us. She’s using you and you are actively destroying your marriages. How she cheated with you is how she will cheat on you.

Shame on you dude. I feel sorry for your wife, I hope she finds out sooner or later. You’ll never find happiness if you don’t appreciate what you already have.

Just because you couldn't afford a head downy, doesn't mean she can leave. She left you in the first place because she doesn't love you. If a person really loves you, rich or poor, she will stay or wait. This kind of person is not worth it.

I feel sorry for your wife. Yog nws paub ntshe nws yauv tu siab heev

Thank you for sharing your deepest love for all viewers to learn from for not to go through with it as you did. YoU found the courage to stay with your wife. No body is perfect. You are a spiritually being in human experienced.

Conflict of interest, unethical and unprofessional. You should be fired.

Can't believe you kept falling for her. She cheated on her husband by kept calling your name. That is the one thing hmong men can't stand. While she is Im a relationship, she continues to cheat with you, even the Night before her wedding Can't believe this doesn't gross you out

Omg, this is sad. He's not an honest person to his wife or himself.. he don't deserve his, wife. What if that was his wife that cheated on him. This man don't deserve a good women

She chose another man and her life didn't go right for her so now she wants you to ua chaw tiag taw until she finds someone new

Where was your ethical obligation to yourself and your profession? This dual relationship should have been prevented when you received and reviewed her chart. This is completely illegal and against all rules of counseling. You should hope that your exgf does not ever report you to your board. Even if she consented to a sexual relationship with you, it was during a time where she was very vulnerable AND you guys had history together. WOW. Go back to read your code of conduct and ethical obligations. Cas koj yuav tau luag tuaj qhia koj zaj story os ntuj aw.

Ib leeg muaj ib zaj neej neeg yog thaum mloog tas lawm qhov twg zoo ces khaws cias ua kev kawm xwb sawv daws txhob thuam tus neeg ua nws muaj lub neej tu siab dhaus los mog

Kuv nkag siab tus txiv neej no vim luag yuam siab ua zoo rau yus es ntxuav nws txoj kev txhaum los yeej nyuaj kawg li yuav yus nkag siab tej yam nyuaj li no mas yuav yog yus mag ob yam tib si thiaj nkag siab

Kwv tij hmoob koj zaj neej neeg no más yuav laus zoo lis kuv zaj thiab os ntuj aws. Cas yuav zoo lis no os mog...

I can’t believe you cheated on your wife. No matter how innocent you claim your love to be, you sinned by cheating on your wife. There’s no excuse. One day… when your wife finds out and leaves you, you’ll miss her 10 fold more than you’ve ever missed your ex gf. Your karma is coming for you

Yeej muaj 1 co txiv leej tub daisiab tshaj plaws!! Yog leej twg tau hlub g tau yuav ces xav muab nws nyiav ciaj os lawv!! Vim dua rhe 1 Nplooj siab hlub!!!! Txawm li cas los hlub tus tuav ntawm tes ntxo ntawm ncauj thiaj yog qhov tiag2 nawb 1 tsoom nkauj muam nraug nus!!!!

Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu kuv siab tshaj plwas li os tub mi nus aww 😭😭😭😭

OMG…retro old flame 🔥…you two weren’t met to be together from the beginning, bro 😎!

Koj mas tseem2 dr nyuab siab lau

Qhov ko yos qhov txiv neej siab phem toj tshaj plawg Yos koj tug poj niam rov ntsib nws tus qub hluag nraug es li koj ua ko rau koj tshe yuav tuag sawv ntsug li os

Nkawv no muaj kev txhaum yaj, txhaum yeeb, thiab tseem txhaum laj fai num tib si. Saum neej tej zaum dim txim vim neej tsis paub. Nruab yeeb, ces tsuam tob mam txiav xwb ncaj lawm-

Thov txhob cua qub kiav roj tsam mob plab. Ua 1 siab thiaj g kho siab tshaj!!

she couldn't wait for you. she's only back with you because her marriage didn't workout. it's time you wake up now

ntuj aw tug poj niam nó mà niag txiv tsi paub swb og yog paub yeej tsi yuav .ntxim ntxub dhau lm

Tus poj nrauj ntawv xav los ua kom koj lub neej puas xwb, kom koj nrauj koj poj niam xwb..es nws los yuav koj tab sis koj ho tso tsis tau koj poj niam es nws thiaj li ua ib siab lawm xwb...

Very sad for your wife. You should e kept it professional and be faithful to your wife smh

Luag twb tsis hlub yus es luag thiaj mus yuav lwm tus lawm yog li ntawv koj tseem rov hlub nws thiab ces koj yeej tsis yog ib tus neeg tseem ceeb dabsi, ua cas koj ho tsis hlub koj tus poj niam.

Tsi tau nyob ua ke thiaj sib nco xwb yog rov sib tau ces paub siab lawm ces miv thiab dev xwb os thaub

Tsis yog os cov ua ntse tsis mas thiaj xav li ko xwb os kuv mas tsis zoo li ko ib sim neej nawb nws yog tus lim hiam thiab tus dhau lawm xwb mas tseev nws zoo nkauj nawb nws yog quav lawm xwb koj yuav tsum hlub koj tus poj niam tshaj plaws mas kom nws thiaj haj yam khuv xim koj nawb thaub nawb ho koj tseem yuam kev thiab ces tag lau mus noj quav es txhob noj mov lawm os yawg..

Ntuj aw tus txiv neej uas zoo tshaj plaws ces kawg li no lawm xwb os cov sisters aw.

That guilt you have for what you did will eat away at you. This guy should have never done what he did! There’s a reason you and your ex love did not work out. Unfortunately things that you do in the dark will ultimately come out in unexpected ways.

Another Dr. Drama. I'm deeply entertained by our educated Hmong. This highly unprofessional, zero ethics guy who's about to lose his license wants more of old the flame and is hoping that May would convey his desires to the vulnerable victim so she'll contact him for more one night stands. After all, if she's the one calling him, he's in the clear, right? What a coward. No wonder she left him for another guy in the first place. That was the right decision. He didn't deserve her. No balls. Which man with balls would go to the girl he loves and says, I'm too poor so can't marry you? A man with balls would go to her with a proposal and say, "i love you and i promise that I'll marry you in three years time. Wait for me to finish my education." No woman would turn that proposal down, esp if she does love him. Hope this woman eventually turns on him and make him lose his license, which would be his karma for taking advantage of a client who is mentally unwell due to massive stress.

I can’t stand married women cheating with another married man. If your man is in that line of job check him! Lol it might be your husband

Ua cas nej tej nkauj nraug tsis sib tau los tseem tau rov mus sib ntsib rov mus hais yus tej qub lus ho daws txoj kev chim siab yav tag los es zoo yus siab lawm thiab hos zoo peb cov no plam yus tus hlub mus lawm mus ua lub neej los kawg thiab kj tseem rov los yus rov mus ntsib nws ntawm tej yas kev yas ncua los tsua sib hu xwb niam tsis zoo li cas tsam luag ho nhyo2 yus thiab mas tu siab tshaj plaws os tus me nus aw

Cov dev li tus txiv neej no tsis muaj kev tu siab os..

Aub niag txiv dev no mas xiam tshaj plaws, thov kom koj tus poj niam lub koj laig mus nawb xiam tiag tiag

Hlub tug niam tsev tshaj

Life a a Hmong fantasy drama. Temptations… emotional feelings where u can not stop and focus is dangerous. That’s why ppl make so many mistakes. All these life lessons but still never learn. Smh…

May koj laj neej neeg no Ua rau kuv tig mus rau lub sij sawm kuv 16 Xyoo nyob roob tauj pav kheb pam naus os Cas tig tsis tau lub caij ntawm lawm na Ua tsaug

Tu niam tsev aw ca koj tu txiv nim puag koj nco lwm tu ca kuv yuav pab koj mob siab ua luaj li

I have no pity for this guy and his ex-gf. If they both loved each other so much, why didn’t they continue dating until the time was right. Doesn’t matter if it takes 5yrs or 10yrs to save up, you hold on to each other. If she was a good woman, she would not had gotten involved with old flames while he is still married. She is no differ from her ex-husband.

Ntuj os lawv cas yuav hlub koj tus poj niam siab zoo ua nrua2 es g paub dab tsi li os thiab peb cov mloog pab nrog koj tus poj niam tusiab xwb

Zoo lawm os qhov kj tseem ua zoo rau kj tus niam tsev ruam22 os

In the mental health profession, a clinician cannot see clients who they know. He allowed his emotions to take over and committed crimes against his clients. That's a felony. He better hope and pray that his ex keep the secret sealed. And his wife doesn't find out. He would lose every thing and possibly face felony charges. His work would be sued for breaking policy against clients.

Lawv aw!!! Thaum nej nco 1 tus neeg, g quaj los kua muag poob, saib ntawm tej los yog nws mas nruab hnub zoo li hmo ntuj, hmo ntuj zoo nruab hnub mas thiaj txawj nco tiag2!!!!!

Tus tsev koj Zan neeg no ces koj tus niam hnov kawg nws hloov siab thiab mob siab xwb lauv

Wait, you just said you won’t share anything that was discussed during the therapy session, but you just told it here.

I guess you feel so guilty you have to share your sins to see if you can redeem yourself. Cheater lub siab phem.

I hope your wife hears your story for betraying her.

Tus pog no nws yeej xav ua txhua yam ua kom koj txhob tso tau nws tseg xwb.

Kv nrog kj tus niam tsev tu siab v

I am a clinical therapist for mental health , we are not, absolutely not able shared confidentiality of the client even if name are not mentioned

Oh yo.....niam nco nws npaum li ko ntag, los niam vim yog qhov vim uas koj muaj poj niam xwb. Yog nco npaum ko diam cas ho tsis nrauj kiag koj poj niam es mus yuav kiag nws na. Yog koj nrauj kiag koj poj niam lawm ntshe koj haj yam nco koj poj niam tshaj nco niag qub hluas nkauj ntawv os.

Cas koj twb yog ib tug txiv tsev ua zoo thiab paub tab cas koj tseem nrog koj tus qub hluas nkauj ua zaum kawg thiab koj muaj kev npav loj heev rau koj tus niam tsev yog nw paub nw yuav tsi hlub tsi xav ua mov rau ib tug txiv zoo li koj kv nrog koj tus poj niam tus siab tiag2

To all comments, you’re not in his shoes , you have no idea how hurtful it was? Everybody had a relationship with boyfriend or girlfriend but perhaps it’s not as deepened as his so I gave a credit for staying with wife and kids that’s a plus. Even his wife cheat on him without let him know he doesn’t know either.

Nej cov txiv neej ma txawj ntse npaum cas ma lub siab dub thiab qis neeg npaum ntawm neej ces ntse yim ntse yim txaej lim hiam, feel sorry for your wife

Is there not a conflict of interest on this guys job? OMG I can’t even finish this story. What a dog ! What a dog!!!

Ab sim neej no os os tus phooj ywg ywg aw cas yuav nrog kj khuv xim nco kj tus me qub hluas nkj 1 txwm nkj swm nraug siav txoj kev hlub zoo 2 siab qheb plo txhua 2 Lub sij hawm rau yus yuav tseg ncua mus rau Lwm tus hlub Lwm tus siv Li tiag 2 es yuav g tau ntsib g tau siv Li os phooj ywg kwv Luag aw ?

สงสารคนที่เป็นเมีย ถ้ามารู้ทีหลังจะเสียใจขนาดไหน🙁แต่ก็ยังดีที่ยังเห็นเมียสำคัญ

Koj tus hluas nkauj no yeej tsi ncaj ncees rau nws tus txiv tos nws tus txiv tsi tuag siab rau nws. Yug yuav txiv tas yav tas los tso pluavtseg mas thiaj li yog ib tug niam tsev tab cuab tiag.

The starting of this story already showing you as a therapist violated the code of ethics by boundary crossing. Better be careful there or you will lose your license!

Why that EX wanna come back into his life? Ain’t she stressing cos her life is falling apart cos her hub cheated on her? Do she even think what his wife would feel? These two are perfect for each other

Txiv dev thiab Maum dev thov kom koj pojniam paub txog koj thiab koj tus Maum dev

Ntxim ntxub tiag2 li os cov txiv neej zoo li koj nas liam tiag2 li koj mas yuav npam ib hnub tom ntej no xwb2 thiaj tag lau koj siab phem rau koj tu niam tsev dhau heev lawm lau

Qub kiav roj tsw pos lawm, ces noj kem plab.

ho yo yog kj yuav kj tus hluas nkauj ce kj twb tau ua yaug nrauj lawm os kav tsij hlub2 kj tus niam tsev xwb txhob cia kj tus niam tsev paub tsam nws g xav hlub kj

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj tus txiv tsev kj ma siab phem tiag2

Pab koj tus zoo niam tseem tu siab nkim nws lub sij hawm hlub ib tug neeg cuav. You’re lying to yourself when you say you love your wife so much. She will eventually find out what you did. You don’t deserve her

OMG!! What a liar and a cheater!! Feel disgusted and sorry for the wife! 😡

Ab ntuj aw

Kuv tus txiv dev siab phem li koj kiag

she's going to go be a good wife but after she uses you

If she really loved you, she would have waited till you have funds to marry her. You are not so smart after all. I feel sorry for your wife and kids. It’s so unfair and wrong to them. Shame on your ex for hurting another sister, big shame on you.

wow, this guy she's his "leej muam dai siab" yog hnub ntawv koj xaiv nws ces koj twb yog yawg nrauj lawm.

I believe your job profession is or similar to a MHC. It is unethical to accept her as a client as it is considered interest of conflict. Somewhat you knew it could be her, but once it was confirmed, you continued to provided therapy for her. What you failed to do in a job affected your personal life significantly. Your job is to treat her, not exacerbated the situation. I hope you have learned from your mistake as I truly feel sorry for your wife. If you truly love your wife, you’d do the right thing by being honest and telling her. What she decides afterwards is her right.

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Ob koj mas noj quav xwb lau tsis tsim nyog ua ib kauv xaum lawm li lau koj

She purposely seek him out and he never loved his wife, just settled to be married. If he truly love his wife, he would never try to engage with her again. Hope they can end up together so the wife can be free.

Thaum ntawd aib pog twb tsis xaiv koj na thaub siaj. Koj tab tom tsaug aib pog muab tha lais koj mas siaj tiag quav aw

Neb yog dev xwb os ob nyiag tsiaj

Oh wow... I feel bad for your wife. I hope she finds out. It's so unfair to her. How can you say you love her then cheats on her. The worse part is you saying how much you still love your ex. I wonder how you would feel if the role was reversed.

Kv muaj 1 zaj neej neeg zoo kiag li zaj no thiab

HE LIED! He shared your issues with the world on this channel. 😆🤣😂😹

Tu siab tag sim, khum xim tus neeg uas yus plam. Lwm tiam tso mam los hlub koj dua

Tsawg zaus los zaum kawg. Nws yeej tseg tsis tau koj. Nws lub siab phem rau koj poj niam heev thiab tsis ncaj ncees rau nws Tus tod. Luag yeej tias noj mov cuav zos qab tshaj no yog li nws thiaj nyiag plias noj mov cuav zos. Lol

You do love your wife but what you have with your ex is lust. I’m not saying you’re right or wrong but you’re definitely making the wrong decision. When you’re married, your wife and kids are your priority now.