Bravo sis! Only strong women like us can stay single and live alone. I love my single life. I isolate myself from the Hmong community so I can live life peacefully and love myself fully without Hmong toxic words. God bless you and continue to stay strong!

Good job sis! You picked yourself up and became independent. I rather be single than be with a cheater or a lazy bum. Marriage is a partnership that helps you carry the weight. If your partner holds you back or becomes dead weight, better to kick him off and keep moving forward. 👏

Ntuj os teb.....cov viv ncaus kuv es yuav ib zaug txiv xwb twb txaus lawm. Raug cov dev lwj kas no tsim ib zaug xwb txaus lawm. Kuv dim plaws kuv niag txiv dev ces kuv yeej tsis ntsia ib tug txiv neej los Tau 10 tawm xyoo no lawm os. Thaum kuv dim plaws kuv muaj 28 xyoo xwb nawb..nim no kuv muaj 43 xyoo los kuv yeej tshem tsis tau txoj kev ntxub txiv neej li. 😢 pom txhua tus txiv neej hmoob mas zoo li tus dab lwj kas rau kuv xwb.

I am twice divorced. Lub npe pujnrauj yeej ua rua yug nyuajsab kawg. Txawm tsi xaav tau los tau lawm. Tseem nrauj 2 zag lawm hab. Ib tim puab 2 tim yug. Txawm tsi muaj leejtwg yuav kuv lawm lov kuv yuav tsi tu sab lawm hab. Yug laug2 lawm yug yuav hloov tsi tau rua lwm tug lawm. I'm set in my ways too far and too deep. It just irritates me now. Raising my 7 grandkids is ENUFF for me...head ache txaus lawm os. I don't want to worry my parents anymore either....but sov tej laug tes yeejj tseem naj nub myuaj sab rua yug le os. Nub kws yug qe hlo qhov muawg tsi ncu txug nplajteb tej kev nyuaj sab lawm txha le yog nub dlim lawm xwb os.

Being single is great, no one to tell u what to do, u can do whatever you like. The only bad thing is when u are old you will be lonely.

Hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua yus lub neej thiaj li kaj siab tsis nco mob siab lwj siab li cov muaj tug nawb mog ib tsoom me viv ncaus. Kuv twb yog ib tug nkauj nrab los tau 6 lub xyoo no kuv tseem kaj siab dua muaj tus txiv nyob ntawd twb tsis hlub tsis pab os..nco qab ntsoov tias yus khwv tau them tau nuj nqi yus nyob tau yus ces yus xum nyob yus xwb zoo dua nawb mog..txhob cia ib tug txiv neej twg los cem yus hais lus saib tsis taus yus os tsoom me viv ncaus. ❤

Love this story. You speak for all of us! ♥️

Koj hais yog lawm os tus viv ncau yus nyob yus kaj siab dua os kuv ces lub neej yeej zoo tsis txawv koj li lawm dhuav dhuav txiv neej heev lawm thiab os

Never give up searching for a good man. He's out there some where.

Yog laim os ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

Yes ! We love an independent Hmong queen!!! Thank you for teaching our Hmong women that we are worth it!

Koj hai yog lawm o

Mi ntxhais aw koj txhob me siab os tus txiv neej zoo 2 tseem muaj thiab ov , koj ntsib cov niag phem xwb tseem muaj cov zoo thiab nawb ua zoo saib muaj kawg

Sister yus 2 lub eyeballs zoo li cas ces yeej xaiv tus zoo li niag qub xwb os.

Hais yog kawg li os

One strong lady…standing up for herself! Bravo!!!

Good story!!

Good for you lady..learn to love and respect urself..forget the pathetic hmong culture and beliefs..we need more people like u

Yg lm poj niam thiaj nkag siab xb o❤❤

Good story ❤

Amen sister! I have the same mind thinking like you. ❤

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

I'm glad you living for your own happiness.

So proud of you. You're an inspiration.

I prouded to you girl be happy for yourself.

Stay strong sister- sometimes being single is better then a unhealthy marriage

That's right, people who don't work are people who don't have responsibility.

There is nothing wrong with being a single independent woman. Life is less stressful without all the bs from horrible toxic men.

Good job 👏 ❤🎉!!! I’m proud of you as a single Hmong woman who has become strong for yourself and your children. Wishing you all the . Best!!

We love a strong, independent woman! 👏🏻

👍👍👍👍👍

Yog tshaj

Good job girl!👍👍👏👏❤❤❤

Koj mus hlub hlub niam pog txiv yawg es koj hlub li cas nas? Hlub plws taub hau los? Hauj lwm los tsis ua, tsav tsheb los tsis txawj, nyiaj los tsis nrhiav, tswv yim zoo los tsis muaj, es koj hlub hlub leej twg tau li cas, koj twb hlub tsis tau koj tus kheej.

Tus zoo niam tsev kuv yog txiv neej. Tab sis kuv thov tuaj tog vim koj ua tau zoo heev lawm

Kuv txoj kev ces zoo li koj hais ko mi niam tais ua lub neej tuag tsis tu siav es tuag tsi lwj xwb os mog😂

Love this life story! Very inspiring. Marriage life ain't for me anymore as well. Life is so much better & stress-free without a husband & in laws etc. Love ourselves sisters! We can do anything without a husband as well! ❤❤❤

Tu me niam laus aw....ca kj yv hais yg tshaj plaws li os kv ce xav li koj hais thb o kv ce g k txiv neej lm thb o

Peb cov poj niam yeej raug tsim li no

This story hit me hard

Wow! What a strong woman you are! Kudos to you. A Nurse Practitioner, it is!!

Nyob ko thiaj g mob hlwb os..tiam tshiab no g nuaj txiv zoo lawm os

Totally can relate to the bills part…I feel you….stay strong…thanks for being a good role model

Love yourself, our lady. Being single is healthy. If you love yourself enough, you dont need to be a man who keeps abused .

Yus nyob yus kaj siab khwv nyiaj coj yus cov menyuam mus vacation xwb kaj siab tshaj os !

I feel you sister. Everything you say is correct. I tell my husband everyday that an independent Hmong women don't need a man.

Wow! I’m a man myself and I like your thinking

Sister aw yuav qhov yus muaj nyiaj xwb thiab yus kaj siab xwb muaj txhua yam zoo xwb.

Koj paub txog peb poj niam zoo kawg li lawm os

Dayam! Love ur final message to the Facebook troll!!! ❤😂

We all desire a good man or woman, but don't know what that is. Reflect on yourself. What is it that you enjoy doing that is not self destructive? Look at your good habits, and the bad habits you want to rid yourself of. From there, you can clearly prevent undesirable individuals from coming into your life.

Zoo kawg !!! Nyob li koj xwb thiaj kaj siab niam Sayao!

Sorry for the lady in the story to have had this terrible experience. Glad she was able to remove herself from those unfortunate circumstances. There are still good Hmong men out there. Don't let a few bad apples generalize us. Moreover, a good lesson here is to pick a good partner before marrying them. That's critical!

If you don't ever walk into her shoes, you'll never know. Keep on going, sister, loving yourself and your babies.

Tus Viv ncuas ib tus txiv neej Zoo li koj xwb ces txob nyob lawm os

You’re my role model!

koj xav yog lawm os tus sister aw. Xav kom peb cov poj niam muaj peev xwm thiab muab lub siab tawv es ntxawj hlub lawv tus keej li koj hlub koj thiab os. Thov kom koj tau ib lub neej zoo siab thiab rog kev hlub rau ib tug es hlub hlub koj thiab cov me nyuam os.

Txaus siab kawg pov khawv kawg nkaus lawm lau leej twg yuav ua pojnrauj lub siab yuav tsum loj los loj tawv los tawv heev los heev li tus sister no mas kuv tsuas hais tias pov khawv kawg no nawb vim kuv twb yog ib tug ntawm ntawd thiab kuv tshwm sim tuaj nyob lub tebchaws miskas no kuv twb 3 tug txiv lawm tiag tab sis tsis tau muaj ib tug txiv es yuav cev ib phav rau kuv sab tes li nawb ib phav mas yog qhov ntau 500 twb tsis tau txais los ntawm ib tug txiv na es tsuas yog tau nws niag yob xwb na yog li kuv ham tsis ua kiag li tus sister no zaj los mas lawv

Sister Muaj txij nkawm zoo dua hos….but you can be whoever you want that’s your choice

Koj twb tsab ntse diam cas koj ho mloog niam pog txiv yawg, niam tais yawm txiv, neej tsa lawv hais ? Tsis hais txiv neej los sis pojniam tus neeg liam ces txawm koj yuav muab pes tsawg zaus chance los nws yeej yuav hloov tsis tau los ua neeg zoo hlo li, nkim koj lub sijhawm xwb ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo xwb.

Sounds like you’re telling my life story. 😢

muaj peev xwm npaum kom. koj haig yog kawg.tug thuam2 koj kom. tsw ntev tau ua yawg nrauj mas 😂😂😂

My sister, you are a very smart woman , I’m proud of you. As one of you brothers, my wife has been through the same situation with her X. She went back to school after her divorce and got her masters as a nurse practitioner. We both are working, her field is medical, and my is law enforcement.

Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for your own actions and life. Only you can live your life.

Niam lau aw ca kuv txoj kev nyuaj siab txij nkawm tsi pab yuav zoo nkaus li koj thiab os luag tus txiv pab2 luag ce luag twb tsibnkag siab yus txoj kev xav li os

Txiv ruam siv neeg tso tseg zoo dua.

Koj ua Yog kawg li lawm os tus me viv ncaus aw. Yog Kuv los yeej ib yam nkaus thiab.

Kuv Kuj yog ib tug ua lub neej zoo li koj lub thiab tsis yog yus ib leeg xwb..

Yog koj nqhis nqaij ces tuaj peb mus noj tom Lab👍hais raug siab tiag koj ua yog lawm Thanks for sharing

Tus txiv dev zoo li tu no ma said phem kawg txiv dev xwb os

You are such an inspiration to some women out there. ❤❤❤❤❤

So true! Good for you for showing those people who you are, and standing up for yourself!

Best to be single and be independent on your own! Who needs these lazy and cheating men! Good for you for realizing you’re worth more than that & will never settle for less again.

Tus txiv lim hiam zoo li no tsis tas yuav li os Zoo kawg qhov koj nrauj tau lawm thiab koj ua yog tshaj plaws lawm.

Ua cas tus niam tsev no yuav ua lub neej ib yam os

Cas zaj dab neeg no yuav zoo li yus lub neej thiab os

True No more stressful 😣 Life is bills No working hard No money

Ntshe yuav tau ua zaj no lawm xwb os

Nyob li ko thiaj Kai siab os me muam vim koj Yeej coj Yog lawm tab sis koj tseem Yuav los rau Tom ntej no os mog Txhob qaug zog thiab Txhob tag kev cia Siab nawj💖💖

คิดว่าในโลกใบนี้มีแต่ฉันคนเดียว

Hmong OG men's gonna be butt hurt again. Soon there's gonna be a "vim niam ntsuab teev" story again lol 😂

Thov qhuas koj, koj yeej tsum nyog ua poj nrauj tag tiam lawm. Tsis muaj ib tug poj niam muaj nyiaj nyob ntiaj teb no kav yug ib tug txiv neej txom nyem kom sawv. Tsuas muaj txiv neej muaj nyiaj thiaj txhawb tau poj niam txom nyem xwb.

Koj thiaj li ua yog ho, kuv kiag los yog luaj tsis hlub kuv mas ib nrauj 10 zaus los kuv yeej nrauj li nawb. Kev nrauj no twb tsis yog nrauj tus zoo tawm ne, nws yog tshem tus neeg phem tawm ntawm yus xwb nawb. Ib yam li kev ua hauj lwm ne, hnub no koj ua tsis tau company txoj hauj lwm rau company lawm ces lawv rho koj tawm es nrhiav tus tshiab los ua xwb.

Koj yog ib tug Muam zoo, tu siab koj ntsib cov yawm yij tsi kib cuab.

I’m so proud of you, sister ❤ you are such a strong and independent woman. I’m glad you stood up and fight! Stay strong and yes!! Love yourself ❤ Thanks for sharing this inspiring story 😊

Koj xaiv yog lawm os vim koj thiab kuv ces tsis muaj hmoo yuav tau tsawg tus los zoo li qub xwb yus nyob yus thiaj tsis muaj neeg cem yus os cia yus hlub yus xwb txhob tos lwmtus hlub yus

Sweet story. I can relate to you.

vim hais tias yus pheej xaiv tus yus nyiam ces yus thiaj li xaiv tau tus liam liam yus pheej xaiv tus yus hlub hlub ces yus thiaj li xaiv tau tus tub nkeeg li qub.

Ua cas thaum yus nrhiav ib tu poj niam zoo zoo ces yuav nrhiav tsi pom tsi tau ua cas thiab no kuv ho tsi myaj mloo tau ib tu hlub hlub yus

txiv neej hmoob 1975 ces uas dabtsi los tsi haum lawv siab li os ntse ib zaug los ntxub ruam ib zaug los lawv ntxub cia rau cos niam mos ab muab lawv tsim thiab zoo xwb

Hlub yus tus kheej kom ntau ntau thiaj li tsis mob

Koj yog tshaj plaws li os viv ncaus aw!❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

All the independent women need to learn how to do everything a man do! Stop depending on them helping you or do stuff for you!! Fix your own car, cut your own lawn, shovel your own snow, carry your own weights, fix your own house! If you don’t need a man, do it yourself and stop whining!

Hais yog tshaj is sister kuv regret hais tias ua cas kuv tsis ntxov nrauj xwb

Facts! 💯

So true I'm agree with you sis...!!! I'm in ur shoe.

Happy for you sis ❤

Lub neej nim no yus khwv tau txaus yus thiab yus tub yus ki lawm ces tus txij nkawm uas TSIS los ntxiv tsuas los rho xwb ces tsis need li lawm os. Ntov ntoo, txiv nyom, kho vaj tsev, kho tsheb, ua luag (bodyguard) muaj ntiav pawg lug. Nyiaj ntiav ces services tiav. Tuag ces kawg faus los hlawv, nyiaj txog ces tiav. Zoo tshaj muaj niag txij nkawm lwj kas

👏👏👏👏👏

How do you keep finding guys that are the same. Gotta change your tatse. Lol