So true! Not only anger but all intense emotions can make us act like crazy people. I try to always sit with my emotions before acting or saying anything to others and my life is drama free at the moment. I also do not share my time and energy with disregulated people cause I refuse to be their emotional dumpster. Have a good day 🌹
@umserserum3 ай бұрын
You reminded me of Gurdjieff's fatger advice to him before dying... He said: “Remember, if somebody creates anger in you, tell the person you will come back after twenty-four hours to answer him. For twenty-four hours, wait; and after twenty-four hours, whatever comes to you, go and do.”
@Marina.cm.3 ай бұрын
@@umserserum great advice. ❤
@lowiseowl3 ай бұрын
It took me 43 years to realise this and mostly it was after reading a self help guide from 1903!!! As I said in another comment, these past philosophers etc told us the answers already, we have chosen not to listen!
@SS-qg9jk3 ай бұрын
Then again, we easily judge people when they get angry and indeed we call them "crazy" , instead of questioning , what could bring them to that point of acting like that.
@santyadel632320 күн бұрын
Finding this channel was the best thing that has happened this week.
@anistynsmart33373 ай бұрын
I am about to start going to therapy regarding my anger issues. I have anger about things I can't control. Other peoples actions and thoughts that are different than mine anger me. I hate this about myself and am trying to fix it. This video really spoke to me, thank you for this.
@zealiabella85534 ай бұрын
The subtle expressions of anger can manifest as passive aggressiveness, criticism, even bantering. If you look underneath them and see there is the energy of grievances. If these energies goes undetected then they will accumulated in the body and expressed out as uncharacteristic explosions of anger. Eckhart Tolle speaks about being mindful of our inner state for the accumulation of unprocessed emotions. The anger that is expressed today is the accumulation of anger that was not able to be expressed in the past. It may explain why sometimes the anger expressed by some people were not warrant for the situations or events. I’ve been enjoying your sharing.💛✨🙏
@theHermit94 ай бұрын
🙌🏼 I love the teachings from master Eckhart Tolle ... he has also spoke highly of the teachings from Stoicism especially that coming from Marcus Aurelius, who had that rare quality of wisdom while in the seat of power ... I learn much from these masters that embody the Truth they speak 🙏🏼🖤
@marcelliebtsich3 ай бұрын
This is a high valuable Perspective, thank you for sharing this!
@giovannaquaglio3 ай бұрын
as yoda said, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate and hate leads to suffering
@user-rv4gi1sh4d3 ай бұрын
my new favorite channel. Love the book recommendations and your speaking is clear and concise. thank you!
@AlexiaHDIntuition3 ай бұрын
There’s a lot of suffering behind anger usually and it’s also healthy to expel anger if it’s done well without violence! Thank you for your content 🙏
@AshAndCream3 ай бұрын
I enjoy exercising to loud metal when I'm angry.
@CarolBlake1233 ай бұрын
Wow, I'm so happy I found you today. I vibe with your energy. You're very Zen and you speak to my soul. It's like I knew this stuff but thank you for reminding me. I need to get back to reading the masters. I look forward to learning more.
@muskankhanna71084 ай бұрын
Thanks bro ❤ I have a short temper and constantly hurt my loved one and feel guilty afterwards I will try to reduce my anger by taking pause
@BernadetteDobler8 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤ This has been life affirming. I believe in Stoicism. This is really important and you convey this philosophy so well.
@strawspulledatrandom.2 ай бұрын
I love your content, it really resonates with me. Many thanks 🙏
@user-ee8ji5lp3y2 ай бұрын
i wish i could have a chat with you, you have said more real shit in my life than anyone ever has, good stuff man, keep it
@AutomobilianaАй бұрын
Lots of food for thought in every video, thank you for doing these.
@scunnie3 ай бұрын
Thankyou ❤ many blessings 🙏
@MayaHendsenmayajs19442Ай бұрын
I wish this video was longer, it is very important. Please do consider making a second part. ❤
@vl47202 ай бұрын
I am 50 y.o. and I am always a bag of anger. I got angry by so many things in the world such as the lack of democracy in so many countries, freedom fighters got killed or locked up, wars, inequality, etc. More personally my company have had some restructuring and I got a new boss. When I talked to him I got some angry by his unreasonable requests. I do want a peaceful life but it really seems so far away. No matter how many books I read or great advice I listened to I just seem to react immediately to the things that he said to me. Only after I realised I reacted then I will hold my horse. I wish I could stop reacting. Thanks for the video.
@Xaver777729 күн бұрын
In my case, meditation has drastically extended the time between receiving information and reacting to it. It takes a while to see results, but it is worth it.
@allanmaxime33793 ай бұрын
You popped up on my recommended and rightfully so, watched a few vids and they are all informative and insightful. Liked, subscribed, many thanks.
@playfulsteps9249Ай бұрын
Lately, it feels like even my buffer needs a buffer. Thanks, master, for the daily "reading" ❤
@prodbyholisticАй бұрын
Angry boss should hear this message. Thanks for sharing!
@nefarious674 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your posts and your thoughts. I appreciate and very much look forward to all of your discussions.
@DS407643 ай бұрын
I believe you are referring to rage, or extreme anger. Being angry can be helpful sometimes, forcing you to change course, or stay away from hostility, or the negative. Nevertheless I always enjoy your discussions.
@mluengo_sl3 ай бұрын
Even if it may seem helpful, there's nothing inherent to anger which could be beneficial to one self or others, as you could accomplish the same result without losing your composure. I think it was Epictetus who talked about this in his writings, calling it (if my memory is correct) a false impression or a negative passion.
@storyofzero2 ай бұрын
Anger is an emotion, not an activity. Losing your composure is not anger. Anger is a term we assign to certain sensations in our body. This is neither good nor bad but simply there. We benefit from recognizing anger in our bodies at increasingly subtle levels so we can choose to act skillfully instead of being driven unconsciously by it.
@gxmfu28 күн бұрын
Seneca tells us that anger is not necessary in any response to injustice, and that any rational response to injustice can be done with reason alone.
@jamorfati4 ай бұрын
Sacred pause.
@blwlmnswg3 ай бұрын
damn I needed to hear this atm
@butlernov2006Ай бұрын
I realized why I have anger issues. Most of my life, I felt I had to be passive and let others have their anger validated while I had to step back and allow them to unload it as displaced anger onto me or the situation at the time and if I ever got upset myself I was quickly put in my place by the people who caused my anger to begin with. I built up resentment and it leaks out in times when I become more vulnerable or frustrated with a situations I find myself in that can't escape from easily or if there isn't a quick fix to the issue at hand (car problems, difficult coworkers, bills I can't pay, etc). I feel like at this point, if I were to let out the honest truth in arguments, I'm afraid my anger might not stop and I would do something destructive because I've had to take it from others for so long and absorb all of their anger into me.
@user-ju8fn8fu9s4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@avid70754 ай бұрын
Thank you friend
@raven95624 ай бұрын
Thank you 🤍
@alexzicker4 ай бұрын
It would be nice if it were so simple, temporary and wrong. Fury lived in a trance is rooted in hunting magic, the berserker, and it has been used in fighting on purpose, it helps you to get what you want.
@TrutherRaps3 ай бұрын
This I would say maybe wants to be balanced out by a sense that speaking up about things is something people very rarely do. I guess people probably get mad, and stuff, often enough, but it really seems like the problem with our society is one of Fear and silence.
@migueld5227Ай бұрын
Anger is the result of pain. If you don’t know where your anger is coming from you are not in touch with what has caused you pain or the presence of pain.
@del-marmare16463 ай бұрын
Thanks ❤
@johnjulianto33213 ай бұрын
A new subscriber here. Am an English learner from Indonesia,and one of method that I want to do in order to enhance my speaking skill is by mimicking a native speaker.I,ve been searching fpr so long the right figure,and days ago I found ur channel.I want to mimick the way u speak.I hope I can reach the level of speaking I want to. Bless u.
@MattsFreeChannel1Ай бұрын
Counterpoint: If anger were in effect at all times, it might seem crazy, but given its own relation to situations that themselves seem to complement it, perhaps anger is the *right* response to a situation, and the crazy part is that we as a society have demonized it and thus have all become kind of passive-aggressive.
@outdrs2 ай бұрын
Hey do you possibility have a list of books that you recommend? I would love to read these, so called masters. :) thanks!
@indianexo_l75173 ай бұрын
Recently my dermatologists said that i must have some anger issues. Don't know how it possible i never lash out on anyone never do some short of things people do in anger and out of all my siblings it's me who stay out all of argument. Just how it's me ?he even said that some of skin problems is because my anger.I just don't know😢
@jameswiblishauser97453 ай бұрын
That pisses me off!
@spiritualeducator3713 ай бұрын
I had to leave my ex because that is all he does. Drives angry for the 8 months we were together. I felt like we were going to die and get into an accident. Then while driving down to Missouri to see his parents, he got into a fight with a truck driver while on the freeway and nearly got us killed.
@SimothyInOz3 ай бұрын
About the only video I disagree with in part. It’s okay to feel angry at injustice, there simply are things that we should as a collective feel angry about, the holocaust for example. On an individual level sure we can’t change it and we shouldn’t let it eat us up inside. But anger is a protective emotion that you use when you need it. There’s a big difference between mindless anger (sports games, shouting in traffic) to anger you acknowledge and be aware of and respect
@nathalie84972 ай бұрын
You do not understand
@SimothyInOz2 ай бұрын
@@nathalie8497 No I do...I can use my emotions I have been given to learn and educate myself. Emotions are emotions, they make us human.
@ChattyBlanketCorner8 күн бұрын
“Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that." -MLK I know you said “anger,” which is different from hate, but they’re similarly charged as far as emotions go. You can change a situation, help people, etc. without anger. In fact, the most effective leaders of change speak often about this. I can see what you’re saying. Anger can be effective as a natural progression of emotions (especially when shifting out of sadness) to evoke that actionable desire for change. But, ultimately , if you can’t keep progressing and shift out of anger, you won’t create the desired change on a large scale. You would be limiting yourself and those you seek to help.
@louiseannedicentakerbec73355 күн бұрын
Papillon written by henry charriere
@bats51674 ай бұрын
Sending my highest intentions your way
@jenniferthompson62803 ай бұрын
anger should be addressed in schools at an early age then again in middle and high school..esp aiming it at the males. everyday we see in the news where a man has killed his partner ..why are men so angry? i haven't dated for the past decade bc of this issue with a man's anger.
@Focused20244 ай бұрын
Well.
@taylamorris3 ай бұрын
The ironic thing for me is that I'm typically most assertive and logical when I'm angry. When I'm calm, I'm less likely to be assertive. I can only think of two times I've said something I didn't mean while I was angry. I simply preferred not to say it (out of fear) or preferred not to say it at that moment.
@ffkoffie3 ай бұрын
Camera further away is better
@bordercollieluxiАй бұрын
You have no Idea how many people are constantly angry. I hate people
@Roastedpotato14413 ай бұрын
When I’m angry I listen to darkened nocturn slaughtercult, you’re welcome ❤❤
@ximenagonzalez9613 ай бұрын
whatever you say beautiful
@flynnzilla87962 ай бұрын
I disagree: anger is a signpost to feeling powerless, which stems from childhood neglect, abuse and indifference. Anger keeps coming up again and again to show you where you were wounded…heal that : )
@petethepeg23 ай бұрын
To be consumed with SELF is probably the ultimate insanity and may be anything but temporary. Just think, the insane guy in the asylum is only thinking of one thing ....himself ! How insane are you?
@Primrosepath3 ай бұрын
What do you think about sadness?
@FishTankClips-cz6vb2 ай бұрын
Not true, sometimes its temporary clarity
@HiNinqi2 ай бұрын
🩵💙🩵
@witchitachick3 ай бұрын
Respond do not react. Thats it.
@umserserum3 ай бұрын
“Remember, if somebody creates anger in you, tell the person you will come back after twenty-four hours to answer him." - Gurdjieff's father advice to little Gurdjieff. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Gurdjieff father was dying... And he said, “Forgive me because I am not leaving any inheritance to you except this sentence.” He told Gurdjieff to repeat the sentence three times, so he could die peacefully. He said: “Remember, if somebody creates anger in you, tell the person you will come back after twenty-four hours to answer him. For twenty-four hours, wait; and after twenty-four hours, whatever comes to you, go and do.”