Anne Boleyn and Mary Boleyn: Were they close?

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The Anne Boleyn Files and Tudor Society

The Anne Boleyn Files and Tudor Society

3 жыл бұрын

In this latest edition of Questions about Anne Boleyn, Claire Ridgway, author of several books on the Boleyns, considers the question she's often asked "Were Anne and Mary Boleyn close?"
What do we know about the Boleyn sisters' relationship?
Was it close?
Do the historical sources give us any insight into it?
Find out more about Anne and Mary Boleyn in this talk.
See the videos in the Mary Boleyn playlist for more about her - • Mary Boleyn videos

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@susandelorme6592
@susandelorme6592 3 жыл бұрын
I never get tired of the Tudor history! It is fascinating!
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
Endlessly fascinating! Just when you think you know it all, you find out there is so much more to learn ☺️
@Tabroxfcc
@Tabroxfcc 3 жыл бұрын
I think the fact that Anne fostered Mary's son Henry, paid for his education and basically turned him into a future gentleman, probably speaks to at least a friendly relationship between them
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
I think so.
@Tabroxfcc
@Tabroxfcc 3 жыл бұрын
There's also some intriguing evidence to suggest that Henry held Mary in high regard, even after their affair ended. Personally intervening to make sure she got a pension, providing her with money, AND fostering her child. Moreover, Anne had to know there was at least the possibility that Henry Carey was Henry's child. Pretty interesting stuff
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
@@Tabroxfcc it's more likely that Henry slept with Mary before her marriage and then helped arrange the match with Carey. She even got married in a chapel royal with the king in attendance. That was how it had worked with Bessie Blount. I personally think that Mary was his mistress when Bessie was pregnant. I just can't see the evidence for Henry and Mary being involved in 1525. Henry was a generous man and she wasn't just someone she'd been involved with, she was his sweetheart's sister.
@SG-pu3rx
@SG-pu3rx 3 жыл бұрын
It speaks more to him being Henry's child and Anne being oblogated to support him to not cause her future trouble .
@EmoBearRights
@EmoBearRights 5 ай бұрын
Alison Weir makes a good point that Catherine Carey looks a lot like Henry VIII and her daughter Lettice who married Robert Dudley looks very like Elizabeth I if they were related twice over makes sense. Henry Carey not so much.
@daniellemusella1594
@daniellemusella1594 3 жыл бұрын
Mary Boleyn died in 1543, when her niece, the future queen, was ten years old. I wish she'd lived another fifteen years to see Elizabeth's coronation. I can only imagine the pride she would've had, the happy tears that she would've been choking back.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@daniellemusella1594
@daniellemusella1594 3 жыл бұрын
@@anneboleynfiles This might sound like an odd question, but I was curious as to which star-signs you think Anne and Mary carried. It would be easier to narrow down if we knew the seasons they were born in, if not the exact years. But all we have to go on are the accounts of their personalities, and as you said here, accounts of Mary are much fewer and farther between. Following that, which of the signs do you think suit them best?
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
@@daniellemusella1594 That's a cool question and thought provoking
@daniellemusella1594
@daniellemusella1594 3 жыл бұрын
@@Shane-Flanagan I think it would be an interesting catalyst for another "what-if" Tudor-era -based novel.
@RobertoLorenzPianist
@RobertoLorenzPianist 2 жыл бұрын
@@daniellemusella1594 Anne always screamed Scorpio to me. Ambition, dominance, passion, Irascibility, jealousy. Scorpio also would match with Henry VIII, since scorpio and cancer are said to have an electrifying attraction for each other. It's also possible that Anne was born on St. Anne's day (26th of July) which would make her a Leo. As a typcial Leo she would be dominant and extremely proud but in general more peaceful and resting in herself than a scorpio.
@annalisette5897
@annalisette5897 3 жыл бұрын
The striking thing about Mary is she got out of Henry's court and apparently married beneath her station and for love. The rest of the family stayed in the royal circle, fatally so for George and Anne. I am curious what kind of relation Anne and Mary had with their mother. After the demise of Anne and George, was Mary a comfort to her mother for example? I am sure we will never know.
@annamcuthbert3993
@annamcuthbert3993 3 жыл бұрын
yes i agree
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
There's just no mention of her seeing her parents, which is sad.
@potatowofie4479
@potatowofie4479 3 жыл бұрын
Was Anne Boleyn and Thomas Cromwell actually a Lutheran?
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
@@potatowofie4479 You couldn't call Anne a Lutheran/Protestant as it was far too early in the English Reformation to label people that. She was an evangelical Catholic interested in church reform and getting back to the authority of scripture. Cromwell was further along the path to Protestantism by his death.
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
Anne certainly loved her mother and vice versa. In a 1531 letter to her friend Lady Wingfield, Anne expressed adoration for her mother. Also while she awaited execution she worried about the effect it would have on her mother.
@cynthiarowley719
@cynthiarowley719 3 жыл бұрын
What a honor, they took Mary's son and gave him to Anne😬 it's great to have the time line to imagine. Thank you
@martinadrempetic2395
@martinadrempetic2395 3 жыл бұрын
So sad we know so little about Mary. I read that she died aged 43 and that she just inherited Rochford Hall. We don't know what happened to her baby, but her husband William Stafford later married his relative Dorothy (I think that's her name) and had 6 children with her and went on to live in Switzerland (he was a calvinist?!). I always enjoy your videos about the Boleyns ❤
@jameshalley9763
@jameshalley9763 2 жыл бұрын
I am a descendant of both mary Careys son Henry and daughter Catherine Carey Knowles. 6 generations down they had descendants that married. I have been trying to untangle the many threads that I have to King Henry 8th court for sometime now with Jane Seymores sister Elizabeth Ughtred that married Gefrey Cromwell. Than uncles thomas and edward seymore. And Henry's uncle Aurthur Plantagenet, his mothers half brother, who is another of my direct ancestors. Kind of want to get accurate info vs history vs legend. Thanks for my rant!!!
@margaretsieger2862
@margaretsieger2862 3 жыл бұрын
This video was so interesting. Wish Anne kept some record of her relationship with her sister Mary. Wow both sisters were in the play. Thank You Claire.
@playme129
@playme129 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that a person who really knows what he/she is talking about is not afraid say, "I don't know.". Another great presentation, Claire. Thanks for posting. Virginia
@michellerhodes9910
@michellerhodes9910 3 жыл бұрын
Just brilliant, Claire. Down the years I have read and seen various representations of their relationship and it is great to have the facts as are available. Who knows; in a lost diary or court record we may one day learn more? I was amused at a marriage being described as 'misconduct' though I accept the permission of one's seniors was a very important thing back then.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'd love to find Mary's diary and know more about her relationship with the king and where she was at various points.
@korinajordan7819
@korinajordan7819 3 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised. It sounds like Henry VIII really went out of his way to help Mary out when her first husband died. He always comes across as pretty apathetic toward his past lovers. Maybe he actually liked her.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
I think he was a generous man. He certainly made sure that Bessie Blount was well provided for too.
@lililillililil4028
@lililillililil4028 3 жыл бұрын
Pity he didn't show the same compassion to his wives (Catherine of Aragon, Anne Boleyn and Catherine Howard), all of whom he once was very much in love with, the same compassion when he was done with them.
@camijaque2291
@camijaque2291 3 жыл бұрын
@@lililillililil4028 amen!
@thelittleredhairedgirlfrom6527
@thelittleredhairedgirlfrom6527 3 жыл бұрын
@@anneboleynfiles I don’t think it’d be so much generosity as potentially a mix of pity, obligation, and PR.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
@@thelittleredhairedgirlfrom6527 oh, a lot of the time, yes.
@glorialange6446
@glorialange6446 3 жыл бұрын
What I have always liked best about you, Claire, is your honest research and it really shows in this video. It also makes for debunking some of the more outlandish claims of some novelists and lets us get a true picture of currently known history. As always, thank you
@janicegaypowers3953
@janicegaypowers3953 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, Claire Ridgeway, for your detailed research regarding the relationship between Anne Boleyn and her Sister Mary.🤗❤️
@pollydolly9723
@pollydolly9723 3 жыл бұрын
History is full of minutiae and huge gaps. Thanks Claire.
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
That's the problem with history especially Tudor history. Also a lot of what we read is from one point view so can be bias. Sometimes I like to read historical fiction from Alison Weir and Elizabeth Chadwick to fill the gaps so long as it's not improbable fiction
@londonmusicmum4560
@londonmusicmum4560 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing a longer video !! Love your channel ❤️
@joalexsg9741
@joalexsg9741 3 жыл бұрын
That was actually very interesting! Thank you so much (liked and shared for sure)!
@darlenefarmer5921
@darlenefarmer5921 3 жыл бұрын
I do like this format! Thanks so much.
@gregorylittle1461
@gregorylittle1461 3 жыл бұрын
REALLY informative (as usual)!!
@chiaroscuroamore
@chiaroscuroamore 3 жыл бұрын
Always interesting to hear more about Mary Boleyn and Anne’s relationship with her (as much as we can be sure of anyways)
@ardiffley-zipkin9539
@ardiffley-zipkin9539 3 жыл бұрын
Well presented. Thank you !
@sueamos3860
@sueamos3860 3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting as usual,thank you
@LoreeGlenn
@LoreeGlenn 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thanks 😊
@kelseylogas1580
@kelseylogas1580 3 жыл бұрын
I did not know that about William Carey's family, how interesting! I would love to learn more about them! A nun who had 2 illegitimate children by 2 priests.... a loose woman or a nunnery where men were not kept from taking advantage? I have to say, I do wonder how much it is actually the latter. Women have always been blamed for such tings, but it takes 2 to tango, and men at the time definitely held the power. As always, I really enjoy your videos!
@kazoolibra7322
@kazoolibra7322 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for a very interesting video
@mysteriousjudgement9128
@mysteriousjudgement9128 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Claire I'm a huge fan of your channel and massively obsessed and intrigued by Tudor era.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you!
@TheTam0613
@TheTam0613 3 жыл бұрын
Love all your content! Thank you, Clare!
@pegpeg5496
@pegpeg5496 3 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Boleyn, the mother is rarely spoken of. When her daughter Anne was queen and husband at court, did Elizabeth live at court?
@ShallowApple22
@ShallowApple22 3 жыл бұрын
No not full time anyway she would have been expected to stay at her estates to maintain rule and order over her tenants she would have gone for extended stays for Xmas and Anne's pregnancies etc but overall there wasn't much of a role at court for her I hope this helps
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
While Henry VIII was courting Anne, Elizabeth acted as chaperone and lived at York Place with her daughter, and George and Thomas had rooms there too. At other times, she would have divided her time between court and Hever.
@beth7935
@beth7935 3 жыл бұрын
Would it have been Anne's choice not to have Mary as a lady-in-waiting? It's tempting to read something into it, but I know nothing about how & why ladies were chosen- Anne might've had no say in it. Very interesting point about Mary's letter! I've never thought of it that way, but I think I agree... I've never heard Mary Boleyn called Lady Rochford before! George was Lord Rochford, & I thought his wife Jane was Lady Rochford?? So interesting about William Carey's sisters!
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Anne would have had a choice over who was serving her, yes, although there would have been girls she was expected to have because of their families. The Rochford title, when used for Mary here, was a courtesy title due to her father being Viscount Rochford and then her brother holding it.
@beth7935
@beth7935 3 жыл бұрын
@@anneboleynfiles Thankyou! That does rather suggest they weren't super-close; perhaps they were very different while still caring for each other? (Total speculation!) Having read your wonderful book on George tho, when I read the vid title, I thought, "No-one knows, but Anne & George were close!" I guess everyone's more interested in Mary, but if the question was about George there's so much more info.
@LusiaEyre
@LusiaEyre 3 жыл бұрын
With such scarce records, it's impossible to tell, but the most pragmatic approach could be leaning towards 'not really'. Maybe as children, being close in age... I have a feeling that Mary was not as much into academia as Anne and George, which bonded the two and left her a little like the odd one out? Of course, feelings don't count for much lol. And then, they were apart a lot, at different courts and their lives changed at different paces, with Mary marrying and having children and Anne waiting for the King for 7 years. There probably was a lot of familial obligation, taking care of your own but I don't see them having late-night heart-to-heart and giggling over wine.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
No, I think you're right. A familial connection, memories of childhood, but two very different women who spent a lot of time apart.
@dianegrooters6977
@dianegrooters6977 3 жыл бұрын
Wondering if Mary & Anne were civil but reserved since Mary had been the Kings Mistress at one time. How much room was there really to ward off the Kings advances if he really did wish to have a romp with a woman of his court? If it was advantageous to families to have there daughters in such a position, I can only wonder if there wasn't a change of heart btwn these sisters, or jealousy. Maybe being tossed aside a few times lead Mary to become even suspicious of her families intentions, thereby marrying her own choice eventually. I can only imagine with the ever evolving interlocking roles these two girls were asked to take on it almost appears that they would have certainly sibling rivalry even if only as to how to please a father, or be closest to their brother. Interesting Claire, enjoyed this video alot. I also want to say I think Mary was the prettier and probably ended up.the happiest, therby seeing her children grow up.
@TheTam0613
@TheTam0613 3 жыл бұрын
I always feel like Mary was the smart one-she wasn't executed and may have married for love.
@camijaque2291
@camijaque2291 3 жыл бұрын
Anne was actually IN LOVE when she got married.
@TheTam0613
@TheTam0613 3 жыл бұрын
@@camijaque2291 We really don't know how "in love" Anne really was, bc once you were in the King's sight, there wasn't anything you could really do to refuse his advances. Henry, imo,b was a deeply disturbed man and I think his narcissism over AB was more about possessing her. Mary was the one who kept her head and I love AB, I just think that we really don't know much about how SHE felt towards Henry.
@camijaque2291
@camijaque2291 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheTam0613 good point i have never thought of it that way
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheTam0613 Anne losing her head didn't mean she was stupid as that is likely to happen when you are married to a tyrant and have many enemies. If she bore a son, her future would've been secure. Mary marrying for love wasn't really smart as it distanced her from her family and she spent her later years in poverty and obscurity
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
@@camijaque2291 Yes I believe Anne loved Henry. She was heartbroken when he started taking other mistresses even though he promised not to
@amyrat151
@amyrat151 3 жыл бұрын
Mary’s statement about being willing to beg her bread with Stafford verse being queen and that he would rather be with Mary than be king really sends my imagination into overdrive. If her siblings are any indication, then we can guess that Mary had a better education than the majority of her peers. Also by the time she wrote that letter she had been Henry’s mistress, married Carey, had children, became a widow, been in dire finical straights, married a man she truly loved, and faced her family even though she knew they’d be far less than thrilled with that choice. What I’m saying is that she was hardly the ingenue The Other Boleyn Girl portrays her as and she wasn’t a fool, either. Mary saw that Anne was in the middle of the dangerous, high stakes politics of Henry VIII's court and decided the price of being involved with them had become too costly for her. We know Thomas Boleyn was against Anne and Henry’s relationship, did Mary also caution Anne against it? Was Mary always wary of the drama of the court? I think maybe that could be the big reason why Mary and Anne weren’t as close as George and Anne, also maybe Mary wasn’t as passionate a reformer as the two of them were. Anne was a very prideful, ambitious person and Mary wanted unconditional love more than anything, very much including power and influence. Mary made a show to her family of caring about love over everything.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
I think she was very well educated but perhaps didn't have the same ambition as her siblings and father, and perhaps that's why she wasn't chosen to go to Margaret of Austria's court. I find the letter to Cromwell really interesting because although she goes on about how she's chosen love over everything and that she'd rather beg than be like her sister, she is sending that letter to Cromwell to get him to intercede with her family to get them to help her. It makes me chuckle. She has defied her family, complains of their cruelty against her, but still wants their money!
@amyrat151
@amyrat151 3 жыл бұрын
​@@anneboleynfiles Yeah. Mary, still being the sister of the Queen of England and widow of Carey believed she was entitled to certain things and she still wanted them. I don't know if that makes her a hypocrite or a product of her time were women of high birth had access to money because of their family's status and connections.
@DarkLadyJade
@DarkLadyJade 3 жыл бұрын
I really like The Other Boleyn Girl (the book) because even though it's loose with historical accuracy it's a good read and fun speculation of what Mary was doing.
@conquesotador
@conquesotador 3 жыл бұрын
I think Mary’s saying that she married for love and Anne did not.
@annettefournier9655
@annettefournier9655 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Claire. 💜
@SR-uf8pt
@SR-uf8pt 3 жыл бұрын
Claire's Mary playlist is really good; I recommend it.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@franm.8343
@franm.8343 3 жыл бұрын
Was Anne's mother Elizabeth a sister to the Duke of Norfolk? I believe she was and if so, it might give us an inkling into her upbringing and personality.
@Husky_mom4
@Husky_mom4 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. She was.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's right, she was the daughter of the 2nd Duke of Norfolk and sister of the 3rd Duke.
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
Her other brother was the father of Catherine Howard
@camijaque2291
@camijaque2291 3 жыл бұрын
I have a question, while Anne was still in France and Mary was in the UK. Mary was a lady in waiting of CoA? if so, Mary spent much longer as a lady in waiting of CoA than Anne. And a topic that urges me, the supposed new portrait of Anne, which is quite a scandal, the guy blocked me, and also other historians and common people. Could you make a video dedicated to that topic, we are many with questions. Please Claire.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen her name in the lists of ladies serving Catherine while Anne was in France. Oh that "art historian" is so very odd. Every time someone points out an issue or inaccuracy, he blocks them and then changes his theory and makes use of their information. I mean why on earth would Anne Boleyn have a ducal crown in her arms?? I decided not to give him any attention at all, good or bad, as it all feeds him.
@denisedick721
@denisedick721 3 жыл бұрын
Mary's story fascinates me.
@carycary5824
@carycary5824 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the info of William and Henry Carey. This helps our ancestry quest. Cary Harwood Cary.
@Lyndell-P
@Lyndell-P 3 жыл бұрын
🇭🇲🦘 Yes! Very strange that so little is known of Mary Boleyn's life, given there is so much documented evidence about the lives of her two siblings, parents and even George's wife (Jane). Given that Mary's son, Henry, became Anne Boleyn's 'Ward' to provide for, care for, educate etc., you would have thought that there would have at least been documented letters between Mary and Anne, with Mary enquiring after her son's wellbeing, and requests to see him (and he his sister) etc. However, if such correspondence did take place, it doesn't appear to have survived. As you said, so much is just not known. I will go and view your videos on Mary Boleyn (as suggested) to find out more. Thank you for this insight into the seemingly mysterious life of Mary Boleyn. Maybe not so mysterious, but just not known. Your videos always 'make us think'❗ Thank you Claire 👑🔔👍 Take care 🌐👋
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
It's not too surprising we know so little about Mary. She wasn't royalty and didn't marry that well and had scandalous past. After 1536 the family was in disgrace. Mary became obscure. Anne and her father Thomas are who we know most about but there are a lot of gaps in their life stories too. We know so little about Elizabeth Howard Boleyn and not that much about George either. Many myths have built up around the Boleyns for centuries. We only know so much about Jane Parker Boleyn because of her involvement in Anne and George's trials and her later involvement with Catherine Howard and eventual downfall. A lot of information just wasn't documented such as birth dates especially if you weren't high born. Some correspondence could've once existed between Anne and Mary but may have become lost
@Lyndell-P
@Lyndell-P 3 жыл бұрын
@@Shane-Flanagan Hello Shane. You mention that there is not much known about George Boleyn. Actually, there is. If you go to Claire's Video Playlists, you can view 18 videos all about George. There is also the 366 page book co-written by Clare Cherry and Claire Ridgway titled 'George Boleyn. Tudor Poet, Courtier and Diplomat'. Most informative. Also, Claire has mentioned (in previous videos) that Jane Boleyn (George's wife) has been much maligned. Claire has said that from documents from the trial of Anne Boleyn (Jane's sister-in-law) that Jane was NEVER a witness against Anne and Never against her husband, George, either. It was 'other' ladies of the court who apparently brought the accusations against Anne and George, after being interrogated by Cromwell under the orders of Henry VIII who was already now interested in Jane Seymour, and wanted to be rid of Anne after her not giving him a son. Jane Boleyn even corresponded with George (and he with her) whilst he was in the Tower. Hardly acts of a couple who hated each other. These are not my views, but what Claire has indicated in her videos and books. As for Henry VIII having ever fathered any of Mary Boleyn's children. Claire has looked at when they were born and says it is impossible. The reason that Mary's son was made a 'Ward' of the court in her sister Anne's care, was to assist Mary when she became widowed. It also meant that he could receive an education and have a good future, which he did. In his aunt's reign (Elizabeth I) he served at court and did well, on his own merits. Mary Boleyn's first marriage was 'arranged' after her affair with the King, by the King (through her father). Her second marriage was one she chose 'for love', choosing a quieter life away from court (but was without permission). Claire has said that the reason there is no documentation known between sisters Anne and Mary is that it was 'lost' or 'destroyed'. ALL of Anne's possessions were taken by others (including the King) after her execution. All BUT her Book of Hours. Two copies held at Hever Castle. Much of her jewellery was taken by the King to give to Jane Seymour (and others). Bye for now. Lyndell 🇦🇺🦘
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lyndell-P I'm aware Jane is a much maligned figure. I think she gets a rather bad rep and I kinda feel sorry for her. She got very little support initially from Henry and the Boleyns after the executions but luckily got into the service of Jane Seymour. She was also a supporter of Catherine of Aragon and Mary. Like I said, so many myths have surrounded the Boleyns over the centuries that it's easy to believe some as the truth such as George was a bad husband and possibly gay. Also Cromwell would have made up any old evidence just to be rid of Anne who he felt threatened by. Once Anne had been executed, Henry tried to remove all traces of her. He didn't fully succeed as at Hampton Court Palace a small H & A engraving still exists to this day in the building work.
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lyndell-P Seeing how much you enjoy Claire's channel, are you aware of another similar KZfaq channel called Reading the Past. It is by an historian called Dr Kat. She has presented various videos discussing various historical people and events including those from the Tudor era.
@Lyndell-P
@Lyndell-P 3 жыл бұрын
@@Shane-FlanaganVERY SORRY, to take so long to get back to you Shane, but I had an appointment to attend. Have only just read what you sent me. Thank you Shane. That is very thoughtful of you. Yes, I have noticed Dr Kat's videos (and others) but I enjoy Claire's so much, and there is so much to view, that I really wouldn't have time to watch others, very often. ALTHOUGH, that said, if I'm after Historical Information (outside of the Tudor period) I do look elsewhere. I really do love the way Claire explains things to novices, like me. I am not an intellectual, and I do struggle to learn (always have) but I have always had an interest in History, Geography and Archaeology going back to early Egyptian times, Roman etc. I enjoy all History, but relate better to British history, for now. I first gained an interest in history from a young age as my grandmother (on my mother's side) lived to 103. She was born in 1889 on a dairy farm in rural Victoria, Australia on the outskirts of Melbourne Town (it being a large town back then, not a capital city of a State). When my grandmother was only 12 years of age, Australia became a country in its own right, no longer a British colony to send convicts or settlers to. So, my grandmother witnessed us become a Nation (although a part of the Commonwealth), so The Commonwealth of Australia. Our first Government was formed in Melbourne, Victoria, many decades before moving to its present site in Canberra, ACT (Australian Capital Territory) which is a small Territory in the State of New South Wales (NSW). My grandmother took her first flight in a plane in the 1970's, prefering to travel by train before then. She had once been told by her own father that "if we were meant to fly, God would have given us wings". However, in the late 1970s she decided to 'risk it'. LOL ... She thoroughly enjoyed the experience, but only once. She was very well her whole life and turned 100 in 1989, but she died in 1992 aged 103. No illness, just a 103 year old body that needed to rest. Despite her vast age, we mourned her. Until her late 90s, living indepentently, quite well and with all her faculties in tact. A remarkable woman to talk to. A living, talking history book. A fascinating lady. Sadly her 3 daughters (including my mother, her youngest) didn't take after their mother, longevity wise. All passing away Before they turned 80. Only 2 of them alive to see her turn 100, and at her death. My mother (her youngest daughter) died in 2000, only 8 years after her mother. So my grandmother, gave me that initial interest in history. I never looked upon her as 'old' though. Elderly, yes, but not old. Quite 'young at heart' and very intelligent and we enjoyed many happy chats together. I even lived with her in her own home, in my late teenage years for over 4 months. We had a ball. She also did live long enough to attend my wedding (over 40 years ago) and she met and knew many of her grandchildren, great grandchildren and great great grandchildren. Quite a legacy! Anyway, thank you again Shane for your thoughtful suggestion. Bye for now. from Lyndell 🇦🇺🦘
@zacharyclark5617
@zacharyclark5617 3 жыл бұрын
Mary Boleyn is my double digit great grandmother on my mother's side.
@Husky_mom4
@Husky_mom4 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously?????? That's really cool.
@emilythefox3710
@emilythefox3710 3 жыл бұрын
Mine too..
@beth7935
@beth7935 3 жыл бұрын
That's cool! I haven't found the Boleyns, but I've got the Tudors & Stewarts: I'm descended from an illegitimate son of James V, & ofc James V is Margaret Tudor's son.
@wendychavez5348
@wendychavez5348 3 жыл бұрын
That's awesome!
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
Mary has so many ancestors including Kate Middleton
@adriaandeleeuw8339
@adriaandeleeuw8339 2 жыл бұрын
Look at Josh Liddecombe's ... "Who do you think you are", a little bit of Tudor intrigue there allegedly!
@mizfrenchtwist
@mizfrenchtwist 3 жыл бұрын
hello claire......i wish we knew more of mary as she probably was an interesting person , on a personal level.......i hate that she has been made out to be a " light " woman . do you think henry prompted thomas boleyn to help mary , at anne's behest..... i have read that henry slept with the mother , elizabeth , as well . however , i believe henry when he said he did not sleep with the mother , as even a dispicable liar will tell the truth....... sometimes . great share as usual , thank you..........
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I wish Mary wasn't so shadowy, it's so frustrating!
@AnimalLover-is2fc
@AnimalLover-is2fc 3 жыл бұрын
If my younger sister told me what to do, I would be very upset, imagine Mary, her little sister was they Queen, that would have been scary to defy her. I'm scared of mine too.
@beth7935
@beth7935 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, my younger sister is a bit scary too, lol
@jordanp4259
@jordanp4259 3 жыл бұрын
Mary was messy in that last letter and I love it. I hate that they ended on bad terms though.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
I do hope that they had chance to reconcile and that we just don't know about it.
@cynthiarowley719
@cynthiarowley719 3 жыл бұрын
Looking for link, but wouldn't work. Thanks
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Hmmm.... That's strange. It's at the bottom of the description and the playlist is also towards the end of the video.
@kevinbergin9971
@kevinbergin9971 3 жыл бұрын
Anything about the George and Mary relationship?
@aimeefriedman822
@aimeefriedman822 Жыл бұрын
Well, we don't seem to have records of Mary and her father, being the only ones left.
@PocketSatan
@PocketSatan Жыл бұрын
I don't think the sisters were close at all (otherwise she'd be always near Anne, among her ladies in waiting. When people really loved their sisters they kept them close by - wasn't Catherine Parr's sister her lady?) What's more Thomas Boleyn as a father should have provided a good match for Mary, especially given his position at court, and he didn't. So Mary had to fend for herself, finding a rare man - an honest one. And as neither her Dad nor royal sister did anything for her personal happiness as they should have, she had to write to Cromwell, so I don't see her phrase that she'd rather beg for bread with a poor husband than be a queen as unfair. I suspect she had good reasons to feel whatever she felt.
@aliceputt3133
@aliceputt3133 3 жыл бұрын
Mary saying she would rather bake bread with her husband than be Queen. Did the term “a bun in the oven” apply at this point in time? Was this a clever way with words.
@robinpinkham9398
@robinpinkham9398 3 жыл бұрын
💖👍
@reginaromsey
@reginaromsey 3 жыл бұрын
Who was William Stafford that Mary would have met him enough to fall in love? Was he a common soldier or more?
@aimeefriedman822
@aimeefriedman822 Жыл бұрын
I'm going to say that Mary marrying a "lesser" man had to do with the illegitimacy of her children and drama that she probably never wanted.
@legacyxlove
@legacyxlove 9 күн бұрын
Drives me nuts that he used the same logic in different ways. It wasn’t okay for Catherine, but it was for Anne?! Come ON.
@carliepower1088
@carliepower1088 3 жыл бұрын
I think that with how much he disliked Anne, if Chapuys didn't mentioned Mary being at Court for Anne when she miscarried, then it didn't happen, as I feel he would have been quick to mention that kind of thing
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
In one sense, I'm glad Chapuys documented info on Anne as it supplies us with some insight into her life. Not many others did sadly. On the other hand it's a little irritating that it was Chapuys as he was so bias in his dislike for Anne. If only others wrote about her with a fairer outlook, we might know so much more about Anne
@carliepower1088
@carliepower1088 3 жыл бұрын
@@Shane-Flanagan I agree, 100%!!
@veronicajean3612
@veronicajean3612 2 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine everyone knowing you slept with someone all those years back and the entire world knows it? Mind boggling
@LoveNathasha
@LoveNathasha 3 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video about Mary Boleyn and Elizabeth I? She was her aunt, were they close at all? If Elizabeth wanted to know about her mother, shouldn’t she have connected with her aunt?
@Husky_mom4
@Husky_mom4 3 жыл бұрын
Well I know Mary's daughter Catherine was active in the court and Catherine's daughter, Mary's granddaughter, Lettice(spelling????)ended up marrying Robert Dudley, Elizabeth's "great love". I don't believe Mary lived to Elizabeth's reign.
@LoveNathasha
@LoveNathasha 3 жыл бұрын
@@Husky_mom4 But surely as a child Elizabeth must have met her aunt, right?
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Mary died in 1543 when Elizabeth was just 9 and there's no record of them even seeing each other. Elizabeth was in her own household away from court.
@Husky_mom4
@Husky_mom4 3 жыл бұрын
@@anneboleynfiles thanks Claire!!!!!! Love the videos. Been following this for over 10 years!
@LoveNathasha
@LoveNathasha 3 жыл бұрын
@@anneboleynfiles Oh wow! Thanks for answering! That’s so sad that they might never have met or spoken with each other :(
@sharoncole8249
@sharoncole8249 3 жыл бұрын
💖👑👑💖xx
@siobhanstafford4921
@siobhanstafford4921 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine you were to marrying a man who had been there with your sister
@wendychavez5348
@wendychavez5348 3 жыл бұрын
My sister and I have dated the same person (at different times, of course) at least twice. I suspect we have similar attractions, and we share many traits so naturally guys tend to like both of us--which I take as a huge compliment. I'm not sure how she feels about this situation; I find it acceptable because we never directly competed with each other. So the situation between and Mary really doesn't surprise me, though I do wish we had more information about it.
@prettyfar33
@prettyfar33 3 жыл бұрын
There is no way to know...but I think that Anne was jealous of Mary! I think that she was just that way...I would have been too!!! LOL!!! I would not have wanted her anywhere near my husband after she had already slept with him!!! But I have green eyes...so I have that green-eyed monster working against me!!! LOL!!!
@wendychavez5348
@wendychavez5348 3 жыл бұрын
There's often plenty of envy between sisters, often for exactly the same reasons. A few years ago I was talking with my older sister and told her how I've always wished I looked more like her, and she told me how she always thought I was more beautiful than her. Surely Anne and Mary had that dynamic going on too.
@MsJubjubbird
@MsJubjubbird 3 жыл бұрын
Groom of the Stool. Sounds like a great job
@aimeefriedman822
@aimeefriedman822 Жыл бұрын
I know life, meals, values are quite different, but they are still sisters! How could one marry the others lover and probably father of her child? Mary IS the elder, no?
@rachael.t.deckard7459
@rachael.t.deckard7459 3 жыл бұрын
It seems like Anne was sent away around the time that they would be looking for a marriage match. Maybe Anne was seen as too much competition for Mary.
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
Doubt it considering Mary was considered beautiful while Anne wasn't
@kristydawson5578
@kristydawson5578 3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to enjoy this, but 6 sets of advertisements ruined it 😥
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry, I can't control how YT do the advertising, I just allow them to advertise on my channel as I need some compensation for the work I do.
@wendychavez5348
@wendychavez5348 3 жыл бұрын
I hate the ads, but that's on YT rather than on Claire or any creator. I can't imagine anyone requesting or even giving permission for an ad to cut in mid-word, which I've seen a lot of since YT revised its ad policy to give themselves a larger cut. (insert fuming emojii here)
@JaneEasterbrook-bn3ux
@JaneEasterbrook-bn3ux Ай бұрын
Could Mary have left France to serve Mary Tudor after she wed Charles Brandon?
@SG-pu3rx
@SG-pu3rx 3 жыл бұрын
Even her birth year is unkown. What a bunch of baseless speculations...
@Shane-Flanagan
@Shane-Flanagan 3 жыл бұрын
Claire is a well respected and loved historian and author. It's no one's fault if the birth dates of common or low born people weren't recorded. That was just the order of the day. All we can do is speculate.
@lisawatts
@lisawatts 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't want to be associated with someone one with loose morals 🤣 pot calling the kettle black there .. But then again he was a king he could do what he liked lol
@janetclough2217
@janetclough2217 3 жыл бұрын
ANNE ONLY BECAME QUEEN AFTER THE DEATH OF THE FIRST QUEEN DIED.
@anneboleynfiles
@anneboleynfiles 3 жыл бұрын
No, by the law of the land, she was officially queen consort from 1533.
@wendychavez5348
@wendychavez5348 3 жыл бұрын
Katherine of Aragon didn't relinquish her claim to the title until her death, but it was the king's will that mattered more than hers.
@Gene-kl1br
@Gene-kl1br Ай бұрын
Cant tell you as per being there . But i can tell you of the Carey legacy to now . Brothers sister very close siblings , loyal. caring , loving ..
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