Answering Questions You’re Too Afraid to Ask Disabled People

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Georgina's Journey

Georgina's Journey

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Answering Questions You’re Too Afraid to Ask Disabled People
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I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome / Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder, autonomic dysfunction- including Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome and myalgic encephalomyelitis.
I'm a full time university student
I'm also a wheelchair and catheter user
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@khdavis
@khdavis 4 жыл бұрын
Where you talk about the signs on disabled toilets saying “not every disability is visible” is awesome. I’ve never seen anything like that in the US!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Katharine M oh that’s so interesting, I don’t know why I assumed it had been implemented everywhere, but the UKs 5 biggest supermarkets changed their disabled toilet doors to have that message (& added a logo of an able bodied person alongside the disabled logo ♿️) in all their stores in 2017!
@khdavis
@khdavis 4 жыл бұрын
Georgina's Journey that’s awesome. It’s something that the US needs to implement. Thank you for taking the time to do this video. I have learned quite a bit. Thank you for educating others as well. Love your videos!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Katharine M I’ve seen it make a difference here so I wish it was more wide-spread! You’re welcome & thank you so much!
@lissadeo
@lissadeo 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this video!! I think as disabled people, we need to talk about this more even among ourselves and especially with able-bodied people. I'm disabled but even sometimes forget about other consequences of my own illness that other people have (self-catheterizing, colostomy/osteotomybags, bladder/uterus tearing etc). I would love to hear another video like this as a collaboration with another disabled youtube who might have different symptoms!!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Lissa Deonarain Hi Lissa, I think that’s a great point and a really good idea! I’ll see what I can do! :)
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Lissa Deonarain oh and I nearly forgot to say thank you! I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts and ideas on this with me! :)
@Lottie_La
@Lottie_La 4 жыл бұрын
When you were talking about using disabled toilets I remembered a couple of times I had used one when I was drunk way before I got M.E. I'm embarrassed to admit it but at the time I just thought there were no disabled people in the building so it was okay and hadn't thought about invisible disabilities. This is a really informative video!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Charlotte Pawle Hi Charlotte, you don’t need to be embarrassed to admit that- people who know better, do better, so I’m happy this has made you more mindful of that now, you never know who could really need those facilities! Hope you’re doing okay atm, I have M.E too, so I know how tough that can be x
@Lottie_La
@Lottie_La 4 жыл бұрын
Georgina's Journey I like to think I’m pretty well informed these days but I really would have benefitted from seeing a video like this at the time. I’m sure lots of people will find this video educational.
@abbie2584
@abbie2584 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you on the politics question, but I know how this can be a very touchy subject for some people so I think you handled it well. I’ve always found using disabled toilets a difficult subject. In places where the main toilet is upstairs I’ll always use the disabled one downstairs as stairs are very difficult for me. If I’m in my wheelchair I use the disabled toilet too. In other cases, sometimes I’ll use the disabled toilet because I can’t stand long enough to wait for a normal toilet to be free. I do get quite a lot of funny looks though, I’m 16 but look younger and also look ‘healthy’ so I think that’s why. I usually just use the normal toilet to avoid all that. I’m loving your videos recently, they’re entertaining but also helpful. I hope you’re keeping safe.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Kate thank you, I felt like I was really blunt with my answer for the politics question, although I did want to answer it properly as that’s what this video is for 🙈 All of that makes sense, I’m glad you’ve found what works for you! Before I used my wheelchair so much, I started fainting in the queues for the toilet, so that’s when I started using it (& the funny looks were awful like you said, I was around 18 at the time and also looked young for my age and ‘healthy’), in a weird way, the wheelchair almost feels like a blessing when it comes to that just because it prevents the judgement and funny looks :/ I’m so glad you’re enjoying them, thank you so much for letting me know :) And thank you, you too
@chronicallyhopeful5407
@chronicallyhopeful5407 4 жыл бұрын
This is an AMAZING video! Such a wonderful idea. I will be sharing for sure :) I LOVE that sing that you are talking about. We need that over here, in America as well. I think my reaction to getting diagnosed was the same! I know healthy people don't always understand what a relief it is. Having a name gives you a reason for the way you feel and the symptoms you are enduring. Additionally, like you said it gives us access to so much which opens the door to a better quality of life! I didn't fully understand any of my illnesses when I was first diagnosed. I thought oh I'll just take a medication and get back to normal life. I knew things would be different but I'm not sure if anything could have prepared me for how different. I think part of it is the grieving process and part is just learning the ins and outs of the illness. I love what you said about motivational quotes. Sometimes, I feel like people say it to kinda get me to be quiet or because they are uncomfortable with me being sick. It all depends on motives. Like you said, if it's someone who is really trying to be supportive (not just throw words at you) I take it differently. In my option, there are more chronic illness friendly motivational quotes. Like, "Maybe you have been given this mountain to show others it can be moved." It all depends on who it comes from, motives, and the situation you are currently in.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Chronically Hopeful thank you! And I agree with everything you said, so many great points there! Hope you’re doing okay at the moment 💕
@davidarmstrong7549
@davidarmstrong7549 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! Like yourself, I vote for the party that best supports the minority groups in our society. On the subject of disabled toilets. I totally agree that people need to be aware that some people do have an invisible and urgent need to use the disabled toilet. Equally, there are too many people that use the disabled toilet because it just happens to be there to use. I have Spina Bifida (very visable and use wheelchair because of it) and Multiple Sclerosis (very much invisable). I have had too many times were I have been waiting to use the disabled toilet, only to see a group of people emerge who clearly were not in there to use the toilet but were there to apply their make up and so on! It is so annoying and distressing. People do need to be aware of the distress it can cause to a person when they are being prevented from using the disabled toilet by someone who doesn't have a genuine need to use that toilet. On the use of the word "inspirational", I too have been called that just for being seen in a nightclub, when all I have done is exacly the same as them...get into a taxi and get into the nightclub! X
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Yeah, it really is so inconsiderate- I once saw a video on KZfaq of an able bodied person dying their hair in a disabled toilet & it made me so angry- the fact they had the audacity to post it and the fact that hundreds of people in the comments of that video didn’t say anything about it being inconsiderate and wrong really frustrated me. I feel like most people think that hardly anyone has a disability and so most of the time, the toilet isn’t needed- which isn’t correct & even if it were, it still doesn’t mean able-bodied people should use it for whatever they please
@denaiir4775
@denaiir4775 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video it was so interesting! My husband has an invisible disability and I hate conflict so I'm always worried about being confronted by someone who will say he shouldn't use the facilities. We're also in the process of getting a service dog and I'm afraid people will think it's a "fake" and won't let us go everywhere with him, it's very stressful! But I'm very happy to know that my husband will get more help :)
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck to you and your husband! Hope he's able to get all the help he needs! :)
@ap-jh1qw
@ap-jh1qw 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video's they are very informative. My friend prefers people coming down to her level because it hurts her neck to look up from her chair.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
a p you’re welcome! I tried to make it clear that I was only speaking for myself or like words like ‘usually’ and ‘generally’ when talking more generally, as obviously not everyone is going to feel the same way about everything!
@penelopepolinsneemeyer4757
@penelopepolinsneemeyer4757 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Georgie! Glad to see you looking a bit brighter! Hoping you’re safe and well. Martin and I are OK, but the weather changing is causing my sore bits to start complaining again xxxxxxxxxxxx
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! And I'm so happy to hear that about you and Martin, I think about you a lot and have been praying for you and your family in these difficult and uncertain times. I'm sorry to hear about your pain worsening, hopefully we'll have more consistent warm and sunny (but not too hot) days soon :) xxxx
@tegsalise
@tegsalise 4 жыл бұрын
Super cute intro! You seem so positive and nice! I left a like on this video.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Tegan Alise thank you so much Tegan!
@rythehorrorguy2851
@rythehorrorguy2851 4 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video! Keep up the amazing work you do!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Ry theGuy thanks!
@K1MB0cs
@K1MB0cs 4 жыл бұрын
So cute girl with a so delightful personality. I wish you all the best! Regards same aged CFS sufferer.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
kimije thanks!
@sophiehg7088
@sophiehg7088 4 жыл бұрын
Love this 🙌🏻
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Sophie Howard 💕
@thumper327
@thumper327 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I’ve had problems many yrs ago before I was stuck in a wheelchair where people think I’m not disabled, the same with my daughter who has EDS from me, only one kidney that’s damaged so Shen she needs to got she has to, she is deaf, delays, mental health issues and I’m not saying depression and anxiety although she has them too! It took me yrs to get diagnosed, when I was a kid I went through a phase of just falling over and not putting my hands out to save myself “pots” but my mum didn’t bother following teachers advice to see Gp, I could always bend in funny ways but never realised it was a condition until my son who was prem Was diagnosed (EDS) when he still couldn’t roll over at 18mths so physio n special Pedro boots and he was walking sitting rolling etc in 3mths. But they diagnosed 3 out of my 4 kids aswell when they were there! Including me too which all made sense as by then I had dislocated my ankle multiple times and it almost pops out all the time. Then I ached and kept getting admitted to hospital for allsorts (as eptic meningitis, high heart rate, fit, my migraines were well out of control like 5 days a wk and still are at times, mouth and genital ulcers but no answer) I finally found Behçet’s disease on google so sent me to a vasculitis specialist in a hospital miles away and got the diagnosis there and then! When they looked at my previous bloods from being admitted every time my crp was super high as well as my esr so that was my rheumatoid arthritis! Behçet’s disease can be fatal and has nearly got me a few times but I’m not ready yet! Was diagnosed before I was 30 and now I’m 43 and have collected multiple diagnosis since then. So I now have Behçet’s with neuro involvement, functional neurological disorder which causes tremors, shakes, severe muscle spasms, word recollection problems and saying the wrong word but not noticing and just memory has gone! Have rapd in both eyes and the pics the hospital take of your eyes show neuro problems behind both eyes and wear glasses now, I have crohns and ulcerative colitis, sjrogens syndrome, rheumatoid arthritis, asthma, sciatica, very bad insomnia, chronic pancreatitis, ME/CFS, diabetes as damaged pancreas after having acute pancreatitis 3 x due to med reaction, also reacted to azathioprine and had an extreme lay rare reaction to that which stopped my bone marrow working and was having blood and platelet transfusions, so I now can’t give blood but everyone who can should.now about to be taught to self catheterise as permanent kidney infections for months as don’t empty properly and can’t go and sit there ages, had kidney stones and sepsis last yr, I’m on a strong dose of immune suppression, it’s a type of chemo used for a certain leukaemia but I have double the dose than others cause of the Behçet’s etc so infusions every 7wks and always start going into anaphylactic shock and can’t breath but then they look after me great and after a break my body then tolerates it! I can’t walk far and have t been able to for yrs, I started using a stick may many yrs ago then after 8wks in hospital for acute pancreatitis (severe reaction to a med) I couldn’t walk far at all so used a scooter then found it was too big so got an electric chair. I guess the EDS doesn’t help matters. I hate being stuck in a chair for the rest of my life as it’s hardly a man magnet lol. I’m on steroids which made me gain weight. I used to be so active, 4kids, 5 horses, 3 dogs, marine reef tank, rabbit, 5 bed house with land to look after but lost all of that as ex cheated whilst I was in hospital and guess my illness was too much I guess so that was 14yrs of my life n money wasted as he had it all planned and got the house and I was left with nothing just a bag of clothes and my medical stuff! But his loss lol 😝 I really do struggle as I’m in a very very high risk due to the chemo, my conditions, plus my mental health I guess too. I spend most of my time in bed which isn’t like me at all. My ex made me end up with no friends and like an idiot I didn’t realise and to,d so many bullshit lies about me. I take so many meds I can’t remember so my daughter or my carers have to do my meds (fentanyl patch, steroids, gabepentin, hrt, Prozac, inhalers, topiramate, ammytriptaline, lanzoprazole. Can’t remember other regular ones, then I have for pain etc oramorph, diazepam, cyclizine, cocodamol 30/500, maxalt melts, creams, etc All I would say is if you can walk then walk while you have that privilege as know a girl who was perfectly healthy but when diagnosedwith EDS decided she couldn’t walk so got a wheelchair, can’t do nothing herself anymore! So sad and annoying as I would love to be there and able to eat with out choking every time, being looked at like an idiot or people trying to push in in front of me! You lose your muscles so become very weak, do everything you can! I am still trying to do as much as I can and I always will do! Fight for your independence all the way as no bugger else will!. Should add I’m well aware of hidden disabilities due to my daughter being deaf, having one kidney, development delays, hypoparathyroidism,hypocalcemia, OCD’s, anxiety, mental health as in see faces and hears voices due to brain damage from the severe fits she had as a baby/ toddler. But I get so annoyed when non disabled people use the disabled loos, if someone who looks healthy comes out when I’m waiting and I can be in the middle of soiling myself I ask if they have a hidden disability and 99% of the time I get “the others had a que and I just wanted a wee” and they think that’s acceptable! And don’t get me started on car parking spaces as I need my wheelchair down the side, that’s why disabled spaces were made as there are plenty of spaces near the front of the shops, now they are giving badges out to people with autism, my daughter also has a diagnosis of asd adhd but she don’t need a badge for that alone? 2 of my boys are on the spectrum and the stimulation inside the shop is 1000 x worse than getting out of the car! They don’t need the space at the side of the car, I didn’t even get a badge for my son until he was 3 and he was on oxygen, 24/7, feeding tube via pump 20hrs a day at times, apnea alarm as he would stop breathing and also a pulse oximetre which was massive then not like the little ones you can get now!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing your story! I hope that people will be more aware of invisible disabilities as time goes on, my channel aims to raise awareness and I know there are plenty of other people also doing the same thing, so hopefully we will start seeing changes in people's attitudes and awareness soon :)
@VulcanOnWheels
@VulcanOnWheels 4 жыл бұрын
I feel as you do in so many ways! I know that in Virtual Ability in Second Life, we speak of 'person-first language.' Also, in Virtual Ability, we use the abbreviation PWD. In Virtual Ability, we have the rule not to talk about politics. As for why...*points to 8:44 where Georgina gets stuck in her "attempt to answer diplomatically"*
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Bert Visscher Hi Bert, I’m not sure what Virtual Ability is, but we also talked about person-first language in my health & well being classes last year, I just didn’t want to use and explain the term as I know a lot of my viewers won’t know what it is and I didn’t want to complicate anything! That sounds like a good idea, I hope it’s working out well for you all. But this is my own channel, so I talk about what I want to talk about and don’t tend to restrict myself with any rules :)
@VulcanOnWheels
@VulcanOnWheels 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney Before I tell you about Virtual Ability, let me say this, just to be clear. As far as I'm concerned, you and you alone determine what you talk about on your KZfaq channel. I only noticed an apparent similarity in our customs. Virtual Ability is a Second Life group both *for* and *by* people with disabilities. Our group includes people with all manner of disabilities.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Bert Visscher I don’t know what a second life group is either
@VulcanOnWheels
@VulcanOnWheels 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney Second Life is a 3D virtual world. They're website is at secondlife.com/.
@samanthaclostermery6870
@samanthaclostermery6870 4 жыл бұрын
Hello!! I love your videos💝💝 just some quick questions. Do you have any tips on preventing UTIs? I keep getting them, and everyone's suggestion is cranberries and im highly allergic. Also I'm trying to get back in school, do you think a wheelchair would help me with energy levels so i can focus better? If so, what kind/brand of wheelchair ? Thank you!!! Stay safe!!!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Samantha! I'm going to make a video all about preventing UTI's soon as I have quite a few tips of this and really think it will help, I used to get UTIs every 3 weeks when I first started using catheters, but I've since found a way to pretty much get rid of them for good! In terms of a wheelchair, that's a difficult question as I don't know your needs and ability. A manual wheelchair will probably just as exhausting (and probably cause more pain than walking) tbh, so it depends if someone will be able to push you. My wheelchair is very expensive (like £7,000 in total, and had to be funded through charities which took several months and a lot of applications) so I'd only recommend that if you're in a situation like me where you need a power chair, but don't have the space for one in your house (or car if necessary). A lot of people find the Pride I-Go a really great option, as its a folding powerchair that can fit in most cars. That's still around £1,500 though, so my first choice would be a basic manual chair (which will be about £200) if someone can push you, the Pride I-Go if you can afford it, or the cheapest powerchair you can find if you've got the space for it. Sorry this is so long, there's so many factors that go into this!
@samanthaclostermery6870
@samanthaclostermery6870 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney awesome can't wait for the video!!!! And I'll look into the power chair, the campus is on the smaller side but there's a lot of floors, and I'd rather not risk it. I'm slowly improving but there's still times when i need assistance as much as i hate to admit it
@emmab3548
@emmab3548 4 жыл бұрын
We have a lot in common. I have EDS, POTS and what I can only describe as chronic fatigue syndrome. I have severe brain fog, especially in the morning. I often wonder what the connections to all of these conditions are. Do you mind if I ask why you use a catheter? I have had some OAB issues in the past, it gets worse with triggers, so I try hard to avoid them.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Emily Bradley Hi Emily, I use catheters because I have urinary retention and incomplete bladder emptying. There are some medications you can try for OAB, but catheters will not help unless you have urinary retention as well
@emmab3548
@emmab3548 4 жыл бұрын
Georgina's Journey thank you for the response. I am on medication for OAB and thankfully no urinary retention. Thanks for sharing!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Emily Bradley you’re welcome, I hope the medication is working well for you!
@sarahmaurer1630
@sarahmaurer1630 4 жыл бұрын
I need the bar to help me stand and sit in the bathroom and now I need it for the extra room because of my new wheelchair
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Sarah Maurer like grab rails?
@sophiehobley828
@sophiehobley828 4 жыл бұрын
What is your opinion on using a disabled toilet where your disability means that the disabled toilet is quite a bit more convenient to use, but you can use a normal cubicle? I always feel a load of guilt, especially instances where I've cut the queue to go to the disabled loo, and I often think that because I can use a normal cubicle I should. It's a tricky one! And it means that when people do comment on it (generally mothers of young children not even disabled people - and I'm basing that off them pretty much saying "you're not disabled OR with a young child so what are you doing) I squirm even more!
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Sophie Hobley that’s a great question Sophie! I think it’s up to the person to decide what to do in those situations, I wouldn’t judge someone for it or think they should feel guilty for it, you just have to do what you think is the right thing to do in any given situation. I’d imagine there are situations where that is more okay than others (at a busy places like museums & attractions where numbers are big enough that there are several other disabled people who will need the toilet, for example, I personally wouldn’t use that toilet if I didn’t have to, but at a supermarket or coffee shop, I most probably would). Hope this helps!
@sophiehobley828
@sophiehobley828 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney that's an interesting perspective thankyou :) my need for a disabled loo does vary, sometimes because of my catheter I just can't wait a long time for the loo, like you, and so would need to jump the queue (I've even had to beg to jump the non-disabled queue where there was no disabled loo with one of those "toilet cards" from charter) but there are times where using the disabled loo just allows me to be more hygienic and move more freely etc and I would be able to use the able bodies toilets - so it's interesting to hear the perspective of someone who definitely does need the disabled loo
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Sophie Hobley I think that’s a completely valid reason to use them and I think it’s well within your rights to!
@debraann9512
@debraann9512 4 жыл бұрын
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@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
DebraAnn Pumkin 💕
@aracelirebollar2616
@aracelirebollar2616 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I do have Pots and sometimes I wake up during the early morning like around 3:30 am.. because I feel how my heart is racing fast so I sit down and my tachycardia and palpitations begin so I stay awake until it passes :(... it’s only me?? Or anyone else is struggling with this too??
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Araceli Rebollar pots is a postural condition (& the P actually stands for postural), so these episodes probably can’t be classed as part of pots since it starts when you’re lying down, asleep. Pots is a form of autonomic dysfunction, however, so it could be autonomic dysfunction in general. I think it’s worth mentioning to your doctor, as they may be able to help or want to investigate it further!
@aracelirebollar2616
@aracelirebollar2616 4 жыл бұрын
Georgina's Journey thanks I actually thinks that this thing that happens to me maybe could be bc i have anxiety too
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Araceli Rebollar I’m not sure, I don’t think you’d be anxious while sleeping, would you?
@crystald3655
@crystald3655 3 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney Dreams and/or nightmares can cause anxiety attacks. They have for me, and I've woken up gasping for breath with my heart racing.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 3 жыл бұрын
@@crystald3655 I don’t think it’s nightmares fit this person otherwise they would know about it
@ryanmuir6423
@ryanmuir6423 4 жыл бұрын
Very well done another fantastic video. I suppose I am guilty of something. I do usally use the disabled toilet which I am not supposed to do because I really struggle to go (it's almost impossible) with anxiety problems in a normal public toilet but only use public toilets in general (normally disabled) if I really, really have to because I do feel bad for doing it. Stupid and pathetic I know when there's people out there with real problems. Sorry! Also thank you you answerd something that was on my mind which was about marking eye contact with people in wheal chairs as I have a friend that uses a wheel chair and I always neal down Well done another fantastic video👍Keep up the good work
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Ryan Muir hi Ryan! I actually think that’s a valid reason to use one as like you say, you struggle in the normal toilets otherwise. And it also sounds like you’re considerate and only use them when you really need to, so I personally think that’s okay :) With your friend- some people have different preferences with this, so I’d say just ask them about it :)
@ryanmuir6423
@ryanmuir6423 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney I've always used public toilets when I really do need to. Using normal public toilets its almost impossible for me to use with mental health issues and I am much more comfortable using disabled ones. Thank you for your opinion but I really do still feel bad for using them. If someone came up the same time as me with a wheal chair I would always tell them to go first becauseI do feel guilty. But hey I still need to go somehow everyone does. I have also had bad infections for not going to the toilet often enough because im out and about a lot so have to be careful there as well. You are right I should maybe talk to my friend about it but something simple like taking a step back and talking to someone in a wheal chair I had never thought about to be honest.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Ryan Muir I’m sure a lot of people would be more comfortable in a disabled toilet, but it’s about whether you actually need to use it that makes it okay or not. If you actually need your own space to be able to go, that’s a need, but if you just prefer it because you feel more comfortable, then that’s not a necessity & I would strongly urge people not to use it for that reason. They’re your friend, so I think it would be a good conversation to have :)
@ryanmuir6423
@ryanmuir6423 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney Yeah I totally agree with you. I maybe worded that a bit wrong when I said I feel more comfortable using a disabled toilet. With my mental health issues I have something called a shy bladder so if thers noise or big crouds I feel very nervous and feel as if I physically cant go. Even if I go in when thers an empty public toilet I still cant go for the fear of someone else walking in. If I use a disabled toilet there is more privacy and I know its just me there on my own if you know what I mean so I feel as if its much easier to. Even if im really, really desprate I still have great difficulty in going and have had accidents and infections in the past for holding my water to long. Thats what I ment by feeling more confertable. Im not convinced myself if I should be using disabled toilets or not. I do agree with you people shouldn't be using disabled toilets just for the sake of using them in my opinion it is wrong. I feel bad for using them. I think I will have a chat with my friend the next time I see him (obviously after lockdown) sounds like a great idea.
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Ryan Muir I know the name for it, it’s a really common phenomenon, but only a small minority of people who experience it would need to use a disabled toilet for it
@ericgonzales3786
@ericgonzales3786 3 жыл бұрын
Boy do I know what it's like when you really have to go to the bathroom and somebody in disability stall when I was in high school I really have to go to the bathroom so mean a friend of mine went through McDonald's. And there was this guy who was using the disability toilet and here's the thing I don't mind if you use the disability toilet I don't mind also if you take awhile if you need to but this guy was on his phone playing some type of game and I am literally outside the stall crying. And begging him to get out and he kept saying oh I'll be out in a minute I'll be out in a minute luckily I had to pull up on so it wasn't as bad as it could have been. And also for people that say it is so inspiring that I do regular things on a daily basis it's flattering at first but after a while it can get a bit annoying I mean I don't see what's so inspiring about me going to get my favorite cereal from Walmart
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry that happened to you
@ericgonzales3786
@ericgonzales3786 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@yacallateporfavorehh3949
@yacallateporfavorehh3949 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, do you hace spasms?
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
MC MCM leg spasms?
@yacallateporfavorehh3949
@yacallateporfavorehh3949 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney yes
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
MC MCM no, I don’t
@Justin-sc6yl
@Justin-sc6yl 4 жыл бұрын
Because of this condition i don't think anyone will marry me :(
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Justin what condition do you have? And plenty of people with chronic illnesses get married, there is hope! That’s is a horrible thought though, do you think no one will marry me either then?
@Justin-sc6yl
@Justin-sc6yl 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney i also have POTS
@Justin-sc6yl
@Justin-sc6yl 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney you're such a beautiful girl so I don't really think it should be a big problem for you... But still chances are there tbh
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Justin loads of people have POTS, it’s definitely possible to live a fulfilling life with it and do all you want to do. Have hope 💕
@sanusafalya4335
@sanusafalya4335 4 жыл бұрын
Join instagram 💜
@GeorginasJourney
@GeorginasJourney 4 жыл бұрын
Sanu Safalya I’m already on Instagram
@sanusafalya4335
@sanusafalya4335 4 жыл бұрын
@@GeorginasJourney is it private or open for subscribers , because i didn't find in description🤗
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