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OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) - A therapist's perspective and 10 top tips

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John Glanvill - Complex Anxiety Specialist

John Glanvill - Complex Anxiety Specialist

Күн бұрын

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@iliassarkis6672
@iliassarkis6672 Жыл бұрын
Such a great course! Loving every minute of it!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@JohnGeorge-pw2xo
@JohnGeorge-pw2xo 5 күн бұрын
I was severely traumatized years ago as a teenage, got diagnosed with OCD. Spent my whole life fighting OCD. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.
@MuratBasar-jm9lc
@MuratBasar-jm9lc 5 күн бұрын
I'm so very happy for you, Psilocybin is absolutely amazing, the way it shows you things, the way it teaches you things. I can not believe our world and our people shows less interest about it's helpfulness to humanity. It's love. The mushrooms heals people by showing the truth, it would be so beneficial for so many people, especially politicians and the rich who have lost their way and every other persons out there.
@ErnestoHorner88
@ErnestoHorner88 5 күн бұрын
Hey mates! Can you help with the source? I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help. Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Germany don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏
@DonnDenisse
@DonnDenisse 5 күн бұрын
YES very sure of Mr.medmushies. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, BPD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
@NetaZjdb
@NetaZjdb 5 күн бұрын
Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom. To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life. How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Never addictive. Thank you for sharing this point!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 күн бұрын
Things that help to expand your mind, so you are no longer run by your mind will usually help a person to break free from the negative patterns that have been trapping them. I have some views about depression here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fdylnaeX1d_YfZs.html
@anahijimenez2494
@anahijimenez2494 4 жыл бұрын
God bless those struggling💞✝️
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@TheAuntbean
@TheAuntbean 3 жыл бұрын
God Bless You! Jesus is with me. I couldn't of done this by myself.
@youngserg438
@youngserg438 Жыл бұрын
God bless u too
@windandcloudshadow158
@windandcloudshadow158 Жыл бұрын
Ty 😊.
@naolmelaku1583
@naolmelaku1583 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@Hello-qs3cl
@Hello-qs3cl 4 жыл бұрын
I think this video will change my life, thank you. It’s like someone made a video specifically for me and what I’ve been thinking about
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you like it, there are more in my channel. John
@samthomas6684
@samthomas6684 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Great!
@Poet_not_Pope
@Poet_not_Pope 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, sir! 😊
@lissaramirez3899
@lissaramirez3899 4 жыл бұрын
i get you 100% i suffer from intrusive thoughts and i know i will never act upon them but that make me feel scared
@sharonm3014
@sharonm3014 4 жыл бұрын
I am crying watching this. I am exhausted by all the rituals and covering them up.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
I know, it soul destroying and exhausting isn't it? But there is much you can do if you get the right information. Perhaps check these videos out too? Best wishes John Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html
@sharonm3014
@sharonm3014 4 жыл бұрын
Anxiety & OCD Discernment thank you. I will definitely check them out.
@nathanielrossi9659
@nathanielrossi9659 3 жыл бұрын
I literally had a mental breakdown the other day over ocd I feel your pain I don't know how this happened to me but it really sucks I'm trying though
@RikthDcruze
@RikthDcruze 3 жыл бұрын
A small tip... "Defy yourself!" Don't do what your brain tells you. "Disobey!" Show yourself the middle finger and grab a cool drink and chill like a boss...
@nathanielrossi9659
@nathanielrossi9659 3 жыл бұрын
@@RikthDcruze this sounds like much stress hehehe
@davem475
@davem475 6 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE and absolute genius !! YOU...described MY OCD almost to a TEE and...for the FIRST TIME in MY ENTIRE LIFE, gave me a NEW perspective on this miserable condition I have had most of my adult life !! You, are a TRUE GIFT and your pointing out that anxiety IS the ROOT cause and that ADDRESSING anxiety is the BEST way to get this miserable condition O-U-T of ones life is just PRICELESS !! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dave. When you separate the underlying anxiety from the OCD, good things happen. You then find the values and beliefs you have that are supported by the OCD and let them go too!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you - more information here, John. www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@andreElRuy
@andreElRuy 4 жыл бұрын
I was going to write exactly this but you were two years earlier. 😅
@a.o9656
@a.o9656 3 жыл бұрын
Yeap. I was AMAZED as I keep feeling like no one gets me and no one can help. I feel trapped and in a loop. I cried so much to this. I wish my partner could understand
@sll110
@sll110 3 жыл бұрын
same feeling here
@whooshair8150
@whooshair8150 6 жыл бұрын
i am so happy to be born in the 21st century, that such wonderful treatment videos r available
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you - I have an updated version of this here if you ate still interested? Do I have OCD? kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aLx0dJqrprzMXWQ.html
@TattooGames
@TattooGames 11 ай бұрын
I replaced my OCD in thoughts with cognitive awareness.... now I'm an expert at it. I was given a dose of 30mil of escitalopram (dangerous dosage) by a psychiatrist and weaned myself off them completely. Brazilian jiu-jitsu saved my life, now I'm complementing it with yoga, breathwork, walks in the park, eating clean, high water intake, less caffeine. I'm not a master of my own mind yet, but I will be some day. Breathwork (at least) should be a part of every person's daily routine. The mind can be conquered peeps, the intrusive thoughts can be irradicated and mental freedom can easily be enjoyed.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 11 ай бұрын
Wise words indeed - and very well done!
@jadewhitfield806
@jadewhitfield806 10 ай бұрын
You give everyone hope ❤️
@tulipbubbly3748
@tulipbubbly3748 6 ай бұрын
Please try daily deep breathing and meditation. It will cure you. It will be hard in start, but Don't give up. There is proof of brain scans that meditation can rewire our brains withing just 6 weeks. There are many types of meditation. Since you're a beginner, you should do some easy meditation, like transcendental meditation. I started it as a beginner and it was very good for instant focus.
@markrodgers1965
@markrodgers1965 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who has suffered and currently battling with ocd for 20 solid years there are a few things that have really helped out: 1. Fluoxetine medication 2.Meditation 3.walking/hiking 4.magnesium 5.vitamin D 6.zinc 7.calming Tea 8.this video
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you - 26 more videos are here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@tulipbubbly3748
@tulipbubbly3748 6 ай бұрын
Please try daily anulom vilom and meditation. It will cure you. It will be hard in start, but Don't give up. There is proof of brain scans that meditation can rewire our brains withing just 6 weeks. There are many types of meditation. Since you're a beginner, you should do some easy meditation, like transcendental meditation. I started it as a beginner and it was very good for instant focus.
@tonymoroc
@tonymoroc 4 жыл бұрын
Without any doubt this is one of the best video's I have ever seen on this subject. Your explanation is accurate and to the point. Really enjoyed watching it.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, you may like some of other videos in my channel too? John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@carterwayne4032
@carterwayne4032 4 жыл бұрын
Same here man
@vlad3685
@vlad3685 3 жыл бұрын
Agree
@chrismason1603
@chrismason1603 2 жыл бұрын
I have been in John's patreon course for the last 7 months and just have to say how much of a positive change it has made to me, before finding it I really thought that I was stuck with OCD. I am now anxiety free 95% of the day and my obsessive thinking has almost disappeared, they still come up but now with Johns teaching I know I don't have to try and find a solution, the solution is not thinking! I feel like a whole new person, it really is such an in depth and brilliant course and John makes so easy to watch and learn from! If you are feeling stuck and hopeless, give it a go! you really can make the changes you want!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 2 жыл бұрын
Cheers Chris, I am happy you are doing well mate.
@dsd6773
@dsd6773 Жыл бұрын
I'am suffering from OCD last 25 years,, now it becomes unbearable,, 😭😭 No medicine is working now,, can u help me anyhow? pls I'am a Bangladeshi girl
@lumwong7237
@lumwong7237 Жыл бұрын
Bless u ❤ I’m still suffering from ocd….seems can’t get rid of my thoughts
@slinkyandsteeve7406
@slinkyandsteeve7406 4 жыл бұрын
I recently went through terrible trauma and have noticed the development of these obsessive thoughts (first intrusive thoughts) in my mind. Initially, I wanted to admit myself to a hospital or something- I thought I was an awful human being for even considering harming someone I care about, even if I would never on my life go through with it. Then, with the help of videos like these, I started to regain a level of control and comfort over my reactions to these thoughts that I cannot control. Thank you for broaching this topic, and to anyone reading, YOU ARE NOT CRAZY! You are simply going through a period of difficulty and it WILL GET BETTER! Sending all the love your way!!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed, good advice - I have a video on trauma herekzfaq.info/get/bejne/g7yWdqZemMCdg6c.html John
@sherrimandel6983
@sherrimandel6983 Жыл бұрын
Psychedelic is the answer to most severe anxiety and depression...The use of magic mushrooms completely helps one get over depression and makes you feel like yourself...I used antidepressants for some years but it only made me feel like a zombie but with immediate use of mushroom 🍄 in few months I feel like I'm living a whole new Life.
@tessymitch
@tessymitch Жыл бұрын
Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety level .I would love to try to shrooms.
@hazeemakhan5301
@hazeemakhan5301 Жыл бұрын
I live in Michigan….suffering for awhile now but didnt realize how serious I may have it until recently - probably bc of @self medicating” with alcohol
@hazeemakhan5301
@hazeemakhan5301 Жыл бұрын
How do I contact him?
@ChloeNguyen-gs5hz
@ChloeNguyen-gs5hz Жыл бұрын
Saw some reviews about Myco_louiis checked him out and I must recommend he is good at what he does
@thomasmaxime2340
@thomasmaxime2340 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad myco_louiis is mentioned... I've been having severe depression for years now but I had to hit him up and got some of his products...they work like magic.
@Canonmentos
@Canonmentos 4 жыл бұрын
I've been living with extreme OCD forever. It is like a bully in your head.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
It's only a bully if you listen and believe it.
@maricarmen4887
@maricarmen4887 4 жыл бұрын
Canonmentos yup don’t feed the monster!
@azerty3557
@azerty3557 3 жыл бұрын
Me too I swear , i feellike there's somebody inside my head who keeps insulting me all the time
@nehanegi1817
@nehanegi1817 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn't have agreed with you more it's like your brain constantly working against you. It's tiring
@nehanegi1817
@nehanegi1817 3 жыл бұрын
@@azerty3557 my therapist told me this that it's our own critical voice. You need to stop listening to it and have faith in your own understanding of yourself
@actsrv9
@actsrv9 6 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. Best ever explanation of OCD. Here are some methods that work (long but very useful): When your own mind, which knows your darkest secrets turns on you, because it forgets to love itself (a basic characteristic of all living beings), it can bring untold misery - an enemy that knows more about you than you. Unconditional self-love works like a charm against OCD. Self-love brings unconditional security, which kills anxiety like light removes darkness. Love yourself unconditionally. OCD either forces you to a life of suffering or it makes you a liberal saint. OCD gives you your own deep embedded sociopath self out to sabotage you. But this personal inner sociopath melts at the touch of kindness, security and intimacy. Every animal, however ferocious with other animals, is always gentle with itself. Then why not you? Love yourself, be secure, and befriend your subconscious scheming sociopath monster with love. Hating him/her will only feed its manipulations and motivations. Embrace thy enemy. Ask "why? and "for whose benefit?" when the monster accuses and suggests crimes. Even the most sociopathic monster child breaks down in the face of unrelenting self-love. Absence of fear is fearlessness. But the opposite of fear is security and love. Shower yourself with it, all your selves, outer to innermost, innermost first, including the sociopath. Works like magic. Unconditional self-forgiveness is a major component of unconditional self-love. Digging up the past is repeating the same thought crimes. No human court or logical system does that. Why you? Guilt-tripping is half the disorder. Too much fake accusation and too much forced guilt where you are not guilty. Shaming and making you feel guilty is half the joy of the sociopath inside. Ask him/her why all the scheming, when everything is otherwise ok? It then boils down to perceiving wrongly pain as joy. Which is the the backbone of the socioapth's motivations. A normal self-loving sociopath does not inflict pain on himself/herself. Tell that to your inner sociopath. Talk to the inner sociopath every day. He/she can be reformed quickly with security and love.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you - these are all very true. John
@jerrydorneker1449
@jerrydorneker1449 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@melaninmeca7133
@melaninmeca7133 5 жыл бұрын
The Daves I Know thank you thank you so much for sharing, I really needed this and I’ll try to take into full consideration everything that you’ve written down 😁💯🤗
@Jherick5954
@Jherick5954 4 жыл бұрын
I cried 3 times while watching this video. It all made complete sense.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
There is much you can do to find calmness. John
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html
@fontofgod
@fontofgod 3 жыл бұрын
No,you just got fooled!
@Jherick5954
@Jherick5954 3 жыл бұрын
@@fontofgod lol not really. This vid helped me realize how badly I needed professional help. Now I take 40mg Prozac every day and I feel amazing :)
@ZaynPilot
@ZaynPilot 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jherick5954 it's that calming your mind? Where I can get prozac
@troydaniels936
@troydaniels936 4 жыл бұрын
Best OCD video I've seen.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jason, you might like the other ones in my channel too? John
@theabyss310
@theabyss310 4 жыл бұрын
This, even though I'm not diagnosed with OCD, was really helpful for dealing with some of my paranoia and vivid intrusive thoughts. Plus, this video calmed me down because you have a really soothing voice. Thank you so much!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I have other videos too in my channel you might like. Links are in the notes section. John
@spooooket
@spooooket 4 жыл бұрын
This is so well made! Finally someone who says something like “Pull yourself together”. I don’t have OCD myself but I’ve dealt with a lot of intrusive thoughts. So thank you!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you like it - thank you! John
@MrMrAzad
@MrMrAzad 4 жыл бұрын
OCD has ruined my life
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that, did you want my other videos, they may help?
@MrMrAzad
@MrMrAzad 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist yes, this video gave me hope, i havent felt it in a long time
@MCM4PR3Z
@MCM4PR3Z 3 жыл бұрын
I feel for you. I have a good life, but OCD ruined a lot of it too.
@babycora2583
@babycora2583 3 жыл бұрын
Same here.i already got this ten years it’s really painful 😥
@Skillsider07114
@Skillsider07114 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist i have ap severe problem of ocd 😢😢 plz my thoughts reuined my life plz help me thoughts of who i m
@lily-sr2gk
@lily-sr2gk 3 жыл бұрын
When I was a kid I was so confused why am I like this. Then I learned about OCD and I realized it's actually a thing and I'm not alone in this journey. There are people who understands me. I'm still going through it but I'm being more kind to myself than before.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you :-) www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@mariecashin2499
@mariecashin2499 6 жыл бұрын
This is the best short video I have come across on ocd. It explains so much and makes complete sense. It made me think about things I hadn't considered problems before. Excellent!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comments. John www.calmnessinmind.com
@naufalaftab8976
@naufalaftab8976 5 жыл бұрын
One among the best of all the youtube videos I've ever seen on self-rectification. A million thanks for this upload. :) :)
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
That is very kind of you to say, thank you. I am working on lots more videos that will be released over the coming months at www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@Stavros-yj2nt
@Stavros-yj2nt 4 жыл бұрын
In short words,your thoughts are not yours...just observe the thought and never relate yourself with them.The secret for a better life is to stop programming your life'just do what you have to do.for example,you want to finish a book or take your certificate,just do it!and stop that if...if that or that,what if,i am tired I can't etc.you go to gym?never say I'm tired or ah better tomorrow,just do it etc...sometimes we have fun,sometimes we work,sometimes we read,sometimes we go to the gym...life its life..do it!never schedule your life with question's or thought's...i struggle with the beast 8 years...i am on my way... sometimes i lose... that's my motivational quotes 👍👍👍
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comments. John
@cemaliyeyonluer3385
@cemaliyeyonluer3385 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this amazing and informative content. I honestly learned more from watching your 18-minute long video than I learnt in 6 years of 'therapy'. Thank you so much and God bless 🙏
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you - there are many more videos in my channel and in my course - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aLx0dJqrprzMXWQ.html
@cemaliyeyonluer3385
@cemaliyeyonluer3385 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist Will take a look now, thank you 🙏
@yashaswikulshreshtha1588
@yashaswikulshreshtha1588 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist I wanted to know if my friend can contact you? He had OCD many times and needed help, I think he had already contacted you on this video but he wanted me to try as I guess he didn't receive response. please let me know
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
@@yashaswikulshreshtha1588 - I try to reply to every response, I am not sure if he contacted me? My email is best john@johnglanvill.com
@RottenSet959000
@RottenSet959000 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this, like genuinely this has really given me such a better perspective on OCD and the roots of it, i literally began crying because of how nice it is to just hear someone talk about it who actually understands what it’s like to go through something so tough. thank you so much
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
You are so very welcome! There are more free videos in my youtube channel and I have a whole OCD course too (should you be interested?). Best wishes John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@lj9970
@lj9970 3 жыл бұрын
Are you a lucky guy
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
I have a lucky and thankful attitude to life - despite what happens to me. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@debra7998
@debra7998 4 жыл бұрын
I love you for putting this video up. I have terrible anxiety and after having children I had horrible thoughts. I'm exhausted fighting it everyday. Thank you
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is common and very scary just before or just after child birth fearing you may harm the child in some way. It's just OCD fear through your exhaustion from worrying too much. Check out my other videos as they will give you ideas to calm your mind. John
@debra7998
@debra7998 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist thank you so much your video helped me get a therapist at the age of 35. I googled you but I'm in scotland and your so far away x
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
I hope they can help, if not, I work via Skype (all over the world) as there are not too many people who specialise in OCD or have overcome it themselves. Glad you are getting help, best wishes John
@krackenkerr
@krackenkerr 4 жыл бұрын
For almost three years I've been doing OCD type stuff. I have a hard time believing in myself and my body. I clean everyday and disorder scares me. I hate going out for fear of something bad happening. This video has opened my eyes to the fact that this is not normal. Thank you so much and God bless.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped - I have a range of other videos too Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html John
@Darks
@Darks Жыл бұрын
you're a g for this my guy. suffering from this condition since a young age has taken a tremendous toll on my brain. i've had to learn so much to not live in misery, like i'm sure many people do unknowingly because they don't understand OCD. thank you!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist Жыл бұрын
] There is a way to rise above the conditioning of OCD and if you follow the course amazingly positive things can happen - www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@sethty
@sethty Жыл бұрын
I’ve been so lost and confused for over a year, I finally found so many things I can relate to with ocd, im finally discovering it all
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist Жыл бұрын
@@sethty It is very understandable and there is much you can do to become a calm person!
@chlocam4714
@chlocam4714 5 жыл бұрын
Best explanation of OCD I've ever seen (or read). Thank you!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you - you might like my recovery course here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist John
@mr.greenthumblawnresponse6782
@mr.greenthumblawnresponse6782 5 жыл бұрын
So here’s what I have learned you. Can cope. It is possible. I’ve never had this but after university, holy wow. Did this just ever come about.... I really think it boils down to circumstances of stress... because from what I can understand, stress creates anxiety which creates OCD. So keep yourself calm know that you will are in charge and will not do anything; because you do not have to believe everything your mind thinks.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
Your brain can be rewired - by facing fears (whilst 'consciously' pretending to be calm) repeatedly. You have to (consciously) talk slowly and softly, whilst relaxing your body, whilst facing your fears, repeatedly. Repeatedly. Repeatedly. Repeatedly. Repeatedly. Repeatedly. Repeatedly. www.johnglanvill.com
@sofiavega5167
@sofiavega5167 3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful video ! I have been battling with OCD for a while now and been trying to figure out a way to get rid of it , little did I know I was doing everything wrong , this video really helped me a lot ! Thank you so much ! Will keep watching your videos so I can better understand myself and OCD
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped a little. My whole course can be found here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist John
@charlottecannon1412
@charlottecannon1412 3 жыл бұрын
WOW WOW WOW THIS IS THE BEST THING EXPLAINED TO ME EVER! ITS LIKE I WANT TO DO STUFF LIKE TRAVEL WHEN IM OLDER AND I CANT WAIT LIKE I REALLY WANT TO GO PLACES BUT IM TOO SCARED AND ITS ANNOYING BUT OMG THIS HAS HELPED SO MUCH!!! THANK YOU!!!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
I have a whole course here for just $30 per year if you are interested? John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@mattbrazil18
@mattbrazil18 3 жыл бұрын
I have been dealing with this OCD for awhile now and it's nice to know that I'm not just no matter what a horrific person. These thoughts have tortured me and when I have had them I just break down and it's great that we have people who know about these mental disorders. Thank you!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
There are more videos in my channel and a whole course here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist - John
@skiddzie9291
@skiddzie9291 4 жыл бұрын
I'm kind of exhausted of normal people trying to protect the feelings of the mentally ill by saying "oh it's not a disorder its just different", it's a disorder because your brain isnt working the way it should be and it causes you immense discomfort. I'd love to see some healthy guy try out having OCD for a day and then seeing if he still doesnt think it's a disorder.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
I had OCD and depression and thought it was a disorder, I was wrong, it is a condition. Until people wake up to this they will always be in a victim perspective and something outside of you will need to be added to fix you! By thinking and reacting to life differently it actually changes your internal chemistry - it is well proven and simple to explain. Check it out www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist John
@maricarmen4887
@maricarmen4887 4 жыл бұрын
Aidan McHendry it’s not a disorder you’re just scared of your thoughts we need to fix that! My husband gets them too and he is not bother by them ! I am because I am a control freak lol
@adityabirajdar8095
@adityabirajdar8095 4 жыл бұрын
I had ocd few years ago after treatment i was finally able to get rid of it. But during this lockdown its comming back. But your voice is very relaxing.Thank you.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
When people get anxious they need to talk softly and calmly to themselves - I explain why in video number 3 in my youtube channel. John
@ambienteterrazas
@ambienteterrazas 3 жыл бұрын
After going to therapy i realized that since my childhood and early teens i developed ocd, it just wasn't life altering, i though it was normal to be like this, when my dad passed and witnessing him leaving us i went into a deep depression that somehow made my ocd explode, at the time i did not know what was going on and believed everything my ocd told me, i was going crazy, considered ending my life because the thought's where so strong and horrible and i believed i was transforming into this monster so i just could not live with that. After reading a lot on the subject, listening to podcast and most important, going to therapy i feel much better but i still have a long way to go. I love my life, love my wife, pets, job,traveling, surfing, camping,etc and ME and YOU dont deserve this!!!. If you are reading this there is hope, hold on to your life and your freedom, we will get through. There is a line in a song called Brain Damage by Pink Floyd that says "there is someone in my head but its not me" it perfectly describes whats going on but remember its NOT YOU, calm down, let the thought's in, dont give a fuck about them, go to therapy, its hard, some times the anxiety will sky rocket, but its way worth it.
@thelandof_nod
@thelandof_nod 4 жыл бұрын
I stumbled across this video while researching something for myself and I am sitting here, jaw hanging slack, absolutely dumbfounded. Over the last 15 years or so I have been gradually losing my younger sister to a cluster of the most perplexing, upsetting, frustrating, hurtful, and bizarre set of behaviors and speech. I feel like she has gradually morphed into something completely unrecognizable from the happy, goofy kid I grew up with. This video just gave me hope that she is not completely lost. Oh my goodness. I can’t believe I never saw it before. It explains EVERYTHING. The grumpy, harsh, worrying, controlling/presumptuous behavior, bizarrely abnormal, religiously influenced stiff and rigid way of talking and thinking, germ, cleanliness, and health obsessions, difficulties with work, difficulties with her husband, myself, and our parents, difficulties making and keeping friends, actual health problems and pain, overthinking, worrying about EVERYTHING.... It’s plain as day to me now that my little sister has OCD. I have taken notes on the video and sent it to my mom and I trepidatiously await morning so that I can approach my sister. Thank you SO MUCH for this practical and clear presentation. I hope and pray that she is receptive. She has been suffering so badly for so long. Thank you again.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
I hope your sister can find help as OCD can be managed with the right program, i have other videos in my channel that explain how to understand OCD that she might find useful. Best wishes John.
@andybakermusic
@andybakermusic 3 жыл бұрын
Just burst into tears as This. Is. Me. Thank the lord for this video, I’ve finally found a big piece of the puzzle of who I am.
@jackma72yearago99
@jackma72yearago99 3 жыл бұрын
I see you in the comment section about obsession
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you - you are just a complex personality and need to understand yourself better - that is what my course teaches if you are interested? John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@teancats2558
@teancats2558 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video I’m really REALLY struggling with my ocd during this lockdown - more so than I ever remember before. The same thought keep whirling around in my head and has been for weeks - since lockdown started. I’ve ruminated, I’ve researched, I’ve analysed every freaking detail of it and then analysed it again until I’ve observed the thought from every conceivable angle. Then I’ll think of a NEW angle to analyse it from and it will start all over again. It’s driving me absolutely nuts and it won’t stop. I’m exhausted, and because I’m not working I have nothing to distract myself from the thought and it’s just there. All. The. Time. Then of course the compulsions and rituals arise, which tire me out even more. I’ve never been so tired in my entire life.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
So frustrating isn't it? try these videos, they will give you a better idea of where you thoughts are coming from. John Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html
@Trekopolis
@Trekopolis 2 жыл бұрын
Our daughter developed OCD and intrusive thoughts more as she learned things during school. What we learn we can become afraid of and it depends on the person. When you were a toddler you'd walk off the edge of a skyscraper because you weren't aware of the danger. As we mature, what we learn can affect certain people and cause anxiety. That "fear" of certain things eventually causes more anxiety and OCD becomes a way for the brain to try and cope with it. You must understand your fears and work with a therapist to uncover why you have anxiety. Then, the OCD goes away, but it takes time to retrain the way you think. GET HELP as soon as you can because life should be fun! Like he mentioned in this video, find someone understands anxiety/OCD and begin a program. You will have to know your fears and expose those fears and once you know those things will not harm you, the fears will fade and so will the OCD. OCD is basically a common learned behavior that became a conditioned way of life due to fears. You can do this! Conquer your fears and enjoy the world around you. When you were a child you were probably fearless. Find that again. :)
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 2 жыл бұрын
Wise words! - John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@jimena6264
@jimena6264 4 жыл бұрын
OMG best video ever on OCD and anxiety!!!! Thank you for doing this video !!!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
My pleasure, you may wish to check out my other videos linked in the notes below this video - John
@Krigalishnikov
@Krigalishnikov 4 жыл бұрын
It explains what is OCD, tries to be as broad as possible then points to their patreon if you want to get help. That feels scammy since they are targeting a susceptible group, like a MLM or coaches, if we are sesrching this kind of video it usually means we are easily manipulated people.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry you feel this way. I am trying to provide a resource for $3 per month for people who cant afford professional therapy or help with OCD. The first three videos are free (links in notes under video) - I would welcome your thoughts on them and on my plan the help people. Thank you, John.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I am trying to make a living from doing this, but keeping the cost as low as possible so nearly everybody can join. I am also, trying to live my life inline with these videos (as best I can) so my anxiety and OCD never returns - so far, so good!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
If a person has OCD it means they are being easily manipulated by their own unconscious thoughts - I find this more scary and the pace to start when you are looking for change. John
@sixscalemafia
@sixscalemafia 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. This whole video is me. Thank you so much. I’m going to try to see someone soon as I can.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
Good for you, the quicker you get help the sooner you can get out of this fearful way for thinking and behaving. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@212dummies5
@212dummies5 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. My whole immediate family deals with OCD and I always told myself I didn't deal with it, but it really effects my day to day life in a way I never realized. So many people joke about it and don't seem to understand that it's more than just wanting things a certain way.This video was very informative and I really truly appriciate it.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Perhaps you and your family might like to watch these other videos together and discuss them? Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html John
@212dummies5
@212dummies5 4 жыл бұрын
Anxiety & OCD Discernment absolutely! Thank you!
@piercedliquidnipples
@piercedliquidnipples 3 жыл бұрын
I've been feeling miserable lately. It's like my brain doesn't let me enjoy life and I have no idea how to get through this. Your video described exactly most of the behaviour my mind goes through. I hope I can get some help with this it ain't easy finding a good therapist that knows exactly how to treat something like this. Thank you so much it gave me perspective and knowing my ocd I'd treatable gave me hope but I still have no idea how to proceed.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it is making sense. John - Anxiety & OCD Recovery Course introduction Video kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gpeYlteB2Zq1aJs.html
@mjgabor1528
@mjgabor1528 2 жыл бұрын
can you imagine being a child with ocd and in the 50's and 60's no where to get help even though you are smart enough to know what the disease is?
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 2 жыл бұрын
I can as this was me in the 60's and 70's! John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@lilithlevaykjeldahl5257
@lilithlevaykjeldahl5257 4 жыл бұрын
What a lovely, kind and not in-your-face manner. Friendly yet helpful. Thanks very much.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I am trying to take all my knowledge about anxiety and put it into a useful format that people can use to find more calmness. John HTTP://www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@stefcarter5592
@stefcarter5592 3 жыл бұрын
This has changed my life. Looking at your website now. Thank you very much.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it makes sense - I have a whole course of videos exploring finding more calmness. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@jcc-ve8mo
@jcc-ve8mo 4 жыл бұрын
That is the best video I've ever watched on OCD & Anxiety. A must watch
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you - many more videos in my channel and I have an OCD course too. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@e.c.3248
@e.c.3248 5 жыл бұрын
I watched this and am in tears because this made so much sense. This “ocd” guy in my brain likes to fuck with my relationships and social so much and i’ve been working on it on my own to recognize my unreal thoughts and this video feels like a massive step in the right way. i don’t usually write comments on youtube because they r pretty cringey but holy shit my mind has been blown out my asshole just having my own problem properly described to me in an accent that isn’t mine
@lukethebot4664
@lukethebot4664 4 жыл бұрын
My own brain is turning against me how could this be 😭😭
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
It's just an organ in your head, not you. It thinks it is helping you but it is the wrong kind of help. Watch my other numbered videos (links in the notes section under the video) and they will show you what is happening. Best wishes John
@lukethebot4664
@lukethebot4664 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist thank you my friend
@Ajayhanand
@Ajayhanand 3 жыл бұрын
Luke, walk for 45 minutes a day ,don't run ,jog in the start. Just walk(45 minutes and cycle (15 minutes ) ,if yiu don't have have cycle don't worry but just walk for 45 minutes and slowly increase 5 minutes a day
@thebagelboyjr9351
@thebagelboyjr9351 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ajayhanand Great advice, I have some pretty bad ocd myself. Exercise is the one thing that has helped me. I find myself calmer and less anxious after exercise.
@Ajayhanand
@Ajayhanand 3 жыл бұрын
@@thebagelboyjr9351 try yoga too, cut off sugars , carbs
@michaelsaunders6923
@michaelsaunders6923 4 жыл бұрын
So informative,no psychobabble,just straight foreward explanation covering all aspects ,brilliant
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, there are lots of other videos in my KZfaq channel you may like. John
@alishafzh9880
@alishafzh9880 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing confidence into my life. Thank you for helping us through your videos. Stay healthy. May your life be filled with peace and happiness. 😊
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much. Johnwww.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@user-qn3hx6kl1v
@user-qn3hx6kl1v 3 жыл бұрын
I am an ocd patient. But trying to cope with it. It made me happy to know that i reallh had a problem and my problem is recognised the first time i shared it with my psychiatrist.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped a little. I have many many more videos in my course that may help accelerate your recovery - Best wishes John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@04822212839
@04822212839 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro! I'm suffering ocd now! Hope this will help me a lot to recover!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 2 жыл бұрын
This video may help too kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aLx0dJqrprzMXWQ.html best wishes for your recovery - John
@elainevandort7258
@elainevandort7258 4 жыл бұрын
This is the most accurate description of OCD I've listened to. Very helpful. Thank you.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Cool! You might also like my other videos, listed in the notes section below the video. John
@sam-mw2zb
@sam-mw2zb 3 жыл бұрын
This man has helped so many people keep up the good work
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you - www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@MrAug80
@MrAug80 5 жыл бұрын
This is an excellent guide. Thank you so much for posting this up. I have a far better idea what has been wrong with me all these years.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your feedback. Lots more videos on my channel. John
@ryo2271
@ryo2271 4 жыл бұрын
I have all of these symptoms. currently trying to make an appointment w a therapist. I can’t live like this anymore, it’s been a decade. thank you for this video. makes me feel less like a freak.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you I am trying to put all of my therapist knowledge into low cost videos. John
@philletsubu
@philletsubu 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks John I had OCD as an adolescent but was able to get therapy to help me deal with underlying anxieties and emotional conflict that was giving rise to it. I am now a psychotherapist that helps people with this disorder. You are definitely on the right track here. I saw a video recently that told people that there was nothing they could do to stop OCD thoughts and they just had to live with them and observe them. This was without giving them any advice about anxiety or emotional trauma that would be giving rise to the condition. I thought the video was traumatising. I'm glad your out there.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Philip - I am trying to put all my knowledge into a very low cost video series to help people who can't afford to pay for therapy. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@bach907
@bach907 4 жыл бұрын
I had OCD from around age 16 making sure everything was turned off in my home when I leave because of the fear of a fire starting and the animals I own burning to death because of actions I didn't take to protect them. Recently I've developed pure o and have been having the most disturbing instrusive thoughts. Thoughts that went against my morals and made me feel depressed and eventually caused a mental breakdown. I've been meditating recently and learning to not believe every thought that occurs in my mind and only choose thoughts that empower me. Once you start living in the present moment life becomes alot clearer.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
It does, I talk about that here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/frKgnLRoydXIo4k.html John
@swatiperiwal6001
@swatiperiwal6001 3 жыл бұрын
Really helped a lot in changing my perspective about OCD.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Good, because OCD is really sneaky - John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@kategareau4752
@kategareau4752 5 жыл бұрын
This video really was helpful, I was at a counsellor to help me with Intrusive and compulsive thoughts and am gonna keep going to them because even after one day of being told I’m not crazy or I shouldn’t feel bad about thoughts is really helping. I feel like I understand more about OCD and can try to controll and recognize it more.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
I have some more videos in my KZfaq channel, that might give you some new perspectives.
@sebraes4230
@sebraes4230 3 жыл бұрын
I am following Johns course and i must say it changed my life with ocd. The insight and knowledge he has is amazing.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@akshayakrishnan8987
@akshayakrishnan8987 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you. I have had these recurring thoughts that I've always thought to be bad suddenly, and it made me feel super bad about myself. This video was very beneficial!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thoughts are not reality! This might help? Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html John
@tonyyero7231
@tonyyero7231 4 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT! I have self diagnosed myself with OCD since the age of 13, now 56! After reading lots of books on the subject, this video is one of the best! I have never taken meds but learned to live with this LIAR we call OCD! Great video!! KUDOS!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Man - I have some OCD recovery videos too.
@xabier1375
@xabier1375 5 жыл бұрын
My personal experience tells me that you CAN ABSOLUTELy get over OCD. I expereinced it for 3 years. After that I lived the best 3 years of my whole life. However, after a very stressful year, and breaking up with my girlfriend (well, ex girlfriend), I have relapsed, and as the video says at the end, OCD makes you doubt EVERYTHING, and it will make you doubt about even the things you love the most... At first I experienced fear of being gay (when I was 17)... Now, I am obsessed with my past... The possitive part of this relapse is that I am getting to know myself even more and more. I am doubting things that, of course, are stupid... But my problem has been that my therapists don't adress my anxiety, they refuse to give me medication, which I think is very important: in my case, if there's no anxiety, there are fewer chances for me to start the process of thinking and thinking and thinking. I don't have physical compulsions, they are just mental, cheking if what I remember is actually true. I am obsessed with whether I really loved my ex-gf... And makes me suffer so much. However I want to tell you (and myself) that you can get over this, and when you get over it you will enjoy life more than other people, you will find the value of little thigns, trust me, YOU WILL GET OVER IT, AND IT WILL BE AMAZING!
@iyaneki4827
@iyaneki4827 5 жыл бұрын
Hey bro glad I meet u, it's hocd, I'm suffering that too like gay thoughts eventho we truly believe we're not, u mind if u tell me ur Instagram?
@xabier1375
@xabier1375 5 жыл бұрын
Iyan Eki hey bro!! Of course we're not. As I said I got over that. You can get over it. I haven't had a thought like that for almost 4 years now. Now my obsession is different, I doubt of my past... I have to constantly check if what I remember is true.... so what I'm sayisng is that it's all OCD. You will doubt. Just doubt. No matter what. We have to learn to let our thoughts come and go.... thoughts don't mean anything. It seems easy but it's actually very difficult hehe. Sorry but I prefer not to share my insta. Greetings!
@iyaneki4827
@iyaneki4827 5 жыл бұрын
Hey bro u can add my insta = dwiyulianto67 (the profile picture is 2 black kids, haha), I really need the details how u did
@iyaneki4827
@iyaneki4827 5 жыл бұрын
@@xabier1375 hey bro but when anxietyn is spike, it's just really hard to get rid of
@iyaneki4827
@iyaneki4827 5 жыл бұрын
@@xabier1375 hey bro or add my second insta account = business_n_happening
@retrox64games
@retrox64games 3 жыл бұрын
What i have noticed more with ocd is that, it can create "puzzles" that have no logic and make no sense, and you feel as if you solve it, then you will feel better or make the anxiety or uncomfortable thoughts go away, for me I have noticed I no longer have anxiety, but my mind still creates these loops, with no real solution, so no matter what you do or say, it will give you a different disturbing thought, making you feel annoyed, inconvenienced, and confused. I finally got tired of wasting so much time trying to think my way out, or come up with a solution, so I simply practice what john teaches, and that is to not give the thoughts any meaning! This seems to be more difficult at first, but eventually when you get the hang of it, starts to get easier to dismiss them! Thanks John!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
You are welcomne!
@ridam9768
@ridam9768 4 жыл бұрын
My brain is constantly flooded with negative thoughts... If I'll not touch the switch then maybe the electrical appliance will catch fire... I'm constantly worrying about my loved one's life... That they may get depressed about something I did and they'll die and I'll not be able to get over that (whether it's my mistake or not)... It's just a whole mess in my brain I need constant reassurance... Help
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Classic OCD negative thinking. This scenario usually has associated perspectives such as, feeling excessive responsibility, low self-esteem and co-dependency. Rather than working on the OCD (which is a symptom) you need to be working on those other aspects of your personality if you want real change in your life. John
@ridam9768
@ridam9768 4 жыл бұрын
Will do. Thank you.
@okidoki3201
@okidoki3201 4 жыл бұрын
Go keto
@premnikz
@premnikz 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving me a new way of thinking, ocd is just so painful and time consuming i cant handle those thoughts, brain is just a thing in your head. Take what is good leave else
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
Like I replied to someone else on this forum, close your eyes and count how many thoughts happen in your head in 30 seconds. Let's say you count 8. So, who are you? The one making the thoughts or the one counting the thoughts? Of course, you are the observer of the thoughts!
@brindamallik6302
@brindamallik6302 5 жыл бұрын
Hi John . Like ur video n guidance . How can anyone contact u in UK for treatment to get rid of ocd ? Kindly reply sir
@franciscaleon7621
@franciscaleon7621 4 жыл бұрын
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. Submit to him and he will make your path straight.”
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Plus you can help the Lord by learning more about yourself - so his work can act faster on you :-) Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html John
@franciscaleon7621
@franciscaleon7621 4 жыл бұрын
Anxiety & OCD Discernment I didn’t want to watch those videos because of fear, but I did anyways, Nd it helped me a bit. How can we get more information?
@zain4019
@zain4019 4 жыл бұрын
You MUST act. Trust, have faith, yes. It can be tremendously healing to the human soul- but you must do the hard work as well.
@aminasow5431
@aminasow5431 4 жыл бұрын
I used to have them but it stoped and today it came back
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you, that took a lot of faith. I have another 11 videos (plus I add a new one each month) here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist Best wishes John
@lidialam1591
@lidialam1591 3 жыл бұрын
Whoever is strugling with anxiety or ocd needs to watch this video. This is a very helpful therapy program. Whether you suffer from it or you know someone. Please share this video with them. It is a very comprehensive and instrutional course. But over all John shares very effective technics .
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you :-) - www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@realman2010
@realman2010 2 жыл бұрын
Your video give me breath and hope. Please never delete this video. it should be forever. I beg you
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you - I will keep it here! You might like this video too kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aLx0dJqrprzMXWQ.html John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@feelsokayman3959
@feelsokayman3959 3 жыл бұрын
If you have OCD (compulsions and/or intrusive thoughts) do these two things consequently and your compulsions and intrusive thoughts WILL 100% get better or maybe even completely vanish if you do it long enough: Meditate daily (ideally 30-60+ minutes, I recommend Vipassana, which is simply putting your Awareness on your breath) and constantly practice Awareness throughout the entire day. Practicing Awareness means simply observing your thoughts and compulsions in a distanced and detached way. You have to realize that you ARE the observer/the Awareness and not the observed thoughts and compulsions. Do not identify with your thoughts and compulsions and simply observe them from a distance. Intrusive thoughts and compulsions are randomly generated and you have absolutely 0 control over them, but you have the power of being able to ignore them and not worry about them. Fully accept and welcome all thoughts and compulsions, no matter how strange or disturbing they may be. Never feel ashamed, disgusted or shocked, this fuels intrusive thoughts and compulsions immensely. Compulsions and intrusive thoughts thrive on the attention and meaning you give to them. Meditating is gonna be extremely hard at first, but don't be discouraged, it will become easier and easier the more you meditate and practice Awareness. The goal would be to remain in Awareness 24/7, which would make you completely invulnerable to all compulsions and intrusive thoughts. Wishing you all the best 😊❤
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice, I did the Vipassana and it was a life changer! John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@nazz5315
@nazz5315 3 жыл бұрын
Bro i have hocd will meditating 1 hr a day for 2 to 3 months help me to get out of this??
@feelsokayman3959
@feelsokayman3959 3 жыл бұрын
@@nazz5315 YES! 😊
@nazz5315
@nazz5315 3 жыл бұрын
@@feelsokayman3959 man thank you so much we ...will fight all the time And will never give up on this shit
@feelsokayman3959
@feelsokayman3959 3 жыл бұрын
@@nazz5315 it is very hard for me too but yes we will get through this shit man 💪😊
@sarahr9816
@sarahr9816 4 жыл бұрын
I agree best explanation I have come across. All of it makes complete sense and I’ve had examples of all of it!!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I have a lot more videos on my patreon page that might interest you? John
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Barbara, although I am not making a video on responsibility OCD (because this is a symptom) my patreon video course does teach you how to work on the causes, which in your case is probably guilt.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Well, guilt is a huge topic. Basically, it is the difference between what you do (or think) compared with what you think (or were trained to think) you "ought" to do in any moment. Then you beat yourself up for not doing what you think you "ought" to do! Which is basically self-abuse because nobody is making that comparison except yourself. Plus, when you are doing the beat yourself up guilt trip, the thing you did (or didn't do) has already been done. So, really it is a self-abusive waste of time trying to live up to somebody else's expectation of who you "ought" to be. It's exhausting and leads nowhere - except anxiety and depression. A better question to ponder is.... Which part of you is beating up which another part of you? And the answer is, your inner judge is beating up your inner victim, then your inner pleaser is trying to make everyone happy, which makes your inner rebel really angry - and so it goes on automatically within your subconscious mind until you can see that you are doing this to yourself without releasing! The path to freedom is radical honesty (or silence) and not being horrible to yourself. Winston Churchill famously said "What anyone else thinks of me is none of my business...!" If your friend looks fat, tell her or be silent - but don't lie! If a friend asks you if you are OK (and you are not), say you are not, its just the truth. But if you lie she will think you are OK and then you might be angry that she can't see you are unhappy - but you told her you were OK!!!! I teach people ways to understand themselves and others - so they can find more calmness inside. Much of this was all installed within our brain during childhood - but it can be changed if you put some effort in. John
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
See the overwhelm as a good thing, like stuck trauma finally being released from the cells of your body after all these years, don't resist your emotions - let them come up. John
@heljen
@heljen 4 жыл бұрын
l agree, best explanation l have found! Now l know why l act like l have and my healing allready started :)
@michellemaria71
@michellemaria71 3 жыл бұрын
What a calming voice this man has ✅ I’ve had a lot of therapy and I have learned a lot from this video! I have had OCD since being a child and I struggle even after therapy - even with the ‘tools’. Most people aren’t aware that OCD is about intrusive thoughts/compulsions - they assume you have to be cleaning a lot. I do clean a lot - I always wondered why but it’s just been clarified. I clean because it keeps my mind busy and therefore free from OCD (that’s the plan), and to take energy up (away from OCD), and lastly because I need (or the OCD does) order. The question I’ve always had is - why do I have OCD? I guess it’s different for most people but there must be a general reason. I have a narcissistic mother who has made my life hell and still tries to even though I’m 49, I think this is my reason. I had an unhappy childhood full of anxiety and stress and fear. I also suffer badly with chronic pain, caused by a dentist 10 years ago and subsequently have fibromyalgia. Any kind of emotional stress makes the pain worse yet I can’t stop the OCD. This video will help me, thank you very much.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Hi - thanks for you nice words. Here is a video from my OCD course that might interest you? The topic is very contentious (so please keep an open mind) but it may answer some very deep questions, especially with respect to your pain - John Video 12 from the OCD recovery Course - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iLpziJClvMm7dIE.html
@michellemaria71
@michellemaria71 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist Thank you for your reply 😊 I’ve watched the video it’s very helpful, also I am very empathic! I didn’t explain - the dentist damaged my jaw, I have a bad case of tmj - extreme head pain, even talking starts it off. The doctors explained that being in severe pain, my brain re-wired itself hence fibromyalgia. I also have migraine, they’re hell but this head pain leaves them standing and at least they go with the prescriptions. That aside, I believe and agree with all you say, I think I could somehow help ease the pain - stress makes it worse, but nothing magical happens when I’m calm!! I appreciate your help very much. I would like my life back so very much, what’s left of it!! I think fibromyalgia will be detected at some point - diabetes wasn’t detected in Victorian times for example, and fibro was called rheumatism for a long time. Thank you again, mindset is very important, I’m so pleased I stumbled on you 😊
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it makes some sense - nobody has all the answers! My course is only $3 per month and there are 19 videos in there (just writing the 20th one this week) I am trying to make it as affordable as possible as good therapy is so expensive these days! It may give you new ways to ease your anxiety? John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@michellemaria71
@michellemaria71 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist Hi thank you I will look, I didn’t receive a notification that you had replied. Thanks again.
@ayandagamedze8715
@ayandagamedze8715 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate having stumbled upon this. Having been socialised in religious/spiritual communities, I was taught that "my thoughts manifest my reality" without any real context on my obsessive thoughts reflecting underlying anxiety and unconscious patterns of behaviour. Telling my mind that it is the sole creator of my life resulted in me trying desperately to control my thoughts with other thoughts. It's been exhausting, and I'm grateful for this sort of insight.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Well - sad thoughts generate sad emotions and happy thought generate happy emotions, regardless of the truth of what is happening around you. However, anxious people need the world to be different so they feel good. Happy people have an attitude of happiness, optimism and trust. Did you watch videos 1, 2 and 3 in my youtube channel? They start to explain how this works. Best wishes John.
@jesshodges3717
@jesshodges3717 4 жыл бұрын
i’m literally going through the same thing. Learning about law of attraction and manifestation too! glad to hear i’m not the only one
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
What most people fail to recognise about the law of attraction are... Firstly, the level of consciousness of the person affects how much energy is available for them to collapse the waveform of potentiality into actuality. And secondly, the person needs to be at a corresponding consciousness for what they are asking for. It's no use asking for a confident and funny partner if you are an anxious and nervous person. The best person to explain this is Dr David R Hawkins and his map of consciousness, it is fascinating and explains so much! Best wishes. John
@ayandagamedze8715
@ayandagamedze8715 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist hi again John. I am going through your videos and I've found them super helpful so thank you 🙏 with regards to your response on my earlier comment, I completely hear you. It is only that, when you have anxiety that pops up as obsessive and deeply upsetting thoughts, it's quite disturbing for people to tell you to "quickly switch them off otherwise they will come true". So I totally hear and value your response, and your videos have, in fact, helped me to begin to turn my thoughts around. Baby steps 😅 but knowing, as you put it, that I am not my thoughts (as my thoughts themselves suggest), really puts me at ease. I get a bit panicked when this happens, out of the need to control my thoughts, but I'm quite chuffed to be able to push through those moments! 😊
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
That is a huge step forward - good for you and very well done! John
@villanuevabernadette6552
@villanuevabernadette6552 4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! I get intrusive thoughts like past few days and now I know how to 'let go' of that thought and not to take my thought personally. THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome - lots more video here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist John
@anthonycarrilo5370
@anthonycarrilo5370 3 жыл бұрын
How do u feel?
@leahleeleoni9002
@leahleeleoni9002 5 жыл бұрын
I have G.A.D ( Generalized ANXIETY Disorder ) I would rather go out than stay home ,. I talk to people ,have coffee ,ect. Getting out of the house actually relieves my ANXIETY, because I'm not constantly thinking...
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
For a few the role is reversed - normally if at home it is very lonely or abusive / critical in some way.
@angeliqueloman7392
@angeliqueloman7392 3 жыл бұрын
all I can say is this course made me get on with my live, I'm stil not totally comfortable but I learned a lot and made progress. I'm looking forward to me accepting and leaving the past behind, not getting in to story's and feeling more calm. I'm thankful for you wanting to teach ♡
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words - John
@nikkydemorales
@nikkydemorales 4 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful as I have someone in my life with OCD. I had done some research prior to meeting this person so I knew some of these things already. Thank you for helping me better understand them and to have the tools to aid. :)
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
No problem, I have a lot of people watching my OCD recovery series of videos as carers or partners who want to know how best to 'handle / help' them. John
@yeahright6021
@yeahright6021 2 жыл бұрын
You just have to belive and have faith that once again you’ll be alright brothers and sisters. Its not easy, its by far the hardest thing i have had to deal with my whole life. Try your best not to engage in the thoughts or analyze what your mind is ”trying to telling you”, they’re are all just lies fueld with fear. Some people probably experience the same things without even knowing or they might even notice but just dont care enough to bother engaging in it. But you’re aware and you have good heart. You just live in a world full of weak minded people. Not the ones who suffer, but the ones who choose to follow evil. No matter how real the situation gets, it cant hurt you. And Even tho it feels like it gets worse every time, it will get better, i promise. The relief will be much greater and You will experience life like you never have before. Just have faith that one day You Will find yourself looking back at this time in your life, and you will be at ease. Keep moving forward and never give up, one day you will be taken care of and you will be rewarded for your patience 💛🙏💛🤲
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your input!
@pavithrajanarsan1940
@pavithrajanarsan1940 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the encouragement ❤
@right..5651
@right..5651 Жыл бұрын
​@@pavithrajanarsan1940 ❤
@dimitrapapagianni9907
@dimitrapapagianni9907 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you !so satisfied when i read and heart that it is possible to overome and it can be unprogrammed :)
@sahelibiswas3128
@sahelibiswas3128 5 жыл бұрын
Dimitra Papagianni have u overcome ?
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome. John
@corbansamanthaklassen5118
@corbansamanthaklassen5118 4 жыл бұрын
The "Technical Loner" I never liked being labeled but this... Wow. Got me
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Just a label, there is much you can do - perhaps check out my other videos? John
@erinmay5283
@erinmay5283 4 жыл бұрын
This video made me feel so much better about some things that I experience in my daily life. I was diagnosed with OCD when I was 8 (almost 12 years ago), and although I had a good idea of what having OCD entails, I had no idea that some of my seemingly random (and infuriating) habits could possibly be caused by my OCD. When he said that some people with OCD can be very controlling of other people close to them because they need things to be a certain way, it clicked for me. I feel like I am constantly unsatisfied with the way my partner carries out certain tasks like cleaning, organizing, remembering to do things, etc. I always have to ask him if he did something a certain way if he remembered to do something, or I just end up doing the task for him or redoing it to avoid the anxiety it brings. This makes him feel upset and makes me feel upset too because I cannot help that I need things done a certain way and he feels like when he does things "it's not good enough". I feel guilty a lot and lately, I just do things myself instead of asking him to do things. I never knew that this could possibly be because of my OCD.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, OCD is very sneaky and controlling. Perhaps it is time to begin trusting? John Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html
@namrata9277
@namrata9277 3 жыл бұрын
KZfaq knows more about me then my family!!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
They probably do! Buy OCD id very predictable too. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@jannahsweetie283
@jannahsweetie283 4 жыл бұрын
You really can overcome this OCD, slowly but surely you can have a good quality of life.😊
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Yes you can, if you are shown what to do and do the work! John
@happysoul7688
@happysoul7688 3 жыл бұрын
I CANNOT THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR THID VIDEO!!!! So much invaluable information!!!!!!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it, I have another 20 here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist best wishes John
@Eve90
@Eve90 4 жыл бұрын
wow...amazing! Thank you so much. I feel like crying. I have never felt this understood before.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it makes sense - my course is here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist and it is only $3 per month! John
@dummydumb707
@dummydumb707 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much for giving hope in darkness ❤️ i have recovered 💞
@leonledergerber6142
@leonledergerber6142 5 жыл бұрын
i think i got OCD from an severe panic attack while smoking weed, i couldnt stop thinking about bad things, and i tried to stop it therefore it became even worse, but i did beat it, i learned to calm myself down, and tell myself that this is not who i truly am, telling myself that all the time programmed my subconcious mind i think and helped me to not have negative thaughts again , hope that helps people, if it just helps one person out there, than this was already worth it, if youre reading this, i sent you blessings and know that god is with you you just need to ask him for help. Thats all it takes.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
Well done, you did the right thing.
@georowell9054
@georowell9054 5 жыл бұрын
BRO! i'M GOING THROUGH THE EXACT SAME THING AND IT'S PISSING ME OFFFFFFF! I had a panic attack so severe that I had to go to the ER. It's been playing such a big part in why I have hallucinations and extreme thoughts. I am currently doing the same thing, just trying to keep calm and remind myself that this is all just a phase and it will go away.
@georowell9054
@georowell9054 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for posting this. I have faith now. People don't know how bad weed can really be for you.
@bethinnerst8903
@bethinnerst8903 4 жыл бұрын
I have struggled with OCD for 54 years, it used to come and go, blinking of my eyes is what I do, from a trauma when I was 5 years old. Now at 59, it just seems to be getting worse. I loved the video, thank you, I never thought about the things you said. Thank you so much.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for you feedback - you may like these videos too? Best wishes John OCD in 3 minutes kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a61had1y3a6ykn0.html Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html
@ann6653
@ann6653 3 жыл бұрын
Watching these kind of videos is part of my complusions... I feel better when I get informations about my condition, when I know that my thoughts are not true.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Well, it is good to have a compulsion that may guide you to your recovery :-) John kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gpeYlteB2Zq1aJs.html
@ann6653
@ann6653 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist You are right! Thank you for these videos.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
Good stuff - loads more here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist John
@dishadhouliyan5190
@dishadhouliyan5190 3 жыл бұрын
haha agree. And ocd are of many types.
@UCSMJCKA
@UCSMJCKA 5 жыл бұрын
I want to just be happy and get pleasure in living a normal life with everyday basic things. My mind is constantly processing a thought and it’s been over 12 years now I am 30 and literally sick and tired of this. I end up wasting my time by distracting myself with KZfaq videos instead of doing something thoughtful. I checked that low level of Testosterone and vitamin D deficiency can give you symptoms like OCD I am going to join you on Patreon & lots of love for helping people ❤️
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comments, OCD is not caused by low testosterone or vitamin D deficiency - those problems may cause certain physical symptoms - and how you respond to those feelings and life may be classed as anxious and how you respond to avoiding the anxiety is what OCD is. Please do join me at patreon where video 5 and video 6 of the calmness in mind OCD recovery program will be launched soon. www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist John
@jeremy1069fm
@jeremy1069fm 5 жыл бұрын
I hear you. I’m 32 and have been stuck with this since I was 19.
@yolandamartinez4161
@yolandamartinez4161 5 жыл бұрын
@@jeremy1069fm same here I've been dealing with this since I was 18 I'm now 40😫 its so annoying good thing it comes and goes.
@cindybonilla9416
@cindybonilla9416 4 жыл бұрын
This video made me cry..so many of my questions were answered that I have been asking myself for years. Why am I like this? Why am I so controlling? Why do I get angry at X reason? Etc. When I was diagnosed with OCD I felt some sort of relief to know that there was a reason behind my irregular and frustrating behavior. That I’m not the only one that goes through this. I always thought OCD was just a fear of germs and a constant need to be clean. But it’s so much more than that and it’s not an easy thing to deal with. I’ve been passed around from provider to provider and I gave up on therapists because I was spending so much money on telling someone I’m “doing better than last week”. For some crazy reason I feel like I don’t want to get rid of my OCD (because I feel like I HAVE to always go through with my compulsions..although extremely annoying and frustrating), this video helped me more than my visits and I feel that I will do better in the future. Thank you.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Thinking you don't want to get rid of the OCD is part of the OCD, it is very sneaky. For more information click on the coloured head logo, in the bottom left corner of the video. Pick the video tab, then watch the first three numbered videos in my youtube channel. If you like what I am teaching you may wish to join my patreon community, where I make videos that teach you how to unravel yourself. John
@colesullivan9659
@colesullivan9659 4 жыл бұрын
I connected to all of the parts of ocd you explained in this video. I never realized how severe it was, it is holding me back from really enjoying life. I spend way too much time worrying and not enough time being calm, I need to act to help improve my life.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Perhaps you can start here? Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html
@awesomedude3times
@awesomedude3times 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. It really helps me to break down my OCD. May you have more videos and resources to help many more people. God Bless You Cheers!
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you - I do have more videos (links in the notes below this video) and an online OCD recovery program. John
@dsk3401
@dsk3401 4 жыл бұрын
I had it a few years ago ( not completely out but a lot lot better now) Books and friends helped me get out of it. Plus I used to do this when experiencing ocd: Ask yourself that what would happen if you didn't respond to this disease( whichever ocd it is). That, would something really bad happen to you? Now pull up yourself and don't do the ocd activity. See? You won't die even if you don't It will take time to get over like this but it worked for me. I hope it does for you too. And always be positive.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@dsk3401
@dsk3401 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist Thanks😊
@dianaake1991
@dianaake1991 3 жыл бұрын
Did you have suicide tbemed ocd? Harm ocd but self harm instead of harm to others?
@dsk3401
@dsk3401 3 жыл бұрын
@@dianaake1991 religious one
@muhammadalieesaa3379
@muhammadalieesaa3379 3 жыл бұрын
This pandemic doesn't help.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 3 жыл бұрын
True - but you can look at in two ways. 1. It is horrible. 2. How can I use it as ERP to help me let go and grow? Changing attitude is such a big part of letting go of anxiety and OCD! Best wishes John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
@Th3M0nst3rs3y3
@Th3M0nst3rs3y3 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for explaining this topic so well. I'm a teenager with OCD and this really explanation really helps me rationalize my thoughts and understand my condition better. Once again, thank you for making this video it's been really difficult and hopefully with this nudge in the right direction, I'll know where to go from here. Thanks.
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist
@TheComplexAnxietySpecialist 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped a little - there are some more if it helps? John Video 1 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pL6bapiW39G2e2g.html Video 2kzfaq.info/get/bejne/r66VnbaX183DmXk.html Video 3 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sMxhfZeH3NDLaY0.html
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