Anxious Attachment Style And No Contact Rule

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Anxious Attachment Style And No Contact Rule
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So if your ex has an anxious attachment style, how are they likely to respond to the no-contact rule? And should you use the no-contact rule at all with someone who has an anxious attachment style? We're going to get into this, and I'm also gonna tell you a personal story from my life because I believe that my big ex from the past was what you might consider an anxiously attached person. And I did no contact with her, and I think that her response is probably pretty, uh, typical of someone who has an anxious attachment style.
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@user-kl9th4dm2y 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for humanizing the person and not reducing all of human nature to a couple of newfangled attachment styles. I see this A LOT on tik Tok and KZfaq and it results in treating people as malfunctioning objects and not dynamic and complex beings capable of change and evolution. It's causing a lot of people to dismiss or discard valuable relationships that could be preserved with the right methodology. Thanks, Clay.

@xXxChaoticXx 8 күн бұрын

No contact after a breakup; unless she reaches out. Then refuse friendship and let her know you’re only interested in romance. Unless you want to torture yourself seeing her move on and be intimate with someone else.

@adriangarcia9085 6 ай бұрын

Great video

@snowgirl5414 Жыл бұрын

Hey clay. I would appreciate it if you made a video on not letting your close ones discourage you in your journey with an ex. Thanks!

@JuanFilipe-pn3gs 7 ай бұрын

And if the anxious ex has a rebound and is on a 1 month vacation with the rebound less than a month after the breakup ... Can my ex come back or will they just get attached to the new partner and move on?

@robubik670 3 ай бұрын

Would love an answer to this. Do you have any update on your situation?

@RenegadeFem 12 күн бұрын

My ex broke up a month ago. She’s never ignored my texts but, she’s told me she can’t do the cycle with me anymore and told me she’s never coming back and for me to let go of the relationship. She’s been consistent and stern with that. She has said she still loves and misses me but that doesn’t mean we should be together. It’s been really difficult, almost 3 years and I just feel wrecked. I have been in therapy and reading and doing all I can. But it feels pretty hopeless and I just can’t reach out anymore when she no longer wants me. I wish things could have been different.