"I'm only as content as I am connected to the Lord" love that line! Thank you ladies for sharing and encouraging

I’m a Christian man and is 32 and never been in a relationship my whole life. I’ve questioned God so many times the same way you ladies do as well. Like what about me? Am I ugly? Or what’s wrong with me? But you guys nailed it with that bible verse in the end with his thoughts are higher and his plans are far greater. I do hope one day God will show me a women of God that will challenge me and that will love me like Jesus does. Thank you ladies for this! This was eye opening that even you beautiful ladies go through this and not just me. Thank you and God bless! 😊

The huge problem in the Christian church today is the over emphasis and attention on relationships at stages where people aren't ready for marriage, this creates problems. Thank God when I got saved at 19, I wasn't at a church were there was a heavy focus on dating but growing in God and having good godly relationships so when I was ready for marriage I started courting my wife - it was great.

The most attractive man on planet earth is the Man of God in church…worshipping, praising, and learning about God. And, if he has his Bible open in church and taking notes too…whew, that man is fire. 🙌🏻 🔥 There is nothing “corny” about that. Mature Christian men recognize mature Christian women and vice versa. Our identity is in Christ, thus just continue being your authentic self and keep your heart beating for our King Jesus. And, lastly, just be sure to prepare for what you’re praying and seeking God for. If you’re serious about being married, your lifestyle should be indicative of that. God Bless and may God provide in due time to the godly singles. 🙏🏼🩶 “My soul, wait silently for God alone, For my expectation is from Him. “ ~ Psalm 62:5 ((Amen)) 🙌🏻

I will throw something out to everyone who‘s looking for the “perfect, biblical, ready to lead” husband or wife with corresponding adjectives. And I will say that as long as your partner is open to Christ, these things can grow over time. They don’t have to be there day one. I can say with certainty that any marriage will have a ton of difficulty by itself and it WILL grow you and you won’t be ready for all the challenges on day 1 of your marriage anyhow. So don’t be so picky that the person you’re choosing has to be all those things on day one. And all that can go out the window instantly with a sudden illness anyhow and you may have to carry ALL the weight. What’s important is that you agree that when difficulty comes you will work it out together and negotiate and submit to each other and put Christ at the center. The rest will grow over time. And just as a side note, being single is SO much easier than being married. you don’t know how selfish you are until someone else has needs around you when you’re at your lowest yourself. So don’t be so anxious, enjoy being single as much as you can and trust that God’s will is done.

This was really encouraging. 6 months ago I broke off an engagement because I put God first, and it’s been so hard being single. I get scared thinking that there is no one else for me. This has helped me know how to pray and have hope again. Thank you.

Fellow Christian here! I love this kind of sit down chat set up. I found it so intriguing. I don’t necessarily believe that God will give everyone a spouse. Some might have a desire to have a lamborghini or someone might have a desire to have kids naturally but they can’t (and instead have to adopt) and everyone desires not to get terminally ill but that doesn’t mean we are immune from diseases like cancer etc. I do believe that God will give us the desires of our heart if they are in line with his will.

Seeing young people pursing Jesus is beautiful! Love from Gambia ❤

Gentlemen, if you want a Christian woman who appreciates you, including any 'corny' flaws . . . look overseas!

The fact that they are talking bout this is kinda sad. The media treat Christian men as squares and women today buy into this. They also struggle with contentment and get into relationships with insane expectations. These same relationships don’t end up lasting. If u want to be a good spouse stop having frivolous convos about a man being “corny” and instead focus on what makes a good Christian wife. How can you respect a husband be grounded and weather the storm in ups and downs of marriage. Learn what contentment is and how to remain content even with little means. Learn endurance and patience. These are qualities more and more Christian women and women in today’s climate lack. Focus on that instead.

Christian men have the same stigma on Christian women. That all godly girls aren’t bad and all bad girls aren’t godly. I believe this is from the enemy and not true. It’s a matter of exposure. The truth is when you a stereotypical “attractive” person you deal with more temptations and access which makes being godly more difficult. So thus categorically there are less attractive Christians because it’s difficult to have it and deny it for Jesus! But it’s so worth it. But it’s on both sides

I'm glad I stayed to listen. It has blessed me. Thank you all for sharing!

As a Christian Male, I share the same doubts at times hopin and prayin that I will eventually meet somebody. I know that there are others who feel the same way but it gets a bit lonely when all you see are the people who are not single. Thanks for this vid, good to know Im not by myself in the process and in thought

First video I’ve watched of you guys and you four are an absolute joy to listen to! Very refreshing. Instantly subscribed ❤

Such a powerful video. I had to watch this twice lol. I appreciate you ladies allowing the Lord to use you on this platform. I thank Him in advance for the success you all will see and the lives you’re going to inspire.

I am the biggest cornball. Daily gym goer, marathon runner, 3x or more Bible study groups, monthly reader, Jesus follower, non curser, abstinence advocate. CORNBALLS unite!! 😂😂

I understand what homegirl was saying..... Christian men are portrayed as dry, somewhat socially awkward and not having an edge to them. But I want to let you ladies know, yes there are Good Christian men who are masculine and check some of those other boxes that you would find attractive in a mate.

so good. I always feel challenged when I listen and that is no different today. I love y'all so much

this was too real 😂 great video guys! ❤ GOD bless y’all

This was so refreshing to watch. So much love from Ghana. I really needed to hear this. I also love your sisterhood. God bless you all 🥹

Women don't know how hard it is to be single and 49 years old and been rejected so many times it not even funny they lead you on and put so many unrealistic expectations on the guy people are not perfect. Being a man is harder than women realize because they play with your mind and emotions .

They talk about Christian men being corny, but they are being super cliche and corny themselves, just repeating cliche things they hear in the churchian echo chamber. It's like, be unique and authentic! I love Jesus and i know what they're talking about with Christian men, but they're kinda doing the same copy cat thing on their end.

Soo good. This convo encouraged me and gave me some things to reflect on ❤

This was really good! Very encouraging 🙌🏽🙌🏽

Sooo gooodd. Praying that I can have community that you guys have🤍

This was so good. Just confirmation for me.

Im about 5 minutes in Y'all definitely have something here! Intruiging conversation for single Followers of Christ

Ahh I'm trying not to cry while listening to this episode

Beautiful young Christian women, wait on God!! Marrying wrong person will be very very stressful. Marriage is no joke, life will make relationship grow!!

I think: Even when i person is a Christian, being on social media still has a tendency to bring about unrealistic standards to a Christian woman. It's crucial to stay grounded in the word

Next podcast title. Are all good Christian women MID.

growing in love as opposed to falling in love. So many missed opportunities by individuals because their hearts did not align with God's desires...but the right person is already in their life. Now it is even harder , if your heart's desires are not in the right place, as Jezebels and Delilahs are all over the church, intended to delay your journey, and send you off into the wilderness. Just as the israelites have to go Conquer the land that God has intended for them.....due to their disobedience, they never got it. So yes....even if God intended it for you, You YOURSELF can screw it up.

As Christians, such words like ' corny' shouldn't be in our dictionary...that's how pure our hearts should be

This is really good, i am 38 years old and single, received Jesus 4 years ago, baptized in 2021, Through God's grace, currently my husband is praying for me, and i am too, i will meet him soon ❤

the girl on the far end on the left sorry I don’t know her name 😭 but her story is literally ME!! I wanted love so bad that I let it consume me and kinda made it an idol so I been trying to detach but I have no clue how but this helped so much. It encouraged me. Amen! 🥺🙏🏼🩷

Thank you for your content! The Kingdom needs it! Praise Jesus!

This was fire

I personally don't belive everyone is called to have a partner even if they desire it... I know someone who preached on this, and it was the fact that she had this desire, is getting old had crushes, prayed for her husband, but never ended up with anyone... It's a hard Juggle and something I struggle with. I desire a future partner and even have a one-sided crush ATM. I keep telling myself "God I'm content with Just you even if I don't have a partner but I do pray for one, and I'll use this time of singleness to grow and prepare myself in ur word, pls help me." But having these feelings crushes me, my desire crushes me.. and I can't do anything about it....except pray

Great talk ladies! Jesus is lord

Yes.

Clicking on this video was the best decision i made today 😊'

i liked this

I been praying for my proverbs 31 wife . Trying to be 1 timothy chapter 3 man .

lol my husband is for sure not corny & is a true man of God

what kind of mics/recording system do yall use?

Nature tries to guarantee healthy parents for kids and health markers are physical strength, good looks, athletic, aesthetic, facial symmetry, kind loving, mature, healthy mindset etc. People used to pick the parents of their kids carefully before the birth control pill released in 1960.

“The knight is a man of blood and iron, a man familiar with the sight of smashed faces and the ragged stumps of lopped-off limbs; he is also a demure, almost a maidenlike, guest in hall, a gentle, modest, unobtrusive man. He is not a compromise or happy mean between ferocity and meekness; he is fierce to the nth and meek to the nth.” - C.S. Lewis

I’m about to go in are y’all ready? If not just skip this comment lol. 3:36 lol just, no. That’s why y’all are single. I understand what you people are saying, and you’re not really talking about preferences so much that you’re talking about attraction. Yes, you should be attracted to your spouse, but if you find a good man that loves Jesus, that isn’t “corny”, then go for it dude. If not, then you honestly have no reason to complain. God provided; it’s just not what you thought it would be. There’s no need to over analyze this. Do you know who God wants you to marry? The Christian man that you end up marrying. There’s desires you’re going to be killing for the rest of your life. You never stop dying to self. Even the desire to have a “not corny” husband. If it’s not one thing, it’s another. I’m not saying to just jump into marriage because of desperation. Absolutely not. Do nothing out of fear. Just recognize that things don’t always look the way you want em to. Find a good Christian dude and marry him. It’s not that complicated. God gives gifts of romantic love and pleasure and that’s great, but all these things point to Him. To a greater pleasure and love that fulfills. Marriage isn’t even about the marriage. It’s about God and His glory and how He loves us. P.S “praying for my husband” is peak Christian cornball btw so pot meet kettle. It’s especially corny for people that don’t end up married. It’s not bad to pray for a future husband, but to assume that you will be married and you’re praying for the man that God is “preparing”. Come on now 🤔 P.S.S the only single girls in here are single because they won’t humble themselves. No reason y’all should be single 😂

😂 I love it. I have been a gentile forever and as I look into this and I felt the same thing. I don’t fit in with the other guys at any church I’ve ever been to. “Corny, unattractive, not cool, not funny, not fun.” And always bringing up hypocritical dogmatic platitudes a la the Pharisees if they don’t understand biblical history. Big barrier to entry.

The girl on the right has such a lovely smile.

Describe a corny Christian

This was an interesting and timely chat from you guys. I've recently posted a video on my channel 'Will christian men need 50 relations...' Its connected to this discussion. I would like very much to discuss this further.

You all picked up on something that Modern Christian men are corny but that is not the root of it. The problem is that none of them portray strength in their virtue, they just want to be nice guys.

We have got to let go of the word Corny, Often since a Christian is just a person who was once in the world it should make sense that they were someone before giving themselves to christ. No somehow that gives them the auto title of corny? For probably showing discipline?

Unless I missedsomething, I am confused with title. What constitues a christian man as "Corny" and what does that title have to do with what is discussed in the video.

Christian women want prince charming and live together happily ever after.

Always beyter to wait for God's timing than yo rush into a loveless marriage and someone that ran to ever5else besides God and me and complain. At 44 and after a dark period, even after being saved and baptized, i came back to Jesus and praying more reading the bible more...and working on myself and raising my son. Its going to be hard, especially in this world but we are going to suffer while on this world. I just have nobidea how to talk to women, i cant read signals...i think ill be like Paul and single...work for the Lord

I feel like you should just fall in love with whoever you're attracted to. + If you find that you fall in love with and that are not Christian. Then maybe that's just your cross to bare. Because as a Christian man I wouldn't want to be with any girl that thinks I'm corney

Do an Episode on Christian women being corny too

Can Christian women be virgins and wait until marriage nowadays? Understand the guy might be 5'06" and average looking but has a passion and love for the LORD.

The algorithm got me. Jesus is king. 🙏

Breaking Curses 101 on KZfaq

Young men keep your eyes in the scriptures. Listen with both ears. Both eyes open. Just the title of this video should speak to your spirit. I hear a lot of worldly “I want” and “I asked god to give me a wink” and I also hear the culture of the world. 2nd Corinthians 11:14 You are in the middle of a spiritual war for your soul and the battle is hot

Yeh they are SpongeBob is the exception 🤔

Pursue God, not a spouse.

I can tell you that just because you have a desire in your heart does Not necessarily mean that God has planted it there (does it say this in the Bible?) because there are many godly women who have desired children and husbands and who got neither in the end. I am not saying this to dash hopes but the Bible says that Hope deferred makes the heart sick. So don’t convince yourself that all your desires will be met because some may not be from God. Keep asking Him & listen to him intently to know for sure.. We sometimes ask God to align our desires with His as our desires aren’t always what He has planned for us. I want to see this backed up by Scripture if possible please? We have a heart’s desire to be healed from sickness & disease but it doesn’t always happen. I believe that God planting Certain desires in our hearts for Him to make those things happen - is more of a human opinion not actually biblical. Please by all means correct me if I’m wrong? I also had dreams about marriage & I believe it was from God but I also try to make sure I don’t pin all my hopes into this dream because ultimately I just want a heart that desires whatever God desires for me - it’s not always easy but I pray through it

For me, all perfect gift comes from above. There is a marriage made in heaven. To me I would seek that kind of marriage. There are only two things I'm looking for a spouse. A woman after God's own heart and a woman who knows God and knows herself who she is to God. Which means a woman who puts God first, His truth, His word above else in her life, who puts Jesus above all even her future husband. As Jesus said "love you neighbor as you love yourself," if Jesus commands his children to love even our enemies, how much more how we treat our future spouse. Our spouse could never be our enemy, right? So that means how you want to see yourself before God so as our desire to our future spouse to be with and in God too. So I would like to be with a woman who loves the spiritual more than the cosmetics, material things. A woman who looks her life in above not on things of earth. I hate divorce.

So we're corny now for obeying Jesus? Right.

Goldberg eats corn the long way

If Eden awaits, that means everybody's supposed to be nude.