@AberliteGrooming 7 ай бұрын
Definitely some harsh realities in this video, but watch until the end to see all the silver lining 🙂 Have a wonderful day everyone!
@kathleenking47 16 күн бұрын
Yul brynner was before telly savalas
@razzledazzle8631 4 ай бұрын
I am 62 and have been bald since my mid 30s. I will tell you young guys that being bald can hurt you. Many women are just not attracted to bald. You just need to keep trying until you find a woman who likes it or does not care. I found a few in my life even got married. They are out there. Stay in shape and keep building your empire. Things could be a lot worse.
@martinvanburen4578 2 ай бұрын
this is the truth
@razzledazzle8631 2 ай бұрын
@randyorton393 what the fuck are you even talking about? I never said anything about an "attractive" woman ... now go back read what I said.
@TheRealCalijokes01 2 ай бұрын
Maybe be right seems since I lost my hair the woman in my urban area didn’t like me like they used especially not the young and fertile ,actually a lot of girls will smash a bald guy but on the low , they don’t wanna be as bold around you in day time as much but at night you might can smash 💥
@netsherrera7193 2 ай бұрын
You have to be in shape.
@nuclearwinter391 27 күн бұрын
Yeah, I was going bald at 20. It was brutal, I was in the shape of my life but dating was hard. But then I discovered Latinas and Asians.
@EdgarTheOgre 6 ай бұрын
got cancer during the pandemic and lost like 60% of my top hair, I still have it but you can see my scalp due how thin it is. So, I decided to embrace it and shave my head. My first time was on februrary 2023, just before I got back to work. It has not been an easy journey, but after almost a whole year, I can say I have come to feel comfortable with it. I actually think I look good. And yes, a lot of women will discard you before even taking to you but, hey, now the babes that approach me are some of the best women I have ever had as part of my life. What easy comes, easy goes. A women that is not supperficial or prejudice, trust me, loves better and bangs better. Just remember to have a nice beard if you can, they love it. Also try to exercise your shoulders and arms, they love it when your bald head is the same size of your bald shoulders. And try to dress decently. Good look, bald brothers.
@sloppyjonuts9162 4 ай бұрын
The chick that likes you when you are bald she really likes you
@sloppyjonuts9162 Ай бұрын
Short and bald
@t.j.schaff2478 18 күн бұрын
This is correct. A woman who likes YOU for your brains, sense of confidence, and personality is 10x more likely to be a keeper than a woman who disregards a man for something as trivial as hairline alone. Also, if you are bald AND you have a ripped body, that shows not only a high degree of self confidence but also a degree of "fuck it, I control what I can and don't worry about things I can't" which shows a degree of maturity and stoicism that frankly most people lack.
@murozman 4 ай бұрын
This guy has a magnificent beard.
@pblobrb9021 4 ай бұрын
Its been more than 10 years since im bald. My haired self doesnt stand a chance against me. Ive been the most attractive male on my job and the only bald one. We work with teenagers. I always have to force distance between some of the females and me. In a male female relationship we are not the ones that bring beauty to the dinamic, our job is not that easy guys. When you feel down about your hair is often because you think you are going to be less attractive witch means your value is attached to the woman taste, thats harmful. You are the one who should feel enough, she will try to test it. Plz dont let that something so tiny like hair makes you feel bad, girls might say you are ugly just to test if you are confident enough. Ive seen multiple times women chaging. Women who previously didnt like balds go for a kiss on me. Plz, when you read this take time to let it sink in. I fucking love being bald give it a chance
@Username-jz9sl 3 ай бұрын
Man, you nailed it. I hid under a hat for years. Now I realize it’s the confidence that’s attractive, not the superficial
@xpindy 6 ай бұрын
Started losing my hair at 22- basically was bald by 27. Met and married my wife when I was 28- she was the most beautiful woman I had ever met and she pursued me. 40 years later we're still married and I'm still bald (my 6 year old granddaughter believes I just have a "bad haircut"). I always saw myself as average looking- though there were some women who found me very attractive more women didn't find me attractive at all. Even at this age I'm stunned how often I'm approached- I see an old man when I look in the mirror (so I try to keep that to a minimum). With all that, if they came up with a pill that would fully restore my hair I would take it in a second. Having hair is preferable to not having it- like being fit is preferable to being fat. Felt that God made me bald because if I had hair I'd be insufferable. (BTW- that hair restoring pill, I wouldn't take it if my hair was going to be red.No offense.)
@brandonmusick77 5 ай бұрын
That bald guy had class, but when he was asked the same question, i guarantee he couldn't say his girlfriend's 100lbs of fat was her most unattractive feature.
@zurge278 5 ай бұрын
Have you not considered that maybe he found bigger girls attractive to begin with?
@crestfire8008 3 ай бұрын
Good news is she can lose the weight. His baldness is not going to change. I feel bad for her
@johnoliverio8729 3 ай бұрын
I shaved my head, everyone hated it or laughed. I have a full head of hair.
@martinvanburen4578 2 ай бұрын
he looked like a egg with a hat on what is wrong with saying baldness is ugly (for the most part) and even so, you can get past it
@user-om7si5ur5f 27 күн бұрын
Confidence is everything you need to rock it! I started to lose my hair at 19 razored it off around 22 years old, get far more attention without it.. and don't look back! People forget it's very well having hair but not all hair looks great 😂
@tripleeyeemoji2685 8 күн бұрын
Getting a hair transplant soon, excited.
@mattkriese7170 4 ай бұрын
I really like that you brought up the point that having a bald head could act like a filter. One of my deepest insecurities has always been going bald with a partner and having her lose attraction for me. I have always dated women who preferred hair. The funny thing is, If I had initially found someone who was attracted to me despite not having hair, that insecurity would be completely eradicated, and I could begin to focus on bigger and better things. Thank you for this analysis. You gave me a lot to consider.
@AberliteGrooming 4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad I've given you food for thought 🙂 that is the exact intention of these videos. Preferences are normal and 100% viable -- even if people perceive them as shallow or unfair. People don't choose their preferences -- they often derive from childhood trauma, mainstream media, guttural reactions, nurture, instinct etc. It's way too exhausting/unrealistic to "convince" people that the decisions YOU feel you need to make for yourself, are "good" and "something that shouldnt matter" -- because it it might matter to THEM, and they can't help it. So, rather than trying to change people's preferences, it's often best to control the controllable factor -- especially if that fear of "post-shave" rejection paralyzes/stunlocks you in your life/actions. Cheers, all the best! -Kaz
@scottweibel2352 6 ай бұрын
Every bald guy i know has a hot girl
@ThingsIBuy 6 ай бұрын
Can confirm lol
@scottweibel2352 6 ай бұрын
@@ThingsIBuy i have a head full of hair but if I go bald I'm sure I'll score the models lol
@ThingsIBuy 6 ай бұрын
@@scottweibel2352 nah you probably don't have the head for it :P
@scottweibel2352 6 ай бұрын
@@ThingsIBuy I know right 😂
@centripetal6157 3 ай бұрын
Its because women like rare things. A bald guy is usually uncommon and also it's a clear sign of masculinity... Which is attractive to very feminine hot women. That being said... Most women like hair on a guy and are pretty superficial about it
@nelsonhibbert5267 6 ай бұрын
Shave your head and stop worrying about it.
@AberliteGrooming 6 ай бұрын
Certainly one of my favourite ways of going about it 🙂. The hair re-growth protocol route is a valid one, but it's a long, tedious, and expensive road for a lot of people
@nelsonhibbert5267 6 ай бұрын
@@AberliteGrooming I met a guy recently that went overseas to have the procedure done. The hairline looked so neat it appeared unnatural. The weird thing is that he would've looked fine bald. I think in the majority of cases, the problem is IN your head, not on top of it.
@waynesmith155 4 ай бұрын
That is so true what you're saying you do get judge by some people and some people will laugh at you you just have to keep going
@Blackpill149 7 ай бұрын
Almost all young women i asked said they would not date a bald guy. But women over 30 don't seem to care much. Some of them even prefer bald guys
@AberliteGrooming 7 ай бұрын
Very true! -Kaz
@tarkpurush4510 5 ай бұрын
No use cause then they are already engaged and dont need any man to date..
@Blackpill149 5 ай бұрын
@@tarkpurush4510 not true at all.If you don't ask your you won't know.Even if you are good looking you still have to ask are her type or not.And some young women like bald guys too if your face matches with it
@Materva-hv6sz 5 ай бұрын
Women of any age dont like it and women dont get much less shallow as they age...many get worse after 40
@guysparks 5 ай бұрын
What they say, and what's the reality are 2 different things. Best thing I ever did for my social life with women was to shave my head. No longer wasting time with women who aren't interested. Sorry I didn't shave it all off sooner. One thing I learned about women's opinions on most dating topics: They don't answer surveys honestly. They answer how they feel at the time.
@deutrolige 3 ай бұрын
Wow, that's an amazing reflexion. And with that deep voice you're an excellent communicator, keep it up!👍
@joeblogs-vx4ep 16 күн бұрын
Absolute 100% honesty 👍
@Papasquatch73 4 ай бұрын
I have always killed my hair short ever since the Marine Corps. When it started thinning I took it a little shorter which was bald. So it wasn’t a change
@TherandomguyTV 29 күн бұрын
Been balding since end of highschool , shaved it low for years but now I’m just shaving it completely off
@Proverbs1267 7 ай бұрын
Your awesome dude
@KazVeselkaBass 7 ай бұрын
I appreciate it brother 🙂, hope you're having a good night
@xomox5316 6 ай бұрын
Its better to embrace it and shave it then keep very thin hair from my experiance. Other observations, have a light tan at least if you are pale it looks worst and glares. Also really great point it filters out very vain women. I don't have any problems.
@eddiemcdonald4461 4 ай бұрын
Such a well thought out video. Great job!
@ZarDiegoat Ай бұрын
your voice is in another level
@sjcobra84 Ай бұрын
Bald by choice. Long live the Chrome Dome Empire. Strength be upon you my bald brethen.
@jimvaizidis821 6 ай бұрын
I am losing my hair like really fast the last few months due to genetics..aand anxiety. Problem is i really look like ET when i am bald or with really short hair.(I have tried bald-short haircuts 2 times now and i look so damn bad) I will do something for a hair transplant in the future but until then...I mean i have lost my confidence,plus any motivation related to this.But,as always i will find my way to make it.
@guysparks 5 ай бұрын
Cure the anxiety first. Then the baldness won't matter.
@razzledazzle8631 4 ай бұрын
I am 62 and have been bald since my mid 30s. I don't know how old you are but I will promise you this. As you get older, your baldness will matter less and less. A lot of your young buddies , who may tease you now, will probably lose their hair too eventually. I have seen it a million times ..lol Just keep it short on the sides. You don't need a transplant. Try to stay in shape and keep building your empire. People will be more attracted to those two things as you get older.
@jimvaizidis821 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support guys. 🖤
@hya-busa2917 2 ай бұрын
i dont have a problem with my bald head.. i just wish i would have a beard
@googleuser8740 6 ай бұрын
Same as beards some girls love them some hate them
@AberliteGrooming 6 ай бұрын
100%! Definitely true! -Kaz
@lindaparker7199 Ай бұрын
Somehow this video appeared in my feed and I watched it. I know it is primarily speaking to men but I felt compelled to say something anyway. Certainly everyone has preferences. Sometimes those do change as people age. Very young men and women are usually driven by what is in the media. But you aren't going to look at things like you might have at 18 for long. Women do not think bald men unattractive or less appealing that I have found, in general. Some men are well suited for a shaved look and carry it off very well. Most of the people commenting have said make the most of what you can...we all can do that, and caring enough to put that effort in is attractive in and of itself for everybody. I know that these rating videos have become popular. I don't see where they do anything positive for most people. Nobody is going to feel cheery to have someone put them down, not even a stranger on the street, let alone someone they know. Everybody has some insecurity and someone attacking it publicly is simply nasty. You might get five compliments but one put down will be the only one that you take to heart. Why would you even want to be with someone that didn't mind making you feel awkward, even if that person thought they were teasing you. Treating people with respect and carrying yourself with confidence, ( even in down days) is what everybody should do more of. People rarely truly know how you feel unless you let them. Show them you think well of yourself. I don't think the man who rated himself was a failure at all with 17 different women liking his picture and wanting to meet him. What's so drab about that? I'm not making less of what someone goes through who may be losing their hair. It must be stressful. But letting strangers comments ruin your day is absolutely foolish. Don't bother, don't ask, and look for those 17 other women!
@xmanlikejxckx4094 14 күн бұрын
Gents just look at that bald prison dude who got famous, dude called spooky from a tv show, Jason statham. Women love them. If you’re in good shape & look good you will be fine bald.
@szilardfineascovasa6144 6 ай бұрын
The possibility of rocking a horseshoe for life has not been mentioned. The tall guy looked better than the little blonde that rejected him...and had a healthier weight, too. Anyway, a shaved head suits you just great! Truly not all men can pull it off. And I'm jealous of that Radio host voice :).
@guysparks 5 ай бұрын
Yeah. I wonder how she'd feel if he answered "Your weight." if asked the same about her.
@szilardfineascovasa6144 5 ай бұрын
@@guysparks I'm all for equality and/or reciprocity. Double-measures are pure hypocrisy.
@AlexP-jz9sg 2 ай бұрын
Almost thinking she is trying to keep his self esteem down for a reason.
@szilardfineascovasa6144 2 ай бұрын
@@AlexP-jz9sg Indeed.
@TLW369 6 ай бұрын
Baldness is sexy on some men - yes. 🥰
@TherandomguyTV 29 күн бұрын
Like me ❤
@nuclearwinter391 27 күн бұрын
I was already going bald at 20 and I was sad about it. Because of course it was a handicap when dating. But then I discovered latina and asian women.
@chefmcnasty3891 2 ай бұрын
Just shaved my head cause I wanted too. I have a full head of hair just had to change it up. Am I wrong?
@Juan-zj2mo 5 ай бұрын
The best is.. Look skin head.... I like...... Thank you
@SameerSamon 6 ай бұрын
Until and unless you look like kartos Yes
@DunningK 13 күн бұрын
Lol its not about being bald its about looking good bald. Some do some dont!
@ryanthompson6026 4 ай бұрын
Who gives a shit? Bald or not, there are bigger things to be concerned about than whether or not you have hair. In any case, think about the $$ you'll save on shampoo and conditioner
@Chainsaw_HM2 Ай бұрын
Some guys can pull bald off like a champ. Example: “Stone Cold” Steve Austin. Reality: None of us are Steve Austin.
@martingerlitz1162 6 ай бұрын
Bold men with beards. Really hot!! Like you!🎉 You have a 10😅
@ShayPatrickCormacTHEHUNTER Ай бұрын
Fuck hair, that Voice is godlike
@youravantgarde 2 ай бұрын
What if you're bald AND ugly? 😭
@AberliteGrooming 2 ай бұрын
Become your best self brother ❤️ I'm going to assume you actually want a genuine answer, so here it is (apologize if I'm over-reading into this, but this is what I did): Break down your journey to better self-esteem into baby steps, and address your un-dealtwith business from your childhood -- becoming aware of your tendencies and where they come from will make you stand out way more than a mere tuft of hair. Fastest way to do this is with the help of a professional, but you can do this with daily reflection as well. Foster a kind and aware personality that understands their past (and how it affects their present actions) so as to not inflict pain onto others in the present. Above all, if you're not already, find a part within yourself that sees self-care as inherently valuable. Any bald man can "glow up" with exercise, diet, skin care, growing a well-groomed beard, dressing better, finding meaning in their career etc.... But, some people just need to discover WHY it's important to do all that for themselves. You got this brother. You'll always be someone's type, and you'll increase your odds with every day if you aim to improve by 1% every day. Cheer, Kaz
@Goodhello369 3 ай бұрын
Its cap. It’s politically correct for people to say.
@passionatechristianworker 4 күн бұрын
This is the biggest cope I’ve heard. Finasteride and Minoxidil
@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 4 ай бұрын
It's so over. I am strongly considering ropemaxxing now that I am losing my hair.
@vishnujallim3760 4 ай бұрын
You weak thats all
@ericcartman3485 3 ай бұрын
Bro i shaved my head at 23 and my new girlfriend is the most attractive woman that i have ever been with
@andresgraziano7475 6 ай бұрын
Hair is life!!!
@bulbasur1 Ай бұрын
at least he have a gf.
@kjandu Ай бұрын
Thing is guys, if you are looking to be a player, yes, being bald will lower your chances for sure. However, if you are looking for a match to settle down with, you will absolutely find a women who does not mind at all. I am married to one. Depends what you are after. Playboy model? Maybe not. A good life with someone worth spending it with? Being bald will not matter for the latter
@TwistedLullabies Ай бұрын
No
@jeffreylutin5480 4 ай бұрын
God made a few very attractive and smart men, and He gave the rest of the men hair. 🙂🙂🙂
@jeffrey3498 Ай бұрын
I’ll buy that! 🤣👍
@Steven-iv1ie 3 ай бұрын
4:47 everyone cares about the superficial things, whether they say so or not. Generally good video but this is pure cope.
@AberliteGrooming 3 ай бұрын
I'm glad you liked the video ☺️, but I'm going to respectfully push back on that: I feel like your own perception and experiences are influencing this perspective. I personally don't believe it's entirely reflective of reality. There are MANY people that value personality, character, emotional maturity, intelligence, and paternal qualities over the superficial things. Yes, things like money, conventional attractiveness, the need for protection etc. will always be stressors -- whether intentional or subconscious... But, there are two different types of people here: 1. People make these things a requirement and attach value to their potential love interests based on their lack or abundance of superficial things -- these people often realize they are doomed to fail because their expectations are too high. 2. People who primarily value someone who can fill their emotional and intellectual needs. Anyone that knows REAL, mature women knows that this is the case. For the 2nd type, things like money and security are still "important" for survival, but these are very far down the totem pole of importance for them. Plus, physical attraction is often based on compatibility, not whether one is conventionally attractive. Be someone that can listen, validate, and effectively help to weather the storms of life -- you will stand out above the rest as a life-long partner (to GOOD people). For some, this will not be enough, and that's fine. Search NOT for those that base your value on vanity metrics. If you don't believe non-shallow women exist, I believe that's quite nihilistic, and I'm sorry that you haven't met the good ones yet. Cheers, Kaz
@Lumminere 4 ай бұрын
There is no way this guy's beard is real
@AberliteGrooming 4 ай бұрын
I'll take that as a compliment 🤣 But in all transparency, I did apply minoxidil to facilitate beard growth for 1.5 years and have been off of it for 6 years. So it's "natural" now, but 6 years ago, it would have been considered "enhanced" -Kaz
@Gianny1985 6 ай бұрын
THE COPE DUDE.
@AberliteGrooming 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for the comment! In my opinion, I feel like we did a good and well-balanced job of representing the positives and negatives of being bald and how people may react. What is your quandary with how we presented this information?
@Gianny1985 6 ай бұрын
@@AberliteGrooming My problem isn’t necessarily with principles or morals or ethics in and of themselves, but rather with men chumpishly clinging to them when, in actuality, they really had no other options to give themselves a wider perspective on what they believe. Just beware of making your necessity a virtue and spreading this way of thinking to other men. You take the need or the lack and transform it into a virtue while justifying yourself for not taking the trouble to undergo a hair transplant treatment. That's a cope. On the other hand, thank you for teaching me the word 'quandary.' I have never heard it in my life (I am Argentine, from Buenos Aires, English is my second language).
@AberliteGrooming 6 ай бұрын
@@Gianny1985Hi Gianny, I understand your perspective now 🙂 thanks for clarifying that. I try my absolute best to not demonize the hair transplant and hair regrowth protocol route. In other videos, I've stated many times that it may be the best decision for some people. I can also understand why you think I'm spreading my virtuosity as a one-size-fits all solution, but in reality, I really plan to cover all the perspectives and decisions one can make when it comes to make pattern baldness. However, I simply can't cover all the nuances of every decision for every video -- that would make every video 40 minutes long. The reason I often promote embracing baldness is that most people can't afford the time, money, bodily strain and effort that is required in a hair regrowth regimen (a life-long commitment). Feel free to give me some concrete suggestions of how to navigate this topic going forward, I'm intrigued to hear how I can be more sensitive. Also, you're welcome 🙂 quandary is a fun word! Cheers, Kaz
@Gianny1985 6 ай бұрын
@@AberliteGrooming "The reason I often promote embracing baldness is that most people can't afford the time, money, bodily strain and effort that is required in a hair regrowth regimen (a life-long commitment)" Under this argument, your perspective does make sense for those who cannot afford it. In Argentina, where the average monthly salary ranges between USD 300-USD 500 and the 2023 inflation was the highest in the world (211% annually), a hair implant becomes a luxury. For people in this situation, it is understandable to accept going bald and settling for it. The key is not to turn it into a coping mechanism, meaning not deceiving oneself, but also not getting depressed about the truth of the matter. At the same time, it's good to have a positive attitude similar to what you presented in your video. Note that baldness is a male physical attribute that is highly rejected by women, but in some men with a certain facial symmetry, it looks good on them, as exemplified by celebrities like Jason Statham, The Rock, Bruce Willis, Vin Diesel (setting aside their fame). Clarifying this reality to your audience is positive because you inform them that it won't turn everyone into attractive men. And although your message seems to lean towards an internal locus, it's evident that we are human beings where both the perception of others and self-perception are important. If you ask for a suggestion... check out the "Wheat Waffles" channel. You can delve into the issue like the redhead does... but with your optimistic and personal touch.
@AberliteGrooming 6 ай бұрын
@@Gianny1985Thank you so much for sharing all that with me, I really appreciate you fleshing that all out 🙂 And yes, I'm always just trying to walk the line. I often try to give excellent tips on how people can maximize their appearance when bald, but yes, facial symmetry, head shape, beard coverage etc. will always play a part. And like I say in this video, I think you officially get de-classified as "conventionally" attractive once you start shaving your head, but of course, if you're brutally handsome, it'll matter a lot less. I'll try to show this balance in upcoming videos, but just know that I can't always go into all the details every single time. This video is about "are Bald people attractive?" And not "what type of people make the most attractive bald people?". Thanks again, great conversation and input 🙂 Cheers, Kaz
@tengma7849 7 ай бұрын
Why did Elon Musk have a hair transplant while Jeff Bezos didn't? 🤔
@erikerik9613 7 ай бұрын
Elon Musk had a really good donor area for his HT but J.Bezos not.
@coomodus2592 4 ай бұрын
Maybe you should ask Elon and Jeff. Too many hair transplants taking place without consideration. 1. Are you taking meds? 2. Are the meds causing side effects? 3. Are the meds creating stability? (Too many doctors are performing HT without having their patients on medication for at least a year to assess if the loss has stabilized.