Because we are property to them, not human beings with feelings, ideas, etc

If the women who are popular emphasize romance in terms of commercial value and comfort, it sends a message to men that relationships are more about materialism than genuine connection. Meaning you can be bought of the shelve 😢

objects to be acquired

SaidaBoj and her likes made sure women are objectified. That's the danger of allowing people like Saida Boj bring up useless ideology in podcats

That is a real point for concern o, that wife is a whole human being not a property , u can seek variety in things not in a human , can they for variety in kids too or go and seek variety in their mothers and families

exactly..because the man cant control you if the woman have more than one husband ,it is all about control not true love God said he is a jealous God only be faithful to HIM ..

I dont support polygamy, but let's be real. If a woman tries it, it will ruin her life period. She will be a whole immediately without delay, and that's how the world sees it.

Polygamy does favour women, as it gives every woman the chance to be a wife. Monogamy leads to leftover women that are bitter.

@@sanguiniuswarhammer4669that is the stupidest thing I’ve probably ever read

rubbish@@sanguiniuswarhammer4669

Amen. Thank you ❤

Amen!

I am telling you . From his mindset, I can tell you his wife must be lucky.

@@ChallangeAcceptedd not only his wife any buisness dealings or friends ,his character is to have good intentions

@@black-te4tn real!!

Rabid feminist spotted 😂.

or have multiple

if u can find a man that will let u marry another good 4 u

Nonsense.

1. Biologically speaking men are designed to be polygamous . Due to extremely higher levels of testosterone ( men have on average between 17x-23x higher levels of testosterone than women) women are born with all the eggs that they produce. After puberty, they start dropping one egg a month ( on average), until menopause. Men produce millions of sperm cells every day from puberty until death. Once a woman gets pregnant, she’s out of commission for the next 3 years as far as reproduction is concerned, and she can typically only have one child within that time period. Men can have as many kids with as many women that they sleep with. 2. Women are HYPERGAMOUS in nature ( quality over quantity). This is because they are vulnerable, especially during pregnancy and infants nursing. They also require massive amounts of resources and protection, that’s why they’re attracted to taller fit men with excess resources.

Esp the African man

English Abi accent?

I was annoyed everytime she spoke. It’s too forced

The accent is here and there

forced accent

​@ukiastardoll7864 it's obviously not fake

Monalisa o 😂 Phoneé is not by force

@@choirofangels6228it’s obviously fake she’s trying to sound posh British lol

Gbam. Blessed are you and him sef. Na God go bless una.

Two parents and children

Right!! I'm a Christian by the way! But in the past in our religion. Man were able to have multiple wives of they were capable of doing so. Most of the time those "extra " wives were widow with kids

I am blown about Muslims have multiple wives because of their religion. The Quaran says do not take multiple wives unless you satisfy all of them equally emotionally, physically and financially. Most, if not all, can not fulfill that. It wasn't even fulfilled by their own prophet.

@@duckruler5507 Fr, and it's not because scripture allows men to have multiple wives (it doesn't), but because it says to take care of widows is a way of practicing true religion.

Your men will still have 72 virgins in heaven that's just how your Allah made it to be and that's just lustful and lack self control.

His wife is indeed lucky.

Thank you!

Thank you

God bless you please

Extremely

But women keep saying things like "can u afford me" Women objectify themselves a lot without even knowing sometimes

It's not stupid, and I am monogamous by the way.

I want to marry you

They are selfish that's all. A man wouldn't even want to share his side chick (a woman he's using for just sex) with another man. And yet they want women to be perfectly ok with sharing their husband. Another debate topic should be are women polygamous. Men are acting like we don't have eyes and the desire to explore as well... but our upbringing, societal expectations, etc prevents us from admitting anything like that. But time and time again in our society we find married women cheating (and men raising a child that isn't theirs), single women sleeping around, etc. despite all the risks and slut shaming that may come with it.

true ,its a crazy person who tries to say we are like animals they where created after there own kind and humans after ther kind in Gods image ,the sooner people know this the sooner we have love for eachnother and help not blame ,kill and abuse

What happens if we take law and religion away? That’s stopping majority humans from these actions

@Davian775 That is why we have Laws and Religions. So that people don't act like degenerates and kill each other. And we agree as a collective on what is good and what is evil.

Kingsley looks like Myron from FreshnFit and i cant unsee it...he thinks and talks like him too

@@jaughnekowexactly, maybe they are related😂

E get touch of Indian inside sef😂😂😂

Reminds me of episode of Junky Students when they got a new teacher😂

Na the comment be this 😂😂😂

She is trying too hard she needs to relax 😂

British

Trash

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Don't mind them😭😭God gave them dominion, but they're still associating themselves with animals😭😭

Broke my tooth😂😂😂😂

Humans are animals. We are of the Ape specie

​@@prophetofanu8933Apes and humans are different because humans have language, which helps us communicate and learn complex ideas more easily. In training, humans can follow detailed instructions and understand reasons behind tasks, while apes learn through simpler instructions and observation. Please don't use this comparison ever.😂

And who told you the bible is against polygamy? Use logic instead of emotion

@@davidamen7747 Bible passages promoting Polygamy please… Like one of the panelist’s rightly said, the bible was written from our direction, for correction in righteousness. We are not to emulate the lifestyle of the men in the bible because they all were sinful, if we excuse polygamy, then we can also excuse murder because so many biblical characters murdered. At the end of the day, the question is, what would Jesus do and what would he have us do?

​@@davidamen7747 oya prove how the Bible approves of it.

14:18 I see... this is a good example

@@5minuteswithP If polygamy was really meant to be a sin don't you think God is wise enough to include it in the Bible for us to see... The only restrictions on polygamy in the Bible was when Apostle Paul instructed that any man with more than one wife should not hold position of authority in church so that he can focus more in governing his household. If it was really a since Jesus or any of t his apostle would have mentioned it in the Bible.

It's them comparing women to clothes for me 😢 .....

Biologically speaking men are designed to be polygamous . Due to extremely higher levels of testosterone ( men have on average between 17x-23x higher levels of testosterone than women) women are born with all the eggs that they produce. After puberty, they start dropping one egg a month ( on average), until menopause. Men produce millions of sperm cells every day from puberty until death. Once a woman gets pregnant, she’s out of commission for the next 3 years as far as reproduction is concerned, and she can typically only have one child within that time period. Men can have as many kids with as many women that they sleep with. Women are HYPERGAMOUS in nature ( quality over quantity). This is because they are vulnerable, especially during pregnancy and infants nursing. They also require massive amounts of resources and protection, that is why they’re attracted to taller fit men with excess resources.

They have to collectively share 1 piece of dirty cloth.

Basically letting them know that sooner or later, I will cheat on you 😂 and yo, it isn’t my fault because I am polygamous in nature 😂

​@@LME101_soon now or later ke?? people that are already cheating😂

Open marriage or monogamy. Gbam!

Thank youuuu, because people here seem to think polygamy is synonymous to polygyny. What about polyandry??

Exactly... They don't get polygamy is an umbrella term.

Most time we tend to frown at polygamy forgetting that a woman is always an accomplice to it, and to have polyandry, is difficult because most men will not act as an accomplice... Personally I believe that there is no manual in marriage.. either polygamy or monogamy nor is perfect or better than the other, it depend on various factors involves

Polyandry is nonsense. Sexually, women will never be able to bond with one man if she has several partners. Why do you think prostitutes or women who have more than two sexual partners cheat more compared to a virgin. You are talking from emotions

she may be from london

@@ilovepdubshe definitely isn’t that’s not an authentic London accent

That part. Open it up foor everyone. It's never fun when the rabbit has the gun.

It makes sense to me. Because women want a high value man to spend his resources on her and her offspring alone 😂.

@@pkom6418 I see nothing wrong with that

​@@VâyasylvanaA rich man marrying multiple wives does the community and future kids a great favor.

@@pkom6418 how

I agree😂

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Ohh really, will do

U sound silly. Christianity is stupid and faulse, and ppl can be poly or mono. Its in nibidys nature or dna to be either

Exactly. I think so too.

Cos they’ve finally gotten to 50k subs I think😅

I know right, as if he is a prize to be won. This same person will be so mad if his wife made the same statement

I wish there was a platform like this were single people would line up and give their opinions about things like this, a great avenue to block lots of people before them mistakenly chyke me. That man’s opinions was just giving me a headache

@@5minuteswithP 🤣🤣🤣

what a silly thinking, my thoughts exactly. He does not want wahala, just happiness in the marriage. What people don't know is that, your happiness is not dependent on anyone.

Here!!!

Lol I’m not among ooo. However lots of women equally like variety but they mostly surpress it to honour their matrimonial vows, however, these polygamy upholding men want to eat their cake and have it. Ask same man if he’d allow his wife marry another woman and he’d frown at it. What is good for the goose is supposed to be good for the gander.

Nigerian 😅

Yes it is

Nigerian

Polygamy doesn't have any benefits abeg. This is the thing with you people😂 other guy brought in research. Oga has probably never read a research paper in his life. The 'research' proves that polygamy is not good and is not doing anything good for anyone except fulfilling the selfish fleshly desires that you people worship so bad😭😭 Results of polygamous marriages are especially hard on the womem because they are more likely and prone to depression, jealousy, overall life dissatisfaction, marital dissatisfaction, etc. They are also more likely to be treated as objects than as a person with humans and emotions because of the many wives the husband has to 'cater' to and if you're unaware, that is how the concept of slaves began. You don't see people as your equal. There are also obvious negative effects on men, more on how they begin to view and value they wives, taking them for granted, good example is the man in a white shirt and jeans with his 'if she vex me, i will go see another woman'🙄. Absolutely so vile. Humans, especially women are built for emotional conmection. Men too, no matter how many times they'll be forming hard guy. That many wives doesn't guarantee providing for them all equally. And notice how it's almost only and always poor men that go into this. Marrying more wives than they can handle and having more children than they can handle as well. Just blindly going after fleshly desires. This is why im the bible says that the flesh is evil. The only 'good' thing I've ever read on this topic is about fulfilling sexual desire. Is it only sex that makes up a human being? Is it only sex that is doing you people? It's not a flex ohh abeg. Not a flex at all!

I beg to differ monogamy works best Everytime..

What are the benefits to polygamy beyond the man's seggsual options??

It is rare for people to be polygamous, it always starts off mono then eventually they usually go "I'm dissatisfied with this aspect..yeah me too let bring someone else in" then what happens is one ends up leaving, usually the one that was there from the start... adding personal events , a friend of mines was actually kicked out of one because the other two were never satisfied with them ....but I agree that it's possible but it's the poor who do it more , some do it to run away from their certain partners by going to make babies with another, it's sad but it happens

You gerrit😂😂😂

Note that they are more unmarried men than women in Nigeria. So more women should take multiple husbands ( polyandry ) rather ,based on your logic. Anyways , I want men to also benefit . I go like marry you and your elderbrother 😂

Imagine having the nerve to say “I will clean up this mess I made by forcing you into a life of slavery at my side. You are welcome” 😂😂

@@ChallangeAcceptedd thanks for your comment, however what my comment was looking to establish is some form of a background history as to why polygamy might have started. as to whatever happens in our modern era, every man and woman to his or her own. hope this helps

@@kwahuprince5229 ok , I get your point now. So you are talking about how it originated not justifying it. Valid

Polygamy in African culture was to secure heir 💀 or to show off how rich they are 😂 it was not required in my knowledge to marry more than one so it just became a trend

​@@duckruler5507 Just like all the things I said above had use. Sure it was a trend among rich, but after we knew better we decided to stop it.

True, culture is ever evolving

Fr. Make we go back patapata.

Polygamy is an African culture not an African tradition

ok?