She does

As long as it doesn’t go against Allah’s word and its halal and reasonable then yes

@@themed7434 And as long as it does not go against her rights

@@med7789 u med but I’m also med

@@med7789her rights are to be financially taken care of that’s all everything else she has to do such as cooking if he says staying home if he says

Please define slavery o' dear sister! Is it like the Pharaoh where a husband would force his wife to build them a Pyramid? Is all husbands going to behave like Umayyah Ibn Khalaf who would strap their wives in the middle of a desert and put big rock on her? Is that the kind of abuse husbands would do to their wives nowadays? Or, are there any husband who would sell their wives in the market for profit? For what I know it's the husbands nowadays who have to work like a slave to satisfy their wives! They send their wives to malls and markets to buy food, and the wives came back with more new outfits! Still, the women are not happy. Husbands nowadays strapped baby carriers to their wives, but the wives behaves like it was a thousand pound rock hanging on their bodies! That right to children comes with a burden, never forget that! Making matters worse is the fact that they also curse at their husbands in front of their children. All while reading "true facts" about abuse statistics that have no value to them if they knew the better. If you think the statistics shows that "men are evil", then you've just lost your rights to your sons, because they are men too. Until you've changed your mind and attitude towards men and abolish that thought, anything you'll be teaching your male offspring is going to turn them into an evil man and add one more number to the statistics! Mother's right is for their sons, fathers have theirs on the wife and their daughters. Until the woman marries, the burden would be on her father, and without his consent the marriage would not happen. If you really care about your sons, teach them well and be kind to your daughter in law! If you have been mistreated, don't mistreat your son and his family for revenge... if you do, you are making another women suffer. If the Hadeeth can be followed, follow it... but it's a guideline, not a burden; so don't fret the small stuff, and don't make a fuss about some statistics or news by someone especially if it's not from Muslim sources. There's a Hadeeth about that!

Sister, I hope your family is peaceful and will be Wish you best of luck. We see some females are pure obedient in corporate industry but building a peaceful home their fighting with egoistic. May Allah guide us all. Any small or big organizations first pillar is obeying with pure respect from core heart and family is core unit of society. However, obeying and loyalty is not same. In addition, pray those ignorance men who try to use wives as slave in the name of obedient.

@@kairinase Barakallahu feek ya akhi for the reply to the typical learned women of this era.

Slavery to them means cooking 2 times in a day.

@@nak141 Wa feekum barakah nk and all those who read my comments. I don't think that it's because the women of this era are learned that they think like this... It's the ideology of people from the "Rainbow Flag" community that taught women to be hateful of men, by disseminating misinformation about how men should treat women, how women should treat themselves, and why women should be equal to men. After inculcating these thoughts, they then reap from the rift that caused women and men to separate, and take into their fold, followers according to their sexual orientation. These people then labeled themselves as feminist, masculinist, and liberalists. Homosexuality then becomes rampant under these cover. Just like true slavery, true equality if allowed to exist, would make the world suffer. At face value, equality would look like it's correcting the world by ensuring that all are the same and would be treated the same. In actuality, it's just a power play among those in power to ensure that they could share the weak people among themselves and not fight with each other. These people have come as far as changing our perception about the Hadeeth and disapproving some of it. Luckily, they were unable to change the Quran, but they're working on it now. As the claim that husbands treat their wives as slaves; the opposite of it is true, because unlike their parents, husbands tend to be lenient to their wives and tend to pamper them more. In fact, some husbands would do anything to please their wives... But because of some ungrateful women who posted toxicity on social media, these husbands, no matter what they do, all their deeds would be ignored. I think people should be more humble the more they learn. They should respect the views of others, instead of trying to fixing other's view to fit theirs.

@Touhami If the husband orders his wife to jump off a 10 meter wall, should she do it? Because it is not against Islam😅 The wife should only obey in what is proper and in what does not harm her person and dignity. If it causes her harm and will hurt her, whether physical or mental, she does not have to obey him simply because he has no right to be unjust

@Touhami This was an exaggeration to make the principle clear Working for a woman is not haram, however the husband has no right to force his wife to work The wife does not have to obey her husband if he does not respect the woman's dignity, integrity and rights. And among her rights is the right to live a good married life, free from injustice If the husband orders his wife to do something that is not haram but contradicts her rights (such as not having the choice not to work or not being oppressed) the wife does not have to obey

@Touhami Or did I say the opposite? You don't understand my messages on purpose, but it doesn't matter, other more intelligent people will understand them

You have to obey him regardless anything except when he tell you to do shirk

@@cnachopchopnewsagency Obedience is only in what is proper. No obedience in what is haram and no obedience when the request goes against her rights as a woman and wife

Of course, and I am a man

There are so many aspects in islam that Allah made in a way to trigger monafiqs when they are shy away from accepting Allahs commands.

And a husband should never provide for a disobedient wife either

A husband had more rights because he has more responsibility A husband is responsible for protecting and providing. This why he has a degree of authority Wich the wife does not have

The husband rights comes first but moms have more rights afiak , allah knows best , i am not qualified at all and u should seek a professional answer

husband has more rights than mother. he mother rights is only higher for son. Check islamqa

​@@Captain-Blunt. Then how husband's mother has more right than wife?She is also not taking her son's responsibity anymore.

​@@farihaakter7878The wife's primary obedience is to the husband. The husbands primary obedience is to the mother and then father.

Then do these men a favour and stay single until you can accept your own religion. You would just be a burden and an ungrateful wife which would lead to hellfire.

@@shadowstorm5261 thank u.

When he is being unreasonable you don’t have to obey, you can reason with him and even get a third opinion if that doesn’t work. If what he is asking is something good then you have no reason to disobey him. For example wearing hijab or not displaying ur beauty on social media is something he has a right to ask of you.

She is not obliged to obey if what he asks of her goes against her rights (right to respect, to a life free of all forms of injustice, oppression...)

@@med7789 *She is not obliged to obey if what he asks of her goes against her rights (right to respect, to a life free of all forms of injustice, oppression...)* - Then that directly contradicts what Islam says about a wife having to obey her husband because if she has the right to never be oppressed then that means her husband can't order her to do things that would make her feel that way. So then what's the point of saying you have to obey your husband then?

Only bukhari and muslim doesn’t have authentic hadiths

Bukhari and Muslim also have weak hadith but you think allah made you the leaders of the house. Keep dreaming. Was the prophet Muhammad pbuh leader of the house or his wives?

@@MohamedSaad-pn1wn since men are the leader of the house then make sure you keep it clean and cater your wife needs.

@@AS-zc2qi The day I have to keep it clean myself is the day she finds another place to live. Catering to my wife needs is no problem. That's my job if she is doing her part there would be no problem with that.

@@MohamedSaad-pn1wn she doesn’t have to cook and clean for you either Buddy. Also, you seem very entitled by saying when she doesn’t do her part she can find another place to live. Prophet Muhammad did his own chores and we should follow him.

@TouhamiAs salam alaykum I'm not joking akhi it was a proper question. If a wife spent all day cleaning she got no time to learn her diin which one should she does obey and been cleaning no stop the hous3 which She will not take in her grave with her or if she clean cook etc all goid but Not to a showroom level and she decide to go learn her diin she passaway that day so she will be sinful in front of Allah or not?

She is not obliged to obey if what he asks of her goes against her rights (right to respect, to a life free of all forms of injustice, oppression...)

@@ummabdulrahmaan4876that’s unreasonable but if he orders u to cook and clean for a little bit then that’s fine

Abortion is prohibited so she doesn't have to obey when it comes to doing haram acts

in this case no obedience

Yep

Both don't have to work. If husband is earning enough then I don't think she has to work

@@mynmeisname4825 if she wants to make sure she’s got money if she divorces him, she has to work :)

@@DinelaCinematography no cuz that's what mehr is here for

@@DinelaCinematographyshe can work if he says no

You don’t work for your husband

@@AH--173 exactly

As With the boss you don't share championship

@@muhammadsahi216 We work for Allah by following his commandments. One of his instructions is to Obey those who are in authority over you, If you do this, you will be rewarded with blessings, The husband is the boss-leader of his house, Allah will reward you with blessings as a form of payment. Am an american muslim and this is simple stuff. We make islam hard.

@@fajaraftab497 what do you mean? My bad for the angry reply. Also, my point is, a partnership means sharing “power” it’s just like in cricket, both batsmen need to work together, otherwise neither can do well.

Husband of Hz asiya was pharaoh, ofcourse she wouldn't obey him if he would say something against Allah and his prophet. Just cause Hz Fatima and Hz Ali had arguments doesn't means Hz Fatima was disobedient Hz Aisha said those things but it has no relation to disobedience,btw she also apologized and prophet forgave Qur'an 33:35 says obedient men and women, but u only picked part of men and applied it to them being obedient to women(astaghfirullah this is what feminism leads u to)

Actually they will find every reason not to be obedient to their husbands but don't bring any excuses while obeying their bosses in jobs whom they can't even disagree with otherwise they will lose the job. Can't understand what has happened to us when Islam is crystal clear.

They were all obedient don’t lie on their names show proof where they didn’t obey

What the heck! Literally If the husband is being literal abusive person what would u expect!!

@@frenzybuzz3703u consider telling u too cook as Abusive and not letting u work

@@MessiWorldCup-th2de did I say telling someone to cook is abusive? I can tell my husband to cook and that's not abusive on him same applies on women.

Those aren't unrealistic scenarios. I see these scenarios so many times in South Asian subcontinent and traditional 3rd world countries where women are basically pushed into marriages and making children and that too with a man she doesn't even like.

@@frenzybuzz3703 it is obligated fir a women to give the man children and cook if he commands

no he didnt say that. she must still follow the rules of a mulim woman whether married or not. just like how men must follow the rules whether married or not.

@@shadowstorm5261 I mistyped, I meant to say under irregular circumstances. He did in fact say that if you look at 2:20 where the woman loses the husband. The woman is able to do everything her husband previously did because in fact both can do it just fine. So the notion that only a man can do certain things and only a woman can do certain things is demonstrably false.

@@brucewayne7875 are you Muslim?

@@brucewayne7875 don't think it's ever claimed men and women can't fill in for the other at times of necessity but that doesn't invalidate the utility of a complimentarian family system in which both primarily fulfills duties more suited to their tendencies based on their gender

@@bagh98 *fulfills duties more suited to their tendencies based on their gender* - And that's what I'm not convinced is really a thing. Both seem to be capable of doing all things.