Now I know what "alr" means Alright ❌ Ask, Listen and respect✅

These guys should seriously have 5 million subscribers,the fact they are able to make content such as this so realistic and accurate along with the animation not being cheap,is nothing short of amazing

Im ashamed to admit I laughed way too much at the guy infront of the counciler who just yelled "and I got pushed in the pool!" "Im sorry to hear that"

Ask, listen, respect! These should seriously be shown in schools. Great video!

I hate about the fact that this is just so realistic, but there is no people like that counselor, and people don't even think of consent. They do what they want. We need more people like that counselor and the others that actually helped like that kid. Today's society is so cruel and disgusting. Just not the people who care though.

I NEVER thought this channel would do this, but it did: in a situation where one person is responsible, the authority figure acts like everyone is responsible. I was bullied CONSTANTLY in every phase of school. The aggressors were never punished - I was treated like crap for complaining. We were forced to set up decorations together to "help us get along." Lectured about communication. I was tormented without provocation, but they held victim equally or more responsible because I was an introverted asexual weirdo, and the aggressors were "normal." You have 1 perp here: the boy who can't take No for an answer and picks on the boy who stood up for the girl. And the episode submits them ALL to a lecture on proper communication. The 2 non-aggressors could not have communicated more clearly! You want to protect teens from other teens? Punish aggressors, not victims, and let the mentality I grew up with and that's replaying here die YESTERDAY!

I wish these were around when I was younger. These are conversations that need to happen between people, so many problems could be avoided if people took the time to just talk it out. I'm glad these are around for people to learn from so they could see how they can better themselves.

I love how the counselor didnt assign blame and instead helped them talk through the problem

Am i the only one who noticed the third person's enby pin? This channal is so good at showing representation for all types of abuse, races, people. They really deserve more support.

I was sexually abused by a doctor who was treating me for Leukaemia- a blood cancer, while I was a child. You’re channel has inspired me to tell my story so I’m going to be doing vlogs on it and other challenges I’ve faced in life in order to help people who’ve been through the same challenges and other relatable topics too ❤

We love to see teenagers correct and learn ❤🎉

I think the best part of the Ask Listen Respect name is that the acronym is slang for "Alright." Very clever and effective

Making this content available to the public is helping a lot of people including me ❤

Yeah, this sounds familiar. My ex boyfriend from my senior year of high school got upset with me because I said no. When I was still in love with him, we planned it but then I later changed my mind when he showed me his true colors. When I said no and that I wasn't ready, he shut down. This all happened over text, not in person. I ended up blocking him. He wasn't the bad guy, he just didn't listen to me when I put up that boundary.

The end was so sweet. How they were all okay when he just simply asked "can I kiss you".

As a minor who’s under 16, I feel these videos are important for me to watch before I become the age of consent in my country. I now have a better understanding of consent and how to say no to being touched, kissed, or having intercourse, it also helps me understand that my body is a lot like other peoples and that changing feelings even if you’re mid activity and start to feel uncomfortable and saying stop, is ok, thanks for teaching me about this. I really appreciate channels like this

You know, I was really having trouble listening to anyone in public and privacy several years ago. As of now, you were all right... I could've let my mind clear it out of negative thoughts when I listened to my supervisors and group leader. This is what I want is Ask, Listen, and Respect to others. (:(

That's the problem with relationships from the start, one half of the couple wants to automatically go all lovey dove while wanting to kiss and the other half is like he or she isn't ready for that kind of stuff yet.

I totally adore this content...I swish they were in different language, such as Spanish. So I could share it with kids and parents in my area.

Hats off Barbara Sinatra Children's Center Foundation and Wonder Media for making content about teens, for teens, in a way teens can actually relate! Thank you so much for your efforts

A serious issue among teenagers and young adults

So when I was 8 to 9 I was being molested by my foster brother and I was on youtude one day and came across one of your older videos and then I watched all of them and tho at the time I was 10 you guys help me gain the courage to tell my mom when I was 13 about what happened and I do think I would be where I am today if it wasn't your videos and understanding it was not my fault so thank you! I hops y'all are able to reach more kids like me!!

Consent is SO important, one of the absolute most important things in relationships, if you ask me! This is great!

Netflix or Disney should hire this team to make animation for them. This animated video is so GREAT !!!

It’s never that easy in real life. For many guys, a girl saying “no” to them it means they actually want it but in a more forced way. It’s what media and the online world has taught them to do. No means yes… kind of thing. Which is wrong. Or how men also know that a girl saying it’s, Fine means, I’m not fine. And also another thing that’s wrong to think of. Even if it’s true for some mentally ill. Definitely not for everyone. So guys have these thoughts in their head that this is what they want. Reality is never like that. It takes years of listening and understanding and learning and unlearning of bad behaviors and thoughts for guys and girls alike. It’s more complicated than one simple therapy. But it’s a start in the correct direction. this series would be great to show kids that are in middle school and maybe high school.. although most high schoolers would roll their eyes to a show like this. Lol Not all people think this way. the many that do need to unlearn those thoughts about women. about how lonely they are and have thoughts about wanting to harm girls for not saying yes to their advances. It’s a battle I feel won’t stop for both men and women when it comes to dating. Now that women have a choice and are able to say no. It’s going to be an uphill battle of respect and listening and learning and unlearning all in one. I feel it’s going to be a decade before this happens, because the online world has set us back in a way like never before with bad influencers. But I could be wrong here.

when i was a child i used to watch these vids and these vids made me out of bullying. this guy deserves 5million with appluase

another good one ladies and gentlemen

I swear this is the calmest and most organized counselor meeting that I have witness or heard or smth...

"Listening isn't hard." That's true or at least it should be. The problem is some people don't listen.

How great is this video? Wow. Wish we had stuff like this (or even school counselors) when I was younger.

I love how they didn't paint Kai as a bad guy, just someone who was moving to fast in the relationship and felt rejected. And I like how they didn't completely cut him off after that and continued to be friends.

I'm glad that the guys who were bullied (especially Raquelle) and the bullies found a common language and the bullying stopped, judging by how Raquelle and "Pizza Bully" (the guy in the blue hoodie) are playing cards (0:05), and everyone at this party gets along well with each other and communicate!) A good continuation of that bullying story (their most popular short «Are you ok?”) was made by the creators!👍

More schools should have a counselor like that.

well that was a very helpfull lesson thank you for your time, your concern and energy to read this

there should be social media campaigns for students to forward and send these videos to everyone in their schools and community. it really makes you think! this channel is stellar!

The nonbinary pin on the student with glasses did not go unnoticed. Great video as always, consent is so so important.

I like how they showed how not only the victim felt, but how the predator felt also. Even though there’s no excuse for assault, there may be a story behind it.

This shorts are always amazing, thank you for this

First there needs to be a healty, save and understanding environment for others to speak their minds and leaving their feelings out in the open. And since I was little such an environment WASN'T there. And I'm just DONE with it! Everytime I was in a situation (and there were a lot) I had to go to the other side "explain" my situation. Making myself vulnerable to get the help and the understanding I needed. And even then the "help" and "understanding" was only for the "polished surface". Cause neighter had they patience, nor did they accommodate with my needs and bundaries. NEVER did they come to me asking ME, why I did react this way, how my perspective is, how I see things or feel about it, asking themselves, what would be THE BEST for ME. And certainty NEVER, if I am ok with the things they do. Not my mother, not my father, not my friends, not my colleagues, not my employes. It was all about what THEY wanted and I just got the blame and was told I had to stop/ to adjust. And I'm SO DONE with it! Cause this isn't right! And neigther is it fair! And NO. Asking someone "What is wrong with you?" in a voice, with a face and with a demeanor, which clearly says "I don't care about you, you are the problem and therefore it's your fault." Is definitelly NOT a health, save and understanding way to identify problems and resolve conflicts! If I could I would send this video and text to everyone who I (once) knew and tell them: THIS IS EXAXTLY WHAT YOU DID WRONG Our society needs to learn that everythink comes with a price and that good things don't come out of noting! If you want good things to happen, you have to do something good first. It's as simple as that.

Guys they were all friends at first, they just needed help communicating and understanding how everyone else feels so they can work through it together, this is shown by the way only the boy gives an apology at the end, the counselors trying to mend their relationship instead of punishing people, since they were all good before this misunderstanding. They were all called in to talk because they were all involved, not because they were all at fault.

That was the best principal ive ever seen. People. Take notes.

@4:34 Some days I am trapped for hours repeating this to myself.

It’s been a while since this channel had another video and once again it’s inspiring and speaks to us all whether we are children or adults. I do agree, it can be hard to communicate.

I have been watching these for a while and I love the animations portraying important safety rules for others to be aware of and learn but this channel seriously should be shown in schools due to many of these safety rules being violated or at home cause its important for everyone teens, adults,kids!And we must protect others and help them with whatever they are going through

1:07 This a little off topic but I love how creator gave Terrane / Terrance (?) a nonbinary pin to their bookbag! 😊

the way they talk is really realistic great message

The animation and art style is way better than you would expect it to be.

These videos are amazing They portray these kind of things not too dramatic but also not Sugar coated and I can appreciate it This is also very educational And they can also help people realize if this is happening to them or if they're doing this

they need to show this to students but the schools are so sensitive and think its "inappropriate". they need to know some kids are hiding their dark stories art home in their fake smiles. they need to show this! I hope schools realize that they don't really care but they do care a bit because of the hotlines, but I mean, it's just a hotline. not gonna help, so they need to show this realistic story, not because of the kissing scenes smh

this is the most realistic thing and almost entirely accurate. it deserves more views

Not sure if any of y’all noticed, but on Taryn’s jacket, there was a non-binary flag pin and that just made my day :)

These videos need to be shown in schools. Please keep up the good work!

I had been going to a single young adults group. It's from the church I follow. I started dating one of the guys. We are all in our 20s we aren't kids but they all act like kids. I felt like the girl in this video. All the people in the group knew how I felt, but they instead of helping me they only excluded me. And they hanged out with the guy I dated. Although they took my side they made me feel I shouldn't be in the group. And they are right I need good people who stand up with me, like in this video.

HEHE THE FRIEND WHO HELPS THE GIRL HAD A NON-BINARY PIN❤️❤️❤️

YOOOOO THIS IS SUCH A GREAT SHORT FILM! Also love this dude with the glasses 🙇🙇🙇

Loud and clear, I just know that these experiences aren't always straightforward or settled so innocently.

Kai isn't good boyfriend material anyway. If he has respected her the first time, then he would have had a chance.

Brilliant work! Thank you for this ❤

Your animations are wonderful! I wish every school can show your videos to students ❤

Wow that was the most unrealistically helpful school counselor ever

This feels too real ❤subscribed, I watched this channel as a kid.

The drawings and animations are amazing! I love how smooth and professional it looks, and it’s such a nice art style! Besides, the voices, dialogues and story just wow. I absolutely love this channel 🤍.

THIS CHANNEL i truly agree , all you animate it goes to heart and makes me feel like it has happened to me the whole world should watch it

Awesome a new video

I appreciate the subtle nonbinary representation :3 and great video, as always!

This was a very helpful video. I really wish that videos like this existed when I was in middle school or high school.

TEACHERS NEED TO SHOW US THESE VIDEOS

As a gender-fluid kid, seeing the rep of enby people makes me so happy. We’re getting closer and closer to acceptance.

i love the non-binary pin!!

Do you know in middle school I was bullied a lot and I actually got into a deep depression but now that I’m in high school I feel much better I am more confident of myself and I don’t care what other people think of me it’s about what matters to you

I got this as an ad, i watched it to the end.

Wait, so a guy kisses a girl, she tells him hes not ready, he feels bad and makes her feel bad as a result. The girl goes to her friend, who tries to talk to the guy but ends up getting pushed in a pool in front of his peers. And the solution is to tell all three kids to listen to each other? No freaking way. The guy may have felt terrible about the 'rejection', but he reacted terribly to not just the girl, but to their friend. Hes; the one who needs to learn to listen. And ifschools cant caml, gently, and respectfully teach THE PERSON WHO DID WRONG about consent and boundaries and proper behavior withoout putting the blame on the victims, what are we even doing??? the fact that all three kids got pulled into the office is awful.

Hi I please read my story too Well I'm boy and I'm 18 years old i have a also story about abuse when my age is 10-12year I go to to my father's sisters home sometimes well my father's 2 sister married in one home first my father's older sister second is my father's younger sister when onetime I play in my father's younger sister home sometimes my father's younger sister husband plays with me but he also kiss on my face alot (not on lips) and sometimes he put his hand in my T-shirt and I become very uncomfortable this happens to me many times and I go to my father's older sister home to play and also sometimes I avoid to to sleep at my father's younger sister home because of her husband but there is a problem my father's older sister husband is drunk all night and almost very day in her home is fight and yelling to him (father's older sister husband) and I can't find peace so I need to go my father's younger sister home and also I play with my father's younger and older sister kids it was so funny and enjoyable but sometimes I become uncomfortable after seeing my father's younger sister husband And also I have a problem I can't walk because of my disease my bones is so weak and also due to break bones alot of times my bones structure is abnormal sometimes people stare at me like I am not a normal human I'm monster and because of my disease my head is little big and I'm not good looking and people not like to talk me (expect neighbour) and also I hate my self no one is my friend😢😢 that's my I have social anxiety I remember once I go to to public place people stare at me like I'm not human and also once a children come to my home and after seeing he was very scared like he sow a monster I give other to fake smile but inside in very upset because of my disease 😑😑 And also I suffused from depression 3 times 1. When my age is 9-10 years old and also due to my disease my parents said you need to leave your school forever when I'm in 5th class my age is around 9-10 years old and 2 years later(12-14) I go to deeprasion because of my disease I think whole day I am not like other normal human why I am like inhuman and cry because I want to play outside with other kids too I want too friend but I can't walk so I can't play and I can't make friends I crying almost every day why I can't walk even i try to suicide but I can't take my life I think if I drink thinner I well die I free from this world but I can't take my life I can't suicide my deeprasion is long up to 10-15 days because i am tired of my desise I stay at home 24/7 houses only sometimes I go outside and some relative home but still I watch too much TV for time pass I remember once my legs's bone broke and I can't watch TV because of weak single (how can I spend time) I will cry (my age is around 14-15) 2.when I get mobile from parents for timepass I play roblox (game) and my age is 16 year I meet with a girl who is 13 years old I make her my friend and then she also make me her friend and I also started liking her and she also like me😊😊 but once I call her she is very disappointed with my voice and after that I tell her I can't walk (chat) she said I don't want to stay with that person who can't walk so talk💔💔 my hearth is like broken and next day I see she block me and I started crying and I go 10-20 days deeprasion but I move on to think if she don't care about so why I care about her and I move on 3. When I new to instagram I meet with a girl her name is ashveeni she is from indore and I make her my friend and I also started love her but she don't talk to much and don't care about me and one day her account ban i don't know her account temporarily ban or permanently ban I missing her so much I hope one day I meet her but their are is problem after account block she don't send me request from another account even my name is easy to remember she don't send me request I love but I think she no love me and I go to deeprasion almost 1.5 moths but still I'm in deeprasion 💔💔💔💔 In my life I have only family no friend no love no crush no money Sometimes I think I leave this cursed world but after seeing my parents and family I can't leave it can't suicide I'm in deeprasion, deep loneliness, social anxiety, worthless feeling What should I do Help me💔💔💔💔💔 Also I have regrat made a lot of bad thing when I was child I my age is around 11-12 years old i play with my neighbour relative kid she is girl and I think she was my first friend after leaving school when i play with her and I rub my nose to her nose (I know it's embarrassing) alot of time but once she said stop I said sorry and after that I think never do that again if I do only 1-2 times seriously I that case I don't know what I'm doing because I is also kid and I have no sense i never disrespect girl I respect girl too much hope you understand me imagine you child watch these actor's rub their nose to each other what you expect im not justify my bad thing I just try to understand I don't want to do this understand me please (I do these thing because I watch too much TV (bollywood) when I saw actor rubbing nose I like this too so I want too to do it and i did it i have no sense what I am doing because I I'm so young) and in our family and between relative started hate because of property issue the property issue is in my family's farm and between neighbour's farm their was a tree and my dad cut this tree and neighbour said this tree is our and my family said this tree is our and between family and neighbour hate I lost her too because her parents said don't go to his child home and at 3:00pm-6:00pm she come and said I don't come to your home I don't talk to you because my parents said [ due to hate between family and neighbour I lost my friend too ] Second I remember once my mother's brother daughter come to my home for vaccination I remember she sit down near me [this time is naratra a Indian culture part ] and I friendly to her and also she talk to me very nicely I become friendly near her but this time she sit down near me I put my hand on her shoulder back side (only one time) (कमर) she said take away your hand if you don't do this sit down other side and then she sit down other side I don't understand so I don't take away my hand and think why she (my age is 14-15) so uncomfortable because I put my hand on her shoulder back side (कमर) but when I grow up and become teenager I understand what's she is feeling and inside I'm full of guilt and once I go to her home i said to her I'm sorry for touching you and she said it's OK this time my guilt's light then I try to understand other girl so I understand without permission don't touch girl no matter she is you friend or not I do this because I think she is my sister and aslo friend so I friendly I know she is not interested in me I really respect girl but I get friendly tell me you have a male/female friend sometimes you put your hand or her/his shoulder It's normal that's why I put my hand on her shoulder back side I know For some people this is normal for some people this is like abuse but trust me I have no bad attention about this i guees I make friend that's why I think I make her my friend and to be friendly I put hand And also I don't cross my line in my life I just touch her hair and rub my nose to my friend's noseto think we are friend and I put my hand on her shoulder back side for some people it's normal but for me both of them is my sisters how could I do that I promise I don't know what am I doing Well I only touch hair and rub nose to each other nose and put hand on her shoulder back side I don't cross my line remember but yeah I have regrats Than I don't know you trust me or not I'm shy yeah Ever friend left me behind no matter these person is girl or boy I also need friend too to express my feelings my in my life I absorb my feel I inside me sometimes I cry because I can't express my feelings no I have no friend no love Those who read my full comment thank you so much😁😁😁😁 I express my feelings you don't belive some people also say that you can't walk you are so lucky I don't believe how could they say that thing

The Girl with the brown hair and Pony we saw her when Requille was exiting the Girls's Locker room at the door

I just discovered your channel, amazing! This should be shown in all schools! Keep up the good work?

Sometimes we need people like that guy with glasses

Beautiful! Excellent intervention on the part of the Head

Omg, this is amazing! God bless!!

This should be shown everywhere.

Very well done as always!! Also the fact that the middle friend of the group had a nonbinary pin made me really happy!!

I really enjoy this channels content and surprised but not surprised it got more notoriety. This whole situation though feels cringe, ive never seen a councilor pull a group of people for something that happened outside of school. To be more precise, not kissing is what and a third person involved also feels so strange.

Awesome👍😎

I've been in the girl's situation before....just online. There was this one guy in 8th grade. I told him we weren't dating but he started hugging me and grabbing my shoulders. I left school without telling him so I could sign onto homeschool. I blocked his number immediately after I left. I feel pretty stupid for not speaking up.

Just because a girl isn't ready to kiss or go all the way doesn't mean you can simply hurt her and not be with her. I didn't have intercourse until I was twenty years old.

I never had highschool relationships because this. I feel like learning from others in their relationships before i start and then as an adult I'll be more mature mental and logically to know what to do in a relationship. My mom told me that be friends with them until the time is ready. Because friendships lasts longer than relationships she told me. I hope this helps someone!

Despite the serious topics, I love these videos.

Oh my god I love this. If only all school counselors were like this.

LOVE THIS MESSAGE.

Great, easy to follow and digest content. I wish more folks knew about the work you’re all doing!👏🏼

yeah he should have asked for consent to push him the pool 😂

Yessss they’re back 😁

This art style looks awesome :D

wish my school was more like this

We have to respect others even if we don't like it. 🙏☺️

Here in Mexico we just say: stop crying and get along

I love this so much

I wish I was in a school like this. I did something to my closest friend when I was 12 and it made me feel terrible. I couldn't understand why he got mad, I mean I'm supposed to get mad not him. He took my 40 question physics assignment and wrote his name on it. When I told the the teacher about it he hated me for the rest of my life. He give me death stares. He just didn't forgive me??? He also avoided me. And when I tried to talk he just gets angry again

This is so inspiring! I love your videos so much, they have inspired me to get out of toxic reletionships and friendships. Keep going!❤ Btw, if anyone reading this is in a toxic reletionship or something similar, you should talk to someone and leave that person, trust me, it will be hard at first but once you do it, you will feel better.❤

Everyone should see this!

Look. I know that this isn't relevant to the topic of this video, but is it me, or does it kinda sound like the Green Hill Zone theme (Sonic.exe) in the 4:22 in this video?!?