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Are You Okay?

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Gary C

Gary C

Күн бұрын

Are you okay? A question many of us with mental health issues try to avoid. In this video I also review my Mela weighted blanket. Thanks for watching, please subscribe if you'd like to see more! :)
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@TheDisneyPrice
@TheDisneyPrice 3 жыл бұрын
We are all behind you Gary! Stay safe - everyone here will support you no matter what.
@lucypianosi2071
@lucypianosi2071 3 жыл бұрын
You are a brilliant man!! Thank you for checking in on us. I know I am not ok either and that I don't like the spiral that I am going. And I too am looking at ways to bring me back. Thank you for the hello and the openness and the acceptance you provide. You are brilliant because you know you. You know when it's time to stop, look around, and ask yourself what you need. And here is the real wisdom you are perfect at....you ask for what you need...either of yourself or from others....and in your own time, you get back to being in that place where being Gary...in all its brilliance and glory....feels amazing. It is incredibly difficult and it doesn't happen overnight. We can't control what is happening in the outside world but we can't allow the outside world to control what is happening to us...our souls, our perceptive, our outlook. One second, one minute, one hour, one day at a time. All the best to you Gary. You are loved, cherished, and like it or not a really amazing soul.
@deniserichards6941
@deniserichards6941 3 жыл бұрын
I know I speak for loads of people when I say "WE LOVE YOU & YOU'RE MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU COULD EVER REALIZE"! 2020 & now 2021 have been extra rough but you have brought light into dark times for me and I'm sure many others. Thank you for being you. Sending virtual hugs & pixie dust. 🤗🧚‍♂️
@reneebooth8512
@reneebooth8512 3 жыл бұрын
Always remember truth, Gary. You are loved by many. You are beautiful inside and out. Remembering Truth has been the biggest help for me over the years. Making a list of things you have to be thankful for helps joy to grow and fear to shrink. 1. You have not caught COVID so far. 2. Wonderful family who loves you- the kids give you joy. 3. You’ve been successful finding the various items of your hobbies that are cool and fun. 4. There is a vaccine waiting when you are in queue to be allowed to take it. 5. Spring/summer always comes. 6. You will see Disney again soon. 7. God is mighty and loves you most of all! 8....These are all wonderful truths. Make the list longer and longer. Ignore the lies in your head. Analyze and acknowledge them for what they are-just lies. Tell Satan to back off. We love you Gary. I pray for the same joy and peace for you that you’ve given 1,000s of people through your vlogs. Read all the loving fan comments of your Disney vlogs again and again. See the joy in your face. Those are truth and this joy shall come again in the morning. Patience, hope, faith Gary. God is much much bigger than the boogie man!
@debra333
@debra333 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, Gary! Sending healing vibes and [socially distanced yet warm] hugs to strengthen you. 🤗💕
@chloelorna4335
@chloelorna4335 3 жыл бұрын
Been through quite a bad breakup recently and watching yours and Adams old videos brings me so much joy we all love you xx
@heywhatupitsash7389
@heywhatupitsash7389 3 жыл бұрын
Hiya Gary, I found you some time ago through people I watch on this platform. You're such a light and I really really relate. At first I loved lockdown, finally I didn't have to explain why I'm a shut in. But during the winter and especially Christmas I lost it. Like full on mental break lost it, been trying to get back to feeling less of a ghost over these past months. Now with stuff opening back up I'm still very hesitant, I'm not the same person from before. But it helps to know I'm not alone. I know so so many people that feel the same way. And if we're all different from how we were in the before times, that gives us space to share what we've learned and want different for ourselves. Much love xx
@andreafry8264
@andreafry8264 3 жыл бұрын
We love you here! Take care of your self. We are not in lock down here but it’s cold! 🥶 I hate depression it can steal so much of our lives. Sending you much love ❤️
@leoniemarks4594
@leoniemarks4594 3 жыл бұрын
It's good to see you're relatively okay; we were thinking about you recently. All 3 of us have just recovered from Covid and have been in complete isolation for the last 2 weeks: tomorrow is our first day we're allowed out, and I'm actually nervous in a way. On top of all this, we lost our telephones, internet and subscription service on the TV when VirginMedia in our area went down at 9am on Monday - it literally all came back on at 1pm today. But if all that wasn't bad enough, the EE transmitter near Orp hospital (where we now live) also went down and we had 3 whole days completely cut off with no telephones, text, broadband or anything. What a relief we weren't all badly ill or we'd have been in real trouble. I am suffering from low moods recently. I don't know whether it's because this is the third lockdown we're going through or because I didn't get to see my family (or friends) at Christmas, but it's my 60th birthday this Sunday and I won't see a single soul other than the two people I live with. I'm not even allowed to return to work until Wednesday, so won't even be able to see my work colleagues in the flesh. We should have been going to Florida next Sunday (21st) to celebrate my birthday, but obviously that had to go out the window as well. It's just such a depressing time at the moment with no apparent end in sight. I guess the only light at the end of the tunnel is that we've been invited to get our Covid jabs (but have to wait 28 days as we've just had it). I expect your parents have also now been invited to make their appointments, too. Keep well and try and find something to be positive about; I'm trying for myself, but it's not easy when you feel as if everything is falling apart around you. I've mentioned my Autistic daughter to you before (she's 6 months younger than Adam). She's having a very bad time of it at the moment and seems to be buckling under the pressure of being stuck at home while being too anxious to go out at the same time. And of course, the Covid didn't help any of us! All the best from us all.
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry it’s been a difficult time. Not having access to the internet or your phones must have been incredibly isolating. I’m glad you’re in recovery now & trying to stay positive - though it is difficult with no definite lockdown end in sight. I hope your daughter feels better soon x
@glow_soul
@glow_soul 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Gary 💜 I came across you on Adam’s channel the other day. I have been hooked watching your guys Disney cruise videos. I find myself subconsciously smiling throughout the whole thing. I have severe anxiety in the mornings, and your videos make me escape that and feel joyful. I understand what you’re going thru, but please remember that your light shines so bright, even if it feels dim on the inside. You’re a beautiful soul. Thanks for sharing; I may look into getting a weighted blanket.
@jessicad1939
@jessicad1939 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so comforted knowing I’m not the only one finding lockdown 3 really hard 💛 sending you lots of love. Take care of yourself ☺️💛 (Also funny story about when I got a weighted blanket - I used it as a cape and then knocked over my cup of tea ... all over my uni tutors’ textbook that he’d lent me 😂 most expensive brew I’ve ever made 😂)
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like something I would do! 😂
@jessicad1939
@jessicad1939 3 жыл бұрын
It was a very low moment 😂
@ericakelsey5822
@ericakelsey5822 3 жыл бұрын
This morning I planned on going on my treadmill & wanted to put something on TV. NOTHING good was on so I decided to rewatch yours & Adams Disney Cruise Line vlog, I believe from 2019 or maybe 2020 (Since I have started typing this I can’t go back & recheck the year, lol). Either way it was your first time on the ship to see Captain Mickey. & I thought, gosh, Gary hasn’t posted in quite some time. Last time being when you dressed up as a Christmas tree “still a Christmas tree”. Lol. Then a couple of hours later you posted this video. I was like oh my goodness I mind melded him. Lol. Well Gary, I hope things start to get better for you so very soon! Things should only start to get better in the world since we have a vaccine & you & Adam can once again come to the US, take a wonderful vacation & make us some NEW (MUCH NEEDED) Disney vlogs! I am thinking about you & sending lots of positivity your way. ❤️😁. Feel well my friend.
@cherylclark3838
@cherylclark3838 3 жыл бұрын
Struggling and talking about it is hard. I applaud you. You help alot of people with our issues.
@JoJoPim
@JoJoPim 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting, Gary C. I was actually thinking about you the other day and this very question came to my mind. You also don't actually owe us any explanation, but glad you decided to post a video nevertheless. Upload more videos when you feel up to it, or have more content you wish to share. Hoping you feel better and more "okay" soon!
@alexandramcglade2950
@alexandramcglade2950 3 жыл бұрын
We love you Gary. Watching your old videos has brought so much joy to so many of us throughout lockdown xx
@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 3 жыл бұрын
It’s lovely to see you. No matter where we all are... this is extremely tough. You are surrounding yourself with things you enjoy, that’s a great move! The weighted blanket is magic, it’s safety to us. One day, one minute, one hour, one day at a time. Here in America a whole lot is happening, more than the lockdown.... it can creep in and it does but we can only worry about us. ❤️🙏
@TomnTammi
@TomnTammi 3 жыл бұрын
Gary, you are one of my favorite people. As someone who has mental health problems I know how you feel. Knowing you can get through great odds helps.
@fayebrooks7723
@fayebrooks7723 3 жыл бұрын
Such a lovely guy, you really are Gary. Remember how many people love you and enjoy your company, you are a breath of fresh air and a kind and funny man. I am so glad I discovered you on here, you make me smile. All my love to you xxx
@helenshappyplace1064
@helenshappyplace1064 3 жыл бұрын
what a wonderful video Gary C. Can I just say, I am not ok either.......But you and Adam get me through every day as I am rewatching all the disney vlogs hoping i will be there a year today! so thank you for that! Stay safe, and its ok not to be ok xxx
@GrubbyJim
@GrubbyJim 3 жыл бұрын
Great to see you/a video from you, Gary. I live alone and, although I have a fab bubble round the corner, lockdown has been really hard to do without someone else in the house. It’s great that you’ve been able to identify that you’re struggling, that’s such a tough thing to do. I did the same thing with forgetting to order medications, it was a nightmare but such a wake up call too. I hope that you can take comfort in the fact that we’re all here cheering for you and sending our best wishes/positive vibes. You’re making so many people’s lockdowns so much easier, including mine, and I can only hope you have something you can use as a small comfort in such trying times. Sending all my positivity and gratitude your way, with hope that you can see better days soon.
@ellenwoodruff4518
@ellenwoodruff4518 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to see you and hear you Gary. You hang in there, it WILL get better. I'm sending you good thoughts and positive energy, my friend.
@CoreyTube2012
@CoreyTube2012 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this video Gary! I believe it will help many people who are in similar situations. Last night my wife and I watched some of Adam's videos of your trip to Florida last March. We turn to Disney videos as an escape when we need to forget about things for a bit. BTW, we honestly thought you were no older than 30 at the very most - did you say your 40th birthday? Even in today's video, I thought you looked good! Stay strong, we're thinking of you!
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, I’m 40 🥳
@TheRebeccaMcD
@TheRebeccaMcD 3 жыл бұрын
Good to see your gorgeous face again Gary. I was having a super low day today and then watched your vlog. These are tough times we are living through and some days it feels like life will never get back to normal again, but what helps is knowing we are not alone and there are people like you out there feeling the same way. Take care you fabulous man. xxx
@karenoest2667
@karenoest2667 3 жыл бұрын
It is so good to see you Gary!! Sending all the good vibes for healing, comfort, and strength!!! We love you Gary C!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@MultiCinderella23
@MultiCinderella23 3 жыл бұрын
Life can be trying enough at times let alone a pandemic. I just happened upon your vlog on KZfaq. I want you to know the smiles you brought as I watch your videos. You are genuine. A great joy of a human being! Hang in there...your you being you has brought joy to more people than you probably realize. Thank you! 😊
@selenamarinello7280
@selenamarinello7280 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Gary! You’ve been missed! I’ve loved listening to your interview of the Magical Podcast 😊 thank you for sharing how you’re feeling. I definitely feel like I can relate. I love in San Diego and we’ve been hit pretty hard with Covid, but people are not really taking this seriously. I’ve been working as an essential worker since day 1 of the pandemic and it’s definitely taken a toll on this of us in the service industry. I have days where I can barely bring myself out of bed to go to work because I’m stuck under a strong weight of stress, anxiety, and general burnout. There is an issue of low staff, harsher regulations, and a lack of empathy from people who think they can’t be touched by this horrible event. If it helps we’re here with you and you’re not alone. That thought has helped me get through the day, but I hope you’re little community here can help support you and make you feel loved and supported. ♥️
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you lots of strength x
@Betharoot
@Betharoot 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we need to be reminded to be kind to ourselves. I'm glad you are recognizing how to do that.
@jeanmacfarland1428
@jeanmacfarland1428 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that-life can be a bit overwhelming these days but having issues with anxiety and depression does make this time even more trying. I am sure hearing this from someone like you, helps people realize that it is OK to feel this way and how important it is to check in with yourself and with others. It is always good to "see" you, just do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Sending you many good thoughts.
@lindagilliamsen2163
@lindagilliamsen2163 3 жыл бұрын
My sister Diane said watching this video taught her a lot and made her feel normal. Your genuine, open soul made someone feel normal who usually feels abnormal and ashamed of her disability. The world is truly a better place because you're in it. x
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
@joycesmith8354
@joycesmith8354 3 жыл бұрын
Missed you Gary C. Hopefully it won't be for long now to get back to some normality. Although I think it will take a while for our mental health to be ok. 🥰🥰 watching yours and Adam's Disney Cruise 🛳 . Your blogs are keeping me sane. Thank you 💖💖
@lunacampello
@lunacampello 3 жыл бұрын
Oh we have missed you!! so lovely to see your beautiful face today. Thank you for your honest and open vlog xx Lots of love from the Netherlands xx
@judylemaster9558
@judylemaster9558 3 жыл бұрын
I understand completely. I too purchased a weighted blanket; mine is pink. They really do help. I also started an accountability journal so I can be accountable to myself. It helps me keep track of me, if that makes sense. It was good to see you 💕
@IrisM75
@IrisM75 3 жыл бұрын
I love my weighted blanket. It has really helped comfort me at night while I sleep. It is good to see you on here and I am sorry you have not been okay. Meditation has been helping when it becomes too much for me. I hope you feel better soon.
@ssvacationista9405
@ssvacationista9405 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Gary C...couldn't wait to click when I saw the message that you posted. You are so brave to share to help others. May God bless and keep you safe and bring you peace. Praying you can feel some of the joy you bring to so many❤️
@magicalmarshmadness5162
@magicalmarshmadness5162 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Gary, sending you huge hugs and hope your feeling better soon. This 3rd LD has been hard. I too had to listen to my body and mind and took a month off work, I needed the time to relax and install good positive energy again! There’s no shame in taking time out and no need to explain yourself, but well done for being honest and open, thank you. Sending you good vibes Sunshine! Xx
@davidhotchkiss8766
@davidhotchkiss8766 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you are trying to cope in this horrible lockdown , keep close contact with your most trusted friends and always remember that you are loved for being a ray of sunshine to some people forget the negativity you are what i would call a fighter i myself have a grandson such a insperation to me he makes me smile when im down and says grandad your my Rock ,ive just got him his own passport and hope to take him on a disney cruise with his mum who is a single parent when times get better , stay safe my friend snd look forward to happier times god bless you
@joyce52
@joyce52 3 жыл бұрын
Gary, It is so good to see your face again. I know how you feel because I am on the edge also. I started planning a vacation and that gave me something to look forward to even if it does not happen. If I lose money, I don't care, I needed to have something to look forward to. I am alone and I do not think anyone who is not totally alone, knows what this is like. I rented a condo in Navarre Beach, FL for two weeks for the end of April into May and I do not care if I do nothing but sit on the balcony and walk on the beach, it will be sweet. The condo is on the 12th floor and right on the beachfront. The testing to fly down is all scheduled, but my friend down there has to find someplace for me to be tested before flying home. She lives nearby and will be coming to spend some time with me. We have known each other 51 years and never lost touch. At first it seemed so difficult and tiring go get arrangements for all this, but as it went along, it looked more real to me and gave me a lift. I have had no shots for the virus because Pennsylvania seems to have been forgotten and getting no vaccine after all medical workers were taken care of. Oh well. Keep your chin up and take your meds. I know what depression and anxiety is all about. So I am here for you. 💛
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
The condo sounds lovely! Having something to look forward to is great. Take care 🙏🏻
@theadventuresofdaddyandjac6537
@theadventuresofdaddyandjac6537 3 жыл бұрын
Lockdown has been tough but yours and Adams vlogs have helped me massively! Take care of yourself too Gary, all the best x
@samanthafriel378
@samanthafriel378 3 жыл бұрын
We are al behind you Gary. Its great that you can talk about it. Cabin fever setting in here in Ireland 🇮🇪 too. Keep well and safe xx
@carolinerodda3318
@carolinerodda3318 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Gary, sending you lots of love. It's really tough at the moment but brighter times will come 😀 Stay safe and its always good to hear from you xxx
@lisaryan8168
@lisaryan8168 3 жыл бұрын
I love your honesty. It helps to know we’re not alone in our struggles. Thank you for sharing how you feel and giving us good reminders to check in with ourselves. Wish you all the best ❤️
@aimeemoore6002
@aimeemoore6002 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Gary this is such a brave video 💗 I have been exactly the same this lockdown. It’s very hard to get out of a rut once you’re in it. But having people like you tell your story makes me feel like I’m not alone. Your Disney videos got me through when I was bed bound with COVID. Take care of yourself - you still make us all smile x
@bethpiper2438
@bethpiper2438 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you light and love, Gary. Hoping that in the days ahead you will be able to see the sparkle in your blue eyes that we all see, and know that you are not alone on your journey with anxiety and depression. Your honesty and vulnerability is appreciated more than you know. One day, one moment at a time....be well. 💖
@TerriR1818
@TerriR1818 3 жыл бұрын
Love and hugs 🤗 Gary!! Thinking of you! 💖
@mikelevan9619
@mikelevan9619 3 жыл бұрын
We love you Gary, here in the United States we're not in lockdown, but I feel a lot of people need to be in lockdown here in the United States. People don't seem to care about anybody else's Health. They are not taking this pandemic seriously and going out in public without mask infact the other day I was at Walgreens and there was a guy behind me without a mask coughing. That didn't go so well with me. I turned around and said some pretty colorful words to him and needless to say he backed up. As soon as I got in my truck I took my shirt off and put a clean one on. As far as the anxiety I totally feel you brother. Mine has been extremely out of control. I could be doing the simplest thing and suddenly I'm having an anxiety attack. I feel like I need someone to talk to immediately to let me know that I am actually existing. But yet I don't want any physical contact or interaction I just want someone to be there to let me know I am actually here. I know that sounds strange but that's how I feel when I'm having an anxiety attack. I will pray for you my friend. And by the way when you said you were 40 I nearly spit my beer out. I thought you were probably about 26 27 or 28 at the most and I'm being dead serious. Much love from Bartow Florida
@marylarson2529
@marylarson2529 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Gary! I hope you feel better soon! I have been worrying about you. Please don’t be down on yourself and know that so many people care about you! The struggle is real. You are amazing! Sending Hugs and prayers!
@jeffdang6112
@jeffdang6112 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Gary. I, too, am experiencing the same thing. I find it difficult to tell people because it's often met with gas lighting and toxic positivity. Although it's well intended, it's usually not what someone needs. I'm all for being positive but only when it's authentic and sometimes people don't realize you can "positive vibes only" yourself out of things. When it isn't authentic, you're just lying to yourself. I commend you for being able to say you're not ok. That takes more courage than most people know. I see you and hear you and I wish you all the best.
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I totally understand where you’re coming from on the positivity front. Best wishes x
@terizolman5097
@terizolman5097 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being honest. I can totally relate. You do what you need to. Remember you have lots of people out here that are thinking about you. I go through the forgetting to eat and drink also. Finally set timers on my phone. It helps. Hugs to you.
@irulp
@irulp 3 жыл бұрын
Hello!! As usual, thank you for sharing this to us!! It's nice seeing you here, and I feel thankful for the way you talk about everything! Big hugs!
@kerrybreezy701
@kerrybreezy701 3 жыл бұрын
Sending hugs. Watching your videos to Disney have been so helpful for me you & Adam brighten my day through this pandemic. Anxiety & depression is so painful. Thank you for talking about it.
@Forevermorexx
@Forevermorexx 3 жыл бұрын
We send you lots of love I’m mum or 4 beautiful kiddos & I have suffered with Anxiety, Depression & have panic attacks for the past 10 years & I can totally understand where your coming from over this last 6 weeks I have started to feel so low & am finding lockdown so hard now, the hardest question to answer “How am I” My heart is with you ❤️ & one massive thing thank you so much for yours & Adams Florida vlogs one of the few things that make me smile at the minute ❤️ you are a beautiful person sending you lots of love xx
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Best wishes x
@carolwalker9108
@carolwalker9108 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Gary, thank you for sharing this, you will help so many others just by being honest and by being yourself! My daughter suffers from extreme anxiety attacks which are so scary, to see someone you love just completely lose it is awful! I have only recently found you and your friend Adams channels and are thoroughly enjoying them, we both watch them and they brighten our day. You both do a brilliant job, I hope you are feel better soon, you are one amazing person!
@Ginger_vitis
@Ginger_vitis 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much for opening up and getting it out there the importance of mental health. I’ve lived with anxiety and depression since I was a kid. It just comes out of no where for no reason sometimes and it can be intense. Thank you for posting this. You are incredible and as I’ve had to tell myself many times... “the anxiety and depression will eventually loosen its grip.” “Alice had to fall down a dark hole to find Wonderland.” We are so very lucky to have you here
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Take care xx
@leighannlambert6930
@leighannlambert6930 3 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how your and Adam’s vlogs have brightened my days. I’m in Southern California ( 15 mins from Disneyland ) and have been stuck at home - not only all the crazy lockdowns here, but recovering from cancer and blood clots. Watching your vlogs - LOVE them. LOVE you. Like I said, you brighten my day. Sending you lots of love, a virtual hug and buckets of Pixie Dust. We’ll ALL get through this crazy time. ❤️💛🖤 ✨✨🖤💛❤️
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you lots of pixie dust & healing energy Leigh Ann x
@milimili1153
@milimili1153 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I was watching Adam's Top 50 and came across this video subsequently. Very timely for me. I, too, struggle with anxiety and depression. I appreciate your video and the reminders to do a self-check-in and provide an honest answer when those closest to you ask how you are doing.
@DreamingofDisney247
@DreamingofDisney247 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you feel like this Gary. I think this lockdown is harder this time round personally. I’m sending you lots of love and stay strong. You’re amazing 🥰🥰
@maryannsmith4046
@maryannsmith4046 3 жыл бұрын
I do not know you personally, just by what you have shared through this medium, but my heart just aches when listening to you speak. As shown by many of the comments, look at the amount of joy you have spread by your videos and songs, by just being you!! This is such a difficult time for so many people, everyone is just looking for the end, to be able to be out and about like we once were. It will come, hopefully soon. Until then please take care of you. This may sound like hollow words, but you are a treasure.
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
@juliewillis6782
@juliewillis6782 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you back on you tube, sorry you’re feeling down, but so glad you’re managing to recognise your dark times and have the sense to check them over and look at them logically!!! You don’t look how you feel Gary....you’re still gorgeous gal!!!!😊😘 Can’t wait for this lot to allow some sanity and normality again! It’s harder this time round because it’s winter and dark and dismal. Think about the sun shining on your face and the sound of the waves on the beach! Take care and check in more often as you feel you can!!😘
@annej
@annej 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you are feeling better soon Gary. Virtual hugs. I personally, have a love/hate relationship with my weighted blanket.
@bobbiweaver9566
@bobbiweaver9566 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been depressed and anxious as well. No one ever wants to feel like this and it’s so hard to find joy in days (weeks) when this hits. I understand completely! I wish you well, Gary! I look forward to seeing videos of you soon! Take care of YOU! ❤️
@lougt4083
@lougt4083 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you ❤️Gary. It's certainly been really tough and it really sucks you have to go through this, but you're amazing for recognising where you're at. It's been tough enough shielding for nearly a year, so I can only imagine what it's like for you. Great to see you on here today and I hope things get better for you soon x
@u2tuf
@u2tuf 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for checking in. This experience will make us stronger...and wiser. Have faith. I missed seeing your youtube videos! Peace & light!
@missmolly333
@missmolly333 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these videos. Thank you for the real talk. Love you Gary!
@jayneestrycker8691
@jayneestrycker8691 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Gary! I'm so glad you opened up about not being okay.I like the idea of a check list. Please know that I think of you often and you are very loved and worthy. Keeping you in my thoughts and praying for you. Take care of you😊🙏🏻👍🌞✌💖😊💕
@mimmssimmo1367
@mimmssimmo1367 3 жыл бұрын
Currently wearing my. Moo 🐮 moo🐮shharoo T-shirt love it. Love you Gary. Xx
@denisemead1271
@denisemead1271 3 жыл бұрын
And, once again, thank you for your sweet vulnerability and authenticity. It gives me courage to be my authentic self. Much love to you ❤️
@jgilmore9986
@jgilmore9986 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Gary, thank you for your honesty and smile. In your dark hours please try to remember there are many many of us who you make smile. We will support you any way you need, just ask. Sending hugs and good vibes across the pond ❤️
@00jamier
@00jamier 3 жыл бұрын
Hi it’s nice to see you ! I agree with you my anxiety has been going through the roof, I thought I was sick because my anxiety has been that bad. 😞It’s always been manageable because I’ve usually dealt with it well. Isn’t it weird how bad it makes you feel when it’s at it’s worst🤔 and then I realise anxiety has a lot to answer for. I’ve been the doctors 3 times had bloods and there isn’t anything wrong it’s my anxiety creeping back at it’s worst panic attacks etc. You don’t have to explain where you have been as long as YOU are ok, sending you huge hugs you beautiful person. 🌹❤️ xxxx
@tedowens2193
@tedowens2193 3 жыл бұрын
It’s often hard to admit when we aren’t okay. You’re not alone! So much healing energy is coming your way from so many of us around the world.
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ted 🙏🏻
@tedowens2193
@tedowens2193 3 жыл бұрын
@@garyc you’re welcome!
@superstarem
@superstarem 3 жыл бұрын
you may not be a professional gary but you are a real person with the disease and first hand experience which means your advice, tips etc is very useful for those that suffer as well.
@chuck3700
@chuck3700 3 жыл бұрын
Gary it is so good to see you. We have been worried about you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as we all go through these difficult times. The end is coming but it is slow. You have thousands of viewers who support you and will always be there to listen. It won't be long before you and Adam will be doing another Disney trip. Please stay in touch with us. We will all get through this.
@tinaharing9545
@tinaharing9545 3 жыл бұрын
Gary, I know when things are off, just like you. So, I have made myself go outside, cold or snowing, walk, touch the trees the ground. I sit in different places in my house to change my perspective. I will sit on floor, corner of room, by the window anywhere I don’t usually sit. I go on a Netscape trip, to Disney, Vegas or Paris. I will start at the beginning of the park or favorite resort and KZfaq the whole journey, not missing a store or restaurant or doorway. Listening to all the sounds and really looking at all the landscape. Have ALOT of conversations with people, anyone, even if you call about a bill or service, I ask how they are, how is the weather, get friendly. We need personal contact with people, our surroundings and nature. Make a new friend, I would love a Penpal, if you are interest message me. I love your videos and care about your health and well being, as so many on here do. Hang in there Gary.
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tina, sitting in different parts of the house is a great idea! :)
@ajruel1
@ajruel1 3 жыл бұрын
I understand anxiety. I've lived my whole life with it. We learn to manage it the best way we know how. I love this quote in the song by Jordan Smith. . "Stand in the light" "This is who I am, I'm not going to hide 'Cause the greatest risk we'll ever take is by far To stand in the light and be seen as we are". Blessings to you.
@annestardust5004
@annestardust5004 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you love Gary! Thank you for the update. I will send positive thoughts from Texas your way.
@laurenjackson5966
@laurenjackson5966 3 жыл бұрын
You are brave and you are not alone. You are loved and you are special.
@franzie74c.16
@franzie74c.16 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty Gary. I will keep you in my thoughts for better days to come. Hang in there.
@emilylack7540
@emilylack7540 3 жыл бұрын
Sending love and positive vibes your way! You are so loved Gary! Hang in there.
@PinkButterfly2662
@PinkButterfly2662 3 жыл бұрын
this lockdown has been such a struggle for me too, i can’t concentrate on anything - i often feel like i’m on autopilot!! and my depression and anxiety have been through the roof as well 😔 just remember you are such a light to lots of people in dark times. i’m sending you sooo many good vibes and lots of love, gary 💕
@judylee0311
@judylee0311 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the honesty. I have decided that I would do exactly what you suggested, that I would ask my self if I'm okay. I came to that realization a few weeks ago and it has been working out great. Now I decide which pair of pj's are going to be my daytime pj's and which will be my night. It's okay to just go with the flow. If I don't need to dress proper and I feel better in lounge wear, it's okay. Anyways, I digress. Sending you love. Everything passes.
@denisemead1271
@denisemead1271 3 жыл бұрын
You have been on my mind a lot lately, Gary. I recently rewatched several of the travel series with you and Adam and was thinking how much I missed seeing you and hoping that you were doing okay during the most recent lockdown. Always sending you love and light and I'm so happy to see your lovely face 💖
@denisesteele6050
@denisesteele6050 3 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you Gary c xx
@TheARGblue
@TheARGblue 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you love Gary! I think your check in with yourself list is a fantastic idea. Be kind to yourself! It’s okay to not be okay!
@sleepypanda1501
@sleepypanda1501 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the vid. Hope you feel better soon and we are all here for you ♥️
@kaylaroehler9447
@kaylaroehler9447 3 жыл бұрын
Big hug Gary! Thank you for sharing your story. Most people do not understand how lockdown effects those who have depression and anxiety. I know it’s hard, my husband suffers from both and this has been hard when he couldn’t play hockey. We love you and are glad you were able to do some introspection.
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, best wishes to you both x
@MollyBiggxox
@MollyBiggxox 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you the biggest virtual hugs, strength and courage ❤️ You’re amazing x
@mandyjsmith
@mandyjsmith 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Gary, This video resonated with me and this is a poem I wrote, when I was having one of those days. Sometimes when people, ask how you are today? I want to tell them honestly, I really want to say, I’m not feeling great; I’m actually feeling a little sad. I don’t feel in control, why do feel like I’m going mad? I feel like I’m always swimming against the tide, All I want to do is just lie down sometimes and cry. I can’t see any light, at the end of this tunnel which is mine. Fed up of pretending I’m okay, when I’m really far from fine. I know I have friends around me but I still feel like I’m on an island. With no oars or boat to help me back, sometimes that’s why I’m frightened To let anyone see inside my head, to show what I am thinking, They have to see that I am strong, even though I may feel I’m sinking. Though I know that I’m not the only one who ever thinks this way. The sun will shine again for me; it won’t always be a cloudy day. So if you do feel down, that there’s no hope and no way out Smile for tomorrow is a new day and you’ll feel happier without a doubt. Xx. Amanda xx
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Amanda, it was lovely. I liked the message of hope at the end especially x
@mandyjsmith
@mandyjsmith 3 жыл бұрын
@@garyc Thank you. That's what I always tell myself that no matter how bad I may feel today, tomorrow will be better and if not tomorrow then the day after. Things will be okay xx
@paulinedelgrosso2350
@paulinedelgrosso2350 3 жыл бұрын
That’s strange Gary as i was just wondering today where you were and missing your lovely vlogs, and always thinking of others first even though you have been feeling awful, that says a lot about you Gary as i’m sure there are a lot of people out there struggling to get through the days as there long, if i was to give any advice to people it would be make little to do lists it helps pass the day and also declutters your mind as it’s so tiring doing anything just now, so thankyou for this vlog i’m sure it’s made a lot of people very happy to see your lovely face again, have faith and stay strong🤩🤗❤️🥰xxxx
@XheyJJx
@XheyJJx 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so open and honest. It’s a real comfort to me to know I’m not alone in feeling this way.
@emmasusanu4763
@emmasusanu4763 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Gary C you really are an amazing human, so happy to have found you and Adam on KZfaq and Insta getting me through tough days ❤
@angelacarter6196
@angelacarter6196 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Lovely, Sorry to hear you are struggling, but well done for getting yourself organized and trying to get back on track. I’ve been there to, but I try to find something good or positive in every day, even if it is snowing like billy oh outside, it’s been good to see the kids out in their front gardens building snowmen,and playing. My dogs love it, the two smaller ones came back from their walks today looking like giant snow balls 🥰🤣😂🤣, anyway honey be kind to yourself, see you soon, much love xxxx
@garyc
@garyc 3 жыл бұрын
I love watching the snow fall. It’s been lovely :)
@daniellecoy2359
@daniellecoy2359 3 жыл бұрын
You have so much support from us. Whenever you need to reach out come on here or your Instagram and there will be so many of us to connect with. Take care of yourself so you are ready for a Disney trip as soon as it's possible! 🥰🤗☺️
@estherandaliceslife
@estherandaliceslife 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry you are feeling like this. I hope you are feeling better soon. Your message is so important. Thank you for sharing with us
@christopherdoerbeckerjr5070
@christopherdoerbeckerjr5070 3 жыл бұрын
Gary you are loved by so many people. Find strength in your family and your friends. Cheer up mate!
@stefflovesdisney5992
@stefflovesdisney5992 3 жыл бұрын
Gary, thank you, I'm not ok right now either. I'm trying but not doing well! Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone! Hope things improve for you soon! Sending love ❤
@lucywells6579
@lucywells6579 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the first hurdle is realising you are not ok. I think this lockdown is worse because of the time of year i always struggle in Jan and Feb, so am just taking it day by day, I can start the day feeling ok then something will happen to upset things. It's good that you have things in place to help you xx
@Luluglitter
@Luluglitter 3 жыл бұрын
Admitting you’re not ok is such a difficult thing to do. You’re self awareness is inspiring ❤️
@rebeccaatherton5535
@rebeccaatherton5535 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Gary Love watching your vlogs and seeing what you are getting up to. Keep up the good work. Hope you are feeling better soon.
@cmitchell3321
@cmitchell3321 3 жыл бұрын
Gary, it's so good to see a video from you. I was only thinking of you today, as to pass the time i have gone back and been watching the old vlogs of you and Adam at Disney again...which always brings a smile to my face.. esp travel day vlogs. It has been a tough time this time round with lockdown and have suffered mentally more so this time round, but i keep thinking there is a light at the end of the tunnel and one day soon we will get some kind of normality. I look forward to the day when i see a new travel day vlog ping up. Stay strong and stay safe x
@markturner5644
@markturner5644 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such an honest video. What an amazing person you are. It’s such a hard time but I greatly admire and respect you for posting this.
@jeanettesmith765
@jeanettesmith765 3 жыл бұрын
I've missed you, Gary. Hang in there and know that you are loved by many.
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