Are You Ready for Marriage? w/ Sheikh Mustafa Shaybani

Are You Ready for Marriage? w/ Sheikh Mustafa Shaybani - Firmly Rooted #3

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5 ай бұрын

In this thought-provoking episode, we're diving into the heart of a crucial question: Are You Ready for Marriage? Join us as we navigate the complexities of marriage, self-discovery, and partnership. Our guests share personal experiences, insights, and valuable advice to help you gauge your readiness for this significant life step.
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@aljannahquotes3697 5 ай бұрын

-Learn about 5 pillars of Islam , Iman(aqeeda), ihsan (purification of soul) -Learn about life of prophet (SAW) -Get ready in Financially (for men) -Learn personal skills -Get rid of addictions - Get closer to Allah - Fix the relationship with human beings

@yassinhassan336 5 ай бұрын

Correction: there are 5 pillars of Islam which are; the two testimonies of faith (La Illaha Illa Allah Muhammad Rasulu Allah), prayer , alms tax, fasting the month of Ramadan and pilgrimage. And there are 6 pillars of Iman; belief in Allah, the angels, the scriptures, the Prophets, the Day of Judgement and the Divine Decree, the good and the bad of it.

@kaouthar7791 5 ай бұрын

13:50 How do I become mature? 1. Work on you religion and your knowledge of it. Have certain religious practices. 2. Know social skills 3. Set the intention now to get married in so many years and prepare for it from now on by working on yourself 4. Get rid of temper if you have any or (porn) addictions and ask Allah for help. Actions: - Take a real look at yourself. And make Tawbah.

@alaminbashir4259 4 ай бұрын

The interviewer asks the perfect questions wallah it almost like he reads my mind when asking them questions

@al-farooq7192 4 ай бұрын

True, so relatable to us as uni students 💯🙃

@strivingslave5962 5 ай бұрын

36:20 Every journey begins with a first step. Embrace tauba. Repent to your lord. Feel the guilt. Confess to Allah. Tell ٱللَّٰه that this is my situation 37:26 Only ٱللَّٰه can put happiness in your heart 38:32 Sometimes marriage comes very easily. There is a secret behind that: closeness to ٱللَّٰه. 40:18 Look for solutions 41:11 First step: Ask ٱللَّٰه for help 43:10 Start your journey and ٱللَّٰه will help you. 44:12 First step? Fix relationship with your lord. Do 2 rakah. Ask ٱللَّٰه for help. 46:30 Relationship with parents. 47:25 Whoever fixes their relationship with ٱللَّٰه, everything else gets fixed. Know Iman and Ihsan. 53:03 Marriage is a rizq from ٱللَّٰه. Best rizq is a pious woman. You will feel peace with them. Need pious children.

@user-rj8oj7bl2n 4 ай бұрын

Didn't talk about having an income source?

@EmmanuelChidera-ly2ue 5 ай бұрын

This podcast was awesome! JazakAllah Khair Ahki. May Allah ‏ﷻ bless you and the speakers.

@zamzamabt 5 ай бұрын

May Allah make us stead fast in our religion. May Allah forgive our sins and grant us jannah al firdows. Jazaka Allah kheyr

@7625e 5 ай бұрын

ameen

@mishiix 5 ай бұрын

Ameen

@Hamza7308 5 ай бұрын

Ameen🤲🏿

@AdnanKhan-xq4kh 5 ай бұрын

Ameen

@AdnanKhan-xq4kh 4 ай бұрын

Ameen

@SA-sj6hr 4 ай бұрын

JazakAllah Khair Ahki. May Allah ‏ﷻ bless you and the speakers.

@cathyndiaye9399 5 ай бұрын

Jazakoum Allahu kheiran for this talk. It was really interesting and the advices are realistic for us young people who are at university in the West.

@Areeba-lg7pv 5 ай бұрын

JazakAllah khair for sharing this! Was looking forward to listen to Ustadh Hisham for this topic.

@khadijahbenali6636 4 ай бұрын

Masha’allah tabarakallah. Jazakallahkeer sheikhs for the much needed podcast for our young generation. People can’t get married because family’s make it hard for them.

@maria45afrah8 3 ай бұрын

Jazakallah khair. Really loved the practical action points. Amazing!

@neymarzam9297 5 ай бұрын

This was a deep one yani..Alhamduliah ❤..i needed it May bless nd keep blessing the ummah..inn sha Allah

@rukhsaar5164 15 күн бұрын

Thank you so so much for this podcast. You’ve answered most of my worries

@creativeash4210 5 ай бұрын

Masha'Allah ❤ JazakAllah kher for this much needed episode.

@helmsmanpacker3456 5 ай бұрын

BarakAllahu fik Shaykh Mustafa Shaybani has a way with his words, insightful listening to him. One thing I don’t know is the correct spelling of his second name, it’s different on the Al furqaan channel ö and dude how is there gonna be a part 2 to this. This episode was so jam packed with beneficial advice and stuff to act upon. I don’t know what’s coming I am gonna set these action points as goals, for before the next episode comes out! Insha Allah

@Sadiqul_I 4 ай бұрын

I loved this video, amazing

@sma1566 4 ай бұрын

The sheikh brought very relevant and strong points. Very useful

@umulsabaah5492 19 күн бұрын

So many are ready but where are the reputable believers who care enough to help match believers and follow through to help them succeed.

@yuliiariabchun6338 3 ай бұрын

Welcome Ustaz Hisham!

@Abbaas_ 3 ай бұрын

42:32 - my favourite part of the video

@Omar-qn1uj 3 ай бұрын

Indeed a beautiful story. SubhanAllah! ✨

@ahmedmaniyaruni4300 5 ай бұрын

My people ❤!

@dawahspeakers 3 ай бұрын

MashaAllah, helpful podcast❤

@Trs0o. 5 ай бұрын

Rabbanahab lana min azwajina wathurriyyatinaqurrata aAAyunin wajAAalna lilmuttaqeena imama "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous." Al-Quran Al-Kareem 25:74

@bintouf3544 4 ай бұрын

That was so beneficial, mashallah

@7625e 5 ай бұрын

Mashallah. Deep podcast

@Mo_Salafi 5 ай бұрын

بارك الله فيكم

@makamemahmud5986 4 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah. JazakAllahu Khairan for this practical informative episode. I have to mention, MashaAllah how respectful and humble Ustad Hisham is. The way he looks at Sheikh Mustafa Shaybani and waits for him to speak before he himself answers. TabarakAllah. ♥

@al-farooq7192 4 ай бұрын

Indeed. SubhanAllah. Beautiful manners. 💯✨

@shira__ 4 ай бұрын

Allahuma barik 🤍 I can listen to these sheikhs for long. Very insightful, May Allah increase their knowledge and accept it from them.Ameen

@shira__ 4 ай бұрын

And the host asked beautiful questions too!!! May Allah bless all who worked on this video🤍

@Nasrin9437 4 ай бұрын

الله يجزاكم خير

@12irtezasaheem7 4 ай бұрын

23:45 everyone should go through this part, whoever is visiting this video.

@Amro-elbosaty 5 ай бұрын

Very true. A big responsibility- don't ever think about it.

@piqueny8872 5 ай бұрын

The youth want to marry but don’t want to take any responsibility. If the wife is working the ummah men follow western marriages not Islamic based marriages

@dxxnish7170 5 ай бұрын

50:36 The wording is: اعْقِلْهَا وَتَوَكَّلْ Tie her and trust in Allah. [Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 2/72: 726 (دار التأصيل)]

@iNikkah 5 ай бұрын

May Allah make it easy for our youngsters to marry, I wish they would take pre marital coaching, it’s a lot cheaper than a divorce

@okiokiokiokioki0p8 5 ай бұрын

Allahumma barik

@user-vo3ez4rk8g 3 ай бұрын

I have a question: what do Islam says about someone who was engaged after pay nika and did everything that required the legalization of the married, some people who are jelous of the couples, did everything within their capacities to distroys it…?

@yusufnewpone3281 5 ай бұрын

اللهم بارك

@dxxnish7170 5 ай бұрын

38:30 As-Salāmu ʿAlaykum; how do we explain the marriages of Prophet Nūḥ, Prophet Lūṭ & ʿĀsiyah (عَلَيْهِمُ السَّلَام), in the end of Sūrat al-Taḥrīm, with this concept in the statement of Allah (ﷻ): ﴿ٱلۡخَبِيثَٰتُ لِلۡخَبِيثِينَ وَٱلۡخَبِيثُونَ لِلۡخَبِيثَٰتِۖ وَٱلطَّيِّبَٰتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَٱلطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَٰتِۚ﴾ *«Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men are for corrupt women; good women are for good men and good men are for good women.»* [24:26] Is it true that everything for the believer is good?

@user-th1vv6ie9d 5 ай бұрын

❤

@Limbouj 7 күн бұрын

To the interviewer (prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him said you should shave all of your hair or leave it all it's prohibited to shave a part of it. In sahih Muslim 2120a prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him forbade qaza.)

@johncharles4146 5 ай бұрын

Am ready for marriage I just don't have the fìnance

@140_IH 5 ай бұрын

وَأَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْأَيَـٰمَىٰ مِنكُمْ وَٱلصَّـٰلِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَآئِكُمْ ۚ إِن يَكُونُوا۟ فُقَرَآءَ يُغْنِهِمُ ٱللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِۦ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ وَٰسِعٌ عَلِيمٌۭ ٣٢ Marry off the ˹free˺ singles among you, as well as the righteous of your bondmen and bondwomen. If they are poor, Allah will enrich them out of His bounty. For Allah is All-Bountiful, All-Knowing. 24:32

@Amro-elbosaty 5 ай бұрын

Starting and providing for a family involves careful planning and responsibility. To begin, focus on securing stable employment or consider creating your own business to generate income. Develop the necessary skills and qualifications that will make you marketable and ensure financial stability. This will not only benefit you but also lay the foundation for supporting a family. Remember, a solid financial base is crucial, so invest in your career and personal development to build a secure future for yourself and your loved ones

@piqueny8872 5 ай бұрын

As a man is your religious responsibility to provide financially. So start there while educating yourself on marriage rights responsibilities

@YDavis. 5 ай бұрын

@@Amro-elbosatythank you brother you just solved financial struggles 🙏🏾 just get money 🙏🏾

@johncharles4146 5 ай бұрын

@@Amro-elbosaty am on that path currently

@user-vo3ez4rk8g 3 ай бұрын

And now they all said that person is not fit as they responsible for everything that failed the marriage…,they tried to go far in other to make the man sick…,

@Wayfaringzara 4 ай бұрын

44:10🩶

@Drh123 5 ай бұрын

Oh my Allah They’re not zero… they’re negative 🤣🤣 Why did I just feel attacked 😂😂 I’m not a university student btw💀

@al-farooq7192 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Bouda_sr 5 ай бұрын

Shame on any Muslim for making marriage difficult. If by 18 our youth aren’t ready for marriage than it’s a stain on the Islamic society that raised the youth un prepared for something so important.

@razamughal4582 3 ай бұрын

Its women that have made marriage difficult by preventing four marriages