I'm a pile 3 and I recently chose to walk away completely from that person because of everything you said. I realized that I was waiting for them because I wanted the external validation of being with them against all odds. But now that I'm at a distance from them I see that not only have things gotten so much better, but those odds that were against me were way worse than I could have ever imagined. I didn't leave out of anger or fear, those were my previous motivations and that's why I think I kept going back, this time I left because I realized I deserved better than someone who wasn't going to honestly show up as their true selves. It doesn't matter if they're telling the truth or not, it doesn't matter if they loved me or not, if they truly wanted to be with me, they would be. So, now I'm going to find the things and people that are excited to have me in their lives.

You nailed it hard, Kate. For anyone else that picked Pile 2, if you feel like this as I do, I feel for you big time ❤ Thank you for the amazing reading and extended, Kate!

Pile #2… You explained this so perfectly. I actually started this process of stepping away and creating boundaries just before viewing this reading. Thank you for all the accurate confirmation. Peace, power, and plenty of blessings to you. You’re awesome. Always enjoy your readings. You’re great at explaining. ❤️😇😇💯👍🏽

Girl you are way way wise beyond your years. I resonated with 2&3. I do over give and I am comfortable with over giving, but do have times where I have to stop myself and force myself to set boundaries. Here’s my huge huge inner conflict lately about connections and spiritual beliefs. I am still connected to him, but after the lies my perception, expectations, and giving shifted drastically. I’m currently very focused on work, my son, and myself. I don’t exhaust myself for him anymore at all, I don’t hope, I don’t over give, I don’t see a future. I do enjoy it for what it is when it is, my issue with a spiritual beliefs is that we HAVE to cut things out in order to receive. We have to pass tests and learn lessons in order to receive our soulmate or abundance. That feels contradictory to me, it’s like I have to sacrifice having any intimacy even if it’s not my ten of cups and be on my best behavior in order to receive from the universe. I honestly have never seen that to be true. I talk to more people about their relationships than most. I was also a counselor for awhile. I have heard time and time again that people found their partner during one of their lowest points in life. I’ve heard many were in a toxic relationship and found their soulmate while they were in that toxic relationship. Or they did no work prior to meeting their spouse. Truly, the craziest most toxic people I know have the best spouses. The single friends I have are the most attractive, intelligent, spiritual, and successful people I know. I have been single for a very long time. I’ve elevated in so many ways. All I do is focus on how to heal, learn, grow and the more I do that the more isolated I feel from almost everyone bc I’m losing commonality with others since most don’t evolve too much. When I was a mess and wounded, a really great guy came in my life and he was so nurturing giving and supportive. I thought how tf am I getting treated the best I’ve ever been treated while I’m being a complete psycho?!? That’s why I stopped pressuring myself to cut off the connection entirely, more so enjoy it for what it is while it is with a realistic mindset and boundaries.

Pile 3. My jaw dropped at the accuracy. Especially when you spoke about excusing their actions cuz of their current circumstances. He was acting sneaky and i just excused it even though I knew deep down it had to walk away. I just felt so drawn to them and I don’t even know what their intentions were for me. It’s so confusing. Each day he got worse and I kept making excuses for his behavior. It sucks but this readings accuracy made me not feel alone. If that makes sense wow.

Pile 1 is describing me perfectly, spot on, rebuilding for my own sanity and well-being, nothing more. Grace, Independence, and Boundaries. Happy healing to you all 💚

I chose surrender 🙌 pile 3... my nervous system couldn't handle the situation

3: I have a blind spot about allowing shady people who don’t do their share in relationships way into my life before recognizing them because my mother was shady and always got me to take care of her, my siblings and the house.

Pile 1 was resonating all the way through, but then you got to the part of feeling they put me on a pedestal and were disappointed, and it hit so, so hard. Thank you

Pile 3 had me balling but it is all truth and the truth can hurt. I am struggling to walk away because I DON'T have the experience of being independent and he is a controlling person and I've tried walking away several times only to feel like he won't LET me go😢 I know I deserve better

Pile 2 THANK YOU 🙏 This is exactly what I needed to hear! ❤

OPT 3 - Thank you so much, this has given me some light at the end of the tunnel. It was like a personal read. GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🏻

pile 1: this is entirely my energy, which is actually really cool to see. i’ve always wondered about the accuracy of the messages that come through in general readings, but this was very spot on, even down to the channeled messages. very interesting!!

This is such a good idea for a reading! Thank you so much 🤍

Thank you for your reading and insights! 🌷🌷 i choose pile 2

#2 wow 😍 spot on...my story💓

Omg i wasn’t expecting another reading so soon! Oh, happy day 🎉 Pile 1 can’t wait to listen - was my energy A year later , pile 2 ❤

I picked pile three and I did resonate. Ouch. Thank you for the guidance through.

Everything is so true and on point. Thank you 🙏🙏

Wow.... Are you aware how enlightening your readings are... Thank you so much🙏🏻❤

Pile 3 resonated for me in regards to my mom. I carried her emotional trauma for far too long, and I’m now choosing to let go. I do hope the cycle I was in will end and things will get better ❤

Pile n3 - very clarifying. Ty.

OMFG. Thank you so much. I was asking about an attorney I was considering re-hiring, and this was so incredibly helpful. Thank you.

Kate!!! Omg this was so on point!!! I’m amazed.

Pile 2 is too accurate 💯%

Pile 3.... Believing he is a good person.. Believing that he really meant his words.... Believing that I can still believe haha.......... I don't know, I need clarity that never have come to me. Sending love and light to him ❤ Thanks for the reading....

P3. Brilliant reading.

I'm pile 3. I just walked away from someone I still love. There was just a prolonged lack of respect and communication. I took on so much for them. I'm so hurt.

Pile 3 - thank you

Nail right on the head!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Edit: There is sooo much hard truth in this reading that if there’s a clear solution in the extended, I’m about that! You are the first reader I’ve ever followed to the extended. I am grateful for your gift and generosity in sharing it. #ThankYou ❤

Thank you...i think you are the best reader i have come across on youtube ❤🙏

you are my favorite safe space 💛 thank you Kate for sharing your gifts 🥺

THANK YOU. THHHAAANK YOOOOOU

Thanks so much you have helped me understand that I have always been the person that sacrificed myself to make others happy but bcus of this reading I now know it's not about them it's all about me and I'm grateful that God has use your reading to help me figure that out I can move on to my new beginning with no regrets pile#3 ❤😊

I needed to hear this thank you. Decided to emotionally leave him for good instead of leaving a door open for him

Pile 3: Well that was depressing. Was just feeling better today too... 😓

Pile 3. I decided to finally walk away. I was the only one trying to fix the relationship and I got tired of it. If they wanted it to work, they would also try to put in work. I saw this video after I no longer wanted to be in their life.

Pile 2 = Wow Resonate

Pile 2 is where I was a half a year ago and ended this in december by walking away. Pile 1 is where I feel he is right now. There is no contact, but I feel him. The part where he is, is exactly what I feel. Not ready yet, but changing his ways slowly. The part what you told I'm thinking, is more how it was right after the break-up. Confused and be from my ego, my fear. I left that behind now.

So amazing😍👍

Pile 1 - they didn’t meet up to my expectations either 😒

You are awesome.

Pile 3: I ignored the red flags 🚩🚩🚩 bec I was waiting to see his good side which only costed me later. Sneaky behind my back, deception, lies, belittling, breadcrumbing and betrayal made me leave and walked away from the toxic, narcissistic relationship. I ended it now completely and never looking back. I realized that his betrayal is a doorway leading me to something better that I truly deserve who will honor, value and respect me. Your depth of insight speaks volume to me. Thank you. 💖

I absolutely love your readings ❤ thank you so much for sharing your gift and insight with us…. Sorry if you’ve already mentioned it, but do you offer personal readings Kate? xx

Pile3💘🙀

Pile 3 ❤

I appreciate the reading some of this reading is true I put up with more nonsense than I deserve and separated for 10 years and maybe we have a 26 yr old together but I’m at the point of staying or ending relationship for good. Stay bless

Ok pile 2 this was the hardest, most freeing, loving reading I have heard so far. I am forever greatful to you. I would love to make you a gift. If there is any way to get something to u , please let me know. If not I understand. I will forever be in your debt for all these eye opening honest readings you have done for me and everyone else. Thank you eternally Arissa

I haven’t watched yet but just wanted to say I had a feeling you were going to post today and have been refreshing YT throughout the day 😅

Hi Kate, Amazing read again, and there were some of your personal perspectives that I need to take notes and look into more. You sounds like someone that have been through it... For pile 3 it was a really long read, but is it possible for you to add -whats the truth that spirit saw about the truth of that person?

Pile3 unfortunately true

Pile 2: It’s frustrating that a business contract ties us together and he decides when to ghost me (now it’s been 3 months) and when to contact me. I don’t know if I can cancel the contract but I’ll ask my employer. 😢

I total understand you want no part . Message recieved.

I was pile 4 and ma'am YOU DID NOT NEED TO CALL ME OUT LIKE THIS 😭

I picked pile 1. The world is all narcissists from what I can tell.

I don’t comment often but sheesh I clicked on this reading thinking about something else and spirit told me about my damn self 🤣

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🥗Aham Brahmasmi🌟

It may just not be my reading, but I kinda have the feeling there are readings that are needlessly positive and readings that are needlessly negative and for me it felt that the latter was the case with this one. It has nothing to do with you, dear Tarot reader, but I just wanna take the time here to say: It's a general reading. Make time to see whether it truly resonates... 😅😂❤

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like ...like....like! you need to talk smoothly ...truth be told i have no idea about what you are saying