The purpose of communication with women is : "to incentivise her to behave the way you like" - thats its. It's not to prove to her that you're right and shes wrong. (although some times if you're right that helps) It's not to prove you're a good guy. It's not to make her agree or understand. IF telling her the moon is made out of cheese gets her to behave the way you like, then tell her the moon is made out of cheese all day long. Would you rather be right or happy. If logic gets her to behave the way you want, use logic. If convincing her that you're a good guy, gets her to behave the way you like, then convince her. If getting her to agree makes her behave the way you like, get her to agree. But never forget the purpose of communication is to get her to behave the way you like. So you constantly have to be on the ball, and monitoring what techniques work and which do not. And chop and change as necessary. Does this sound like a lot of work? Yes, it is. That's why you don't invest this much energy into a girl UNLESS you have ALREADY received the value you want from her. YOU decide what value she has to bring inorder to warrant such an investment of energy from you. "Dont be take for granted" - your time, attention, affection and commitment Has value. Do not give it away for free. Get what you want from her, or pull back on your time and attention. And if that still doesn't work, pull back your affection amd commitment...

thanks man really appreciated❤️

a girl i was super friends with that was also sharing nudes with me happily stopped doing it saying excuses of all kind except me being the problem, except saying she had a problem with me, i feel she has a problem with me but whenever i asked i get random reasons to the lack of talking how can i kickstart a conversation with her about what is stopping her from talking with me like before and actually get her to be honest about it? usually women accuse men of things all the time, my problem is that this woman doesnt accuse me of anything but i feel she has a problem with me and doesnt say it, i guess i am reading her mind when im saying i feel she has a problem with me, do i just plain say that out loud? "hey i feel u have a problem with me and that you arent open about it, is that true?"

4:42 i tried pushing the questions with a woman that went from being super talkative with me to barely talking, she kept saying answers/excuses explaining it that had nothing to do with me at all but i always felt she has a problem with me that she isnt open about, i eventually give up asking why the lack of talking, but time keeps passing and i feel something is off and she doesnt say it, im 90% sure she has a problem with me and not being open about it do i just say "i feel you have a problem with me that you aren't being open about, say it"?

Honestly, this sounds like too much hassle and trouble. I'm not mgtow or hate women, but at what point do we say that we are putting in all this effort pretty much dealing with a child

bro they're just people lol what are you talking about