ABSOLUTELY

EXACTLY she need to grow up

Just weird

Well that explains why she is single

Right.

They really were! I felt like he had a good sense of humor

Imo he play too much. Not everyone’s cup of tea.

i said the same thing like damn he cant make a lil jokey joke?? 😂😂 i laughed it was funny to me 🤷🏾‍♀️

U feel me😂

Right he wasn't disrespectful 😂

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@@nigelclarke9111 right 😅

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I’m telling you I didn’t want his line of questioning to end

True

He really is. He's determined to be successful. He has wisdom and focus to be so young. I think they are thinking of guys they've dealt with at his age that are his opposite.

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You know I am saying

Agree

Yep!

Some of them?.. All of them

Almost had to take this episode off 🤣

A Man ain't suppose to line up his hair and beard anyway, according the the Scriptures. But these fake God fearing Girls wouldn't know that, but instead be into unholy stuff like astrology smh.

Quality women don't waste time with.... smash or past 😂😂😂😂

@@easy-toyou right 😂😂😂

@@LuvvM4ttokay Dr. Phil

Well ofcourse preferences are subjective. But the mere fact that you reject someone based of frivolous superficial things like an astrology sign or a beard instead of the content of your character says a lot about them and where they are as a person. @@LuvvM4tt

​@@LuvvM4ttrejecting somebody because they wore certain shoes is crazy. I know that was said multiple times in these videos

These Black women need mentors. They're pretty sad.

Omg yes! Exactly what I was thinking.

He is so cuteeeeeee 🥰🥰 Those ladies have to stop being superficial

they want followers on social media.

Facts bro. Its called self-sabotage.

Snapshot of the current environment

Damn shame cant have a good sense of humor all yall want is do men's shi save yall money and by a AI bot and have the programmer program it and spec it out just for you 😂

It's probably cause he was the first one.

He’s a Simp. Love that the second guy kept it real. A guy should have a type!

Like 😬

Man like wtf there’s a reason all these women single they got issues

They aren't ready 🤣

The most daft way of thinking ever

That’s not just a woman thing, men do that too and I will never understand why

I’m glad somebody said it

A lot of these women will remain single they just weird no cap

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This was my thought the entire time!! They popped for some goofy reasons! 🥴

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Likee whaaaat I be lost I stg

Make it make sense 😂😂😂

right like girl he's taller than you LOL🤣

Be easy on me lol 😩

As woman who is 5’ 8” nothing wrong with his height. He is the same height as my ex husband 🙏❤️ He has an amazing personality. I hope he finds someone who deserves him.

I keep watching the women lead line up ones thinking I’m finally going to run into a good one and it fails everytime. Feels like I wasted my time each time😭 They literally all always pop so fast in every video, and this channel is the most professional one, so imagine the other channels

@@platanoconsalami167 the other channels be ratchet 😂

@@platanoconsalami167 Lol, it's the same thing every single time right? Agreed!

I just peeped that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Too much anger

I thought the same thing, and she’s a therapist is crazy 😂

Says a lot tbh. The women made an effort with clothes, hair and makeup and the man cant even put a blazer on? Please.

@@Bonerfyable a blazer?? do you know what show this is 😅😅😅

@@ceasefire677 A show where first impressions can make all the difference? Make an effort, gents.

​@@BonerfyableThat's yall. Men's apparel is a lot more simple. If you can look clean in general that's good enough. Miss me with that shit, this is speed dating not a Fashion Nova exposè. And the broads on here have turned down niggas in blazers and suits too so what difference does it make if he still get turned down even if he dressed his best? Focus on attraction and personality, not shallow preferences.

That’s what I’m saying 😂😂😂. They don’t even let them talk first 🤷🏻‍♂️ it’s crazy 😂

cause its only funny if they giving the petty comments! I was confused on their "pick and choose sense of humor"

Ironically, Goku hair and Ramen hair matched up… 😂

These women are petty and focused on ridiculous things

It’s crazy

😂😂😂😂😂Ikr! Like get over yourself

He was cool and cute. I didn’t think he was too short either. Some of them are wear 4 inch high heels maybe even higher

Its definitely a waste of energy. If someone aint my preference, leave it at that

That's EXACTLY why she does it...Alot of the balloon poppers need 2 hear that they are not as great as they think they are...

Makes it so much more interesting lol

Exactly

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yep, very childish. reminds me of elementary or middle school

I PEEEEEPED! I was like is it just me or what

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was thinking the same.

taco meat is an actual slang word for chest hair. it's very known. I'm surprised you thought that was an insult or something she just made up. but yeah I don't get how showing chest hair is a no.

Exactly my thoughts

You hit the nail on the head.

​@@hellyeahjeremytaco meat slang or not might be offensive to some men tho 🤷🏾‍♀️

YESSSS!!!!!! i almost commented this 😭😭😭😭

Also the one in orange did the same thing. Said she is looking for a leader and a provider then she said "I don't depend on nobody doing nothing for me". These women don't know what they want. They are just messing around 😂.

They pop for reasons they don't disclose. Idk why they're scared to tell the truth.

Right my parents been married for almost 43 years according to astrology their not compatible!

😂😂right, they really believe that crap

Astrology is bullshit. As a Christian, Bible condemned it too

Yes!!!

Right

LITERALLY IM 5’11 LIKE GIRL WHAT😂

😂😂😂😂Ikr... 🤷🏿‍♀️

Literally I am 6ft and get so annoyed by these damn height pops

RIGHT.

Facts I'm 6ft and it irritates me.

Right. I didn’t understand either.

They’re used to dating Tyrone they hated his shoes but wouldn’t mind a dude rocking Tims in the summer time

I totally agree. fear of rejection so in a way keeping the power on their side. rejecting feels better than being rejected.

@@pamelamuzambi2363 100%

Facts

Accurate. She was smart enough to retract an she left with a man unlike most!

@daviddavid-tt3fk FACTS. What a little but of self-awareness and accountability can do.

If you were there I would have choose you again & again😊

Facts! Red flags everywhere. 😣

Fax! 😭😭😭

These women are PETTY!! Watching the guys pop balloons, they actually give high quality reasons, not just “l didn’t like his joke”.

Preach

I know I’m like damn popping wit the quicks. Like they look solid you don’t wanna hear anything at all at first damn

They are sticking together ,,,,Girl code shit

the wanna be lawyer is a child who thinks hes smarty and slick, these laides stop on his Childish very quickly.

Im so glad that he called them all out! Telling him that he needs to stop having a deep conversation with the women on a DATING SHOW is crazy work.

Exactly. I felt so bad for him. That was excruciating to watch but I pray he knows he dodged a bullet because those women didn't know what they wanted. Especially the one in the black dress. She was offended by everything he said and kept cutting him off but when she dissed him multiple times he was graceful and respectful. Very sad.

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If it's not one thing, it's another. The most weak excuses for popping the balloons. SMH

Bruh on gawd. The devil man walked in and they all said "POP!"

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Wild coming to a dating show with that shirt. Giving "pick me" 👀

i agree i thought he was great. and i can tell he wasnt teasing any one maliciously. i think thats just his playful personality. its not for everyone but he seemed liked a nice guy with his shit together.

Yea what I find funny is that these lady’s will roast the guys and none of the others will say anything. They’ll roast the outfits, the hair and so on but let the guy defend his self just a tiny bit and they’ll pop every ballon that exists on the planet. So you’ll miss out on a good guy because he was a meanie to someone who tried to roast him lol

@@loryndabenson2118 Exactly my thoughts!

@@chilout2496 That's so silly. Too big and grown to be sheep.

Wait I’m confused! The 1st guy was super nice.

It brings me joy that so many women will be single because at the end of the day it will be their fault because they had so many opportunities when they were young but when they get older and their options dwindles they will suffer the consequences of their mindsets as they become inaccessible in the dating marketplace

@@ramzyy5362 I get it, the show is starting to desensitize me to women because of the arbitrary things they reject men for. Astrological signs, height, shoes, WTH. Whenever I hear a woman say “he was a narcissist and abusive” I chuckle to myself and I want to ask her “ How tall was he?” 😂

@@vereen70 yeahh thé more and more I watch these type of shows the more I become emotionless to women like it feels like I’m become a hard stoned cold man because I’m no longer sensitive towards women because I just accepted reality

Welcome to America 🇺🇸

@@ramzyy5362 don’t give up. There are available women who don’t think that way. Disfunction is usually given a platform for entertainment not to take serious. I’m blessed to have a husband and be happily married at 32. If it’s something you want it will happen for you.

you sound bitter and sad babe

“Are you toxic?” Nuchi: “no” Also, nuchi: “your beard is not lined up so i popped my balloon”

Nuchi looks very masculine.

So because you think someone will lose their beauty, they shouldn't be confident?

I was looking for someone else who thought this. I didn’t like the reasonings she was giving for why she popped. She definitely should’ve sat this one out… her and the hairstylist that don’t like men with hair 😂

Exactly. Not like they are all the fashion police.

They’re black bro. Highest rates of single motherhood. I’m not surprised by these dumbass answers at all, even all the fashion related ones lmaoooo

Kip si Umejam 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💔💔💔

@@H_TRIVIA 😂😂 lakini surely, nguo enye mtu amevalia siku moja ndo mnatumia kujua if he's the right man for you?

@@aking1196 these woman prefer swag over education. Becky will scoop him up and they will complain

The first guy actually showed a lot of maturity be taking in the criticism and apologising if it went over the wrong way even when he specified it wasn’t his intention. The girls don’t seem to be very reasonable in that regard

@@Hxticeyeah, no shade to them but they gave him trash answers smh

Fax

He should seek non blk women they will grab him fast, because non blk women know how to see potential

These women are annoying ASF

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They are all so dumb

Absolutely

Absolutely agree!

So why are the men single? Or is it ok for them to have preferences Ms Pick me

Absolute buffoonery

I think she was clapping back because when she was on last time.. all the guys popped their balloon and gave the same response.. "auntie vibes" she looked very hurt that day

Thats a woman for you

You can tell shes deeply insecure and uses jokes and laughter as a buffer. Very sad

Their reasonings were off the wall. The man's skinny jeans, his beard is a little off. Things that they could work with. Just dumb

that's what I said 🤣🤣

lmao good let the trash take itself out 🤣

Atleast she was honest , because it’s something she doesn’t have ….lol😂

😂 I cried

Yooo that shit had me weak lmao

You're right on that, that man was amazing

I know right

My God fearing brother, I appreciated him leading with that!

I LOVED Malcolm!!!!!!

He was awesome

😂 they ass to picky that why they still single

Lmao the skinny jeans? Girl he can change that 💀

The beard can get fixed up and I think both girls lying those are not the real reason they popped it

I know where you’re coming from, but I think he talked his way out of it. For example: 1. When he was being rejected he was too complimentary to the women rejecting him. Be quiet and listen why then give a brief response. Other women with balloons want to feel that they are the better choice compared to the other women. If he’s complementing everyone then the woman with the balloons feels less and less special and then pop! 2. The ramen noodles joke was no malice. However, modern women band together for protection ( think safety in numbers). So, if he throws shade at one of the women the others feel like they have to back or side with her. Other than that they might be thinking ‘ what if he’s like that with me?’. 3. He was too talkative in general. Women like a reserved guy. He’s got enough personality not to blabber all of the time ( like some stereotypical women ie their girlfriends). Saying less than he needs to would have built an air of mystery and charisma for being able to wow people when he rarely speaks. That will make his woman look good. Also a truly feminine woman communicates nonverbally with the movement of her body, eyes, breath, touch etc. Similarly, as a man he can communicate a lot with a look, facial expression instead of speaking. This is no shade to Mr Malcolm, because he did really well. I don’t know his name, but the gentleman in the brown roll neck who admitted that he was nervous had the same ‘talkative’ issue hence leaving with no match.

I liked his outfit 😭 regardless skinny jeans can be changed

Right? The answers were so rich. We need more of people who are gonna take it deep

Agreed 👍🏿

That was a quick 20 mins

He read tf outta them, I honestly had a good laugh about it 😂😂😂

He read tf outta them, I honestly had a good laugh about it 😂😂😂

I also watch from a psychological perspective

Yes indeed...

I'm mad about that one, he asked basic questions and made good conversation.. Then got put down because of it.

​@@IshiroaKimitanaa they felt threatened by it because when he speaks everyone girl likes him, most BW wants a good conversationalist until he's in front of them then it SCARES them because they don't know what that is

He just speaks a little ignorant for someone that just graduated law school!

He was a millennial clown, practicing his talking points yet NOT effectively listening while tryna communicate “hood style” to show swag. Boy bye

They was weird rejecting him for having a sense of humor. I think he was too nice and that turned people off ex. the girl with the glasses who said they'd just be friends.

What you said makes an inch of sense. Why didn't you criticize their brainless reasons for rejecting him? Everyone said his height but he seemed to be a great dude. Lol. Make it make sense, condemn a bad attitude, even if it is the man!!!

@@cephasmee6456 wtf are you talking about luv😂😂😂😂

I'm saying give a full rap sheet on both sides. These women give a bad image for our community. We gotta help each other to grow. ​@@anadennis2000

Difference between men and women

This comment is so true. This show is real life

Agreed! Lot of insecurities.

Yes!

I think a lot of woman suffers from sheep mentality tbh.

I noticed that

Because he’s not “ Hood” enough. That’s the type they like

As for beards weren't lined up🙄🙄

Followers smh

It’s actually ridiculous. It’s the most superficial shit.

I’m confused

Later tae tae had me 😂😂

Fan

Right it’s ghetto and showing that she’s actually his biggest fan 😂

She’s 25, but yeah

That's an old ass looking twenty five year old ​@@Tyonenine

Bh therapist... lol

They got on toooooo much makeup😢😂

Very true

I appreciate your comment my sister

Maybe they should pick you cause you sound like you are better than every girl

It is a good show! The host is fabulous! I am binge watching right now! 😎❤️👍🏽

Trying to be a girl’s girl 🚮

She bought someone else’s issh…. Cmon!😂

I think a lot of these women are playing follow the leader.. I feel like because she already didn’t want him that badly and then didn’t want to be the only woman left with a balloon she just popped it

@@anisaantoinette6381no she popped it bc like she said she didn’t like his misogynistic joke….

​@@amandamorgan8047 what does misogynistic mean? He conpared hats you dope.

Big facts

Absolutely ridiculous these women. These basic looking chicks searching for perfection. Dating market is done.

Very superficial

That’s the main thing ppl should take from this our woman are so superficial it’s embarrassing

Right like will he wear those pants forever

And her hairline looking messed up 😂 and she has the audacity to say that

Pettiest reason I've ever heard

Like bruh 😅, he looked so neat as well. He defo do care about presentation. They did him wrong.

Right that things you can fix

Her edges is crazy

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People like him reminds me of personal bankers. Gifted at connecting and seeming interested in whoever they are talking to. He comes off as sincere though.

The law school guy is annoying asl. And he just said he graduated law school not that he was a lawyer

I didn't like him at all. The Beyonce/Nicki comment was asinine. He lacks maturity.

I honestly think Arlette finds the lowest of people in the Black community and brings them on to make a fool of themselves. It’s funny at the moment but it’s really damaging to how people are perceiving modern day dating because most single people at home do not make dating decisions they way these people do..

Yessss! I agree

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Yes, he was that. And when she said, "I am the table," he immediately asked, "So, what is on the table?" She couldn't handle him.

They were intimidated by his intelligence that’s why

They were intimidated for sure !!!

He came out like a clown and made me immediately eat my words.

Fur hat is not giving

Perfect comment

@@KMariReed4066at all 😭

Facts.

These women stay losing

They dodged bullets like a mf

Popping your balloon after you see a guy go google eyes got your competition but being unaffected with you is Smart

⁠@@christenameleastupid terrible advice. All men are googly eyed for beautiful women, with that mentality you’ll be single forever

@@christenamelea respectfully disagree, this is a dating show right? if the host is telling me to look at each girl and decide which balloon to pop or which girl i like them you shouldn't let your insecurity pop your balloon lol

@@NewJackCity1988 it’s called observation lol like obviously you want this girl, you put the Mac on her. lol What’s the point of her waiting for him to come back down the line just to say oh I think I have more chemistry with this girl than I have with you.

Yep exactly

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Some of these women are dizzy!!! 😂😂😂

I said the same thing. Everyone is so critical. They just met for like 50 seconds and they're already making judgememts. And it's worse when the judgements are based on astrology.

Yes his maturity was impressive. I get why they didn’t like the fit but his unfazed demeanour after getting rejected was endearing. Good communicator and you can tell that he’s taking all their criticism and will improve. He came to have fun, learn and chill. Didn’t take it to heart

He was the opposite of chill, just as the 1st lady said, he likes to constantly debate. He would be draining to a chill person with the all the going back and forth. And as the 5th lady said, why is he giving full interview to women who already popped their balloon, he should be saving those questions for the women who didn't

@@ohreally404 For starters, every lady popped their balloon before he said a word. The women who got another balloon got the balloon off of how he “communicated” to her, so clearly every girl is getting a conversation and Arlette enforces it too. If he has to get to know someone to like them then that’s more commendable than calling someone a debater or flirt because you got called out for being superficial or wrong.

He should of keep it nice & sweet definitely was doing to much for some females that pop they balloon

He was a complete gentleman. The ladies are a bandwagon type that are probably single because of their single friends who talk down on their potential partners.

The joke was funny to me

He was way too good for any of them!

But they all laughed at the second guy when she said he had taco meat 😂 hypocrite!!!

@@MrTwonetwonehe Doesn't know her to make hair jokes

@@NoName-sp5dpso? Don’t take yourself so serious and lighten up 😂😂

So true

So true

😂Are you surprised?

It's crazy

Definitely. If they didn't know why. All they have to do is replay this episode

I love how he put each and every one of them in the hot seat, and the girl in the black miniskirt said she popped the balloon because of age..gurl you popped before he started speaking

The girl in the black mini skirt looks older than 29 yrs.

I don’t think they thought he was ugly at all. They just did not care for his appearance dassit. Let’s keep it a buck he was intentional about that outfit. He knew he was gonna get rid of the superficial women. He just didn’t know he was getting rid of allum by the outfit. He’s a lawyer had he dressed business casual they wouldn’t have cared about his age.

@@dannidellsounds like he made the right decision on how he dressed… it’s pretty much them saying how you dress trumps any & everything else about you

The girl with the hat was a catch but she was too dark ….oh well

I feel like he was out of their league and they knew it which is why they made up dumb reasons to say no to him

Malcom is handsome and confident and they all took it for cocky arrogance. Being overly sensitive about a little fun shade. Smh

Maybe I've got bad humor but I thought he was funny

He's handsome and witty I'm sure he'll be okay

Exposing how shallow they are!

I actually think the opposite

@@iamledgend247me too

@@iamledgend247 This is good I do believe we can learn a great amount from differing opinions would you like to share.