in this video, I asked questions my followers have always wanted to ask Koreans. Thank you all for watching😚❣️ instagram: limqueen / limqueen tiktok: limqueeniee www.tiktok.com...
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@PaeFaylynnАй бұрын
I really love how the guy on the end kind of lightened the tension between everyone when he made the joke about competing with girls like even I laughed and he seems like a nice person 😭😭❤
@SupalupabonbonАй бұрын
The korean girl was so cute and respectful! Love her !!
@RoseeTheOneАй бұрын
I would’ve liked her speaking her opinion a bit more.
@g.k44Күн бұрын
yes her reaction are so funny
@tyasianАй бұрын
The oath at the beginning already has me laughing 😂 you swore them in like a judge to a jury
@verenamenzel8958Ай бұрын
I wanna know why korean girls cannot swim and drive cars. Please give me an answer.
@hyugs14320 күн бұрын
your honor, i will force a korean to be my friend/significant other now
@infpyaАй бұрын
I think it would be cool to do a reunion in like 5 years and see if anyone changed their mentality.
@grace2128Ай бұрын
honestly i think it's not going to change anything, koreans don't have an American or French mentality, there are plenty of mentalities which has been present for centuries and which aren't likely to change so soon
@infpyaАй бұрын
@@grace2128 Could be, could not be. Depends on the person. I personally know many korean ppl who could have been described as racist/sexist/homophobic/bigoted at that age but grew up & changed their mentality once they got educated about the world.
@grace2128Ай бұрын
@@infpya Wwo that's a good development, I really hope they change their mentality on these kinds of things because because of their homophobia they are being boycotted by thai people I hope that even if it's little by little their mentality will change because it's too much
@chosengloria2008Ай бұрын
Yes!!
@jiminswriter4209Ай бұрын
@@grace2128What is an “American or French mentality”?
@mavvi3303Ай бұрын
The girl is so real, I often look at girls and think “I understand lesbians” too lol girls are too pretty 😭
@user-mw4lm1hf3v9 күн бұрын
Jesus is Lord,He died on the Cross for our sins then rose again 3 days later repent.
@gerdis36658 күн бұрын
@@user-mw4lm1hf3vJesus loves every person on this earth even the peoples who are gay and so on. He made us this way
@I_am_7even5 күн бұрын
@@gerdis3665no he didn’t it’s the devil that makes people think it’s right
@apolohenrique31875 күн бұрын
@@gerdis3665 being more respectfull unlike others, its actually a sin! but, not be gay, but have homosexual relatioship and other is the sin!, so if you are gay but a christain you should search for resign and live celibacy! we love the sinner not the sin! but nowadays many christians like to judge, but thats also a sin! so u should correct those, not atacck the religion! thank you, God bless you
@apolohenrique31875 күн бұрын
oh sorry for broken english, i'm still learning :P
@Aye--.--Ай бұрын
Well, to each their own. It's amazing they were quite honest about their opinions, although I don't agree with all of them. I think people should be able to have civilized conversations like this even if we have differing opinions, so this was good to see.
@seren6cher8ryАй бұрын
true. i can't agree with you more!!! so good comment..
@almonderesse7315Ай бұрын
I agree entirely
@XFallen19Ай бұрын
I really like the girl she seems more open minded but was mostly quiet, maybe caz she thought they wouldnt agree with her but im sure she wanted to say smtg more. feel bad for the guy who got hurt when the middle dude said he would cut him off if he was gay lol anyway thanks queenie for another great vid!!💙
@infpyaАй бұрын
@@XFallen19 Tbh this was a great interview cause everyone showed their true colors so no one can be surprised by anyone's actions in the future lol
@yamiletsoler3464Ай бұрын
Why would you feel bad about an hypothetical situation 😂😂 Even if it came to pass, they're all grown ups, it's okay to reject someone when you don't like them (if they try to make a move obviously).
@user-ve9ov6qi6tАй бұрын
the guy in the middle was an absolute d*ck. too bad to see that homophobia still perpetuates amongst Korea's young generations. still a veryyyyy long way to go compared to Japan
@DivertisseurАй бұрын
Middle guy looks gay af
@MexicanAmericanMermaid26 күн бұрын
@@yamiletsoler3464 yeah but to hear a close friend of yours say that they would stop being friends with you just because you were queer is really messed up (as a bisexual myself)
@pm4594Ай бұрын
Everyone in the comments saying what the middle guy said isn't homophobic is baffling. He literally said if his friend came out as gay he would slowly cut him off is literally homophobia. Putting someone around you in a position where they need to choose whether to be open and true to themselves or keep a friendship is literal homophobia and not a preference. He has his opinion which everyone is entitled to but his opinion is if you're gay hide it. Like??? And for everyone who thinks gay people are all loud about their sexuality and you know....pride and cross-dressing that is such a small representation of queer people and sadly the most depicted.
@Majtz7Ай бұрын
He’s just following his religion🤡 + would he cut off his religion and believes for a friend? Ofc not because he cares about where would he end up at the end no one will matter to you ur family friends pets money and everything else you’re gonna only think about YOURSELF wether ur going to hell or heaven but suit yourself don’t come at the day of judgement crying
@nuggs9999Ай бұрын
@@Majtz7eh i mean im a christian lesbian and ik many christian’s who are okay with it, very rarely someone who disapproves
@Majtz7Ай бұрын
@@nuggs9999 because those people who disapprove are real Christians!! Many Cristians these days are Christians by name only they dont even do any worshiping but call themselves Christians I am a muslim and its considered haram to support or be one of the community the same thing with Christians and i think jewish people too (not sure) it is forbidden.
@ninabessaiah1388Ай бұрын
@@nuggs9999 i think they meant the religion and not the followers of the religion
@nuggs9999Ай бұрын
@@ninabessaiah1388 in a way that’s what i was referring to but i doubt he’s actually read even one of the books, probably hates just to hate. he brought up religion but didn’t say how it ties into religion which even i could have brought up. if i debated him i bet he’d have no actual reason that he could state on my he isn’t okay with it. can’t just say christianity without bringing up factual scripture references
@and-xl2eyАй бұрын
The answer to the pale skin question is bs lol.
@NinaPBАй бұрын
Completely.
@infpyaАй бұрын
@@and-xl2ey facts
@afterskoolluv1207Ай бұрын
They really think we're dumb 😂
@jaeminsgf_Ай бұрын
Literally 😭
@Bellax912Ай бұрын
yeah same goes for the taller guy on his opinion about gays
@itsminty_melond9307Ай бұрын
I’m glad that this was a constructive conversation with differing opinions, it really puts into perspective that Korea holds many people with different opinions, same as America. I really hope that people stop hating on the people in the video because this is one of the first videos I’ve seen that is more honest about the reality of Korea, and I worry that the hate people get in this video might be taken into consideration the next time someone makes a video on Korea and others will be wary of being entirely truthful because they’ll be worried about getting hated on. The people who clicked on this video clearly wanted truthful and honest opinions so it’s time to be respectful when disagreeing with them in the comments, please have a little empathy that some people in the video were not raised the same as you and therefore do not have the same knowledge as you about the world and it’s important to treat them with care as well and hope that they will try to make an effort to learn more.
@evesanchez215721 күн бұрын
People will always judge others based on their own biases. It doesn’t matter where you are from. Folks should be themselves, always, no matter how others will see them. Stand for what you believe. You will learn things are not always how you see life through different experiences. Only you can change perspective through those. But, never be afraid to be you. Not everyone has to like you, nor do you have to like everyone. It’s ok.
@donotSTrAYfromyourdesTINY6 күн бұрын
I like your profile pic 🤗😁
@itsminty_melond93075 күн бұрын
@@donotSTrAYfromyourdesTINY thanks!
@tywar7167Ай бұрын
the most shocking part of this video was when the guy in the middle said gay people should hide who they are 💀but then he has the audacity to say we're all the same ???
@jisennisa-yw2hhАй бұрын
LMAO fr i wouldnt want a friend like that
@ImafreeloufaАй бұрын
Right and he was saying it like as if we were being silly for being scared of ppl like him in Korea
@gr3.gАй бұрын
I think that people like him have no awareness about history or the realities of the world, they need to take time to educate themselves, because if their opinion or beliefs are to judge or degrade others for their identity or personal differences that is an issue between them and their God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. Thank God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today Human Rights exist. Which they also enjoy and protect equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
@infpyaАй бұрын
@Jhnkiyvfdc Because he's brainwashed. In his mind he shouldn't have to hide who he is, that would be persecution. But anyone he doesn't like should hide who they are. 💀💀 So individualistic and self centered.
@anonnnymousthegreatАй бұрын
The only way to prove if being gay is natural is to look at animals in how they engage with one another. If they aren’t naturally having relations of the same sex as their own, then why do humans think it’s natural to do so?
@mariposaluna99Ай бұрын
the white skin part was iffy but it all went downhill as soon as we got the lgbt+ stuff
@NinaPBАй бұрын
Just a straight up dumpster fire.
@strudelhАй бұрын
Right, I’m bi and I get not agreeing with our lifestyle, just be respectful about it. But saying gay ppl should hide it is so yucky, that’s what a lot of gay people have been doing for literal decades.
@rxlxviiiАй бұрын
@@strudelh I have no problems with the lifestyle as long as they know I'm not. All the gay guys always hit on me, which is the problem when they know I'm not gay. Guys are always horny, so they constantly hit on people, but if their target isn't female, they know that if a man rejects them. the guy being hit on negatively with remarks as are you homophobic and such, whereas if a man hits on a female and the female rejects him, the guy doing the hitting will be looked upon negatively.
@rxlxviiiАй бұрын
@@strudelh I have no problems with the lifestyle as long as they know I'm not. All the gay guys always hit on me, which is the problem when they know I'm not gay. Guys are always horny, so they constantly hit on people, but if their target isn't female, they know that if a man rejects them. the guy being hit on negatively with remarks as are you homophobic and such, whereas if a man hits on a female and the female rejects him, the guy doing the hitting will be looked upon negatively.
@jaeminsgf_Ай бұрын
@@strudelhI’m Ngl I don’t get “not agreeing with our lifestyle.” Because what are gay people doing that straight people aren’t.
@DrakeChildMuncher28 күн бұрын
Im glad they were not afraid to show their opinions
@143sznsАй бұрын
so pale skin equals clean skin? i don’t think he understood the question..
@seren6cher8ryАй бұрын
He said, there is misunderstanding and ppl like "clean" skin, so it doesn't have to be white/pale skin. (not always). as a south korean, I agree with him. it's true that many koreans like white, bright, or clean skin (especially about women), but clean skin matters than skin color. Also surely, there are koreans who like darker skin too and many koreans don't have pale skin either! 🙂 and i have darker skin as a SK woman. (but korean women tend to try to have more white/bright skin..) and all skin color should be respected. i think koreans don't discriminate by skin color, but if you have white or clean skin, especially as a woman, many koreans who like white skin will like it. that's all..!
@chrisgooden4684Ай бұрын
@@seren6cher8ryso basically you said he’s both right & wrong😂let’s be honest east asia mainly likes white skin whether it be for colorism or do to poor farmers being darker from being out the sun & the wealthy being paler mentality they got😭all that trying to add in clean skin shit to that topic was just bs lol
@Blakberi73Ай бұрын
@@chrisgooden4684 I agree.
@imnicole149Ай бұрын
@@seren6cher8ryyou said a whole lotta nothing☠️ pale skin doesn’t mean clean skin. It’s doesn’t matter where you’re from that’s a dumb way of thinking
@etjaajtaejet-cc8qyАй бұрын
Koreans have fairly light skin by default so people who have darker skin get it by getting tanned which inevitably comes other kinds of sun damage like freckles and uneven skin tone. That's why Koreans think of pale and clear almost equivalently. They come together. If korea had been multi ethnic for some time we would've differentiated those two more clearly but these perceptions are generated by Koreans looking at other Koreans
@angela75065Ай бұрын
I love the way you styled your hair in this video😊
@queeniequeenАй бұрын
ahh thank you!! I tried something new hehe🤭
@ky_c_cАй бұрын
@@queeniequeenit looks so good! Really suits and accentuates your features! You have such a nice side profile as well, glad your showing it off ❤
@fuzzyjimi1013Ай бұрын
I never understood people who use their religion as an excuse for homophobia. No sin is greater than another, you'll keep friends who lie, cheat, steal and commit infidelity but draw the line at same gendered relationships. If you're going to pick friends and judge people based on one sin, do it for ALL sins. This is why people see Christianity as a joke these days
@maryg5982Ай бұрын
All sin is sin, but all sins are not equal: John 19:11 Jesus answered: Thou shouldst not have any power against me, unless it were given thee from above. Therefore, he that hath delivered me to thee, hath the greater sin. “And so I tell you, every kind of sin and slander can be forgiven, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come” (Matthew 12:31-32). According to Jesus, some sins are greater than others. All sins are not the same.
@velmalegaspi1741Ай бұрын
You have right to disagree with someone life style choice. That does not mean you hate the person. Being respectful and kind to one another doesn’t mean, I have accepted your life style. They two different things.
@LeidyybugАй бұрын
I’m a Christian, but I’m not homophobic. I believe that homosexuality is a sin, but I’m not homophobic just because I don’t support your behavior 😭. I still love you, but it’s my duty as a Christ follower to steer myself in the right direction and not feed into that sin
@fuzzyjimi1013Ай бұрын
@@velmalegaspi1741 I never said that one would have to thrust themselves into a homosexual lifestyle just bc their friends have one. But using the name of God to say that gay people should hide their lifestyle bc it offends people IS homophobic and disgusting. That's exactly what the guy in the middle said. How someone lives their life should not affect you in anyway if it has nothing to directly do with you
@fuzzyjimi1013Ай бұрын
@@Leidyybug And that's fine. That's not at all what the problem is for anyone who is upset in the comments lol. It's simply him saying that he takes OFFENSE to another person's lifestyle. As a black person I can think of it as a white person not knowing me at all but saying I've offended them or made them mad simply because of my skin color. At the end of the day it's God that passes judgement when death comes, not Christians who preach what they say is the word of God and Jesus
@scar.3y19 күн бұрын
sht got QUIETTT after the gay question i cant breathe its so funny
@daniellawilson261729 күн бұрын
He wants gay people to hide who they are bc it makes him uncomfortable but straight people partake in PDA, they go to gatherings filled with people and talk about their boyfriends or girlfriends or husbands and wives with no problem. But if a gay person does the same it makes him uncomfortable. He will be alright.
@HirumaHarukaКүн бұрын
PERIOD
@kkami.kkomi.hАй бұрын
i get that Donggeun isn’t really careful with what he says and is straight to the point, but i think that’s just how he grew up 😭
@mengxuanzhao222628 күн бұрын
Koreans always hide their thoughts and keep you from the truth. I think that he made his point clear is better for the audience.
@pinkietheplum29 күн бұрын
the way the girl looks at you is so adorable
@khloeystea988916 күн бұрын
He said he would quietly cut him off🤣🤣😭😭
@missmochiicecreamАй бұрын
Given Donggeun's religion, his environment, and how he was raised, I'm not shocked. Korea is very conservative. I actually commend him for being willing to talk openly about how he feels even though we fundamentally disagree. I hope that he doesn't continue to confine himself to these beliefs as he gets older, because anybody has the capacity to find love and be attracted to anybody else, even when you're least expecting it. If he were to ever develop those sorts of feelings later on in life, he'd feel so ashamed. We deserve to celebrate love and be happy and treat people kindly.
@Michellen194Ай бұрын
Just cause he doesn't share the same open mentality as you do it doesn't mean he is wrong for following what he accepts as the right thing, lgbt people always want to be respected but you can't respect a religion of someone just cause you don't agree, nobody have to accept you, and that's just how life is, there's so many people u don't like also and there will be so many people that won't like you
@user-ve9ov6qi6tАй бұрын
dunno but be really gives off a**hole vibes and he dgaf
@cynthiagauthier8897Ай бұрын
@@Michellen194 religion is a belief while being homosexual is a biological fact. You do not have to respect a belief or an idea. It is not a reality.
@Michellen194Ай бұрын
@@cynthiagauthier8897 do you really think that a some kid really was biological born as homosexual? They just chosen what they prefer as they get older, and why beliefs shouldn't be respected? It means that If I truly believe that I'm a dinosaur so I'm biological Born as one? I don't hate lgbt but why do you have to try to prove to everyone that you're some kind of "special" gender instead of just living as everyone minding your own business. Black people don't go around telling everyone they're black and should be respected as one, they are just humans like everyone and that's why they deserve to be respected as a human being, it is just about YOUR identity so just keep it to yourself, nobody has to look at a man wearing a dress and call him as she just cause he prefer to have relation with man, that's just he's personal life nobody have to know about your personal life and agree with you, everyone is different and we should celebrate the difference but why should not we celebrate or even just respect a opinion or beliefs that doesn't agree with yours?
@chevenaerichards113Ай бұрын
Being homosexual is not a biological fact it's a way of life, and not everyone has to accept it for there own reasons. As long as we are respectful to each other we can have peace.
@kaitlynlitt352617 күн бұрын
this was interesting but i wish they were actually honest… these are things i really want to know, but you can definitely tell they were holding some things back…
@user-yx2es4rd6fАй бұрын
The oath in the beginning is so funny 😂😂
@ahgazenity.aliverseАй бұрын
Idk about that one dude. I would have to quietly unfriend him
@infpyaАй бұрын
@@ahgazenity.aliverse Seriously
@user-ve9ov6qi6tАй бұрын
same haha he's "that" person i would avoid.
@johv__..7Ай бұрын
same
@ChicaLocaForever1622 күн бұрын
The one who didn't support the same sex attraction? Nahh he was just voicing his opinions. I think it was pretty brave of him to be honest. He stood up for his religion when everyone else in the room clearly disagreed.
@Natalia-jl4kj20 күн бұрын
@@ChicaLocaForever16Yh but if he would want to unfriend gay people simply for that, it would make sense that people who support LGBT would want to unfriend him too I feel?🤷🏻♀️
@aviwekomsanaАй бұрын
Love this video, interesting to see real people with their diverse opinions. Would love a part 2
@starothesea29 күн бұрын
thank you for the q&a! this is by far the best one i’ve seen with the most accurate and understandable answers. also about the homophobia, honestly it just shows more like obviously not everyone is on the same page about every single issue and no matter what there will be people who think like that, but the good news is that there are also wonderful people who will accept you or at the very least try to understand you if you put in the same effort.
@destiny428Ай бұрын
After visiting Korea, can definitely say that they are obsessed with making their skin whiter. It’s sad really…
@uludak8468Ай бұрын
why sad?
@Kim-0-0Ай бұрын
@@uludak8468 Because what is wrong it dark/colored skin?, what's so wrong that they go far and beyond to change it?
@franciscovilcheavila960Ай бұрын
@@uludak8468 changing your naturally skin color is sad, same than having plastic surgery to change your natural features.
@sharifahkeillah-rk6odАй бұрын
So they even bleach?😂😂
@uludak8468Ай бұрын
@@Kim-0-0 and whats wrong with pale skin? that is what men worldwide attracts the most.
@ilvskzzАй бұрын
I don’t support lgbtq but i wouldn’t hate on them. i’m definitely not offended when it’s not my life. God wants us to love all people. There’s no reason to be offended over their decision..
@Lee-kf9tq21 сағат бұрын
Firstly its not a decision lol but also I'm gay and cannot stand other gay people. Too dirty, too flamboyant too in your face. I've never supported it even when it was just lgb. Why group them together? Why not just be a person first who happens to be gay? Why is gay their entire personality, then there's stupid politics that cones with it. No thanks,
@thugitz1990Ай бұрын
Aw im so glad u did this. I dated a girl from corea when i was in my late teens. Dating me she was only around black americans n first gen west african Americans. They loved her and she loved them. I asked her what her first impressions were bc in america, a lot of ppl r shy around black folks out of fear. But she said she was shy… but not for the same reasons. She said black ppls perception in corea is that they are cool, ladies men, etc. So it was more starstruck type ish. And that was the first time I heard of a perception of black ppl being widely positive. Ur friends echoing that is so on point. I get the clear skin thing being the main thing. But i do think pale is a positive factor as well. BUT pale has only been popping in corea for like a decade. In the 90s and 00s they were all tan. Like Brazilian type skin. But they still liked it clear. So the pale thing is i think just the beauty standards evolving like anywhere else in the world. When i visit corea i see plenty of tan ppl and ppl married to african immigrants, etc. I think the bottom line is the clear skin/healthy/taking care of yourself. I DO think pale got way popular at the same time. But tan skin is still a preference too. Peace.
@heehee325 күн бұрын
do you mean korea?
@disorderlymatron553422 күн бұрын
"I don't have a reason, I just don't like it" .... I mean I get it and appreciate his honesty, but personally I hope to always be able to unpack and understand my feelings vs just being told what not to like and being like "ok yeah" when told how to feel/think
@Yurina-d9m16 күн бұрын
This!! Im a christian myself and I don’t personally agree with homosexuality as it goes against God’s teachings but I don’t hate on them either because I get the liberty to believe in God and I get free will. By that, I mean that others also get free will too and I can’t force them to believe in God. I can tell them about Him if they are curious but that’s it. All I can do is respect them as human beings and not condemn them because it’s not my job. Does not mean I support homosexuality itself though. I just won’t treat someone differently for being part of it.
@disorderlymatron553415 күн бұрын
@@Yurina-d9m let me ask you, just out of curiosity really, if you were to be seated in a restaurant and the people lets say in eyesight of you are obviously gay. Be that holding hands, sitting close together or something around those lines, would you get up and move or continue with your day?
@Yurina-d9m15 күн бұрын
@@disorderlymatron5534I personally have and had LGBTQ+ friends. I’ve literally gone right after church with fellow christians to a restaurant where our favorite gay waiter works because he’s such a funny and kind guy. I don’t mind people doing with their life whatever they want. I’m not interested in their sexual or romantic life. This is what I tell judgy christians. Now if they are being extremely sexual in front of my kids (and they don’t even have to be LGBTQ) like twerking, tongue kissing, grabbing each other’s parts (I’ve seen people like that) then obviously I will walk away. This is what I tell judgy christians. You can call yourself a christian and be a bad christian and end up in hell and someone that’s gay, accept Jesus with all their heart, even if it’s right before dying, and go to heaven so don’t judge. hope that helps.
@hamraismail15 күн бұрын
@@disorderlymatron5534continue with my day .duh.some of us don’t force our opinions
@Sebisajiminstan6 күн бұрын
Yeah, i believe in God, been raised in a christian household, so i never understood how others can just freely use that excuse for ‘not agreeing’ with things. Why? Just because some other humans decided that’s how they’re gonna interpret some part of the bible doesn’t automatically make it right. Doesn’t christianity also tell you you have no right to judge others? To be kind to your fellow humans, regardless? Why not focus on that part of religion? Why is it always used to hate on others? When i see stuff like this, even the first reply to the og comment, it’s pretty clear to me that these people are just repeating shit they’ve been told, never took the time to do any kind of research for themselves. You can not like gay people, sure, i don’t understand it but if that’s your opinion go for it, i guess. But don’t use your religion as an excuse, that’s just a way to avoid accountability.
@desokie257Ай бұрын
love your channel, Queenie! i think it's very important for everyone to hear different opinions, so thanks for sharing:))
@rosesavocado8557Ай бұрын
Real reason a lot of Koreans prefer light skin: It’s a symbol of wealth. Back in the day, only rich people had pale skin. They could afford skin-whitening creams/makeup and could afford to stay indoors all day. They didn’t have to go outside and had umbrellas to cover themselves and protect themselves from sunlight. The poor people had dark skin because they had to be outside all day, working in the rice fields. They were subjected to the harsh sun without any protection, thus they tanned.
@infpyaАй бұрын
@@rosesavocado8557 Watch the video.
@sunshine33313521 күн бұрын
But that’s not the case anymore. So why do they still prefer light skin now? There must be some reason other then back in the day…
@Kenzi1150521 күн бұрын
But what about the people who are born black or with a darker skintone?
@rosesavocado855721 күн бұрын
@@sunshine333135 Old habits die hard and the grass will always be greener on the other side.
@rosesavocado855721 күн бұрын
@@Kenzi11505 In Korea, over 99% of the population isn’t black. People born with a browner tint often bleach their skin. Like how light-skinned people tan their skin. People will never be happy wit how they look.
@documentarygirl8Ай бұрын
Honestly the answer in regard to the question about pale skin had nothign to do with the question. Having clean clear skin is a diff topic than colorism. So the middle guy is homophobic and he doesn't even know why he's homophobic smh. I'm glad Queenie told the other guy that lgbtqhave standards cuz for someone reason heterosexual men think just cuz their a man they would get chose 😂
@totallynotmicАй бұрын
he seems like he’s done racist things in the past too, no one just thinks off their head to equate colorism to clear skin 💀
@Ema의logАй бұрын
He actually has a reason to be homophobic because he is a CHRISTIAN!!! he said that so you should respect his opinion not every body would welcome gays or whatever
@josefaocasio1616Ай бұрын
I think the kid you are calling homophobic was quite brave to state his real feelings. People say we all have a right to our beliefs but when someone like him says what he really feels he is attacked. I feel he has the right to his opinion just like gays have their rights!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@heavenlykai6839Ай бұрын
@@josefaocasio1616 That's not....that's not what it means....
@kpopbaby4001Ай бұрын
@josefaocasio1616 i wouldn't say brave cuz this is a pretty common opinion in korea
@BeachBabyxoАй бұрын
Girl, I’m proud you didn’t cut off the LGBTQ+ question to save that guy in the middle, so ignorant of him the way he thinks we as a community have to hide from society
@byyrd2194Ай бұрын
It's not ignorant to have a faith and values. Why the always force acceptance that's literally against what you value in life. It's never going to work.
@user-cf5ny3mb8eАй бұрын
@@byyrd2194It's ignorant to tell people to hide just because of your faith and values
@niko13613Ай бұрын
@@byyrd2194you can’t disagree or not accept what someone is, in the same way you can’t disagree with someone’s race, because its biologically given to them. it’s a logical fallacy.
@yamiletsoler3464Ай бұрын
@@niko13613I can disagree on a ideology and a lifestyle that's not natural, that has been statistically proven to produce an increase of STD's and cannot produce life. But i wouldn't go that far to tell people to hide what they chose to indulge in (like sharing they're gay WHEN somebody actually asks them, which I don't think anyone should be asking those type of questions, so I don't think anyone regardless of their sexual orientation should be discussing their sexual lifestyle and tendencies with other people [who are not very close and intimate], somethings are private and is very low class to discuss them in public) but my approach would be more like don't be overly immoral, obnoxious and perverted in front of other people, especially children.
@cynthiagauthier8897Ай бұрын
@@yamiletsoler3464 then you are the misaducated one. Because what you are writing in your comment is false. Homoexuality ca be found in many species and do not increase sexual transmissed deseases. What seems to be immoral for you is not for another. You should not mix science with moral belief.
@PaminjapanАй бұрын
We foreigners need more of this type video to understand how Koreans think of us and what to expect when we visit S. Korea. Thank you.
@raijaynehearse19 күн бұрын
Great video but my heart broke into pieces when the guy in the middle gave his opinion on gay people. I know it happens but it still shocks me to see it said so coldly and openly.
@UglyCitizen10 күн бұрын
I agree but its also just bc Korea isn't used to being around lgbtq people and it not as glamorized there as it is in America which btw I have nothing against the lgbtq community I think he was saying that he wasn't comfortable around them and so he doesn't want to make them uncomfortable by making himself be around them I think he was trying to be respectful towards them by not lying and saying that he didn't want to make them uncomfortable by lying and going against his religion and I understand how that can be hurtful its almost like idk if you know this but there is this Japanese Kpop idol who was only 17 or so at the time and was asked if he would do anything gay and he said no bc he wasn't gay and didn't feel comfortable doing anything more then hugging other men ( which is reasonable cause he is straight) and he got nailed in the comments they all said he was being homophobic when he clearly didn't mean to be rude of offensive and to remind you he is only 17/18 at the time and he wasn't fluent in Korean so it was hard for him to word everything correctly then after the fact people started calling him fat and saying he needed to eat less (which wasn't true he was and still id perfectly healthy)I know this is off topic a bit but It just reminded me of him also if you would like to know his name and where to find the video his name is haruto and he is from the group treasure pls make sure to find the whole video bc people made him out to look like a bad guy and he clearly isn't he is a good person and I know bc I have seen how kind he is to everyone I hope you understand my long rant and I hope you look into him i hope you have a nice day/week ❤
@Lllllaaa2_8 күн бұрын
Good for him He’s not brainwashed
@UglyCitizen8 күн бұрын
@@Lllllaaa2_ wdym?
@sunny-my9ng7 күн бұрын
@Lllllaaa2_ why are you so pressed about people in love 💀get a life
@fionacampbell3378Ай бұрын
I love the honesty of the group and everyone is entitled to their opinion. I see some hostility about the alphabet people but hey, even they are entitled to their opinions too. Be safe out there.
@cynthiagauthier8897Ай бұрын
Not everything is about "opinions" and not all "opinions" are equal. These are facts.
@jyk6601Ай бұрын
you are so right. He has a right to have his opinions and there is nothing wrong about it. I think he was talking about this. Forcing other people to like and accept Alphabet ppl and not allowing honesty is so wrong.
@heehee325 күн бұрын
what the heck are alphabet people
@lilacfields18 күн бұрын
@@jyk6601what is an alphabet person
@lilacfields18 күн бұрын
@@heehee3these people are too scared to say who they’re actually talking about 😭😭
@tasneemoroАй бұрын
5:17 They literally use whitening shots and whitening filters 😂
@fransmith3255Ай бұрын
If you wear makeup than you're doing the same thing, right? Essentially? Making yourself look better than you really are? Same deal with hair styling and conditioner and various skin creams. This is the same as that - no worse than wearing makeup, and but nobody sees wearing makeup as problematic because everyone does it, it's normalised. This is just a different method that western people are not used to. And by the way, the 'white' skin thing in Korea comes from a completely different circumstance and history to the traditional western 'racist against people with black skin' thing. The western 'white skin' thing and the Korean 'white skin' thing are not related at all.
@na-xw8rtАй бұрын
@@fransmith3255how is making yourself whiter, making yourself look better ? also it doesn’t matter if those don’t have the exact same roots, at the end of the day It’s about discrimination which is wrong. doesn’t matter if it’s a race matter or a classism matter
@fransmith3255Ай бұрын
@@na-xw8rt You are relating this to western culture and western racism. The Korean wish to look paler has nothing to do with western racism between black and white people. Absolutely nothing!! It's not related at all. It is to do with Korean culture and Korean history. Western culture is not the only culture on Earth and other cultures don't necessarily relate to western culture at all. It's exactly the same principle as wearing makeup - better looking people are treated better. That's discrimination done by makeup. Is makeup discrimination?
@na-xw8rtАй бұрын
@@fransmith3255 I said it’s rooted in classism
@fransmith3255Ай бұрын
@@na-xw8rt Yes. It's rooted in historical classism. So do other countries have classism - just expressed differently. In America classism is much, MUCH worse, right? Classism in America is being accosted and arrested just because people have dark skin. Western prejudices are much MUCH worse than they are in Korea. We don't exactly have the right to judge...
@LizLiz0120 күн бұрын
I'm a Christian, but I don't care if you're gay, lesbian, bi, etc.
@Lee-kf9tq21 сағат бұрын
Pan means being attracted to everyone, including kids, you should definitely have a problem with that. I'm gay and hate how everyone has been lumped together. Just be a person first, a person who happens to be gay rather than making it your entire personality.
@LizLiz0120 сағат бұрын
@@Lee-kf9tq I didn't know. Thank you for educating me. 😊
@lilmamagcАй бұрын
anytime some person says they were born in 200x i have a heart attack
@elliefavors14 күн бұрын
why
@cindybmb768410 күн бұрын
@@elliefavorsi think bc they feel old
@junz8675Ай бұрын
Without watching the video my guess on pale skin would be that it stems from the joseon dynasty where if you were upperclass you likely had paler skin because you didnt have to work out in the fields so darker skin meant you were of lower class. Even these days you see so many examples of people showing off their wealth & status on tiktok & other social media. Kids these days may not make the same connection consciously but they've just grown up with paler skin often being seen associated with beauty. This is the same with any kind of beauty standard in any country or time period. Why are hour glass figures considered sexy? Beards? Remember when metal corsets were a thing? Everyone has their own beauty standards & thats fine as long as its not discriminatory or harmful (like the metal corsets or mutilating body parts)
@GumCho-we3ukАй бұрын
exactly. it's a cultural thing for the most part.
@etjaajtaejet-cc8qyАй бұрын
Much older than even the joseon dynasty. You find evidence of this beauty standard even in ancient times like the goguyeo kingdom
@infpyaАй бұрын
@@junz8675 You should watch the video. Cause they said it's not about pale skin, actually. So thanks for confirming that they were capping, I guess lmao.
@mariaaballi-gonzalez3716Ай бұрын
Bur metal wire an mutilating body parts aren't a things now...plastic surgery and whitening creams are, for me that's is mutilation too
@franciscovilcheavila960Ай бұрын
so they still live in the times where they were slaves and peasants but now they think they are royalty xD.
@laliblackcastle27799 күн бұрын
I find guy in the middles refreshing, he said what he said and doesn't care what anyone thinks, and that is ok. People are can feel the way they feel even if I disagree with it
@inf1nx.-9527 күн бұрын
Well you shouldn’t find if refreshing and idk how you do…
@Bibiboom0303Күн бұрын
Refreshing to be homophobic?
@alexss36618 күн бұрын
Why are y'all hating on the guy in the middle? He has the right to say and do whatever he wants as long as he doesn't hurt anyone.
@inf1nx.-9527 күн бұрын
But he is hurting someone?? Do you think an “opinion” as harmful as that wouldn’t hurt somebody?
@Jyxral6 күн бұрын
Something he should keep to himself 💀
@sheelania8833Ай бұрын
I appreciate the guy who was honest about the gay answer. Instead of pretending to be okay with it which everyone does, he was straight up.
@almonderesse7315Ай бұрын
Sameeee
@heehee325 күн бұрын
lol most ppl aren't against it. so no everyone isn't pretending. like 3/4 of the people in this video were perfectly fine with lgbtq friends. however it was goof thst he was honest
@lilacfields18 күн бұрын
most normal people are okay with it so i certainly wouldn’t say “everyone” is “pretending to be okay with it”
@shadowdraqon247915 күн бұрын
@@lilacfieldsu never know for sure, people force themselves to say what people want to hear out of fear of being judged or called racist
@elizico17 күн бұрын
i'm sick and tired of people using christianity as an excuse for homophobia.
@user-zv1lc7tv8v3 күн бұрын
You are letting a young dumb kid get you mad. He's just a dumb, inexperienced kid who thinks he knows about Christianity.
@elaineOiwish15 күн бұрын
Thank you for asking them the questions. Even tho it was a small group it probably did give a good representation of the way most Koreans are. I think it holds true in a lot of countries as a foreigner…be friendly and learn at least some of the language and try to use it. It proves you are interested in meeting part way to communicate.
@user-jd7wl9ns6lАй бұрын
Im korean and I have very bright skin since I was born. It's just depends on my genetic. And It's so rude that someone to said white washing things(?) to me. I never heard of 'white washing' in my life so I don't even know the meaning until last year😦. Many east asian has natural pale skin and I like tan skin too. Thank you.
@keykey7646Ай бұрын
don't lie
@user-jd7wl9ns6lАй бұрын
@@keykey7646 Come to Korea and see it with your own eyes
@user-qw6nu8lh2g26 күн бұрын
우린 다른 나라 미의 기준이 어떻든 별 신경도 안쓰고 외국인 피부색이 어둡던 밝던 별 관심도 없는데...😅 동남아인들이 유독 우리나라 미의 기준에 참 관심이 많은 것 같아요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 그들을 고려해서 만들어진 기준이 아닌데...ㅋㅋㅋ
@user-zv1lc7tv8v3 күн бұрын
@@keykey7646 He's not lying. I lived in both countries for long time. Many Koreans have skin tones that are whiter than Whites. For example, my wife is Korean, and if you just focus on her skin tone, her skin tone is white. My skin tone is yellow and slightly brownish. But my son's skin tone is relatively white. My wife never used or uses any skin whitening cream, but she is good about applying sun protection cream whenever she goes outside. By the way, she also prefers white color on our house home and bathroom, so it resembles a hospital. Has nothing to do with her racial attitude.
@cinnabhyun8585Ай бұрын
Not the homophobia 😂😂💀
@c0tizАй бұрын
Ive been watching Queenie since her 4th video on this journey and she never fails to entertain, I hope she continues growing. 💗
@viralbananas17 күн бұрын
Im korean and I dont like pale skin. At all. My wife has been thought to be blasian all her life😂
@sakussy21 күн бұрын
please more of these in the future! it’s so entertaining and you really learn how young koreans think, it’s fun to see some variety in opinions 🫶🏻🫶🏻
@VeronicaCelaya-xe6fbАй бұрын
Appreciate the honest answers here. Very interesting.
@akcheartsjb17 күн бұрын
It's crazy to me that people are so bothered by others life choices. (LGBT+) Like if it has no effect on you, why do you care so much?!? I just don't get it 🤦🏽♀️ like let people live their lives & be happy.
@Lee-kf9tq21 сағат бұрын
First of all, it's not a choice lol. I'm gay and I cannot stand other gay people, too loud, too flamboyant, too in your face, likes to play victim, demand you change your lives to suit them. I'm just a random person who happens to be gay, it's ridiculous how others make gay their entire personality. Then there's all the silly politics that goes with it. It's like a cult. Also gays get away with alot more especially with children which puts the most vulnerable at risk, it needs to be monitored properly, the law needs to be equal. No special privileges.
@colettemarzАй бұрын
I hope the guy in the middle gets better soon!!
@almonderesse7315Ай бұрын
I hope he never changes his beliefs for other people
@colettemarzАй бұрын
@@almonderesse7315 i’m christian lmao.. be dramatic somewhere else
@heehee325 күн бұрын
@@almonderesse7315no but for himself. its so much work avoiding normal ppl for harmless things
@lilacfields18 күн бұрын
@@almonderesse7315 empathy and rethinking your beliefs is good actually!
@almonderesse731517 күн бұрын
@@lilacfields Depends on why you're rethinking---you're saying I should change my religion and my thinking because of other people's beliefs and opinions? Why should I change? For others? That's ridiculous. But don't get me wrong, the others shouldn't change either. Everyone's entitled to his opinion.
@isimpforanimeguys3718 күн бұрын
The guy in the corner was so funny 😂❤
@ang4390Ай бұрын
I liked how they were all honest in their opinions, even if it may have been controversial. I do hope the guy in the middle thinks about why he’s offended at gay people telling him they’re gay though. I hope he gains the understanding that all people have free will and are allowed to love who they love 😊
@Jess-yp9fo29 күн бұрын
And he's allowed to not like who or what he doesn't like
@ang439027 күн бұрын
@@Jess-yp9fo You’re right. I never said he has to like them. I’m just saying I hope he realizes that people have the right to love who they love, as long as it doesn’t hurt the people involved. And people have the right to free speech and should be able to come out and say they’re gay, if they want to.
@golbinnom15 күн бұрын
@@Jess-yp9fo he doesnt have to like them, he just doesnt have the right to police how others should live
@E.j-Ай бұрын
Interesting..
@mehreenn11 күн бұрын
The beef in the comments after getting what they clicked on this video for is hilarious 💀🙏🏻
@Princ3leiАй бұрын
LMFAO the way he had to face the wall in shame💀🤣🤣🤣
@pessoinhacansada690022 күн бұрын
They just outright runaway from the "white skin" question
@shadowdraqon247915 күн бұрын
If they said the truth they would be called racist
@amb7412Ай бұрын
I love getting their honest perspectives, even if I disagreed with them. I'd rather have honesty. On the question of Gays, I would like to share with your friends from Korea that, as a Christian someone get mixed up on this:discussion. We are called loved everyone as a Christian and not to set ourselves up as anyone's judge and jury..So, it's a Christian's goal to love others as we love ourselves. All people should be welcomed, kept safe and loved etc... I have lived as a Christian my entire life and I have known many Gay people, which include children during my childhood, they were just another friend or neighbor. They were not not picked on and I grew up in Chicago. My mom also thought it was important to be with around people that did not look like you, so I went to a n integrated nursery school, what people call Preschool all the way through to grade school. Even our sports, and hobbies were integrated. So, I have been friends my whole life with friends who were from different nationalities and I love it. As Asian friends goes I've had, Chinese, Japanese, Filipino and I was the manager of a couple of Korean, but I did not know them on a personal level. I actually had more in common with my Asian friends than I did with my Black or White friends because my mom was very education focus and walking the straight and narrow, (a tiger mom) so we shared similar experiences and bond over them. I guess it worked since She and her 4 children all graduated from college. My son is a high achiever too, but I parent very different! I started watching Kdramas about 2 yrs ago and I love them for so many reasons and thus I became interested in the Korean culture and I follow several Korean influencers on KZfaq. I also love seeing people of color or African- Americans living there and sharing their lives and friendships. I can't wait to visit and soak up the different cultures and sites. People are people as long as you lead with respect and love. Thank you for doing this video. I learned so much and your friends seem lovely and open.감사합니다
@gr3.gАй бұрын
It's quite sad and disappointing how prejudiced and ignorant those guys are about gay people. Religion should never be an excuse for this, some people choose to keep the negative aspects instead of the positive ones.
@jdpmanagementservices5851Ай бұрын
It is stated in The Bible that God is against homosexuality. Leviticus 18:22 "Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin." (NLT) Leviticus 20:13 "If a man practices homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman, both men have committed a detestable act. They must both be put to death, for they are guilty of a capital offense." So that is his faith and there’s no point in him being a Christian if he doesn’t believe in The Word of God. We are taught to abide by The Word and not to pick and choose what suits us.
@l0velyfl0werАй бұрын
Right, like when he said he’d cut off his friend beside him ive he said he was gay…like what?
@gr3.gАй бұрын
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D. I wish you a happy and loving life. ~🌹
@gr3.gАй бұрын
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D.: I wish you a happy and loving life.~🌹
@gr3.gАй бұрын
@@jdpmanagementservices5851 I don't think you have any awareness about history or the realities of the world, take some time to educate yourself, because if your opinion or belief is to degrade or murder others because of their identity or personal differences that is a matter between you and your God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. I thank my God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today there is what we know as Human Rights. Which you also enjoy and protect you equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34). P.D.: I wish you a happy and loving life.~🌹
@oceanbarazАй бұрын
hearing the part about how he said gays cannot like their (straight) friend, instead of helping navigate feeling is just sad 😭😭 (especially when feelings always have the chance to develop without them even knowing)
@golbinnom15 күн бұрын
the guy in the middle is funny, the majority of korea is not even christian. they might not even share the same religion as you, so just live and let live? imagine if someone told him to hide because he makes others uncomfortable
@needtojournal24 күн бұрын
Thank you for this interesting take on Korean culture. Btw, you are BEAU TIFUL.
@kylie_bb2952Ай бұрын
Ok so the biggest tip is… “LEARN KOREAN BEFORE GOING TO KOREA…” even if it’s a little.
@Twothree8126Ай бұрын
Thats literally anywhere? Would you go to America and not be able to speak English? That would be hella scary for anyone
@kylie_bb295229 күн бұрын
@@Twothree8126 a serve a lot of people, especially Spanish people that don’t speak English at all. And I do agree with you, it’s better to learn the language before you go to the country.
@Twothree812629 күн бұрын
@@kylie_bb2952 ikr
@meatball6956Ай бұрын
This hurts as a bisexual girl... Obviously he can't just change his opinion on queer people but he could at least be respectful 😕 I have a homophobic granddad but he still loves and respects me which is fine enough for me. I'm not asking this guy to change his views because for some it's impossible and is literally what they grew up with so it's ingrained in their head, but the least you could do is to not openly show your dislike for queer people
@HalleRGАй бұрын
yeah I’m Christian and that is not how a Christian person should treat the lgbtq+ community. if he considers being gay to be a sin he should judge the sin, not the person. i personally don’t think being gay is a sin, but im not the one who should decide if it is or isn’t. hope that all makes sense
@lilacfields18 күн бұрын
@@HalleRGright! i see a lot of hypocrisy about it. people refusing to be friends with gay people yet are friends with people who engage in premarital sex, are immodest, lie, etc etc. even if you consider homosexuality a sin, why is it seen as more grave than any other sin? it’s just pure homophobia honestly
@user-zv1lc7tv8v3 күн бұрын
He just has not been exposed to many different types of people. No need to feel hurt by this; he's just one person. I grew up in my junior high and high school hearing racial slur almost every day. If I got so hurt by hearing those racial slurs, I would have just curled up and died. Instead, I worked hard and with a purpose and retired at 47. Don't get hurt; get mad and become the best version of yourself.
@scarlet6ww8 күн бұрын
I know a Korean man who is Christian and have gay friends. He is so kind... but when I first met him, I thought he was homophobic because of his religion. I'm glad I was wrong. BTW he is a famous Korean musical theatre actor.
@khloeystea988916 күн бұрын
This was a GREAT video queenie!! YOUR AMAZING!!!!!😍😍
@venn9552Ай бұрын
growing up where gay/lesbian are seen normal and finding out others have so much discussion and inputs on other people's preferences was shocking. Gay relationship are not legal here but nobody cares or reports anything. We just let them be. Going to an all girls school 85% of the girls had lesbian tendencies 😂😂 I think I was the only one asexual lol
@The_SeoulJournerАй бұрын
For generations the poor working classes were in the field got tan under the sun, and those who were of the upper class stayed in the shade with their books. Light skin was coveted as a status symbol, the mindset has been passed down. This is not only true historically of Korea, but also in places in europe and america.
@user-zv1lc7tv8v3 күн бұрын
Many Westerners don't understand that this was the case even in European countries. In addition, in Korea, many people (now including males) wear sun protection creams assiduously because they all know the harmful effects of being exposed to sunlight.
@ToyinEvent-mx3iz14 күн бұрын
I would love to have a Korean friend 😊😊😊 I hope racism is not also much there, cos I would love to visit south Korea ❤️ one day 🙏
@miahwilliams6218Ай бұрын
As a Christian as well we are taught to be accepting and loving of everyone regardless. No sin is greater then the other so if he doesn’t go around gay people because he sees it as a sin not only should he not judge because judging is a sin within it self but he should also self reflect because I’m sure he’s not perfect he probably cusses it’s clear he also judges gay people. You are just as bad. Cutting someone off or fully avoiding them because they are sinning is judging them based off that. we all have our own journey we’re on to be better Christians even he himself is. You can’t play the role of god and judge others when that directly goes against gods word. What you do in the situation instead is pray for them and show them kindness and fair treatment because you are not above anyone. We should be loving and accepting of everyone regardless. If you were to cut off and not talk to any sinner you’d be left with no one on earth. So cutting a person off because they are gay is not only hypocritical but contradicting as well. I hope he learns from this and reads up on what being a Christian truly is because he’s directly thinking and acting against it but uses it as a justification to act that way.
@gr3.gАй бұрын
I think that people like him have no awareness about history or the realities of the world, they need to take time to educate themselves, because if their opinion or beliefs are to judge, degrade or murder others for their identity or personal differences that is an issue between them and their God. There is a reason why states worldwide separate from the church. Thank God for the strength he gave to people who at some point decided that they had enough abuse and mistreatment. Thank God for civil movements and revolutions, because thanks to those acts today Human Rights exist. Which they also enjoy and protect equally. John 8:7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”. Yet Jesus also said, “I give you a new commandment: love one another. Just as I have loved you, you must also love one another” (John 13:34).
@melvinakamara7732Ай бұрын
The Bible does not say judging is a sin it’s says to judge righteously and there is a difference between sinning and knowing it’s wrong and changing and embracing your sin like the lgbtq community does
@miahwilliams6218Ай бұрын
@@melvinakamara7732 “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly” (John 7:24).” These people are still capable of being prayed for and loved unconditionally. U disregarded everything I said. Every human being is a sinner. No sin is greater than the other. So if you are judging someone for sinning but also sinning yourself that’s indeed not judging correctly because that is hypocritical and contradicting. Jesus didn't teach against judging. He taught against a specific kind of judging. The type of judging he spoke against was a blind, ignorant, hypocritical, self-righteous judging that overlooks one's own faults, failures and sins and only sees faults, failures and sins in other people. And that’s what I was talking about in my comment.
@cynthiagauthier8897Ай бұрын
@@melvinakamara7732 that is one of the problems with the Bible : you can find everything and it's contrary.
@miahwilliams6218Ай бұрын
@@elee522 yet everyone around him is a sinner, every single human is a sinner. But he’s around them? What makes them different?
@yerimheartАй бұрын
3:58 💀💀
@-cloxd-Ай бұрын
My jaw actually dropped💀
@loveglossy707Ай бұрын
right like I'm concerned💀.
@LivingxcheАй бұрын
I was shook 💀
@KukaHeu19 күн бұрын
2:05 bro Don't you think it's disrespectful to be on your phone while he's talking?
@apoetsbrain67946 күн бұрын
I like that the guy in the middle stood unapologetically by his own view point. It made the discussion indeed diverse not just them trying to be camera friendly. I feel it indeed gave a more realistic view of the view of these sensitive topics in the country at this time.
@bmona7550Ай бұрын
If S. Koreans discriminate South East Asians for being darker, then we know the real reason. It’s colorism. They connote “being pale” as being “better or more beautiful”. In reality it makes little difference but their society still has discriminatory values. Also I hear they like black people from western countries not really other black people from anywhere else. But that like still doesn’t exclude hidden racism.
@user-zv1lc7tv8v3 күн бұрын
Unless you have lived in both countries for long time like myself, you really don't know subtle differences in their attitudes. Not saying some Koreans don't discriminate against South East Asians, but it's not due to their skin tone.
@SimplyatiredfrogАй бұрын
It was a pretty good mood until the homophobia. I loved how everyone else reacted about it, though, lol. EDIT: I didn't mean to start an argument in the comments, damn. Not supporting people for being gay makes you homophobic. It's not your business to tell someone that they should hide it because it "offends" you. You can believe that, but just know that it means that you're homophobic. You don't have to be out doing hate crimes to be homophobic.
@misumatchuaАй бұрын
How is it homophobia if I don't support it? They can continue their lives like they want to but I just don't support it. So why is it so wrong to not support?
@LovelyymikoАй бұрын
@@misumatchuaIt’s just odd. Do you have a reason for not supporting? (Not religion. That’s a crazy excuse to use to not support the people around you.) Why is loving someone viewed as bad in your eyes? What if it were the only way around? You’re straight-what if people hated you the way they hate queers? How would that make you feel? That your love is criticized world wide just because it isn’t seen as normal.
@staciiiАй бұрын
google the definition of homophobia... Announcing you don't support something is you not liking it. Dislike gay people is literally part of the definition 💀
@blinxiiiieАй бұрын
@@staciii "dislike or predjuce of gay people " She hasn't stated anywhere of disliking gay people. Not supporting something doesn't mean you automatically dislike it.
@yinyelyaАй бұрын
@@misumatchua he literally said they shouldnt live as they like tho.. he said they should hide it so they don't "offend people" 😭😭 you're lying to urself if that's not homophobia
@mje2112Ай бұрын
Christian’s may love Jesus, but they clearly ignore what he stood for. Jesus befriended sinners everyday, he surrounded himself with them. One of the most important messages of Christianity is to love your neighbors as you love yourself. One of the worst things you can do is shun someone for who they are. Everyone is a sinner, you are friends with sinners. You have probably seen your friends and yourself sin 100 times everyday, so it doesn’t make sense to shun someone because they are a “sinner”. You cannot choose which teachings of the Bible to follow, and then ignore others. It is hypocritical.
@Ema의logАй бұрын
Jesus did love sinners, but if you read your Bible he never supported their sin lifestyles he always told them to do what his word says. So because Jesus is love, of course we love all people just like he did but doesn't mean we will support something that is against his word because we love the person Love is telling someone the truth. Jesus loves gay people but doesn't support their gay lifestyle and that js the truth. So if anyone is gay, God doesn't support it!! That is not how he made it from the beginner, he made them male and female not male and male!!!! You need to understand this❤
@mje2112Ай бұрын
@@Ema의logyou completely missed the point of what I said, so I’ll say it again. Jesus BEFRIENDED sinners. He loved them, he treated them like people and respected them as such. Jesus turned no one away. Yet in this video, this kid is saying that he wouldn’t befriend them, he would shun them instead. That’s not loving someone at all, and you can’t pretend like it is. And again, he is friends with sinners, like everyone else in the world is. It is hypocritical to be okay with some sin and ignore others. Not to mention, he is actively sinning himself when he makes the choice to turn people away because of it, so he is a sinner himself to. Again, it is hypocritical.
@Ema의logАй бұрын
@@randomperson-x6n you are making no sense sorry
@Ema의logАй бұрын
@@randomperson-x6n lol ok!
@byyrd2194Ай бұрын
We dont expect non Christians to understand the depths of the faith. If you are not acceptance of Jesus Christ then you just won't understand why we don't condone SIN in general. Any sin thereof. Esp a sin where it's being forced on us to accept as truth, when it goes against our truth. Love without correction is not love. And that's a principle that goes beyond religion. And if we see someone who don't want to be corrected. Then fine, let them be. We don't have to be friends with that person or accept their lifestyle.
@NanaT-ru1ukАй бұрын
Good show! I have been wondering about some of the questions asked and you all gave pretty good answers. Enlightened! Thank you.
@ForevaLaTrelle5 күн бұрын
Ppl mad at the guy in the middle but it’s nice to see he stood on business with his beliefs. He does not have to want to be around gay ppl. It’s not like he hates them or wants them dead. Everyone can feel how they feel. Yall want discussions but don’t want opinions different from yours.
@mel42862Ай бұрын
the middle guy is so...... like i wouldnt want him anywhere near me at all
@jaeminsgf_Ай бұрын
That part!
@jisennisa-yw2hhАй бұрын
yeah, his thinking is very old-fashioned and close-minded
@carolinewashington8855Ай бұрын
Girl, this is my first time seeing your videos and now I am invested in the saga that is the half second of eye contact you made with that one guy, and that little look to camera you gave. For reference 4:57 - 5:00
@inf1nx.-9527 күн бұрын
IKR I WAS SENSING IT THE WHOLE VIDEO
@LizGarUman2 күн бұрын
dude in the middle can kick rocks
@woogusboogus994712 күн бұрын
Its kinda sad that he would cut off a friend for being gay, its still the same person as before and being gay does not mean they'd have feelings for you, but ig everyone is entitled to their own opinions, i'd be hurt if someone cut me off for liking the same gender tho lol Im interested to see if any opinions will change in the future, also i'd be sooo scared of military service 🥲
@nianaturaАй бұрын
Your friends are so cool ☺️ would love to see more vlogs with them and unilife
@FRIBIshayАй бұрын
THIS IS HONESTLYS SUCH A WHOLSOME VIDIO THISS IS SO CUTE (also omg GIRL you ARE STUNNING omg extubixbtgubixiugbexyigbexybigeygbxgb UR LIKE GLOWING😭)✋💗💗🫶🫶
@queeniequeenАй бұрын
thank you hehe🫶🏽🩷
@FRIBIshayАй бұрын
@@queeniequeen AWWW OFCC TYSMMM💗💗🫶🫶
@lingobingo72993 күн бұрын
I think with my Asian features, pale skin would suit me better, So I prefer it for "myself". But if I had the facial structure and features of a coloured person, i'd prefer to be brown-skinned or tanned for sure.
@bvn1313Ай бұрын
LOL they really forgot their oath with the pale skin and black questions 🤪
@heehee325 күн бұрын
wdym ive seen koreans hang with black ppl. black culture has a big influence on things so they were right about the seeming cool thing
@zahasa730Ай бұрын
Why someone liking same gender affects the middle guy so much?? Ppl will be using the religion as an excuse to hate on people for no reason, if a religion is telling you to be disrecpectful and full of hate towrds others then you are the bad guy and so is your "god".
@Majtz7Ай бұрын
Yeah because we have to follow what god says?? You want us to love them when ur hating on our god? If you cant bare with him saying he doesn’t support people like you then don’t say that about “god” because at the end all that matters to him is his god and family so stop bullshitting
@ninabessaiah1388Ай бұрын
im sorry but from what i understood is you talking about how religious people disrespect gay people is not fine but you hating (literally disrespecting) on religious people and their beliefs is totally fine . girl you should respect other peoples opinions if someone is not comfortable being around gay people how does that harm gay people in any way , it doesnt
@Majtz7Ай бұрын
@@ninabessaiah1388 fr
@zahasa730Ай бұрын
@@Majtz7 so youre admitting to blindly follow a bad person? stop using religion as an excuse to hate on others, you just appear dumb
@zahasa730Ай бұрын
@@ninabessaiah1388 how can you not be comfortable around person whos loving same gender? how does it even affect you LMAO you are surrounded daily by allys and you dont even know about it, is it hurting you???
@alyciahall4512Ай бұрын
"Come visit Korea. We are open and welcoming." Me at the tv: "UNLESS YOU'RE GAY, APPARENTLY!!"
@franciscovilcheavila960Ай бұрын
Dont forget the : Unless if you re a dark skinned Unless if you come from a third world country
@alyciahall4512Ай бұрын
@franciscovilcheavila960 They want to be globalized and use cheap foreign labor, but they also want to treat anyone who isn't a straight Korean like 💩. I would legit never want to live there.
@67y3j3fv2wgАй бұрын
We need more interviews like this to help deprogramme Koreaboos
@likhwezititusАй бұрын
not agreeing with someone else's way of life but still remianung cordial is one thing but discrimination is a no go for me in terms of the pale skin thing have your preference for lighter skin thats a whatever sandwich but again dont mistreat those with darker skin
@GumCho-we3ukАй бұрын
I agree with this. especially since people have no control as to what skin tone they are born with
@staciiiАй бұрын
That middle guy is close minded. Saying they should hide being gay is just weird
@KateHaehuaАй бұрын
It’s his opinion
@DDAENGBTS7Ай бұрын
@@KateHaehua prejudice is not a opinion.
@joodi8888Ай бұрын
@@DDAENGBTS7it doesn’t necessarily have to be prejudice it could be ignorance cz of lack of exposure to lgbtq ppl irl also since he comes from a religious background im not defending him or excusing his opinion but a lot of ppl just need to get more educated about stuff like this
@CalmRelaxTranquilАй бұрын
He's not close-minded. He is Christian. That is his belief. And to be clear A LOT of religions also share the same belief (i.e. Islam/Muslim, etc.)
@chrisgooden4684Ай бұрын
@@KateHaehuaif your opinion is discrimination I feel it shouldn’t be validated😭
@julizbogo5755Ай бұрын
gay isnt a sin guys
@threefawns3Ай бұрын
it is for most religions
@Dove_vАй бұрын
Well not everyone is religious so I would never tell someone that directly but if you want to answer as it relates to the Bible etc, and according to the 3 biggest religions? Being gay IS a sin. The problem is it's a sin like any other sin but the aggravated hate towards it is man made. You shouldn't outcast people off just because their gay or hate them. Many shallow religious people assume the Bible supports homophobia but it doesn't.. it's bad representation
@yanama466Ай бұрын
It is. 1 Corinthians 6:9-11. I know some Christians can use it as hating but in reality God loves all and tells us to love people just as He does to us. The only thing is people can be confused, thinking they are born that way that they cannot change. Yes, we are all born into sin. We all do sin. But God tells us to be BORN AGAIN. God calls us to love everyone, but that doesn’t mean to love their sin. I treat everyone equally, my Muslim friends, atheist friends, lgbt friends, all the same but because God treats us with love equally. But everyone has been sinners and are in need of God. So I try to show the same love God showed me to them. And I don’t try to please them and sugar coat my beliefs just because they don’t agree. Because after all there is only one place they will go if they do not accept Christ and I hate to think my friends will suffer there because I love them. Because at the end of the day, I was just like them once. Thinking it wasn’t fair and the Bible wouldn’t say such things. But it is a matter of God. And I rather please God than people. Of course I love everyone, so as Jesus Christ. He loves us so much to die for our sins so we could be free of sins. He can transform us and turn us away from sin. You just have to have faith that He can do what He can do to change your life for the better. You can be saved through Him. You can be saved from brokenness and all sin. God bless and thanks for reading this long ahh paragraph, all this is true, I appreciate it :))
@yohanibelete6187Ай бұрын
IT IS!!!
@aquaaria3489Ай бұрын
@@yanama466 Don’t worry, I don’t like to sugar coat things too. Just a reminder that, to other people, your mindset is cruel, superficial and the source to all unnecessary hatred. A lot of suffering happening in the world done by psychotic people in power and the world still loves to target the different because of a book written by different men; so many different men that there are multiple sects and cults of Christianity that still debate *to this date* which one of them is “telling the truth”. There are people out there, including children who should be playing mindlessly with their peers and elderly people who should live their last days in peace, who are starving, are being abused, are being sa’d, are being killed for no reason, a lot of them doing it in the name of religion by the way, so I guess it makes sense to put “liking the same sex” on the same level of actual atrocities that *do* harm and traumatise people for their entire lives. And the fact there’s supposed to be an omniscient, omnipotent and omnipresent being who’s letting all of that go on this way makes even more sense. And might I add the fact now a lot of those “Christians” love to play dictator by breaching the rights of minorities, who they deem as sinners? And how can you argue with them when the Old Testament is there? Doesn’t matter how much you call them “not real Christians” because like you, in their eyes and hearts, they’ve found Christ. But yeah, the feelings of respect for the “others” and the love of God will definitely make a change, as if the gays you so much disagree with won’t go through getting ostracised, made fun of, beaten, killed just because at least you and a few others respect them. This world needs to open its eyes and see it how it really is, not through an idealised perspective to use as some sort of delusional escapism.
@zanealexanderZAАй бұрын
About the bullying Glory was literally based on true stories
@Sebisajiminstan6 күн бұрын
I like the honesty, i prefer it to bs answers like they obviously couldn’t say they prefer light skin while talking to a black girl, but felt comfortable speaking about not liking gay people. I don’t agree nor do i understand it (i don’t think he understands it either btw, he had no reason other than I’m a christian, which basically tells me he’s just parroting stuff. Im also a christian, and i think people forget about the don’t judge others part of christianity fairly often. Live and let live, dude. anyway..) but i respect him a lot for just being honest. Chill conversations like this is how you can dissect some topics, maybe even change some perspectives. Anger or bs fake answers don’t help anybody. Really interesting video.