The most underrated trigger ever

One thumbs down? How can anyone thumbs down a guy trying to help people out, I don’t understand? You are great dude

I’m a hugger and a very affectionate person and it’s been so hard for me to not feel the human touch . I’ve been quarantining myself for well over a month . And it’s so dang hard not to even touch someone’s hand or brush the hair out of their eyes . Sometimes I will just cuddle with my male or female friends till we drift off to sleep . That’s what this reminds me of . I actually teared up a little . Misty eyed . Thank you so much Tom.

I haven’t touched another person in over two months. I’ve been self quarantining since March 14 and have only been out of my apartment to the grocery store three times since then. Even though these are virtual hugs, I really needed this. I needed it more than I wanted to admit! I almost started crying! I loved your breathing in my ear and found myself matching my breathing to yours. It was very calming. I’m generally an introvert, but even I’m starting to miss human contact. Thank you so much Tom. You made me feel so much better. This was wonderful. You’re wonderful! 💜💜💜

It’s currently 3pm but Tom just said it’s time for bed so 🤷‍♂️

I love the sound of breath in my ear and I love hug’s

As a closeted gay guy in the middle of this pandemic this video was just what I needed today.

This was soooooo good. I don't remember where exactly I fell asleep but you have the gift, my friend 🙏🏻

Yesterday I was feeling so deeply sad in my depression, but watching your hugging videos made me feel better. Now I have another one to help me. Thank you so much ❤❤❤

I actually turned my head several times during this, wanting to give you a kiss on the cheek, but there was no one there 😆 Nobody does hugging videos like you ❤️

It’s crazy how it feels like he is really there and whispering into my ear. It makes me so calm and I immediately pass out.

i moved across the country away from everyone i know almost a year ago and haven’t had a nice hug since i visited home back in october 😢 this was great, as always. thanks for spreading some love and positivity, tom 💓

Not to be weird, but I enjoyed the invisible hugs. I love hugs especially from someone that makes you feel safe and secure. This was perfect. Thank you.

Tom: I'm going to give you a hug for 20 seconds. Me: 🗣 Social Distancing 6 feet, the CDC will hear about this🚨 Tom:* *Goes in for hug anyway* * Me: * *cries like a grown man baby* * It's been so long since I've had a hug 😭

These are the best kind of ASMR vids, especially with Tom

Those last 2 hugs were so so good! I actually felt like you were here comforting and taken care of me 😊 The mixture of the breathing and intermittent shushing with the back rubs was perfect. Would be great looped for like 8 hours or so 😳🤞☺️🙏 Stay safe xx

Not too long ago I made a playlist with this mans hug videos to go to sleep. I haven’t been in a relationship since 2016 and boy does it suck lol he made the feeling of loneliness go away and filled my strength up in that department... thank you ❤️

I come back to this video so often, I struggle so much with physical contact but the concept of it is so comforting. This video is beyond perfect for me :)

1:55 Hugs start 😁 I love these videos, Tom. Thank you for another fabulous one!

I saw in my email that this video was up and I dropped everything to watch it. I cannot get enough of your hugs Tom!! I felt as if I was there with you. You made me feel so relaxed and calm.

Thank you so much. Hugs videos are my favorite, especially after being 2 moths of self isolation ♥️ Love your whispers, breathing, love you.♥️

Hi, Tom. This is my first reply since joining YT many years ago, but I felt the need to say thank you for everything that you are doing. You really are helping people in ways that you might not even realize. I'm one of those. I just discovered your channel today when it popped up in my list. I've never really known intimacy like the kind you provide. Even back when I was dating, I never had anyone just hug me because he wanted to. It's funny how powerful simple words and sounds can be. I actually cried the first time I heard this video. I was in a bad place emotionally and physically for a long time. Fortunately that's all behind me now, but there's a whole new set of things to be worried about these days. Thanks to you, I actually feel safe and, yes, loved for the first time in a long time. Whoever has you in their lives is luckier than they know. The rest of us are lucky to have you doing these videos for us. It's nice to be able to pretend, if only for a little while, that a guy like me could actually get a hug from a guy like you. Sorry for the wall of text. You really deserve a lot of credit for what you do. If I had any money, I'd be your patron. As soon as I get any, that'll be the first thing I do. Greetings from a fellow musician, and virtual hugs back at you! Chris. PS. Did you ever start doing personal hug videos? I saw a mention in one of your earlier vids. That's definitely something I would like.

Behind the ear whispers is very very underrated, I can't find anyone who does this as good or even at all. Great video!

I literally had the tingles and this is my first time feeling it. I've been looking for the perfect asmr, these past couple days have been a bit hard on me and I haven't slept properly recently... I thought of looking up soft sounds and asmr but all I get are really loud whispers... glad I found yours, Tom. Thank you so much

You voice is like a warm blanket. Thank you for the hugs, feeling so much more relaxed and at peace. Much love brotha

I've come back to these hug videos... armed with a back scratcher. It evokes an entirely different sensation and it's sooooooo nice!

Hi Tom, this is my first comment to your channel and I want to thank you especially because I'm submitting my thesis next week and your videos have helped me alot! Sending you hugs in return

The creaking sound of a squeeze in the hug is a great trigger. This one was a lot more breathy but still wonderful.

All his videos have been a gift needed.

I’ve watched ASMR for years & this is the best video I’ve seen, it takes so much skill to make it seem effortless but every trigger is just right (to my ears anyway!)

you are the best asmrist i've found on youtube... you create pure relaxation.. thank you!

I’m pretty sure I’ve watched this video at least 500 times. Definitely the best hug video. Thanks Tom! These videos really help ❤️

This was really lovely and I didn't realize I needed it until the 1st hug. Thank you for this, I'll definitely be revisiting it soon. ❤

I haven't had tingles in so long, but I swear this video has cured me. Thank you for this! ❤

I will always return to this one. Every now and then the weeks and days get extra rough and more than anything, I physically ache to be held. But with no one here to actually do that, I have to resort to this video…and it does take the edge off. Tom, you’re such a blessing ❤ Thank you.

I love all your hugs videos, but this😵, this is masterpiece. I feel your warm breath! amazing! Thank You for this most of the most calming videos in this strange times. I need the the hugs soooo much. Take care of You.

Needed this right now... Crying in my bed at 1:00pm again 🙄 .... This too shall pass 😓

You're keeping us all going through the quarantine

No, thank YOU! I always love your hugs videos. This one is no different and so relaxing.

I really needed this. I have been self quarantining myself since March and these kind of videos is really needed. Yay to quarantine hugs from Tom!!! 💗🌸

Why haven't I known this channel before ? Your voice is so relaxing and soothing, thank you for this video 🙌 !

this hard year make me watch this video more often than I want but I don’t regret that. Ty Tom

I really needed this. Thank you so much. Seriously, I didn't know just how much I needed a hug.

As soon as you did the first one I just started to cry. I guess I needed this more than I realised. Thank you ❤️

Needed this positive energy for sure ! Made my chamomile tea before starting haha

This is marvelous!!! :D It is exactly what I was looking for, and I am relaxed, feeling much better and set for the rest of the week!! Thank you kindly, Mr. Tom, for all of your videos/content- you simply ROCK!!! :D

Amazing. Love it. Especially needed at 3am before work. Thanks tom. ❤❤

Tommmmmm. This is amazing. Especially right now. This is my favorite trigger/ healing thing in the world and you are the absolute best. Much love brother

You posted at the right time lol perfect thing to watch before bed :)

Thank-you for releasing a new video on my birthday, what a treat!! ❤

Thank you so much for this! It felt amazing. So tingly and relaxing... and loved.

Such a perfect way to end my 21st birthday. It's definitely been the strangest one yet, and certainly the most lonely. This was the perfect wind-down for the night and I didn't know how much I needed the connection! It's an incredibly tough time mentally but these little things always end up becoming the things I'm most grateful for. 💙

I loved this video. You made me feel very safe and relaxed.

DANG I got the shivers. Recently I was panicking about my national dance competition and this hug makes me so much better ❤️

I swear it’s like you know just what I need.I appreciate you for this.Thank you

Thank you so much Tom it was great and gave me chills. I won't have any trouble sleeping tonight.

This is quite relaxing! Thank you for the tingles, friend!

This was really nice..been lacking in human contact months before all of this quarantine stuff...not gonna lie cried a little on the second strong hug when ya started talking about how it was all gonna be okay and be better soon

I love your videos. Thank you so much for posting them.

Honestly didn't think this would do much for me, then next thing I know I was waking up and the video was over, must have knocked me out fast 😂 now I watch this video over and over. Love this 💛

After a long time finding my tingles I finally have found it thank you

this is my fave asmr video of all time

I haven't been hugged in a while so these felt even better than usual :D

Tom, you always make me feel comforted and relaxed! Good night!

Didn't know how much I needed it. Thanks!

I always love the videos you put out; especially this variety. They come across as sensual (not sexual), comforting, and validating. Thank you for your content 💝

I've never felt love and affection like this before. I thank u for that. Imma subscribe, because u made me feel loved and appreciated. Take care y'all 🙏🙏🙏

Love these videos. Thanks Tom!

Right what I need now...very relaxing...love the soft breathing...the beard scratching...tinglesss the whole video,thankyou Tom,goodnight hug to you and everyone here who needs a hug!💕🙃🤗😴🌠🌙

I was getting ready for bed...and right in time I saw your video,Tom you're something else, I love your tingles and your relaxing voice😴❤...well, Good Night everyone! Take care of yourselves! ❤🦋🙏

Thanks, friend, needed this. I keep coming back to this video over and over for more hugs.

I love this video so much!! I just came back to it for the first time in a while bc I miss hugs and this video really reminded me of the night of my first kiss (which happened a week ago after 21 years heck yeah!) but me and my boyfriend spent a lot of time just holding each other and we rarely get to see each other in person because we’re trying to be careful with covid but when I close my eyes while watching this, I’m back in his arms again so thank you for this video!!

"Void you're feeling for the *past couple weeks*" Wow, that hit like a punch to the gut...

I've been waiting another video like this one for a long time! 🤭❤️

You're the only male Asmrtist that I watch. Thank god you're exist😁

Hi, Tom. 💜💜 I love your hug videos.💜💜 I always feel protected and enveloped in your voice. I swear I was hugged!🍃🦋🍃 Thank you for the soothing energy.☄️🌌

Loved this video. So relaxing! 💜

Thank you I really needed it.. cried my heart out.

I needed this today

This is what we needed right now

As always: to be loved, to share love, to feel comfort; to be in absolute confidence; to be understood; to be in security and safe; to be alone with you and not to be alone with ourself, to experience body contact. In reward for you Tom: you are loved, understood, conforted and you can have a true confidence in your followers (and of course, Patreons also!)

Best social distance hug ever👏🏾

I was feeling bad, had some not good thoughts and crying. I needed a hug. Now I'm relaxed and calmly happy

Oh wow, just in time!! Just lay my head down, it's 10:40 pm in germany. ☺️ Can't wait to fall asleep with your smooth voice. 😍

I wasn't even looking at the screen and it sounded like you were actually hugging me. Good job👍🏾

Tom is like that really loving husband/protector that I know I'll probably, more than likely will never have lol 😂 love you Tom! 💖

Can I hug you back? I hope you have plenty of hugs in there, Tom.

Such a perfect video, so many tingles

Your hugs video are my favorite

Love this so much!

This is precious and wonderful 🥺 thank you! 🥰🥰🥰

The “Do you like your hair played with?” gave me a rush of shivers in my lower back. Delicious

Man was this so relaxing

I was feeling a bit down because of my grandma and overall I feel kind of alone so this was jus amazing 💛 thank you

Yes it was very needed. Thanks Tom.

I've just worked a 10 hour shift, I've just got home and this was really lovely and chilled me out so thank you. 😊❤

Thank you Tom! Terrible day, so I needed this! 💕

Tom's video = sweet dreams 😴❤️

HOLY DUCK I DID NOT REALISE HIW MUCH I NEEDED THIS AND NOW I GET WHAT THE ASMR HYPE IS ABOUT MY BODY IS LITERALLY ALL TINGLY

Most innovative and unique asmr....totally out of the box 😁