I can see both points of this. But he does show big respect while he taps, he is careful, describing and being careful, at the same time I can see how people find it disturbing. But no ones is destroying anything, no one is actually being rude or disrespectful. Most likely there is no relatives left, it doesn’t look like that (or no one care fo them). And maybe this is the first time in a longtime anyone actually visit just those gravestones, now we are thousands of people thinking of these peoples in the grave. They are brought back “to life” in our thoughts.

May all of their souls Rest In Peace.

Why must we keep graveyards so damn depressing? Graveyards were originally made to celebrate lives and represent parks. When i’m dead I HOPE people visit where I lay & have fun around me.

Some of y'all talk about how dean disrespects the dead when most of you can't even respect the living 💀💀

it’s the calling them “vintage” for me LMFAO

People forget that graveyards originally were used as parks to eat and laugh near their dead friends and family.

Imagine dying and sitting on your grave and suddenly a guy came around the corner and started whispering and tapping on your grave. I'd want that

More people should visit old graveyards, read the tombstones and reflect on what the people's lives might have been like.

Imma keep it real...he didn’t go to a modern cemetery. I live around the same area as him and there are a lot of historical graveyards/cemeteries where there are historical sections where the only visitors are people who come in to do the paper and crayon grave rubbing thing. If he was in a modern cemetery and was visiting people who died within recent years with fresh flowers on their graves, then sure, super rude...but these people who passed in 1900 are not getting visitors.

"maybe this gravestone was for like a dog or a cat or something. it's very tiny." the infant most likely buried there: not quite

“He died in 1918 back during the Cold War 💕”

7:28 “that’s like 1000 years ago.” I’m dead 💀✋🏼😭

Personally, I think it’s nice to shed some light on tombstones that most likely don’t get as many visitors. The ones shown were from long ago. As a side note, the little stones are likely due to having less money than those with larger tombstones, animals are not typically buried among humans in graveyards.

The anchors can mean that the person was a sailor and/or died on sea

Tbh, I think him being relaxing and giving attention to the graves is actually rather sweet

POV: you’re scrolling through the comments trying to find the triggered pplz

I think it’s nice to “introduce” us to tombs who probably don’t even get visitors anymore like those from 100 years ago. Coco taught me spirits loved to be remembered. Now I know Preston, Melvin, the wife of A.W Murphy, etc. If you get offended then click off.

Day 3 of requesting: *Conan Gray does your make up and gossips about Heather*

" Hopefully, They Will Feel My Respects When I Tap On Them" THAT'S WHY HE'S MY FAV

there is a very old and historic cemetery in my town. amazing place. i go frequently just to look around. i don’t touch anything and try to avoid stepping on graves but when the graveyard is older and has less order, it’s hard to not. i go to just read the graves and look around at the scenery. i really don’t think there’s anything wrong with this. it’s also a historic cemetery so no family will be there. the graves are from the 1800s and it’s with good intentions.

"They died 1892, wow that's like a thousand years ago" Deans math is on point 😂

This dude be calling the tombstones vintage like he’s shopping in urban outfitters

Gen Z in a graveyard be like: "This is so vintage" "It's giving me Egypt vibes" "I don't think any negative energy will come to me because they are all dead" "They died in 1882, that's a long time, that's like a thousand years ago" "It's kinda creepy because we are the only people here and a kinda expensive car just pulled up" "The anchor is giving me Hampton's home vibes" "This is like a giant rock" "This is like granite vibes" "This looks like a good place for a thumbnail" I CAN'T💀🤚

His tapping is so powerful he puts people to sleep permanently

Oh no this is gonna be controversial-

Ghosts meanwhile : wtf is this dude doing? we must go to his home and do the same on doors

so i live right by a cemetery and let me tell u first going there i had the stigma in my mind that it’s “creepy” or bad to be going there, but as time went on i grew on to it . i could get out alone (wether i rly needed to get out of my house or just needed some fresh air) and look at all the stones dating all the way back to 1790 !! i’ve done research on some of these people and have really admired a lot of them . now bc of the dumb snow i haven’t been there in a bit and tbh it makes me feel bad ... almost like i left that small cemetery alone for a while . no one ever visits it either :(

The anchor means hope. It’s often used when it’s believe, hope and love. It’s a Christian thing ⚓️✝️❤️ i’m from Norway (a Christian land) and there it means tro, håp og kjærlighet

as someone who walked through a cemetrary everyday to get to school, this is not disrespectful. I've seen people in costumes and alcohol containers on the ground, worse has been done in a cemetary

Fun Fact😋😋: The anchor is actually a symbol of hope, steadfastness, and eternal life. It's mostly found on sailors' headstones. Masons used it as a symbol of well-grounded hope. Early Christians used it as a disguised symbol of the cross.

People: *Why disrespect* Dean: gives the dead souls asmr

I loved how he said “Thank you so much” to the grave stone😭

I was expecting a "sassy" one or many jokes. But this was actually respectful and appropriate, and sweet he thanked the gravestones. The only disrespect was towards History dates lmao

if dean doesn’t tap on my gravestone I’m haunting him

I don’t find this disrespectful at all. These people that have passed we’re from longgg ago and probably don’t get visitors. Love you Dean!

At 10:30 in the video I felt bad for that lady she died right before her birthday😢

people are like "i would be offended if he did that to my relatives gravestones" be honest,, when was the last time you visited them? if i was one of the spirits there, i would appreciate the company. no one really visits graveyards anymore because of the stigmas that they're haunted or that bad things happen in them. he's only lightly tapping the gravestones and being sarcastic i dont know what the big deal is.

I used to work at a graveyard and I have no idea why some people think this is disrespectful. He didn't cause any commotion and it's not like you're not allowed to touch the stones. I've seen people do way worse things (sit on them etc)

Dean: Oops I broke a piece.. The mummy/ ghost: you better put that back boi

As a mortuary science student this is so right up my alley! Also I appreciate how respectful you were. I think this video is a beautiful way to remember these people who we don’t know and who may not have living relatives. 🖤

POV a ghost is watching this right now

*Sees 1918 tombstone and guesses Civil War and Cold War* WWI: "Am I a joke to you?"

Dean: tapping on the gravestones Spirits: feeling tingles ✨

It’s the “vintage” vibe for me

when I first clicked the video I was a little frightened because some people are kinda disrespectful doing videos at graveyard. but trevor was so polite and respectful the whole video🥺🥺

Yall acting like he destroyed these stones, painted them or whatever. Do you realize that if in few years someones gonna buy that place he will bprobably destroy all the stones?

I see how he’s trying to be respectful, but you can be disrespectful without the intention of doing so. Tapping on people’s tombstones for a KZfaq video is so utterly wrong in many ways.

"for a dog or a cat maybe" :'( honey babies die too

I lived next to a cemetery for almost 10 years of my life and I can say this was not rude or disrespectful and he was actually very respectful and polite, you guys need to chill, I've seen people pee on gravestones

8:36 an anchor on a tombstones represents Hope and Steadfast. Usually, the tombstones with anchors on it means that the person who died was a sailor. 10:31 people get different size gravestones because not everyone can afford the big ones. The huge fancy gravestones with all the pretty details are super expensive. (Gravestones can get up to $30,000+) Not everyone is super rich so they will just settle with a small gravestone.

I think this video was great, he visited people who probably havent had visitors in years he even thanked them, there is far more worse things in this world to worry about then a harmless asmr video

There’s reasons this isn’t illegal.don’t get me wrong, people are sensitive about different things and that’s fine but please click off if your not interested or get offended. He gave a tw at the start, he isnt saying anything offensive(he was saying thank you and saying he was trying to be respectful ab it)personally I wouldn’t care if someone was tapping my tomb stone(I’m dead ffs, I would literally be a corpse getting eaten by bugs in the ground). If I saw someone tapping my grandads tombstone for example, I would be a bit weirded out but not angry. I would politely ask them to leave and go to another one to give me space. Half these tombstones are really old so nobody’s visiting them anymore like I’m hardly gonna track down my great great great grandmas tombstone and visit it.Also like he said, no one was there so what they don’t know can’t hurt them

If I was dead I would like if someone was tapping on my gravestone :)

Extremely disrespectful, the fact that you are standing right on top of everyone makes it even worse

"When I die, I hope my son's and daughters visit my grave" Some random mf with a camera: Hey guys, today we're gonna be tapping on random people's graves.

Imagine if a ghost just pop-up and say ”ok, could you repeat that trigger at night?”

Btw, this video is really not offensive at all. He's just walking around showing us the different kinds of tombstones that's there. He didn't bring an spirit board or any of that. He's just showing us the graves and tapping on the tombstones. If your sensitive to that, simply don't watch the video. Not trying to be disrespectful or anything, just gotta let ppl know bc everyone gets offended by everything these days....

"Dean talks" Random car: 🚗💨

Imagine pulling up to the grave yard and a random kid tapping on ur dead grandmas grave

10:45 she died a day before her birthday...

dean rlly said: “REST in peace ✌🏼😋”

Bruh that graveyard looks ancient the people laying there dont even know y theres sum kid with a microphone tapping on em. How would u explain asmr to them?

Out of all the places to do asmr you choose the graveyard bro😭😭

Graveyards were originally a place for people to have picnics and be happy near their deceased loved ones. Nowadays they’ve become more abandoned & lonely because they’ve almost been turned into something negative & people are so scared of being disrespectful. Which I think is kinda sad in a way.

I found these sounds very relaxing, and personally I think it’s sweet that he’s giving attention to these graves that have honestly probably been forgotten. He even thanks a lot of them after tapping, I think that’s a good thing to do

0:53 The thing that you were tapping on is called a Mausoleum

May all of their souls, Rest peacefully in Heaven.

Just wanted to let you know, World War 1 was around 1918, not the Civil War.

He literally said multiple times that he respects these people that have passed. He is being gentle and quiet and had said thank you multiple times. He has no mal intent and made multiple disclaimers. I think this is being blown out of proportion as usual.

for some reason the tapping on the graves is so awesome

Wonder what Dean would do if he heard tapping right back.

i feel like the spirits would be very pleased to have visitors though? it's not like he's saying anything bad or disrespectful to them. as someone who visits the graveyard often, I found this pretty comforting. that's just me though :|

"I'm getting like mold in my nails, it's kinda gross"

I actually love this video these people most likely don’t get any visitors and its nice for someone to come after a couple decades and kind of tell a little bit about there life story just by seeing there gravestones

Ngl, i died laughing when he said 1918 was the cold or civil war lmao

Personally, I don’t think this specific graveyard is offensive. If he did it to fresh graves sure I’d understand it being offensive but these are from like the 1900s, none of their family members will be upset, they’re dead too

at first i was a bit sceptical and afraid that this would go into the wrong direction (aka the "goth" that danced on graves lmao) but i was pleasantly surprised! you were respectful in the way you treated the gravestones (being gentle, pointing out what you like about them, thanking them after you were done tapping). you also chose old gravestones, which i liked for two reasons: it ensures nobody sees you tapping on the grave on their recently passend grandma and gives some love to the gravestones that aren't visited often! and while i can see how people could find this video disturbing and disrespectful, i have to agree with the people that think this is an oddly wholesome way to honor the death. and if anything, dean isn't disturbing them, he is only tapping them into further peace! :>

”1918 is when the cold war happened” wrong war sis

I love how he calls everything “vintage”. I’ve only seen this video and the plane one, but neither of which are vintage lol

His asmr: amazing✨ His knowledge of history: amusing✨ (Just a joke)

This one is rated “N” for “not everyone is going to like this”

Gustin F. Adams 1844-1925 Dang his tombstone is so old and its still clean

“I am getting mold in my nails” I felt that on another level 💀

it’s people who do worser than this like piss, spit, or vandalize on tomb stones . i see nothing wrong in this & plus he gave a disclaimer in the beginning of the video .

"Hopefully they can feel my respects when I'm tapping on their gravestones" 💀💀 I'm dead (No pun intended)

This is my favorite asmr video. So soothing listening to taps on gravestones, the ultimate 💤sleep 💤

beyond disrespectful.

Personally I don’t really see how this is offensive hes not being rude or disrespectful to the tombstones in anyway and he’s showing repsoect towards them

dean idk if this is appropriate...not hating, just giving you a heads up, wouldnt like u to face backlash

This was so relaxing! Especially the wind and traffic in the distance

Trevor: I really want the spirits to know how much I respect them. Also Trevor: *this gravestone looks like a fake foam one from spirit Halloween*

here before he deletes the video 🙋🏽‍♂️

Maybe I’m weird but I don’t find this disrespectful at all 🤣

Everyone getting pressed about a guy gently tapping and reading old gravestones would probably bury me along with them since I used to play in a graveyard as a kid 😭

The fact that he said “omg this gravestone is not small I wonder if it was for a cat or dog!” Or maybe it was for a less fortunate family that could only afford a small headstone.

the ghost: Which war did u just say bro

I love how he refers to the graves as ✨vintage✨

“I’m not to sure how graveyards work.” LMAO

I find cemeteries peaceful and a great way to put some perspective on life, and sometimes go and relax on the bench at our local graveyard because it's so quiet and allows for a chance to reflect. Everyone buried there, be that 200 years ago or 2 weeks ago, was a living, breathing person at one point. They weren't just a name etched upon marble or rock. They had hopes, dreams, hobbies and emotions. I like to go and look at their gravestones, thinking upon their names. I don't personally believe in life after death but I think that by looking upon their graves and thinking about the person they might have been, we return them to life for the briefest of moments.

he really thought cold war and civil war happened in 1918 💀💀💀