a q&a where we probably spill too much tea and also got in a fight

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@laurendavis3333 Жыл бұрын

As a girl who lives and grew up in Utah, I really appreciate Asypn “calling out” Parker on his lack of being affected by Utah culture. Utah culture/Mormon culture is all framed around men. To them, it’s probably pretty great, because as women, we are much more likely to be passive and accommodating to them.

@OsnapitsChristine Жыл бұрын

Parker I support you in filming a super boujee artsy house tour, you genuinely seemed so excited about doing it!!

@joeliz9082 Жыл бұрын

It is so nice hearing how aware Aspyn is of the Utah culture affecting girls, and I can tell she really wants to keep her daughters safe from that. I know Parker likely feels defensive of his own experience and that is why he is having a hard time admitting that his experience as a boy growing up in Utah is likely very different from the lives of most girls growing up in Utah. But it's just not the same experience, and Aspyn is right about that. It can be a harming environment even if you are not part of the specific community that is the big force in creating that culture because it is so prevalent and cannot be escaped there. I wish that guys were more willing to ask and learn about these differences rather than so quickly dismissing them if they did not experience it themselves.

@kaitlinmarks8990 Жыл бұрын

I would like to see Parker filming the house tour in his way. I like the more real, raw style vlogs but that’s exactly what it is.. real life and if Parker wants to show something or put in the extra work he should be able to! I think everyone would appreciate the effort. If someone is passionate about something people feed off of that. Just like Oscar and how he films, he’s extra. People feed off that.

@ashleewalker8193 Жыл бұрын

I think it’s a good idea for Parker to do the creative content for the house tour! You can tell he’s really passionate about it. Not saying that you will have to always do it for future Vlogs, I hear you Aspyn! Probably too much work but if Parker wants to do it once in a while…why not!? Thanks for sharing guys!

@carlieolney123 Жыл бұрын

I love Aspyn so much. She literally is not scared to speak what she feels and how she thinks. It's really refreshing. I feel like Cove and Lola are being raised so well.

@xoch8905 Жыл бұрын

As a girl that grew up in that “culture” and did not really have it effect me, I STILL disagree with Parker. Even though you have your own standards of what your life is like being surrounded by the culture and judged for not behaving like them is very annoying and sometimes gets you left out of friend groups, or peoples parents just don’t want you hanging around their kids cuz you don’t share the same beliefs! It’s insane. So even though I stuck to what I believed in it definitely still sucked being in it as a girl cuz men simply aren’t held to the same standard.

@paigedunkel1065 Жыл бұрын

Aspyn is in her villain feminist era and I’m here for it!!

@kaylarussell2506 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Aspyn for standing so firm about the unfair treatment that girls receive under the umbrella of religion. It is so important that we can empower the new generations of women to be strong and confident about themselves!!♥️🙌🏻

@3mmaDayl3 Жыл бұрын

Parker is a really great husband and father. He should be very proud. And Aspyn and him have a good partnership and balance it seems, which is so important. You both should be proud of the parents you are and partners you are to each other!

@babyannie4196 Жыл бұрын

I admire Parker so much, in my culture we were raised to have a mom do everything and a das bring the money and food home and it's so admiring to see Parker so involved in the girls schedules and lives.

@macieanderson718 Жыл бұрын

I’m so sad to hear Parker has been feeling more uncomfortable on camera lately, he’s honestly usually my favorite portion of the video every vlog!!! As much as I love & enjoy Aspyn ♥️ Also I would so appreciate an in depth, crisp shot video on your new home! I totally understand Aspyn on the casual vlog being more popular, I agree, but if you captioned your video with the Utah location and let Parker do his camera skills with a home tour title and also walk around footage of you both I think it would preform REALLY well! Not only with your subscribes but also from people who are searching for homes. I watch those type of home tours every night! Anyways I love you guys and thanks for such a great vlog! God bless 💛💛💛

@lyla7097 Жыл бұрын

Growing up in Utah as a woman is different. It varies in severity FOR SURE but it truly is different for women in Utah. Modesty, career expectations, raising kids. It’s a lot placed on your shoulders at an early age for sure

@Lwhiteside23 Жыл бұрын

100% would LOVE to see both versions of the house tour 🥰 I definitely see both sides of this. It makes sense to not fix what’s not broken AND I wonder if also incorporating some of those more complicated videos would attract another type of audience and lead to more growth. Either way, I am just interested in both because I think it would be cool lol

@astrocutie37 Жыл бұрын

In terms of the video concept for the new house tour, I think Aspyn is right when it comes to youtube - casual vlogs perform better, BUT I agree with Parker, nicely filmed/highly produced short form content (tik toks) of a house is much more popular and would perform way better! So you defs should do both, because both styles will perform well on their respected social sites (youtube vs tik tok)

@Ccccccmmag098 Жыл бұрын

You guys are so refreshing! Love the discussion of dads being involved. Your channel always shows such a good example of being a parenting team! Also, It sucks being in a funk and I hope it passes soon cause you guys are such a joy to watch and hear from!

@marie-pascaledupuis787 Жыл бұрын

Aspyn ur new title style kills me lol such a queen for keeping it real💓

@MsDancechic98 Жыл бұрын

I live in Utah and am not religious and I have to agree with Aspyn, the culture totally affects you like Aspyn said

@shysop Жыл бұрын

Loved to see you stand up for the point you were making, Aspyn! So true about women being affected more by misogynistic/sexist culture

@juliadawndesigns4522 Жыл бұрын

As an ex-mormon living in Utah, I SO appreciate you being willing to share what it's like for so many of us in this culture. People who think that all is well in "zion" have just not personally experienced the unhealthy aspects of it like so many of us have. If you fit into all the cultural norms and expectations (cisgendered, heterosexual, able-bodied person that believes in and supports the patriarchy) then you might not have been harmed by it. Parker seems like a great guy and I appreciate his willingness to listen to what Aspyn was sharing. We still have a LONG way to go in this culture with trying to understand the experiences of others outside of the cultural norms, but I do appreciate this conversation. Love listens and Parker seems to be trying. :)

@madisoncrosson6937 Жыл бұрын

I would love to see Parker film that video of the house in the way he envisioned it! It seems like he is really excited and passionate about it, and it might be a good way for him to branch out for a little bit, and a fun little creative break in the normal vlogs ❤

@gill3110 Жыл бұрын

I feel like Parker should totally do his idea of the nice camera/videography as well as you do the casual vlog. Even if his video doesn’t do well on KZfaq it will def do well on TikTok. Those vids are super popular right now. Plus it’ll be nice to have those great quality shots and vids of all the hard work you two put into that house! 😇😇

@dandelion9375 Жыл бұрын

I’m a SAHM and my husband works 15 hour days working a blue collar job. And he still shows up for his family and cooks cleans puts the kids to bed and makes sure I’m all good as well. I agree with Aspyn don’t settle for less! Know that having babies takes two people to love and care for them not just the mom.

@Doddie5676 Жыл бұрын

I do love the comments about Parker being involved and you guys are so right, a lot of dads are not as involved and I’m envious of Parker being such a good dad.

@taybreef5452 Жыл бұрын

No because Aspyn is spot on with the Utah culture. We just moved to the east coast because I have two daughters and couldn’t put them through that.

@alinel102 Жыл бұрын

I think it would be a wonderful idea for Parker to do a “fancier” video of the house I think it would do so well especially on tiktok !

@ThaniaAbigail Жыл бұрын

"Most dads can't, because they're TRASH" haha I get how that sounds like a blanket statement but I agree completely. Most dads, even involved ones, don't know enough to be able to take care of the kids completely.

@megancurtis9502 Жыл бұрын

Aspyn is 100% correct. If you are a young girl in Utah there is no way to avoid having issues with the Utah culture. Random ladies and girls will say judgmental things to you. I suppose there’s blatant sexism everywhere but Utah is different because it truly represents the majority and the norm. Same goes for many small towns and the South.

@kassyvlogs1651 Жыл бұрын

Love you guys!! I’ve been watching y’all since you were in high school! Seeing y’all grow as a couple your brand and the girls is so exciting to see

@alexismaria1 Жыл бұрын

I love the long content I’m all here for it!! 🎉

@alyssadiaz2623 Жыл бұрын

my mom recently became an empty nester and shared with me that she struggles with feeling empty because she lived for me and my siblings. i think it’s super important to have time for yourself of course your kids are small so it may be completely different or more complicated but don’t forget about your self care in the long run! now that we’re out of the house my mom gets to do stuff for herself but she has moments of sadness too.

@kimholdredge Жыл бұрын

As a creative person sometimes it’s not about doing too much ‘unnecessary’ work - but having fun! And being proud of the work you created down the road ❤

@kaylamonet9766 Жыл бұрын

Aspyn is so authentic and such a beautiful person in and out…. Keep being you girly!! We love it ♥️

@lindseymo516 Жыл бұрын

Loved the Q&A!! I feel like there could be a way to incorporate the "nicer" shots in your future house tour and still do like a vlog style whether it's like transitions or b-roll over y'all talking about it, but either way I'd personally be happy to watch whatever y'all decide to post!

@totalH20 Жыл бұрын

I actually hear both sides of their points throughout this video. It's okay to have disagreements and it's actually really healthy to have these conversations as a couple especially when you won't agree on points

@brij4007 Жыл бұрын

I really appreciate the rawness and reality of your vlogs. I hope you never stop posting them. Love you guys!

@estherszabo7313 Жыл бұрын

I would love to hear you guys talk about how you first got into real estate and how you guys have managed your holdings over the years. Love you guys and your beautiful family!!

@ellachalpeno6241 Жыл бұрын

I’m so happy you loved Austin, we love hearing that 🤍 come back soon!! Love you 🖤

@samanthamills8899 Жыл бұрын

Yesss for gentle parenting. As a preschool and an ECE, you are doing wonders for your kids. They’re human beings and they deserve respect and love, just because they are little does not mean that they should be robbed of that.

@danas61490 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely loved the honesty in this video!

@mackenzieengebretsen3336 Жыл бұрын

I would prefer to see Parker's house tour. And I think you should allow him to have fun with it, even if you don't believe it will do as well. With that though, Aspyn you should do a house tour in more of your style as well. That way we can see both versions.

@akirababe101 Жыл бұрын

I got excited when Parker said he wanted to do the house tour and it would nice to still have a more vlog style that maybe goes more in-depth on details in the home.

@kayleeparr8635 Жыл бұрын

i love aspyn’s opinion on the culture, so true!!!

@aubrielle3612 Жыл бұрын

I love the openness you’ve been sharing!

@allierae254 Жыл бұрын

I am obsessed with this Q&A this is the most real conversation I’ve seen on KZfaq and such a long time it’s refreshing thank y’all for being so transparent and just for being yourselves I really appreciate you sharing your life!

@a1terrel Жыл бұрын

Let's see both! Parker seems so excited to do it. It would be good

@Gaby-fd4wc Жыл бұрын

Parker is SUCH a great example of a thoughtful involved dad. Sadly I wish that wasn’t a phrase “involved dad” you never hear people say involved mom but the number of single moms has grown exponentially because of fathers failing their kids. Thank you for showing us that didn’t grow up with fathers what a healthy relationship looks like 💖🤍

@nadiasan1554 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for always being real Aspyn. One of the best KZfaqrs!

@LemonJMG Жыл бұрын

I loved this q&a, the honesty from both of you about Utah was awesome

@tashaleigh96 Жыл бұрын

Aspyn was meant to be a girl mom! Y'all are amazing parents, take a breathe and remind yourself how great you're doing! :)

@tashaleigh96 Жыл бұрын

P.S. Parker, love to see you here, Thanks for being honest and vulnerable here!

@inesn Жыл бұрын

Loved the video, thank you for being honest and talking whit out filters about a lot of thing's

@kellieevans9173 Жыл бұрын

You two are such good parents and can tell you both vibe so well together as far as parenting goes. Also, I WISH all dads were as great of fathers as Parker is. P.s. I think it would be great to see Parker’s cool creative video!!!! (I like the casual style too) but that would be such a fun creative project and honestly we would all realllllly enjoy that too!

@sophiej1987 Жыл бұрын

Aspyn is soo right about the religious culture affecting girls growing up- I love that she said that about wanting to protect her daughters from that because I know that’s such a real and prevalent issue for so many girls that they carry into adulthood. 💕

@alexisgoff859 Жыл бұрын

Moved from Idaho to Utah at 16 and I 100% agree with Aspyn! Utah culture SUCKS. Especially for women, but my husband was effected, too and he grew up here.

@cassim.2625 Жыл бұрын

The Utah culture is sooooooo toxic. The church is obsessed with controlling every little single thing that you do in your life. My life has drastically changed since I moved out of Utah in 2020 and tbh I NEVER want to go back hahahah. I’ll always love going to visit my family but living there is no longer something I want. So happy to see how aware you are Aspyn!

@kmac23 Жыл бұрын

literally been watching since the aspyn and parker adventures!! you guys are my fav

@LMbzvDan Жыл бұрын

I would love to see both versions of the home tour!!!

@danielleconstantine3210 Жыл бұрын

Loved this real q&a and agree so much with you Aspyn

@Alexia0candy Жыл бұрын

I think this channel is def the vibe” casual “ rather than more vogue style house show and tell, this style connects more with the viewer! Although a seperate quick video would be nice in the fancy way!

@rchlhrpr300 Жыл бұрын

I’d love to see both versions of the house tour!

@chalenem373 Жыл бұрын

Going to watch this once I put my daughter down for bed, but my excitement to get a 27 min q&a is too much! Love the title and love following along with what you share!

@abbypersicketti5024 Жыл бұрын

My son is 2.5 and I feel so weird hanging out with adults without him around. It's like I'm living and enjoying my time to be alone, but in the back of my mind I feel like I'm supposed to be doing "mom" things. It's a very drastic change in many ways, so I totally get what you mean about not knowing how to live. It's not a negative feeling either. It's just one I wasn't expecting and I have a feeling it won't really go away haha

@carlytrigg108 Жыл бұрын

Parker is an amazing dad, it’s not surprising people automatically doubt his abilities to parent… it’s so common for dads to half a$$ everything parenting related. I’m proud of you Parker!!!

@marlyndiazn Жыл бұрын

It’s really nice to see your view on Utah culture Aspyn! Seeing you both grow from high school to now has honestly been so cool. You’re both genuinely good people and i love seeing that represented online!

@KiaraBell00 Жыл бұрын

I have been watching/following you guys since before you got engaged and it is so crazy to see how much yall have grown! I love how honest and chill Aspyn is with everything now🤍

@alieshabradford7045 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that this "tea" and conversation was unfiltered.

@cheskagomez8975 Жыл бұрын

Love candid qnas like this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@ashlyndickey6707 Жыл бұрын

I’m all for Parker upping the content game! Love seeing that stuff

@naisharuiz989 Жыл бұрын

Ive always looked up to your guys’ dynamic. Love Aspyns candid call out of trashy dads lol you make me push my partner to know be more responsible with our kids! It was also nice to hear you voice that its offensive for people to think you cant care for your own kids Parker!

@comedykrazy Жыл бұрын

Would love to see a high quality video tour of the new house like Parker said. Would be great to see his creativity shine!

@Yatesdrake101 Жыл бұрын

I would LOVE to see both a casual vlog tour and also Parker’s view with a nice camera. that would be so fun! i love both styles but get what you say, casual being easier and performing better but personally as a long time viewer i would love to see both!

@gloriawang4767 Жыл бұрын

Loved this q&a!

@kaileymarshall Жыл бұрын

U haven’t even watched it all

@lindsayminn9101 Жыл бұрын

My husband has always been less anxious about doing certain things with our little ones. He's so great with them ❤️

@selflovesammie Жыл бұрын

I want to see Parker’s extra nice house tour!!!

@MissTaylorGirl Жыл бұрын

I would love to see both styles of house tours!

@Genuinelycuri0us Жыл бұрын

“The internet is getting more sensitive” I felt that.

@rachdupree Жыл бұрын

Love the idea of Parker doing a nice high quality house tour video. I LOVE watching @thelifestyledco home videos with their home decor, designs and walk throughs. That is the style and video quality that comes to mind. :)

@nestfulloflove Жыл бұрын

I’d love a detail tour of the house when it’s done! Both would be great.

@Diija09 Жыл бұрын

always a pleasure watching you .. and yes we'd love to see the well produced house tour Parker wants to make!

@xiomara4362 Жыл бұрын

Parker is such a good dad. Like Aspyn is a given. She’s structure and has all the right instincts to raise her girls well but I feel like with dads it takes EFFORT and he makes all the effort for his daughters. They’re gonna feel and recognize that as they grow older 🥹 all the time and love he gives them.

@tuesdaybailey1034 Жыл бұрын

Such a great video. Loved how open and real and how you shared your real opinion.

@savannanewman5838 Жыл бұрын

I love tea ☕️ 🐸

@annemcmahon1012 Жыл бұрын

Where are your gray tank top and necklace from that you had on while doing your makeup in the beginning of this video?! So cute!!!

@taylortutkaluke6099 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely loved to hear that conversation in the car! I’m sure you guys are making such a positive impact on local youth!

@reynagonzalez8983 Жыл бұрын

Aspyn I love your vlogs every time you upload makes me happy I love the aesthetic that you have and Parker your a great guy and great dad ✨ can’t wait to see the new house 🏡 when is finally done

@Souza_Tiu Жыл бұрын

Parker you’re an amazing dad!

@raysym8607 Жыл бұрын

Definitely want to see both house tours!!! ✨

@stritefam Жыл бұрын

Parker realizing how close 40 is 😂😂

@delilahforever1 Жыл бұрын

Yes Parker!! Dads should know how to take care of their kids

@jayceerae8 Жыл бұрын

Love you guys!

@makiyastewart166 Жыл бұрын

"So I'm like, did we keep them?" BAHAHAH I love Aspyn

@andreas_adventures Жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed the Q&A. I don't think you have answered a lot of these questions in the past.

@sabrinacohen7371 Жыл бұрын

Loving the longer vlogs

@jasminehanley8686 Жыл бұрын

Been loving the realness lately

@shereebirkhead2003 Жыл бұрын

I think a nicely filmed house tour would be so nice. I love watching home decor and remodels. My sister and I recently took a trip from the east coast to Las Vegas and California and loved it. We had so much fun.